How We Met (German American Couple - First Date, First Kiss, Commitment)

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  • Опубліковано 19 чер 2024
  • This is the story of How We Met! A German by and an American girl who met abroad. We get asked a lot about our relationship, how we met, dating internationally and dating from other cultures. We address these things in this video! We hope you enjoy :)
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    0:00 - Introduction
    0:32 - Our Backstories
    3:32 - How We Met
    7:58 -The First "Date"
    12:04 - The First Kiss
    14:41 - Committing
    17:56 - It Could Have Ended Differently

КОМЕНТАРІ • 386

  • @DeanaandPhil
    @DeanaandPhil  4 роки тому +87

    The question, "How did you guys meet?" is definitely the most asked question we get. We have kind of answered this in other videos, but here is the full story of how we met! 🤗💜

    • @nancywiebe3693
      @nancywiebe3693 4 роки тому +7

      Your kids will love this video!

    • @sydneyrica1802
      @sydneyrica1802 4 роки тому +2

      I like you guys so much! You talk about everything I want to know so I signed up on your Patreon. I never pledged in Patreon so you guys are my first.

    • @lauriemacey5804
      @lauriemacey5804 4 роки тому +3

      You two are so adorable! I love how much Deana kept blushing. You remind me of my husband and myself. He was my best friend too and we met in an odd way...I volunteered to help a friend at a county fair in the kid section. I was dressed in Mickie Mouse overall shorts and wore pigtails....I was well into my 30s but no one knew. My husband came with his friend, his wife worked near me. Her and her husband noticed we kept checking each other out but were too shy to do anything and because the other girl was my friends daughter they were able to get us together. Our love story went very quickly and we were married within a few years and he was my best friend for many years and still would be if he hadn't passed from cancer. Sorry to make our love story sad but honestly our years together were the best of my life and you two remind me of the way we were! We were always joking and laughing. Life isn't always perfect but as long as you're there for each other you can get through anything! I hope you two live long happy lives together!

    • @janetgardner3153
      @janetgardner3153 4 роки тому +1

      Sweetest story EVER! 💖

    • @Ok-cx6qt
      @Ok-cx6qt 4 роки тому

      👍💏🇺🇸🇩🇪

  • @potatophil8432
    @potatophil8432 4 роки тому +186

    I'm gonna sit my kids down on a couch in the future and tell them this story!

    • @Miristzuheiss
      @Miristzuheiss 4 роки тому +5

      Like how i Met your Mother! Great story

  • @tedmaxfield3382
    @tedmaxfield3382 4 роки тому +176

    That’s great story! My wife and I met in a German class at a community college south of Detroit. I sat in the front with high school friends, she sat alone in the back, and we NEVER talked the whole class. There wasn’t enough students enrolled in the next German class, so it was canceled. We bumped into each other a year later and started talking about how bummed we were that the class was canceled, and things took off from there. We’ve been together for 34 years, and married for 30. I wish you the best in your marriage as well!

    • @donaldcady3839
      @donaldcady3839 2 роки тому +1

      Michigan love story. Nice. Congratulations.

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 Рік тому

      I never understood how some people can be with someone for a very long time without marriage, isn't that such a waste of time?

    • @user-ve7hn2dh8h
      @user-ve7hn2dh8h Рік тому

      ​@@purplelove3666😂 why is it a waste of time when you're not married? What's the difference to being in a long time marriage compared with a long time non married relationship? I'll tell you: you actually still like each other when you're still together and not just because you're feeling obligated by a made up religious nonsense ceremony

  • @WhisperzVerse
    @WhisperzVerse 4 роки тому +116

    Nice story. The best time to get into a relationship is when you're not desperate for one because then you know whatever feelings you feel are genuine.

    • @Siggy4844
      @Siggy4844 3 роки тому +3

      Very true. I just posted my story above. I was not looking for a relationship at the time I met my Ex, but fell head over heels the first time I met him. And apparently the feeling was mutual. We were married for 25 years and raised two kids together.

  • @user-nr1py1xe9o
    @user-nr1py1xe9o 4 роки тому +82

    For me as someone who hates his job this story is very inspiring

  • @freedomdove
    @freedomdove 4 роки тому +53

    "I was sending vibes." ROFLMAO. 😁 You guys are a great match.

  • @kathyjohnson5097
    @kathyjohnson5097 4 роки тому +27

    You two were DEFINITELY meant to be together!!

  • @mikas5477
    @mikas5477 4 роки тому +62

    So funny, my boyfriend and I also are a Germany - US combination who met in Thailand! So cool to see that you guys made it work into marriage!

  • @pinkythechihuahua3156
    @pinkythechihuahua3156 4 роки тому +50

    Fate. It has its way.
    I met my second husband on AOL (America On Line)
    I was in California and he was on Colorado. We talked eveyday. We played silly games, like, If you were ice cream, what flavor would you be, and, toilet paper, under or over? We met in person 4 months later. He moved to be with me. I have kids and couldnt.
    That was 23 years ago. We've been married 20.9 YEARS. We aren't spring chickens. He 1I'll be 80 in September and I turned 64 in March.

  • @peggylittledragon7734
    @peggylittledragon7734 3 роки тому +4

    Met my husband in Germany back in 1980 and 40 years later we’re still married congratulations

  • @yoyo-ka7029
    @yoyo-ka7029 4 роки тому +16

    Deana`s reaction to the scooter story was hilarious xDD

  • @seanator3814
    @seanator3814 4 роки тому +13

    You two remind me of my wife and I. We were friends for a while before we got together, but we are also best friends. Almost 14 years now!

  • @ilkahellerling2345
    @ilkahellerling2345 4 роки тому +41

    Cute. You can really see the love shine from their eyes. 😍 In my opinion you are the nicest couple on UA-cam, so humble and bubbly.

  • @KristinaKk_xx120
    @KristinaKk_xx120 4 роки тому +66

    I love hearing these kinds of stories! 💕

  • @sophiaz5999
    @sophiaz5999 4 роки тому +37

    BABY PLEASE, THAT IS A BIG MOMENT IN OUR HISTORY FOR ME

  • @silkedavid8876
    @silkedavid8876 4 роки тому +8

    How sweet! It is nice that you now have a record of your story to embarrass your kids later. And it did not take you 100 episode of a tv show to tell the story.
    I love Deana's little drawings.

  • @MrHarrilasagna
    @MrHarrilasagna 4 роки тому +31

    Just admit it Deana you were lost in a special moment and Phil got a free 30 minute back massage. 🥰

  • @ThanhMaiOFFICIAL
    @ThanhMaiOFFICIAL 4 роки тому +42

    Pleasantly nice to hear your story. You two seem to have great chemistry. The best tip from this video definitely has to be ride a scooter together if you wanna get close lol 🙌💯🛵👫

    • @DeanaandPhil
      @DeanaandPhil  4 роки тому +8

      exactly! Scooters make dreams come true! :D

    • @ThanhMaiOFFICIAL
      @ThanhMaiOFFICIAL 4 роки тому +4

      Deana and Phil I had a similar experience myself that’s why I can relate 🙌

    • @Siggy4844
      @Siggy4844 3 роки тому

      😂

  • @lonelywolf8388
    @lonelywolf8388 4 роки тому +70

    Der Titel hätte sein müssen: "How We Mett" :D

  • @DrGlynnWix
    @DrGlynnWix 4 роки тому +8

    This reminds me so much of how I met my German :)
    We both moved to Ireland for different reasons, but mostly to have a new experience and do PhDs. We met completely randomly on a beach on the Aran Islands. It took a couple months for us to hit it off, but we've been going strong for 4.5 years now!

  • @brittneyhedges815
    @brittneyhedges815 3 роки тому +7

    My cheeks hurt from smiling watching this! My husband and I went on a 12 hour first date because we didn't want it to end. It is so cute tot hear your story

  • @sabinebothe1905
    @sabinebothe1905 4 роки тому +2

    I love your story. I am german and got married to an American last November. He has never been to Germany before. We love to watch your videos❣️❣️❣️

  • @taxmax676
    @taxmax676 4 роки тому +7

    Eine Geschichte wie aus einem Roman 💖 das beweist mal wieder, dass es keine Zufälle gibt. Ihr seid sehr süß zusammen. Alles Gute für euch. 💝

  • @PassportTwo
    @PassportTwo 4 роки тому +13

    We are in good company! We also quit our jobs we felt stuck in, got TEFL certified and decided to teach English abroad for an adventure...the only problem was, we never got around to teaching English before we ended up in Germany 😂 We had the right idea though! haha Great story guys, thanks for sharing 😊

    • @DeanaandPhil
      @DeanaandPhil  4 роки тому +1

      Ahh It's cool to hear about other couples and their decisions to travel abroad. What made you decide Germany? 😍✈ Everything happens for a reason and maybe you'll use your TEFL certifications later in life. 😊

  • @parisaghotbedini5759
    @parisaghotbedini5759 4 роки тому +24

    I really like you Deana cause I belive you have a heart of gold and you are so kind and lovely 😍😊🤗

  • @johncooner8957
    @johncooner8957 3 роки тому +1

    I think Phil is a very lucky man also Deana is lucky to have found such a good man

  • @monymona
    @monymona 4 роки тому +12

    I've been hanging out on the fringes watching Americans in Germany videos catching you guys here and there but this one made me subscribe. SO CUTE!

  • @furzkram
    @furzkram 4 роки тому +18

    You guys have me rolling on the floor laughing ... the scooter ride ... LOLOLOL

  • @laurette8080
    @laurette8080 4 роки тому +3

    Thanks for sharing your story! I live in Ohio and have been offered a job in Germany. I’ve been undecided to take the job with all that’s going on, but you two reminded me that great things happen when you take chances!

  • @stevenmatthews2278
    @stevenmatthews2278 4 роки тому +15

    So cute! I love hearing these real life love stories. It’s not often that everything lines up so perfectly. 😍

  • @essencewithin5978
    @essencewithin5978 4 роки тому +11

    You're such an adorable couple. Nice declaration there at the end, Phil! So romantic!
    My German husband and I (Austrian) totally love your videos!

  • @LexusLFA554
    @LexusLFA554 4 роки тому +5

    I like your small comic "yourselves". They always make me grin.

  • @williamrutkowski
    @williamrutkowski 4 роки тому +6

    I like how your coffee mugs match the color of your shirts. 💖🖤

  • @jentommyontheroad8089
    @jentommyontheroad8089 4 роки тому +12

    OMG!! You two are so adorable! It’s interesting how things usually work out as they are meant to be! I agree with the point that women are often just being nice but men see that as flirting! Thanks for sharing your story❤️

  • @justjmara
    @justjmara 4 роки тому +8

    I enjoy your videos! You two seem like really great people, and such a fun couple. I’m German American, living in America and I think it’s so cool seeing a young German/American couple. I don’t see it a lot!
    Lol

  • @bryantwhitis1268
    @bryantwhitis1268 4 роки тому +7

    I'm glad you two love birds met. Different cultures are fun to learn. You know I've been all over Germany when I lived there but never been to Munich perhaps one day I make it there the Oktoberfest is the genuine one in Munich. 😇

  • @songbird989
    @songbird989 4 роки тому +5

    Wow, you guys really were destined to be together! This just proves that Timing is everything!

  • @telliehack2590
    @telliehack2590 4 роки тому +5

    That was sweet thanks for sharing. The scooter caress and me laughing! I’ve been married 30 years to my best friend. Enjoy. Time flies!!

  • @lizaltenstadter8519
    @lizaltenstadter8519 4 роки тому +3

    I LOVE you guys! This video is awesome. I met my husband on 7/19/97. On 7/19/20 we will be together for 23 years. We met on a blind date. ❤️

  • @kathrynehiersche1817
    @kathrynehiersche1817 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for telling this story and not editing out the embarrassing parts. Keep up the great work!

  • @madelinebutler2389
    @madelinebutler2389 3 роки тому +3

    Love your story! Some of it reminds of when I met my husband. I had just gotten out of a long term relationship and WAS NOT looking for love, I was single for the first time in many years, I had a good job owned my car and paid very little rent...one night a friend of mine asked if I wanted to go to a club I said sure, that where I meet my husband and the rest is history. We have been married for over 25 years and have two adult sons that make us very proud!
    My husbands got a job in Germany and I want to learn some basic German.
    Thanks for such a funny and lovely story!

  • @travelsaddict8952
    @travelsaddict8952 4 роки тому +8

    You two are made for each other.

  • @sydneyrica1802
    @sydneyrica1802 4 роки тому +4

    Cute 💖 I’m sure this is a long awaited video.

  • @ZoeFungkhachorn
    @ZoeFungkhachorn 4 роки тому

    Love both of you & your channel. Glad CNX is the great memory place for you guys :D

  • @PushTheEdgeFaceFirst
    @PushTheEdgeFaceFirst 4 роки тому +1

    You two make wonderful videos (love your channel!) But I must say this is by far my favorite video! I LOVE this video! Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @CawiezellCrew
    @CawiezellCrew 4 роки тому +2

    This is too sweet! Love how you guys just have fun with it💕

  • @TEATimeAdventures
    @TEATimeAdventures 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for sharing such a personal part of your lives. I am a Buyer as well, so I was all "yay Phil!". When you click early, and so comfortably, you know you have met your life mate. My late husband and I were similar in that aspect. May you have many happy and successful years together. 💜💙🤗🎉🤩

  • @trxcybee
    @trxcybee 4 роки тому +4

    This made me smile a lot :) thanks guys

  • @GuiltyPleasure1100
    @GuiltyPleasure1100 4 роки тому +4

    That’s such a nice lovestory!☺️
    I wish you all the best for your future! And keep up with your videos, they are perfect entertainment! 🤭

  • @nesedebruyne4248
    @nesedebruyne4248 3 роки тому

    So cute! Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @rureal7742
    @rureal7742 4 роки тому +3

    Awwww - how adorable, thanks for sharing the story and backstory. Fate!!

  • @tomzito2585
    @tomzito2585 4 роки тому +6

    What a cool story! It sounds like it was in the cards for you to meet each other. I wish you a lifetime of happiness and good health together. I hope you play this video at your 50th wedding anniversary party for all of your guests to see.

  • @rosebuddear1
    @rosebuddear1 4 роки тому +3

    Very cute story! Thanks for sharing. 😍

  • @mnossy11
    @mnossy11 4 роки тому +6

    Love you guys so much! I’ve just finished watching nearly ALL your videos and I can’t wait to see more! You guys are so positive and I enjoy watching you eat, share about culture and travel stuff! Please try some more local German food (if they’re offering take out!) or some other snacks :) I’m currently on a super restricted diet due to severe food sensitivities, so I get vicarious enjoyment out of watching you guys eat yummy food that I can’t eat! Haha :) Blessings and cheers from BC, Canada!

  • @oxanakurilova1102
    @oxanakurilova1102 4 роки тому +8

    You guys are so cute! Deana is so adorable 😍😍😍 your stories are so sincere, i cried all the way when watching the vows video, and smiling all the way during this one 😄

  • @sarkae0405
    @sarkae0405 Рік тому

    This is such a great story. Thank you for sharing!!!

  • @jenniferherman8807
    @jenniferherman8807 3 роки тому +2

    Omg, you two are the cutest! I’m so happy for your happiness! 🥰

  • @bigfunanAmericaninGermany
    @bigfunanAmericaninGermany 4 роки тому +3

    oh boy! now its a good day... because i get another D&P video!! :) thanks guys that was a very sweet story!

  • @carolgraham9500
    @carolgraham9500 4 роки тому +5

    Y'all are ADORABLE together!! ❤❤

  • @Espania-here-I-come
    @Espania-here-I-come 4 роки тому +2

    Thats a realy nice3 story and you told it so well, and it confirms the theory: Love comes, when you don't expected.

  • @El_Doctore1887
    @El_Doctore1887 4 роки тому +1

    Most likable couple on UA-cam - very nice story 😇

  • @melaniewayne8687
    @melaniewayne8687 4 роки тому +4

    Such a beautiful love story! Wunderscön :)

  • @Patricialftb
    @Patricialftb 4 роки тому +7

    that was so lovely, was smiling nonestop ☺️ u two truly are inspiring and motivating for long distance relationships. greetings from germany ♥️

  • @user-Wolf-H
    @user-Wolf-H 4 роки тому +4

    Da kann man nur herzlich gratulieren daß Ihr euch gesucht und gefunden habt... 😁👍 macht weiter so und behaltet eure erfrischende Art weiter so bei 😉😁👍

  • @somethingbeautiful71
    @somethingbeautiful71 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story with us. I was wondering how you met a few weeks ago when I started watching your channel. Your both are too adorable for words.

  • @John-vn8vw
    @John-vn8vw 2 роки тому

    I recently ran into your videos. I have found them a lot of fun to watch. You two seem to have a great chemistry. Keep up the great work. Thank you.

  • @dietrichengel2149
    @dietrichengel2149 4 роки тому +1

    Lovely video. The best for both of you.

  • @stephaniea.7527
    @stephaniea.7527 4 роки тому +6

    Loved this video ☺️ Thailand was my first country I visited outside of my home country of the US, been to Chiang Mai twice (June 2016, June 2017)- the city has my whole heart! I agree with what Deana mentioned towards the end, it would definitely be interesting to see a video on disagreements you two have come across in these 2.5 years and how you’ve navigated them!

  • @amberrocca1105
    @amberrocca1105 4 роки тому +3

    Awesome story! I am an ESL teacher in Canada.

  • @michaelvonfriedrich3924
    @michaelvonfriedrich3924 4 роки тому +8

    Thanks for sharing, I feel that you guy connect well with your audience in all your videos, you two have great personalities and it shows, good content , as always well said 👍😃

  • @lauriemeckling
    @lauriemeckling 4 роки тому +2

    AWESOME STORY!!

  • @briandd27
    @briandd27 2 роки тому

    You guys are so awesome. My wife and I enjoy watching your videos. Thanks for the story!

  • @lisao7600
    @lisao7600 4 роки тому +5

    Awe, such a sweet story. You guys are so great together. It was meant to be.
    Love you guys.

  • @jmb1101
    @jmb1101 Рік тому

    Loved this!

  • @user-cg8ep2sx7y
    @user-cg8ep2sx7y 4 роки тому +2

    Awww it's such a cute story! Love it ^^

  • @brisuemari1801
    @brisuemari1801 3 роки тому +2

    I love your relationship, I love your videos. You give me hope of a friendship and also a relationship. It’s a hard time for me right now and I love watching you. Happy I found you guys.

  • @shadowlink3339
    @shadowlink3339 3 роки тому

    I think your story is so cute. You both are a cute couple and jive well together. I'm glad you both are happy and found each other. You both are good people and glad you guys committed.
    Your channel has become one of my favorites! Thank you for sharing!

  • @DemitriMorozov
    @DemitriMorozov 4 роки тому +4

    Y’all inspire me to actually trying to meet my LDR girlfriend in Germany & I always learn new things from yalls vids. But y’all should do a vid of what clothing to wear and NOT to wear 🙂🇱🇷🇩🇪

  • @bethanymiller2780
    @bethanymiller2780 4 роки тому +1

    That's such a beautiful story! You folks make a terrific couple. I wish you both a long life of happiness with one another. :)

  • @davidhardwick3816
    @davidhardwick3816 3 роки тому

    I love your story! You're such a great couple - I wish you nothing but forever success!

  • @timbuckman3870
    @timbuckman3870 Рік тому

    You two are so awesome!! I have watched several other you-tube videos like yours about people that travel and rate food. But your story, and your videos are awesome. I love the German/American vibe and the male/female vibe and your open minds and equality towards each other and other countries and cultures that you bring equally to everything you do!!! I so look forward to every video you put on here!!

  • @citizenmilitia1
    @citizenmilitia1 3 роки тому +6

    "the other girl on your course dropped out" - did she feel like a third wheel?
    It was nice hearing your story :)

  • @williamrutkowski
    @williamrutkowski 4 роки тому

    Great story and thank you for sharing.

  • @Sophie-od5dk
    @Sophie-od5dk 3 роки тому

    y'alls story is so cool and inspiring!

  • @erikagoodale9014
    @erikagoodale9014 4 роки тому +1

    I'm in a German/American relationship and when you mentioned that flirting and being nice are two different things,
    I immediately remembered having that same conversation with my boyfriend. There are cultural differences that come up here and there and sometimes we have misunderstandings. It's good to talk about it and remember that it might just be a different point of view instead of a real disagreement. Good Luck to you both. It seems like you are going to have a wonderful future!

  • @bkm2797
    @bkm2797 2 роки тому

    OMG, how incredibly sweet you two are, destiny is definitely in play here. It is clear you are meant for each other, and I can't wait to see how you grow on this journey.

  • @laurenzim96
    @laurenzim96 4 роки тому

    I LOVE your story!!

  • @liamberlin6413
    @liamberlin6413 3 роки тому

    Ihr seid total süß, wie ihr über eure Kontaktaufnahme sprecht. Diese Kennenlernphase, diese Unsicherheit und dass kribbeln einfach schön.

  • @MrsCrazyJanina
    @MrsCrazyJanina 3 роки тому

    I loved the story! Such a sweet couple.

  • @littletez85
    @littletez85 Рік тому

    It was destiny! My husband and I met in the USA (we are both from other countries. He's German) He went to the USA with the intention of only staying about a year, working there. We met and a year later we were married. We have been married for 29 years already! and we have been working together for 22 years. I've visited Germany a few times and have always loved it there!

  • @Gothiccmothra
    @Gothiccmothra 3 роки тому

    I want more!! More stories!

  • @BarefootCuer
    @BarefootCuer Рік тому

    Love your stories!

  • @kenichitamagusuku3194
    @kenichitamagusuku3194 2 роки тому

    I’m happy for you’ll relationship, good luck in the future. It was so sweet when Phil said he will love her even more in the future.

  • @moo8457
    @moo8457 Рік тому

    This is an adorable story! 😍

  • @KrystalNCMA
    @KrystalNCMA Рік тому

    Haha! Ya’ll crack me up and make my heart smile. You remind me of my hubby and me so much! He is my very best friend and it seems to be true for the two of you too. ☺️ We’ve been together 10 years and we are never sick of being around one another.

  • @bayyinahzhaxx7620
    @bayyinahzhaxx7620 3 роки тому

    You are the cutest couple! And y'all have me in stitches!

  • @marybrand1977
    @marybrand1977 9 місяців тому

    Life happens when your not expecting it. Congratulations you found each other and your videos are amazing. I found y’all by accident and I love it. From Georgia in the USA.

  • @michellekelley9904
    @michellekelley9904 2 роки тому +1

    Aww, I think that is a beautiful story.

  • @evab.6948
    @evab.6948 4 роки тому +3

    Vielen Dank fürs Teilen eurer absolut süßen gemeinsamen Geschichte

  • @vickyburton2434
    @vickyburton2434 4 роки тому +2

    Your cups are the cutest ever!