Exactly, why does whatever a Man feel or sees as has to be linked to a negative thing. Why can't it just be as simple as 2 + 2 = 4 not 2 + 2 = WW3 and how I feel in that moment on that day during this lunar year where the stars are aligned at a 2° angle on a Sunday during a Leap year of Patriarchy with no bread to go with my tomatoe soup that was imported from China by a robot who can do the moon walk upsidedown while drinking a Pepsi at room temperature that was created by Mark Zuckerberg when he was shaving his taint with a Seashell that had a rainbow pearl in it that cures cancer but only when 2 + 2 = WW3 and how I feel...
@@nynyjohnson1 men actually don’t care … whores are treated as whores. What’s happening is is that whores don’t like the Shame that comes with the behavior and they are attempting to guilt men Into looking at it differently. It’s Not happening 🤣
What nobody is saying...they usually get married first. All that dopamine up front. Add in friends, conversations to find out what you like, become just that. They gotta show off to their competitors. Men...they fall for it every time. That trophy that you think looks good...is real different. As a real one...imma tell you that marriage is a hustle to some too. That vetting goes out the window once you know you got someone that's Bi...and will let you have extras or group fun. What she not gonna tell you is that's a regular thing. You not special. Only if she got a real agenda, then she would do whatever it takes to get you.
13:40 "Men need to be more considerate of women who have been through things." 100% agreed. We need to consider again before dealing with women who have been through things, because we all know that we don't want to deal with the "things" you have been through, or that have been through you.
He should have replied "the world doesn't owe you understanding" a lot of women always expect and want a man to "understand" be forgiving of all their disrespect and shortcomings! and not have any boundaries or standards. The reason why you did it doesn't matter! You still did it! And we don't want it!. No accountability
Our brains don’t work the same. (Edit) she proves the point. Also, I’d rather be with a woman that’s had less bodies with long relationships over a woman with a lot of short terms.
Omfg. They’re talking about the men that THEY find attractive. The AVERAGE MAN ain’t got options like that. Good god. How many times do we have to tell women this? Just an excuse to engage in loose booty antics.
It’s amazing how women claim ‘it doesn’t matter’ but they aren’t the consumer. It’s like a man saying ‘my height shouldn’t matter’ my money shouldn’t matter etc. Men accept women prefer taller men. Prefer men with economic stability. No matter what men wish their preferences to be men accept what it is. But women want to shape men’s preferences to accept them no matter what. And that’s just childish bs. Do what you want. But deal with the consequences of doing what you want.
They don’t care. They’d rather lower the stock collectively, form a wall, hoping men will have no option but to accept bad behavior. (Sisterhood code) Insane these hoes are, partake I shall not.
@LowkeyHighkeyz The only men who call you shallow are broke men who you're uninterested in anyway, just like the only women talking about body count shouldn't matter are the 304s who men dont want. Most men accept the fact that women care about height and money. No amount of arguing will change women's biological wants.
*Point 2:* "What's your obsession with a woman's body? We're so much more in what we bring to the table..." Let's flip that. "What's your obsession with a man's _money?_ Men are so much more than the $$$ they bring in; we've minds and bodies..." Doesn't exactly sound right, does it😒? The _same way_ women draw a sense of "security" if a man has money, men get that same feeling from a decent sexual history. Both of these are things a person can _control,_ and speaks to their life choices.
@yellowfeline6491 most are just outside sticking n moving. The girls too. If you ask for or allude to testing on day 1...and she gives in...then say..."she don't usually do that " that's her way of trying to stop the man from thinking what he already know....That's what she usually do. If you met her...with all the jewelry on...and she let a stranger have his way....thats speaks. To be fair...rare occasions when it's a day 1 outside. But then...because of insecurities n competition n knowing how amazing everything is with no barriers...that becomes her offering. Everything. So if you have something...she will gladly accept, but will give you something right back....and ask for money, because she accepted your gifts. But these days....thats just a regular day. Then on the job? They taking breaks n sneaking off. No work gets done. It can't when sex is going down at the job. And usually people have their real relationships, but at work? Oh they become acquainted real fast. It's more then just food sharing. Then when the real spouse works there...the joke gets too real. Cuz they already know something...just not who. Coworkers always know. Affairs are not that easy to hide. People get emotional n start to say or do too much. I always had fake affairs because I just refuse to be apart of that. I saw it clearly. Alot of drama happens especially on the clock.
@@yellowfeline6491 Women who are subpar would think so, I'm sure. Men are easy to get along with in general. If you can't get past "just your body", it's because that's all you've got. Until you've shown that you're worth paying attention to, you are only a pretty face. Like it or not, women just aren't special, they're just people.
She said that body count shouldn't matter then 30 seconds later said a woman should be careful with her body count. Talk about talking out both sides of ya mouth
Precisely@@LordHaveMurcielago, and it's that salient point which speaks to the sheer futile point of these discussions. BW are much too far gone to ever be saved.
@@sirpream.clientele an unfortunate truth. The Chriseans, Sukihanas, Summer Walkers and Sexxy Reds have a strong hold on the American black female populace. That’s who they model themselves after. We have to ask ourselves, since women have obtained this newfound “power”, what exactly have they done with it to help others or their surrounding communities? What has been created? What has been built? Or has all the money gone to paying the interest of their car notes, credit cards and student loans? The most disease ridden. The most in debt. Lowest marriage rate but highest divorce rate? They’re done!
Well@@soundsaboutright---, since "most men" are not having $€X, I reckon it's practically non-existent, in the grand scheme of things. i.e. Future & Nick Cannon is < their "B@B¥ M0MM@'$"
This shorty in the black just goes to show the women literally have no understanding of men. To even ask a question like what’s men’s obsession with a woman’s body. Ladies on a baseline level we are programmed to be obsessed with a woman’s body. Women nowadays literally have no idea who men are or what drives us.
It’s simple economics. Scarcity creates value. If anyone can have access to something it clearly isn’t that valuable. Plus it shows irresponsibility and a lack of discernment. I don’t want to start a family with a sexually irresponsible woman. I think they know that but they are just coping because they’re too far gone.
Bro that’s what I’m saying if you know she smashed the bros then Don’t make her your wife or gf 😂😂 you smash to niggas tryna make them hoes they wife and gf because they most likely the most attractive woman they done sleep with pussy good head fire they like man I wanna be the only nigga getting this 😂😂😂 then bam they done made a hoe they gf 😂😂😂
Asking women their body count is a no-go. 9 times out of 10, She's going to lie to make herself look better. Now hearing about her exploits by other men who say "Hey, I knocked that" or "Yo, she's washed up" and then dropping her, is quite alright.
The problem with the body count debate is that dudes wanna turn hoes into housewife’s because they look good if you don’t want hoe then don’t make her your gf or wife simple I ain’t never understood dudes wanting virgins man my girl better know how to fuck or if your gonna mess with her smash then dash simple cause news flash the passport bros ain’t getting virgins either do what works for you
They stay capping about preselection. They only want men other women want. That’s the difference. She proves his point by trying disprove their point. And doesn’t even realize it.
If a women argues with you about body count don't take her seriously. Whether she has a high body count or just taking up for h@es leave her alone. Just play your part and smash. Bevause even a girl with a low body count could flip later bevause in her mind she agrees with it
These woman are contradicting themselves. Just based on most woman preferences. Its obvious they want men who has a had sex with a lot of woman. And they dont even know. They want men who are charming, ambitious, has confidence, has game, and knows what he is doing in the bedroom. For a man who possess these traits, he has to have had experience with a lot of woman to develop them.
Black women always telling men to do what they do and care about what they care about while also complaining that men act like women. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
When people “y’all think wit y’all dick” or the like, it’s like they forgot that their called family jewels for a reason. We tryna figure out, biologically, metaphysically, where and which is the best to reanimate. Otherwise No one would exist.
They don’t understand why it matters to men because they don’t understand where they’re value is as a woman. Men know their value is what they provide be it financially emotionally sexually etc. Womens value is their reputation. She can be bad as a young Halle Barry, but if her reputation brings embarrassment to a man who claims her publicly she will forever be stuck in situationships instead of being pursued for commitment. The “obsession” she talking about is the fear of being clowned and ridiculed behind his back for claiming you. Back in the day it wasn’t that easy to find dirt on someone as a promiscuous woman from Sacramento can move to New Jersey and redefine herself but with the internet, the world is too small now to be claiming community 🐱 publicly.
8:21 - 8:24 yes that very much is true to the fullest and it's easy to prove. How many women in Mass are going out of their way to intentionally date Virgin Men let alone marry them and stay married to them while being loyal... How many women from our great grandparents till today have admitted on video that they want a guy with "experience" and dated if not cheated with those very guys...
Saying a body don't matter is insane to me because what she did with a guy from the past can be brought into a new relationship and damage it completely by way of diseases, why we actin like there's not shit floatin around out here? Know your partner! Know what they did in their past period
Men do it all the time tho. Y’all fuck around, and than when y’all ready to settle down. Y’all than wanna picks women with a low body count. while men be sky high.
@@jas1565 you can get tested and still catch something down the line...why are we acting like this isn't a possible factor? I have a question, are you 1 of those women/men that no matter what the woman right. Cause to act like wanting to know somebody body count is wrong or forbidden is crazy to me
@@Itsvilla11 the point you brought up could exist whether someone has had 1 partner or 10. Framing it as though it's for your own health and safety is disingenuous because men aren't concerned about their own body counts and the risk of STIs or STDs so why are they so concerned with women's body counts?
I found out my wife's body count after 27 years of marriage and it was way higher then I thought. And it got me trippin for years she was real vague about it but she finally give me the true number. So from 14 to 21 years old she had 53 bodies I was number 54 I met her when she was 23 years old. So I did the math that was 7 to 8 men a year for 7 years so equals out to a different man every 5 to 6 weeks a year. Man that has my head fucked up for real.
@kingquestOZ she's been a good wife and mother, when she told me she started crying and she was ashamed she's always suffered from low self esteem never thinking she was pretty enough or attractive enough to be with me, so she said back then she just wanted to be accepted and for the guys to like her and wanna stay with her but she realizes that they were just using her. I've always told her she was beautiful even when she's been at her lowest when it comes to her looks.
Body count matters to men.. Period! To take it a step forward women are emotional and tend to take experiences, trauma to the next relationship. Now not only does she have a high body count but the trauma experiences are high as well.
If you don’t want a chick with a high body count then don’t make her your gf or wife her smash and pass why take her seriously and if you find out later she does have a high body count what ever that means you have to decide to your self do you wanna continue being with this person I’m on my hustle I don’t have time to be worrying about dudes my girl has been with she wasn’t no virgin when I got wit her hell I wasn’t know virgin either bro we grown I know you got exes I’m not stupid if I know a girl has had bad relationships I’m not making her my gf or wifing her I’m just gone fuck her and that’s all she getting she gone get some food maybe a move that’s bout it 😂😂😂
That would make sense if the same men didn't say they were a "nice guy" until ONE girl hurt their feelings lol the differences aren't as stark as you think
The difference is. A women can say she f@cked your man but you can say I got the car and house and kids. If a man say I f@cked your girl what can a man say. She makes me dinner lol. It's not the same
Wow...0:18 in, it starts. Let's clarify: Men don't have some conspiracy to "control" women. But before any _sensible_ person invests heavily... be it time, money, emotion, effort... into _any_ thing, they *should* have a _detailed history_ on it. Saying that's "childish" belittles the fact that damage (mental, emotional, spiritual, physical, character-wise) all accrue with time and bodies. She _herself_ *admitted* that women "get emotionally attached fast"...how are those "attachments" safe for any new guy?
I literally tell every woman I meet I don’t know my body count because I literally don’t. Not saying it’s a hood or bad thing . I was star highschool and college athlete so before I even graduated college I had been stopped counting and every woman I’ve met that asks get the same response . While they don’t like it it’s never stopped someone from talking to me so they clearly don’t care .
Same here bro…my female bestie, who I’ve been smashing over 20 years, asked me how many women I’ve smashed, I couldn’t even count and I’ve tried. I was an athlete in high school and college as well, and they will all smash the same dude that their friends or women close to them did.
@@handlebars3085 I'm sure he didn't know his stats either if someone else wasn't keeping track for him. Those women ARE hoes...men are hoemakers. Men and women aren't the same and the sooner you get that, the better. The penis envy in modern women is pathetic SMH
The problem with all these conversations with women is that men see all women in the conversation, women ONLY see the stop 10 or 5%, the rest of the men are background props to them. Thats how women can confidently say dudes are getting all these chicks like easy, cause that dude shes talking about is likely a Chris Brown type character.
Bro most people are dating and having kids with people in the same tax bracket these chicks in the projects ain’t fucking spencer who makes 500,000 a year who works at Wall Street there fucking the dude sho standing on the block chris who got that dope on em people get what are familiar to them that’s only on the internet woman see top men and that’s it the same woman who saying she want a man making 100,000 is the same woman who ex was broke and has a roommate make that make sense woman say that cause it sounds good
Prime example was sexy reds say cheese interview she is from the hood and in the interview she said she like hood dudes I expected her to say that she wasn’t gonna say yeah I like doctors and lawyers and CEO’s hood dudes were around her u like what you are familiar with
At the end of the day, what is important for you isn’t important for me. We different and when women understand can accept this they will be closer to understanding men. The inability to understand why men value different things is why we keep hitting this wall.
None of the men on here can articulate their points clear enough to get their point across or effectively get the women on the set to understand what men/ women value in the sexual market place.
Why ask this question? You have a body count, contributed to someone’s body count, and a number in someone’s body count. The now creates a situation when you connect with the “one”as opposed to it being you creating a unique space of intimacy with him/her you’re now utilizing the experiences you have had with others to create intimacy. So now your partner becomes a performer because all you know is where you’ve been and your partner is now judged or creating that experience. If you didn’t honor your body, why ask someone how about they honored theirs.
@@kingjah6420 My response is not about who receives a benefit, but rather when one enters into a relationship as an adult and how they communicate the standard of relationship they desire. Wanting to know your partner’s sexual history to discuss things that may “hinder” your relationship is one thing, and knowing so that you can simply say “you were the first, or did it better “ simply put is silly. This response is coming from an older woman, and it would serve you well to consider who you may be speaking to as opposed to assuming you are speaking to someone you are accustomed to speaking to. Thank you however, for your feedback.
*Point 3:* Why can't men treat sex as sacred as women? Simple: *We EVOLVED differently.* What's a woman's evolutionary strategy? Find the best mate possible, have offspring, raise them to survive, i.e. Gamble on one. What's a man's evolutionary strategy: Get _as much sex as possible_ with as many _partner's_ as possible to ensure at least _some_ of the offspring survive, i.e. Gamble on many. This is why men and women _bound differently_ during sex: better species survival odds.
@@handlebars3085 Actually, we _are_ animals; the only other designations, besides what people want to say, are Vegetable and Mineral. End of the day, that means we _are subject_ to biological impulses and rules. Your comment, I'm guessing, was meant to imply ""men should have more self control than to give in to their base animal instincts and impulses," correct? Ok, fair enough in _principle,_ but how many people, male _or_ female, *actually do it* in _Practice?_ More to the point: do you hold those people responsible to the _same extent_ of having "Self control" that you seem to expect most _men_ to fall to? This isn't meant facetiously; I'm genuinely asking you to be fair in what you request. Do you use that same "you should master your urges" tone with people who are overweight, and don't focus on healthy eating or exercise? Do you maintain that "be better than that" stance when women are getting a dopamine hit from getting likes and attention on social media, all the while having a boyfriend? Do you _disregard_ the female security and ego-boosting strategy of keeping various male "friends" she has *absolutely NO sexual interest in* around as emotional or even financial support? Do you berate men who use any physical aggression against women (natural impulse) but *don't berate* women who use excess physical (50-60%) _and_ verbal, mental, relational and emotional abuse or violence (over 85%) against men and other women? These are basic examples of people giving in to their basal "animal impulses" or "not exerting control over their wants and emotions" _every day,_ and you can go right on social media to see the examples. So... you can't have it both ways. I actually _agree_ with you, people should have more discipline within a range of behavior, including sexual... but to sit back here and _blatantly_ try to imply our physical impulses and animal make up *does not exert* deep sway on our actions and behaviors daily, or that they are just "easy" to control... and thus the opens who _don't_ should be vilified for it.... that argument is either disingenuous, or absurdly naive. Either that, or if you're going to hold a group to a standard in _one_ case, you *need* to be willing to do the same for all the _others._ I'm interested in seeing which way your thoughts will turn.
So, by your thinking, it's "no excuse" for a woman to go and get pregnant with a man for "good genes" cause he "turns her on", but _then_ seek out a "provider male" to help her _raise_ said offspring, is it? We agree, then: evolution is no excuse for that kind of behavior.
@@handlebars3085 you clearly don't understand testosterone then. You should STFU (in general, but in this case specifically) and listen to the women who have undergone testosterone treatment. Men still carry 10 times more than them but they couldn't control themselves. Y'all should really just STFU sometimes instead of confirming that y'all are in fact retarded SMH
It’s Not jealousy it’s morality and grace. If you giving up your box like a free for all it takes away from your value,, wtf worth are you with used up box. We don’t like that shit so get use to it and stop fighting against it.. The ownest is on you to be more selective n not community box
JEALOUSY? WELL IF MEN COULD GET SOME SELF RESPECT AND STOP SNIFFING AFTER WOMEN LIKE WILD DOGS FOAMING AT THE MOUTH, THEN IT MIGHT NOT BE SO HARD FOR YOU.
ALLLLLLLLL ace had to do was bring it home with the statement "with great power comes great responsibility" he hit it dead on . There's more value in a woman who can control herself with all that power more than a woman who is just all out there.. that's the key. Men don't naturally come with that power still wrong but a woman that can keep them legs close is way more valuable to a marriage not talking boyfriend girlfriend stuff
Men dont want to accept the fact that men have it easier in dating and have the leverage to establish and uphold waaaaay more double standards.. outside or chivalry, women dont have the power to enforce many double standards
I woukd respect a woman more if she had humiliating and said she made mistakes and don't want to hurt the guy and this or that happened and be prepared if you can deal with it
Listen ladies why do y'all keep saying it shouldn't matter when the people that it matters to keep telling you it matters you are not going to change their minds what's the point of saying it and fellas they are going to lie anyway and most of y'all don't believe them anyway and ladies a man don't want to go out with you and six dudes in the same spot done blazed you
Since women like money Ill give them. an example comparable of why men care abt body count... Would you rather the job that everybody can get with ease, or the job that has ppl competing for it for the best candidate... McDonald's (ANYBODY CAN GET THIS), vs an exec AT Google... One pays a flat rate, while the other has unlimited financial potential etc..Women who have her self to a bunch of ppl has vry little value in the eyes of a man who wants to marry her vs a woman who protects her womb from just anybody
BTW: Sorry, it's long. I just truly don't understand why we still play into these games. I'm going to speak for me because these, amazing, brothers can't. Body count only matters to me when it comes to black women. Just like Eli, I'm a black man madly in love with the idea of true black excellence. As a MAN, yes, I need to look at women with my mind's eye and not my snakes eye. The same thing can be and should be told to women. You all move off emotional views rather than the reality that's being shown around you. Unc said if best in ATL, "how you feel and what's real is two different things." A man can feel like he found "the one," but really, he is just lonely, horny, and doesn't believe he can find anybody else. A woman can believe she found "the one," not accepting that he is actually controlling, abusive, and draining her energy. Until we as black people come together and stop having these dumb conversations, we aren't going nowhere. A lot of us are hurt, not traumatized, HURT. Heal yourself and learn yourself. That way, men aren't out here crying and deleting their selves over a woman that treated him like a trick/play thing, while being the 304 she always was. Women won't be out here giving their bodies away to a false sense of love that ultimately leaves them tired, broke, and struggling with a child on her own. We deserve better and only we can be better for our people
Great show, however it doesn't matter whether they held us accountable for sleeping with multiple women. Lol. Men are still going to do it anyway. It's in our nature and in our DNA. We are not the same in any way shape or fashion when it comes to that. Those women who can shut off their emotions for sex will only hurt themselves in the long run. Lol so they can live it up for now but in the end it will only them when it comes to relationships
@@soundsaboutright---No, things would work the way they did for thousands of years up until the last few decades of feminist propaganda. What do you think women did before birth control pills, DNA test to know who the father is, and child support laws to reward then for having bastard children? Every man wanted sex from every woman, but women held out for the best man that would support her and her kids. That was the intended balance, yin/yang. Men had to handle their business in order to get sex. Now women sleeping with dustballs in the name of "liberation", and then tunring around and blaming the dust ball for being what he is. Then she want to blame the man who knows his worth for not wanting a dustballs leftovers. Goofballs
They really don't. The same way men want a girl that other people want, women want a man that other women want. Neither party wants a partner that's readily accessible to other people.
It has nothing to do with jealousy trust me if a guy could he would love to be her first and only that would mean so much to him if you a chick that done had so much 🍆 he knows he could never be your first love but if he could you got something so special you don't realize
WARNING MEN. GOD HAS NO DOUBLE STANDARD FOR THE SIN IF FORNICATION. JUDGE NIT THAT YE NOT BE JUDGED. NO GID HAS NO EXPERIENCED REQUOREMENT FOR MEN BEFORE MARRIAGE.
Biblical marriage is sex. Biblical adultery is a man sleeping with another man’s wife and a woman sleeping with any of besides her man. The Bible is a polygnous book, not a monogamous or egalitarian one.
How exactly are you gonna know how many bodies she caught? You are going to hurt your own feelings asking them questions. If I am linking a ting and I like the fit when I am blaming it out I don't go off asking about ex-boyfriends and other mans she tagged before me. I am not the female in this situation, she is, and if I were to ask such a question I would be indirectly telling her that I am soft. But then again I am not into the custom of putting rings on fingers and bending knees. So all the mans them who lenged her before me I pay them no never mind.
Bro exactly if yo girl ain’t a virgin at the very list you ain’t the first dude she slept with you know how many older dudes I know 35 40 plus in long term relationships there girls wasn’t virgins when they met them do what works for your relationship if you don’t want a girl with a high body count or one you suspect has one break up with her or fuck her and keep it pushing simple me personally I’m not about to ask no woman how many dudes have you slept with the fuck I look if she fucked the gang then don’t date her just fuck her an keep pushing but dudes wanna turn that hoe into a house wife cause she look good that’s where the problems come in at
If body count doesn't matter, why do women lie about it or hide the truth? 🤔
Feelings of: Shame & Embrassment.
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Let’s keep this simple. Men do not want to be in a marriage or a committed relationship with a tramp. How hard is this to understand?
And vise versa? Why is that so complicated? We stay pure and get community dick as a husband? I’m cool with rocking with the std mike
Exactly, why does whatever a Man feel or sees as has to be linked to a negative thing. Why can't it just be as simple as 2 + 2 = 4 not 2 + 2 = WW3 and how I feel in that moment on that day during this lunar year where the stars are aligned at a 2° angle on a Sunday during a Leap year of Patriarchy with no bread to go with my tomatoe soup that was imported from China by a robot who can do the moon walk upsidedown while drinking a Pepsi at room temperature that was created by Mark Zuckerberg when he was shaving his taint with a Seashell that had a rainbow pearl in it that cures cancer but only when 2 + 2 = WW3 and how I feel...
It’s not hard to understand … women just want to whore and be treated like princesses at the same time lol
@@menacemini4894 okay and that’s the same thing men are saying. They wanna have you and every other female while you stay loyal to only him
@@nynyjohnson1 men actually don’t care … whores are treated as whores. What’s happening is is that whores don’t like the Shame that comes with the behavior and they are attempting to guilt men Into looking at it differently. It’s Not happening 🤣
Her BODYCOUNT don’t MATTER because she’s not getting MARRIED🤡🤡🤡
What nobody is saying...they usually get married first. All that dopamine up front. Add in friends, conversations to find out what you like, become just that. They gotta show off to their competitors. Men...they fall for it every time. That trophy that you think looks good...is real different. As a real one...imma tell you that marriage is a hustle to some too. That vetting goes out the window once you know you got someone that's Bi...and will let you have extras or group fun. What she not gonna tell you is that's a regular thing. You not special. Only if she got a real agenda, then she would do whatever it takes to get you.
13:40 "Men need to be more considerate of women who have been through things." 100% agreed. We need to consider again before dealing with women who have been through things, because we all know that we don't want to deal with the "things" you have been through, or that have been through you.
He should have replied "the world doesn't owe you understanding" a lot of women always expect and want a man to "understand" be forgiving of all their disrespect and shortcomings! and not have any boundaries or standards. The reason why you did it doesn't matter! You still did it! And we don't want it!. No accountability
I don't have much time to be a lover and a social worker. Props to the man who can but I cant
we’re seeing women who want to have their fun without there being any consequences. that’s not how life works. 🤷🏾♂️
Both men and women are dumb enough to think that way
Can’t be helped
Our brains don’t work the same.
(Edit) she proves the point.
Also, I’d rather be with a woman that’s had less bodies with long relationships over a woman with a lot of short terms.
Omfg.
They’re talking about the men that THEY find attractive. The AVERAGE MAN ain’t got options like that.
Good god. How many times do we have to tell women this? Just an excuse to engage in loose booty antics.
Being turned off n being jealous is completely two different things 😅
I think men realize women bring nothing to the table BUT there body, and if I'm sharing that with everybody else. Why would I consider them the prize.
It’s amazing how women claim ‘it doesn’t matter’ but they aren’t the consumer. It’s like a man saying ‘my height shouldn’t matter’ my money shouldn’t matter etc. Men accept women prefer taller men. Prefer men with economic stability. No matter what men wish their preferences to be men accept what it is. But women want to shape men’s preferences to accept them no matter what. And that’s just childish bs. Do what you want. But deal with the consequences of doing what you want.
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Y’all don’t accept it cause y’all belittle women about those preferences, calling us shallow and gold diggers.
They don’t care.
They’d rather lower the stock collectively, form a wall, hoping men will have no option but to accept bad behavior. (Sisterhood code)
Insane these hoes are, partake I shall not.
@LowkeyHighkeyz The only men who call you shallow are broke men who you're uninterested in anyway, just like the only women talking about body count shouldn't matter are the 304s who men dont want. Most men accept the fact that women care about height and money. No amount of arguing will change women's biological wants.
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Because When women have a lot of bodies she doesn't know who the children's father is.
*Point 2:* "What's your obsession with a woman's body? We're so much more in what we bring to the table..." Let's flip that. "What's your obsession with a man's _money?_ Men are so much more than the $$$ they bring in; we've minds and bodies..." Doesn't exactly sound right, does it😒? The _same way_ women draw a sense of "security" if a man has money, men get that same feeling from a decent sexual history. Both of these are things a person can _control,_ and speaks to their life choices.
"Women are so much more than their body." You are just your body until I like you.
To women
Men who just want to smash don’t care it’s just their turn
Marriage wise she hopes she gets who she wants unless it’ll be simp
Sounds so narcissistic and detached.
@yellowfeline6491 most are just outside sticking n moving. The girls too. If you ask for or allude to testing on day 1...and she gives in...then say..."she don't usually do that " that's her way of trying to stop the man from thinking what he already know....That's what she usually do. If you met her...with all the jewelry on...and she let a stranger have his way....thats speaks. To be fair...rare occasions when it's a day 1 outside. But then...because of insecurities n competition n knowing how amazing everything is with no barriers...that becomes her offering. Everything. So if you have something...she will gladly accept, but will give you something right back....and ask for money, because she accepted your gifts. But these days....thats just a regular day. Then on the job? They taking breaks n sneaking off. No work gets done. It can't when sex is going down at the job. And usually people have their real relationships, but at work? Oh they become acquainted real fast. It's more then just food sharing. Then when the real spouse works there...the joke gets too real. Cuz they already know something...just not who. Coworkers always know. Affairs are not that easy to hide. People get emotional n start to say or do too much. I always had fake affairs because I just refuse to be apart of that. I saw it clearly. Alot of drama happens especially on the clock.
@@yellowfeline6491 Women who are subpar would think so, I'm sure.
Men are easy to get along with in general. If you can't get past "just your body", it's because that's all you've got.
Until you've shown that you're worth paying attention to, you are only a pretty face. Like it or not, women just aren't special, they're just people.
@@yellowfeline6491it's the truth when you boiled it all the way down. Doesn't mean you are any less valuable.
She said that body count shouldn't matter then 30 seconds later said a woman should be careful with her body count. Talk about talking out both sides of ya mouth
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It shows a lack of control. You can't respect a loose woman.
Syphillis infection rate is at 128% amongst women in Houston.
And I land my plane...
The pink elephant in the room that literally NO ONE ever mentions. Atlanta, Houston, D.C. are all on fire right now. Sheesh 😬
Precisely@@LordHaveMurcielago, and it's that salient point which speaks to the sheer futile point of these discussions.
BW are much too far gone to ever be saved.
@@sirpream.clientele an unfortunate truth. The Chriseans, Sukihanas, Summer Walkers and Sexxy Reds have a strong hold on the American black female populace. That’s who they model themselves after. We have to ask ourselves, since women have obtained this newfound “power”, what exactly have they done with it to help others or their surrounding communities? What has been created? What has been built? Or has all the money gone to paying the interest of their car notes, credit cards and student loans? The most disease ridden. The most in debt. Lowest marriage rate but highest divorce rate? They’re done!
What is it among the men?
Well@@soundsaboutright---, since "most men" are not having $€X, I reckon it's practically non-existent, in the grand scheme of things.
i.e. Future & Nick Cannon is < their "B@B¥ M0MM@'$"
This shorty in the black just goes to show the women literally have no understanding of men. To even ask a question like what’s men’s obsession with a woman’s body. Ladies on a baseline level we are programmed to be obsessed with a woman’s body. Women nowadays literally have no idea who men are or what drives us.
With all due respect to the lady in the black I wish you would think instead of feel😂
Yes women are more than their body.. but what a woman does with her body tells me how her mind works..
That chick will never 😢 get a valued Man
It’s simple economics. Scarcity creates value. If anyone can have access to something it clearly isn’t that valuable. Plus it shows irresponsibility and a lack of discernment. I don’t want to start a family with a sexually irresponsible woman. I think they know that but they are just coping because they’re too far gone.
That part
So a man can have a high body count but women can’t ?
Then why do y’all fuck so many women? You become less valuable
Me too but other way. I can't date you knowing every girl was on your rod. And I'm looking dumb. I agree
Lol then how does the same not apply to men?
She's not even listening to what they're saying for the most part.
Don’t nobody walk up and ask a woman her body count lets be real but if you smashed the homies ✌🏾
Bro that’s what I’m saying if you know she smashed the bros then Don’t make her your wife or gf 😂😂 you smash to niggas tryna make them hoes they wife and gf because they most likely the most attractive woman they done sleep with pussy good head fire they like man I wanna be the only nigga getting this 😂😂😂 then bam they done made a hoe they gf 😂😂😂
Asking women their body count is a no-go. 9 times out of 10, She's going to lie to make herself look better. Now hearing about her exploits by other men who say "Hey, I knocked that" or "Yo, she's washed up" and then dropping her, is quite alright.
All a woman is , is her body. First and foremost. Without that body I wouldn’t ask how your day was
Body count does not matter!.............To the guys who dont care about them. You get what you pay for ladies.🤷🏾♂
The problem with the body count debate is that dudes wanna turn hoes into housewife’s because they look good if you don’t want hoe then don’t make her your gf or wife simple I ain’t never understood dudes wanting virgins man my girl better know how to fuck or if your gonna mess with her smash then dash simple cause news flash the passport bros ain’t getting virgins either do what works for you
They stay capping about preselection. They only want men other women want. That’s the difference. She proves his point by trying disprove their point. And doesn’t even realize it.
If a women argues with you about body count don't take her seriously. Whether she has a high body count or just taking up for h@es leave her alone. Just play your part and smash. Bevause even a girl with a low body count could flip later bevause in her mind she agrees with it
Dr. Teeth explained it perfectly and they flew right past what he said.
They will NEVER understand..IM CONVINCED
These woman are contradicting themselves. Just based on most woman preferences. Its obvious they want men who has a had sex with a lot of woman. And they dont even know.
They want men who are charming, ambitious, has confidence, has game, and knows what he is doing in the bedroom.
For a man who possess these traits, he has to have had experience with a lot of woman to develop them.
Women tend to speak on something that happens in a perfect world but not in reality.
A woman's past matters to a man. A man's future matters to a woman.
The same women complaining about men objectifying them for their body's are the same ones flaunting their bodies on social media.
Black women always telling men to do what they do and care about what they care about while also complaining that men act like women. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
11:58 how is it these girls offten see "mixy Women" get wifed up when only 25% of Black Women are married?
When people “y’all think wit y’all dick” or the like, it’s like they forgot that their called family jewels for a reason. We tryna figure out, biologically, metaphysically, where and which is the best to reanimate. Otherwise No one would exist.
They don’t understand why it matters to men because they don’t understand where they’re value is as a woman.
Men know their value is what they provide be it financially emotionally sexually etc.
Womens value is their reputation. She can be bad as a young Halle Barry, but if her reputation brings embarrassment to a man who claims her publicly she will forever be stuck in situationships instead of being pursued for commitment.
The “obsession” she talking about is the fear of being clowned and ridiculed behind his back for claiming you. Back in the day it wasn’t that easy to find dirt on someone as a promiscuous woman from Sacramento can move to New Jersey and redefine herself but with the internet, the world is too small now to be claiming community 🐱 publicly.
8:21 - 8:24 yes that very much is true to the fullest and it's easy to prove.
How many women in Mass are going out of their way to intentionally date Virgin Men let alone marry them and stay married to them while being loyal... How many women from our great grandparents till today have admitted on video that they want a guy with "experience" and dated if not cheated with those very guys...
ITS NEVER YOURS, ITS JUST YOUR TURN
Dope conversation very interesting
There no point of getting married anymore 4:05
Saying a body don't matter is insane to me because what she did with a guy from the past can be brought into a new relationship and damage it completely by way of diseases, why we actin like there's not shit floatin around out here? Know your partner! Know what they did in their past period
Men do it all the time tho. Y’all fuck around, and than when y’all ready to settle down. Y’all than wanna picks women with a low body count. while men be sky high.
Thank you for actually using your brain. It's real hot outside and nobody cares about that part.
That's dumb.. do you not get tested?
@@jas1565 you can get tested and still catch something down the line...why are we acting like this isn't a possible factor? I have a question, are you 1 of those women/men that no matter what the woman right. Cause to act like wanting to know somebody body count is wrong or forbidden is crazy to me
@@Itsvilla11 the point you brought up could exist whether someone has had 1 partner or 10. Framing it as though it's for your own health and safety is disingenuous because men aren't concerned about their own body counts and the risk of STIs or STDs so why are they so concerned with women's body counts?
I guess she hasn't heard of a resume
Body count matters. Ain't no man gonna want a chick with different semon in her Virginia. That's unsanitary🎯💯
Modern women avoiding standards, what else is new?
High body count detected ⁉️ Fellas... What number do you give this one?? I say over 50
They need to talk to more men. Men are not fucking like they think.
I found out my wife's body count after 27 years of marriage and it was way higher then I thought. And it got me trippin for years she was real vague about it but she finally give me the true number. So from 14 to 21 years old she had 53 bodies I was number 54 I met her when she was 23 years old. So I did the math that was 7 to 8 men a year for 7 years so equals out to a different man every 5 to 6 weeks a year. Man that has my head fucked up for real.
Shameful, but you have been married 27 years does that mean a high body count women can be a good wife?
@kingquestOZ she's been a good wife and mother, when she told me she started crying and she was ashamed she's always suffered from low self esteem never thinking she was pretty enough or attractive enough to be with me, so she said back then she just wanted to be accepted and for the guys to like her and wanna stay with her but she realizes that they were just using her. I've always told her she was beautiful even when she's been at her lowest when it comes to her looks.
Sheeeeeesh!
I couldn’t look at her the same way anymore, just me.
@@Volluble I don't.....
Body count matters to men.. Period! To take it a step forward women are emotional and tend to take experiences, trauma to the next relationship. Now not only does she have a high body count but the trauma experiences are high as well.
THIS
If you don’t want a chick with a high body count then don’t make her your gf or wife her smash and pass why take her seriously and if you find out later she does have a high body count what ever that means you have to decide to your self do you wanna continue being with this person I’m on my hustle I don’t have time to be worrying about dudes my girl has been with she wasn’t no virgin when I got wit her hell I wasn’t know virgin either bro we grown I know you got exes I’m not stupid if I know a girl has had bad relationships I’m not making her my gf or wifing her I’m just gone fuck her and that’s all she getting she gone get some food maybe a move that’s bout it 😂😂😂
So a man can have a high body count but women can’t ?
That would make sense if the same men didn't say they were a "nice guy" until ONE girl hurt their feelings lol the differences aren't as stark as you think
@@soundsaboutright--- You sound hurt, and you're making the point.
Spoken like a true 304
No real man asks a woman how much men they’ve been with! This is just a social media concept, not a reality thing
No frl.
This is it.....💯
If you don't have a low body count, what special can she offer,because most women have kids.
The difference is. A women can say she f@cked your man but you can say I got the car and house and kids. If a man say I f@cked your girl what can a man say. She makes me dinner lol. It's not the same
Still bad. I don't want a women to say she fucked my men at all when I'm married to him.
Clearly none of you know anything about oxytocin and how it works in woman. I would have ended this discussion in 30 seconds.
Wow...0:18 in, it starts. Let's clarify: Men don't have some conspiracy to "control" women. But before any _sensible_ person invests heavily... be it time, money, emotion, effort... into _any_ thing, they *should* have a _detailed history_ on it. Saying that's "childish" belittles the fact that damage (mental, emotional, spiritual, physical, character-wise) all accrue with time and bodies. She _herself_ *admitted* that women "get emotionally attached fast"...how are those "attachments" safe for any new guy?
Body count is simply the pattern of a woman’s character… It’s a sign of what she’s been capable of…
I really want to come on this podcast one day✨I have so much to say
Let's do a one on one ourselves
Say it right here in the comments 😂
I literally tell every woman I meet I don’t know my body count because I literally don’t. Not saying it’s a hood or bad thing . I was star highschool and college athlete so before I even graduated college I had been stopped counting and every woman I’ve met that asks get the same response . While they don’t like it it’s never stopped someone from talking to me so they clearly don’t care .
To not know your body count in high school.… no self discipline and these same women you slept with you would call 304’s
Same here bro…my female bestie, who I’ve been smashing over 20 years, asked me how many women I’ve smashed, I couldn’t even count and I’ve tried. I was an athlete in high school and college as well, and they will all smash the same dude that their friends or women close to them did.
@@handlebars3085 I'm sure he didn't know his stats either if someone else wasn't keeping track for him. Those women ARE hoes...men are hoemakers. Men and women aren't the same and the sooner you get that, the better. The penis envy in modern women is pathetic SMH
The problem with all these conversations with women is that men see all women in the conversation, women ONLY see the stop 10 or 5%, the rest of the men are background props to them. Thats how women can confidently say dudes are getting all these chicks like easy, cause that dude shes talking about is likely a Chris Brown type character.
Bro most people are dating and having kids with people in the same tax bracket these chicks in the projects ain’t fucking spencer who makes 500,000 a year who works at Wall Street there fucking the dude sho standing on the block chris who got that dope on em people get what are familiar to them that’s only on the internet woman see top men and that’s it the same woman who saying she want a man making 100,000 is the same woman who ex was broke and has a roommate make that make sense woman say that cause it sounds good
Prime example was sexy reds say cheese interview she is from the hood and in the interview she said she like hood dudes I expected her to say that she wasn’t gonna say yeah I like doctors and lawyers and CEO’s hood dudes were around her u like what you are familiar with
And I say money shouldn't matter
Body count does matter 😐
At the end of the day, what is important for you isn’t important for me. We different and when women understand can accept this they will be closer to understanding men. The inability to understand why men value different things is why we keep hitting this wall.
I would love to the the blue line supporters justify their actions.
Women will always lose in debates bc they look anecdotally, empathize, or the outliers. Lost.
Men and Women please only deal with people who are healed. If the slightest thing is off, please leave.
None of the men on here can articulate their points clear enough to get their point across or effectively get the women on the set to understand what men/ women value in the sexual market place.
Men value a woman's past; women value a man's future. It's biology.
Why ask this question? You have a body count, contributed to someone’s body count, and a number in someone’s body count. The now creates a situation when you connect with the “one”as opposed to it being you creating a unique space of intimacy with him/her you’re now utilizing the experiences you have had with others to create intimacy. So now your partner becomes a performer because all you know is where you’ve been and your partner is now judged or creating that experience. If you didn’t honor your body, why ask someone how about they honored theirs.
Its a double standard that doesn't benefit you so it's not cool we get it
@@kingjah6420 My response is not about who receives a benefit, but rather when one enters into a relationship as an adult and how they communicate the standard of relationship they desire. Wanting to know your partner’s sexual history to discuss things that may “hinder” your relationship is one thing, and knowing so that you can simply say “you were the first, or did it better “ simply put is silly. This response is coming from an older woman, and it would serve you well to consider who you may be speaking to as opposed to assuming you are speaking to someone you are accustomed to speaking to. Thank you however, for your feedback.
Psa: Today's women don't listen, and they really do talk back!!!
*Point 3:* Why can't men treat sex as sacred as women? Simple: *We EVOLVED differently.* What's a woman's evolutionary strategy? Find the best mate possible, have offspring, raise them to survive, i.e. Gamble on one. What's a man's evolutionary strategy: Get _as much sex as possible_ with as many _partner's_ as possible to ensure at least _some_ of the offspring survive, i.e. Gamble on many. This is why men and women _bound differently_ during sex: better species survival odds.
This isn't ancient times and we're not animals, we all know evolution. Its not a excuse to do what ever because you think you can
@@handlebars3085 Actually, we _are_ animals; the only other designations, besides what people want to say, are Vegetable and Mineral. End of the day, that means we _are subject_ to biological impulses and rules. Your comment, I'm guessing, was meant to imply ""men should have more self control than to give in to their base animal instincts and impulses," correct?
Ok, fair enough in _principle,_ but how many people, male _or_ female, *actually do it* in _Practice?_ More to the point: do you hold those people responsible to the _same extent_ of having "Self control" that you seem to expect most _men_ to fall to? This isn't meant facetiously; I'm genuinely asking you to be fair in what you request.
Do you use that same "you should master your urges" tone with people who are overweight, and don't focus on healthy eating or exercise?
Do you maintain that "be better than that" stance when women are getting a dopamine hit from getting likes and attention on social media, all the while having a boyfriend?
Do you _disregard_ the female security and ego-boosting strategy of keeping various male "friends" she has *absolutely NO sexual interest in* around as emotional or even financial support?
Do you berate men who use any physical aggression against women (natural impulse) but *don't berate* women who use excess physical (50-60%) _and_ verbal, mental, relational and emotional abuse or violence (over 85%) against men and other women?
These are basic examples of people giving in to their basal "animal impulses" or "not exerting control over their wants and emotions" _every day,_ and you can go right on social media to see the examples.
So... you can't have it both ways.
I actually _agree_ with you, people should have more discipline within a range of behavior, including sexual... but to sit back here and _blatantly_ try to imply our physical impulses and animal make up *does not exert* deep sway on our actions and behaviors daily, or that they are just "easy" to control... and thus the opens who _don't_ should be vilified for it.... that argument is either disingenuous, or absurdly naive.
Either that, or if you're going to hold a group to a standard in _one_ case, you *need* to be willing to do the same for all the _others._
I'm interested in seeing which way your thoughts will turn.
So, by your thinking, it's "no excuse" for a woman to go and get pregnant with a man for "good genes" cause he "turns her on", but _then_ seek out a "provider male" to help her _raise_ said offspring, is it? We agree, then: evolution is no excuse for that kind of behavior.
@@handlebars3085 you clearly don't understand testosterone then. You should STFU (in general, but in this case specifically) and listen to the women who have undergone testosterone treatment. Men still carry 10 times more than them but they couldn't control themselves. Y'all should really just STFU sometimes instead of confirming that y'all are in fact retarded SMH
It’s Not jealousy it’s morality and grace. If you giving up your box like a free for all it takes away from your value,, wtf worth are you with used up box. We don’t like that shit so get use to it and stop fighting against it.. The ownest is on you to be more selective n not community box
It matters
JEALOUSY? WELL IF MEN COULD GET SOME SELF RESPECT AND STOP SNIFFING AFTER WOMEN LIKE WILD DOGS FOAMING AT THE MOUTH, THEN IT MIGHT NOT BE SO HARD FOR YOU.
Why women care if men care?
Men are too concerned I guess.
If you don't want to men to judge you on your body count then stop judging a man on his money and height
It’s like she get it but she don’t get it lol
ALLLLLLLLL ace had to do was bring it home with the statement "with great power comes great responsibility" he hit it dead on . There's more value in a woman who can control herself with all that power more than a woman who is just all out there.. that's the key. Men don't naturally come with that power still wrong but a woman that can keep them legs close is way more valuable to a marriage not talking boyfriend girlfriend stuff
Men dont want to accept the fact that men have it easier in dating and have the leverage to establish and uphold waaaaay more double standards.. outside or chivalry, women dont have the power to enforce many double standards
I woukd respect a woman more if she had humiliating and said she made mistakes and don't want to hurt the guy and this or that happened and be prepared if you can deal with it
Listen ladies why do y'all keep saying it shouldn't matter when the people that it matters to keep telling you it matters you are not going to change their minds what's the point of saying it and fellas they are going to lie anyway and most of y'all don't believe them anyway and ladies a man don't want to go out with you and six dudes in the same spot done blazed you
😂😂😂 don’t ya get tired arguing women say body count shouldn’t matter.
They full of cap cap cap d cap that's why she have a cap on 12:37
Since women like money Ill give them. an example comparable of why men care abt body count... Would you rather the job that everybody can get with ease, or the job that has ppl competing for it for the best candidate... McDonald's (ANYBODY CAN GET THIS), vs an exec AT Google... One pays a flat rate, while the other has unlimited financial potential etc..Women who have her self to a bunch of ppl has vry little value in the eyes of a man who wants to marry her vs a woman who protects her womb from just anybody
I like these ladies
I don't care...I'm not marrying a 304....
Me too and I'm a women. 💯
No 13:50 because don't when men go through it 14:10
This whole conversation is pointless because women can just lie lol
BTW: Sorry, it's long. I just truly don't understand why we still play into these games.
I'm going to speak for me because these, amazing, brothers can't. Body count only matters to me when it comes to black women. Just like Eli, I'm a black man madly in love with the idea of true black excellence. As a MAN, yes, I need to look at women with my mind's eye and not my snakes eye. The same thing can be and should be told to women. You all move off emotional views rather than the reality that's being shown around you.
Unc said if best in ATL, "how you feel and what's real is two different things." A man can feel like he found "the one," but really, he is just lonely, horny, and doesn't believe he can find anybody else. A woman can believe she found "the one," not accepting that he is actually controlling, abusive, and draining her energy.
Until we as black people come together and stop having these dumb conversations, we aren't going nowhere. A lot of us are hurt, not traumatized, HURT. Heal yourself and learn yourself.
That way, men aren't out here crying and deleting their selves over a woman that treated him like a trick/play thing, while being the 304 she always was. Women won't be out here giving their bodies away to a false sense of love that ultimately leaves them tired, broke, and struggling with a child on her own.
We deserve better and only we can be better for our people
Great content but nothing about this was heated
25-30 bodies yes next, might hit but next.
Great show, however it doesn't matter whether they held us accountable for sleeping with multiple women. Lol. Men are still going to do it anyway. It's in our nature and in our DNA. We are not the same in any way shape or fashion when it comes to that. Those women who can shut off their emotions for sex will only hurt themselves in the long run. Lol so they can live it up for now but in the end it will only them when it comes to relationships
The thing is who are men going to have sex with if all women buy into this chastity mindset? Other men?
@@soundsaboutright---No, things would work the way they did for thousands of years up until the last few decades of feminist propaganda. What do you think women did before birth control pills, DNA test to know who the father is, and child support laws to reward then for having bastard children? Every man wanted sex from every woman, but women held out for the best man that would support her and her kids. That was the intended balance, yin/yang. Men had to handle their business in order to get sex. Now women sleeping with dustballs in the name of "liberation", and then tunring around and blaming the dust ball for being what he is. Then she want to blame the man who knows his worth for not wanting a dustballs leftovers. Goofballs
Because women like men who bag 🎒 the most bodies 7:47
They really don't. The same way men want a girl that other people want, women want a man that other women want. Neither party wants a partner that's readily accessible to other people.
Theres men wifing ho3s cause theres so many…you just gotta get a ho3 and beg her to stop
It's crazy. Ho3s be like "I'm monogamous"
If it matters, you’re extremely insecure
It has nothing to do with jealousy trust me if a guy could he would love to be her first and only that would mean so much to him if you a chick that done had so much 🍆 he knows he could never be your first love but if he could you got something so special you don't realize
What's up with the susspants tho?
WARNING MEN. GOD HAS NO DOUBLE STANDARD FOR THE SIN IF FORNICATION. JUDGE NIT THAT YE NOT BE JUDGED. NO GID HAS NO EXPERIENCED REQUOREMENT FOR MEN BEFORE MARRIAGE.
Biblical marriage is sex. Biblical adultery is a man sleeping with another man’s wife and a woman sleeping with any of besides her man. The Bible is a polygnous book, not a monogamous or egalitarian one.
God hates misspelled words and all caps.
How exactly are you gonna know how many bodies she caught? You are going to hurt your own feelings asking them questions. If I am linking a ting and I like the fit when I am blaming it out I don't go off asking about ex-boyfriends and other mans she tagged before me.
I am not the female in this situation, she is, and if I were to ask such a question I would be indirectly telling her that I am soft.
But then again I am not into the custom of putting rings on fingers and bending knees. So all the mans them who lenged her before me I pay them no never mind.
You definitely need a grammar lesson. You write like a 6 year old.
Bro exactly if yo girl ain’t a virgin at the very list you ain’t the first dude she slept with you know how many older dudes I know 35 40 plus in long term relationships there girls wasn’t virgins when they met them do what works for your relationship if you don’t want a girl with a high body count or one you suspect has one break up with her or fuck her and keep it pushing simple me personally I’m not about to ask no woman how many dudes have you slept with the fuck I look if she fucked the gang then don’t date her just fuck her an keep pushing but dudes wanna turn that hoe into a house wife cause she look good that’s where the problems come in at