I’m sobbing. My marriage has been shaky. I’ve been away from the church. I saw the reels video on Facebook and felt drawn to watch this full video. I’m thankful I did. Thank you for this. Truly, April
My abusive Godly man and his husband ruined my life BUT GOD!!! He made a way parted the red sea! Im safe and my kids are doing good!! it was not easy and I waited on the LORD to show me!! He made a way!! To GOD be the glory
One of the few sermons that I have heard which included the topic of abandonment in divorce. Such a good sermon. Thank you God for your mercy, may we continue to grow spiritually and draw closer to you.
I’m in need of prayer for my marriage. My wife has filed. She won’t see or hear the signs God is giving her to repent of this desire. Except for the filing neither of us has crossed the covenant. No abuse, no vices, no cheating, etc. We love one another but have some communication issues that cause hurt feelings. That’s all. Nothing major. Just some misunderstandings. Please, we need your prayers.
My husband of 11 yrs is narcissist he is mentally &verbally abusive to me and my kids. He proclaims he loves God but he continues to hurt me and threatens me with divorce all the time and kicks me out but I have no one.
He does not love God. Trust me I know. I once was the same. He wants to love God but hes not honest with himself, as his Waite I’m sorry to say but you need to fast fast fast and pray like you never have sister..if you want him saved…the only thing that will help is true fasting and true prayer.. he needs God to intervene and God wants your obedience just as much. This is all meaningful if indeed the Spirit of Christ dwells within you both and you both LOVE God…humility is the path that achieves much grace.
How can i get in contact? I need counseling i dont want to loose my marriage i know its all my fault for lack of attention and honoring my wife as i should its been a month and since then i learn to leave it all to Him who is almighty, but when we speak all she brings up is divorce and i realized we where so perfect for each other she praised the lord when i wasnt and i grew up in the church of God as Child just departed as i grew old but im back to praise him in every way Im really hoping to get counseling of you pastor because my marriage depends On God and the words she took in her from this preach Please all i want is my Kids to grow up with parents that are united in the holy spirit because i didnt have both my parents i want to break generation curses Thank you lord 🙏
Yeah, I not one of the lucky ones in marriage. I filed 2 divorced on adultery and abuse physical and emotional, and 1 on adultery after 18 years. It was a no contest divorce and lost my son. I have learned alot of lessons though. I am still fighting. 67 in Texas.
I am a Pastor (trained in NT greek) and someone shared this with me. I truly do like a bunch that he says in here, but he’s WAY off on abuse. First of all, the word in 1 Cor. 5:11 is not abusive, it’s swindler or extortioner or cheater. Reconcile this however you want, but the Bible does not explicitly address spousal abuse and does not give it as a grounds for divorce. Secondly, he opens the door for abuse so big you could drive a semi truck through it. Not just physical but mental or emotional abuse too. You know how many people claim to be “emotionally abused” now days? That’s often just as weak of an excuse as what he talked about when people say they are unhappy or that their spouse is crazy. To be clear, if a spouse is beating another spouse, that is breaking the commandment that thou shalt not murder by way of unlawful physical harm and the marriage should be separated for a time to figure out what’s going on. There could be an argument for abandonment too. Clearly, I’m not saying that husbands should be allowed to beat their wives. But I’m disappointed that this preacher just shoved the word “abuse” in the Bible where it doesn’t belong. That’s theologically irresponsible.
What edition of the bible are you using please? I have referenced 4 and I do not find 1st Corinthians 5:11 as shown. I am not debating I would just like to see it myself.
I am a Pastor (trained in NT greek) and someone shared this with me. I truly do like a bunch that he says in here, but he’s WAY off on abuse. First of all, the word in 1 Cor. 5:11 is not abusive, it’s swindler or extortioner or cheater. Reconcile this however you want, but the Bible does not explicitly address spousal abuse and does not give it as a grounds for divorce. Secondly, he opens the door for abuse so big you could drive a semi truck through it. Not just physical but mental or emotional abuse too. You know how many people claim to be “emotionally abused” now days? That’s often just as weak of an excuse as what he talked about when people say they are unhappy or that their spouse is crazy. To be clear, if a spouse is beating another spouse, that is breaking the commandment that thou shalt not murder by way of unlawful physical harm and the marriage should be separated for a time to figure out what’s going on. There could be an argument for abandonment too. Clearly, I’m not saying that husbands should be allowed to beat their wives. But I’m disappointed that this preacher just shoved the word “abuse” in the Bible where it doesn’t belong. That’s theologically irresponsible.
Jesus as saying: “It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of porneia (sexual immorality), makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” (Matthew 5:31-32).
I had abuse , cheating, and abandonment from my husband. He almost killed me 1997 I had to have both hips replaced. I have stayed single he is now on wife 6. So how does God see him he was the abuser.
I am divorced only because of my ex husband divorced me. I did not want a divorce. My question is what kind of preacher tells someone he just need to go ahead and divorce his wife?
My sister in-law is a Christian her husband isn't He has cheated on her several times and he works out of the country Doesn't won't to come home right now to her and the daughter Would it be wrong for her to get the divorce because of the cheating She doesn't won't to go against God but she isn't happy being with someone that cheats and doesn't love her.
@@kc2dallas1975 She has talked to him about the Lord she prays for him all the time but he wants to live the single life while being married She really loves him and wants to keep her family together but she can't keep living in misery Thank you for replying
The pastor says the 4th reason for divorce is 1 Corinthians 5:11- to not keep company with anyone named a brother who is living in sin. A fellow believer/brother isn’t a spouse. What if the sinful spouse isn’t a believer? Reason #4 shouldn’t be on the list. A fellow brother is not a spouse. The verse would say believing spouse or non believing spouse.
Please do a little more research on this passage. What version of the Bible are you using? Before the KJV this was not how this passage was interpreted. Today there are a couple of versions that are true to the original, the ESV being one of them. Before the KJV this passage was interpreted as God hates the treachery or violence against the wife of one's youth. God, Himself, is a divorcee because of the idolatry and adultery of Israel. God, Himself, made provision for the weaker one in the marriage to protect her from a man who deals treacherously with her. I suggest you read Divorce and Remarriage in the Church by David Instone Brewer for more in depth info on this. Thank you for listening.
Look people…. This pastor may say this…another may say that…Everyone interprets the Bible differently and all will say they ALL are correct even while ALL using the Bible’s word.
My wife filed for Divorce February 7th 2023. Feb 2nd I found out that my wife didn't place me on the deed of her home after I paid it off September 2015 3 months after our wedding. I sold my home and moved into her home. When I saw the house taxes and saw that my name wasn't on them I asked my wife point blank. All I received was silence and a stare down. I asked several times till I got tired of her silent treatment which is what she does when she doesn't want to talk about issues that effect us. So what room away I screamed "TALK TO ME"! Again nothing. So I called her a cuss word and walked away. 2 hours later she left and has been gone for 6 months. I have repented and asked forgiveness but she refuses to forgive. She refuses therapy, chooses not talk and just send texts. We have been married 3.5 years, it is both our second. We are both turning 60 this year. I discovered for myself through therapy I am a reactor not a responder. I didn't know how to handle silence after 2 years of it. She lives with her unsaved daughter and husband. I want my marriage and have wanted it from day one. Other than the communication issue all was well. I question her salvation due to her actions these past 2 years. I am praying for reconciliation.
Your wife was very wrong to take your money and not put you on the deed, but unfortunately, you have to do your due diligence before getting married about all the legal ramifications to protect yourself. Hopefully you can find an attorney to help you now. I'm sorry you are going through this.
This pastor gives dangerous advice. He says to not get a legal document and let the church write 1 for you. You absolutely need a legal document to protect yourself. What if an abusive person won't leave? You need court action. What if there's a chance he could take the kids and not bring them back? You need a legal document. What if he has stripped all the accounts? You need financial protection. Also, he said "don't take your kids to some counselor, bring them to the church." This is also not good advice, especially when he has just told people they dont need a legal document to protect themselves.
Prayers for all who are in a struggle. Great sermon
I’m sobbing. My marriage has been shaky. I’ve been away from the church. I saw the reels video on Facebook and felt drawn to watch this full video. I’m thankful I did. Thank you for this. Truly, April
Sameee!!!
Pls pray for my spouse to soften her heart and restore our marriage thank you..
I pray that all of us needing this message will open our eyes, ears, and heart so we can fully understand it leave ego out and receive it .
My abusive Godly man and his husband ruined my life BUT GOD!!! He made a way parted the red sea! Im safe and my kids are doing good!! it was not easy and I waited on the LORD to show me!! He made a way!! To GOD be the glory
One of the few sermons that I have heard which included the topic of abandonment in divorce. Such a good sermon. Thank you God for your mercy, may we continue to grow spiritually and draw closer to you.
So needed !!!!
I’m in need of prayer for my marriage. My wife has filed. She won’t see or hear the signs God is giving her to repent of this desire. Except for the filing neither of us has crossed the covenant. No abuse, no vices, no cheating, etc. We love one another but have some communication issues that cause hurt feelings. That’s all. Nothing major. Just some misunderstandings. Please, we need your prayers.
Sounds exactly like what I am going through.
@@johnnycake6479 praying for your family, brother.
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Change your name on you tube and repent…unapologetic not good
Thank you!!!! I needed this today and God used it. 🙌🏻
My husband of 11 yrs is narcissist he is mentally &verbally abusive to me and my kids. He proclaims he loves God but he continues to hurt me and threatens me with divorce all the time and kicks me out but I have no one.
He does not love God. Trust me I know. I once was the same. He wants to love God but hes not honest with himself, as his Waite I’m sorry to say but you need to fast fast fast and pray like you never have sister..if you want him saved…the only thing that will help is true fasting and true prayer.. he needs God to intervene and God wants your obedience just as much. This is all meaningful if indeed the Spirit of Christ dwells within you both and you both LOVE God…humility is the path that achieves much grace.
Going through a divorce now. I'm asking for prayers. A lot of it my fault I truly love my husband husband husband
How can i get in contact? I need counseling i dont want to loose my marriage i know its all my fault for lack of attention and honoring my wife as i should its been a month and since then i learn to leave it all to Him who is almighty, but when we speak all she brings up is divorce and i realized we where so perfect for each other she praised the lord when i wasnt and i grew up in the church of God as Child just departed as i grew old but im back to praise him in every way
Im really hoping to get counseling of you pastor because my marriage depends On God and the words she took in her from this preach
Please all i want is my Kids to grow up with parents that are united in the holy spirit because i didnt have both my parents i want to break generation curses
Thank you lord 🙏
Yeah, I not one of the lucky ones in marriage. I filed 2 divorced on adultery and abuse physical and emotional, and 1 on adultery after 18 years. It was a no contest divorce and lost my son. I have learned alot of lessons though. I am still fighting. 67 in Texas.
I am a Pastor (trained in NT greek) and someone shared this with me. I truly do like a bunch that he says in here, but he’s WAY off on abuse. First of all, the word in 1 Cor. 5:11 is not abusive, it’s swindler or extortioner or cheater. Reconcile this however you want, but the Bible does not explicitly address spousal abuse and does not give it as a grounds for divorce. Secondly, he opens the door for abuse so big you could drive a semi truck through it. Not just physical but mental or emotional abuse too. You know how many people claim to be “emotionally abused” now days? That’s often just as weak of an excuse as what he talked about when people say they are unhappy or that their spouse is crazy.
To be clear, if a spouse is beating another spouse, that is breaking the commandment that thou shalt not murder by way of unlawful physical harm and the marriage should be separated for a time to figure out what’s going on. There could be an argument for abandonment too. Clearly, I’m not saying that husbands should be allowed to beat their wives. But I’m disappointed that this preacher just shoved the word “abuse” in the Bible where it doesn’t belong. That’s theologically irresponsible.
You are 💯 biblical correct. This man tells his flock what they want to hear.
What edition of the bible are you using please? I have referenced 4 and I do not find 1st Corinthians 5:11 as shown. I am not debating I would just like to see it myself.
I am a Pastor (trained in NT greek) and someone shared this with me. I truly do like a bunch that he says in here, but he’s WAY off on abuse. First of all, the word in 1 Cor. 5:11 is not abusive, it’s swindler or extortioner or cheater. Reconcile this however you want, but the Bible does not explicitly address spousal abuse and does not give it as a grounds for divorce. Secondly, he opens the door for abuse so big you could drive a semi truck through it. Not just physical but mental or emotional abuse too. You know how many people claim to be “emotionally abused” now days? That’s often just as weak of an excuse as what he talked about when people say they are unhappy or that their spouse is crazy.
To be clear, if a spouse is beating another spouse, that is breaking the commandment that thou shalt not murder by way of unlawful physical harm and the marriage should be separated for a time to figure out what’s going on. There could be an argument for abandonment too. Clearly, I’m not saying that husbands should be allowed to beat their wives. But I’m disappointed that this preacher just shoved the word “abuse” in the Bible where it doesn’t belong. That’s theologically irresponsible.
I absolutely agree! Hence my question! Thank you
Jesus as saying: “It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, except on the grounds of porneia (sexual immorality), makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.” (Matthew 5:31-32).
You may get a divorce for those reasons there’s only one reason to be able to get married again after divorce
I had abuse , cheating, and abandonment from my husband. He almost killed me 1997 I had to have both hips replaced. I have stayed single he is now on wife 6. So how does God see him he was the abuser.
So, if you're divorced bc of any of the 4 reasons and have been divorced well over 10 years can you get remarried? Or must you remain single?
Is it possible to marry the wrong person?
Not to put a pastor in correction but the statistics of 50%included widows and singles I did a report on this. The numbers are still to high
I am divorced only because of my ex husband divorced me. I did not want a divorce. My question is what kind of preacher tells someone he just need to go ahead and divorce his wife?
please explain more
a false prophet comes to mind (the minister not you!! UNLESS your ex-husband lied to the minister, then it was based on false information)
My sister in-law is a Christian her husband isn't
He has cheated on her several times and he works out of the country
Doesn't won't to come home right now to her and the daughter
Would it be wrong for her to get the divorce because of the cheating
She doesn't won't to go against God but she isn't happy being with someone that cheats and doesn't love her.
confront him with the church
@@kc2dallas1975
She has talked to him about the Lord she prays for him all the time but he wants to live the single life while being married
She really loves him and wants to keep her family together but she can't keep living in misery
Thank you for replying
He committed adultery and there is scripture that allows the divorce
Jesus stated in Matthew that fornication was the reason you could divorce
That’s why God says do not unequally yoke yourself. You get one chance their is no remarriage unless your spouse dies.
The pastor says the 4th reason for divorce is 1 Corinthians 5:11- to not keep company with anyone named a brother who is living in sin. A fellow believer/brother isn’t a spouse. What if the sinful spouse isn’t a believer? Reason #4 shouldn’t be on the list. A fellow brother is not a spouse. The verse would say believing spouse or non believing spouse.
Please do a little more research on this passage. What version of the Bible are you using? Before the KJV this was not how this passage was interpreted. Today there are a couple of versions that are true to the original, the ESV being one of them.
Before the KJV this passage was interpreted as God hates the treachery or violence against the wife of one's youth. God, Himself, is a divorcee because of the idolatry and adultery of Israel.
God, Himself, made provision for the weaker one in the marriage to protect her from a man who deals treacherously with her.
I suggest you read Divorce and Remarriage in the Church by David Instone Brewer for more in depth info on this.
Thank you for listening.
Look people…. This pastor may say this…another may say that…Everyone interprets the Bible differently and all will say they ALL are correct even while ALL using the Bible’s word.
My wife filed for Divorce February 7th 2023. Feb 2nd I found out that my wife didn't place me on the deed of her home after I paid it off September 2015 3 months after our wedding. I sold my home and moved into her home. When I saw the house taxes and saw that my name wasn't on them I asked my wife point blank. All I received was silence and a stare down. I asked several times till I got tired of her silent treatment which is what she does when she doesn't want to talk about issues that effect us. So what room away I screamed "TALK TO ME"! Again nothing. So I called her a cuss word and walked away. 2 hours later she left and has been gone for 6 months. I have repented and asked forgiveness but she refuses to forgive. She refuses therapy, chooses not talk and just send texts. We have been married 3.5 years, it is both our second. We are both turning 60 this year. I discovered for myself through therapy I am a reactor not a responder. I didn't know how to handle silence after 2 years of it. She lives with her unsaved daughter and husband. I want my marriage and have wanted it from day one. Other than the communication issue all was well. I question her salvation due to her actions these past 2 years. I am praying for reconciliation.
Your wife was very wrong to take your money and not put you on the deed, but unfortunately, you have to do your due diligence before getting married about all the legal ramifications to protect yourself. Hopefully you can find an attorney to help you now. I'm sorry you are going through this.
This pastor gives dangerous advice. He says to not get a legal document and let the church write 1 for you. You absolutely need a legal document to protect yourself. What if an abusive person won't leave? You need court action. What if there's a chance he could take the kids and not bring them back? You need a legal document. What if he has stripped all the accounts? You need financial protection. Also, he said "don't take your kids to some counselor, bring them to the church." This is also not good advice, especially when he has just told people they dont need a legal document to protect themselves.
Ridiculous