IMPORTANT Things I Wish I Knew in My Early 20’s: Don’t Make the Same Mistakes I Did

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  • Опубліковано 27 лис 2024

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  • @AmalBarre-h6c
    @AmalBarre-h6c 7 місяців тому +7

    Asc. I'm currently 23 and love the advice you have given. I feel as though 9 and 10 sorta contradicts one another for me as I'm in a place where my family is mentally toxic and deciding whats best to move forward.

  • @oceejay5148
    @oceejay5148 7 місяців тому +6

    Omggggg I love the first point !! You are RIGHTTTT !! Thank you ❤

  • @zulianame
    @zulianame 7 місяців тому +34

    I’m reaching 40s and I’m glad u made this video. U are much more matured than my younger self. May this set a good example for all. Amin…

    • @hanajrde4924
      @hanajrde4924 7 місяців тому

      Knowledge comes in every age❤️

  • @hafsat.a.7955
    @hafsat.a.7955 7 місяців тому +11

    Nashua allah ur advice is underrated

  • @daughteroftheking3220
    @daughteroftheking3220 6 місяців тому +2

    Okay sis Ethiopian here too, pls keep these advice coming. Fresh out college and feeling lost and doubting myself 😢

  • @sosolynn347
    @sosolynn347 7 місяців тому +10

    Mashalllah sister your advice is gold, i really needed advice like the ones you said from a muslin sister like you. my jaw literally dropped when i seen u don't have that many followers, your advice is exactly what a Muslim women needs to hear, keep grinding , love ya! may Allah answer all your duas and bless your soul amen.

    • @jemilaxo
      @jemilaxo  7 місяців тому +1

      This means so much to me my love! Thank you ❤I usually post on TikTok and just started posting here. Ameen InshAllah I'm going to keep going!

  • @hoddaa555
    @hoddaa555 5 місяців тому

    You're on fire, mashaa'Allah! You're so insightful and analytical. Your voice is VERY much needed. As a mom of very young children (been married five years now) this is sooo needed. The things I wish I could tell my younger self (your age now) now that I've become a married woman and a mom but then THIS! You just reminded me that I had a lot on my plate back then LOL. Some of the things you already came to understand, I have after having kids! So just know you're ahead of the game! You're building such a strong foundation for your future self which both your husband and future children will appreciate deeply as well. Please continue. May Allah protect you, you're so precious sister!

  • @MattelVergara
    @MattelVergara 7 місяців тому +2

    I'm 19 and I'm just realizing some of these things and thx for making this video because some topics you went over I never would have thought of. ❤

  • @fatimachippa2866
    @fatimachippa2866 7 місяців тому +8

    May Allah reward you with immense blessings for this ❤

  • @pinkpickledcauliflower9
    @pinkpickledcauliflower9 2 місяці тому

    Jazaki Allah Khair May God reward you...super pleasant to listen to and food for thought

  • @moomzii
    @moomzii 7 місяців тому +3

    I usually dont comment on YT videos but i just had to. The lessons learnt you shared hit home so hard. Every single point was relevant, enlightening and put excellently. Thank you for sharing.

    • @jemilaxo
      @jemilaxo  7 місяців тому

      Thank you so much sis! I really appreciate it! ❤

  • @challi5109
    @challi5109 3 місяці тому +2

    Just turned 20 and i really needed to hear all these things ❤‍🩹please pray for me.

  • @ZainabL1999
    @ZainabL1999 7 місяців тому +5

    Your advice is valuable, succinct but very effective!

  • @rahmat8496
    @rahmat8496 6 місяців тому +1

    I like your mindset! And I will use your videos to learn english more😌, good luck..

  • @semirmussa5788
    @semirmussa5788 7 місяців тому +4

    Believe it or not, I can actually relate a lot to this vid! MashAllah! Valuable stuff! Keep pushing with the vids!

  • @Minax1.
    @Minax1. 5 місяців тому

    I love how wise you are Allahummah barek, you should really write a book 🤍🤍

  • @H.12345b
    @H.12345b 7 місяців тому +2

    Thank u so much🥹 really needed that

  • @fairyclubhouse
    @fairyclubhouse 6 місяців тому +1

    Dude i love ur videos, u should totally start a podcast 🫶🏼

  • @cloudsurfing3900
    @cloudsurfing3900 7 місяців тому +1

    Mashallah sis keep going 🤲🏽

  • @essieb778
    @essieb778 7 місяців тому +2

    This was so real girl, thank you. May allah bless you

  • @Malyuunnn
    @Malyuunnn 6 місяців тому +1

    Love this video, soo many valuable lessons 🤍

  • @Mooner_ye
    @Mooner_ye 7 місяців тому +1

    Mashallah dear...
    This has really helped me...Am 24 and I recently started feeling like I need to get married......

    • @Bettieoaminh
      @Bettieoaminh 6 місяців тому

      Im married and im 24 , my 25 birthday is coming up and i stress about getting pregnant , i really want to have a child now while im Young , so i understand your anxiety :( its so hard to let go off your anxiety 😢❤

  • @saaragashi6496
    @saaragashi6496 7 місяців тому +1

    I loveeee this video. May الله bless u and your loved ones sister this video did open my eyes.❤

  • @bbydoll999
    @bbydoll999 6 місяців тому +1

    I love this. wise and beautiful. ♡

  • @dahirfamilychannel6787
    @dahirfamilychannel6787 7 місяців тому +1

    Mashaa Allah thanks habo this is helpful advice for young generation. I really like it. keep going.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ayahowl1786
    @ayahowl1786 7 місяців тому +3

    Omg amazing and relatable

  • @fathima-ex6rs
    @fathima-ex6rs 7 місяців тому +1

    thank you so much, may Allah bless you with more wisdom sister.

  • @Yasmiin.a
    @Yasmiin.a 7 місяців тому +8

    Mashallah, you did that! Very soft spoken too!

  • @Iman_18
    @Iman_18 7 місяців тому +26

    It my first time watching you and it was a serious talk felt like my older sister was advising me 😂

  • @nadianoor713
    @nadianoor713 7 місяців тому +2

    beauty and brains 🤩 mashAllah sister, giving up music has been hard pray it gets easier for me! also, what mic do you use here?

  • @Yasmin-ci1sv
    @Yasmin-ci1sv 7 місяців тому +1

    🎉🎉🎉🎉 it's great that you know all this things now and not when 40 like me 😅

    • @jemilaxo
      @jemilaxo  7 місяців тому

      Even if I have learned all of these lessons I still mess up sometimes so this is as much of a reminder for me as it is for you guys!

  • @FarzanaHamidi-p8g
    @FarzanaHamidi-p8g 7 місяців тому +3

    this video was def helpful

  • @Ina_Deex
    @Ina_Deex 7 місяців тому +2

    Thanks abbaayo. ❤

  • @chrismw004
    @chrismw004 7 місяців тому +13

    this was a personal call out😪

  • @kumarieeemusa8217
    @kumarieeemusa8217 7 місяців тому

    You finish all life experience at one video 😊 though it is nice

  • @Ahmir-ep7vs
    @Ahmir-ep7vs 7 місяців тому +2

    This is so beautiful and so are you love this for you All praise be to Allah!🫶🏾

  • @Maria-gd4vf
    @Maria-gd4vf 7 місяців тому +1

    Machallah sis, I love these points

  • @ayanibrahim6756
    @ayanibrahim6756 7 місяців тому

    Jamilaa we need more ukhty❤

  • @_narjesss
    @_narjesss 7 місяців тому +4

    dis vid was calling my name😂

  • @Hodancabdi-sn9rx
    @Hodancabdi-sn9rx 7 місяців тому

    I needed my life someone like u remind me good things making stronger keep going sister ❤ and keep posting videos like this we need and allaha bless you

  • @suelaamisandwich
    @suelaamisandwich 7 місяців тому +2

    well girl how old are you, cause you look early 20 to mee! Im 25 and this video was very relatable .

  • @lvstvy7928
    @lvstvy7928 6 місяців тому +1

    PLEASE MAKE A HOW TO BE ALONE VIDEO!!!!!

  • @JJ-xm2km
    @JJ-xm2km 7 місяців тому +1

    my name is jamila too i hardly see people with my name .,,, i know there are a lot of people with name i just dont come across much so it’s a bit awkward to see someone with my name 😂

  • @aylinhuriya
    @aylinhuriya 6 місяців тому +2

    i love you so much

    • @jemilaxo
      @jemilaxo  6 місяців тому +1

      I love you more 💕

  • @Spreadmercy
    @Spreadmercy 7 місяців тому +1

    13:05 😭🥺

  • @Spreadmercy
    @Spreadmercy 7 місяців тому +1

    9:06 😭

  • @Moses20240
    @Moses20240 7 місяців тому

    Salaam alaikum sister, I love you for the sake of Allah and that's why I don't want you to get your good deeds washed away nor get sins, but it's haram for sisters to post themselves in public where non mahram males can see you. JazakhAllah khair.

  • @ahmedmohamed-on9lf
    @ahmedmohamed-on9lf 7 місяців тому +1

    She is 32

  • @faizamohamedali7664
    @faizamohamedali7664 7 місяців тому

  • @Alyasa-eq6rt
    @Alyasa-eq6rt 7 місяців тому +1

    WWWWW 1st

  • @Karachi_king
    @Karachi_king 7 місяців тому

    If this girl isn’t from New York idk who is

  • @hayaat9236
    @hayaat9236 7 місяців тому

    The way you pronounced Allah sounds Ethiopian

  • @Maria-gd4vf
    @Maria-gd4vf 7 місяців тому

    how old r you?

  • @ok_ema_
    @ok_ema_ 7 місяців тому

    This was so informative, I have subscribed straight away 🫶🏼