Regarding the first story, how much you wanna bet that the mom left the cheating husband because she couldn't take it anymore and he really wanted to stay with her and keep cheating and he is insecure about her dumping him and moving on and being happy without him. Obviously there is something going on with his ego and that says a lot more about how he feels about himself then about how his ex wife feels about herself. He is projecting his lack of self-confidence onto his ex-wife who he obviously still has feelings for.
Ohhhhh yea I was thinking the same thing. That man def got dumped and is butt hurt because he couldn't continue to have his cake and eat it too. He is so pathetic. She needs to be done with him.
Irish here 😂 St. Stephen’s day is more commonly referred to as Boxing Day. The day after Christmas. It generally is a day off for most retail staff etc because traditionally it would have been a day for the wealthy peoples maids, home staff, to get a day rewarded where they would receive a day off from chores and receive a gift. Similarly today MOST retail will get the day off as a reward for enduring the stressful Christmas shopping season. Peasants like myself will eat a second Christmas dinner and just chill. There’s also a lot of football (soccer) on TV those days. Most stores are closed now but bars seem to remain open so it’s not really fair, but it’s Ireland and we like a drink. It’s celebrated in the UK too. 😊
Yeah, it’s so hard to tell! Is the husband complaining about wife too much??? Or is it the SIL from the beginning? Or is it the 2 of them bonding over being bitchy to the wife? Neither husband or SIL were checking to make sure wife answered and understood what was going on.
Bitter me here... I would invite the Dad and stepmom and also let the Mom know the 'fat old cow' comment. Then just towards the end of the dinner speeches, the bride and groom stand up to give the Mom speech and ask the Moms to stand up. When Eva stands up (and the narcissist probably will) the bride says "Eva, you can sit own, this doesn't concern you." Then give a beautiful speech. Later on, when the Dad decides Eva to his ex-wife, the mother says "Hi, Eva, you got the fat old cow's sloppy seconds..." and walk away. Oh, I have a stepmom and I love her, and I am a stepmom (actually I divorced the guy but she is still my daughter) and I love her and have a great relationship with her and my beautiful grandson.
37:49 no. You do not say sorry unless you’ve done something wrong. If you want a healthy relationship with anyone, you do not placate to keep the peace. You explain, when you have the capacity, in this case, the fact that you had no information on any detail of this outing, played 2 complete rounds with everyone, was NOT angry that you’d lost a digital phone game to anyone and that that was something sister decided for everyone and that that’s not okay…that it’s not okay to behave in this way for any reason and if she’s so miserable that she needs to project onto OP, attempt to sabotage her relationship with your entire family then she can find another place to live. That she was not given grace through an open door and a roof over her head so that she can create undue stress and upset for the people that granted her this huge gift. And that caring about her nieces & nephews looks mirror opposite of what she’s doing. That this is about something she needs to deal with, come back with appropriate behavior and even if she did have an issue with something that occurred, she can learn how to approach situations with calmness, listening skills, curiosity in order to understand better & overall better confronting skills.
Being in a healthy relationship and in a heated argument means understanding there’s almost always something you could’ve done better too because you’re a human. It’s not placating, it’s leveling with your partner and viewing things from their perspective. Maybe you could’ve approached the situation nicer, maybe you could been more calm during the discussion, maybe you didn’t have to escalate things due to elevated emotions, etc. Heated arguments between partners almost always have a place where both parties can accept responsibility for something they aren’t super proud of, that’s how heated arguments happen. Mature and healthy relationships recognize that unless it’s cheating, abuse, etc(which doesn’t happen in healthy relationships) both parties could almost always be a bit better next time and work on something for the future. Once again, it’s not placating it’s being self aware and reasonable. OP was super tired and therefore distant which was misinterpreted by her SIL and hurt her feelings. It’s perfectly reasonable to apologize for being so distant, even if unintentional and recognize that maybe next time you should stay home if you’re that tired or make sure to lay out the plans better next time.
Giant red flag on the husband in story 2 for even allowing his sister to speak like that to his wife. His responses were so casual it disgusted me as much as SILs texts tbh. My husband would NEVER allow those kinds of things to be said about me. He’d have her things packed up by the time she got back from the park.
I'm of the opinion that you don't owe anyone an invitation to your wedding. It's your celebration and why would you want cruel / rude / abusive people to ruin your memory of it?
Op should go NC with SIL. She is so nasty to OP. It's understandable that she was awake for 24 hours, and she was obviously tired. The SIL should be kicked out.
I wish they would, it's an ongoing will they won't they saga. But for now Riley has a GF. But for now they have great screen communication and are so entertaining. Big protein is not currently dating the worm queen
37:09 I really gotta disagree. Doesn’t sound like OP did one thing wrong. Especially women have been so conditioned to bow down, create zero boundaries for themselves & take attacking, shame, guilt, punishment etc & simply deal with it every single day of their lives. It does zero good to continue this behavior, to placate and accommodate, placing yourself at the very back burner. She’s given her home to this person so this isn’t their first interaction…and that the sister can’t control her own behavior & projects it onto an easy target is no one’s responsibility but the sister’s. And you can have boundaries without losing your shit every time, reserving losing your shit for the ultimate boundary exclaim. There’s no sorry that even fits unless it’s coming from the sister and with all humble sincerity. The sister has an issue/s that she’s not dealing with that very very very likely have nothing to do with OP, in the first place.
1st the dad deserves nothing but his new family 2nd the SIL is blowing up nothing. 3rd she needs to leave them and booked another flight to a different place cancel everything and let the husband and mother paying for everything.
Stories like these strengthen my resolve that I will never tolerate disrespect from any family members/partners/ friends. I would rather have no wedding, than to deal with other people's idea of my wedding, and I will elope rather than be forced to invite people who have no respect for me or my partner. All family would catch these hands, blood doesn't give you the right to be entitled. Y'all deserve peace, don't invite entitled ppl around your special moments, especially if they are your parents.
Story 1 is one of my pet peeves. Family pressuring you to maintain a relationship with a toxic person. I don't think that being a parent or sibling gives you a right to inflict drama or trauma on others. It took me years to purge the toxic family members from my life and the only way I was successful was also setting a very strong boundary with my other family members who kept telling me I had to have them in my life because "they're family". If this is the way family treats me, I'd rather be an orphan.
I f I talked to my SIL like that and made that huge of a deal about stuff, I wouldn’t be in my brothers life much. No way would that fly in my family. That SIL clearly has been allowed to act like trash and her family just allows it. Husband needs to set some emotional boundaries. He doesn’t need to respond to her when she’s acting like that.
In Austria St Stephan's Day is just as much a national holiday as Christmas Day, meaning you don't have to work on this day and if you do, you get double pay. Also, on St Stephan's Day we eat something called "Stefaniebraten", which is kind of a meat loaf filled with full eggs and sausages. It's delicious ❤
5:01 there's nothing wrong with not inviting someone you don't like to your wedding. It will be easy and cause drama but ultimately no one can do anything about it since it's not their wedding
24:00 Green flags don't cancel out red flags. Red flags are warning you of serious future issues. You don't ignore them because something else seems ok. Trying to cancel a red flag with a green flag is like seeing a sign telling you a bridge is closed and deciding to keep going because the road seems new and ok to drive on. Then you're shocked when you drive into the concrete block they put there to stop anyone from going across the closed bridge. That's what happens when you ignore the warning sign because something else seemed ok.
Irish person here- St Stephen's day is just an extension of Christmas day to us. Christmas day is generally spent with closest family and Stephen's day is when you meet everyone else. Meet close friends for drinks in the pub assuming you haven't been home in a while. Meet up with cousins etc.
Wow. I have been in a very similar situation as OP in this story. No contact with dad and his sig other is blocked, and my life is now blissfully drama free.
Stephen’s day is an Irish and UK thing (they call it Boxing Day there) and it’s a really big part of the Christmas season here. Back in the day there used to be a tradition called ‘the hunt’ where hunting hounds used to set out and catch a fox (for what reason I can’t remember but thank god the foxes live in peace now). For my family and many of my friends families over the 3 days of Xmas you might have a big family day, a friend day and a chill at home and do nothing day. I personally spend time with friends Xmas Eve, my extended family for most of Xmas day and then do nothing again until the 27th. I’ve just finished my 9th year in retail and every single year there’s a fight to see who gets it off and some people would rather work Xmas Eve just to have the 26th to themselves 🫶🏻
🫣 🤣 i was thinking that too but i think maybe they’re now more comfortable with each other / their friendship has developed a lot more than at the start? 🧐 i like their banter / chemistry though =3
You are celebrating the day after Christmas. Traditionally, it's when the poor people(the help) celebrate and exchange gifts because they needed to work on that holiday. Some countries still celebrate this as a holiday.
Neither my dad nor my sister were at my wedding I'm not sure about my dad not the best relationship, but my sister was somewhere on meth. The only people you really need at a wedding are the ones getting married.
Depends on the red flag. Inattentive to romantic needs? Pink flag that can be worked on. Six green flags. Dropping dirty clothes in the living room? Pink flag. Three green flags.
Sophia, I would say that Riley was correct on the Eva, coz the way you say the name, it would have been spelled Ava ø, just think about how you say Eve 😁
My Nana walked my mum down the aisle at her wedding. Frank left when my mum was 7, she's the oldest of 4 kids. So when she was getting married he wasn't in the picture. It was a little scandalous back in the day, but the church family helped Nana raise her 4 girls, so the priest allowed it and even did a special prayer for them. Idc about using Frank's name... he gave up being her dad when she was 7, and never was a "grand" anything to me. He passed like 20 years ago now and left my mum $100 (nothing to her other sisters) .
Sophia, instead of inventing a new flag color (pink for expressing proceed with caution), try using the the flag system they use in auto racing. Green means go, and red means stop, but there are a few more that would be fun for you to incorporate into your shows. The yellow flag means something happened so be cautious and go slowly until you get the green flag to resume racing. Black flag: you're disqualified so pull off the track and go home Blue flag with a diagonal red line: Called the courtesy flag, it means that you're pissing everyone off by being a roadblock, so get out of the way of faster drivers. White flag: one more lap until it's all over. Checkered flag: this doesn't mean you won if someone else was ahead of you, but the race is over.
Awesome show OKOP! I use "pink flags" as observations that MAY be a problem in specific context. But I do not know if those conditions are present - so I'll have to wait to evaluate when I get more info. For example, if they are not close to their immediate family? Is it because the family is terrible, are the mean to the family, or something else? That's a pink flag and either okay or red depending on the situation.
I don’t understand why they couldn’t have gone back to the SIL’s house because it sounds like they went to the town to be close to the other SIL’s so that OP could take a nap and husband could hang out with the kids and then after an hour or 2 OP could also hang out before going home.
In UK we call st Stevens day Boxing Day, I've never actually found out why lol but I always just assumed it had to do with packing everything away but now that sounds stupid to me hahaha
wow… the freaking poke-SILs is insane! who freaking cares?! i think these sisters need a boyfriend/husband and get off their brothers nuts! none of that was a big enough deal for all of that… she sounds like a bully and she’s talking about OP being emotionally abusive
Riley saying what kind of a kid do you have to be for your parents to not show up at your wedding? Lol 😂 personally I don't have parents. I grew up in foster care. What about kids in that situation? What about Father's who have sexually or physically or mentally assaulted their children or partners? There's a lot of reasons for parents to not be there 😅
Day after Christmas is Boxing Day here in Aus or in the state of South Australia it’s proclamation day. It’s a public holiday throughout the country, we have massive sales everywhere EXCEPT South Australia of course where NOTHING is open!!
13:56 story 1. I don't know if OP have talking to Ava before. But I think she should give Ava a call and make it clear that she is not invited and why she is not invited and what her dad has been trying to pull. And lying to her. That's the big thing that her dad, Ava's husband is lying to her. I think that really needs to happen cuz if Ava goes off on her she's going to be pissed at her dad for lying to her and possibly trying to make her look like a fool
Story 1: adult kids will bend over backwards to maintain a relationship with a parent even if they are awful. Just remember that next time you hear an adult kid child going no contact with a parent. The dad had no intention of maintaining his relationship with OP. He sent a cryptic 👍 and never called her to explain that he wanted to go but had to manage Eva. But he did just enough to claim plausibly caring and wanting to be there and being able to blame the drama and blow up on everyone else.
Ah but, yes, St Stephen's is Santo Stefano! It took me a second to get it! Yes, yes, after Christmas, Santo Stefano in Italy is a religious holiday.... Not one of the too happy ones actually, in fact during this day it is customary to go to the cemetery to visit the graves of loved ones.
CONSPIRACY THEORY: last story Parent trap couple, the moms knew they were faking not dating and said they were fighting as revenge, wait for 3rd update!!
@@619timbercali It's okay, mom said I have the annoying habit of taking things too literally. Like that time when I was a kid and she told me to put ketchup on the list . . . and then we couldn't read the list. There might be a diagnosis for that too lol
I once heard there are red flags, green flags, and yellow flags. Yellow flags mean under construction or proceed with caution. If they are not fixed/ worked on they become red flags and that is when it is time to leave the relationship.
Sophia rocking the star patch ever so confidently 👩🏼🎤
I'd cancel dad and Eva. Then get mom's boyfriend to do dad duties.
I would keep the mom as walking down the isle, but definitely invite mom's bf
I put mom's BF as dad duties as I am very petty. But you are probably right.@@ronna2027
Honestly same. Dad stopped being a dad when he cheated the first time and prioritized the affairs over his family.
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dad changing his flight is stinky man behavior
Regarding the first story, how much you wanna bet that the mom left the cheating husband because she couldn't take it anymore and he really wanted to stay with her and keep cheating and he is insecure about her dumping him and moving on and being happy without him. Obviously there is something going on with his ego and that says a lot more about how he feels about himself then about how his ex wife feels about herself. He is projecting his lack of self-confidence onto his ex-wife who he obviously still has feelings for.
Literally almost my exact thoughts
^ This. Why try to spite an ex if you have no feelings left for them?
Ohhhhh yea I was thinking the same thing. That man def got dumped and is butt hurt because he couldn't continue to have his cake and eat it too. He is so pathetic. She needs to be done with him.
I had to erase my comment soon as I heard cheater is the new wife. Yeah child is an adult, not invited.....
That 'are you in a secret relationship?' exchange.. super sus. Sounds like 2 people secretly dating 👀
I'm here for Sophia and Riley's energy tonight !
Irish here 😂 St. Stephen’s day is more commonly referred to as Boxing Day. The day after Christmas. It generally is a day off for most retail staff etc because traditionally it would have been a day for the wealthy peoples maids, home staff, to get a day rewarded where they would receive a day off from chores and receive a gift. Similarly today MOST retail will get the day off as a reward for enduring the stressful Christmas shopping season. Peasants like myself will eat a second Christmas dinner and just chill. There’s also a lot of football (soccer) on TV those days. Most stores are closed now but bars seem to remain open so it’s not really fair, but it’s Ireland and we like a drink. It’s celebrated in the UK too. 😊
Good King Wenceslas
looked out on the feast of Stephen
I keep thinking the star 🌟 on Sophia's face is something on my screen and i keep trying to wipe it off!😂😂😂😂
Story 2: seems like maybe the SIL is trying to sabotage OP and her husband’s relationship. She’s starting crap just for the heck of it.
Yeah, it’s so hard to tell! Is the husband complaining about wife too much??? Or is it the SIL from the beginning? Or is it the 2 of them bonding over being bitchy to the wife? Neither husband or SIL were checking to make sure wife answered and understood what was going on.
Bitter me here... I would invite the Dad and stepmom and also let the Mom know the 'fat old cow' comment. Then just towards the end of the dinner speeches, the bride and groom stand up to give the Mom speech and ask the Moms to stand up. When Eva stands up (and the narcissist probably will) the bride says "Eva, you can sit own, this doesn't concern you." Then give a beautiful speech. Later on, when the Dad decides Eva to his ex-wife, the mother says "Hi, Eva, you got the fat old cow's sloppy seconds..." and walk away. Oh, I have a stepmom and I love her, and I am a stepmom (actually I divorced the guy but she is still my daughter) and I love her and have a great relationship with her and my beautiful grandson.
The SIL was not angry about anything about the event, she set up the op to fail.
Omg the surprising thing is that I am watching this video at 10:39 am haha😂
Come on Riley and Sophia that back and forth you guys have sometimes it's so cute 🥰.
i personally ship her with john
They definitely would be perfect if John wasn't so old 😫@@katietravadi2362
@@katietravadi2362John has a girlfriend
@@katietravadi2362😳 john’s in a relationship 🤣 but he is such a sweetheart ❤
@@manicpixiedreamcurls ohh i did not realize 😳
Red flags can not be "canceled" they can be overlooked with enough good. But they will, and should, always be there in the background.
Omg i cant believe ive been gifted a membership 😭😭😭
Sofia: “idk what a raid is”
Also Sofia: “perfectly describes what a raid is”
You’ve definitely played that game a lot longer than you said 😂😂
Sophia politely distancing herself from Rileys utter insanity!😂😂😂
I love Sophia and Riley's combination on the videos...they match each other's vibe so well
37:49 no. You do not say sorry unless you’ve done something wrong. If you want a healthy relationship with anyone, you do not placate to keep the peace. You explain, when you have the capacity, in this case, the fact that you had no information on any detail of this outing, played 2 complete rounds with everyone, was NOT angry that you’d lost a digital phone game to anyone and that that was something sister decided for everyone and that that’s not okay…that it’s not okay to behave in this way for any reason and if she’s so miserable that she needs to project onto OP, attempt to sabotage her relationship with your entire family then she can find another place to live. That she was not given grace through an open door and a roof over her head so that she can create undue stress and upset for the people that granted her this huge gift. And that caring about her nieces & nephews looks mirror opposite of what she’s doing. That this is about something she needs to deal with, come back with appropriate behavior and even if she did have an issue with something that occurred, she can learn how to approach situations with calmness, listening skills, curiosity in order to understand better & overall better confronting skills.
Being in a healthy relationship and in a heated argument means understanding there’s almost always something you could’ve done better too because you’re a human. It’s not placating, it’s leveling with your partner and viewing things from their perspective. Maybe you could’ve approached the situation nicer, maybe you could been more calm during the discussion, maybe you didn’t have to escalate things due to elevated emotions, etc.
Heated arguments between partners almost always have a place where both parties can accept responsibility for something they aren’t super proud of, that’s how heated arguments happen. Mature and healthy relationships recognize that unless it’s cheating, abuse, etc(which doesn’t happen in healthy relationships) both parties could almost always be a bit better next time and work on something for the future. Once again, it’s not placating it’s being self aware and reasonable.
OP was super tired and therefore distant which was misinterpreted by her SIL and hurt her feelings. It’s perfectly reasonable to apologize for being so distant, even if unintentional and recognize that maybe next time you should stay home if you’re that tired or make sure to lay out the plans better next time.
First Story: That dad is the worst
Giant red flag on the husband in story 2 for even allowing his sister to speak like that to his wife. His responses were so casual it disgusted me as much as SILs texts tbh.
My husband would NEVER allow those kinds of things to be said about me. He’d have her things packed up by the time she got back from the park.
I'm of the opinion that you don't owe anyone an invitation to your wedding. It's your celebration and why would you want cruel / rude / abusive people to ruin your memory of it?
Op should go NC with SIL. She is so nasty to OP. It's understandable that she was awake for 24 hours, and she was obviously tired. The SIL should be kicked out.
Riley and Sophia are totally secretly dating. Lol
such a parasocial chronically online weird thing to say about two strangers on the internet
@@niyakii6205naw I totally see them dating too, @pixie5834 I assume was just saying they have really good chemistry
No they aren’t. Sophia is the house sister. How dare you even suggest that
I wish they would, it's an ongoing will they won't they saga. But for now Riley has a GF. But for now they have great screen communication and are so entertaining.
Big protein is not currently dating the worm queen
37:09 I really gotta disagree. Doesn’t sound like OP did one thing wrong. Especially women have been so conditioned to bow down, create zero boundaries for themselves & take attacking, shame, guilt, punishment etc & simply deal with it every single day of their lives. It does zero good to continue this behavior, to placate and accommodate, placing yourself at the very back burner. She’s given her home to this person so this isn’t their first interaction…and that the sister can’t control her own behavior & projects it onto an easy target is no one’s responsibility but the sister’s. And you can have boundaries without losing your shit every time, reserving losing your shit for the ultimate boundary exclaim. There’s no sorry that even fits unless it’s coming from the sister and with all humble sincerity. The sister has an issue/s that she’s not dealing with that very very very likely have nothing to do with OP, in the first place.
Ava wants to go to the wedding because dad isn’t acting like someone who’s over his ex wife.
watching at 8am while making and eating breakfast
1st the dad deserves nothing but his new family
2nd the SIL is blowing up nothing. 3rd she needs to leave them and booked another flight to a different place cancel everything and let the husband and mother paying for everything.
Stories like these strengthen my resolve that I will never tolerate disrespect from any family members/partners/ friends. I would rather have no wedding, than to deal with other people's idea of my wedding, and I will elope rather than be forced to invite people who have no respect for me or my partner. All family would catch these hands, blood doesn't give you the right to be entitled. Y'all deserve peace, don't invite entitled ppl around your special moments, especially if they are your parents.
Story 1 is one of my pet peeves. Family pressuring you to maintain a relationship with a toxic person. I don't think that being a parent or sibling gives you a right to inflict drama or trauma on others. It took me years to purge the toxic family members from my life and the only way I was successful was also setting a very strong boundary with my other family members who kept telling me I had to have them in my life because "they're family". If this is the way family treats me, I'd rather be an orphan.
I f I talked to my SIL like that and made that huge of a deal about stuff, I wouldn’t be in my brothers life much. No way would that fly in my family. That SIL clearly has been allowed to act like trash and her family just allows it. Husband needs to set some emotional boundaries. He doesn’t need to respond to her when she’s acting like that.
I nearly lost someone due to driving home after a long shift as a nurse
I bing listen to you all when day long migraines I get, like today. Thank you. Helps get through it.
In Austria St Stephan's Day is just as much a national holiday as Christmas Day, meaning you don't have to work on this day and if you do, you get double pay. Also, on St Stephan's Day we eat something called "Stefaniebraten", which is kind of a meat loaf filled with full eggs and sausages. It's delicious ❤
If my father cheated on my mother, I would NEVER invite him to the wedding.
5:01 there's nothing wrong with not inviting someone you don't like to your wedding. It will be easy and cause drama but ultimately no one can do anything about it since it's not their wedding
I love your sweater Sophia ❤
24:00 Green flags don't cancel out red flags. Red flags are warning you of serious future issues. You don't ignore them because something else seems ok.
Trying to cancel a red flag with a green flag is like seeing a sign telling you a bridge is closed and deciding to keep going because the road seems new and ok to drive on. Then you're shocked when you drive into the concrete block they put there to stop anyone from going across the closed bridge. That's what happens when you ignore the warning sign because something else seemed ok.
Irish person here- St Stephen's day is just an extension of Christmas day to us. Christmas day is generally spent with closest family and Stephen's day is when you meet everyone else. Meet close friends for drinks in the pub assuming you haven't been home in a while. Meet up with cousins etc.
Funny I literally just looked at the time and it was 10:39 am when Sophia was saying it at 55:18😂😂
I'm married, 33, and 3 kids. Well I called my mom today bc I was having a bad morning, I was involved in a hit and run.
I'm so sorry about that. Are you ok? I hope it wasn't a really bad accident
Love Sophia’s sweatshirt! Super cute!
Wow. I have been in a very similar situation as OP in this story. No contact with dad and his sig other is blocked, and my life is now blissfully drama free.
This is so bs because I am 49 and still calling my parents and call my dad Daddy every once in a while.
Sophia bunny and moon jumper is so cute 🥰 I want one.
Stephen’s day is an Irish and UK thing (they call it Boxing Day there) and it’s a really big part of the Christmas season here. Back in the day there used to be a tradition called ‘the hunt’ where hunting hounds used to set out and catch a fox (for what reason I can’t remember but thank god the foxes live in peace now). For my family and many of my friends families over the 3 days of Xmas you might have a big family day, a friend day and a chill at home and do nothing day. I personally spend time with friends Xmas Eve, my extended family for most of Xmas day and then do nothing again until the 27th. I’ve just finished my 9th year in retail and every single year there’s a fight to see who gets it off and some people would rather work Xmas Eve just to have the 26th to themselves 🫶🏻
55:19 "I hope you're watching this at 10:39 in the morning" - me at 530 pm in the shower 👀🍑
Okay but you two are giving couple energy 😏❤🎉
I’ve been thinking this!!
And here I thought I was the only one seeing that😊
🫣 🤣 i was thinking that too but i think maybe they’re now more comfortable with each other / their friendship has developed a lot more than at the start? 🧐 i like their banter / chemistry though =3
I don't see that, more like siblings to me
Riley has a huge ick factor. I've never left a store so fast.
The last story is like that movie ANYONE BUT YOU on Netflix
"Heard or seen. Whhhat"😂😂😂
3 green flags will cancel 1 red flag depending on the severity of the red flag. Known Cheater red flag no amount of green flags will ever cancel that.
What is your spouse was abusive and you cheated on them out of desperation for connection and love? Ah ha! Found the loophole.
Giorno di Santo Stefano (Saint Steven’s Day) is celebrated in Italy, it’s a holiday and a big deal here
You are celebrating the day after Christmas. Traditionally, it's when the poor people(the help) celebrate and exchange gifts because they needed to work on that holiday. Some countries still celebrate this as a holiday.
What are those little star stickers on Sophia's face? They're really cute!
They are these acne healing spot stickers!
St. Stephen's day is celebrated in Croatia so you get days off on both Christmas and that day. I thought that was pretty common
I'm from Canada and I have never heard of it
Neither my dad nor my sister were at my wedding I'm not sure about my dad not the best relationship, but my sister was somewhere on meth. The only people you really need at a wedding are the ones getting married.
Ahhhh I fkn love your jumper/vest Sophia!! ❤
The family even entertaining her behavior is a
You get three to five green flags to override a red flag. Unless it is a major red flag.
10 green flags cancels on 1 red flag
Depends on the red flag.
Inattentive to romantic needs? Pink flag that can be worked on. Six green flags.
Dropping dirty clothes in the living room? Pink flag. Three green flags.
Watched this at 11:39 on the dot when you said 10:39! 😂
Sophia, I would say that Riley was correct on the Eva, coz the way you say the name, it would have been spelled Ava ø, just think about how you say Eve 😁
38:18 story 2, the husband and mother needed OPs money to go on the trip.
My Nana walked my mum down the aisle at her wedding. Frank left when my mum was 7, she's the oldest of 4 kids. So when she was getting married he wasn't in the picture. It was a little scandalous back in the day, but the church family helped Nana raise her 4 girls, so the priest allowed it and even did a special prayer for them. Idc about using Frank's name... he gave up being her dad when she was 7, and never was a "grand" anything to me. He passed like 20 years ago now and left my mum $100 (nothing to her other sisters) .
Sofia and her outfit ❤️🔥❤️🔥
Sophia, instead of inventing a new flag color (pink for expressing proceed with caution), try using the the flag system they use in auto racing. Green means go, and red means stop, but there are a few more that would be fun for you to incorporate into your shows. The yellow flag means something happened so be cautious and go slowly until you get the green flag to resume racing. Black flag: you're disqualified so pull off the track and go home Blue flag with a diagonal red line: Called the courtesy flag, it means that you're pissing everyone off by being a roadblock, so get out of the way of faster drivers. White flag: one more lap until it's all over. Checkered flag: this doesn't mean you won if someone else was ahead of you, but the race is over.
Ahh my red hair is good for something?😂
I love the energy they have bouncing off each other
My mom walked me down the aisle. I made sure she had a beautiful dress and felt beautiful.
lol @ Sophia “put ICU in the comments” on a non livestream video as Riley goes “uhhhhh…..”
Awesome show OKOP!
I use "pink flags" as observations that MAY be a problem in specific context. But I do not know if those conditions are present - so I'll have to wait to evaluate when I get more info.
For example, if they are not close to their immediate family? Is it because the family is terrible, are the mean to the family, or something else? That's a pink flag and either okay or red depending on the situation.
I don’t understand why they couldn’t have gone back to the SIL’s house because it sounds like they went to the town to be close to the other SIL’s so that OP could take a nap and husband could hang out with the kids and then after an hour or 2 OP could also hang out before going home.
In UK we call st Stevens day Boxing Day, I've never actually found out why lol but I always just assumed it had to do with packing everything away but now that sounds stupid to me hahaha
wow… the freaking poke-SILs is insane! who freaking cares?! i think these sisters need a boyfriend/husband and get off their brothers nuts! none of that was a big enough deal for all of that… she sounds like a bully and she’s talking about OP being emotionally abusive
Riley saying what kind of a kid do you have to be for your parents to not show up at your wedding? Lol 😂 personally I don't have parents. I grew up in foster care. What about kids in that situation? What about Father's who have sexually or physically or mentally assaulted their children or partners? There's a lot of reasons for parents to not be there 😅
Day after Christmas is Boxing Day here in Aus or in the state of South Australia it’s proclamation day.
It’s a public holiday throughout the country, we have massive sales everywhere EXCEPT South Australia of course where NOTHING is open!!
Same here in England.
First story; I’d say, alright you’re not coming and mom’s new awesome boyfriend can walk me down the aisle.
Bet he would change his tune real quick.
You seem to be unaware that some mothers can be super jealous of their son's relationship.
Feeling seen with the extra red flags allotted for red heads 😂😂
Here's what I know about St. Stephen: it's a pretty good Grateful Dead song.
For the first story, she probably doesn't want the drama. That's probably why she didn't invite the 2nd husband of the mom. Dad is ridiculous
Lloyd forced me to have him walk me down the “isle”… (beach wedding at a lake here in Michigan but not any of THE GREAT LAKES)
13:56 story 1. I don't know if OP have talking to Ava before. But I think she should give Ava a call and make it clear that she is not invited and why she is not invited and what her dad has been trying to pull. And lying to her. That's the big thing that her dad, Ava's husband is lying to her.
I think that really needs to happen cuz if Ava goes off on her she's going to be pissed at her dad for lying to her and possibly trying to make her look like a fool
Story 1: adult kids will bend over backwards to maintain a relationship with a parent even if they are awful. Just remember that next time you hear an adult kid child going no contact with a parent.
The dad had no intention of maintaining his relationship with OP. He sent a cryptic 👍 and never called her to explain that he wanted to go but had to manage Eva. But he did just enough to claim plausibly caring and wanting to be there and being able to blame the drama and blow up on everyone else.
xD Usually Yellow and orange are caution :P
Are yall interested in a crazy college roommate story? Tldr she peed in my silverware and threatened to sue me :|
Yes
ill try to get it typed up this week and then call in! :)
when you forget youre not on a live and just watching back videos and wanna put “ICU” in the comments 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀💀
Only solution is to invite the mom's boyfriend so her mom can show him off!
Ah but, yes, St Stephen's is Santo Stefano! It took me a second to get it! Yes, yes, after Christmas, Santo Stefano in Italy is a religious holiday.... Not one of the too happy ones actually, in fact during this day it is customary to go to the cemetery to visit the graves of loved ones.
CONSPIRACY THEORY: last story Parent trap couple, the moms knew they were faking not dating and said they were fighting as revenge, wait for 3rd update!!
Pink is a hue of red, not its own color. Light red flags.
Well then I am fond of the Rose Quartz or otherwise Cherry Tree blossom shade of the hue of light red. 🌸
@@MusketeerGweneth don't get me wrong, it's my favorite of all hues with its own name.
@@619timbercali So you're not cancelling the name Pink? 😂
@MusketeerGweneth absolutely not! I'm just... annoyingly technical sometimes. I might have a diagnosis lol
@@619timbercali It's okay, mom said I have the annoying habit of taking things too literally. Like that time when I was a kid and she told me to put ketchup on the list . . . and then we couldn't read the list. There might be a diagnosis for that too lol
I once heard there are red flags, green flags, and yellow flags. Yellow flags mean under construction or proceed with caution. If they are not fixed/ worked on they become red flags and that is when it is time to leave the relationship.
Sophia's voice is sooo raspy this episode! Poor feller ❤
SIL just sounds like a drama llama though due to that Facebook post.
Text so there’s a RECORD of the convo
Also THEY DID NOT Disclose the distance to the tournament
you guys need to start using a fire watch level system instead of beige flags
25:01 id say pink flags should be yellow flags. Like a caution sign instead of a stop sign
Please Big Protein…stories with ultimate endings!!! I hear stories and need more of a conclusion!!