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  • @MichaelSartain
    @MichaelSartain  23 дні тому +5

    Learn How To Position Yourself As A High Status Man For FREE : m.moamentoring.com/yt-pc-free-guide

    • @user-wg2vw3mz1v
      @user-wg2vw3mz1v 23 дні тому +1

      @MichaelSartain If only I had heard this 15 years ago...

    • @tonydiesel3444
      @tonydiesel3444 23 дні тому

      Same thing when we mentioned the Flat Earth we are having a discussion while living on the Flat Earth you are making videos while living on a flat Earth oh and it's Motionless and there's nothing you can do about it

    • @CloudWithoutASky
      @CloudWithoutASky 19 днів тому

      so a secular society today. i will be honest. I think you have some of the most trash takes.

  • @slartibartfast2452
    @slartibartfast2452 23 дні тому +141

    When a woman says he's too perfect. She means one of, or both things. He's so boring and predictable that he is not interesting.
    Two. She's done something where she knows she can not come back from that, and he deserves better than her. Her conscience basically makes her leave. It makes her leave, not because its better for him. It makes her leave because she can not admit she really messed up. Admitting that she messed up would mean now everyone else knows she is not good enough for him. Which means she can no longer retain her reputation of being a good woman.

    • @jasonrocksvegas
      @jasonrocksvegas 23 дні тому

      Nice in women code for he is ugly and unattractive. Never known any women complaint attractive men are too nice. Attractive men have most of the options da.

    • @setosbagofgoodies995
      @setosbagofgoodies995 23 дні тому +15

      this comment deserves more likes

    • @paulweston285
      @paulweston285 23 дні тому +10

      Perfectly true & said

    • @seamon9732
      @seamon9732 22 дні тому +7

      And that's why I prefer women who don't give a shit about their status or reputation. You actually get to interact with her true self a lot more, and a lot less with the false self ( Jung's persona ) unless she also has a personality disorder, then watch out, they could claim and act at first like they don't care, but it's actually part of their persona and you'll never meet the real woman underneath, ever, you'll only interact with her persona and misadapted coping strategies, which is shitty beyond belief.

    • @slartibartfast2452
      @slartibartfast2452 22 дні тому +3

      @setosbagofgoodies995 thank you kindly. Just speaking from life experince, my own and what i have seen time and time again. The truth always comes out whether women want it to, or not, and her reputation always takes a hit.

  • @killjoy197
    @killjoy197 23 дні тому +68

    Women only regret dumping a man when the monkey branch they swung to doesn't take them and they fall back to the first guy to take them back. It also pisses them off when a man they left isn't dead to the dating world and picks up a new chick fast and seems happy with her because it makes the first chick wonder if she screwed up letting him get away as he must have value if some one else wanted him so soon and it lowers her sense of value that she could be so easily replaced.

    • @metatron8386
      @metatron8386 21 день тому +5

      When they fall off the branch and land on the wall.

  • @rogerm3708
    @rogerm3708 23 дні тому +70

    Hypergamy trumps accountability

  • @MrMeunier77
    @MrMeunier77 23 дні тому +29

    Women will say they don't regret a breakup but will get back with the same guy later.

    • @cbmorre4909
      @cbmorre4909 17 днів тому

      Yes but they regret going back to an ex too. It’s shameful.

  • @tachikazetyler2916
    @tachikazetyler2916 23 дні тому +28

    I've had girls express concern that they weren't "fit" enough for me, since they were aware I was a coach. Totally self imposed, I never said anything of the sort.

  • @talltransform
    @talltransform 22 дні тому +18

    Oldest quote, "Don't listen to what they say, watch what they do".

  • @LamelKendrick
    @LamelKendrick 23 дні тому +47

    i will never be popular with women because I don't respect or find modern society interesting. I despise self-promotion and never had dark triad traits, so i will not be growing my 'socials' to impress women. These realities automatically put me (by default) towards a more scarce social and dating life, but it aligns with my nature. The chance that I find a single woman outlier in this day where more men are being pushed out of the market than ever, is very low and even if I do the chance of keeping her attraction towards me over a long period of time is slim and none.

    • @andrewkoenigsberg4036
      @andrewkoenigsberg4036 23 дні тому +7

      Perhaps travel outside the US? 🤔

    • @lennylink8772
      @lennylink8772 23 дні тому +12

      Go to Africa, or South America. EASY to find women that value family and want to be mothers with a man that cares for them... It's how they are raised

    • @BohemianAndy
      @BohemianAndy 23 дні тому +6

      Jeez… I feel you bro. I also will never be a part of this vapid, vacuous and pretentious culture of modern society. Yes I do have an instagram, but I’m a pretty normal dude - travel, lift weights, party etc. And I’m not dark triad either. Funny thing is - I’ve portrayed dark triad before and it WORKS. But - you become a shittier version of yourself 😕

    • @nealhickson2618
      @nealhickson2618 23 дні тому +4

      Quite a negative post mate.

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 23 дні тому

      A lot of what you say is correct but the entire worldview you have is why you can’t and won’t attract women - you act as if they are above you and that you need to do a, b, c and d in order to attract them. You have a self defeating mindset and a woman can smell this from miles away ..

  • @user-wg2vw3mz1v
    @user-wg2vw3mz1v 23 дні тому +29

    If only I had heard this 15 years ago...

    • @rusudenes8549
      @rusudenes8549 18 днів тому +2

      m8 for a man is never to late, I'm 40 and I'm in my best years!

  • @balerion77
    @balerion77 23 дні тому +28

    1:34 Ricardo Izecson (nickname: Kaka) was rated One of the most Handsome guys in the world. Women Would drop their Panties for him . God tier Status in 2003-2008 , World Cup - Champions League - Ballon D'or (Best in the world) winner , One of the greatest of his Generation etc. The problem is His wife knew for Certain He wouldn't Leave her ever , he is very religious too. That level of Certainty will dry up women's Hoohah . It overrided The amount of Female Attention he had.

  • @jerryc5743
    @jerryc5743 23 дні тому +34

    2:30 - Dad bod is ridiculous. Why would a man deliberately let his body turn to jello? I will work out until they put me in the ground.

    • @mateuszmazurek7991
      @mateuszmazurek7991 23 дні тому +7

      wait till you get serious injuries, or you will have to work so much that you will have zero time or energy or otherwise you're kicked out to the street

    • @ren96706
      @ren96706 23 дні тому +8

      ⁠​⁠@@mateuszmazurek7991 excuses and cope, you can make time to workout

    • @madvillainy6845
      @madvillainy6845 22 дні тому +3

      If you can stand and walk, you can workout.

    • @NDSTRUCTIBLE1
      @NDSTRUCTIBLE1 18 днів тому +1

      Men and Women think of Dad Bod is different. Men, it's 5'9 275lbs with a massive gut, and for a woman, it's 6'3 173lbs not any real muscle mass and skinny fat is a dad bod

    • @Thiiink
      @Thiiink 4 дні тому

      @@mateuszmazurek7991 at least walk 30 minutes buddy

  • @user-zn7wx2lm9z
    @user-zn7wx2lm9z 23 дні тому +18

    "Functionally insane at best" is how one youtuber put it.

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 22 дні тому +12

    There's only one way to treat this type of woman...leave them alone, don't even engage with them.

  • @paulweston285
    @paulweston285 23 дні тому +10

    " Hes too perfect " translation " Ive met someone else "

  • @Fangroth
    @Fangroth 23 дні тому +16

    Ungratefulness, deceiving, bad communication, lying, dishonesty, jealousy, insecurity, envy, bitterness, sociopath, being spiteful, etc. Are all traits I hate on a person, and women seem to have it all 😫

  • @unnwoable
    @unnwoable 22 дні тому +9

    Lmfao i thought this was scooby1961

  • @scottverge938
    @scottverge938 22 дні тому +8

    His mention of getting down on one knee, reminds me of when I proposed/married my ex wife. We were sitting on the couch, and the moment I tied a piece of string lace licorice around her ring finger and asked her to spend the rest of her life with me. No ceremony, no paperwork. She immediately said yes and that was it, we considered each other husband and wife. A bit silly? Maybe childish? Sure. We lasted 26 years and raised a great son together. We lasted the longest out of any of our friend group.
    Note that I didn't get down on one knee. I never put myself below her.
    And do you know what my main reply was any time she said she loved me? I know. I rarely say I love you. But when I did she felt it.
    In the end I got lost in depression and health issues and lost her but as far as I'm concerned, my natural instincts were pretty damn good.
    And any woman I tell that story to melts.

    • @BilboFaggins
      @BilboFaggins 19 днів тому

      And then you woke up

    • @AtheismF7W
      @AtheismF7W 18 днів тому +1

      Sorry for your loss.

    • @scottverge938
      @scottverge938 18 днів тому +3

      @@AtheismF7W it is what it is. If you don't get your shit together after a stumble she will eventually lose respect and attraction and stray or leave.

  • @PauperPeccator
    @PauperPeccator 22 дні тому +16

    Wait, is that Greg Doucette?

  • @bribri1657
    @bribri1657 18 днів тому +4

    These days a guy could be jacked and have money, house, etc and STILL be looked at by a woman as a "beta Bob" starter husband due to her being alpha widowed buy a better-looking guy she dated before. As men, we just never REALLY know how women view us or what their agenda is.

  • @anthropomorphicOrange
    @anthropomorphicOrange 23 дні тому +8

    I think she knew other women were interested in him. He's one of the most famous men in the world.

    • @kennethsmith6367
      @kennethsmith6367 23 дні тому +2

      Shhh! Don’t tell them that. It ruins their narrative.

  • @CarlosMunoz-nv6ir
    @CarlosMunoz-nv6ir 20 днів тому +4

    Listening to a shirtless dude in a hot tub is gay.

  • @samboooka
    @samboooka 20 днів тому +3

    Relationships these days are about amusement and that's the problem

  • @robertmiller6444
    @robertmiller6444 23 дні тому +6

    The term for that is cognitive dissonance. When facts and evidence contradict one's internal world view. And sadly the response is often to deny the facts and evidence rather than to adjust one's world view. And usually accompanied by name calling and attacking the one bringing the facts and evidence that threatens the cherished world view. And the more the emotional investment in a world view, the greater the reaction to threats to that world view. Which is why it is so hard to change people's minds.

  • @NunyaBusinss-pl2mp
    @NunyaBusinss-pl2mp 20 днів тому +2

    I don't care what woman want,why should man go out of there way to please them.Most don't bring anything to the table.I do what I want and when I want.

  • @christiancoats1
    @christiancoats1 16 днів тому +1

    This is why polygyny works. Keep them competing against each other.

  • @alexandrodisla6285
    @alexandrodisla6285 23 дні тому +4

    Hypergamy doesn’t care.

  • @Goldeneyepilot
    @Goldeneyepilot 23 дні тому +7

    Michael sartain probably has a dad bod

  • @PsychedelicChameleon
    @PsychedelicChameleon 21 день тому +2

    I think sometimes when women say they are attracted to "Dad bod" type men, it's because they are attracted to more body styles than just super skinny young men, and they don't know how to say this, or even understand themselves enough.

    • @premium7182
      @premium7182 21 день тому +1

      I've never had a 6 pack but I've had super fit women and bbws.... chick's like who they like... a 6 pack will help get you some attraction but it won't get you all the women 😂😂😂

    • @PsychedelicChameleon
      @PsychedelicChameleon 21 день тому +1

      @@premium7182 Thanks for your reply, and I agree completely!

  • @mrgregw
    @mrgregw 22 дні тому +2

    Lots of good info that I haven't heard other people explain as clearly and as simply in hundreds, if not more, hours of discussion on the subject. in I love the ad hominem attacks that come out of nowhere when people get triggered.

  • @Mr.E_Bodhako
    @Mr.E_Bodhako 23 дні тому +2

    there's what people want to want and what people want, the things they say they want to want are things they can be aware of that they think they want and try to go after or make you get them for their own Comfort, the things they actually want can be things they are mostly not even aware of, although they can be, and these are the things that when they get them bring them Satisfaction. the two are usually opposite of one another but the person understands that they want what they want to want they might not understand that they want or need what they want and will say they want a while they actually mean they want b and can be unaware of why they are not feeling satisfied when then get what they want to want, 'I told him what i want why is he not giving me that' or 'I got what I wanted why am I unsatisfied with this man'.

  • @sasapetroski981
    @sasapetroski981 22 дні тому +2

    Nice guys need to find nice girls.. Period

    • @Rambo-lv9hu
      @Rambo-lv9hu 20 днів тому +2

      She is chasing Chad who has turned her into an Alpha widow.

  • @Thiiink
    @Thiiink 4 дні тому

    just had a women tell me she doesn't want me to solve her problems LOL - bye..

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 22 дні тому +2

    The only way women like this can succeed is if the man fails.

  • @samwinchester8680
    @samwinchester8680 20 днів тому +2

    Sh3 wants m3n to be nice to her; however, First sh3 has to be attracted to u by your looks, status, and muscularity

  • @danman1789
    @danman1789 10 днів тому

    Mike made a great point about nice guy behaviors. They are acceptable after she's already attracted to you

  • @elijahwilson1422
    @elijahwilson1422 14 днів тому +1

    Be more loyal to yourself and any kids you have than towards your wife or girlfriend. Because your kids probably won't divorce you and take half of your earnings

  • @ocjmakaveli1
    @ocjmakaveli1 22 дні тому +2

    Everything is so true

  • @maxjohnson1758
    @maxjohnson1758 13 днів тому

    The same study was done using a sports car instead of other women. Yes, same result.

  • @KostasAgnostos
    @KostasAgnostos 15 днів тому +1

    Coach Gregpill!

  • @tomm7232
    @tomm7232 19 днів тому

    Damn Greg knows it all! Im surprised by this,good on him

  • @chomnansaedan4788
    @chomnansaedan4788 23 дні тому +1

    I would love for Sartain to debate or talk with a creationist.

  • @autofashi0n
    @autofashi0n 17 днів тому +1

    Stay single my friends

  • @elijahwilson1422
    @elijahwilson1422 14 днів тому

    If you are not keeping her guessing? She's not going to stay in your life very long

  • @RAntonio93
    @RAntonio93 13 днів тому

    Holy shit. What Greg said is the exact same thing as what my ex said. Being afraid I was only attracted to bikini models. She was incredibly insecure as well

  • @bolt9110
    @bolt9110 23 дні тому +3

    Too much "sounds truthy" in this one. Seeing the behaviour but misdiagnosing why. But keep doing what youre doing because it works, just not for the reasons you think so

  • @michaelsantangelo6192
    @michaelsantangelo6192 21 день тому +6

    man: tell me what kind of guys you're attracted to
    woman: I like kind, sweet guys who treat me well
    man: tell me about your last boyfriend
    woman: oh, he was an abusive narcissist

  • @jimdandy8996
    @jimdandy8996 23 дні тому +5

    Is that Scooby?

    • @kcor4
      @kcor4 23 дні тому +2

      How do you know who Scooby is but don't know Greg Doucette?

    • @jimdandy8996
      @jimdandy8996 23 дні тому +1

      @@kcor4 How do YOU know who Scooby is?

  • @conversationswithyou5737
    @conversationswithyou5737 8 днів тому

    I’m really disliking this random overlap between fitness and other niche UA-camrs getting into the dating niche. This just makes it seem like every guy knows the way around women, and what women want, which we know is not true. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but that doesn’t mean they’re right. People would have an issue if Greg started getting into politics, why is this niche any different? People gotta stay in their lane.

  • @3chunter307
    @3chunter307 15 днів тому

    Just don’t play the game. I am not a 24/7 entertainer. Have many one night girls and don’t look back is the answer in 2024.

  • @KhangTruong-fi8is
    @KhangTruong-fi8is 4 дні тому

    Greg is a dating coach?

  • @keenanschouten2582
    @keenanschouten2582 22 дні тому +1

    Who divorced Kaka the legend? lol. 😆

  • @Viejitosoyyo
    @Viejitosoyyo 22 дні тому

    How about when she’s over you she’s over you, so just move on?

  • @r.lamont8120
    @r.lamont8120 22 дні тому +1

    These video are so much better without ditzy women in them.

  • @fl676
    @fl676 23 дні тому +3

    ⭕️💪🏻

  • @Eliasgreek82
    @Eliasgreek82 14 днів тому

    Coach greg????on the screen?
    🇬🇷🇪🇺☯️🇵🇸👋

  • @nikeisagreekgoddess4135
    @nikeisagreekgoddess4135 6 днів тому

    Let this video serve as evidence that Sartain twists stories to fit his narrative. They divorced around 9 years ago. Both remarried and have coparented successfully. The story resurfaced because of interviews each one of them did recently. Kaka got another hot girl and married quite some time ago, without any of this bullshit drama this predator is trying to sell to you.
    Try to google stories people talk to you about if they came up to you with them. This guy respects none of you.

  • @alananderson5202
    @alananderson5202 22 дні тому +11

    Attraction level is so shallow. What nonsense. There’s loyalty, honesty, reliability, stability, fidelity, real manhood. Non of this shallow garbage. My parents were together for almost 70 years. They started out after WW2 in poverty. Raised 6 children. Became very successful financially after decades of sacrifice and hard work. Cared for and took care of each other the whole time.

    • @killakasanova1656
      @killakasanova1656 21 день тому +4

      🤦‍♂️ Hey bud. Not sure if you’ve noticed. But the world has changed drastically as compared to almost a century ago

    • @cassu6
      @cassu6 10 днів тому

      @@killakasanova1656 Only by the fact that people have way more access to people whom they would've never even seen.

  • @gerhet7193
    @gerhet7193 17 днів тому

    More based than last time

  • @geoeconomics5629
    @geoeconomics5629 22 дні тому +1

    Women and F.O.M.O

  • @stephencindrich135
    @stephencindrich135 5 днів тому

    Women have no idea what they want?!

  • @UXXV
    @UXXV 21 день тому

    Kylee out of the picture ?

    • @mihaimichael9823
      @mihaimichael9823 17 днів тому +1

      Yeah,he talked about her past tense or I’m mistaking?

    • @UXXV
      @UXXV 17 днів тому

      @@mihaimichael9823 was wondering as rollo alluded in one of his latest shows they were together.

    • @mihaimichael9823
      @mihaimichael9823 17 днів тому

      @@UXXV I know that he looks like a winner and in many ways he is but…if you want kids,how long can he wait?even if he would knock up a girl now,at the graduation he would be 70,for God’s sake!!
      Without offsprings,what are we fighting for?My view anyway.

    • @UXXV
      @UXXV 16 днів тому

      @@mihaimichael9823 totally bud!

  • @josiahbutler2254
    @josiahbutler2254 23 дні тому +17

    the reason most nice guys dont get any luck is because they are boring… most nice guys sit at home, dont wanna do anything & have no fun, why would any woman want a guy who doesnt do shit?

    • @user-FUCKYOU18
      @user-FUCKYOU18 23 дні тому

      That what nice guys is?
      That is strange so how many nice guys do you know ?

    • @wtcirrus
      @wtcirrus 23 дні тому

      Maybe the “boring” guy sits at home because he is simply tired from working a job that makes internet grifting possible.
      m.ua-cam.com/video/-quDGwXt048/v-deo.html&pp=ygUgdHJpcHBpbmcgcGlwZSBvbiBhIGRyaWxsaW5nIHJpZyA%3D

    • @wtcirrus
      @wtcirrus 23 дні тому

      Maybe the boring guy is tired from working a real job,
      m.ua-cam.com/video/-quDGwXt048/v-deo.html&pp=ygUgdHJpcHBpbmcgcGlwZSBvbiBhIGRyaWxsaW5nIHJpZyA%3D

    • @brianmeen2158
      @brianmeen2158 23 дні тому +3

      Yep. Nice guys are boring. They agree with everything women says and never think outside the box. I have had several of these nice guy friends - a few are in their 40s and still clueless about what attracts women

    • @ItsJet0
      @ItsJet0 23 дні тому

      Dawg you not wrong. I had to start correcting myself on that shit, because how you gonna start an interesting conversation with a chick if you not?

  • @mrdriscoll94
    @mrdriscoll94 22 дні тому

    Eis que vc é do BR e vê uma foto do Kaká em um vídeo da pílula vermelha.

  • @danielsweeney8164
    @danielsweeney8164 21 день тому

    Your guest completely ignores charm. Charm is especially apparent to women when it is innocently applied to other women in front of them and even other men. Even if you have a dadbod.

  • @tygon13
    @tygon13 23 дні тому +1

    Anxious attachment style? I mean you're basically pathologizing female nature...
    Human females have a survivalist victim mindset, where they look for environments to survive off of. This is fundamental to female nature. There's nothing wrong with it. It's one approach to survival. And just because it happens to differ from the male approach,that doesn't mean it's any less normal or good.
    Where has the masculine approach is to craft and create things that increase benefits of an environment, and/or decrease the costs of the environment... The female approach is to look to the world and discern the most valuable environment (with the most amount of benefits and the least amount of costs, with at least a minimum standard of survival benefits) available to her.
    One focus is on an internal locus of control, and the other focuses on an external locus of control, but we shouldn't pathologize one approach over the other by calling one an "anxious attachment style". And let's be honest, the attachment styles are just the current zeitgeist that's popular within the psychological community.

  • @supremelordoftheuniverse5449
    @supremelordoftheuniverse5449 18 днів тому

    Who cares what they like

  • @zackkunkel9495
    @zackkunkel9495 6 днів тому

    Who cares

  • @BenNewcomb
    @BenNewcomb 23 дні тому +4

    Great looking guys tend to treat a lot of women poorly. A lot of women go for a "medium ugly" guy. Because he's attractive enough but treats her better but also still breaks rapport enough to keep her interested. Looks isn't everything for women. They're attracted to a lot of other factors. Do they prefer a six pack, yes but a chubby dude who is fun and makes them laugh will pull that girl over a pretty dude who treats them terribly.

    • @lennylink8772
      @lennylink8772 23 дні тому +15

      You have a lot to learn about women.

    • @BenNewcomb
      @BenNewcomb 23 дні тому

      @@lennylink8772 yeah.. ok bud.

    • @balerion77
      @balerion77 23 дні тому

      Sure , Most of the time after She Lets the Very attractive guy Have Seggs with her much Quicker and She'll do things she'll probably never do with the " Chubby guy" or take a long time to do it occasionally 😏. I've been an Athlete for 15 years and Got fat / face fat when I was injured badly in between, Same Chill & fun Personality. I know both sides & How women make themselves 'available' , they're not just popular girls but most were Conservative 10 years ago in the EAST. Along with Observing People in my travels, it's the same sh!t in the EAST , in the West MORE women will act on the Sleeping Part coz it's also very convenient. How "Married good Women" act around Men they Think are a Catch/Attractive with some status, even in conservative countries. They may not Sleep as often but They do make themselves look available or Act differently. It's disrespectful to the Husbands sometimes to be Flirting one way like that, it is Cheating. The sleeping around is becoming more of a thing , the past 10 years with Social media boom and Fem!naz! Takeover of the Media and Laws

    • @pachasnft9954
      @pachasnft9954 23 дні тому

      Ok bud😂

    • @BenNewcomb
      @BenNewcomb 23 дні тому

      @@pachasnft9954 I would put up mate choice copying, being funny and making women qualify themselves against six pack abs any day.