They make me wish I knew Korean because they hit most of the boxes on my list of things I want in a guy right off the bat. The few they didn't hit require in person box checking but still omg how are there so many great guys but all are living so far away XD
9:35 That man is an intellectual, "dressing gay" is not a thing and if it is it shouldn't be taken as an insult As all the comments say, I prefer a guy that knows that a man can take care of himself and still not be less man... than a boyfriend with toxic masculinity
I think they worded it wrong, the stereotype I’ve heard is Asian men are effeminate which is different than gay. Probably a mistake in translation. Personally I’d say it’s just a difference in culture, different definitions of what’s masculine. I’d personally say Asian men have a tendency to look a little boyish by western standards of masculinity but not feminine. I think traditionally Asian women have done well by western standards of femininity but Asian men have not done nearly as well by western standards of masculinity, it’ll be interesting to see if this changes due to the increase in popularity of Korean media in the west.
@@knight-v4i A lot of people say that Asian guys look gay. I hear that sometimes and read it very often online. But it is the same thing, the people thinking that usually also think that all gay people are effeminate and that effeminate guys are gay so....
The only reason foreigners say Korean men "dress gay" is because most foreign men (from my experience) have zero fashion sense or lack of skincare routine EDIT: I’m from the South of England.
In my country it's the same thing and I'm sometimes called "gay" for inspiring from koreans (talkng abt hashion) or taking care of my skin. Its annoying. One time a teacher told me that people would make fun of me "because" I look gay but I souldn't care. I know she tried to be nice but I got mad😅
Indeed. I’m very happy to know that some of the younger generation is thinking that way. With my brother being gay, I know what a hard time he had. And that was in America. I don’t even want to think what he would’ve had to go through living in Korea.
to that boy who wants to sit at home and take care of his house and wife: i will gladly be you working wife 🤣 who doesn't do anything in house courses.
@@sasy1533 I feel the same way. I wanna have 5 children and I wanna be a stay at home mom that's always there for them. I have many interests and hobbies but I don't want a career where I can't take time off whenever I want to.
I prefer be with a man who know how to take care of themselves. It makes them look clean. I guess this is one the reason why most girl prefer Korean as well. Edits: Oops. It's not my intention to say 'most'.. I guess I choose a wrong word to use. What I actually mean is not everyone but somehow a lot of girls like Korean looks/styles/fashion (clean-cut look/stylish look. I guess). Sorry for the misunderstanding. English is not my first language. Anyways thanks for the comment tho. I sincerely apologize for my words. ❤️🙏. I learnt from my mistake.
yunsu is attractive in not only his looks but with the way he talks ,, like saying men shouldn’t have to justify why they wear makeup bc wearing makeup isn’t anything bad and talking about how saying someone dresses gay is stereotyping and belittling gays ,,, in conclusion yunsu >>>>
oh, about the “korean men dress gay” thing (9:35).. most foreigners don’t like this stereotype either. it’s mainly perpetuated by kpop-bashers with toxic masculinity and low-self-esteem probably.
I get where you're coming from, but I don't think it's only K-pop-bashers perpetuating the thought. American ideas about male fashion are just so narrow. Even continental European fashion has been portrayed as "gay". And while I think these kind of opinions have mostly slipped into the past, there's definitely a segment of the population who think anything beyond hoodies and flannel is too "girly" for a man. Thank god people are moving on, eh?
@@yichella ya, i never wanted to imply that it was "only kpop bashers" that's why i used the word "mainly" plus other variables but i agree that negative stereotyping based on how someone chooses to dress is 100% something that should be a thing of the past ^^
@@sso_fia_03 Not to be offensive though hahaha But since the thought that a growing number of Filipinas are starting to be fond of Korean men because of either Kdrama or K-pop idols... I guess some Filipinos are starting to 'get into' skin care and some are quite breaking the stereotyping... I don't know if it's being bandwagon or the people are starting to acknowledge the proper hygiene.... But of course there are still Filipinos who are so great at judging others.... If only judging others would cost money, we would be millionaires.... But thank God, "some" people are now starting to be considerate regarding stereotypes P.S. I'm a Filipina 😉
저는 14살 남잔데요 목소리가 많이 얇고 하이톤이여서 그런지 애들이 자꾸 저보고 너 여자야? 이러는데 예전에는 그게 신경쓰이긴 했지만 나중에는 차별같은 거 안 하겠지? 이런 말 안 하겠지? 하면서 살아왔는데 아무리 시간이 지나도 사람들 생각은 쉽게 변하지 않는다는 걸 깨달았어요...
근데 진짜 외국인들 알련진 모르겠는데 원래 화장도, 힐도 다 남자가 먼저 사용했었음.. 그때는 청결? 이런거로 사용했지만 지금은 미를 위해 사용하는거고 남자가 먼저 시작했지만 지금은 여자가 더 많이 하는거 뿐이지 원래는 남자들이 제일 먼저 화장하고 힐 신고 향수 뿌리고 다녔었음..
I like how they used a chili pepper in korean instead of the word. About your clothing, isn't that koreans are more fasionable than other countries. Guys here don't really care about their clothes and skin. I like it that you take care of yourself in that way
This has not really anything to do with being more fashionable. This has more to do with the korean society. In Korea there is this mindset that you have to be goodlooking in order to be successful in life, which is actually extremely toxic. Even young kids are pressured into that. That's also why plastic surgery is a big thing there and even some parents will pay for their high school kids plastic surgery so that kid will be more "beautiful" and successfull in life. As a women you shouldn't go in front of the door without putting on makeup which is insane to me. No one should be allowed to tell another person what to do with their body and what to look like. Yes, Koreans male and female tend to put more effort into their looks than other countries but it is what the korean society requires from them. It's often not really a choice but rather a necessity in order to fit in.
@@xOPowerRangerOx This is sad, but true. I loved that everyone dressed so nicely, even the homeless people around the train stations. I wished my own country did the same - unfortunately its a cultural tradition to get dressed in the dark. But then there is the extreme end when it starts to turn into toxic Lookism. That part I didn't like about Korea. The pretty, handsome or cute people are favoured in every aspect by society as a whole, so the average joe has to work harder to compete and the uglies are unfortunately - sh%t out of luck. Many turn to surgery to either get ahead, or to just even out the playing field. Shallowness and lookism is in every country, including mine, its just amplified a bit more in Korea because the competition and expectation to succeed in life is massive. I had 8 convenient stores on my street all competing for the same customers, they all sold the same stuff so the only way they could compete was to up their level of customer service. Each one got more extreme in politeness and free service to outpace the other. Same with looks, if three people have the same degrees, qualifications and everything else is identical, then best looking would usually get picked for the job. Lucky I'm handsome and shmart.
Sadly if you watched Hello Counselor then you would get so frustrated by how many men think that its a women's job to keep the house clean and take care of the baby etc. 😔
@@lovinglevi1294 I agree and although some youngsters are still keeping the old mindset due to how they were raised (or to benefit them in living as kings), I'm glad that many others can see it's wrong (unless obviously if the woman wants to be a housewife and doesn't like her husband helping out 😂🤣 but that's obviously a different story)
All young young generation Korean couples ( 20''s ~30's) prefer to divide their housekeeping-working part. Otherwise, it is considered to be getting closer to divorce. Everything that a husband doesn't housekeeping is an expression of an old generation and only plays in dramas that want to make a woman a role of victim. movie , drama is not reflection of reality
I found it interesting that the fairer skin conversation ended with a discussion of clearer skin. I wonder if that's a common association there. I think the preference for blemish free, evenly toned skin is common for most people in all/most countries but, complexion doesn't really play a part in that.
I think it is because it is fair skin tones gives a brighter look to the face, making it look healther. I think it also had to do with historical influences like you seemed richer when you had lighter skin, as you didn’t need to work in the fields underneath the sun.
@@abbyl308 I get the historical wealth component but not the health part. People with really fair skin look fragile and sickly to me. I would even say that perhaps the perceived fragility adds to the attractiveness of fair skinned women. But, it doesn't really signal health. And it doesn't mean clear skin. I've seen pale women with really really bad skin.
I know right... kinda bummed that the question was not answered properly. They should have let them talk more :( because it is something that is very common there and should have been addressed more
9:35 😍 waa that was so refreshing to hear that. I really hate it when someone point out people's way to dress up looks like a gay or when they take care of themself they got that prejudice as gay. Its sad that the term of gay itself is being looked on kinda bad side.
In Western countries, we have every right to make them gay, but if you put yourself in their position, in their country, they have every right to do what they do. In the competition in Korean society, where everyone looks good, everyone goes to college, everyone is smart and most of them have a good job, it's not enough just to have money and just be a nice guy. You have to have something else to put on the table. In a society where all the girls have a career, they have a thin body, they care about what they wear, they take care of their hair, what their face looks like, with the best products on the planet, where they always have plastic surgery to fix certain problems, they take care of them at beauty salons, obviously the competition between the guys will be higher.. That is why that dominant man, 30 years ago, from the old Korean movies, who behaves exactly like any Western old man, alcoholic, fat and scandalous, has transformed into the man of today, who takes care of himself, who puts on make-up, who dress fashionable, etc. That just means capitalism, competition and the market. What you ask for versus what you have to offer..
I love how their clothing reflected on their attitude. The guys with pastel colors were all calm and positive but then the guys wearing black were ready to THROW HANDS over being called bad gamers 😂😂
Not everyone tho. I can't get a nice tan, because my skin is so white it probably reflects light... I've never got tanned before, not even a little bit. It's not a problem, I'm confident being a vampire.
Tbh i little bit jealous with fair skin girl. Because i do many efforts to become little bit fair but it still hard. And most men still think that have fair skin is prettier 😭
My skin finally healed during this shit quarantine but it'll all change again in summer... ahhhh But I prefer being as white as milk. YIPPEEE :$ idk me being tanned just doesn't look right rgkihasseg
To Koreans, or I guess most East Asians, the first thing that comes to mind when you say 'foreigner' is westerners, and US and UK are kind of domineering groups in the west
I think they used English just to make an easier comparison since English is a language that not only Americans speak, as they mention Canada, The UK, etc. what means that for an American is easier to marry a foreign from the neighboring countries since they share the same language, but for Koreans, they are surrounded by countries that do not share their same language. I think that's what they were trying to explain.
What I got from what he was saying was that in countries that speak English as a main language or even countries that integrate English in addition to their own language, there are more instances of people marrying people from other English speaking countries. So countries such as Korea or any other country in which there is a language that isn't shared with another country, it's more rare to see people marrying simply due to possible inability to communicate without some effort. They weren't saying that Koreans don't marry foreigners because they speak English, thus a language barrier. Just easier for a larger percentage of the population to marry foreigners if they both come from countries that speak the same language such as English.
게이처럼 입는다 라니....? 질문 자체가 잘못됐네. 미디어가 만든 게이 이미지가 여성스럽고 화려하게 입어서 그렇지, 실제 게이들한테도 그런 사람들은 인기도 많지 않을 뿐더러 소수중에 또 더 소수일뿐이고, 오히려 이성애자 남자들보다 운동 더 하고 몸관리하고 남자다운 사람들이 비율로 상대적으로 많다. 게이들 중에서도 여성스러운 남자는 인기가 없기 때문에 혹여나 본성이 그렇다 하더라도 운동하면서 남자다운 이미지를 주려고 노력한다. 그리고 요새 커밍아웃하는거 아니고 정말 미디어에 나오는 그런 게이분들 아닌 이상 이성애자인지 동성애자인지 전혀 모른다
Right?! Everyone was talking about the allblack look guy, who is actually really fine dont get me wrong, but the other dudeee excuse meeee hes the embodiment of pretty boy, even the way he talked and moved his hands
They don't care because they know the girls are desperate, and in the end they will come to them. Between us, the guys, if we see a guy who takes more care of him, we immediately realize that he is just a ''try hard'', desperate for pussy, has mental problems, is desperate for attention, has a small penis, or is gay. For us, girls have to make sacrifices, not us. If we have a well-paid job, a car, a house, and some money, we've done our part. We have what we need to survive, the girls have to decide, because their parents won't last them long, and we know that..
혼자살때는 집안일 잘하다 꼭 결혼하면 여자가 주로 떠맞게 되는거 팩트~우리 부모임도 맞벌이지만 엄마가 집안일 다 주로 도맞아하고 아빠는 가끔 하는걸 겁나 도와준다하고 생색냄 반면 현재 사귀는 캐네디언 남다친구 동거한후로 전적으로 척척 집안일 알아서 함. 군대에서 요즘 배워오는게 똥군기던데? ㅋㅋ
I do wish the fairer skin comment was talked about more or maybe a separate video. I understand this can be a mix of colorism/racism and/or beauty standards but how they influence people's actions overall is really interesting. It may be strange to me how the dude in black even thought himself to be tanner, but from my experiences it isn't etc
My friend who’s dark skinned went to Korea for a little and came back really fast cause she said because of the beauty standard over there and Koreans comments about her she started starving herself and wanted to bleach her skin. It was horrible
Fairer skin equating to beauty in Korea is actually not race based as many presume who are from outside of Korea as they are so used to it being the case in their own country. People wanting to seen more white. Instead, as Korea and Japan are the only two Asian countries that were never colonized by Europeans, it's a classist beauty ideal. Fairer skin generally meant you were wealthy and didn't have to work out in the sun. Koreans can actually get fairly dark in the skin tones but they just aren't seen much in media unless they are dark from tanning. I'd say he was on the light tan side on the Korean scale from (naturally) white as a ghost to darker than a tan would look. Of course the natural extremes are rarer than the middle fair to slightly tan looking skin shades.
@@tkim2320 Yes I know this. I mean it would be interesting to see this brought up in one of their videos. And this classist colorism causes a lot of harm from what I've studied especially for Koreans who are naturally tanner and just another one of the difficult beauty standards they hold so highly and not just a mere preference or kind of beauty.
I like men that take care of themselves. There’s nothing wrong with men doing so, it’s appealing to the eyes. I don’t think it should be called “gay”,that’s messed up.
10:11 "But there are thankfully these people who are resisting to that kind of stereotype (Dressing up is gay)" "BTS" "because of them, these days, Korean guys wear what they want with more pride" 💜💜💜💜💜
I like the effort and time they put into their skin and paying attention to their fashion and bodies. I legit cannot express how much I get disappointed by the men in my country 😂😂😂 keep it up boys, for yourselves and significant others
@@유쓰-x4l 아님. 케바케이긴 하지만 집안일을 주로 안하는건 부모님세대에서 남자들이 주로 가부장적인 인식을 갖고있어서 그 시대 사람들이 대부분 그러는거고 요즘 젊은층 사람들은 안그럼. 저도 고3이라 수험생활때문에 바쁘지만 부모님이 맞벌이셔서 형이랑 나랑 번갈아가면서 빨래하고 설거지하고 청소기까지 다돌림
Yooo imagine pulling up to a date and your partner goes like "okay but like your face is being real mean right now" because you didnt get any make up done😂😂😂
Boi I love the one, who said, that the question about 'dressing gay' in itself was wrong, since it was belittling and degrading gay people. Like he's woke. I love him!
@@김세연-b4p the whole idea that there even is something like dressing gay wth ... Their view of the world and what dressing nicely is seems off for those people
Why even ask the question OF COARSE they prefer women with fairer/white skin 🤦🏽♀️ and the first Asian guy I dated rocked my world 😍 his mom didn’t like the relationship because I was black his dad loved me he was so so sweet they moved back to Korea and my ex still had a kid by a Black woman 🤗 love wins
YunSu really called out toxic masculinity like that 👏👏👏👏 And yeah, I studied abroad in Asia for a year and was very sad to return to the world of American fashion.
6:32 had me dying!!! Also I love how they all answered the question towards the whole "gay" stereotype. They were on point with getting rid of the toxic and disgusting masculinity image, people have towards men. The fact that they were respectful and straightforward about how many people are really quick to judge and are just very toxic towards the image of men. Also one last thing I loved as well was how they talked about BTS and their influence on getting rid of such stereotypes (not too mention many other groups do as well) was really touching.
as someone with darker skin I'm disappointed that colourism still exists in Korea to this extent - i love how they dodged the question and started talking about "clear skin" instead as if most foreigners who are darker don't have clear skin...
9:35 THAT GUY!!! I APPLAUD YOUR THAT POWERFUL STATEMENT OF YOURS!!!! 👏👏👏 the fact that people use “gay” as an insult lining with cowardliness or weakness shows how low they are like c’mon gurl Gay people are stronger because no matter how many people throw stick and stones at them, they remain standing and build a house out of it. STAY PRESSEDT.
The answers for the last question are deeply concerning. The way they think ‘fair whiter skin’ is ‘clean and clear skin’ is sooo problematic 🤯 colorism and obsession with whiteness literally makes up korean beauty standards and they automatically think people who are tanner or darker are less beautiful/not clean. Gross.
Rhea Gupta THANK YOU !!!! I was kinda shocked with the excuse “ we like skin without imperfections that’s maybe why we like fair skin girls “ it’s just a stupid excuse I’m a guy I have a tone of korean friends and I can see the colorist sooo bad, and for you’re information darker skin have less problems so much less blemish really slow aging less subject of pimples and all
Well obviously Koreans aren't born black. They are one of the countries that has the fairest skin in Asia. The sun can cause quite a lot of skin problems so obviously fairer skin's gonna mean "less sun" and "less sun" is gonna mean "clearer skin" and "clearer skin" is gonna be most people's preference. Just because they prefer fair and clear skin doesn't mean they think tanned/dark skins are gross and not clean.🤦♀️
닷다다 Koreans aren’t born white either ! Some might be born with natural pale skin but a lot of them aren’t! Since pale skin is their preference, many of them bleach 💀 a lot Koreans and other Asians don’t find dark skin attractive
They are so open minded and respectful, they answered all the question with smile on their face and they didn't seem offended, those people are good people
게이처럼 옷을 입는다는게 비하하는 의도로 한 말이라고 생각되지 않습니다. 기분나쁘게 받아들이시는분에게 게이라는 존재가 비하하는 의도로 들리기 때문에 기분이 나쁘게 느껴지신것 같습니다. 게이같이 옷입는게 싫다고 생각하진 않는것 같습니다. 물론 싫다고 생각하는 사람도 있겠죠 그런데 뭐 그런사람들까지 상대하고 삽니까 그냥 내가 그렇게 입어도 좋다는사람들만 있으면 되는거죠. 설사 아무도 안좋아해도 나만 좋으면 그만인걸... 게이같이 옷입는다고 해도 화내지 마세요. 그냥 다니엘 헤니처럼 옷 입었다. 혹은 회사원 처럼 옷 입었다. 하는 비유라고 생각해보세용
Well, I'm gay even I only moisturize and cleanse my skin. Most western men don't care about that but it is changing. And, there is definitely a difference between how kpop stars and regular citizens wear makeup so maybe that's why people think Korean's are effeminate? Before I visted Korea I thought a lot of koreans dressed and looked like that. And I wouldn't say Koreans dress gay, I always thought of it to be very well fashioned in a European way but with it's own look. And in regards to size..um...lol. no comment. All that matters is how you use it haha. I always think Koreans are gamers because I am but my friends don't play any games! But, my friends and other Korean's I met loved to beat me at darts. There a dart boards everywhere!
자기기준이 편견이될순없는건데.. 자기가 맞으면 무조건맞다고하는 사람들 인정을 못하는사람들 남들이자기한테머라고하면 욕할것들이 남들먼저까는사람들 강요하지마요 작을수도있는거고 여자보다 이쁠수도있는거고 남자보다 듬직할수있는거고! 그냥 그런사람이구나 하고 생각하면되는데.. 보면 아 저사람게이같다.. 아니면? 아 아니구나로 끝날일임? 평생그럴건가? 자기기준에 남을 저울질하지말라고!
Their responses were very good. You have to look at the Korean culture, background to understand from where that sort of answer comes. Don't call people ignorant, when you are ignorant yourself. My two cents.
From what I see they are excusing themselves about not marrying foreigners because of the barrier language, but I believe that's not the problem. Obviously when you think of marrying someone you must have had a long relationship with them and been able to talk and know about each other. As well, when foreigners go to live to Korea for a long period of time, I believe that at some point they learn the language or also there are people who have studied korean and they know how to speak it perfectly. I think that there is another excuse more realistic about why they don't marry foreigners, maybe it's because the traditions or maybe because their parents or maybe because they don't take foreigners seriously. In addition, I would like to mention that foreigners aren't only Americans or Brits, there are plenty more people from other countries in the world such as Spanish, French, Italian, German, Swedish, Russian, Japanese, Chinese, Filipinos, Moroccan...
Emily B There arent that many foreigners in korea that speak korean... foreigners from developing countries (philippines, uzbek, etc) are usually workers and they dont have the time to learn. Foreigners from the west (us, brit, french etc) never really make the effort. They want koreans to speak their language in korea and many still have a huugeee superiority complex over asians in general.
The interest in Korean guys from Western girls has really peaked because of Kpop. I think there is more of a problem with Westerners feeling entitled to attention and attraction from Korean guys and getting upset when they seem to really only want to date Koreans, which the majority seem to. Korea is not a melting pot like most Western countries so they are more likely to stick to what they know and expectations. However, it is very disrespectful to Koreans and Korean women to think that Korean men only don't date foreigners because of societal and parental pressure. Some people just prefer to date interculturally and not out. Some Westerners think there attitudes towards marriage and dating need to change just because they are attracted to Korean men all of a sudden.
@@wonseokchoi4203 Well I can't assure if there is many or not foreigners in Korea because I never have been there. But I believe that making the statement that all people from the west don't make any effort is being quite biased from koreaboos and people who thinks they are superior. I am not going to deny the fact that there is people who act and think that way because is the truth and they exist. But because some people act that way and they stand out more it doesn't mean that everyone is like that. I'm pretty sure there are foreign men and women in Korea who speak the language and live a normal life.
@@PieceMeals I really agree with your opinion and I also believe that a lot of Western girls and guys have a crush on Koreans just because of the image that K-pop has brought to the west. But I also must say that not everyone is in the same bag, there's also people who aren't obsessed with Koreans and K-pop or any other influential stuff and they just want to date someone they met and like. In addition from what you mentioned about not being respectful to Koreans I must disagree. When Koreans don't want to date foreigners since the beginning because they don't want I completely understand and I don't see any problems at all. The problem starts when Koreans start dating someone who's foreigner and when the things get serious they backup with excuses like the cultural difference, language, parents approval, society pressure and many other things. That's just a lack of compromising within the relationship. In that situation I believe that some Koreans, not all of them as I said before that not everyone is in the same bag, are also just interested in dating foreigners because what they see in the movies and as well because they find them something exotic, new and a trophy to show it off. In conclusion I think every country cas it's cons and pros, not all westerns are good or bad and not all Koreans are good or bad.
남자들은 크기, 테크닉 이야기 말고 애무 스킬을 늘려야 함.... 여자 90%가 평생 오르가즘을 못 느낀다는 통계가 있는데!!!!!!!!! 남자들이 얼마나 못하길래 여자가 90%나 불만족해 ㅋㅋㅋ 여자들은 삽입으로 절정에 잘 안 가기 때문에 클리토리스를 잘 애무해줘야 함.
Guys, just wear anything that can make you feel confident 💜 if you love a certain look, just go for it. We are all different and unique, so show the world who you are!
I've asked my male Korean friends and they all said that they would like to experience having a foreign girlfriend BUT they all also hesitated when asked if they'd marry one. The most common reason is their parents wouldn't approve of a foreign daughter-in-law. On the other hand, my female Korean friends very much welcome the idea of having a foreign boyfriend or husband, and even their parents wouldn't disapprove of a non-Korean son-in-law. It seems parents' approval have a heavy influence on them. I don't know the reasons but I'm guessing it could be because usually sons often still take care of their parents in their old-age and even live together and if they have a foreign wife then the elders would have to worry about cultural and language differences with their daughter-in-law. whilst daughters often move into the family of their husband so they have no problem and they even get excited about having cute mixed-race grandchildren. maybe this show can have elderly Koreans as guests to get some insights.
Because people can’t learn a language🙄 I honestly think it’s because western girls are usually more opinionated and vocal about it. If we were to stereotype ofc. It seemslike in Korea, Korean females are still looked upon as weak, submissive etc...
It’s so true that the guy brought up BTS at 10:13 because BTS don’t feel pressure to submit to toxic masculinity while in America. Despite the rude comments thrown at them, they don’t hide who they are. They are comfortable in their bodies, and dress/express themselves how they want!! They aren’t afraid to be affectionate on American TV. Namjoon even said to a reporter at the BBMA red carpet that he doesn’t use gendered lyrics and acknowledged LGBT Armys. 💜
I love the way Korean men dress. To me, they dress the best 😌 it’s not a matter of dressing “gay”, they have great style and can pretty much rock anything they wear.
They were talking about how good looking men are a stereotype, but they themselves look really cute to me ahah Yunsu guy somehow reminds me of RM, especially when he smiles))) And JunHyoung is such a sweetheart for wanting to take care of his wife❤ why aren't there any guys like that in my country(((
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I would legit marry that dude explaining why dressing up shouldn't be considered gay
They make me wish I knew Korean because they hit most of the boxes on my list of things I want in a guy right off the bat. The few they didn't hit require in person box checking but still omg how are there so many great guys but all are living so far away XD
yessss he's good looking and open minded
me too haha
SAME
Me too
9:35 That man is an intellectual, "dressing gay" is not a thing and if it is it shouldn't be taken as an insult
As all the comments say, I prefer a guy that knows that a man can take care of himself and still not be less man... than a boyfriend with toxic masculinity
Also, He's HOT!!!
I think they worded it wrong, the stereotype I’ve heard is Asian men are effeminate which is different than gay. Probably a mistake in translation. Personally I’d say it’s just a difference in culture, different definitions of what’s masculine. I’d personally say Asian men have a tendency to look a little boyish by western standards of masculinity but not feminine.
I think traditionally Asian women have done well by western standards of femininity but Asian men have not done nearly as well by western standards of masculinity, it’ll be interesting to see if this changes due to the increase in popularity of Korean media in the west.
@@knight-v4i A lot of people say that Asian guys look gay. I hear that sometimes and read it very often online.
But it is the same thing, the people thinking that usually also think that all gay people are effeminate and that effeminate guys are gay so....
해석해주실분 구합니다
@@NaegeruGaming I advocate for them to come to Miami. Def will change their minds about gays being effeminate.
The only reason foreigners say Korean men "dress gay" is because most foreign men (from my experience) have zero fashion sense or lack of skincare routine EDIT: I’m from the South of England.
Where do you live 😂? Most of the guys I’m around have good fashion sense and they take care of their skin ( and they’re straight)
In my country it's the same thing and I'm sometimes called "gay" for inspiring from koreans (talkng abt hashion) or taking care of my skin. Its annoying. One time a teacher told me that people would make fun of me "because" I look gay but I souldn't care. I know she tried to be nice but I got mad😅
America. Lol I'm from North America and Jesus the people are a bit dirty
@@IamYoZen this is just a question but why don't (some) American people wash their asses after pooping???? Why are they only using tissue
Živilė Dulevičiūtė “.......no :/“ MADE ME SCREAM LMAOOOO
The guy in the black on the right is husband material. Calling out internalized misogyny and homophobia and looking good doing it. We stan.
he’s woke AND cute. he can get it any day ngl
@@danzniela for real
I got so happy at that damn
I thought the dame throughout the video.
If radical leftist Marxism is your thing. Not for me thanks, we get enough of that division and hatred causing rubbish here in the west.
"it's not like i can show you my giant dark dragon" HSJKSHSHJS WHAT
Same loool
Lol I was imagining the ender dragon
09:35 YES KING GO OFF, homeboy talking about how problematic toxic masculinity and homophobia is, we love to see that
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
yesss 👏🏾👏🏾
He spoke really well.
Indeed. I’m very happy to know that some of the younger generation is thinking that way. With my brother being gay, I know what a hard time he had. And that was in America. I don’t even want to think what he would’ve had to go through living in Korea.
thought that too
"Chocolate abs"
Choi Minho's epic stage performance dominates my mind 99.9%
Thats what came to my the second i heard "chocolate abs"
@@hikhuhishi444 You are from India?
I thought the same thing 😭 especially when they started talking about military service, he’s in the marines...
@@akshayak2955 yes😁
🤦♀️❤❤❤🤦♀️🤦♀️
“Do you have abs?”
“When I sneeze, a bit.”
😂 Not even 5 minutes in and I’m dying of laughter! 🤣
😅😅👍
Epick moment xd
I think all girs prefer a guy who is clean!!!
YES🙌🏼
Yass
😂😂😂
I definitely do lol
YES
to that boy who wants to sit at home and take care of his house and wife: i will gladly be you working wife 🤣 who doesn't do anything in house courses.
I'm the opposite plis lord don't let me work...
Ill gladly mantain the house and cook than deal with bosses and clients and just people
Preferences
@@sasy1533 I feel the same way. I wanna have 5 children and I wanna be a stay at home mom that's always there for them. I have many interests and hobbies but I don't want a career where I can't take time off whenever I want to.
Takiyah Walker I wanna have 3 or 4, only one girl uwu
He was being sarcastic 😂🤣
I think he was being sarcastic😅😂
동물의 숲 나라별 특징
미국: 천천히 섬을 꾸미며 친구들과 교류를 하며 느긋하게 즐긴다.
일본: 역시 섬을 꾸미면서 논다, 특히 디자인 꾸미기를 좋아한다.
한국: 수단과 방법을 가리지 않고 빚부터 갚고 시작을 한다.
주로 무트코인을 많이한다
한국 사람중: 동물의 숲 없다
ㅠ
@솔찬히구독해써나나나즨챠로 내가 이상민 이었으면 자살함 그걸 갚을생각을 하네ㄷㄷ
@@누구시져-w3x 갚을 생각 안하면 사람리 아니지
중국: 시위한다. 결국 시진핑핑이한테 동숲 영구 압수당함ㅋ
Does anyone have that guys insta that went off about how problematic toxic masulinity and homophobia is bc whoooooosh hes pretty
I think maybe he either doesn’t have one or didn’t want his to be shown :(((((
Asdfghjkl yessss
i want it too
Right??? His insights made it twenty times better
Lol
뭔가 윤수님 생각하시는 게 되게 건강해보여서 보기 넘 좋당
my exact thoughts.
사랑해 윤수.....
맞아요
그치
귀여워요 ㅋㅋ
I prefer be with a man who know how to take care of themselves. It makes them look clean. I guess this is one the reason why most girl prefer Korean as well.
Edits: Oops. It's not my intention to say 'most'.. I guess I choose a wrong word to use. What I actually mean is not everyone but somehow a lot of girls like Korean looks/styles/fashion (clean-cut look/stylish look. I guess). Sorry for the misunderstanding. English is not my first language. Anyways thanks for the comment tho. I sincerely apologize for my words. ❤️🙏. I learnt from my mistake.
Most girls? You sure? 😂
I wouldn't say most girls.... not everyones type is Korean
Hell no gurrlll 😂 my type is faarrr away to be Korean hahaha
@@user-pc3vs3bd4j being clean and well dressed doesn't mean 'korean man'.
Most girls?..no I prefer my black men 😊
yunsu is attractive in not only his looks but with the way he talks ,, like saying men shouldn’t have to justify why they wear makeup bc wearing makeup isn’t anything bad and talking about how saying someone dresses gay is stereotyping and belittling gays ,,, in conclusion yunsu >>>>
확실히 서양 남자들이 나도 외국갈때마다 느끼는건데 꾸미지 않고 대충 다니면서 그게 남자답다는 의식이 너무 쎄서 차별이 일단 뇌에 박혀서 태어나나봄 흑백/젠더관련 다 차별을 베이스로 놓고 태어나는듯
ㅇㅈ..이제 선진국칭호 박탈할때 됐다...
맞아요 외국남자들은 스킨로션 안바르고 수염기르고 인상팍쓰고 주름끼고 다니는게 마초스럽고 좋은거라고 생각함
아니 왜 꾸미는게 남성성이 없는거지,, 시대가 얼마나 지났는데 꾸미지 않는 것을 남성성으로 보는 외국이 참 ㅋㅋㅋ
의외로 외국이 보수적인 부분이 많음..
은근 그런부분에선 외국 ㅈㄴ 보수적임 막 외국은 핑크색옷 남자가 입으면 게이로본다던데(미국사는친구가 얘기해줌
근데 오히려 외국인은 한국와서 남자가 꾸민다고 놀람
근데 남성성이 없는게 나쁜건 아니잖아요... 남성성 없는 남자가 좋을수도 있는거고 어떤사람 눈엔 그게 남성적인걸로 보일수도 있는건데 다만 스타일이 다를뿐... 외국에서도 남성성 없다는말이 다 나쁜의도로 받아들여지지는 않아요 제 주변이 급진적 사람들이어서 그런지는 모르겠지만요
외국은 외모적으로 여자는 여자대로 남자든 남자대로 억압하는 게 굉장히 많은 듯
oh, about the “korean men dress gay” thing (9:35).. most foreigners don’t like this stereotype either. it’s mainly perpetuated by kpop-bashers with toxic masculinity and low-self-esteem probably.
I get where you're coming from, but I don't think it's only K-pop-bashers perpetuating the thought.
American ideas about male fashion are just so narrow. Even continental European fashion has been portrayed as "gay". And while I think these kind of opinions have mostly slipped into the past, there's definitely a segment of the population who think anything beyond hoodies and flannel is too "girly" for a man. Thank god people are moving on, eh?
@@yichella ya, i never wanted to imply that it was "only kpop bashers" that's why i used the word "mainly" plus other variables
but i agree that negative stereotyping based on how someone chooses to dress is 100% something that should be a thing of the past ^^
Uh no, this is seen everywhere in the states. I used to think that way too, not any more of course.
@@sso_fia_03 Not to be offensive though hahaha
But since the thought that a growing number of Filipinas are starting to be fond of Korean men because of either Kdrama or K-pop idols... I guess some Filipinos are starting to 'get into' skin care and some are quite breaking the stereotyping... I don't know if it's being bandwagon or the people are starting to acknowledge the proper hygiene....
But of course there are still Filipinos who are so great at judging others....
If only judging others would cost money, we would be millionaires....
But thank God, "some" people are now starting to be considerate regarding stereotypes
P.S. I'm a Filipina 😉
저도 꾸미는남자 게이같다 이말싫어해요ㅋ 꾸미는게 여성스럽다는거가 여자만꾸며야되는거다라는 성구분짓는거고 여성스러운남자는 게이다 성소수자차별이고 걍 끔찍한혼종 외국이오히려 외면으로는 남녀더구분짓는듯해요
"너 여자같아" 이러면 별 말을 안 붙여도 사치스러운 것, 꾸미는 것을 좋아한다, 까칠하다(무튼 이것들이랑 비슷한 뉘앙스)는 게 되어버려서 좀 소름돋는다 절대 좋은 방향으로 해석이 안 됨
여자같다 남자같다 이런 말은 좀 지양했으면 좋겠음; 나긋하다 여리하다 묵묵하다 든든하다 이렇게 여러가지 표현이 있는데 성 구분짓는 단어 좀 안 썼으면 ㄹㅇ
외국은 마초이즘이 되게되개되게 강하더라구요
우리나라가 남자도 꾸미고 이런거에 되게 개방적이고 나머지나라들은 다 보수적임 로션만 발라도 게이냐고 욕먹고 ㅋㅋ 프리티걸~~하면서 조롱당함
저는 14살 남잔데요 목소리가 많이 얇고 하이톤이여서 그런지 애들이 자꾸 저보고 너 여자야? 이러는데 예전에는 그게 신경쓰이긴 했지만 나중에는 차별같은 거 안 하겠지? 이런 말 안 하겠지? 하면서 살아왔는데 아무리 시간이 지나도 사람들 생각은 쉽게 변하지 않는다는 걸 깨달았어요...
근데 진짜 외국인들 알련진 모르겠는데 원래 화장도, 힐도 다 남자가 먼저 사용했었음.. 그때는 청결? 이런거로 사용했지만 지금은 미를 위해 사용하는거고 남자가 먼저 시작했지만 지금은 여자가 더 많이 하는거 뿐이지 원래는 남자들이 제일 먼저 화장하고 힐 신고 향수 뿌리고 다녔었음..
근데 애초에 남자들이 힐을 신고 다녔을때는 지금이랑은 용도가 달랐음
pre sent ㄴㄴ미를 위해서도 했었음
오 진짜요???
@@present699 그쵸 그때는 화장실이란 계념이 아예 없어서 길거리에 용변 누고 그런 상황에 만들어진게 힐이였으니까요. 하지만 미의 용도로 사용하는 사람들도 있었어요.
@@유하람-d5z 넹 원래는 남자가 먼저 시작했어요.
I like how they used a chili pepper in korean instead of the word. About your clothing, isn't that koreans are more fasionable than other countries. Guys here don't really care about their clothes and skin. I like it that you take care of yourself in that way
Saskia that’s because in korean we call p*nis chilli pepper haha
Chili pepper is the word for d*ick tho lol
This has not really anything to do with being more fashionable. This has more to do with the korean society. In Korea there is this mindset that you have to be goodlooking in order to be successful in life, which is actually extremely toxic. Even young kids are pressured into that. That's also why plastic surgery is a big thing there and even some parents will pay for their high school kids plastic surgery so that kid will be more "beautiful" and successfull in life. As a women you shouldn't go in front of the door without putting on makeup which is insane to me. No one should be allowed to tell another person what to do with their body and what to look like.
Yes, Koreans male and female tend to put more effort into their looks than other countries but it is what the korean society requires from them. It's often not really a choice but rather a necessity in order to fit in.
@@xOPowerRangerOx
This is sad, but true.
I loved that everyone dressed so nicely, even the homeless people around the train stations. I wished my own country did the same - unfortunately its a cultural tradition to get dressed in the dark.
But then there is the extreme end when it starts to turn into toxic Lookism. That part I didn't like about Korea. The pretty, handsome or cute people are favoured in every aspect by society as a whole, so the average joe has to work harder to compete and the uglies are unfortunately - sh%t out of luck.
Many turn to surgery to either get ahead, or to just even out the playing field.
Shallowness and lookism is in every country, including mine, its just amplified a bit more in Korea because the competition and expectation to succeed in life is massive.
I had 8 convenient stores on my street all competing for the same customers, they all sold the same stuff so the only way they could compete was to up their level of customer service. Each one got more extreme in politeness and free service to outpace the other.
Same with looks, if three people have the same degrees, qualifications and everything else is identical, then best looking would usually get picked for the job.
Lucky I'm handsome and shmart.
Saskia It’s the same word in korean
I never thought the "don't do house work" whould be on there lol Everytime I see Korean couple vlog they always tidy the house together
Sadly if you watched Hello Counselor then you would get so frustrated by how many men think that its a women's job to keep the house clean and take care of the baby etc. 😔
Happily the youth are trying to change the narrative of a happy relationship in Korea(other countries as well..getting tired of the BS) it seems
@@lovinglevi1294 I agree and although some youngsters are still keeping the old mindset due to how they were raised (or to benefit them in living as kings), I'm glad that many others can see it's wrong (unless obviously if the woman wants to be a housewife and doesn't like her husband helping out 😂🤣 but that's obviously a different story)
Seonghwa has officially joined the chat. Like that man is a clean freak in the group
All young young generation Korean couples ( 20''s ~30's) prefer to divide their housekeeping-working part. Otherwise, it is considered to be getting closer to divorce. Everything that a husband doesn't housekeeping is an expression of an old generation and only plays in dramas that want to make a woman a role of victim. movie , drama is not reflection of reality
I found it interesting that the fairer skin conversation ended with a discussion of clearer skin. I wonder if that's a common association there. I think the preference for blemish free, evenly toned skin is common for most people in all/most countries but, complexion doesn't really play a part in that.
Thank you for saying that I was looking for someone to speak about that, clear skin comes in all skin tones.
I think it is because it is fair skin tones gives a brighter look to the face, making it look healther. I think it also had to do with historical influences like you seemed richer when you had lighter skin, as you didn’t need to work in the fields underneath the sun.
Me, a tan girl looking for someone to comment about the fair skin question 👁👄👁
Until I came across this comment yay!
@@abbyl308 I get the historical wealth component but not the health part. People with really fair skin look fragile and sickly to me. I would even say that perhaps the perceived fragility adds to the attractiveness of fair skinned women. But, it doesn't really signal health. And it doesn't mean clear skin. I've seen pale women with really really bad skin.
I know right... kinda bummed that the question was not answered properly. They should have let them talk more :( because it is something that is very common there and should have been addressed more
아니 ㅈㄴ 개웃기는겤ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 영상이 한국남자들을 향한 편견인데 외국인들 쌉많은데다가 다들 막 공감하고있음 시발ㅋㅋㅌㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅌㅌ명예코리안들
시켜줘, 너의 명예 코리안 🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷
동양권은 남자성기를 이모티콘🌶로 표현하는데 외국은 🍆로 표현함
+) 그냥 있는 그대로 사실을 말한건데 왜이렇게 다들 예민하신지ㅠㅠ비하하려는 의도 없었어요...
발음이 똑같아서 그렇게 쓰는 겁니다...
그럴거야......ㅠ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ작아서!! 작아서!!! 고추가 작아서!! 가지는 크다!!
@솔찬히구독해써나나나즨챠로 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
왜 발음이 그렇게됐겠어요 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 크기가 고만해서..그런거..ㅠ
심지어 프랑스는 바게트로 표현함 ㅋㅋㅋ 한국 사우나 갔다온 친구가 ㄹㅇ 한국남자들 작다고 그럼. 어떤놈은 지 엄지 손가락도 아니고 “엄지손톱만했다“고 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
3:42준형오빠 저 케어해주면서 살래요...? 전 내조해주는 남편 먹여살리기가 꿈이에요.... 천생연분인듯; 식 어디서 올릴까 오빠 나 벌써 묘자리도 알아놨어
저도 준형오빠 보급해주세요ㅠㅜ 제가 먹여살릴수있는데ㅠㅜ
오... 내꿈도 가정주부인데 생각보다 희망적일수도? 최소 두명은 있네
9:35 😍 waa that was so refreshing to hear that. I really hate it when someone point out people's way to dress up looks like a gay or when they take care of themself they got that prejudice as gay. Its sad that the term of gay itself is being looked on kinda bad side.
I came to the comment section to see whether anyone pointed that out or not😊 I was impressed❤
Yes. I agree. Also, the guy is HOT!!!
In Western countries, we have every right to make them gay, but if you put yourself in their position, in their country, they have every right to do what they do. In the competition in Korean society, where everyone looks good, everyone goes to college, everyone is smart and most of them have a good job, it's not enough just to have money and just be a nice guy. You have to have something else to put on the table.
In a society where all the girls have a career, they have a thin body, they care about what they wear, they take care of their hair, what their face looks like, with the best products on the planet, where they always have plastic surgery to fix certain problems, they take care of them at beauty salons, obviously the competition between the guys will be higher..
That is why that dominant man, 30 years ago, from the old Korean movies, who behaves exactly like any Western old man, alcoholic, fat and scandalous, has transformed into the man of today, who takes care of himself, who puts on make-up, who dress fashionable, etc. That just means capitalism, competition and the market. What you ask for versus what you have to offer..
Everyone is so funny and their opinions widely vary. I love how they select the topics too!
드라마나 kpop이 유행하면서 모든 한국 남자는 잘생겼다고 루머가 퍼짐
현실 길바닥 지나다니면 조주빈 문형욱같은 와꾸 30명은 만남
@@TT-zu7cb 가로수길 카페에 죽치고 앉아있는 성괴들 5조5억명씩 만남
근데 실제 한국와서 보면 와르르맨션ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 내 외국인 룸메가 한국 첨왔을때 남자들 얼굴보고 우울해져서 tv만 봤다고 했음ㅋㅋㅋ
@@KANGJUNE 차라리 성괴가 낫지..ㅋㅋ..ㅋㅋ
@@3412-x8d 그게 낫냐ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
I love how their clothing reflected on their attitude. The guys with pastel colors were all calm and positive but then the guys wearing black were ready to THROW HANDS over being called bad gamers 😂😂
"Likes women with fair skin"
*me that probably has a vitamin D deficiency*
Noice.
with this ongoing quarantine, I honestly look like a ghost, one more month isolated at home and I'll be transparent xD
Iron, biotin, and vitamin d squad wya
Not everyone tho. I can't get a nice tan, because my skin is so white it probably reflects light... I've never got tanned before, not even a little bit. It's not a problem, I'm confident being a vampire.
Tbh i little bit jealous with fair skin girl. Because i do many efforts to become little bit fair but it still hard. And most men still think that have fair skin is prettier 😭
My skin finally healed during this shit quarantine but it'll all change again in summer... ahhhh But I prefer being as white as milk. YIPPEEE :$ idk me being tanned just doesn't look right rgkihasseg
*do you have abs?* "When I sneeze, just a bit" LMAO
이런 말을해서 미안하지만 한국인이 말하고 싶지 않더라도 작은 페니를 가지고 있다는 것은 사실입니다
...동양인다그래..한국만 그...그런게..아니라구!
근데 발기안됫을때 존나 커도 ㅃ아서 키워주면 기대이하인 ㅈ도 많아 반대인경우도 많고
근데 무조건 크다해셔 할 때 좋은건 아님...ㅋ 아파
동양인이라 그나마 당당하다...
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Not all foreigners speak English tho :’0 you could just say there’s a language barrier
To Koreans, or I guess most East Asians, the first thing that comes to mind when you say 'foreigner' is westerners, and US and UK are kind of domineering groups in the west
And that foreigner could be fluent in Korean or at least speak it almost fluently so there will not always be a language barrier
I think they used English just to make an easier comparison since English is a language that not only Americans speak, as they mention Canada, The UK, etc. what means that for an American is easier to marry a foreign from the neighboring countries since they share the same language, but for Koreans, they are surrounded by countries that do not share their same language. I think that's what they were trying to explain.
@Ren sometimes its not just the language barrier but also the cultural differences.
What I got from what he was saying was that in countries that speak English as a main language or even countries that integrate English in addition to their own language, there are more instances of people marrying people from other English speaking countries. So countries such as Korea or any other country in which there is a language that isn't shared with another country, it's more rare to see people marrying simply due to possible inability to communicate without some effort. They weren't saying that Koreans don't marry foreigners because they speak English, thus a language barrier. Just easier for a larger percentage of the population to marry foreigners if they both come from countries that speak the same language such as English.
진짜 큰 사람들은 별말안함 작은사람들만 화내면서 말하지
@@skskdkdkdk 사람을 성기로 부르는게 추잡해서 듣기 싫어요
@@skskdkdkdk 임상완료
별말은 안하는건 맞는데
작아서 화내는거라고 갈라치기 하는애들 보면 안쓰럽고 ㅈ같긴 함ㅋㅋ
잠재적범죄자라는 말 듣고 기분안나빠야 정상이라는데 뭘 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
그렇게 다들 입다물고 있으니까 말도안되는 저런 루머로 전세계가 작다고 선입견 생겨버린거지 정신좀 차려라진짜
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게이처럼 입는다 라니....? 질문 자체가 잘못됐네. 미디어가 만든 게이 이미지가 여성스럽고 화려하게 입어서 그렇지, 실제 게이들한테도 그런 사람들은 인기도 많지 않을 뿐더러 소수중에 또 더 소수일뿐이고, 오히려 이성애자 남자들보다 운동 더 하고 몸관리하고 남자다운 사람들이 비율로 상대적으로 많다. 게이들 중에서도 여성스러운 남자는 인기가 없기 때문에 혹여나 본성이 그렇다 하더라도 운동하면서 남자다운 이미지를 주려고 노력한다. 그리고 요새 커밍아웃하는거 아니고 정말 미디어에 나오는 그런 게이분들 아닌 이상 이성애자인지 동성애자인지 전혀 모른다
JM Park 그런 여성스러움을 끼라고 부르는데 그런 무대는 끼 충만한 애들만 설 수 있어요..ㅋㅋ무대 서는 연예인들이랑 일반 사람들 생각하면 이해하기 쉬울것을.. 연예인들이 무대 선다고 일반인들이 다 연예인 아니잖아요
JM Park ㅇㅇ
@JM Park 그럼 이성애자가 가는 클럽도 끼 떠는 사람 남녀불문 존나 많은데 그럼 이성애자들은 다 그럼?ㅋㅋㅋ𐨛 논점 파악 좀 제발ㅜ
게이처럼 입는건 뭐고 진짜.. 게이던 뭐던 이성애자던 뭐던 지 자유지 하여간 외국도 어지간히 개인의 자유 존나 외치면서 정작 동성애자들은 차별 존나 함 걔네들이 말하는게 가장 중요한게 개인의 자유인데 특히 미국ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 게이는 자유 없냐
스킨로션선크림립밤은 솔직히 피부보호아닌가요? 글고 남자들 하는사람은 별로없지만 그래도 비비눈썹쉐딩틴트까지하는게 난좋던뎁 ㅇㅅㅇ
외국에선 스킨로션도 게이라고해요
ngl but the guy who’s wearing brown jacket is so cute whenever he smile and laugh
Right?! Everyone was talking about the allblack look guy, who is actually really fine dont get me wrong, but the other dudeee excuse meeee hes the embodiment of pretty boy, even the way he talked and moved his hands
"Dont be hurt by the questions" "HAHA." lmaooo
I totally agree. Girls (atleast me) like guys who know how to take care of themselves compared to ppl who leave their body to nature.
Go ahead and say all girls like men(platonically/romantically) who take care of themselves.
RayS2able I don’t think taking care of yourself has to do with whether you’re masculine or not
They don't care because they know the girls are desperate, and in the end they will come to them. Between us, the guys, if we see a guy who takes more care of him, we immediately realize that he is just a ''try hard'', desperate for pussy, has mental problems, is desperate for attention, has a small penis, or is gay. For us, girls have to make sacrifices, not us. If we have a well-paid job, a car, a house, and some money, we've done our part. We have what we need to survive, the girls have to decide, because their parents won't last them long, and we know that..
@@NoGyiEa Okay? But why generalize?
혼자살때는 집안일 잘하다 꼭 결혼하면 여자가 주로 떠맞게 되는거 팩트~우리 부모임도 맞벌이지만 엄마가 집안일 다 주로 도맞아하고 아빠는 가끔 하는걸 겁나 도와준다하고 생색냄
반면 현재 사귀는 캐네디언 남다친구 동거한후로 전적으로 척척 집안일 알아서 함. 군대에서 요즘 배워오는게 똥군기던데? ㅋㅋ
핵공감
떠맡게,맡아-○ 이거 핵공감!!결혼하고 나서 맞벌이인데도 가사,육아 같이 하는 남자들 거의 0에 수렴..
맞춤법이 좀 이상하긴한데 확실히 저희 부모님 세대는 그런거 같습니다 하지만 왜 거기에 비교를 요즘 세대 외국인으로 하는지;세상이 많이 바뀌었습니다
한국 남자분들도 20~30대는 집안일 분담해서합니다
이미르 집안일 정말 공평하게 한다고 말할 수 있나요? 만약 애가 생기면 출산 후 육아휴직 내는 남자들은 얼마나 되나요? 부모님 세대가 아니라 현재예요
맞벌이하는 부부라도 아내가 남편 밥 챙겨주는 건 일반적인 거고 남편이 아내 밥 차려주는 건 진보적이고 칭찬받아 마땅할 일 취급받는 게 한국 아닌가요 ㅠㅠ 이상만 보지 말고 현실을 보시길
I do wish the fairer skin comment was talked about more or maybe a separate video. I understand this can be a mix of colorism/racism and/or beauty standards but how they influence people's actions overall is really interesting. It may be strange to me how the dude in black even thought himself to be tanner, but from my experiences it isn't etc
Freckles are cute and beautiful don’t change to please others x
My friend who’s dark skinned went to Korea for a little and came back really fast cause she said because of the beauty standard over there and Koreans comments about her she started starving herself and wanted to bleach her skin. It was horrible
Fairer skin equating to beauty in Korea is actually not race based as many presume who are from outside of Korea as they are so used to it being the case in their own country. People wanting to seen more white. Instead, as Korea and Japan are the only two Asian countries that were never colonized by Europeans, it's a classist beauty ideal. Fairer skin generally meant you were wealthy and didn't have to work out in the sun. Koreans can actually get fairly dark in the skin tones but they just aren't seen much in media unless they are dark from tanning. I'd say he was on the light tan side on the Korean scale from (naturally) white as a ghost to darker than a tan would look. Of course the natural extremes are rarer than the middle fair to slightly tan looking skin shades.
@@idontlikeyou9017 very sorry to hear this I hope shes in a better place!
@@tkim2320 Yes I know this. I mean it would be interesting to see this brought up in one of their videos. And this classist colorism causes a lot of harm from what I've studied especially for Koreans who are naturally tanner and just another one of the difficult beauty standards they hold so highly and not just a mere preference or kind of beauty.
I like men that take care of themselves. There’s nothing wrong with men doing so, it’s appealing to the eyes. I don’t think it should be called “gay”,that’s messed up.
That is not about the "size"that is depends to your performance😂😂😂😂😂😂
what minute they talk about it?
@@1112clarice1112 7:17
Sis, size matters 😂
😂😀😁😂😀😁
Size be important for a girls pleasure 😂 Yeah performance is important too but the size makes it more better
깨끗한 인상을 주는 관리하는 남자는 오케이 전부 똑같은 빨간색 틴트에 파운데이션을 너무 과하게 발라 번들거리고 한눈에 화장 찐하다라는 느낌의 화장은 여자든 남자든 노노 ...
10:11 "But there are thankfully these people who are resisting to that kind of stereotype (Dressing up is gay)"
"BTS"
"because of them, these days, Korean guys wear what they want with more pride"
💜💜💜💜💜
kings💫
9:51 he's smart *AND* attractive, damn this man has got the whole package 😳😳😳
About to butcher this but , 그 남자들 웃을 예뻐서 친절한 사람들 것 같아요. 너무 좋아해요. 그 남자들이 좋은 골랐어요👍🏽💗
03:45 사실 꽤 많은 남성의 희망사항
하지만 실제론 꽤 많은 여자들이 취집 잘 가려고 하는게 현실
ㄹㅇ... 그냥 집에서 집안일이나 하고싶다
정말요??,,
ㄹㅇ
@@빙봉빙봉 취집ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
I like the effort and time they put into their skin and paying attention to their fashion and bodies. I legit cannot express how much I get disappointed by the men in my country 😂😂😂 keep it up boys, for yourselves and significant others
아니 그런데 군대 갔다와서 웬만하면 다 집안일 잘한다면 그럼 나 참나 집에 와서도 하라고ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 야 내가 안해서 그렇지 웬만한 여자보다 잘해~~^^하면서 집에선 누워서 엄마 누나 동생이 하는 거 구경만 하면 그게 집안일 하는 거냐고ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
근데 솔직히 이와 비슷하게 명절때 남자들 일안하는거 팩트 맞잖아
@@유쓰-x4l 아님. 케바케이긴 하지만 집안일을 주로 안하는건 부모님세대에서 남자들이 주로 가부장적인 인식을 갖고있어서 그 시대 사람들이 대부분 그러는거고 요즘 젊은층 사람들은 안그럼. 저도 고3이라 수험생활때문에 바쁘지만 부모님이 맞벌이셔서 형이랑 나랑 번갈아가면서 빨래하고 설거지하고 청소기까지 다돌림
@@유쓰-x4l 님 집안이 그런거임. ㅋㅋㅋ 우리집안은 남자들끼리 음식하고 여자들 쉬게하거나 그냥 외식함.
집안일도 제가 어머니보다 더 많이 분담할 정도고...
모든 남자의 꿈이 전업주부하는거임. 그리고 전업주부가 독박벌이하는 남자한테 독박육아 타령하면 양심도 없는거지
통계가 말해주는데 너네 집안이 이상하다 이러고 있네 ㅋㅋㅋㄱ 심지어 통계상 여자 혼자 일하는 집까지 가사 노동 시간 여자가 긴데
9:33 윤수님의 했던말이 너무 맘에 들었어요 ^_^ 저는 게이고 우리가 한국사람은 "게이처럼" 옷을 입다고 생각을 전혀 안해요! 그 질문은 게이들에게 무례한다고 눈치채서 정말 고맙다잉 much love from the UK 🌈❤️
Q: Why are you wearing makeup?
Me after watching this video: I dont want my face to be rude
Yooo imagine pulling up to a date and your partner goes like "okay but like your face is being real mean right now" because you didnt get any make up done😂😂😂
War between south Korea and north Korea would turn back them as real men and forget about dressing and make up or losion
@@toji267 So real men = cannon fodder? smh
I just loved how those two guys laughed at everything more than anything else in this video
I love when Korean are darker good LORD it's beautiful!
넘 귀여운 한국 남자들! 똑똑하고 재밌는 남자 ㅠㅠ 그남자들 같은 어디야ㅠ
Boi I love the one, who said, that the question about 'dressing gay' in itself was wrong, since it was belittling and degrading gay people. Like he's woke. I love him!
Trueee! I don't get how they still use 'being gay' as some kind of insult to degradr someone. Seriously uneducated people.
@@김세연-b4p the whole idea that there even is something like dressing gay wth ... Their view of the world and what dressing nicely is seems off for those people
Why even ask the question OF COARSE they prefer women with fairer/white skin 🤦🏽♀️ and the first Asian guy I dated rocked my world 😍 his mom didn’t like the relationship because I was black his dad loved me he was so so sweet they moved back to Korea and my ex still had a kid by a Black woman 🤗 love wins
Congratulations 👍🏾
YunSu really called out toxic masculinity like that 👏👏👏👏
And yeah, I studied abroad in Asia for a year and was very sad to return to the world of American fashion.
6:32 had me dying!!!
Also I love how they all answered the question towards the whole "gay" stereotype. They were on point with getting rid of the toxic and disgusting masculinity image, people have towards men. The fact that they were respectful and straightforward about how many people are really quick to judge and are just very toxic towards the image of men. Also one last thing I loved as well was how they talked about BTS and their influence on getting rid of such stereotypes (not too mention many other groups do as well) was really touching.
Imagine not having to worry about your body odour every second of your life-
It's great. :)
Don't have to imagine it. lol
Choi Yunsu give me Kim Woojin vibes🥺
as someone with darker skin I'm disappointed that colourism still exists in Korea to this extent - i love how they dodged the question and started talking about "clear skin" instead as if most foreigners who are darker don't have clear skin...
colourism still exists in most countries though, sadly. Especially in Asia
I think there is a mistake in the subtitles. It doesn't mean clear as in color, it is said as in "clean" with not much pimples and stuff.
많은사람들이 모르고 영상에서도 틀럈는데 한국은 애들한테 수학 쉽게 가르치는 편임 우리나라 중학생들이 배우는 수학이 미국기준으로 초등학생의 우리로 치면 초등 고학년 수학임. 그냥 외국에 나가있는 동양인들 ′만′ 수학을 잘해서 모든 동양인들이 그렇구나 오해들 하는듯
Korean men care about their looks I love that! the guys in my country don't care about their skin care and their styles💀🤢
9:35 THAT GUY!!! I APPLAUD YOUR THAT POWERFUL STATEMENT OF YOURS!!!! 👏👏👏 the fact that people use “gay” as an insult lining with cowardliness or weakness shows how low they are like c’mon gurl Gay people are stronger because no matter how many people throw stick and stones at them, they remain standing and build a house out of it. STAY PRESSEDT.
준형님 머리 귀엽다
머리가 귀여운게 아니라 얼굴이 귀여운걸로
Did he really say 'giant dark dragon' lol
11:05 the way he talk is just so cuteeee
I mean, I already speak three languages but 최윤수 한국어를 배울 게요 ㅋㅋㅋ❣️
나 이 영상 보고 최윤수님 한테 반했자나 ㅠㅠ
근데 그 침 진짜 멀리 튀었다 ㅋㅋ
The answers for the last question are deeply concerning. The way they think ‘fair whiter skin’ is ‘clean and clear skin’ is sooo problematic 🤯 colorism and obsession with whiteness literally makes up korean beauty standards and they automatically think people who are tanner or darker are less beautiful/not clean. Gross.
Rhea Gupta THANK YOU !!!! I was kinda shocked with the excuse “ we like skin without imperfections that’s maybe why we like fair skin girls “ it’s just a stupid excuse I’m a guy I have a tone of korean friends and I can see the colorist sooo bad, and for you’re information darker skin have less problems so much less blemish really slow aging less subject of pimples and all
Well obviously Koreans aren't born black. They are one of the countries that has the fairest skin in Asia. The sun can cause quite a lot of skin problems so obviously fairer skin's gonna mean "less sun" and "less sun" is gonna mean "clearer skin" and "clearer skin" is gonna be most people's preference. Just because they prefer fair and clear skin doesn't mean they think tanned/dark skins are gross and not clean.🤦♀️
닷다다 Koreans aren’t born white either ! Some might be born with natural pale skin but a lot of them aren’t! Since pale skin is their preference, many of them bleach 💀 a lot Koreans and other Asians don’t find dark skin attractive
오늘두 좋은 영상 만들어주신 와픽...허허헛 오늘 주녕님 왜케 잘생기셧어요...??ㅠㅅㅠ 항상 잘생기셨지만 오늘두 착장 너무 찰떡이시구 머리 너무 귀여워요 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ힝
연한 갈색 재킷을 입는 남자는 정말 귀엽네요! ㅠㅠ 그 남자의 미소를 너무 좋아해요.
They are so open minded and respectful, they answered all the question with smile on their face and they didn't seem offended, those people are good people
Очень интересный проект, спасибо большое за субтитры! Подписалась на ваш канал ❤
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1:13 동물의 숲이 짐승의 숲으로ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
근데 군대가서 배워서 집안일 잘 할 줄 아는데 못 하는 척 하는 거 진짜진짜 마니봄. 그리고 군대가서 배우는 집안일도 한정적이니까
Я удивлена насколько часто стали делать субтитры на русском. Спасибо большое!
윤수님 너무 귀여우시고 성격 좋으신 것 같아용
저는 선크림 바르는 것도 귀찮아하는데 남자친구는 쿠션이랑 눈썹문신 입술색 잘 가꾸더라구여 이제 화장은 남녀구분이 모호해진거같아여
게이처럼 옷을 입는다는게 비하하는 의도로 한 말이라고 생각되지 않습니다. 기분나쁘게 받아들이시는분에게 게이라는 존재가 비하하는 의도로 들리기 때문에 기분이 나쁘게 느껴지신것 같습니다. 게이같이 옷입는게 싫다고 생각하진 않는것 같습니다. 물론 싫다고 생각하는 사람도 있겠죠 그런데 뭐 그런사람들까지 상대하고 삽니까 그냥 내가 그렇게 입어도 좋다는사람들만 있으면 되는거죠. 설사 아무도 안좋아해도 나만 좋으면 그만인걸... 게이같이 옷입는다고 해도 화내지 마세요. 그냥 다니엘 헤니처럼 옷 입었다. 혹은 회사원 처럼 옷 입었다. 하는 비유라고 생각해보세용
Well, I'm gay even I only moisturize and cleanse my skin. Most western men don't care about that but it is changing. And, there is definitely a difference between how kpop stars and regular citizens wear makeup so maybe that's why people think Korean's are effeminate?
Before I visted Korea I thought a lot of koreans dressed and looked like that. And I wouldn't say Koreans dress gay, I always thought of it to be very well fashioned in a European way but with it's own look.
And in regards to size..um...lol. no comment. All that matters is how you use it haha.
I always think Koreans are gamers because I am but my friends don't play any games! But, my friends and other Korean's I met loved to beat me at darts. There a dart boards everywhere!
9:35 THANK YOU. Some people needed to hear that!
10:12 and oh! Im so glad my boys made such positive impact on this matter too! 💜
Awesome vid!
(시비가 아니라..진짜 궁금해서 그런데...) 결혼하고 집안일 하는 남자들 많..나요?
엄 일단 우리 친척들은 모두 여자분이 집안일하시고 남자분들은 그동안 티비 보시던데요,,, 그래서 우리 엄마가 아빠한테 존ㄴ나 화냈어요ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 한 사람은 엄마한테 집안일하라고 때렸거든요... 미친...
상대적으로 드문듯 내 남동생도 뭘 하면 쇼파에 아빠랑 떡하니 앉아만 있음ㅋ 나중에 결혼하면 한다는말 믿어야되는거임? 한다해도 어이없을듯^^
여기서 자기도 집안일한다는 남자분들 대부분이 설거지 몇 번 하고 청소기 좀 돌린다고 보면 됨 맞벌이하는 아내분은 요리 전담하고 다른 집안일도 다 하고~
좀 지나면 변하지 않을까 합니다 아직까지는 좀 그렇죵..
27살인데 친구들 얘기들어보면 여전히.. 맞벌이는하 면서 집안일은 여자애쪽이 하더라는..
네 분 다 너무 귀욤씈ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 피어싱하신분 넘 귀욥 ㅠㅠㅠㅠ
I thought the guy with longer hair was already attractive, but his answer on the outfit question made him 1000 times more attractive !!!!
자기기준이 편견이될순없는건데.. 자기가 맞으면 무조건맞다고하는 사람들 인정을 못하는사람들 남들이자기한테머라고하면 욕할것들이 남들먼저까는사람들 강요하지마요 작을수도있는거고 여자보다 이쁠수도있는거고 남자보다 듬직할수있는거고! 그냥 그런사람이구나 하고 생각하면되는데.. 보면 아 저사람게이같다.. 아니면? 아 아니구나로 끝날일임? 평생그럴건가? 자기기준에 남을 저울질하지말라고!
Their responses were very good.
You have to look at the Korean culture, background to understand from where that sort of answer comes.
Don't call people ignorant, when you are ignorant yourself. My two cents.
전 그냥 이렇게 마인드가 멋진, 자기자신 적당히 잘 가꾸는 이런 한국 남자들이 좋다.
From what I see they are excusing themselves about not marrying foreigners because of the barrier language, but I believe that's not the problem.
Obviously when you think of marrying someone you must have had a long relationship with them and been able to talk and know about each other. As well, when foreigners go to live to Korea for a long period of time, I believe that at some point they learn the language or also there are people who have studied korean and they know how to speak it perfectly. I think that there is another excuse more realistic about why they don't marry foreigners, maybe it's because the traditions or maybe because their parents or maybe because they don't take foreigners seriously. In addition, I would like to mention that foreigners aren't only Americans or Brits, there are plenty more people from other countries in the world such as Spanish, French, Italian, German, Swedish, Russian, Japanese, Chinese, Filipinos, Moroccan...
Emily B There arent that many foreigners in korea that speak korean...
foreigners from developing countries (philippines, uzbek, etc) are usually workers and they dont have the time to learn.
Foreigners from the west (us, brit, french etc) never really make the effort. They want koreans to speak their language in korea and many still have a huugeee superiority complex over asians in general.
The interest in Korean guys from Western girls has really peaked because of Kpop. I think there is more of a problem with Westerners feeling entitled to attention and attraction from Korean guys and getting upset when they seem to really only want to date Koreans, which the majority seem to. Korea is not a melting pot like most Western countries so they are more likely to stick to what they know and expectations. However, it is very disrespectful to Koreans and Korean women to think that Korean men only don't date foreigners because of societal and parental pressure. Some people just prefer to date interculturally and not out. Some Westerners think there attitudes towards marriage and dating need to change just because they are attracted to Korean men all of a sudden.
@@wonseokchoi4203 Well I can't assure if there is many or not foreigners in Korea because I never have been there. But I believe that making the statement that all people from the west don't make any effort is being quite biased from koreaboos and people who thinks they are superior. I am not going to deny the fact that there is people who act and think that way because is the truth and they exist. But because some people act that way and they stand out more it doesn't mean that everyone is like that. I'm pretty sure there are foreign men and women in Korea who speak the language and live a normal life.
@@PieceMeals I really agree with your opinion and I also believe that a lot of Western girls and guys have a crush on Koreans just because of the image that K-pop has brought to the west. But I also must say that not everyone is in the same bag, there's also people who aren't obsessed with Koreans and K-pop or any other influential stuff and they just want to date someone they met and like. In addition from what you mentioned about not being respectful to Koreans I must disagree. When Koreans don't want to date foreigners since the beginning because they don't want I completely understand and I don't see any problems at all. The problem starts when Koreans start dating someone who's foreigner and when the things get serious they backup with excuses like the cultural difference, language, parents approval, society pressure and many other things. That's just a lack of compromising within the relationship. In that situation I believe that some Koreans, not all of them as I said before that not everyone is in the same bag, are also just interested in dating foreigners because what they see in the movies and as well because they find them something exotic, new and a trophy to show it off. In conclusion I think every country cas it's cons and pros, not all westerns are good or bad and not all Koreans are good or bad.
남자들은 크기, 테크닉 이야기 말고 애무 스킬을 늘려야 함.... 여자 90%가 평생 오르가즘을 못 느낀다는 통계가 있는데!!!!!!!!! 남자들이 얼마나 못하길래 여자가 90%나 불만족해 ㅋㅋㅋ 여자들은 삽입으로 절정에 잘 안 가기 때문에 클리토리스를 잘 애무해줘야 함.
남성분들!! 사랑하는 애인! 혹은 어떤 여자한테 잊지못하는 남자가듀ㅣ고싶다!! 그렇담 좀 피곤하더라도 전신.클리애무 천천히 오래하면서 삽입 전 여자는 이미 홍콩 바로앞이어야합니다 이미 홍수에 바다일때 삽입을 해야 같이 느낍니다..!
G스팟을 찾는것도 도움 많이 됨.
크기가 갑이지 삽입으로 절정에 못 가는 한국녀들 90% 불쌍
@휴후 제 말은 크기, 테크닉 둘다 아닌 놈 많으니까 애무라도 하라는 뜻이에요. 소추 놈이랑은 예전에 보고 정뚝떨해서 일주일만에 헤어짐
@@안예진-b5t 큰 애들은 큼
Guys, just wear anything that can make you feel confident 💜 if you love a certain look, just go for it. We are all different and unique, so show the world who you are!
비비바르는 남자 좋은데..여자도 그렇고 남자도 그렇고 화떡은 별로긴하지만..비비 눈썹 입술은 좋다고 생각...~~~~~그 외에는 자기 취향대로 선택!
ㅇㅈ나 그냥훈훈?어쩔땐 그냥 평범한분 있었는데 ucc촬영때문에 비비바르고 눈썹정리하고 카메라로 촬영하는데 배우인줄...존잘되심ㅠ
솔직히 남자들 화장할 줄 몰라서 어색해보이는거지 많이 연습하거나 배워서 하면 좋을 듯
I've asked my male Korean friends and they all said that they would like to experience having a foreign girlfriend BUT they all also hesitated when asked if they'd marry one. The most common reason is their parents wouldn't approve of a foreign daughter-in-law. On the other hand, my female Korean friends very much welcome the idea of having a foreign boyfriend or husband, and even their parents wouldn't disapprove of a non-Korean son-in-law. It seems parents' approval have a heavy influence on them. I don't know the reasons but I'm guessing it could be because usually sons often still take care of their parents in their old-age and even live together and if they have a foreign wife then the elders would have to worry about cultural and language differences with their daughter-in-law. whilst daughters often move into the family of their husband so they have no problem and they even get excited about having cute mixed-race grandchildren. maybe this show can have elderly Koreans as guests to get some insights.
Because people can’t learn a language🙄 I honestly think it’s because western girls are usually more opinionated and vocal about it. If we were to stereotype ofc. It seemslike in Korea, Korean females are still looked upon as weak, submissive etc...
It’s so true that the guy brought up BTS at 10:13 because BTS don’t feel pressure to submit to toxic masculinity while in America. Despite the rude comments thrown at them, they don’t hide who they are. They are comfortable in their bodies, and dress/express themselves how they want!! They aren’t afraid to be affectionate on American TV. Namjoon even said to a reporter at the BBMA red carpet that he doesn’t use gendered lyrics and acknowledged LGBT Armys. 💜
Him: “My dream is to stay home, do the housework and take care of my wife”
Me: *hold up let me get the marriage certificate-*
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Lmaoo
Same
I love the way Korean men dress. To me, they dress the best 😌 it’s not a matter of dressing “gay”, they have great style and can pretty much rock anything they wear.
이런 영상 찍으실 때 외국인 하면 영어 하는 사람들을만 생각하지 않으셨으면 좋겠어요 그리고 원래 국제 결혼이라는게 거의 다 모국어가 같지 않는 사람들이 하는거예요 또 영어권 국가가 아닌 나라는 한국이 유일하지 않구요...
They were talking about how good looking men are a stereotype, but they themselves look really cute to me ahah Yunsu guy somehow reminds me of RM, especially when he smiles)))
And JunHyoung is such a sweetheart for wanting to take care of his wife❤ why aren't there any guys like that in my country(((