"12 Steps of AA" with Father Martin.

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  • @johngarcia8827
    @johngarcia8827 2 роки тому +77

    I used to listen to him last year on lost nights when I couldn't make it back from my relapse. He kept my hope alive and now with almost 2 months back continues to do so. I love this man's talks and thank you Lord for Father Martin

  • @grocho53
    @grocho53 3 роки тому +57

    I met Father Martin in 1988 and visited his Treatment center several times later, carrying the message he taught me...Thank You Father Martin...this May will be 33 years, god willing ODAAT

  • @toddsteuart1144
    @toddsteuart1144 8 місяців тому +5

    I was a grateful guest of Father Martin Ashley! What a phenomenal man. Listening to him tonight was just the injection I needed!

  • @goalaspect
    @goalaspect 3 роки тому +116

    saw him live in 1998 - he was amazing - big audience - is amazing guy. I sobered up Aug 12, 1995 - still sober - 25 years and counting - aa - miracles happen here

  • @sallyfrederick-johnson8865
    @sallyfrederick-johnson8865 3 роки тому +33

    By God's grace and a loving Father, I have been sober now since 1987, and several of my family members have many years of sobriety too. Celebrating 35 years of contented sobriety. Ever grateful for all of the old-timers that came before me, and carried the message to me for free.

    • @Trigathus
      @Trigathus 2 роки тому +1

      God bless you 🙏🏼

  • @jefft8933
    @jefft8933 4 роки тому +32

    Thank God for Fr Martin kept me Sober 30 yrs one day at a time

  • @christreadwell5899
    @christreadwell5899 2 роки тому +10

    Absolutely brilliant! Nearly 10 years sober and what a fellowship to be part of 🙏🏼

  • @germanarenas985
    @germanarenas985 4 роки тому +23

    I’m grateful to have been exposed to this man. He is very logical and wise in his approach. Blessed be God for illuminating him to help us

  • @kevinbarnes8064
    @kevinbarnes8064 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank God for father Martin and his talks I started listening to him in my 30yr I am now 35 yrs sober the content is helping me get thru some difficult things

  • @maureenmurray8987
    @maureenmurray8987 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you so much. I was very fortunate to hear father martin speak in pennsylvania in the 1990's. It changed my life for some time. Again. Much appreciated.

  • @grumpyoldmanxo
    @grumpyoldmanxo 3 роки тому +15

    I saw Father Martin's "Chalk Talks" way back in the late '70s at the VA Hospital. I later had the pleasure of meeting him at an early AA Convention also back in the late 70s. Happy to say, I'm sober today due to these early sober drunks and priests. Sober since 4-20-1984. One day at a time.

  • @toddphillips3430
    @toddphillips3430 3 роки тому +15

    Wisdom from the ages here, a transformational learning experience, wow I am about to watch this again.

  • @jesusmusicfreak5379
    @jesusmusicfreak5379 6 років тому +31

    1st man that indrduced me to the steps in the greatest way!
    He was awesome! Thank You Father Martin💖🆙

  • @aprilberney4472
    @aprilberney4472 Рік тому +3

    I still listen to his same video teachings 10 years into my recovery. So grateful!

  • @barbaragraver
    @barbaragraver 4 роки тому +17

    What a wonderful, inspiring talk! Thank you for sharing. Also, can't help wondering who else cried during the Irish blessing 😊

    • @kevinmead156
      @kevinmead156 3 роки тому +2

      I did.I'm Irish,alcoholic and Sober thank God!!

  • @the5150channel
    @the5150channel 2 роки тому +3

    Father Martin is a powerful speaker truly speaking from his soul everytime I listen to one of his talks I can feel his spiritual message.
    Such a blessing, makes me feel good too :)

  • @Allyourbase1990
    @Allyourbase1990 Рік тому +7

    The only speaker we watched in the rehabs I went to were really old and on VHS . Father Martin was the only one I stayed awake watching . He’s so good !

  • @jesspoet
    @jesspoet 3 роки тому +6

    This is the utmost best way I have ever heard the 12 steps simplified into a workable real life application.! ❤️ absolutely brilliant. ❤️

  • @babbaruff1045
    @babbaruff1045 5 років тому +23

    Just wonderful, I love him and I love the 12 steps, sobriety & finding God is the best thing on earth 🌈💖🙏

  • @darlenechilders4645
    @darlenechilders4645 3 роки тому +9

    I love to listen to these steps from father martin . Your the best

  • @michaelleckenby4110
    @michaelleckenby4110 8 днів тому

    This priest's message is timeless. And priceless

  • @kennethledeoux1342
    @kennethledeoux1342 Рік тому +4

    Thank you GOD for AA ❤

  • @arozakis
    @arozakis 3 роки тому +5

    I love you Father Martin, your message of AA truly lives on. Amen

  • @pumpkinspice2597
    @pumpkinspice2597 5 років тому +22

    ”It's impossible to stay sober without gratitude.” facts

  • @briansharp5157
    @briansharp5157 5 років тому +15

    When he says the prayer of a drunk is a prayer of the soul in pain I balled my eyes out. I'm struggling so bad with alcohol. I just don't wanna quit. I had 2 years sober and I'm so ashamed of myself.

    • @stevecatone1148
      @stevecatone1148 5 років тому +4

      You know the doors are always open

    • @dollyk52
      @dollyk52 5 років тому +7

      Please keep going. Reach out! It's ego ...I know the embarrassment..and feeling judged. After 2 and half years I too wandered off into old patterns running the show. There's no way you can get sober while drinking and the dependence on booze is an nightmare. An every ending cycle of blotting out looking for that fleeting feeling of ease. Doesn't really work at all. You know this is a progressive illness. Booze will let you down. Bless you. Your not a loser your sick!

    • @zsasa5764
      @zsasa5764 5 років тому +5

      Keep going back

    • @jz8299
      @jz8299 5 років тому +4

      On your feet Brian!
      Isaiah 40.31 but those who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like the Eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.

    • @leighmiller78
      @leighmiller78 5 років тому +4

      Brian, please go to a meeting. Find an old timer and ask for help. They understand. I had an elderly man sober for 30 years take me by the hand and take me through the steps. It was a beginning. He then put my hand in the hand of a woman who took me through them again. She put me in the CENTER of a circle of sober alcoholics who kept me busy as hell!! 2 years passed by quickly and then I met another lady who took me through the steps a third time. By then my mind had cleared, my heart & mind were open and I was willing to acknowledge the exact nature of my wrongs. I've kept sober since September 28,2009. Seems like yesterday & a lifetime ago at the same time. Go back if you haven't already....

  • @Firekeeper61
    @Firekeeper61 3 роки тому +2

    Wonderful Man who has worked with many of us. Still sober. It works if we work it. Plug in Jug 24 years by Gods Grace..

  • @KidLeo8869
    @KidLeo8869 2 роки тому +6

    It doesn't take brains, it takes desire!

  • @tarronspencer5483
    @tarronspencer5483 4 роки тому +9

    Always sorts me out and sets me on the Righteous Path

  • @5224janweb
    @5224janweb 5 років тому +14

    This takes me clearly back to the beginning of my sobriety w
    hen i first met and listened to Father Martin. I love him and I love AA.

    • @corning1
      @corning1 4 роки тому

      Jan Webster you let him? Wow that’s awesome. I love father Martin deeply.

  • @marydonovan6681
    @marydonovan6681 3 роки тому +2

    In the early 70’s Fr. Martin came to Boston and spoke at an AA anniversary which I attended. I am a non-alcoholic, in the Al-Anon program. This man has explained the 12 Steps to alcoholics and to non-alcoholics in a most loving and merciful way. One thing I distinctly remember was him saying, “When approaching a sleeping alcoholic, he will wake up, sit up and throw up.” My sanity was saved by my A-Anon program although my marriage was destroyed. I live the 12 Steps as best I can, but don’t expect to work it perfectly.

  • @carlosvicente7811
    @carlosvicente7811 2 роки тому +5

    Father martin and the recovered alcoholics are forever in my heart

  • @nickortega314
    @nickortega314 3 роки тому +1

    Father Martin still carries the AA message and steps all 12 God bless this Father who was sent to teach us if we want it Chicago IL

  • @danielhollier7586
    @danielhollier7586 2 роки тому +2

    then end of this made me cry but I'm so grateful I found this and actually listened properly

  • @HectorRodriguez-tm8np
    @HectorRodriguez-tm8np 2 роки тому +1

    Omg this was so beautiful. It brought me to tears. AA has saved my life thru it's efforts in inspiring NA by laying the blue print about what works.

    • @dannypowell594
      @dannypowell594 2 роки тому

      You seriously cried watching this? I mean it's really interesting don't get me wrong and I'm a recovering addict that has been involved in Alcoholics Anonymous for some years but goddamn, it made you cry? I feel like you're lying.
      10th step that shit bro ffs

  • @cliffbrown4217
    @cliffbrown4217 Рік тому +4

    Father Martin was a Saint.

    • @J-ur2ei
      @J-ur2ei 3 місяці тому +1

      People don’t become saints until AFTER they die. So, no, he wasn’t, but he is now.

    • @cliffbrown4217
      @cliffbrown4217 3 місяці тому

      @@J-ur2ei I stand corrected lol.

  • @sebascronos5779
    @sebascronos5779 3 роки тому +3

    thank for your help Father Martin and bless GOd

  • @robertdoran9243
    @robertdoran9243 Рік тому

    If I only had this good man as my sponsor, I'd probably be helping other suffering alcoholic by now,

  • @dcvice6198
    @dcvice6198 6 років тому +15

    Extraordinary speaker, much respect for this man!

  • @bartongross9471
    @bartongross9471 2 роки тому +1

    Miracles love my life in recovery willingness, courage to change faith to move mountains thanks, Father Martin.

  • @sum2automation
    @sum2automation 5 років тому +6

    Yup, truly a life of miracles with-in them 12 step program's. From 1976 - today has been a wild ride. If your drinking your self to death and want to stop, please make the call for help. Good sponsors are hard to find at times, but don't you give up! The recovery miracle is still happening each and every day all around the world in A.A.. Today maybe your recovery miracle day. I'm reminded, that ones own recovery is only 12 steps away.
    Forever grateful for them drunks that came before us and showing the way, to a new life!
    Do as they did and we get what they got, one alcoholic helping another one day at a time.
    Great speaker that truly loved A.A.
    Thanks for sharing!

    • @ms.bubblestheclown1681
      @ms.bubblestheclown1681 4 роки тому

      AEI Automation Group that’s billshit talk 12 steps are not treatments for substance abuse . This is 2020 . Science base programs . Are here and medicine . This is an old ideology religious cult . No one is powerless .

  • @PatcoxKennedy
    @PatcoxKennedy 3 роки тому +2

    Thanks be to God for this marvelous man. God thank you for AA and Al-Anon

  • @atiger4716
    @atiger4716 5 років тому +3

    I want to thank you very much for bringing this video. I really appreciate

  • @vanjohnson9837
    @vanjohnson9837 2 роки тому +4

    This is the complete bases of how A/A CAN help the alcoholic that still suffers.aug2022.

  • @liztupling6271
    @liztupling6271 Рік тому

    Love you Father Marin... (Eternally) Rest in Peace. Met you several times In Washington DC ( Georgetown area) back in 1983-1984

  • @rigofernandez830
    @rigofernandez830 3 роки тому +1

    Truully amazing 👌👌👌👌!
    Awesome man...this is the way to teach!!..simple..clear..POWERFULL !

  • @ajpollock1991
    @ajpollock1991 3 роки тому +1

    So thankful for these videos I use them daily to continue to educate my self.

  • @MindBodySoulOk
    @MindBodySoulOk 2 роки тому +2

    I believe I met him in treatment at Warwick Manor in Maryland in 1983. That whole year was a blur but pretty sure he visited regularly.

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 2 роки тому +2

    I love that Martin talks not of the alcoholic but of himself which is the alcoholic

  • @JoseDeLeon1110
    @JoseDeLeon1110  7 років тому +21

    Reading some comments that may not agree with you is alright. It is showing others that the message of hope may need to be presented in a slightly different way. Who or what Father Martin may have been is not his message to the world. So, wasting thought on attempting to figure that all out is proof to you that you continue to miss the point of what this is all about. His message is what is the point.

    • @jameswright5547
      @jameswright5547 4 роки тому +2

      The addict likes to 'Split Hairs' in order to manipulate and get his/her way.

    • @doublequin
      @doublequin Рік тому

      @@jameswright5547 that's interesting. What constitutes splitting hairs for you? Is it splitting hairs that I believe the speaker made several circular reasoning errors and thoroughly misinterpreted the use of a couple steps (a clue, #5 in particular)

  • @Eric31477
    @Eric31477 9 років тому +15

    Father Martin and Joe & Charlie !!!!!!!!

  • @citytrees1752
    @citytrees1752 3 роки тому +2

    Great talk. Thanks for sharing. (Sorry to see that it also brought out some cray-crays).

  • @margymurphy702
    @margymurphy702 10 місяців тому

    Loved his Tape i will be 36years Sober on 15th January God bless AA Always 🙏🙏🇬🇧

  • @grahamherbert3612
    @grahamherbert3612 Рік тому

    22 years clean and sober, both in, and out of AA, the most important thing I've learned, Is that alcoholism is not a disease, it is an addiction like any other. The 'disease model' has been in part responsible for hundreds of thousands of deaths "Keep coming back" (until you can't), and the direct financing of a multi billion dollar 'recovery' industry. They just want to see you again, and again, and again.

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 5 місяців тому +1

    When I don’t hear voices but all I hear is me. Then hearing voices is no longer my problem.

  • @ryanbedoya-o9c
    @ryanbedoya-o9c 6 місяців тому

    I enjoy listening to this talk and I also enjoy Chuck c

  • @BobBurdens-ds9pc
    @BobBurdens-ds9pc Рік тому

    Absolutely fabulousness hope. Must continue. Work steps. Love you all. And present. When many r. Not

  • @suzannevaeth8310
    @suzannevaeth8310 4 роки тому +1

    I was blessed to see Father Martin in person.

  • @angelaingle9190
    @angelaingle9190 3 роки тому +1

    i so love his wisdom thank you father martin

  • @treyebroyhill4011
    @treyebroyhill4011 Рік тому

    he is a awesome man. learned so much from him....

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 7 місяців тому

    Love this and how he explains it. Its so true

  • @petehorton5591
    @petehorton5591 2 роки тому +1

    THANK YOU FATHER MARTIN.

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 5 місяців тому +1

    Love in universal eternal existence is more advanced.

  • @zon7374
    @zon7374 3 роки тому +2

    Well said Sr god bless

  • @davidsmith4721
    @davidsmith4721 Рік тому

    Im a fan. Ive talked to those who met him and they speak well of him

  • @JRC_86
    @JRC_86 4 роки тому +4

    Call AA whatever you want. IT WORKS.

    • @jameswright5547
      @jameswright5547 4 роки тому

      A really good friend of mine put it in simple words why an addict/alcoholic uses "It Works". So, what you have stated, is a perfect example of why a person should use AA. Because it works. If the alcohol works use AA because it works. I love it!

    • @robertparaday9122
      @robertparaday9122 4 роки тому +2

      @TrollingAndBowling I've been to hundreds of groups and I never heard any of them say AA is the only way...howd u get clean tho?

  • @ranniecromer2989
    @ranniecromer2989 6 років тому +5

    Good,very good....

  • @mrearlygold
    @mrearlygold 7 років тому +2

    Thank you Framingham Freddie in LW Fla. Thank you

  • @Mark_Ocain
    @Mark_Ocain 4 роки тому +1

    Even people that drink say a few pints of beer in the evening can have an effect on your motivation it's not just the blackout drunk that affects his life through booze. AA I think recognises it and helps people that are what some might consider functional. My take is if you drink enough for you to blow say, 08, it's enough to affect more than your driving in the short and long term.

  • @user-ng4lj8us2x
    @user-ng4lj8us2x 3 роки тому +3

    RIP FATHER MARTIN
    🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🙌🙌🙌

  • @johnirvine2106
    @johnirvine2106 5 років тому +1

    Sadly missed father Martin 🙏🙏🙏

  • @fredvanwinkle5298
    @fredvanwinkle5298 9 місяців тому

    He is an excellent teacher

  • @charlesrosebushes7748
    @charlesrosebushes7748 Рік тому

    "The disease is not immoral, the actions as a result is immoral"

  • @martingrissom3997
    @martingrissom3997 Рік тому

    Thank U that is good stuff.👍

  • @frederikjanssen1573
    @frederikjanssen1573 3 роки тому +1

    This man is a genius

  • @shamsuddinkhizer
    @shamsuddinkhizer 3 роки тому

    I only find few talks of pastor martin can anyone give me his whole talks recording s

  • @tonybutts3874
    @tonybutts3874 5 років тому +3

    I try an be humble with a attitude of gradatude, understanding that I dont understand all things ,its ok, so much good stuff in AA

  • @charlesrosebushes7748
    @charlesrosebushes7748 Рік тому +1

    According to Bill Wilson the Insanity is when an alcoholic is sober and decides to pick up the first drink knowing full well everything bad that will happen

  • @jasonvogue4487
    @jasonvogue4487 4 роки тому +1

    Still struggling and I live in the same state that father Martin lived in It is extremely likely say

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 5 місяців тому +1

    God continued to take inventory and when god was wrong god promptly admitted it.

  • @kentparsons7772
    @kentparsons7772 5 місяців тому

    Inspirational ❤

  • @kevingreaux7133
    @kevingreaux7133 Рік тому +2

    Jesus Christ is the way, the truth and the life, no one comes to the Father except through Him. John 14:6/ For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16

  • @dickturpin435
    @dickturpin435 2 роки тому +1

    'Wisdom is heard, not spoken.' Anon.

  • @alicesadler5441
    @alicesadler5441 Рік тому

    Love this

  • @kelvinloeb812
    @kelvinloeb812 3 роки тому

    Taking the steps of AA seriously is why I am an atheist. AA worked for me as I assume any self help group works for anyone. 22 plus years of sobriety without a belief in any god. I could never be arrogant enough to believe that the universe was created with me in mind and that there was a god on my side while that same god ignored the holocaust or the 20000 children under the age of 5 that die every day of the year through no fault of their own.

  • @Izeba
    @Izeba 5 років тому +2

    What year is this from ?

  • @keithlaw95
    @keithlaw95 3 роки тому

    would like a copy of this video for use in recovery

  • @BobBurdens-ds9pc
    @BobBurdens-ds9pc Рік тому

    My. Goodness es. I love this guy's message. Open heart ♥ ♥ surgery. Insert. Note to selfie

  • @Mark_Ocain
    @Mark_Ocain 4 роки тому +2

    This Priest would see alcoholism every day ..some Priests and Brothers develop an astonishing thirst for liquor. I guess it's a hard life so I shouldn't be surprised

  • @IvonaFlakus
    @IvonaFlakus 6 місяців тому

    The power of *we* #humble

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 5 місяців тому +1

    You can never tell the writer of Myfanwy in Heaven that he can’t requite Myfanwy. IF HE TRULY WANTS TO.

  • @doctor4God
    @doctor4God 4 роки тому +1

    Amen!!

  • @johnb.9806
    @johnb.9806 2 роки тому +1

    What if you hate butter?

  • @nathanwilliams9695
    @nathanwilliams9695 5 місяців тому +1

    This is about Nathan and Alex

  • @patricklynch9574
    @patricklynch9574 Рік тому +2

    You can have a drink as long as you control your drinking but if you're drinking controls you then you need help.
    I woke up drunk once and wanted my pain and misery to end and decided to drink myself back to sleep. Unfortunately my brother happened by my place he threw my liter and a half of wine out. With no other option I got the .22 placed it to my head cocked it and got a phone call from my dad about all the wonderful the gifts I had bought everybody which was a lie it was another thrift store Christmas. And then the police kicked in the door and dragged me off to the psych ward. I'm still here 10 years later. AA was not for me in the long run but it did help.

  • @sandrainontario6710
    @sandrainontario6710 2 роки тому

    Is he the same person as Father Joseph M?

  • @Adam444Tv
    @Adam444Tv Рік тому +1

    Gods not mad he’s patient

  • @stevenlupanko2983
    @stevenlupanko2983 5 років тому +1

    Amazing that a non alcoholic understands the programme better then most alcoholics. Wish some g.p's would understand the addicts situation and struggles. Addicts need treatment and medical assessment by other addicts there is no other way. I wouldn't be able to tell a pregnant woman what its like to be pregnant. I read a book the other day called the devil in the white city, it made it evident there was more help for alcoholics in Victorian Times ( as in treatment centres) but unfortunately they didn't have the 12steps so failed time and time and time and time again. I pray for you all to get well it's the hardest thing you will ever do but get through it and continuously work the steps the rest of life will be far easier.

    • @JRC_86
      @JRC_86 4 роки тому +2

      Father Martin was a recovered alcoholic.
      en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joseph_Martin_(speaker)

    • @frankcoughlan2162
      @frankcoughlan2162 3 роки тому

      Sir, you have been misinformed. As someone who has studied Criminal Sociology, Health Sociology, Criminology, and Criminal Justice, I can tell you that there was NO help for alcoholics in Victorian times. Alcoholics, also called 'Dipsomaniacs', were locked away in the most appalling conditions in state run insane asylums, and prisons, until they died. They were subjected to the most inhumane treatment, for example, ECT, floggings, sleep deprivation, starvation, along with many other disgusting methods of trying to change their 'Moral weaknesses'. It was really only when AA came into being, that alcoholism started being treated as a
      'Health' issue. Even now, in 2021, there are people in the world (including doctors, psychiatrists, and psychologists), who still think that alcoholism is an indication of a 'lack of moral fibre'.
      By the way, Fr. Martin was a recovering alcoholic of many years standing.., which is why he knows so much about it.

  • @lydiarushing9305
    @lydiarushing9305 3 роки тому +1

    One day at time 🤗😇😃

  • @charlesrosebushes7748
    @charlesrosebushes7748 Рік тому

    At 4:45 to 6:00 minutes, he explains what step 1 really is.

  • @arboristo4407
    @arboristo4407 5 років тому +2

    Wow❤️❤️❤️