Did I ruin my life by quitting my job?
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- Опубліковано 5 чер 2024
- Quitting your job can feel like stepping into the unknown, filled with fear and uncertainty.
If you're contemplating a big career change or feeling stuck in your current role, remember, quitting doesn't have to mean chaos-it's about courage and careful preparation.
Join me as I explore whether quitting my job was a mistake or the best decision of my life.
Timestamps:
00:00 Didi I destroy my life by quitting me job?
00:28 Needing to make a change
01:00 Quitting your job is scary
02:02 Different seasons of life
02:24 finally having time for hobbies that I love
03:27 Rainfall
04:11 Baby duckies
04:40 You'll be fine if you have a plan, you can quit
09:57 We're here for a limited amount of time
10:14 closing thoughts
My gosh, this video did not pan out the way I had originally planned. I was planning on getting way more shots of cool wildlife and I wanted to take more photo's as well, but mother nature had other plans! I'm still happy with the way this turned out. I had a lot of fun with putting this together and being creative and pivoting when the rain washed out my original plans. I also hope that this video gives you some support if you are also gearing up for a big life change such as quitting your job. I appreciate you watching and feel free to leave a comment. I read and reply to all the comments!
I always just suggest dropping down to part time work: it frees up much of your schedule while still bringing in _some_ income, avoids the resume gap and questions that come with, and if you’re miserable in a particular pt job, there’s time enough built into your schedule already to easily interview for other jobs without needing to take time off and I think many find that even the worst jobs are “doable” if you only have to do them part (of the) time. Having half of your work time given back to you in the form of free time to pursue other life interests is often enough of a change to take the burn out of _burn out._
Thank for sharing your thoughts. Solid strategy to go part time first if you need the income
Completely agree with this video. I took a life break in 2013. Quit a 6 figure job to move to Alaska. I wanted to explore that state more after visiting there to visit an old friend. I found a job there that I had done early in my career and paid my bills while living up there. I spent 3 years living my vacation surrounded by wonderful people and beautiful scenery. It changed my perspective on life. However life circumstances led me back home to a similar career as before but with a much better company. While making slightly less I'm in a better place mentally. People said I was nuts and doubted me for doing what I was doing at that time and moving north but i trusted my heart and mind. Sorry for the long story to add to your point. If you can simplify your life do it. Enjoy every day that you are given. They are finite. Keep posting my friend. You're doing good and I was happy to see you out with your film camera. It was the video with your dad and that camera that started me watching you. Cheers!
Hey Kevin, thank you for sharing your story! No need to apologize at all. I really enjoyed reading about your experience and I'm sure it's helpful to others to read as well. Even though I post these videos, at times I still find myself wondering if I'm making a mistake or not. And then stories like yours are really reassuring. Where in Alaska did you live? I've been to Anchorage a handful of times when i was working but it didn't really count as a visit I'd say, just overnight. If I were to visit Alaska for a longer period of time where would you recommend going?
I'm so glad you're here because of the camera! I'm a little nervous to see if this time the photo's will come out right. Also, because I haven't used this 135mm lens before. Took way too many photos of the ducks and then some geese as well. I'm finding myself gravitating towards photographing the "urban wildlife" we have in our neighborhood and in the park. Like in this video, that deer was not scared of me at all. Kinda cool, but also proof of how incredibly used these animals are to seeing us. I have about 10 exposures left that I'm planning to take on Friday (if it doesn't rain again hahaha) Planning to have a video on the new batch of photos next Thursday!
@LucindaLives I'd recommend visiting anywhere in Alaska just not on a cruise ship. You only see what they want you to see. Drive the road system at least. Homer. Valdez. Take the ferry from Whittier to Valdez to see the coast line. I could go on. The scenery is spectacular and the people incredible. I lived in South Anchorage. Close to the ocean and the mountains. For city living, the best place I could be.
Keep doing what you're doing. You have great content and are great at with these videos (cinematography etc) Its scary but life often is. Keep making content and pushing forward.
Oh and I've started shooting film this year with a Nikon FM. 35mm I picked up. 50mm lens. It's my way of simplifying from digital and getting back to basics with my photography.
Keep making content. We'll all keep watching and hopefully help grow your channel.
Thank you for the recommendations and the kind words! It's funny how you mention the cruise thing, since that's what I was initially thinking. But driving around seems definitely a better plan since like you said you get to pick where to go.
I'll continue with the channel for sure!
I quit my job ~ 2 more weeks! Once I made the decision I felt at peace. My plan is to slow travel through SE Asia to make my money last longer. And agree if I need money in the future I will worry about it when I need and God will provide. Best wishes!
Good luck on your new journey!
Oh my gosh
I would caution anyone against quitting a job in this market. Especially if you are the age category for ageism. I took a career break for 1.5 years due to poor health and mental health mostly due to my profession. I’m in my late forties and I have been looking for another job since late last year and it has been hard. Even temporary and contract work is harder to get now. The myth is that if you need to, you can just pivot to a job as a barista, retail, customer service easily and that is not true for most. Especially after they see your resume unless you are of retirement age. I don’t regret my time off but it cost me my savings and other things that I had to give up as a single woman. I don’t want to push fear either, but I just say unless you are in a situation where you have another income understand you may face difficulty getting back in. And unless its literally killing you like it was for me, keep your job at least for now. Forgive the length and lack of punctuation.😊
It probably depends on the area you live in, the country you live in etc. on what the job opportunities are out there. I really appreciate you sharing your perspective
@@LucindaLives I live in the 3rd largest city in the country, Houston and have lived in other cities North and South and its been difficult for many to find work since last year. There are plenty of people young and old going through it. Its all on social media and YT so if someone said they didnt know about it, i’d be surprised or say they are under a rock. And you will hear people say just like me.. “I have never had a problem finding a job.” Of course, it varies for people depending on what they do. I appreciate the content though. 😉
I don't want to be insensitive to people like yourself, everyone does have a different experience and I'm sorry yours didn't work out like you had intended
@@LucindaLives Not sure what the shade was about. I was very respectful to you. I had no bad intentions on stating what many people are going through..not just myself. So your comment is insensitive and honestly unnecessary. Of course, as a UA-camr you would benefit by selling a narrative that everyone can do what you are doing and that is not true for most people. Now, lastly, let me just say, you don’t know what the future holds for you or anyone. There are many that face unforeseen issues in this world. I would be careful of whatever judgement you place on others. I have a degrees just like you and many others. Trials and tribulations can happen to the best of them. Just remember that.
I empathize with your situation and I will say you are right. It is difficult to find a job, and one that pays well. Although I would add it maybe easier for some than others.
I’m only 28 and I’ve been burnt out from my good paying tech job after only 6 years since graduating. I’m in the process of relocating out of my home town to explore new things. I guess this will be my “adult gap year.” I saved up 6-months worth of living expenses so far and plan to take a break and figure out what I really want to do that is meaningful in my life (I’m a creative and artist at heart).
I’ve worked in restaurants as a cashier/hostess/server during my college days so I’m glad I have that experience in my resume if ever I need extra income and work a part-time job, but honestly, after working an exhausting, brain fogging 9-5 tech job, working part-time in a restaurant or even a coffee shop sounds more appealing. I want to be able to clock out and not think about work.
Thank you for your video! I’m so glad I can relate and come on here to share/vent as a safe space.
Hey Jackie, thanks for sharing your story. How exciting that you are taking charge of your own life and recognizing that you just need a break. I wish I would've been honest with myself at your age but better late than never.
I think you are very brave, and I hope that you will get what you need out of your gap year!
Wow! Awesome to see you on your new journey! Careers are just man made concepts to feed the ego - The only thing we truly have is purpose which can never be defined only lived!
Thank you so much for your kind comment!
It’s insane how you dont have more subscribers. Great quality video!
Thank you so much Adam! And thanks for watching
If you're lucky enough to have someone to pay your bills or you're smart enough to have saved enough to pay your bills - quit your job. If not - don't. Now I saved 10 minutes of your life, you're welcome.
I appreciate every comment, also yours!
Not entirely true. I changed my lifestyle and am entirely independent. I was able to make chages to improve my quality of life much like this video promotes. I just had to cut back on things i didn't need in my life. I dont eat junk food, sodas, or alcohol, cut the cell phone ect. For the it was entirely worth it for the quality of life and freedom to pursue my dreams. Never give up
@@flyingcardinal By "bills" I mean essentials. Changing your lifestyle is an obvious requirement, If you live off modest savings you can't have luxurious vacations every few months. I love skiing, white beaches and also supporting financially my family of four, which makes me unable to retire even if I save like a crazy on other things. But hey, you do you and you have my respect for accomplishing your life goals.
That's rude. There are other things besides bills to consider.
Thank you for your video. I had to quit my career a few years ago because it destroyed me mentally and physically. When i tried to stand up for myself and the treatment of women it went horribly wrong and I was discredited and ostracized. Lost my career, my income and almost all of my friends. Even most of my family ditched me. The reality that older women have almost no monetary value in society has been difficult to accept. I spend my time hiking alone in the forest, praying and searching for a new way in life. Still nothing yet. I wonder if I'm just done with actuve participation in life because the world has no place for me in it. I hope we find some direction out there on the trail!
Hey Dawn, thank you for sharing your story here. I'm sorry you had to go through that. The world definitely has a place for you, keep doing what you are doing, and you will find it. Sending you strength!
This video was recommended so I thought I would give it a watch. Kudos to you for YOUR decision. The U.S. (I'm assuming you're in America), has a tendency to make its citizens feel bad if we are not multi-tasking with at least two jobs working 10 hours a day/6 days a week. I retired this past January (2024) at the age of 57 after giving 35 years to one company. Some people still say I retired to young. WHAT? WHY? What they don't know, is that I've invested 17% of my salary since I was 25 years old. LOL! I'm out here living my life. I don't listen to naysayers. All the best to you 🙂
Thank you for giving the video a watch! Yup, I am in the US, but I grew up in The Netherlands. So I do have 2 different perspectives to draw from. And congrats on your retirement!! I see how my parents are living their best lives in retirement as well. Life is so much more than work.
The biggest thing a young person can do (especially without kids) is invest at an early age. So many people don't understand the power of compound interest.
Very entertaining video. Excellent editing.
Thank you so much! I’m learning so much about editing and it’s fun to do
Subbed i love this video and narrative.
Also great editing it kept me engaged
Thank you for subbing! And thank you for the compliment on the editing, I've been working hard to level up in that department 😊
I totally relate to this video! It’s wild what shows up on your feed sometimes. I quit my job about six months ago after building my career for over a decade. It was scary for sure. In my personal boat I’m not sure what is next for me, but that part of taking these adult gap years! And like you said, returning to the career one day or starting a new job/career one day is possible, if desired.
I ended up taking a part-time retail job to help make ends meet just recently, which was not part of the plan when I started but in the strangest ways it’s been one of the best parts of this time in my life. Yeah, the pay is so much lower and yeah I have no benefits but I actually enjoy it versus dreading my job everyday, burning out, or trying to climb a ladder I don’t have an interest in climbing.
While I’m still figuring this whole thing out, it’s comforting to know that other adults are doing the same.
I’m so glad that the video showed up in your feed Jonathan! It’s funny how you mention that it’s a relief to know that others are having a similar experience. That’s exactly how I feel hearing about stories like yours. Thanks for sharing!
I just quit my job without a plan, don't have a lot of savings so it's a bit scary but had to be done!
Glad you did what’s best for you! Good luck!
I quit my job because i became a robot... and sick. Had 2 degrees lot of work. We sold our house, rent, simple life. I went back after 2 years, same job, opticien eyes, i went back miserable. So i quit again... i felt better, there are many ways to support your family❤and yourself.
Thank you for sharing this. It’s important to give yourself permission to quit and try again as many times as you need to, to figure out what’s best. Life is a lot about trial and error it seems to me
Thank you for sharing. I am preparing for this transition now and you are right. I am not doing it willy-nilly, I have a plan. You are also right, that if it doesn't work out I can get a part-time job. I just have to be willing to go after things and not let fear hold me back. Thank you. Have a wonderful rest of your day.
Good luck on this new journey! It sounds like you have a good plan so I'm sure you'll be ok!
@@LucindaLives thank you so much :)
love vids like this! hell yeah
Thank you! So glad you liked it
I agree with you! Ive decided that as long as I invest for the future each month, I deserve to live my life and go on trips, concerts, plats etc. ❤ Love this video!
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts Janayn!
I totally understand and admire your decision to walk away from your career. While I do get not everyone has the means to be able to quit a job to take a step back, if you do and you can why not do it?
Having all the money in the world means nothing when you are older if you can’t enjoy it due to health
issues caused by the job that got
you to all the money or God forbid you are not around any longer to enjoy it.
I had to leave the work force due to health reasons not caused by my job, but it certainly does bring a whole new perspective to the direction of my future. My husband and I worked towards a whole new goal of what we want for our future as individuals and as a married couple. It’s been eye opening, scary, depressing at times, but in a way sometimes a bit of push in a more positive attitude towards making time for things that make us happy. Happy now as individuals and as a couple and making goals that will continue to allow us to keep achieving those slower pace wins.
Life is just too much and if you can take a step back and be a superhero for yourself then go for it! There is no one more worthy of your support than yourself!!! Plus, if you hadn’t done what you do, I wouldn’t be able to appreciate your videos! 😊 Keep on being the superhero.
FYI I think you would make an awesome private lesson teacher.
Although, that would definitely be a job that would take more bravery than those brave souls that are driver’s education instructors. 😂
Hey Rachel! Thanks for sharing that. It's interesting that you mention that you and your husband as a couple are working on new goals. Awesome that you guys are a team in that endeavor. To me that's interesting because, yes I did discuss the job quitting with my husband and he is completely on board. But to be honest we didn't really reevaluate our goals as a team. Something we should work on, thank you for that insight!
(Ah, you mean private pilot instructor? Been there, done that, almost died, never again hahahahaha)
@@LucindaLives oh my- yes, no more private instruction lessons! I give you props for having the guts to try it.
Yes,couple goals. We have always included each other in our big decisions too and been a good team on those things and obviously any future plans were about both of us. I don’t know, somewhere along the way of all the stresses the past couple of years has thrown at us we started to have couple goals. It really has helped both of us adjust to how we have changed as individuals yet still stay a team.
Wow! So good to see you back on YT! I’m still pursuing my PPL but still thinking of quitting, lol! Finding a great CFI is so hard. It’s draining my bank account. Well just wanted to say hi and good to see you again.
Thank you!! I feel you, I had been through a bunch of CFIs before I found the right one. Well I may have said it before, you have to trust your gut in if you want to keep going or not. I stopped flying because I want to see what else is out there and I missed out on so much due to my laser focus on my career. I don’t regret anything, flying is so amazing. But some major life events have made think that there’s more to life than a career. Who knows, I might just get my own plane in the future! Thanks for saying hi and I apologize for the super lengthy reply ahahaha
Thanks for your reply. I guess I’m looking for permission to quit without feeling like a total loser. I’m so close yet so far away. At first I thought it would be cool to be a professional pilot, but after watching a ton of YT videos, I can feel the grind. I’ve already been on the grind at my current career for 26 years. I’m looking to have more time to myself and my family and less at my 9to 5. The PPL has been like having a 2nd job. A lot of times I fly and don’t even want to but just try to keep current. It is still an amazing feeling to fly but it just takes so much time and effort. I appreciate your empathy and am happy to see you pursuing what’s best for you. Hopefully you are renting an aircraft to fly every now and then. You are so talented. I was really inspired by your videos on your last channel. Seeing a successful woman in aviation was rare and it helped me to keep going.
I'm not going to lie, it was definitely a grind to get to the airlines. It's interesting because I've just published a video where I talk about just that: feeling like a loser or a failure when I quit flying. I felt that way in the beginning. But now I don't at all. I've accomplished so much, so many unforgettable experiences. And the same for you! If you decided it's better to maybe pause or stop flying now, nobody can take away the times that you did fly. The effort that you did put in and that's what's important. Whatever you decided to do, you are not a loser!
At the end of 2023 I sold as much of my expensive items I had, threw some stuff in the bin, and gave the rest to charity and moved into my car. I worked as many hours as I could in my job each week and saved as much as possible, although I did eat takeout a fair bit and couldve done better budgeting my food expenses (I don't keep a fridge in my car cus it seems like too much money to buy one and have power to run it all the time. I bought a smaller powerbank and that keeps the essentials charged for a week, like phone headphones speaker). Overall, I saved more money in the past few months than I have in an entire year since moving out of home (Im 25) and paying rent which takes up about half to two thirds of your paycheck and throws it down the drain imo, when all you need it a secure place for your minimal amount of stuff like clothes, toiletries, cleaning supplies, etc, a place to sleep that's comfortable, and a way to get around which is exactly what a car does. I live in a small car and even that works for me. It's a 2002 rav 4 2 door with the back seats taken out and the passenger seat folded back and my bed on top of that. I stopped working recently to take some time to figure out what I want to do with my life, and to slow down and just breathe with no responsibilities (or atleast less of the burdening ones) and now I can afford to do that. Eventually I will get a job again just working a couple days a week so I can pay for my expenses without chewing through my savings. A quote I thought up is "I'm not living to work, I'm working to live".
I would say the lessons I learnt associated with car life is, prioritise having a decent bed (very important), finding private enough places or inconspicuous locations to sleep for the night only arriving late and leaving early to not draw any attention to yourself, and try not to stay in one place for more than a night or two in a row. Work as much as you're able to begin with to put away a safety net of cash for emergencies, and then slow down and work as much as you need to survive and if you can save a little as well on the side that's a blessing, and the big one, BUDGET your FOOD EXPENSES! That's where most of my money went because I can't cook big meals and store them, and don't be lazy when it comes to cooking if you can, make healthy meals as much as possible (cheat days aren't a reason to punish yourself though haha). Find some places to shower and use the bathroom, perhaps a gym membership.. I mean hey, you'll have the money to afford that once you eventually move into your car right. And try save a little, or make some money from selling expensive items you already have before moving into your car to get you off your feet.
It will be a big change, and kinda strange experience to begin with, probably more so depending on where you live, but for me it only took like the third night for it to just seem normal.
Bless your journey in life, and I have faith in you and trust that everything is working itself out for you in your favour, even if it doesn't appear that way rn, it always works itself out for the best. Life is good and things just keep getting better.
Ps thank you for listening to my long ass Ted talk, lol😂❤ much love🙏🏻
I'm gonna reply to my own comment cus I thought of a couple extra things, lol.
So in regard to finding a place to sleep, if you have a friend or family member that will let you park in front of their place, that can a good thing, they might even be able to let you use their bathroom or store some food in their fridge as well, but try to be as self sufficient where possible.
In my own experience, I've worked long hours and many days a week for years and haven't felt like I've gotten anywhere with it, so for me taking the chance to not work for a little while is personal, and you don't need to do that, or even work less hours a week and only make enough to survive if you don't want. I mean, you could save quite a decent amount of money pretty quickly if you worked enough hours, if you're okay with that, and just living in your car gives you the opportunity to save more of it. Imo, there are only two ways to make more money. That's, find ways to make more money, or find ways to save more of the money that you're already making. So car life is for the latter.
I think that I'll probably find a job working a couple days a week and just earn enough to not go broke, and do that for a little while, and then perhaps at some point, I'll treat work like a roster throughout my year, so for example, part of the year I'll work more often and as much as possible to try to save as much as I can, and then for the rest of the year only work enough to get by, and put a little aside where I can. That way I am still saving more money in a year than I would have paying rent, but also having the time to do things I enjoy and live my life. At this point in my journey, I'm still figuring out what those things even are, and that's okay❤ I really enjoy walking in nature, and writing. (Side note, I found two amazing authors, Julia Cameron and her book, The Artists Way, and Jack Grapes, and his two books Method Writing, and Advanced Method Writing the art of tonal dynamics. If youre also interested in writing like I am😊)
Anyway, I'm more prioritising living my life, and focusing on where my time is going. I don't want to work so much, and if I slow down and take the time to think about what I want to do, and allow myself to not put pressure or a time limit on finding answers to these questions, I have faith that I will come across what I'm looking for. It will all work itself out.
I might even start my own small business on the side? Or perhaps I'll study something and get a certification in a career that sounds intriguing?
I don't know yet, and that's okay❤
I'm just living each day as it comes.
Two quotes from my favourite movie of all time, The Shawshank Redemption ring true for me rn.
Which is when Andy is talking to Red after having spent 2 months in the hole, and he wants to live his dream that he has in his mind, of owning a small boat, and taking his guests out charter fishing, he says I don't think that's too much to ask for. Red is telling him that that life is down there, and we're in here, stuck in this prison. Then Andy says, right, that's just the way it is, I guess it comes down to a simple decision:
"Get busy living, or get busy dying"
and then later, Andy leaves behind a note for Red, which reads:
"Remember Red, HOPE, is a good thing. Maybe the best of things. I'll be hoping that this letter finds you, and finds you well. I'll be waiting for you, and I'll have the chessboard ready"
It's a beautiful story, and I love it so much, it's why its my favourite movie. The character Andy really resonates with me, and the relationships between the characters are beautiful.
I hold hope for myself, and to whoever reading this that may find it inspiring or helpful in anyway that everything is really going to be alright. I have faith in that. I hope you have a wonderful day, and that you find what it is that you're looking for. You're not alone.🍻❤️🙏🏻
Thank you for taking the time to share your story. While living out of a car isn't for everyone it's intriguing to hear how you did it. And for those that are wanting to try it this is a great explanation! I totally agree with prioritizing living life and spending time on the things that are important to you. Get busy living, I love that!
Fabulous!
Thanks for watching!
We're the same age. I get what your going through. Enjoy your time off. God bless!👍
Thank you!
It gets worrisome when your “break” affects your financial situation/life aged 60s, 70s 80s and up. If you don’t have a pension, savings, social security, 401k and more ….after full retirement age it won’t be fun. Your body and mind may not be capable of work 65+ 😢 And the $$$$$ you do have may not be enough for survival.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Romey.
Good video and narrative. I lost job, not quit job 😢 they kick me. This is very hard time
I’m sorry! I hope you will find yourself in better times soon
I've been on the verge of quitting for probably the last year or so but I keep finding excuses to put it off, the latest one being that I need to stay a couple more months to qualify for a bonus. I think(!) I will take the plunge after that, and it's not because I have any particular ambitions to do with traveling or side hustles. I just need a damn break, and I feel like a year off work (which is what I'll start with) is a better investment than, say, a car or a deposit for a house or whatever.
I think you should not rush anything. Do what feels good and what's smart. And getting that extra money before you quit seems like a smart thing to do to me. Trust your gut!
Beautiful.
Appreciate it!
I'm also in aerospace, I'm also getting ready to take the leap of faith career break❤
Good luck !!!
Life is to short to be in a unhappy job
Aerospace engineer does sound tough!
Tough but a great career. I’m thankful that I still have the option to return to it if that’s what ends up being the right choice. For now, I’m all in with trying to use my creativity as an outlet as well as a means to eventually earn.
My “biggest reason”: a spouse. I cannot leave the high-paying corporate job and simultaneously exercise that responsible behavior that you mention. Just for myself, I haven’t needed to work for at least the past decade.
There’s a season for everything and a season of taking care of your loved ones is admirable and wonderful
what camera / lens are you using?
Sone a7CII, Sony a7III, 20 mm F1.8, 35 mm F1.4, Peak design tripod, DJI gimbal
Great vlog
Thank you!
So I have a tech job and more than burnt out. Also I have saved more than enough money. I have been thinking about going back to school and doing a masters part time while still having time to pursue some other options. It might sound weird but the thing is I was thinking about doing a masters in something like aerospace engineering. Is that an awful thing to do? Enter something that you exited?
Not at all! While I now want to pursue more creative things and at the moment don't want to go back to engineering, I still think it's a great career choice. But remember, this is still just my opinion. A random lady on the internet. do your own research and check with your gut and make the best decision for you and your situation
I like the "Adult Gap" mind set here. lol
right?!?! take that break if you've never taken it before and you have means to do so (❁´◡`❁)
yaas queen
(❁´◡`❁)
Possibly 😊
Loving the honesty! Time will tell, but I’m confident it will be ok
Do you still have your aviation page?
No I don't. I've closed that chapter so I can concentrate on the new things hat I am doing. Thank you for being interested tho!
@@LucindaLives 😢. I’ve watched that page for the longest. I’ve finally made the decision to be a pilot. I understand why you took it down. God speed.
I'm so happy you decided to go for it!! And thanks for following back then. Fly safe!
How about health insurance? one year without insurance in the US can be a huge problem if you have an emergency
That's a good point. I have no real knowledge on this and you need to do your research of course but I believe that there are options out there for health insurance when you're not employed that might be lower cost. Anyone that has knowledge on this feel free to chime in.
Also, you could try to find a part time job first in order to make the transition from the job that you might want to leave. So that you can still have health insurance that way.
I was wondering where you went😮😮
Here I am!
You leaving flying, me trying to figure out a way to afford to get back into it.
Go for it! I'm excited for you to get back in the cockpit😊
My dear Friend...I missed You SO MUCH!!! I was a subscriber of your old channel...When You disappeared from the internet, I looked for You everywhere, but I couldn't even find a trace of You...I started thinking that some catastrophic event happened in your life and that You didn't want to give us any explanation...I was also deeply frustrated by the fact that I couldn't get any information about What had happened to You...I just finally decided to eat up my frustration and continue living without those nice videos of You...and Today, When I saw your face on that UA-cam suggestion, I couldn't believe my eyes!!!! She's ALIVE!!! Are You ok for me to Call You Your real name, or should I just call You "LUCINDA"...(sounds pretty weird to me to call You "LUCINDA" ...as I was used to call You "N.....")....seeing Your face today made me realise that I really like You! I would be really Happy If I get an answer from You, my dear Friend...Fun Fact: I also quit my Job a few months ago as a banker... I couldn't deal with the stress anymore...I guess that's the new pandemic right now...Welcome to the generation of quitters (L.OL.!!!)
lol, thanks for your kind comment. I don't necessarily see myself as a quitter tho. I'm pivoting to something that's more healthy for me. I do go by Lucinda, it's an adjustment for everyone. You'll get used to it 😊😉
@@LucindaLives Thank You, my dear friend,for your answer! Ok, for Your new name, I'll do my very best to adjust as Quickly as possible. See You next time, dear Friend LUCINDA!
Wait a minute I haven't seen any of her videos in a really long time, but isn't she a pilot as I think I've seen and subscribe to some of her aviation videos or this woman has a twin.
Lol, not a twin. same person new channel new life new everything. I’m taking a break from flying and seeing what else is out there in the world. I’m excited to be more creative with video on this new channel since on the other channel was only about the information. Thanks for subbing back then and thank for giving the new video format a watch!
Wait, are you not flying anymore? I use to watch you all the time when getting my PPL.
That's right, hence the name of this video. I quit my job and am pursuing other things in life.
@@LucindaLives dope that you are doing what makes you happy I know you busted your tail to become airline pilot and it's tough to not have that as identity.
Thank you so much for your kind comment. It's been an unexpected, difficult but also good decision to try out something else than flying.
Destroy your life? Of course not. But before you quit, secure any credit you'll need and have a plan financially. My worse-case scenario would be to need a job again. So most people's every day.
That’s really the key, make sure you do it smartly
I did cause its affecting my physical health.
You have to choose your health for sure
Your are not flying anymore?
That's right, not flying anymore. Was a great chapter in my life, loved it. But ended up needing a break.
Quitting what job? 😂 I need a change, but hard to do a big shift with zero income and such .
That's exactly what I meant. Plan your big shift. Why do you have zero income? Is there a way that you can start making some income? What is the "and such" part? Are there particular reasons that are holding you back from making an income? What are the things that are in your control that you can change? Not that I expect you to answer these questions here. But you may be able to think about these things to yourself, write them down and figure out a game plan to at least start moving towards that change that you need.
@@LucindaLives I live with chronic Lyme disease since 18 years which basically means chronic fatigue and chronic pain. And also live in mold so very tired all the time. Hard to work when you cant work a normal job. No friends no famoly no income nothing good at all. I have my animals and they keep me alive they are my everything but cant even afford them either, but they are my everything so I make it work but hardly survive, so... Its a catch 22. To ill to work, to poor to afford treatment. Round and round and round. And hard to find a new apartment with no income. Yeah. Catch 22.
My goodness, that's awful. We actually have 2 people in our direct circle that are dealing with CFS so I do know how debilitating that is. My heart goes out to you. I'm so glad to hear that your animals are keeping you grounded. I wouldn't know where I would be without my furry besties either.
Even though I am familiar with what you are going through I don't know what it feels like, so other than saying that I hope your situation will improve, I don't think there's much else that I can add. Wishing you strength and better times!