Is It Okay for Christians to be on Dating Apps? | Ask Pastor Mark
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Thanks for being sympathetic to the single ladies out here trying to find a good man.
You seem very in touch by how difficult it is for women to find a godly man to marry, but verrrrry out of touch with how difficult it is for men to find godly women to marry.
Facts.
Its even to actually get your girl to love God. For men, you are fighting a difficult battle.
The problem with dating in the church is once you ask a girl out and if she says yes (or even no then all her friends see you as a guy that asked out her friends so you could very easily get labeled a creep even if you take the rejection very humbly and don’t complain or anything) and if it eventually doesn’t work out then all of her friends are eliminated because their all her friends. It limits their options. This is why most guys don’t ask girls out or use a dating app, or ask out random girls outside of the church. So yes it is okay to use dating apps. For both. Girls are much more trusting and they don’t slander a guy to all her friends if it doesn’t work out through a dating app, etc.
And some guys are just chicken to ask girls out in person let’s be honest.
I don’t agree. If you see someone you like just ask her out. Shouldn’t have to worry about your reputation with friends, and if they leave you then they were NEVER friends in the first place.
And another thing, online dating is by no means an alternative or in any way better than the other..for some it’s actually the very thing they shouldn’t do
@@scotthenson7340 in my experience it is better dating apps. It’s how I meet my gf of 1 year and half. If men don’t care able about being potential labeled a creep or only looking for a wife then by all means. I didn’t care and did it, but I’m just saying most guys probably won’t want to be called that. So they go to dating apps. That’s why they use it. Both ways are fine. But when your using a dating app you don’t get labeled a creep as easy by so called “Christian girls”
I agree with you but that's why it's important to get to know them as well as you can before you ask her out. You should already have a pretty good idea she likes you beforehand so you don't end up in the kind of situation you said. And prayer and beseeching God about it is so important.
thank u! i know so many who are agaisnt it for no reason met my amazing husband on it you have to be discerning and intentional ❤good can come out of dating apps!
Well no they have their reasons. Read my above comment
Thanks
Good question Mark . I'm over 60 and Married , and myself & my Wife met at a Christian-Fellowship . And when things happened between us , at one of our Fellowship-Meetings , IT WAS AS IF A BOMB WENT OFFFFFFFFFF , ON THE INSIDE OF ME ! AND I KNEW THAT I KNEW , THAT WE WERE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER - FOR - LIFE ! I then had to chase her , as we courted for two years , and were then married , and still are 30 + years later !
I believe that dating of any-kind , is an ' Ishmael ' , for those of us , who know what that means . We either trust the- Lord or we don't . And when you don't , you go fishing/dating and hope for the best ! But do you end up , in a serious mess ? Thank - God He gives us free choice , and the Lord tells us to choose-Life ! Not - Death !
why we just generalizing that all dudes are horrible? we make mistakes when we are young and somehow guys dont want a godly woman according to what your saying. this is incredibly biased
also church is one of the worst places to meet someone now days. only two kinds of young people your gonna meet: people in a relationship or people that are married
The vast majority of us are not fornicating-we are effectively invisible to women.
This guy is out of touch with modern society he has no idea.
don't believe this guy
You got a reason or you just babling like a angry toddler?
facts