This video is a public service announcement. This channel's audience is 95% men - and I'm sick of being pressured to feel somehow responsible when a tiny proportion of individual scumbags behaves violently towards women. The official government statistics reveal a starkly different picture.
Oh John, you and your facts ruining a good story. The US has race to politicise, we only have gender as race doesn't work for the most part here. Give these poor politicians a break 🤣
Ive been stewing for a week over these lies. Glad I’ve seen the stats. Women getting offed is terrible- but mainstream new are absolutely fu…ing puppet liars.
I understand your comments regarding legacy media, unfortunately places like UA-cam try to shove us all down a rabbit hole that it decides, instead of deciding ourselves.
I was a cop for a few years and turned up to many many domestic incidents. I can't remember a single one where the female was completely innocent. Every incident, they were both as bad as each other and most of the time, the female admitted to starting it and chucking something at the bloke first. Everytime the bloke got arrested though. I even got a disciplinary for arresting the women one time after she admitted to hitting him and chucking something at him first and all he did was pin her up in self defence and chuck her out of the house. She then proceeded to get a group of lads to beat him up in his own house and when we turned up and she admitted all this on my body cam I got fucked for saying he was the victim. Not to mention bullshit crime statistics. They'll create a crime on the system even if it turns out one didn't happen, then write up in the description what happened, so the statistics will say domestic crime female victim but in the write up of the description it'll say, non crime or female party admitted to commuting offence. The starts are all bullshit.
Similar to my own PO experiences of women and of a scripted female=victim, male= perp narrative of a pro-female biased judicial system from first responders through CPS & the courts.
I've spoken to countless cops who have said the same thing. Many of them left the police force simply for this reason. The DV stats are garbage because the police procedure is to take the side of the women regardless of the situation. Issue an ADVO push for it to be made final in court and at all costs the DPP try and prosecute any charges. You don't even need a charge to be hit with an ADVO which means you can get one just because a reviewing officer recommends one.
I know of a woman who threatened a bloke with a knife. The man picked up a piece of wood to protect himself. The cops arrived, found the man at a mates place, and arrested him. The cops took the wood as evidence against the man but left the knife on the coffee table. The man left the scene to avoid escalating the situation and was then accused of fleeing police. The law is so out of whack and against men that it's not funny . The woman was the instigator of the argument. The police are biased against men
@@frankmontanari5534 Not so much biased as in individual officers but the system itself procedurally only sees men as perpetrators unless there is really sufficient evidence to say otherwise. If you read the purpose of the Domestic Violence Act it clearly states it is for the protection of women, children, and vulnerable people. It's legislated biased, the police unfortunately just have to do their job or walk from the job.
Albo saying "men as a group need to change their behaviour" when speaking about the Domestic violence national crisis. Is like blaming all drivers for the injuries and deaths caused by drunk drivers.
It also devalues the experiences of men/boys who have been assaulted by their female peers. Speaking as someone who went to school with boys who aren't around anymore after our teacher took them to a private room for 'tutoring'.
It used to be the case, that pollies only care about the next election...but with the way Albo, Wong, and Chalmers are carrying on, it appears that they repeatedly commit political suicide. Look at the Voice...vast majority of us, voted No. But then politicians from all corners want to ignore the result and bring it on anyway? Why would they go against the decree of the people?
never good enough... women have been trained to be narcissistic consumers. They have choice, being a feminazi is the choice for most women made apparent very clearly.
Yes we all know the problem is women but the problem men aren’t sticking up for themselves they are just letting this happen. It’s time for men to start defending Men we are losing a war. Time to fight back for our rights.
How many are people from other Nations as well as the Pandemic as Stated while being Locked Up in Our Homes! And a Lot of manipulation of the Australian. Population!!
Same thing is happening here in the U.S. and every nation across the planet. It's the GOAL of these New WORLD Order bastards to divide the people and create internal chaos so that they can step in and SAVE us.
Just about everything stops. I don't see teams of women building highrise apartments or the place they work in or the cars they drive or the farms supplying the food to the supermarkets via the trucks driven by 99% males. You get the picture
@@AutoExpertJC We all know that we men block them deliberately and then wait for the call to unblock it so we get to feel empowered or so we are meant to believe.
A breath of fresh air, I called the ABC a few nights back on the long drive home after night shift and absolutely tore them about this. Every time you turn on the radio they are pointing fingers at Australian men and im sick and tired of it.
Yeah they really do, and its getting worse. The ABC is so predictable. Nearly every story is seen thru the lens that men are monsters and women are sugar and spice all things nice. I was reading an article a while ago about Ghislaine Maxwell, from the ABC. I had to force the vomit back down. It was a putrid story that basically said Maxwell was just a much a victim of Epstein and toxic masculinity because her father was a tough man, which meant Maxwell was susceptible to fall into the arms of a toxic man blah blah, bullshit bullshit. No, Maxwell is a rotten human being who did criminal acts to innocent girls and deserves every second of jail time. God, I hate the ABC.
Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously strong, independent and empowered and also an appressed victim; until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most and behaves accordingly.
Well I have been seeking a grant of funding for a study into the trans community and *_Quantum Gender_* all based around the idea of Schrödinger’s Pussy. You don’t really know what’s there until you look 👀
Thank you John. My mother was an extremely violent alcoholic, she came so close to murdering my gentle and quiet father on many occasions. My sister and I were abused over many years. No one knew, we just kept it to ourselves. I then married a woman my mother said was not a good choice, and she was correct. After a few years and 3 kids, my life became pure hell. She provoked and belittled me on a constant basis, very often pleading with me to hit her. I never did, I am a gentle man like my dad. This too was unreported, I just put up with it as long as I could. Her evil continued and still does, after 30 years, she tries to hurt me emotionally, and for no good reason. She has managed to poison my three daughters too, none of whom have talked to me for many years, I have 3 grandchildren I have never met. My long-term partner says I'm the most gentle and caring man she has ever met. Female violence is out there, but it is rarely reported.
@@chriswyer7144 Actually Chris, it's not all that bad. I have a great woman now and don't suffer from the calls for help (Money) from the girls, or have to suffer their dramas. My time with them was fantastic up until their mid-teens, the best years, when they thought I was cool. And as far as the grandkids are concerned, you can't miss what you've never had. Thanks for your thought though. Baz.
My story is almost identical.............Children don't speak to me even when in am seriously ill in hospital and near death...........grandchildren I have never met except..................BUT it wasn't my mother it was my ex wife..............YES evil does exist............I THANK GOD I NOW HAVE A LOVING PARTNER !
You're not allowed to mention this if it takes some of the light off of their narrative, men being victims is not allowed, you see this in other areas: BLM, Grooming Gans, etc.
@@LoremIpsum1970 This will come back to bite them because many men are walking away, going their own way, leaving the country, or going monk etc. Also Australia is on a knife edge of a severe recession if not a depression.
you lie - our indig population are the biggest dv abusers in this country as it has been culturally accepted for all the 60,000 yrs they claim to have lived here. Seen plenty of it with my own eyes
Years ago, I was a "pubic officer". I lost count of the domestics I attended were the female had bashed the male with a frying pan, bottle or was threatening him and us with a kitchen knife. We would take the male away to a friend's house as it was less paperwork and they would be back together the next day anyway. Violence against men is way under reported as its embarassing for the male to make a complaint. Some of the wives are the size of a twin door Kelvinator, covered in tattoos, smoke in the mouth and would even scare Batman.
Same experience in both Qld and NSW Police Forces in my time. My wife, also ex the job will concur and confirm. Women by far the worse offenders invariably responsible for lighting, stoking and fanning the DV fire until it reactively erupts and unsurprisingly, they get burnt only to then complain and cry 'victim'.
@@jamescreswell9037 Two thirds of domestically abusive women use weapons. Two thirds of the time it's a knife. In my town over a couple of years there were a dozen stabbings reported in local media. All the victims and only one of the perpetrators were male.
So why didn't you arrest the female offender? The victim can chose to press charges or not but this is why these lying femunists get away with their statistics. Police do not arrest women when they break the law!
My brother has been in a living hell for over the past 2 years due to the abuse of DV laws by his ex wife, their is zero accountability for false accusations made by his partner. Hasn't been able to talk to or see his kids and fears leaving the house in case he might encounter his ex partner in public and be charged with violating the AVO. Just a few months ago he and his current partner had to fly to Townsville for court proceedings when he bumped into his ex at Sydney airport (apparently they were booked on the same flight. His ex complained to Federal police that he had violated the AVO and he was forced off the plane and had to arrange arrange another flight. The federal police then charged him with violating the AVO even though he had no idea his ex would be on the same flight from Sydney to Townsville. The current Domestic violence laws are an absolute disgrace for those Men who dearly love their children (he has a boy and a girl) and has spent hundreds of thousands on lawyers dealing with a Malicious Prosecution with no end in site. Shame, Shame Shame on Albo for saying that all men are evil violent misogynist.
That is horrifying and reinforces my opinion that modern western women are not marriage material. Avoid them and the problem will be solved. Also Albo's fake girlfriend will dump him the moment he isn't PM.
@@flashrufa6306 Spoke with him tonight, he was crying on the phone as he found out there are allegations of sexual abuse of his daughter, which his ex partner may have been aware of. No access to information without spending money on lawyers, the system has sent him broke and robbed him of everything he has. I do not know how he can deal with this and his MS, he is strong but he is lost and desperately needs some help or guidance.
There is no such thing as pergery in family court. Legal aid states. This. Unless you plead guilty we will not represent you Truth. Men are bad and must be punished
Im fed up with the outright lies and man bashing that is now considered acceptable. The majority of protection and hard work is done by men. Lets see how things go without the police, military, truck drivers, builders, garbage collectors... all the shitty jobs that get done quietly behind the scenes so that women can be comfortable and safe. Thank you to all the good men out there that look after us, I for one, appreciate you.
I'm a cancer survivor and when I found another lump I was concerned. I let my now ex know that I wouldn't go through another 8 months of grueling chemo if the survival rate wasn't great, and if that was the case I would self remove when the pain got too much. Relationship Australia labelled that manipulative domestic violence and encouraged her to leave and apply for a DVO. Never laid a hand on a male, let alone a female, but that didn't matter. It's not just the government, it's everything.
@@crisiscore93litmus56 Yeah, though I feel like I have to point out that a threat of suicide could in theory actually be emotional manipulation. Like "If you leave me I'll kill myself". In my case the nuance was there and, in my opinion valid and in no way manipulative.
@Inshokuten69 considering that you weren't asking your partner for anything, how was it abusive? That's a horrible conversation to have to have with someone, but at some point, you might have to have it. All I'm getting from this is that Relationship Australia would rather you suffer through months of humiliation and agonising pain, just so the woman in your life feel comfortable. Yea...no bias here.
A woman who shares her feelings is called strong. A man who shares his feelings is called weak. Beer can only suppress the darkness for so long. Stay strong fellas
The numbers are much much higher The nsw police used to collect statistics on this but dropped them after it showed females commit the vast major of deaths for children under 5 That is why they focus on child deaths from 7 years old onwards because the balance tips towards men Once again women get off scott free for the younger deaths
As a retired police officer I’ve been involved and investigated many domestic violence incidents in 3 Australian jurisdictions spanning 23 years. Back in the 90’s, 2 female offenders that killed their husbands both walked free being successful in arguing that they were the victims. One of those women went on and did the same a second time not long after. I see that as one’s M.O. Sure once a victim, but not twice. That’s one’s own habit. You need to look at those crime statistics a bit closer to get the conviction rate of female offenders to that of men. Most minor crimes by women won’t even get to court with only the more serious crimes committed against a person likely to, and then the typical defenses emerge. Back in 2008 whilst serving as a police officer in one jurisdiction, I was victim of DV myself and sought emergency accommodation for myself and my daughter & recourse. I was told by the States support services that there was NO agency available supporting men. I received NO support that I knew was available for women as victims of Domestic violence. What I knew was available for women was not offered or available for me. One jurisdiction I worked in; the directive was; if you attend a domestic incident even a verbal argument (male vs female = relationship), you WILL arrest the man. No matter what.. The other two jurisdictions weren’t as severe as that. I no longer reside in Australia, moving overseas in 2018 but I would argue IF there is an increase in general terms, statistically, it’s more to do with the increasing of legislation favoring or protecting women more than available laws whilst I was serving, targeting men, and that they do not favor men in Australia and NEVER will. It’s an offence.
Well said. I'm also a former police officer. Along with the points you mention one phenomenon I saw was that some offences were jointly committed by a couple. Both were culpable but the man would admit to the offence so that the woman wouldn't get charged. The man would fall on his sword. This alone must severely skew the data. Men need to stop doing this.
How many did YOU arrest? Seeing you lot are the guardians of the political class? Police are cowards when it comes to speaking up. Only when they discharge. You are enforcing BS laws, YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM
@@MJ-gg5py so falling on ones sword and taking the blame has a protective effect on the one who does it? I'd say that's like saying that being humble and taking advice is being proud and arrogant.
I'm working at a major mining company in WA. Our homepage also mentioning the increasing problem of violence against woman.... while mentioning woman will be prioritized in career opportunities over men. I have 2 young sons. Hopefully this madness will stop.
I've been out of work 10 years since HR had me sacked from my last job for "looking at illicit material in the office" which they could never prove because I used a laptop and not the work desktop and I also wasn't in the office most of the time, I was travelling to other offices to perform IT work at those sites. 10 years since I was 21~ years old, my life is over. I've been on the dole and applying for jobs since then in VIC, then SA and now QLD, no one wants to hire men and no one wants to hire Australian born men if you catch my drift. My most recent application is to the government for an APS3 role, we were told we'd get a response either way to the application in 3-4 weeks, its now 6-7 weeks and my job coach chased them down and they told him another 1-2 weeks. I've given up on having another job ever again and am just waiting to cark it or for the country to collapse and start over from scratch. I'm an IT specialist and I spend my time gardening/cleaning my land lords property for them because if I dont I won't have a home and if I lose my home Centrelink won't send me my money because you need a residential address to receive welfare. Voting won't fix this. we need to go in and shut the whole system down and start it over or the children will have no future at all.
I am retired Oil and Gas offshore no fixed rotation minimal time off I have had 3 mates committ suicide in the last 5 years. I have seen LGBTI + be given priority over the push for better time off. If you are a white heterosexual male in this country you are fu kd but it has been like this for sometime since the family law act 1990.
@@AutoExpertJC That is putting it politely John. As 61 year old white male I have been called so many things over the last 4 years just for standing up for my basic human rights. So over it. Albo is just a useful idiot for whoever is pulling the strings.
We are told men need to step up and call out violence against women which implies the average dude sees violence against women acceptable. I’ve worked in male dominated industries all my working career and not once have I heard a guy talk or boast about smacked his partner about. reason he knows he will be seen as a scumbag and called out . Thanks John for calling this bullshit out
Well said. Blokes know if they admit to hitting a women someone will kick the shit out of them. On the other hand women know they can hit a man and not get hit back or be held accountable for their actions. Plenty of women are very abusive physically and mentally and men become violent in self defence or as a response to it.
We had a bloke bragging about "Putting his wife in her place" expecting the boys to be fucking proud of him? and the response from everyone was utter disgust and rejection. The guy lost his job, all his buisness contacts, sold his house and his wife left him. Good on her. The bloke was an arsehole and now his life is ruined. As it should be... No men want this shit to happen. It should be easier and safer for women and men to report these crimes. Because I'm sure a lot of shit flys under the radar too..
Women are much more likely to abuse kids and kill infants, when do you ever hear about those stats? Male on male violence is much more common, how do you stop a person who is aggressive towards everyone and ensure they don't hurt women? The whole idea of gender related violence is idiotic.
Consider the gleeful responses of many women when another woman cuts off their male partner's genitals. I've never seen men react in this way to awful crimes against women. If anything the typical male response is murderous rage towards the culprit.
Thanks John. This is serious. I’ve been a victim of domestic violence in an abusive relationship … according to my Pyscholgist…but no one has asked me how I feel. If the tables were turned I’d be locked up, Yes a great segment and exactly!!! Thank you !
I don't think you are alone. I'd argue that we try rooly-rooly hard as a society to reduce all violence... (We have been achieving this with homicide, for three decades.)
Same-sex attracted women in Australia report higher rates of abuse than hetero women. Alarmingly, it's in several ways - coercive control, gas-lighting, physical harm, and post-breakup harrassment and stalking. These stats suggest that the male victims of female violence are far more plentiful than we care to admit, and those blokes are suffering in silence. We hear you, and your safety matters to us.
By the tone of the comments I think we might see a massive amount of damage control BS inflicted on us from Albo and Co once their polling shows how much support they have lost.
@@tomparker5000 When women are violent towards men, men are far less likely to call the police. So, it doesn't show up in the statistics nearly as much as the other way around.
Thank you John. This is important. I'm 62, 2 sons & 1 daughter, voted Labor all my life. Never voting Labor again. (and can't watch mainstream "journalists")
@@jeffhicks8428 The other side hasn't driven the country to the levels of debt that we currently "enjoy". And as for Victorian Labour having driven the level of debt to such absurd levels, it will be generations before/if we ever reclaim the lost ground thanks to ... labour.
@@davidkennedy4845 I'm not a labor voter but in fairness, the level of debt has reduced slightly over the past two years. The levels of debt we "enjoy" was actually left by the previous Liberal/Coalition government.
A lady friend on mine was a Family Law barrister, and is now a Magistrate. She told me that so many times where she had represented a woman in a divorce case, she felt like slapping them across the face because of their attitude toward their ex. She said more often than not they would not settle a case and used the children as a lever to force the father to agree to their terms of settlement. Of course no one is advocating violence in these situations, but clean a man out financially and restrict access to his kids and sadly some men will react accordingly. I know with my own experience, there were thoughts that went through my mind that weren't good. Fortunately I wasn't the type of person who would act that out, but some men are.
As a male victim of DV, with police witnesses, video and audio and written evidence. I'm over it. Every step of the process to rid my life of my stalker, I was treated as the perpetrator. YEARS of my life and over 100k in legal fees (she had a new lawyer adjourn the case every chance she got) and a loss of a job, needing a change in career. I'm over it. I learned after that she's done it to four people (that I know of) and walked away after being charged with (and found guilty of) 7 indictable offences (including threats to kill and possession of a controlled weapon) she walked away with a 12 month good behavior bond. I was told in no uncertain terms (multiple times, from multiple sources through the ordeal) that I'd be in prison. As a male, the only 'help' line available to us is available "to men who use violence against their families". No wonder reports of violence against men are so low. Would I ever report it again? Not a chance. Amazing how many other people I met with similar stories during the process. Not to mention the men I know who's female partners threaten taking their children away if they don't toe the line. It's an absolute farce, and a complete disgrace.
@@AutoExpertJC thanks, John. Not sure it ever will be 100%, just really shakes your faith in the system and makes me think twice about how many other men have been given a rough trot. Just glad there was no children involved. Keep up the good work mate. You have an amazing platform, and use it more responsibly than most. Thank you.
John I am 52 and never raised a little as a finger to any women...If i could hit like button 2000 times I would. More men and women need to tell the truth about DV in this country. Bravo Zulu Sir
@@robertollier3085optics. Scomo was targeted by the media. Albo is a media darling. So it might look that way if you don't think too much. Can guarantee in the real world bias aside, albo is 100x worse.
@@robertollier3085 Nope. I dont remember Morrison pulling "the Voice" out of his behind as soon as he took power. Even worse, this cretin Albo pulled "the Voice" out with zero mandate, a pathetic primary vote and serious inflationary and migratory issues that were in another universe more important. Albo didnt even know what the fuel price was when asked. He is causing a huge rental price hike and he also owns 5 million dollars of property around Sydney. He is the worst kind of aloof elitist, and Labor has lost the plot.
I'm an old Man and when my DV matter (I was assaulted by a Female family member) went to court in Parramatta I was advised by the Police that they "got the date wrong" and the matter was heard the week before which was 5 days prior to my date to attend court as a witness to the offence. Therefore, the assault charge was thrown out and after 2 weeks I am still waiting for a response from the Police Ofr involved. WTF?
Masculinity emergency, Climate emergency, Covid emergency, Racism emergency, Information emergency....and on it goes. Every politician is on at least a 6-figure pay packet. Anybody know what they do to earn it?......
I’ve sent this to everyone I can think of John. People are shocked and are sucked in by mainstream media. It’s the old ‘all men are evil’ meme. Thank you John again.
For what it’s worth, my wife totally agrees with your views on this. She used to be an analyst with our country’s version of the NSA, so sorting facts from bullshit comes more easily for her than it does for most others.
Thanks for breaking this down, John. I am sick of the blame being thrown at the feet of all men, for issues that are created by a few scumbags & criminals.
Well said John. I had begun to think i was the only one who was seeing this. I have shared this and it should be shared widely to assist in correcting the bovine excrement being generated out there.
You can only get 'cancelled' if you give a **** what these shrill harpies screech about. I don't think John cares what any of them would have to say. And neither should the rest of us. They only get power if you feed their idiocy by apologising or walking back what you say.
The last time I checked, ignoring someone is considered domestic violence by these stupid grifters. It's hard to know the rate of real violence given that everything is "violence" these days.
The government just declares themselves to be The Experts™, and therefore whatever they are saying is the correct information, and whatever disagrees with them is misinformation. Just trust The Experts™, don't believe your lying eyes.
DV is never one sided. It takes two to tango. If you pay for a woman's trip home to her parents because you are concerned about her boyfriend, she will often be back within a month. Those relationships are much more complex than you might think.
Bring back RANT John. At a time when David McBride is getting jailed for serving the country, the people need some figurative uppercuts to bring them back to reality.
@AutoExpertJC how long before a government suit comes a knocking on you door? Don't think they'll jail you for your speech? I sure hope not but it doesn't look too good for the future buddy.
The majority of men are good and they play a huge role in keeping their loved ones, community and nation safe. I have a husband and a son and have always been disgusted that they are lumped in with a small percentage of offenders as being a problem for women. Loved this video, thanks mate.
I'm glad you made this video. This is something that has been upsetting me a lot lately, and I refuse to watch the news now because that's all I see. It's complete hysteria and it's to intentionally make men feel guilty. I'm a guy who has always stuck up for women and even got beat up by 8 guys one time when I protected a woman from getting abused. And I've got the broken nose to show for it. And yet they want me to feel somewhat responsible for DV? I've never laid a hand on my wife, and funny enough, she has hit me... although I'm a lot stronger so I would never hit her back. We live in an upside down world!
Thank fuck, you have spoken the truth. It was amazing how uncomfortable I felt sitting on the lounge with my partner watching those bullshit news stories, feeling guilty for no reason. This video needs to be broadcast uncensored and uninterrupted on all public networks in its entirety. As if that will happen.
Great work, and good on you for taking on this subject. More descent Aussie blokes need to stand up for themselves, because it sure seems that no one else will.
Thank you, John, for standing up for the rights of the vast majority of men who are peacefully living citizens in this country. I am a survivor of domestic violence, not at the point of a gun, but a knife, yes it drew blood, my blood. I did nothing to deserve this. This has affected my mental health through my life. The main thing I suffered from, as did the children, was the verbal and mental abuse direct at us. There was NO support anywhere for me! You are a hero to me, I am similar age to you. Please follow the path this will make and keep this truths momentum travelling through to the top of our society, please. You should be the replacement for our current PM!
I have complained many times to channel 7 as after doing reporting on this issue they always say “if you are a female suffering from domestic violence then call such and such, if you are a male thinking of perpetrating in or suffering domestic violence then call such and such” they are openly accusing men , that is so wrong and automatically places men in the bad
💯. And of course they never mention the men that are killed by women, or the fact that there is not a SINGLE emergency accommodation Placement in NSW for a bloke leaving a violent relationship
NONE in Queensland either. A friend of mine has an abusive wife, especially when off her meds. He has to find a family member to stay with while she cools off as there is literally NO WHERE for males to go, and yet she sometimes rings the Police and they remove HIM.
@@wyattfamily8997100%. I had a friend leave a DV relationship and he was told by police and FACS that men don’t need emergency housing as they can survive on the streets
mate, totally agree with every word. my son was a victim of domestic violence from his bi polar partner, he was taken away in the back of a police car when she attacked him after he came home from work, the restraining order was placed on him, I've worked with other men that has been through similar experience. How do we get to get the government to take men's pain seriously. Young girls regularly commit violence against bust drivers, there is so much female violence. I'm so sick of being labelled violent just because I'm male. I guess the fact that we have no ministers for men shows the government really don't care about us. So much support for women, nothing for men. We seriously need you for prime minister. ABC news is endless women's stories, so over it. This is your best video yet, how do we get the government to take men seriously?
I hear ya mate. My first wife had borderline personality disorder. hid it well when we were dating and for the 1st 3 months of marriage, the next 9 months of me desperately trying to help her left me a wreck. i only stopped when her psych told me there was nothing more she or i could do and i needed too save myself.. it took me over a decade to feel safe being close to someone. when i finally left her and her mum claimed i had been physically violent, i ended up with a restraining order etc. funny thing is the only person that got hit during the marriage was me, and the only person who regularly broke the restraining order was her, but " she was the victim and i was the abuser". i am not a religious guy, but i thank any and all the gods i didn't get her pregnant, for the love of my child would have kept me in her psychotic headspace , and to be honest i don't think i would be here today. Support your son, and please let him know there are others out there that have made it out the other end
@@whittykins2000 Wow, crazy story mate. My son always said if he hurt her trying to protect himself it would been see as violence against her, so he just took it. That's a terrible story you told there. It's sad when you are the victim but are seen as the perpetrator and wear the consequences. The really disturbing thing here is men are loosing hand over fist and women are gaining more power over us, it's out of control. Endless amount of women in control now (ministers for gender equality, ministers for family violence and ministers for women, lots of them, only focus on women's problems, we have no one in power to help us. We need someone in power with a back bone to create positions equalling the women ministers for our needs. wont happen though. Thanks for the reply mate, stay safe ay
So many tradies get rolled by their female partner, just after the reno of their home is finished. I've been there, and have seen countless of other examples. It's like a formula to get ahead. Thanks for saying what nobody else has had the balls to point out.
reminds me of the guy who took his floor back, ripped up the floor he paid for in his gfs place. we should strive to be like that guy. but like, sneakily. cant do fair stuff like that here because it aint a fair country.
Hello John: Until the middle of last year, I was an active member of the ALP. I became disenchanted over the party's attitude towards men. At the last Federal election, I handed out how to vote cards for my Federal member, a prominent female member of cabinet. I will not vote for her at the next election. Keep up the good work.
Good onya. Now, where do you go from here? I vote independent but you gotta watch them all closely to see who they end up preferencing. Many disgruntled Labor voters will still vote Labor because they are stuck in a rut, kicking the can down the road. They won't vote Liberal and who bloody would either. Go forth!
One interesting phrase attributed to one Josef Stalin is: "It's not who votes that sounts, but WHO COUNTS THE VOTES. If "Dominion" ever gets its foot in the door, it will be the signal the the FIX IS IN and is on the hone stretch..
John - You are only a target if you are - White, Male and Hetro. Personally i'm over being abused for opening doors, paying for coffee or standing up on a bus for a pregnant or aged woman, all social habits drilled into me by my upbringing and schooling.
I stopped standing up to give pregnant women a seat years ago. Its not my kid and not my problem if they didn't use contraception. They choose to get pregnant just as I can choose to keep my seat. Who ever impregnated them can worry about providing them a seat.
In America, we don't have much in the way of public transport, so I've been able to go my whole life without standing up for anyone. Just drive everywhere in my ICE truck.
Great job John, quite happy to see someone else also tackling this issue as it is becoming quite an important one and we are going to continue covering this on our channel until the MSM stop with their nonsense. We hope you continue to focus on this as well!
Seen several videos now displaying this data and am now (as if I wasn’t already) convinced that the only thing that is toxic in this country is our government and media 🤷♂️
As a white male aged ver 60, I can only say thank you for bringing a small piece of sanity to this whole discussion. To be labelled as "the problem" is offensive, and does nothing to improve the bigger picture nationally, in fact I would argue it fosters disunity and suspicion of those around us. I love that you use facts and data (what a novel idea!) to show the real situation. Please keep up this great work!!!
Auto Expert John Cadogan's best ever video👏 Completely agree this is a public service announcement Absolutely so well done, John, on tackling this highly emotive subject with real and unarguable historic data Plus, not forgetting to mention the forgotten casualties too BTW, when I hear calls for, "Society must change", instinctively i internally think, "What? Change back to how it was?! Society HAS and IS changing" Hopefully, Australia's statistics are similar for here in UK - we hope we aren't comparable with USA
There was one of those hidden camera scenarios with actors in a public place. Man starts up on the woman with a chance of escalating to violence - 3 guys stepped up quickly ready to beat him up. They had to reveal who they were to avoid the male actor getting beaten. When they switched the roles so the woman was the aggressor, women walked past laughing, some suggested whatever he did he deserves it. No one stepped in to stop it. When a woman is violent and presents a real threat to a man and he responds in kind - he is seen as the bad guy because "you don't hit a woman." If anything the culture is to downplay women's violence. DV by males is the only statistic highlighted. While they ignore the other side, it will ensure it perpetuates, as there will be another generation subject to abuse and when they grow up, male or female - they'll either become the opposite or their brain wiring will see them repeat abusive behaviours. Feminists have been putting the blame for DV solely on men and downplaying women's part for at least 50 years. Erin Pizzey opened the first DV shelter for women in the UK in the 1970's and her observation was violence was largely reciprocal. The feminists who pushed a different narrative forced her out of the shelter she founded, took control of the funding she fought hard to acquire and then engaged in harassment and threatening behaviour to the point where Scotland Yard made the decision to run her mail through them first for a while. Feminist organisations now control billions of dollars in funding. Then you have the Duluth model - where part of it was even when women were violent, it was supposedly due to the man being violent/controlling and she was only violent in self defence. This led to Police departments in multiple western countries adopting a policy of automatically taking the man out of the home when called for DV. Even when the man made the call and is obviously injured and she is not. We have moved past that in only the last decade or so as even one of the founders of the Duluth model later admitted major flaws due to their personal bias. I wonder why men are reluctant to report DV? When Jill Meagher was murdered by repeat violent offender Adrian Bailey in inner city Melbourne a decade or so back, the public wanted him jailed for life and buried under the jail. He got 35 to life. We are all a bunch of evil hairless monkeys and a small portion are more evil and do really messed up stuff. It will never go away. For them we have jail. The regular people - men and women, do not support violence against women. For every wife beater out there, there's often a father, brother or friend that is thinking of giving him a painful lesson. Women FEEL more vulnerable on the street. Statistics say men are far more at risk. If I'm going to be attacked on the street, my size isn't going to help much when I'm outnumbered 3 to 1, or if the other guy has a knife. If they are out there to attack and rob people, they're going to stack the odds in their favour - because they are cowards and scumbags.
John, you have hit the nail squarely on the head. I congratulate you on your presentation. You speak extremely well on this subject and I am so glad that I am not the only one who thinks the same. Very glad to have found you.
Same sex female relationships have a disproportionate amount of violence. You may also find that none Australian straight couples have a proportionally larger amount of domestic violence.
@@allanIngham Are you braindead? Have a look at 10:56. Did you even watch the video before you start spouting the bullshit that's infested the media and social discourse?
This video is a public service announcement. This channel's audience is 95% men - and I'm sick of being pressured to feel somehow responsible when a tiny proportion of individual scumbags behaves violently towards women. The official government statistics reveal a starkly different picture.
Oh John, you and your facts ruining a good story. The US has race to politicise, we only have gender as race doesn't work for the most part here. Give these poor politicians a break 🤣
Women raise men. Also, it's time for you to apologize for your covid rants. Those who refused experimental vaccines were right
Alright mate. If one in 3 women are getting assaulted, then at least close to one in three men are assaulting 'em. Pull your head in.
Ive been stewing for a week over these lies. Glad I’ve seen the stats. Women getting offed is terrible- but mainstream new are absolutely fu…ing puppet liars.
Governments and newspapers can't let statistics and the truth get in the way of a good old sensationalised story John, ay?
How many men have taken their own lives because children are alienated from Dads ?
All men are made macay. The television adds said so.
Over 1200 to date this year apparently.....again, nothing to see here.
can't talk about that now cam we !
Hell of lot more than women being killed, but can't talk about that can we
@@peteanderson2533I agree but where can I get some statistics on this?
I stopped consuming any modern media over 10 years ago. The less government propaganda I'm exposed to the better.
What do you think JC and his videos are?
Modern media with a huge influence, whether it is right or wrong.
Clickbait.
💯 agree.
Watched only enough for fodder for critical thinking..
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UA-cam is modern media
I understand your comments regarding legacy media, unfortunately places like UA-cam try to shove us all down a rabbit hole that it decides, instead of deciding ourselves.
I was a cop for a few years and turned up to many many domestic incidents. I can't remember a single one where the female was completely innocent. Every incident, they were both as bad as each other and most of the time, the female admitted to starting it and chucking something at the bloke first. Everytime the bloke got arrested though. I even got a disciplinary for arresting the women one time after she admitted to hitting him and chucking something at him first and all he did was pin her up in self defence and chuck her out of the house. She then proceeded to get a group of lads to beat him up in his own house and when we turned up and she admitted all this on my body cam I got fucked for saying he was the victim.
Not to mention bullshit crime statistics. They'll create a crime on the system even if it turns out one didn't happen, then write up in the description what happened, so the statistics will say domestic crime female victim but in the write up of the description it'll say, non crime or female party admitted to commuting offence. The starts are all bullshit.
Similar to my own PO experiences of women and of a scripted female=victim, male= perp narrative of a pro-female biased judicial system from first responders through CPS & the courts.
I've spoken to countless cops who have said the same thing. Many of them left the police force simply for this reason. The DV stats are garbage because the police procedure is to take the side of the women regardless of the situation. Issue an ADVO push for it to be made final in court and at all costs the DPP try and prosecute any charges. You don't even need a charge to be hit with an ADVO which means you can get one just because a reviewing officer recommends one.
I know of a woman who threatened a bloke with a knife. The man picked up a piece of wood to protect himself. The cops arrived, found the man at a mates place, and arrested him. The cops took the wood as evidence against the man but left the knife on the coffee table. The man left the scene to avoid escalating the situation and was then accused of fleeing police. The law is so out of whack and against men that it's not funny . The woman was the instigator of the argument. The police are biased against men
@@frankmontanari5534 Not so much biased as in individual officers but the system itself procedurally only sees men as perpetrators unless there is really sufficient evidence to say otherwise. If you read the purpose of the Domestic Violence Act it clearly states it is for the protection of women, children, and vulnerable people. It's legislated biased, the police unfortunately just have to do their job or walk from the job.
At least you tried to do the right thing man ffs
Albo saying "men as a group need to change their behaviour" when speaking about the Domestic violence national crisis. Is like blaming all drivers for the injuries and deaths caused by drunk drivers.
Quite.
I wouldn't even class him as one of the "group".
@@gazzafloss Wait a minute guys. We must remember, ALL women are perfect. (yes, sarcasm).
It also devalues the experiences of men/boys who have been assaulted by their female peers. Speaking as someone who went to school with boys who aren't around anymore after our teacher took them to a private room for 'tutoring'.
Or blaming a particular ethnicity for all bad driving 😅
Morrison made me angry. Albanese makes me sick.
Neither will get my vote after seeing this
He's a greasey smudge on the Australian forefront.
Glad I’m not the only one he makes sick.
Dumb n Dumber
The politicians of the day are merely a reflection of the people of the day. Sadly.
Politicians do not give a s..t about the facts. The only thing they care about is reelection.
Note who supports them and take them to task.
This is very obviously true - for most politicians anyway. It's the way the game is rigged - as in, what choice do they have?
It used to be the case, that pollies only care about the next election...but with the way Albo, Wong, and Chalmers are carrying on, it appears that they repeatedly commit political suicide. Look at the Voice...vast majority of us, voted No. But then politicians from all corners want to ignore the result and bring it on anyway? Why would they go against the decree of the people?
I don’t think they even care about that anymore
Geez that makes a lot of sense!! Mate get it right its called reselection !!
Male couples approx 16% split/divorce rate, Hetero couples 54% divorce, Lesbian 90%+.
Jee i wonder who the problem is!
never good enough... women have been trained to be narcissistic consumers. They have choice, being a feminazi is the choice for most women made apparent very clearly.
Nailed it. Can’t argue with those alarming stats!
Yes we all know the problem is women but the problem men aren’t sticking up for themselves they are just letting this happen. It’s time for men to start defending Men we are losing a war. Time to fight back for our rights.
How many are people from other Nations as well as the Pandemic as Stated while being Locked Up in Our Homes!
And a Lot of manipulation of the Australian. Population!!
Haha, love those stats, I going to use them Nate, brilliant. Thank you.
Excellent video John. This PM is doing an excellent job of dividing us into every possible minority group rather than uniting us as AUSTRALIANS.
division is the key to ruling us , look up the joans plantation
Same thing is happening here in the U.S. and every nation across the planet. It's the GOAL of these New WORLD Order bastards to divide the people and create internal chaos so that they can step in and SAVE us.
Watch what happens to a society when men simply.. ..walk away.
Fewer blocked sewers would be cleared, for starters. And that's pretty shit.
This gas lighting is an agenda all over the western world ,
Yep sectors of American society has numbers show this. No I don't want an argument look it up yourself.
Just about everything stops. I don't see teams of women building highrise apartments or the place they work in or the cars they drive or the farms supplying the food to the supermarkets via the trucks driven by 99% males. You get the picture
@@AutoExpertJC We all know that we men block them deliberately and then wait for the call to unblock it so we get to feel empowered or so we are meant to believe.
A breath of fresh air, I called the ABC a few nights back on the long drive home after night shift and absolutely tore them about this. Every time you turn on the radio they are pointing fingers at Australian men and im sick and tired of it.
Yeah they really do, and its getting worse. The ABC is so predictable. Nearly every story is seen thru the lens that men are monsters and women are sugar and spice all things nice.
I was reading an article a while ago about Ghislaine Maxwell, from the ABC. I had to force the vomit back down. It was a putrid story that basically said Maxwell was just a much a victim of Epstein and toxic masculinity because her father was a tough man, which meant Maxwell was susceptible to fall into the arms of a toxic man blah blah, bullshit bullshit.
No, Maxwell is a rotten human being who did criminal acts to innocent girls and deserves every second of jail time.
God, I hate the ABC.
Same as racism lie two footballers have a fight and call each other name its national news ,,,,, the media is bushit
Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously strong, independent and empowered and also an appressed victim; until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most and behaves accordingly.
Well I have been seeking a grant of funding for a study into the trans community and *_Quantum Gender_* all based around the idea of Schrödinger’s Pussy. You don’t really know what’s there until you look 👀
I mean you the whole point of feminism is not physically strong so it makes sense that both can be true.
@@midgetwars1 Are you saying women are not as capable as men? This is misogyny!
Exactly
Famous quote doing the rounds. But yeah she will choose the one that benefits her, or both at the same time..
Thank you John. My mother was an extremely violent alcoholic, she came so close to murdering my gentle and quiet father on many occasions. My sister and I were abused over many years. No one knew, we just kept it to ourselves. I then married a woman my mother said was not a good choice, and she was correct. After a few years and 3 kids, my life became pure hell. She provoked and belittled me on a constant basis, very often pleading with me to hit her. I never did, I am a gentle man like my dad. This too was unreported, I just put up with it as long as I could. Her evil continued and still does, after 30 years, she tries to hurt me emotionally, and for no good reason. She has managed to poison my three daughters too, none of whom have talked to me for many years, I have 3 grandchildren I have never met. My long-term partner says I'm the most gentle and caring man she has ever met. Female violence is out there, but it is rarely reported.
I'm very sorry to hear that mate - hope life has improved now. Sounds like you're with a decent woman now.
All too familiar mate.
Jesus Christ, dude that's terrible!
@@chriswyer7144 Actually Chris, it's not all that bad. I have a great woman now and don't suffer from the calls for help (Money) from the girls, or have to suffer their dramas. My time with them was fantastic up until their mid-teens, the best years, when they thought I was cool. And as far as the grandkids are concerned, you can't miss what you've never had. Thanks for your thought though. Baz.
My story is almost identical.............Children don't speak to me even when in am seriously ill in hospital and near death...........grandchildren I have never met except..................BUT it wasn't my mother it was my ex wife..............YES evil does exist............I THANK GOD I NOW HAVE A LOVING PARTNER !
One thing that is missing from this discussion is the male suicide rate! How many males have self-terminated because of an abusive domestic situation.
I've seen stat being thrown around saying "1 in 6" homeless people are women...
@@PoetofHateSpeechand people see that stat and are horrified while unironically ignoring the obvious counter to that.
You're not allowed to mention this if it takes some of the light off of their narrative, men being victims is not allowed, you see this in other areas: BLM, Grooming Gans, etc.
@@LoremIpsum1970 This will come back to bite them because many men are walking away, going their own way, leaving the country, or going monk etc. Also Australia is on a knife edge of a severe recession if not a depression.
With 25 tears in law and justice, 10 years in Family Law and over 7 years in Family Law and domestic violence law reform..... I agree. Completely.
Thank you. And thank you for your service.
Where were you in justice, that must have been somewhere else in the world?
I am sorry to hear of all those tears.
@@jeremylindemann5117 I think that was a typo, with the T being right next to the Y, I’m sure it was meant to be Years….
you lie - our indig population are the biggest dv abusers in this country as it has been culturally accepted for all the 60,000 yrs they claim to have lived here. Seen plenty of it with my own eyes
Years ago, I was a "pubic officer". I lost count of the domestics I attended were the female had bashed the male with a frying pan, bottle or was threatening him and us with a kitchen knife. We would take the male away to a friend's house as it was less paperwork and they would be back together the next day anyway. Violence against men is way under reported as its embarassing for the male to make a complaint. Some of the wives are the size of a twin door Kelvinator, covered in tattoos, smoke in the mouth and would even scare Batman.
Same experience in both Qld and NSW Police Forces in my time. My wife, also ex the job will concur and confirm. Women by far the worse offenders invariably responsible for lighting, stoking and fanning the DV fire until it reactively erupts and unsurprisingly, they get burnt only to then complain and cry 'victim'.
@@jamescreswell9037 Two thirds of domestically abusive women use weapons. Two thirds of the time it's a knife. In my town over a couple of years there were a dozen stabbings reported in local media. All the victims and only one of the perpetrators were male.
So why didn't you arrest the female offender? The victim can chose to press charges or not but this is why these lying femunists get away with their statistics. Police do not arrest women when they break the law!
My brother has been in a living hell for over the past 2 years due to the abuse of DV laws by his ex wife, their is zero accountability for false accusations made by his partner. Hasn't been able to talk to or see his kids and fears leaving the house in case he might encounter his ex partner in public and be charged with violating the AVO. Just a few months ago he and his current partner had to fly to Townsville for court proceedings when he bumped into his ex at Sydney airport (apparently they were booked on the same flight. His ex complained to Federal police that he had violated the AVO and he was forced off the plane and had to arrange arrange another flight. The federal police then charged him with violating the AVO even though he had no idea his ex would be on the same flight from Sydney to Townsville. The current Domestic violence laws are an absolute disgrace for those Men who dearly love their children (he has a boy and a girl) and has spent hundreds of thousands on lawyers dealing with a Malicious Prosecution with no end in site.
Shame, Shame Shame on Albo for saying that all men are evil violent misogynist.
That is horrifying and reinforces my opinion that modern western women are not marriage material. Avoid them and the problem will be solved.
Also Albo's fake girlfriend will dump him the moment he isn't PM.
I know his story. I too have a similar story. False allegation industry
@@flashrufa6306 Spoke with him tonight, he was crying on the phone as he found out there are allegations of sexual abuse of his daughter, which his ex partner may have been aware of. No access to information without spending money on lawyers, the system has sent him broke and robbed him of everything he has. I do not know how he can deal with this and his MS, he is strong but he is lost and desperately needs some help or guidance.
Shame on you for repeating this absolute crap!
There is no such thing as pergery in family court. Legal aid states. This. Unless you plead guilty we will not represent you Truth. Men are bad and must be punished
Im fed up with the outright lies and man bashing that is now considered acceptable. The majority of protection and hard work is done by men. Lets see how things go without the police, military, truck drivers, builders, garbage collectors... all the shitty jobs that get done quietly behind the scenes so that women can be comfortable and safe. Thank you to all the good men out there that look after us, I for one, appreciate you.
Sadly, society is moving in a direction of capitulation to the ones that shout the loudest, not the ones who speak truth.
The men can have babies crowd have near destroyed the west.
All by design, it’s being propagated from the top down. Not the other way around
I'm not - are you?
@@tompetrav1238 have you seen those shouting. The top are caving in out of fear.
Anyone shouts at me they have accidents, I don''t do it it happens supernaturally.
Excess deaths? Cost of living? Immigration? Teenage crime? Nothing to see here.
Smoke and mirrors to distract from his woeful performance as a PM.
Almost sounds like things were better under Scomo, hey John.
@@glennkenny9810 We haven't had effectual governance in Australia since the Howard govt, and I say that as a lifelong ALP hack/participant.
Cost of living is a real thing due to greed.
@@gregallan2842 Desiccated coconut didn't much but humble himself, but did better than being done slowly while needing a script of 💩.
I'm a cancer survivor and when I found another lump I was concerned. I let my now ex know that I wouldn't go through another 8 months of grueling chemo if the survival rate wasn't great, and if that was the case I would self remove when the pain got too much. Relationship Australia labelled that manipulative domestic violence and encouraged her to leave and apply for a DVO. Never laid a hand on a male, let alone a female, but that didn't matter. It's not just the government, it's everything.
wait...what? You told her that YOU were going to unalive YOURSELF and the organisation made your partner out to be the victim?
@@crisiscore93litmus56 Yeah, though I feel like I have to point out that a threat of suicide could in theory actually be emotional manipulation. Like "If you leave me I'll kill myself". In my case the nuance was there and, in my opinion valid and in no way manipulative.
@Inshokuten69 considering that you weren't asking your partner for anything, how was it abusive? That's a horrible conversation to have to have with someone, but at some point, you might have to have it.
All I'm getting from this is that Relationship Australia would rather you suffer through months of humiliation and agonising pain, just so the woman in your life feel comfortable. Yea...no bias here.
A woman who shares her feelings is called strong. A man who shares his feelings is called weak. Beer can only suppress the darkness for so long. Stay strong fellas
133 children killed by maternal filicide in the last 10 years. This will never be discussed.
oh, the numbers, are far, far higher than that.
The numbers are much much higher
The nsw police used to collect statistics on this but dropped them after it showed females commit the vast major of deaths for children under 5
That is why they focus on child deaths from 7 years old onwards because the balance tips towards men
Once again women get off scott free for the younger deaths
Yep went to school with a woman who killed her baby, shook her sleeping baby to death while her partner was in the shower. Absolutely awful
Keep going dude you are not even close more like 133,000,000.
@@Triggy96 This is WHY I do not trust women.
Thanks for this. I hate being blamed by the Manipulative Media for something I didnt do and never have!
As a retired police officer I’ve been involved and investigated many domestic violence incidents in 3 Australian jurisdictions spanning 23 years.
Back in the 90’s, 2 female offenders that killed their husbands both walked free being successful in arguing that they were the victims. One of those women went on and did the same a second time not long after. I see that as one’s M.O.
Sure once a victim, but not twice. That’s one’s own habit.
You need to look at those crime statistics a bit closer to get the conviction rate of female offenders to that of men. Most minor crimes by women won’t even get to court with only the more serious crimes committed against a person likely to, and then the typical defenses emerge.
Back in 2008 whilst serving as a police officer in one jurisdiction, I was victim of DV myself and sought emergency accommodation for myself and my daughter & recourse. I was told by the States support services that there was NO agency available supporting men. I received NO support that I knew was available for women as victims of Domestic violence. What I knew was available for women was not offered or available for me.
One jurisdiction I worked in; the directive was; if you attend a domestic incident even a verbal argument (male vs female = relationship), you WILL arrest the man. No matter what..
The other two jurisdictions weren’t as severe as that.
I no longer reside in Australia, moving overseas in 2018 but I would argue IF there is an increase in general terms, statistically, it’s more to do with the increasing of legislation favoring or protecting women more than available laws whilst I was serving, targeting men, and that they do not favor men in Australia and NEVER will. It’s an offence.
Well said. I'm also a former police officer. Along with the points you mention one phenomenon I saw was that some offences were jointly committed by a couple. Both were culpable but the man would admit to the offence so that the woman wouldn't get charged. The man would fall on his sword. This alone must severely skew the data.
Men need to stop doing this.
How many did YOU arrest? Seeing you lot are the guardians of the political class? Police are cowards when it comes to speaking up. Only when they discharge. You are enforcing BS laws, YOU ARE PART OF THE PROBLEM
@@roberttbrockway If men choose to protect the women, that's up to them. They don't have to do that.
@@roberttbrockway men don't do this to protect the women, it's to protect themselves.
@@MJ-gg5py so falling on ones sword and taking the blame has a protective effect on the one who does it? I'd say that's like saying that being humble and taking advice is being proud and arrogant.
I'm working at a major mining company in WA. Our homepage also mentioning the increasing problem of violence against woman.... while mentioning woman will be prioritized in career opportunities over men. I have 2 young sons. Hopefully this madness will stop.
I've been out of work 10 years since HR had me sacked from my last job for "looking at illicit material in the office" which they could never prove because I used a laptop and not the work desktop and I also wasn't in the office most of the time, I was travelling to other offices to perform IT work at those sites.
10 years since I was 21~ years old, my life is over. I've been on the dole and applying for jobs since then in VIC, then SA and now QLD, no one wants to hire men and no one wants to hire Australian born men if you catch my drift.
My most recent application is to the government for an APS3 role, we were told we'd get a response either way to the application in 3-4 weeks, its now 6-7 weeks and my job coach chased them down and they told him another 1-2 weeks.
I've given up on having another job ever again and am just waiting to cark it or for the country to collapse and start over from scratch. I'm an IT specialist and I spend my time gardening/cleaning my land lords property for them because if I dont I won't have a home and if I lose my home Centrelink won't send me my money because you need a residential address to receive welfare.
Voting won't fix this. we need to go in and shut the whole system down and start it over or the children will have no future at all.
I am retired Oil and Gas offshore no fixed rotation minimal time off I have had 3 mates committ suicide in the last 5 years. I have seen LGBTI + be given priority over the push for better time off. If you are a white heterosexual male in this country you are fu kd but it has been like this for sometime since the family law act 1990.
It won’t
Don’t hold your breath
Now you know what really is going on.
get out of Australia.... its going down the drain fast....
10 years in as a police member in the area of my state with the highest rate of FV.
This is absolutely on the money.
Thanks John, this Prime Minister is not evidence based, hence does untold long term damage to our community.
He's weak and expedient, in my view.
@@AutoExpertJC That is putting it politely John. As 61 year old white male I have been called so many things over the last 4 years just for standing up for my basic human rights. So over it. Albo is just a useful idiot for whoever is pulling the strings.
Well done, my thoughts exactly. I appreciate the substantive references ❤
We seem to he suffering a succession of bullshiter prime ministers.
@@AutoExpertJC He's a puppet and a narcissist.
We are told men need to step up and call out violence against women which implies the average dude sees violence against women acceptable. I’ve worked in male dominated industries all my working career and not once have I heard a guy talk or boast about smacked his partner about. reason he knows he will be seen as a scumbag and called out .
Thanks John for calling this bullshit out
Well said. Blokes know if they admit to hitting a women someone will kick the shit out of them. On the other hand women know they can hit a man and not get hit back or be held accountable for their actions. Plenty of women are very abusive physically and mentally and men become violent in self defence or as a response to it.
exactly. most men arent weasel enough to be abusive to their wife/girlfriend. here in west Texas a wife beater may end up in an "Accident"
We had a bloke bragging about "Putting his wife in her place" expecting the boys to be fucking proud of him? and the response from everyone was utter disgust and rejection.
The guy lost his job, all his buisness contacts, sold his house and his wife left him.
Good on her. The bloke was an arsehole and now his life is ruined. As it should be...
No men want this shit to happen. It should be easier and safer for women and men to report these crimes. Because I'm sure a lot of shit flys under the radar too..
Women are much more likely to abuse kids and kill infants, when do you ever hear about those stats? Male on male violence is much more common, how do you stop a person who is aggressive towards everyone and ensure they don't hurt women? The whole idea of gender related violence is idiotic.
Consider the gleeful responses of many women when another woman cuts off their male partner's genitals. I've never seen men react in this way to awful crimes against women. If anything the typical male response is murderous rage towards the culprit.
You are the only person that I have seen to quantify what’s really happening with facts.
On behalf of all men in Australia, thank you!
We need more Aussies like you Cadogan to use their platform to speak for the silent majority that don’t want to lose their jobs from speaking out
I live in a world where the facts matter, and nobody's going to fire me, as I am unemployable.
Thank you John -
Courage is knowing the truth - but saying it anyway.
Q: How do you know when a politician is lying?
A: Their lips are moving.
If the lips stop moving then they're talking out their arse.
I think I speaks for all Australians when I say -
Politicians are just better people than the rest of us.
@@derekcostello1016 The same in Ireland, only special people from special wombs can be politicians.
@@derekcostello1016 They're just better than us.
I guess the prime Minister doesn't count himself as a man. True that
@wrath8183
I wouldn’t count (?) him either.
Thanks John. This is serious. I’ve been a victim of domestic violence in an abusive relationship … according to my Pyscholgist…but no one has asked me how I feel. If the tables were turned I’d be locked up,
Yes a great segment and exactly!!!
Thank you !
I don't think you are alone. I'd argue that we try rooly-rooly hard as a society to reduce all violence... (We have been achieving this with homicide, for three decades.)
Thanks mate.
Same-sex attracted women in Australia report higher rates of abuse than hetero women. Alarmingly, it's in several ways - coercive control, gas-lighting, physical harm, and post-breakup harrassment and stalking. These stats suggest that the male victims of female violence are far more plentiful than we care to admit, and those blokes are suffering in silence. We hear you, and your safety matters to us.
By the tone of the comments I think we might see a massive amount of damage control BS inflicted on us from Albo and Co once their polling shows how much support they have lost.
@@tomparker5000 When women are violent towards men, men are far less likely to call the police. So, it doesn't show up in the statistics nearly as much as the other way around.
Thank you John. This is important. I'm 62, 2 sons & 1 daughter, voted Labor all my life. Never voting Labor again. (and can't watch mainstream "journalists")
the other side is even worse but maybe more honest about it.
2 sides same coin...@jeffhicks8428
Voting is rigged & mainstream journalists are on the whole bought & paid for…just my opinion…
@@jeffhicks8428 The other side hasn't driven the country to the levels of debt that we currently "enjoy". And as for Victorian Labour having driven the level of debt to such absurd levels, it will be generations before/if we ever reclaim the lost ground thanks to ... labour.
@@davidkennedy4845 I'm not a labor voter but in fairness, the level of debt has reduced slightly over the past two years. The levels of debt we "enjoy" was actually left by the previous Liberal/Coalition government.
A lady friend on mine was a Family Law barrister, and is now a Magistrate. She told me that so many times where she had represented a woman in a divorce case, she felt like slapping them across the face because of their attitude toward their ex. She said more often than not they would not settle a case and used the children as a lever to force the father to agree to their terms of settlement. Of course no one is advocating violence in these situations, but clean a man out financially and restrict access to his kids and sadly some men will react accordingly. I know with my own experience, there were thoughts that went through my mind that weren't good. Fortunately I wasn't the type of person who would act that out, but some men are.
Testosterone has been under attack for many years, ideologically and biologically...................
As a male victim of DV, with police witnesses, video and audio and written evidence. I'm over it. Every step of the process to rid my life of my stalker, I was treated as the perpetrator. YEARS of my life and over 100k in legal fees (she had a new lawyer adjourn the case every chance she got) and a loss of a job, needing a change in career. I'm over it.
I learned after that she's done it to four people (that I know of) and walked away after being charged with (and found guilty of) 7 indictable offences (including threats to kill and possession of a controlled weapon) she walked away with a 12 month good behavior bond.
I was told in no uncertain terms (multiple times, from multiple sources through the ordeal) that I'd be in prison.
As a male, the only 'help' line available to us is available "to men who use violence against their families".
No wonder reports of violence against men are so low.
Would I ever report it again? Not a chance. Amazing how many other people I met with similar stories during the process. Not to mention the men I know who's female partners threaten taking their children away if they don't toe the line.
It's an absolute farce, and a complete disgrace.
I'm very sorry to hear that mate - hope it is behind you now.
@@AutoExpertJC thanks, John. Not sure it ever will be 100%, just really shakes your faith in the system and makes me think twice about how many other men have been given a rough trot. Just glad there was no children involved.
Keep up the good work mate. You have an amazing platform, and use it more responsibly than most.
Thank you.
John I am 52 and never raised a little as a finger to any women...If i could hit like button 2000 times I would. More men and women need to tell the truth about DV in this country. Bravo Zulu Sir
Why has Albo not been CHARGED with "misinformation" for the false promise of $275 power credits 2 YEARS AGO.
Standing government is exempt from misinformation legislation last time I checked :/
thats why he wants the Digital passed so noboy can criticize the government
Lol it’s in this budget dummy 300 dollars to every household
@@kerrybarnes7289 don't need FB to tell him he's a fargkin digkhead every single time he's in public.
Albo - his Voice failed and now he's clutching at straws. Australia's worst PM by a country mile.
Albo is certainly rubbish, but Morrison is the undisputed worst prime minister ever.
Wow! That is some achievement, rooster!
@@robertollier3085optics. Scomo was targeted by the media. Albo is a media darling. So it might look that way if you don't think too much. Can guarantee in the real world bias aside, albo is 100x worse.
@@robertollier3085 Nope. I dont remember Morrison pulling "the Voice" out of his behind as soon as he took power. Even worse, this cretin Albo pulled "the Voice" out with zero mandate, a pathetic primary vote and serious inflationary and migratory issues that were in another universe more important. Albo didnt even know what the fuel price was when asked. He is causing a huge rental price hike and he also owns 5 million dollars of property around Sydney. He is the worst kind of aloof elitist, and Labor has lost the plot.
The Rudd and Gillard years were bad. This clown show are the winners by far
I'm an old Man and when my DV matter (I was assaulted by a Female family member) went to court in Parramatta I was advised by the Police that they "got the date wrong" and the matter was heard the week before which was 5 days prior to my date to attend court as a witness to the offence. Therefore, the assault charge was thrown out and after 2 weeks I am still waiting for a response from the Police Ofr involved. WTF?
Masculinity emergency, Climate emergency, Covid emergency, Racism emergency, Information emergency....and on it goes. Every politician is on at least a 6-figure pay packet. Anybody know what they do to earn it?......
Lies or optic, like they say in the US, are expensive. Truth are free.
Sit on their arses in their ivory towers peeking out the curtains at what is going on down below
Climate change is sadly all too real.
Funny how you don't hear about suicide rate or cost of living emergency
Thanks for speaking about this John. The war on men has been escalating for years
I’ve sent this to everyone I can think of John. People are shocked and are sucked in by mainstream media. It’s the old ‘all men are evil’ meme. Thank you John again.
For what it’s worth, my wife totally agrees with your views on this. She used to be an analyst with our country’s version of the NSA, so sorting facts from bullshit comes more easily for her than it does for most others.
I spent a lot of time at university (and afterwards) just looking at data. This is just that. Please thank her for me mate.
She just thank you’ed back…
Thanks for breaking this down, John. I am sick of the blame being thrown at the feet of all men, for issues that are created by a few scumbags & criminals.
It's because you're all too emotional and females think you're about to snap.
Try not to be so emotional.
The war on family. Take the bloke out of the family home, good blokes that is, and we're in trouble.
I heard once the feminist wants and wants and wants some more so much so that in the end it will be their own demise.
As a woman, this was well said!!!
@@razbest I’m tired of the double standards, silence and shame for men.
Thanks Rachel, we need more women like you.
Well said John. I had begun to think i was the only one who was seeing this. I have shared this and it should be shared widely to assist in correcting the bovine excrement being generated out there.
Thank you. There are facts, and there are bullshit claims. I'll stick with the facts, as it's how we split the atom and got 12 men on the moon.
Australians have never been safer- except from the state and federal governments.
Careful John, Cyber-Karen will be looking at you if you keep this sort of thing up.
Good thing I'm nobody, huh?
I'm gonna exercise my toxic masculinity and take the opportunity to say FUCK cyber Karen!
Edited my response. Wouldn't pass eKaren test.
Just keep what you are doing, John.
You can only get 'cancelled' if you give a **** what these shrill harpies screech about. I don't think John cares what any of them would have to say. And neither should the rest of us. They only get power if you feed their idiocy by apologising or walking back what you say.
@@AutoExpertJC Not in my books.
Hey mate. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR STANDING UP FOR US. In my opinion every single word you have said in this post is 100 % CORRECT
Great words, I believe that the majority off men are in total agreement off the miss information.
I for one am getting tired of the hate speech coming from our Govt
The last time I checked, ignoring someone is considered domestic violence by these stupid grifters. It's hard to know the rate of real violence given that everything is "violence" these days.
And if it’s not, then it’s racist or sexist!
Not giving her access to your bank account is partner abuse. It’s all very Orwellian.
We are all considered “racist” by some for saying No to the Voice.
We are well overdue for a men’s minister. For the sake of everyone especially kids.
Good to see you speaking out against brainwashing the community to buy into BS. Thanks John.
The problem is that the .GOV is EXEMPT from their miss and diss information bill.
The shitty government and mainstream media are all exempt if their useless bill gets up.
Ain't that the truth.
Which tells you all you need to know about what is in store for REAL PEOPLE.
The government just declares themselves to be The Experts™, and therefore whatever they are saying is the correct information, and whatever disagrees with them is misinformation.
Just trust The Experts™, don't believe your lying eyes.
In full support of you here John! Thankyou for not being scared to post a video on this.
Awesome video John. I’m getting sick of this collective responsibility and ‘toxic masculinity’ BS that just doesn’t exist.
DV is never one sided. It takes two to tango. If you pay for a woman's trip home to her parents because you are concerned about her boyfriend, she will often be back within a month. Those relationships are much more complex than you might think.
Bring back RANT John. At a time when David McBride is getting jailed for serving the country, the people need some figurative uppercuts to bring them back to reality.
Agreed. Rant is a possibility. What happened to DM yesterday is a national disgrace. A Nuremberg judge would be appalled.
+1 for Rant, I still watch them occasionally - tho you definitely have more subscribers here I think your non-car related content is really important.
The 'ayes' have it.
@@AutoExpertJC I'm still subscribed.
@AutoExpertJC how long before a government suit comes a knocking on you door? Don't think they'll jail you for your speech? I sure hope not but it doesn't look too good for the future buddy.
Strange how when you hear a domestic argument in the neighborhood, it's the women who can be heard from a distance.
How many men commit suices after an intimate abuses them mentally over a long period of time
Good to see someone sticking up for the majority of men that's also been victims of domestic violence, thankyou John
I must admit that I was shocked when Albo got the leadership of Labor. He can hardly string a sentence together.
Wonderful presentation John, thank you. Tony. 72 yrs young
The majority of men are good and they play a huge role in keeping their loved ones, community and nation safe. I have a husband and a son and have always been disgusted that they are lumped in with a small percentage of offenders as being a problem for women. Loved this video, thanks mate.
I'm glad you made this video. This is something that has been upsetting me a lot lately, and I refuse to watch the news now because that's all I see. It's complete hysteria and it's to intentionally make men feel guilty. I'm a guy who has always stuck up for women and even got beat up by 8 guys one time when I protected a woman from getting abused. And I've got the broken nose to show for it. And yet they want me to feel somewhat responsible for DV? I've never laid a hand on my wife, and funny enough, she has hit me... although I'm a lot stronger so I would never hit her back. We live in an upside down world!
Thank fuck, you have spoken the truth. It was amazing how uncomfortable I felt sitting on the lounge with my partner watching those bullshit news stories, feeling guilty for no reason. This video needs to be broadcast uncensored and uninterrupted on all public networks in its entirety. As if that will happen.
Every society is like a sinking Titanic. Women and children to the life-rafts and all the men go overboard.
Great work, and good on you for taking on this subject. More descent Aussie blokes need to stand up for themselves, because it sure seems that no one else will.
Well said, you are a brave man.
The truth will set you free. (Tell that to David McBride.)
@@AutoExpertJC I know David McBride has a legal fund. If you're into that maybe shout it out?
He has a gofundme.
Thank you, John, for standing up for the rights of the vast majority of men who are peacefully living citizens in this country.
I am a survivor of domestic violence, not at the point of a gun, but a knife, yes it drew blood, my blood. I did nothing to deserve this.
This has affected my mental health through my life. The main thing I suffered from, as did the children, was the verbal and mental abuse direct at us. There was NO support anywhere for me! You are a hero to me, I am similar age to you.
Please follow the path this will make and keep this truths momentum travelling through to the top of our society, please.
You should be the replacement for our current PM!
I have complained many times to channel 7 as after doing reporting on this issue they always say “if you are a female suffering from domestic violence then call such and such, if you are a male thinking of perpetrating in or suffering domestic violence then call such and such” they are openly accusing men , that is so wrong and automatically places men in the bad
💯. And of course they never mention the men that are killed by women, or the fact that there is not a SINGLE emergency accommodation Placement in NSW for a bloke leaving a violent relationship
NONE in Queensland either. A friend of mine has an abusive wife, especially when off her meds. He has to find a family member to stay with while she cools off as there is literally NO WHERE for males to go, and yet she sometimes rings the Police and they remove HIM.
@@wyattfamily8997100%. I had a friend leave a DV relationship and he was told by police and FACS that men don’t need emergency housing as they can survive on the streets
yup Sicktoria too , no gov help or $ either ,personal experience
mate, totally agree with every word. my son was a victim of domestic violence from his bi polar partner, he was taken away in the back of a police car when she attacked him after he came home from work, the restraining order was placed on him, I've worked with other men that has been through similar experience. How do we get to get the government to take men's pain seriously. Young girls regularly commit violence against bust drivers, there is so much female violence. I'm so sick of being labelled violent just because I'm male. I guess the fact that we have no ministers for men shows the government really don't care about us. So much support for women, nothing for men. We seriously need you for prime minister. ABC news is endless women's stories, so over it. This is your best video yet, how do we get the government to take men seriously?
Unfortunately my estranged wife is bipolar and yes I also know what it’s like to cop it…
Well said.
Don't watch ABC. It's news corp controlled anyway.
I hear ya mate. My first wife had borderline personality disorder. hid it well when we were dating and for the 1st 3 months of marriage, the next 9 months of me desperately trying to help her left me a wreck. i only stopped when her psych told me there was nothing more she or i could do and i needed too save myself.. it took me over a decade to feel safe being close to someone. when i finally left her and her mum claimed i had been physically violent, i ended up with a restraining order etc. funny thing is the only person that got hit during the marriage was me, and the only person who regularly broke the restraining order was her, but " she was the victim and i was the abuser". i am not a religious guy, but i thank any and all the gods i didn't get her pregnant, for the love of my child would have kept me in her psychotic headspace , and to be honest i don't think i would be here today. Support your son, and please let him know there are others out there that have made it out the other end
@@whittykins2000 Wow, crazy story mate. My son always said if he hurt her trying to protect himself it would been see as violence against her, so he just took it. That's a terrible story you told there. It's sad when you are the victim but are seen as the perpetrator and wear the consequences. The really disturbing thing here is men are loosing hand over fist and women are gaining more power over us, it's out of control. Endless amount of women in control now (ministers for gender equality, ministers for family violence and ministers for women, lots of them, only focus on women's problems, we have no one in power to help us. We need someone in power with a back bone to create positions equalling the women ministers for our needs. wont happen though. Thanks for the reply mate, stay safe ay
Good to see someone in the public arena calling this toxic media propaganda for precisely what it is. Good work JC
Sadly male unliving themselves from domestic stress is never talked about, which is at least 10 times more likely.
Albo does the entire nation a disservice by getting out of bed every day
Magistrates to be held accountable
This was an excellent report John. Thank you.
Thanks mate. I appreciate you watching.
It'll never be enough, as there is always more power to be taken from victimhood.
Drugs in this country have a lot to answer for.... but this doesn't get addressed
And the rise of online gambling.
Get out of here. Alcohol has the biggest effect on violence in this country and always has. Get a grip mate.
@zorastin Who told ya that the ABC...? you idiot 🤣
Exactly what I was thinking........seems the 'Ministry of Truth' is alive and well in 'The Bush Capital of Wokeness'.
So many tradies get rolled by their female partner, just after the reno of their home is finished. I've been there, and have seen countless of other examples. It's like a formula to get ahead.
Thanks for saying what nobody else has had the balls to point out.
My son was one - his house + my time and 80k too. Methodically planned
Yep, seen so many good mates done over it's so sad.
Seen it happen multiple times. Very common on the Sunny Coast.
And this is why we get married with paperwork folks
reminds me of the guy who took his floor back, ripped up the floor he paid for in his gfs place. we should strive to be like that guy. but like, sneakily. cant do fair stuff like that here because it aint a fair country.
well said my man, you are my new hero!. Other misinformation is pay gap, child support compliance, male privilege, and the patriarchy.
Hello John: Until the middle of last year, I was an active member of the ALP. I became disenchanted over the party's attitude towards men. At the last Federal election, I handed out how to vote cards for my Federal member, a prominent female member of cabinet. I will not vote for her at the next election. Keep up the good work.
Good onya. Now, where do you go from here? I vote independent but you gotta watch them all closely to see who they end up preferencing. Many disgruntled Labor voters will still vote Labor because they are stuck in a rut, kicking the can down the road. They won't vote Liberal and who bloody would either. Go forth!
One interesting phrase attributed to one Josef Stalin is:
"It's not who votes that sounts, but WHO COUNTS THE VOTES.
If "Dominion" ever gets its foot in the door, it will be the signal the the FIX IS IN and is on the hone stretch..
Politics has been feminized. There are women and allies of women. Then there are those who will never be elected.
@@bruceinoz8002 WTF?
@@CRFLAus More people vote for the Coalition than Labor. It is the Greens preferences that get Labor into power.
Totally agree John, this is all political, and women have never been better off and safer . .
Albo's not just engaging in misinformation, it's hate speech.
John - You are only a target if you are - White, Male and Hetro.
Personally i'm over being abused for opening doors, paying for coffee or standing up on a bus for a pregnant or aged woman, all social habits drilled into me by my upbringing and schooling.
I stopped standing up to give pregnant women a seat years ago. Its not my kid and not my problem if they didn't use contraception.
They choose to get pregnant just as I can choose to keep my seat. Who ever impregnated them can worry about providing them a seat.
@ibanezlaney that's a bullshit attitude I will always stand for a pregnant lady because that's what men do.
In America, we don't have much in the way of public transport, so I've been able to go my whole life without standing up for anyone. Just drive everywhere in my ICE truck.
Thanks John, expressed perfectly and you didn't even touch on male suicide due to family courts decisions.
Great job John, quite happy to see someone else also tackling this issue as it is becoming quite an important one and we are going to continue covering this on our channel until the MSM stop with their nonsense. We hope you continue to focus on this as well!
Seen several videos now displaying this data and am now (as if I wasn’t already) convinced that the only thing that is toxic in this country is our government and media 🤷♂️
Our culture has reached a point where those who really do have the relevant leadership ability are avoiding it like the plague.
As a white male aged ver 60, I can only say thank you for bringing a small piece of sanity to this whole discussion. To be labelled as "the problem" is offensive, and does nothing to improve the bigger picture nationally, in fact I would argue it fosters disunity and suspicion of those around us. I love that you use facts and data (what a novel idea!) to show the real situation. Please keep up this great work!!!
Auto Expert John Cadogan's best ever video👏
Completely agree this is a public service announcement
Absolutely so well done, John, on tackling this highly emotive subject with real and unarguable historic data
Plus, not forgetting to mention the forgotten casualties too
BTW, when I hear calls for, "Society must change", instinctively i internally think, "What? Change back to how it was?! Society HAS and IS changing"
Hopefully, Australia's statistics are similar for here in UK - we hope we aren't comparable with USA
Concerning misinformation, isn't it wonderful that the government is exempt from its own laws.
There was one of those hidden camera scenarios with actors in a public place. Man starts up on the woman with a chance of escalating to violence - 3 guys stepped up quickly ready to beat him up. They had to reveal who they were to avoid the male actor getting beaten. When they switched the roles so the woman was the aggressor, women walked past laughing, some suggested whatever he did he deserves it. No one stepped in to stop it. When a woman is violent and presents a real threat to a man and he responds in kind - he is seen as the bad guy because "you don't hit a woman."
If anything the culture is to downplay women's violence. DV by males is the only statistic highlighted. While they ignore the other side, it will ensure it perpetuates, as there will be another generation subject to abuse and when they grow up, male or female - they'll either become the opposite or their brain wiring will see them repeat abusive behaviours.
Feminists have been putting the blame for DV solely on men and downplaying women's part for at least 50 years. Erin Pizzey opened the first DV shelter for women in the UK in the 1970's and her observation was violence was largely reciprocal. The feminists who pushed a different narrative forced her out of the shelter she founded, took control of the funding she fought hard to acquire and then engaged in harassment and threatening behaviour to the point where Scotland Yard made the decision to run her mail through them first for a while. Feminist organisations now control billions of dollars in funding.
Then you have the Duluth model - where part of it was even when women were violent, it was supposedly due to the man being violent/controlling and she was only violent in self defence. This led to Police departments in multiple western countries adopting a policy of automatically taking the man out of the home when called for DV. Even when the man made the call and is obviously injured and she is not. We have moved past that in only the last decade or so as even one of the founders of the Duluth model later admitted major flaws due to their personal bias. I wonder why men are reluctant to report DV?
When Jill Meagher was murdered by repeat violent offender Adrian Bailey in inner city Melbourne a decade or so back, the public wanted him jailed for life and buried under the jail. He got 35 to life. We are all a bunch of evil hairless monkeys and a small portion are more evil and do really messed up stuff. It will never go away. For them we have jail. The regular people - men and women, do not support violence against women. For every wife beater out there, there's often a father, brother or friend that is thinking of giving him a painful lesson.
Women FEEL more vulnerable on the street. Statistics say men are far more at risk. If I'm going to be attacked on the street, my size isn't going to help much when I'm outnumbered 3 to 1, or if the other guy has a knife. If they are out there to attack and rob people, they're going to stack the odds in their favour - because they are cowards and scumbags.
John, you have hit the nail squarely on the head. I congratulate you on your presentation. You speak extremely well on this subject and I am so glad that I am not the only one who thinks the same. Very glad to have found you.
Same sex female relationships have a disproportionate amount of violence. You may also find that none Australian straight couples have a proportionally larger amount of domestic violence.
So how many females in same sex relationships have killed their partner in the last 20 years?
@@allanInghamHigh rates of violence in same sex relationships should be ignored. Got it.
@@allanIngham Are you braindead? Have a look at 10:56.
Did you even watch the video before you start spouting the bullshit that's infested the media and social discourse?
Makes sense, all those scissors ✂️, dangerous stuff. I’ll see myself out…..
@@allanInghamone in Adelaide recently. One wife kill the other because she was having an affair with a, wait for it a man.