Our sexuality is a beautiful gift of evolution. It is not dirty, sinful, vile, or naughty. How we go about it in our lives can be all of those things. Trust is an essential element that cannot be repaired or rebuilt without a lot of time & effort. I like to call it Humpty Dumpty. Nudge that dude off the wall, & all the king's horses, & all the kings men can never put it back together again. Our sexuality influences males to scatter their seed as broadly as possible, while fems have an instinct to grab different DNA for their precious ova when the opportunity presents. These behaviors are advantageous for the species in the long run, but a problem for a species whose young require a long stable relationship to successfully rear. We have to be mature in our thinking to make these opposing traits coexist successfully. Z
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Our sexuality is a beautiful gift of evolution. It is not dirty, sinful, vile, or naughty. How we go about it in our lives can be all of those things. Trust is an essential element that cannot be repaired or rebuilt without a lot of time & effort. I like to call it Humpty Dumpty. Nudge that dude off the wall, & all the king's horses, & all the kings men can never put it back together again. Our sexuality influences males to scatter their seed as broadly as possible, while fems have an instinct to grab different DNA for their precious ova when the opportunity presents. These behaviors are advantageous for the species in the long run, but a problem for a species whose young require a long stable relationship to successfully rear. We have to be mature in our thinking to make these opposing traits coexist successfully. Z