I've witnessed women (silently) going crazy by simply taking it slow but being genuinely and having good talks. One just seemed to glitch, seized up, until I broke the spell by leaning all the way over and kissing her, she wasn't even sitting close at the time. After the kiss she immediately said I had been welcome to do that on the walk in the park, before dinner, before wine. But I think it ended up better her being so aware of waiting for my move rather than me chasing the intimacy. By being calm, I've seen women literally jump and kiss me to lose the tension.
I think it’s about being attracted but also feeling safe. If the other person is not trying to rush me to be physical I’m more persuaded I’m not just being used for sex, so freer to act sexually. Similar thing happened with me the first time I started dating women (I’m bi). She sat on the far end of the couch and I couldn’t understand why she’d invite herself to mine if she didn’t want to do anyyything physical so I just asked for a kiss. 15 minutes later we were having sex. Was pretty wild.
Ive watched a few videos from different content creators and i gotta say you described and demonstrated the push/pull method better than any imho. Really wished your services were not do expensive.
When there's a decent chance between two people, just walking next to each other is great. I've so often gone for a hand, and so rarely was it unwelcomed. You just tend to know when. And the hand holding is a great way to connect innocently by intimately. Like when crossing a road together or scaling a stair or little hill of sorts. Women might be in less steady footwear than your sneakers or even leathers, and have a bag unbalancing them some.
I use double meanings. Eg. I ask whether she wakes up early. If she does, then I say 'Me too and it's good because we can hypothetically spend our mornings effectively'
That's very interesting, thanks. For me, the problem with the "sexual stories" is that I don't have anything like that organically - I have no friends that go to Thailand (and I hope the solution is not "get such friends", lol), I don't go to clubs to see such scenes and so on. And I really don't like to lie - not only because it's unethical, but just because I'm so bad at it, carrying two different realities in head and trying to convince people that the imaginative reality is the real one. Of course, I can retell what I read and so on, but I extremely rarely see an organic way to do it.
That's fair - without a social group - it's hard to find such stories to tell, it's true - To be fair, at which point I'd say that finding a stronger social network around you woul be an important step anyway prior to working on meeting women.
It almost always does though... even if those are funny failures... OR a funny story about a mate who goes to a hooker... or... You'd have to work hard to have 5 male friends each with absolutely 0 funny things that happen to them of a sexual nature - keep in mind one of hte story examples I gave was of a woman and a man being escorted out of the club bathrooms - so didn't even inolve me having sex.
Don't worry about it I have alot of stories but I never tell or use them. I jumped up on the bed once and my leg got stuck between the mattress and the headboard, she had to come stand next to me to push the mattress down and release my foot. Another time I was with this women in an officebuilding and the fire alarm went off. I waited 10min and went outside, I was in work clothes so the office people tought I was a fireman, so I just played along. I don't even tell my friends, noone knows, only you now use them as your own if you want. :p
Getting into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me
Talk about sex "too much" can backfire it can make you lose tension, esp if a dominant girl aska you to tell explicit sexual stories, you may think she's interested however she is essentially holding the frame, dont do it.
I've witnessed women (silently) going crazy by simply taking it slow but being genuinely and having good talks. One just seemed to glitch, seized up, until I broke the spell by leaning all the way over and kissing her, she wasn't even sitting close at the time. After the kiss she immediately said I had been welcome to do that on the walk in the park, before dinner, before wine. But I think it ended up better her being so aware of waiting for my move rather than me chasing the intimacy. By being calm, I've seen women literally jump and kiss me to lose the tension.
I think it’s about being attracted but also feeling safe. If the other person is not trying to rush me to be physical I’m more persuaded I’m not just being used for sex, so freer to act sexually.
Similar thing happened with me the first time I started dating women (I’m bi). She sat on the far end of the couch and I couldn’t understand why she’d invite herself to mine if she didn’t want to do anyyything physical so I just asked for a kiss. 15 minutes later we were having sex. Was pretty wild.
Ive watched a few videos from different content creators and i gotta say you described and demonstrated the push/pull method better than any imho.
Really wished your services were not do expensive.
When there's a decent chance between two people, just walking next to each other is great. I've so often gone for a hand, and so rarely was it unwelcomed. You just tend to know when. And the hand holding is a great way to connect innocently by intimately. Like when crossing a road together or scaling a stair or little hill of sorts. Women might be in less steady footwear than your sneakers or even leathers, and have a bag unbalancing them some.
As always, awesome video, thank you Damien.
Thanks again!
Thank you
I use double meanings. Eg. I ask whether she wakes up early. If she does, then I say 'Me too and it's good because we can hypothetically spend our mornings effectively'
This was good!
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Nice meeting you brother
Good vid
That's very interesting, thanks.
For me, the problem with the "sexual stories" is that I don't have anything like that organically - I have no friends that go to Thailand (and I hope the solution is not "get such friends", lol), I don't go to clubs to see such scenes and so on. And I really don't like to lie - not only because it's unethical, but just because I'm so bad at it, carrying two different realities in head and trying to convince people that the imaginative reality is the real one.
Of course, I can retell what I read and so on, but I extremely rarely see an organic way to do it.
That's fair - without a social group - it's hard to find such stories to tell, it's true - To be fair, at which point I'd say that finding a stronger social network around you woul be an important step anyway prior to working on meeting women.
@@SchoolOfAttraction The problem is - a "stronger" social group does not equal a social group with more sexual stories :-)
It almost always does though... even if those are funny failures... OR a funny story about a mate who goes to a hooker... or... You'd have to work hard to have 5 male friends each with absolutely 0 funny things that happen to them of a sexual nature - keep in mind one of hte story examples I gave was of a woman and a man being escorted out of the club bathrooms - so didn't even inolve me having sex.
Don't worry about it I have alot of stories but I never tell or use them. I jumped up on the bed once and my leg got stuck between the mattress and the headboard, she had to come stand next to me to push the mattress down and release my foot. Another time I was with this women in an officebuilding and the fire alarm went off. I waited 10min and went outside, I was in work clothes so the office people tought I was a fireman, so I just played along. I don't even tell my friends, noone knows, only you now use them as your own if you want. :p
@@78matt Thank you, but, as I said, I don't like to lie, I'm always coming off awkward. I prefer to tell truth =-)
Nice tips master hahahha
Getting into his mind by expertly knocking down his psychological walls and making him tingle with feelings of pleasure, means you're doing it right. There are many so called "canned phrases" to make it happen, for example go’ogling something like Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire was the perfect formula for me
Be attractive.
Talk about sex "too much" can backfire it can make you lose tension, esp if a dominant girl aska you to tell explicit sexual stories, you may think she's interested however she is essentially holding the frame, dont do it.
I would think that is where I am going wrong and sexual reaction/point out funny things that sound sexual.