THE ISSUES WITH INTIMACY IS SO FUNNY TO ME😭😭😭 also so true!! ASMR isn’t weird at all. I hate that I have to treat watching ASMR as this shameful thing because everyone thinks it’s weird :(
People will say the potential parasocial aspect of ASMR is weird but then turn around and pretend that any political leader cares about them in the slightest.
This felt almost like one of her twitch stream rambles. IDK what it is about her but her face/smile/demeanor makes me feel warm and fuzzy. She is like a serotonin boost but also a melatonin boost with it.
I wish this was a joking matter, but give it two or three years and you'll have to pick between ditching ASMR or bringing down the wrath of the cool kids on Meta™Threads
I misheard "issues with intimacy" as "issues within Tennessee" and thought you were saying asmr is a problem for people in Tennessee specifically 😂 I need an ear cleaning video clearly lol
"Okay, but isn't ASMR about... y'know..." "No, ASMR is not about... that! Everyone always says that!" "Wow, really? Cause a lot of-" "It has nothing to do with politics!" "'I... What?"
I've been listening to ASMR since 2017 and it has become my place of comfort. Some people may find it weird but it's okay. Just like culture, it is shared but not forced.
"Hey, be careful... Sleeps is with the grumps..." And btw ASMR is not weird. It's both a form of art and a wholesome gesture. You exercise your creativity and acting skills to make totally unknown folks wind up and relax. So it's both artistic and altruistic
asmr has really been apart of me to the point that i would tap on any item i see, randomly whisper to my friends and point out the sounds i like. imo it makes me appreciate even the smallest things and i can just take interest in anything
Asmr is not weird, it’s the reason I was able to fix my sleep schedule and insomnia that my high school/early college life absolutely destroyed some years ago (yes, I’m ironically typing after 2am, but I had some things to finish up ok?) but seriously, I’m really grateful for you and so many other asmrtists for helping me get good sleep in general. Also love the humor in your videos lol
Yeah, I think you're right. I remember that few years ago I really thought that's ASMR was weird for me and that feeling started to fade away over the time. Thanks for the video. Amazing as always.
Our girl is absolutely right here. Even the topic is kinda serious your voice is still soothing and I doubt I never get enough of seeing your cute and friendly eyes. :3
21:14 this is how so called "useful things" are created. We learned to make use out of apparently useless things, this kept us from being bored and gave us a sense of fulfillment and achievement. It also stimulated our creativity. Like everything that's ever been built or created came from something that appeared inherently "useless." I mean staring at the sky brought about astronomy, which people would now consider to be informative, educational, "useful" in some way. I'll draw on an example as a musician. Distortion, the fundamental sound of rock music was discovered from using a broken circuit. Its broken, its useless right? Nope, we found a use for it. Going on a bit of a tangent here but i had to because the point you're making of how not everything needs to be "useful" is actually so fundamentally important. Because we're the ones who create the usefulness and value. And so isn't enjoying something just for the sake of it just as useful? This age of information is wonderous but also dangerous.
I'll also add doing "useless" things for the sake of it is a very very normal animal trait (remember we are animals too). A lot of work goes into creating things that we don't "need" but enjoy, we've always done important work to produce more relaxation, quality recreation etc etc. Nature likes to enjoy itself man, usefulness is kinda a construct. Btw, when talking about effort and resources going into creating products for people's enjoyment I'm not talking about large scale consumerism, I'm talking about any small scale project you might do to create some sort of enjoyment. Large scale consumerism is a different conversation and I would actually like to leave it out of this comment section.
ive had issues with intimacy pretty much all my life yeah, but have also been listening to asmr since i was 14, so 8 years or so. i used to search up terms like "wear headphones" before i heard what asmr was. ive just always liked the binaural aspect of it
Ive been listening to asmr for over a decade now. I think my first craze was asmrunicorn then kisper Its not weird. its misunderstood and overly sexualised, as well as demeaned too much by politics and media. Gonna be honest. (This may sound odd but) i dont think i could of gotten through through a lot without it. Softlygolashus helpped me through panic attack, and when i found you. I just needed something sweet and simple. Keep at it girl!!
im lucky nowadays more ppl know of and is ok w asmr, I remember back in 2017 when i tell ppl i like asmr they'd look at me weird 😭 but i embrace it now! i even grew my nails long so i can tap tap tap and scratch scratch scratch on everything!!
I love that your standing for your opinion. I've been watching asmr for so long, and it just makes me feel good, you know? Like people can think whatever they want about asmr, but if they are going to take it to a point where they insult asmtist's or come at them for what they do and like, try to bring them down, why are they watching it in the first place. If they think its weird, why do they go out of their way to go to asmr channels, and comment on videos stating its weird? I totally get what you mean.
18:52 I was peacefully drifting off to sleep when I heard ‘like pineapple’ and I immediately snapped awake. As an Italian I am offended. Pineapple doesn’t belong on pizza. (No hate to any pineapple pizza enthusiast, just hate to the pineapple itself.)
I started asmr watching because it helped reduce stress and anxiety from tinnitus I developed which was wreaking fresh havic on me at the time a few years back. It was so helpful to me I got hooked and enjoy it now for the humor mostly .
ik this is weird for youtubers and content creators to get cuz it might feel like a lot of pressure, but i really hope you know how good of a thing you’re doing for so many people out there. you might hear it a lot or maybe not enough but you’re truly helping so many of us just by doing these silly little videos, and i really hope you get some joy out of making them as well and dont just see this as a job or another thing u just gotta do. i have ptsd, i have a horrible time sleeping at night, and every night your videos (and other asmrtists videos) help me and probably other people with similar issues get the relief of peaceful/restful sleep. thank you sleepy.🖤
15:43 "Lord of the Rings fans are like super hit or miss" "Humans are either hits or misses. The misses make themselves known quickly, but it takes time to know if you've found a hit." -- Fafnir
You’re always so pretty and amazing!!! I started listening to asmr about 2 years ago, it has helped with my sleep and relaxation. Asmr isn’t weird, it’s an experience to consume. I’m honestly a weird person, but that won’t stop me from enjoying asmr!😁 this was a nice asmr ramble video! Absolutely Love you and your grumpiness!!!☺️❤
'Like how you splash vegetable oil on your enemies'. I would totally watch that video game playthrough. I'd like to see how they incorporate stippling, too.
13:30 very good point vidya is BIZZARE. total external simulation that gains its own libidinal power. but is vidya still subordinate to socio-sexual libido, eg. "league of legends is good because of its social value" and so on? perhaps but also perhaps it gains its own energy. this is basically Lacan/Freud vs Deluze
Since the day I started watching ASMR videos, more than 8 years ago, not for a minute did I ever think it was weird. I honestly got into it *straight away!* ❤️ It's *not* weird. To this day, I still fcking *love it.* And I *loved this video.* It was relaxing. 😌 Thank you so much for a new upload, Sleepy. 🥰❤️
ASMR is storytelling, sound design, acting, cosplay, sometimes other art forms - like painting, sculpting, furniture refinishing (mhm), etc. ASMR is art and all art is weird and all art has a time and place.
What makes ASMR weird into the social imaginary is the discourse some people gives to their videos, like some weird roleplays about being literally k1dn4pped, but beyond that there's nothing weird with feeling relaxed with some calm sounds and whispers lmao
I’ve been listening to ASMR for 10 years now. I came across it from a College Humor satire video, liked the feeling, looked into it, and never looked back 🙂.
And to think that some time ago I started watching your videos because you look like Jane Asher and here we continue because you are the best ASMR content creator who makes it entertaining and original ❤
Ok, ASMR has nothing to do with politics, but it'd be hilarious if we ever found out that some world leader was secretly subscribed to Sleepy or constantly lurked on twitch
I love your roleplays where you're not necessarily a different person, but you're expressing yourself in ways you wouldn't normally (Like the SLEEP, IDIOT Asmr)
I actually had initial impression of it being weird when I first encountered it. Then the longer I listen to it. It made all my sleeps resulted oddly positive. Prolly the one of the best things I received in my whole existence. 😂
personal opinion: i am petrified for people to find out i watch this. i think asmr without talking seems less weird but i think when it comes to roleplays i am ashamed to watch them, the sets are phenomenal but the thought of someone finding out i listen to someone whisper to me in a roleplay context just seems really kinky?? 😭😭 edit: dont worry im very much love asmr
Been listening to ASMR since 2015. My family thought it was weird until the last 2 years. Both my brothers enjoy it along with some friends. Took a while tho
I’m in my grumpy thumbnail era ok just let a girl grump 😠
valid queen
Grumpy Grump McGrumpster
alwaysslightlygrump
Served❤
Not so Grump at best
THE ISSUES WITH INTIMACY IS SO FUNNY TO ME😭😭😭 also so true!! ASMR isn’t weird at all. I hate that I have to treat watching ASMR as this shameful thing because everyone thinks it’s weird :(
I hide ASMR like I hide my search history.
@@cheekintenders I hide my search history because there's ASMR in it
If everyone thinks something and you don't, maybe you're the one that's wrong.
@@profanegaming2829in matters of opinion there is no right or wrong
i love being an asmr weirdo because im an original just like youskskksksk
You’re CORRECT and you should SAY IT!
Also shoutout to the grumpy thumbnail era, truly the most grumpmaxxed ASMR channel out there rn.
grumpmaxxing needs to become an official term lol
@@DeadSpacedOut any -maxxing term is official by definition that's the genius behind the maxxes
Yeah it’s really normal, I see a person and I start “sksksksk”
In fact thats pretty normal... 🗿🗿
@@ACHaceASMR😭🫸🫷
"and I oop"
😂😂😂😂😂ohhh
@@DomihockeyrockyWHAT IS THAT EMOJI 😟
People will say the potential parasocial aspect of ASMR is weird but then turn around and pretend that any political leader cares about them in the slightest.
Goddamn, mans left no truth unturned
Your comment just goes so hard. I want to cite it.
Dude, only watch the video
This felt almost like one of her twitch stream rambles. IDK what it is about her but her face/smile/demeanor makes me feel warm and fuzzy. She is like a serotonin boost but also a melatonin boost with it.
My friends keep making fun of me for listening to ASMR, but their words bounce off me as their quips and jokes can't compare to the tingles I feel.
spitting bars
RAW AF
Making ASMR is the most political act there is
I can't stand leftists. Everyone knows that the best triggers are always in the right ear. 😤
I wish this was a joking matter, but give it two or three years and you'll have to pick between ditching ASMR or bringing down the wrath of the cool kids on Meta™Threads
@@janinecat1865 this did psychic damage to me because it implies someone's using Threads
@@No1TypeC Why would people not use Zuckstodon, aka, cnn!Gab
Vote ASMR ong
this video is so off the cuff and funny😭 the amount of flustered frustration in this video has me rolling
I misheard "issues with intimacy" as "issues within Tennessee" and thought you were saying asmr is a problem for people in Tennessee specifically 😂 I need an ear cleaning video clearly lol
lmaoo
I do have issues with Tennessee, though
HELP??
"When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro." - Hunter S. Thompson. Keep killin' it Sleepy
Pulling out a Hunter S Thompson reference. You’ve instantly become one of my favorite strangers 😂
22:28 Sleepy is definitely killing it... or someone 😬
that innuendo to political switcheroo got my goat, good stuff
"Okay, but isn't ASMR about... y'know..."
"No, ASMR is not about... that! Everyone always says that!"
"Wow, really? Cause a lot of-"
"It has nothing to do with politics!"
"'I... What?"
They're government plants made to brainwash you while you fall asleep
3:28 this made me laugh out loud HAHAHAH that was unexpected
For some time i thought it was weird, but for the last 2 years i find it really cozy and relaxing, so yeah ASMR is definitely not weird!
Yeah I used to think it was weird and then actually watched it and I was like why is this weird?? 😂
I've been listening to ASMR since 2017 and it has become my place of comfort. Some people may find it weird but it's okay. Just like culture, it is shared but not forced.
"Kratos God of War"
that shit just made me jump out of the bed, very unexpected
🤣😅
Boy!
(LITTLE ACLARATION: the reason why the letter "K" is very related to greeks its because they use it very frequently like it it was a "C")
"Hey, be careful...
Sleeps is with the grumps..."
And btw ASMR is not weird. It's both a form of art and a wholesome gesture. You exercise your creativity and acting skills to make totally unknown folks wind up and relax. So it's both artistic and altruistic
asmr has really been apart of me to the point that i would tap on any item i see, randomly whisper to my friends and point out the sounds i like. imo it makes me appreciate even the smallest things and i can just take interest in anything
Asmr is not weird, it’s the reason I was able to fix my sleep schedule and insomnia that my high school/early college life absolutely destroyed some years ago (yes, I’m ironically typing after 2am, but I had some things to finish up ok?) but seriously, I’m really grateful for you and so many other asmrtists for helping me get good sleep in general. Also love the humor in your videos lol
Yeah, I think you're right.
I remember that few years ago I really thought that's ASMR was weird for me and that feeling started to fade away over the time.
Thanks for the video. Amazing as always.
the "Focus... Focus... Focus... Sk sk sk sk sk" with the visual trigger gave me the best tingles I've had for months.
Our girl is absolutely right here. Even the topic is kinda serious your voice is still soothing and I doubt I never get enough of seeing your cute and friendly eyes. :3
21:14 this is how so called "useful things" are created. We learned to make use out of apparently useless things, this kept us from being bored and gave us a sense of fulfillment and achievement. It also stimulated our creativity. Like everything that's ever been built or created came from something that appeared inherently "useless." I mean staring at the sky brought about astronomy, which people would now consider to be informative, educational, "useful" in some way. I'll draw on an example as a musician. Distortion, the fundamental sound of rock music was discovered from using a broken circuit. Its broken, its useless right? Nope, we found a use for it. Going on a bit of a tangent here but i had to because the point you're making of how not everything needs to be "useful" is actually so fundamentally important. Because we're the ones who create the usefulness and value. And so isn't enjoying something just for the sake of it just as useful? This age of information is wonderous but also dangerous.
I'll also add doing "useless" things for the sake of it is a very very normal animal trait (remember we are animals too). A lot of work goes into creating things that we don't "need" but enjoy, we've always done important work to produce more relaxation, quality recreation etc etc. Nature likes to enjoy itself man, usefulness is kinda a construct.
Btw, when talking about effort and resources going into creating products for people's enjoyment I'm not talking about large scale consumerism, I'm talking about any small scale project you might do to create some sort of enjoyment. Large scale consumerism is a different conversation and I would actually like to leave it out of this comment section.
Something about the vent/ranting style gives major tingles. I keep coming back! Waiting on asmr is not weird 😠 pt2
It's NOT weird!!
hi ASS thank you for your video
oh wow that is an unfortunate abbreviation huh
I don't like the abbreviation there
@@kvass5165 Not considering the past.
Lmao if it makes you feel better I laughed and thought it was funny 😂
i love ASS, ASS makes the best asmr vids
ive had issues with intimacy pretty much all my life yeah, but have also been listening to asmr since i was 14, so 8 years or so. i used to search up terms like "wear headphones" before i heard what asmr was. ive just always liked the binaural aspect of it
IF ASMR is considered weird, then I’m happy to be weird.
Ive been listening to asmr for over a decade now. I think my first craze was asmrunicorn then kisper
Its not weird. its misunderstood and overly sexualised, as well as demeaned too much by politics and media.
Gonna be honest. (This may sound odd but) i dont think i could of gotten through through a lot without it. Softlygolashus helpped me through panic attack, and when i found you. I just needed something sweet and simple. Keep at it girl!!
im lucky nowadays more ppl know of and is ok w asmr, I remember back in 2017 when i tell ppl i like asmr they'd look at me weird 😭 but i embrace it now! i even grew my nails long so i can tap tap tap and scratch scratch scratch on everything!!
I love that your standing for your opinion. I've been watching asmr for so long, and it just makes me feel good, you know? Like people can think whatever they want about asmr, but if they are going to take it to a point where they insult asmtist's or come at them for what they do and like, try to bring them down, why are they watching it in the first place. If they think its weird, why do they go out of their way to go to asmr channels, and comment on videos stating its weird? I totally get what you mean.
You have the best yapping asmr videos
This was a great and vigorous defense of ASMR with a dash of humor. Loved the swerve regarding one aspect of ASMR.
11:44 was like the asmr version of that "have you ever had a dream" kid
so funny that this came out right as I was looking for asmr
18:52 I was peacefully drifting off to sleep when I heard ‘like pineapple’ and I immediately snapped awake. As an Italian I am offended. Pineapple doesn’t belong on pizza. (No hate to any pineapple pizza enthusiast, just hate to the pineapple itself.)
Real talk the 'making a pizza on your face' bit was hella tingly. I appreciate that. Thank you for that.
Asmr is my therapy, and therapy ain't weird
Edit: I hate the government
asmr isn't weird!!! it's calming and quiet and nice even though I don't get tingles
I started asmr watching because it helped reduce stress and anxiety from tinnitus I developed which was wreaking fresh havic on me at the time a few years back. It was so helpful to me I got hooked and enjoy it now for the humor mostly .
You've been killing it lately!
the fact that nausea is temporarily removed because of the tingles i get from asmr is actually crazy. thank you for saving my guts.
I completely agree, I went through a phase of thinking it was weird but then got over it and love it now
ik this is weird for youtubers and content creators to get cuz it might feel like a lot of pressure, but i really hope you know how good of a thing you’re doing for so many people out there. you might hear it a lot or maybe not enough but you’re truly helping so many of us just by doing these silly little videos, and i really hope you get some joy out of making them as well and dont just see this as a job or another thing u just gotta do. i have ptsd, i have a horrible time sleeping at night, and every night your videos (and other asmrtists videos) help me and probably other people with similar issues get the relief of peaceful/restful sleep. thank you sleepy.🖤
"There's nothing weird about it."*Kubrick Stare*"sk sk sk sk-"
15:43 "Lord of the Rings fans are like super hit or miss"
"Humans are either hits or misses. The misses make themselves known quickly, but it takes time to know if you've found a hit." -- Fafnir
The hard cut on “it’s because we do murder sometimes” made me actually laugh out loud
7:28 *kangaroo has entered the chat*
You’re always so pretty and amazing!!! I started listening to asmr about 2 years ago, it has helped with my sleep and relaxation. Asmr isn’t weird, it’s an experience to consume. I’m honestly a weird person, but that won’t stop me from enjoying asmr!😁 this was a nice asmr ramble video! Absolutely Love you and your grumpiness!!!☺️❤
'Like how you splash vegetable oil on your enemies'. I would totally watch that video game playthrough. I'd like to see how they incorporate stippling, too.
6:25 the most PASSIVE AGRESSIVE sksk's ive EVER HEARD lmaoo
“You have intimacy issues” I don’t get any intimacy 💀
Real
13:30 very good point vidya is BIZZARE. total external simulation that gains its own libidinal power. but is vidya still subordinate to socio-sexual libido, eg. "league of legends is good because of its social value" and so on? perhaps but also perhaps it gains its own energy. this is basically Lacan/Freud vs Deluze
people that don't understand asmr truly puzzle me, like what is your malfunction? what is not to like?
I've been really sad lately and your ASMR always helps me❤you've never failed to make me rest, my heart aches but you always heal it. Thank you ❤❤❤
Black/ white space if you need it
Yet another amazing original video idea ❤ I’m so happy I found your channel
Since the day I started watching ASMR videos, more than 8 years ago, not for a minute did I ever think it was weird. I honestly got into it *straight away!* ❤️ It's *not* weird. To this day, I still fcking *love it.* And I *loved this video.* It was relaxing. 😌 Thank you so much for a new upload, Sleepy. 🥰❤️
i love how you talking ❤️
Perfect timing, I was just about to sleep at 9am, much appreciated sleepy 👍
You are quickly becoming my favorite ASMRtist 💕
"It's an art form, not unlike... *long pause* ...other art forms" lol
me: * giggles *
Sleepy: "there's nothing funny about it"
"yes ma'am, my mistake. apologies"
'ASMR is not weird'
Me: rushing to clear my ytb history ( you don't want to know why)
I know what you are.
Everything is weird
weird is subjective.
ASMR is storytelling, sound design, acting, cosplay, sometimes other art forms - like painting, sculpting, furniture refinishing (mhm), etc. ASMR is art and all art is weird and all art has a time and place.
why are you the best at scratching 😭
What makes ASMR weird into the social imaginary is the discourse some people gives to their videos, like some weird roleplays about being literally k1dn4pped, but beyond that there's nothing weird with feeling relaxed with some calm sounds and whispers lmao
Thanks for the ramble. It's nice to hear you speak your mind.
I’ve been listening to ASMR for 10 years now. I came across it from a College Humor satire video, liked the feeling, looked into it, and never looked back 🙂.
And to think that some time ago I started watching your videos because you look like Jane Asher and here we continue because you are the best ASMR content creator who makes it entertaining and original ❤
Ok, ASMR has nothing to do with politics, but it'd be hilarious if we ever found out that some world leader was secretly subscribed to Sleepy or constantly lurked on twitch
Im living for the grumpy thumbnail era
asmr is neat art, and its not weird! at least not in a bad way
I’ve always talked about asmr like it’s normal. My response is “okay and??? I sleep better and that’s important to me”
I can’t help but imagine 1000 ASMRtists rallying outside a congreeman’s house, protesting in their ASMR voice
I can’t think of any other art forms….had me rolling. 😂
9:54 "This trigger is as normal as Pudding on your shoes..." HOW DO YOU KNOW???
I love your roleplays where you're not necessarily a different person, but you're expressing yourself in ways you wouldn't normally (Like the SLEEP, IDIOT Asmr)
ASMR isn’t weird. But I have fallen asleep to being bullied, kidnapped, and even operated on.
I think that says more about me though.
This video got me wondering what abstract asmr would be like
I actually had initial impression of it being weird when I first encountered it. Then the longer I listen to it. It made all my sleeps resulted oddly positive. Prolly the one of the best things I received in my whole existence. 😂
She saying "сука" repeatedly made me laugh out loud
Finally gonna show dis to my friends that always give me a weird look when i say i gonna watch asmr
Sleepy you should totally do a video dedicated to slow blinking :3
"More normal or grown up?" is the question I ask myself everyday.
I love listening to you ramble
personal opinion: i am petrified for people to find out i watch this. i think asmr without talking seems less weird but i think when it comes to roleplays i am ashamed to watch them, the sets are phenomenal but the thought of someone finding out i listen to someone whisper to me in a roleplay context just seems really kinky?? 😭😭
edit: dont worry im very much love asmr
1:35
My Mom when I make a valid point
You know, people have this need to criticize what they don't like or experience. it's almost daytime tho, i'll go to sleep.
That is the wildest way to end a video of any kind
in her confrontational arc. Finally
ASMR is a psychological massage! 💆♂️
Been listening to ASMR since 2015. My family thought it was weird until the last 2 years. Both my brothers enjoy it along with some friends. Took a while tho
ANOTHA BANGER FROM ALWAYSSLIGHTLYSLEEPY
Asmr isn't weird but as far as some of the people it attracts.... 👽
ASMR is weird but it's one of the best things in the world 😅
Great job Sleepy 😊❤
Is nobody talking about the murder part at the end of the video? I died at that part 😭
asmr aint weird, its frickin kewl 😎