What I Wish I Knew Before Getting Out Of The Army! | Learn From My Mistakes!

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  • @TheBenAllen.
    @TheBenAllen.  3 роки тому +64

    How many of you are planning to get out of the Army! 🤔

  • @zacharylewis417
    @zacharylewis417 3 роки тому +54

    The biggest thing that I tell people is if you plan on getting out in the next 1 1/2 you better start documenting all your medical shit. Go for everything! I made the mistake and was doing shit last minute. Thankfully I had an amazing PA who slotted me for appointments on a very short notice ( a few months left) to get everything documented. I had several things I refused to get seen by because I was the suck it up soldier who didn't want to be seen as broken. Throw those feelings out the door and get looked at. A few months after my ETS date I had my rating and was getting disability. No shame, you earned that shit.

  • @dougtheeliminator1077
    @dougtheeliminator1077 3 роки тому +41

    We all wish we would have known a lot more before we enlisted.

  • @lyric4575
    @lyric4575 2 роки тому +9

    I'm 9 months out from my ETS date and just found your channel, very solid content keep it up! 💪🏽

  • @TheRetiredWarfighter
    @TheRetiredWarfighter 9 місяців тому +1

    Solid advice, I got outta the Marines back in 2017 and it was a shitshow. Joined the army in 2018 and I’m about to get out for good. I agree on everything you said💯

  • @Jimsac8
    @Jimsac8 3 роки тому +17

    I wish I planned my exit from the Army more properly when I left active duty in 1999. I struggled at first in the civilian world and worked in several jobs in the private sector. I completed my 8 year obligation in the Army Reserves and started working for the state of California in the current job that I'm still working in 19 years later.

  • @alexstacey6471
    @alexstacey6471 2 роки тому +16

    I'm getting out in 1.5 years and I'm 7 years in with 3 deployments, which was fine when I was a single soldier but I'm married now with a son and I'm about to miss majority of the first year of his life and I've decided that the active duty life isn't suitable for my family. Long story short I'm absolutely terrified of my transition. I joined the army the day I graduated highschool and left less than 2 weeks later for basic. The army is all I've ever known my adult life and I have no idea how things are going to be on the outside. I've never had a civilian job before and it's scary to look at the outside when everything has always been provided for me with the army. At the end of the day no matter what happened I've always had a roof, clean clothes, clean running water, a bed, and food. Civilian side none of that is guaranteed. It's scary. I've been telling myself that people make it work every day to keep myself up about getting out but I'm scared lol.

    • @k9life221
      @k9life221 2 роки тому +1

      Same bro. I have a year and 8 months left and I’ll be at 12 years. Tired, broke, and I wanna have roots somewhere. But all I’ve ever known is Army. But you know I look at all my girlfriends friends that know nothing about the military and just see how at peace they are when they do anything and it makes me want that even more. The constant over thinking things and having to check in with people to do anything is just not cutting it for me anymore and I’m a SSG. Take what you’ve learned and the person you’ve become and apply it to whatever you do when you get out and I’m sure you’ll be good! You might fail here and there but I’m sure you’ll do great and things always work out eventually!

  • @JRod_1597
    @JRod_1597 2 роки тому +4

    A video about staying in and retiring vs getting out for a civilian career would be nice. Comparing the pay, benefits, taxable income, retirement vs. the freedom, higher salary, etc.

  • @blakanjel4149
    @blakanjel4149 2 роки тому +3

    Very helpful video I’m re-enlisting but I’m building the knowledge now

  • @apollodivine
    @apollodivine 3 роки тому +8

    Got out the Marines last week, and the whole time I was excited to get out and follow my ambitions, but fuck I miss my friends and the entire “culture” of it. Definitely have felt disconnected and bored since I got out. I thought to myself, “Damn, I wish my contract was a year longer” 🤣🤣

  • @hughjassol2072
    @hughjassol2072 2 роки тому +6

    The military would be better to shorten enlistments to 2 years each. People would be signing up in droves and staying in way longer.

  • @sofakingj5498
    @sofakingj5498 2 роки тому +2

    I have 2 y and 7 months left to get out, I already have a plan on what I wanna do, and it was the plan that I had when joining the military, I am really sticking to it, I'm already saving up, aiming to have at least $20k by the time I get out, I have 4K saved.But I DO NOT rule out reenlisting active duty, AT ALL. Because I'm truly enjoying it. If I do end up getting out, I would probably reenlist reserve to keep the benefits

  • @austinprickett7443
    @austinprickett7443 2 роки тому +3

    You can take all of the sfl tap classes again if you need to. Its better to do it early so that you can do a career skill program.

  • @alisutherland1103
    @alisutherland1103 2 роки тому +2

    For folks watching this and getting out: 1. Record classes 2. Retake classes when possible

  • @deathfrombelow688
    @deathfrombelow688 3 роки тому +8

    I can't wait to get the fuck out. One contract was good enough

  • @chrissmith9088
    @chrissmith9088 3 роки тому +4

    I'm getting out after my contract ends. Already working on a plan for when I ETS.

  • @AlphaSporeGaming
    @AlphaSporeGaming 3 роки тому +12

    Getting out in a week at ft bliss and have some anxiety which I’ve never get. This video definitely helped a little.

    • @GandalftheWise
      @GandalftheWise 3 роки тому +2

      Fuck bliss! Giant base with no shuttle. Everyone must buy a car from the local dealerships that like to fuck over the soldiers

    • @iBrianful
      @iBrianful 2 роки тому

      So how has it been so far?

    • @hwhitley93
      @hwhitley93 Рік тому

      I’m about to get out of bliss

  • @naturemiya9560
    @naturemiya9560 Рік тому +2

    "OK so without further or do, let's get to it" ,he said. Proceeds to start another intro 😭💀

  • @celathianaaron6057
    @celathianaaron6057 3 роки тому +11

    I left the navy in 2012. Long story short I’m joining the army now.

    • @drewnielson6472
      @drewnielson6472 3 роки тому +5

      Good luck the army is a different beast .

    • @pandaoverboard
      @pandaoverboard 2 роки тому +1

      Make suuuuree you get a nice mos-job. Otherwise, you will hate and live in a 2x3 space.

  • @benjamingunderson6655
    @benjamingunderson6655 3 роки тому +5

    What're you doing now in the civilian world? Thanks for your service brother

  • @markmcintosh7095
    @markmcintosh7095 3 роки тому +6

    When I was in if you went to sick call for any reason you didn't get the weekend off.

    • @TheBenAllen.
      @TheBenAllen.  3 роки тому +2

      That’s messed yo bro, sorry to hear that

  • @tanhiennguyen3551
    @tanhiennguyen3551 2 роки тому +5

    What’s up bro!
    I’m in active duty (Army) and have 1year 11 months before my contract ends. I haven’t taken any leaves during the service and plan to save it up until the end (35 days of leave currently available now for me). I’ve been taking college classes while in service as well. I feel like the military is not for me and just want to make it done and get out ASAP. I want to get out early, do all the internship programs, sick calls whatever before I get out. Please make a video and help me plan for that. Thanks brother

    • @rigomorales137
      @rigomorales137 2 роки тому

      Internship?

    • @JO3K3Rz
      @JO3K3Rz 2 роки тому

      @@rigomorales137 csp an internship that helps you get a job

    • @hwhitley93
      @hwhitley93 Рік тому

      I’m having this same problem

  • @eljunior9112
    @eljunior9112 3 роки тому +8

    I’m trying to join the AF but they didn’t wanna take me cuz my ASVAB score was low. I got a 77. How is that a low score I asked myself. So fuck it I’m going army now. 😒

    • @lyric4575
      @lyric4575 2 роки тому +4

      Should of waited and tried to get that score up man, now your not gonna enjoy the boujee life of flyboys

    • @Rico401Prov
      @Rico401Prov 2 роки тому

      I got a 75 and been in for almost 12 years lol

  • @kenyel.kaptured
    @kenyel.kaptured 2 роки тому

    Great vid! very informative.

  • @senorpushka
    @senorpushka 2 роки тому

    Super helpful!

  • @bogus69
    @bogus69 2 роки тому

    That’s the one thing I’m afraid of, that I will miss it so much that I’d actually join NG or reserves.. or even go active again lol

  • @Sabrina1999B
    @Sabrina1999B 3 роки тому +6

    I’m out July 8th

  • @carlosvasquez2588
    @carlosvasquez2588 3 роки тому +4

    Hey bro can you make a video about the transition from active to reserve or national guard?? I being hearing that is a way to leave early the army in order to sign with national guard or reserve??. Thank you

    • @PhongNguyen-df9bt
      @PhongNguyen-df9bt 3 роки тому

      You can’t get out early, if you have leave days you can take terminal leave just like when you pcs.

  • @drewnielson6472
    @drewnielson6472 3 роки тому +8

    Say f the army everyday now i miss it .

    • @Adam-om9hu
      @Adam-om9hu 3 роки тому +2

      I said F the Army everyday and still say it 7 years after I got out lol. 7 years MP 31B and two deployments.

    • @oohboi214
      @oohboi214 2 роки тому

      @@Adam-om9hu 😂😂

  • @oraliaavila4318
    @oraliaavila4318 3 роки тому +3

    My son is going for pj what tips you might recommend ! You’re always providing with great inf thank you Ben keep up the great job 👍🏼

  • @FreakyRicky192
    @FreakyRicky192 3 роки тому +5

    Why didn’t you do anything medical when you got out? Could be a emt

  • @ElJoshPaul
    @ElJoshPaul 3 роки тому +4

    Can you make a video about gas chambers? I’m kind of worried, I’ll be taken by EMS for difficulty of breathing

    • @TheBenAllen.
      @TheBenAllen.  3 роки тому +1

      Already made one

    • @isaacbaidoo6892
      @isaacbaidoo6892 3 роки тому +1

      You break the seal in the mask for you to know that the mask actually work ,so u can trust your protective equipment and yes,it does work.
      In my company I knew 2 people who had hard time briefing so they wore the pro-mask the entire time we were in the chamber.
      You will be fine

    • @ElJoshPaul
      @ElJoshPaul 3 роки тому +1

      @@isaacbaidoo6892 Oh wow, thank you for that response! It’s reassuring, so do you ask the drill Seargent for the pro mask or how can you get one?

    • @isaacbaidoo6892
      @isaacbaidoo6892 3 роки тому +1

      @@ElJoshPaul the pro max is issued to everyone during training

  • @Nardddadon
    @Nardddadon 3 роки тому +3

    How does the pay for mileage and weight work?

  • @davedelacruz6594
    @davedelacruz6594 2 роки тому

    Can you make a video of your last army paycheck bro ?

  • @drakekeith4510
    @drakekeith4510 3 роки тому +1

    Im going to reclass to 68E then go national guard

  • @ethanscofield1013
    @ethanscofield1013 Рік тому +2

    Just started SFL-TAP today 🔥

  • @benjaminmiller788
    @benjaminmiller788 10 місяців тому +2

    You need subtitles

  • @marvensbuly9473
    @marvensbuly9473 10 місяців тому

    Can you do a video about the va loan pls

  • @CC-dg6cv
    @CC-dg6cv 2 роки тому

    I have exactly situation like you.

  • @miguelsolis98
    @miguelsolis98 2 роки тому

    Pay attention and notes in tapes ben

  • @RoCK3rAD
    @RoCK3rAD 3 роки тому +14

    Get your disability kings

  • @pfclumi
    @pfclumi 4 місяці тому

    I hate being a veteran

  • @shockhouser3171
    @shockhouser3171 3 роки тому +2

    Ets do you have to pay back a bonus

    • @jacobdonaldson436
      @jacobdonaldson436 2 роки тому

      @RAJ GURUNG you can have that happen of you get kicked out before a certain amount of time. If you serve your full contract you're good. If you dont finish your contract you're going to pay some back. Had it happen to a dude in my unit 😂

  • @c3t1f13dgoon
    @c3t1f13dgoon 2 роки тому

    I got out at a shitty time..right before the pandemic lol

  • @LittleD1031
    @LittleD1031 2 роки тому

    Korea is wack I am going through all this rn lol

  • @C0wb0yBebop
    @C0wb0yBebop 2 роки тому +1

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