UNHhhh's Trixie Mattel and Katya on Pride and dealing with homophobic abuse

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  • Drag Race and UNHhhh legends Trixie Mattel and Katya Zamolodchikova share their hilarious personal reflections on Pride in My Pride, sponsored by United Airlines.
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  • @katieboucher7994
    @katieboucher7994 2 роки тому +7313

    this was the calmest conversation with the least amount of tangents i have ever seen from these two its a pride miracle

  • @alissa379
    @alissa379 2 роки тому +6428

    "im not sure I'm gay, but I know I'm a lesbian" is the best thing I've heard about attending a pride event

    • @sleepvillainz
      @sleepvillainz 2 роки тому +31

      @@kwonjiahn8389 SAME. I was convinced by people I was a lesbian, not a transman just because I didn't like straight men. I knew at a young age I was a gay transman but many people took advantage of my weakness to explore THERE own identities. It's horrific

    • @janwig9347
      @janwig9347 2 роки тому +5

      that's something you don't hear everyday!!!😂🏳️‍🌈

    • @TheCalebMoline
      @TheCalebMoline 2 роки тому +24

      @@kwonjiahn8389 I’m so glad you and @sleepvillainz discovered who you are. ❤️
      In my evangelical family, I was just “creative” and “sensitive,” and later on, I “struggled” with “same-sex attraction.” That conditioning really fucked me up (depression, addiction, suicidal ideation and several attempts) until I got actual (medical), affirmative healthcare (at 27). Evangelicalism is no joke.
      LGBTQ education would have saved me (probably all of us) from a lot of needless suffering. We have to keep fighting for little us’s to have access to acceptance, regardless of how vehemently bigots react. Everyone deserves to know who they are.

    • @jerrysizzler44
      @jerrysizzler44 2 роки тому +6

      I'm not a lesbian but I know I'm gay. 🙃😁

    • @fajarsetiawan8665
      @fajarsetiawan8665 2 роки тому +5

      @@kwonjiahn8389 Life be like, " so you want another twist, eh??"

  • @abdelkrim8599
    @abdelkrim8599 2 роки тому +7190

    Katya not wearing any makeup is so brave of her

    • @shiningheart20
      @shiningheart20 2 роки тому +518

      And nothing about Trixie going all natural, no make-up? Now that's brave

    • @abdelkrim8599
      @abdelkrim8599 2 роки тому +319

      @@shiningheart20 c'mon trixie been doing that for months we are used to her bravery

    • @johnpinegar8027
      @johnpinegar8027 2 роки тому +72

      And we love her for it.

    • @royalstudies7367
      @royalstudies7367 2 роки тому +73

      Our President.

    • @Flourflour
      @Flourflour 2 роки тому +32

      Hijack this to ask if anyone else only seeing top comments on ALL comments? This is weird

  • @Ciela887
    @Ciela887 2 роки тому +2454

    The absolute audacity of Katya being THIS gorgeous.

    • @guiilty368
      @guiilty368 2 роки тому +29

      Ok fuck my drag -Trixie

    • @Ciela887
      @Ciela887 2 роки тому +17

      @@guiilty368 Haha don’t get me wrong, Trixie looks beautiful too, as always!

    • @quangminhtran2916
      @quangminhtran2916 2 роки тому +27

      Ikr, and she's not wearing any makeup, her all natural face is beautiful.

    • @abluemug
      @abluemug 2 роки тому +8

      I know! I wasn’t gonna watch the video but she looked so good I had to watch

    • @vane1679
      @vane1679 2 роки тому +4

      Yasss diva firce hunty work it firce and work it fast!!!! I just love her in leather idk why😍😍😍

  • @Hannahbanana-dr1ci
    @Hannahbanana-dr1ci 2 роки тому +1219

    Every time Katya grabs Trixie’s hand or leg, my head automatically adds the buzzer edit effect from Uhhhnnhh 😂😂🤣

  • @lgran79
    @lgran79 2 роки тому +4601

    As a female id be scared of being stuck in an elevator with a rugby team...i feel your anxiety Katya...

    • @nanamiharuka3269
      @nanamiharuka3269 2 роки тому +192

      One time I went to a relationship/sexual abuse seminar in college where it was me and two other women in a room full of college football players (they were required to attend) and yeah similar feeling but I thought it was a very positive experience for the players to have and hear

    • @NorthBayFCT
      @NorthBayFCT 2 роки тому +61

      Yes!!! I would walk out before the doors closed just in case. Or pull out my phone and start recording just in case. I’m college if I was out at night and a group of guys were walking towards me, I would cross the street to not get hassled.

    • @Andre00x
      @Andre00x 2 роки тому +52

      Most Rugby players are secretly gay...so you should be fine.

    • @lemonz1769
      @lemonz1769 2 роки тому +23

      I’d be too tempted to stare at their rears

    • @brookevangelderen704
      @brookevangelderen704 2 роки тому +71

      Unless it's a womens rugby team then you're with the lesbians so you're fine. (I'm a lesbian rugby player)

  • @neutralman9124
    @neutralman9124 2 роки тому +1792

    As a gay man, there's nothing that make you feel more love than your straight friends wanting to fight homophobes for you. I wish it wasn't necessary to even think about, but it does make you feel good.

    • @lucianaborinato2993
      @lucianaborinato2993 2 роки тому +44

      I'm a cisgender heterosexual woman, and always support my gay, and Drag Queen friends, against homophobes, including the online homophobic trolls. I'm extremely protective of my gay friends!

    • @noretreat151
      @noretreat151 2 роки тому +6

      there would be so much ‘bitch slapping’ going on……. I would ball- out
      (edited for community guidelines)

    • @Ra-thesunking
      @Ra-thesunking 2 роки тому +2

      ✨💖🙏

    • @marialindell9874
      @marialindell9874 2 роки тому

      799/800 likes

    • @love-ip7sz
      @love-ip7sz 2 роки тому +20

      I wish I had that. Honestly I feel like most people have been very dismissive of the existence of homophobia even. Like my friend saying "no one cares" really agitated me, If you want to say YOU don't care that's fine, but stop trying to make it seem like no one cares because then it implies when people acknowledge the existence of homophobia they are being dramatic. It's such gaslighting I feel.

  • @user-lw9ut2ms6m
    @user-lw9ut2ms6m 2 роки тому +2263

    Katya’s fashion sense is immaculate

    • @zengamer21
      @zengamer21 2 роки тому +39

      Her wig is stunning

    • @Catherine-lr3ul
      @Catherine-lr3ul 2 роки тому +28

      She looks GORGEOUS like STUNNING

    • @fjorgyn7438
      @fjorgyn7438 2 роки тому +22

      I question her wig choices a lot of the time, but this is definitely a good look.

    • @RNCHFND
      @RNCHFND 2 роки тому +2

      She's dressed as Kelly Mantle

    • @victoredwardo9485
      @victoredwardo9485 2 роки тому +7

      I feel she change a little since she got painted by Pearl. Is more SheIn insta model and less swamp witch

  • @JulianCheslow
    @JulianCheslow 2 роки тому +1798

    Katya's explanation of consent maybe the the best I've heard in a while

  • @myno.666
    @myno.666 2 роки тому +827

    Katya gets hotter and hotter with every second that happens in life

    • @batsybatsybats_
      @batsybatsybats_ 2 роки тому +31

      Dad, if you call her Katya, does that mean that we have to address her specifically as Yekaterina Petrovna Zamolodchikova?

    • @kui_maina
      @kui_maina 2 роки тому +4

      Omg dad i see it too.

    • @Boilingfrogg
      @Boilingfrogg Рік тому

      Stop lying to yourself

  • @pinguprice5480
    @pinguprice5480 2 роки тому +900

    I'm glad they brought up the issue in the UK. I'm happy my family is super supportive but they get confused why I feel so uncomfortable on nights out or when I would even hold my boyfriends hand because the UK are not as kind to the LGBTQ+ and it shows a hell lot more when drunk.....just because the racism, sexism and homophobia/transphobia doesn't hit the news for the UK does not mean it doesn't exist; it is very much alive and I can feel its getting worse

    • @petekdemircioglu
      @petekdemircioglu 2 роки тому +14

      No place really is; its Unfortunately which one is least hostile…

    • @mg-lp8sj
      @mg-lp8sj 2 роки тому +84

      I definitely agree. The UK has a very much “if we don’t talk about it, it isn’t happening” vibe. So all the racism, sexism, homophobia, etc, is very much swept under the rug and NEVER addressed! It’s so heartbreaking to feel everything getting worse and knowing nobody is trying to change anything, but gaslighting the general public into thinking we’re imagining it :(

    • @pinguprice5480
      @pinguprice5480 2 роки тому +19

      @@mg-lp8sj It is very don't talk about it. Like I said I do feel blessed with a supportive and safe family; even so its almost awkward to always bring up who I'm seeing who I have seen etc and even any 'LGBTQ+' subject. I do not take any points off my family for that because again the way the UK runs just makes them feel it shouldn't be as normal a topic as the rest. The amount of times I hear 'each to their own' which most of the time translates to 'don't bring any of that near me'....

    • @pinguprice5480
      @pinguprice5480 2 роки тому +1

      @@alantes whilst I agree that has been a problem the issues have happened before all that and persist past all that. They weren't the beginning of these issues but unfortunately in some areas they have added to it but are not the cause of it

    • @1bwash
      @1bwash 2 роки тому +22

      it's because bullying works. in the US, particularly in cities, you can't be homophobic. you'll either lose your job or someone will fck you up. it's definitely different in home life and rural areas, but like Trixie said, it's so spread out in the US. You have to go to cities to be successful or even just to go to a decent bar. Some loser on the street might say a gay slur, but they're not going to do anything because they know they can't get away with anything beyond that.

  • @trevorkalis1946
    @trevorkalis1946 2 роки тому +821

    Thanks for saying the stuff about consent at pride. I’ll never forget being at pride when I was 15/16ish and some old man grabbing my ass. And then following me around. Didn’t realize it was assault until later. Definitely needs to be said, ASK FOR CONSENT!

    • @sisronweasley2074
      @sisronweasley2074 2 роки тому +50

      That's horrible! Sorry you had to go through that.

    • @butasimpleidiotwizard
      @butasimpleidiotwizard 2 роки тому +34

      Unless they're clearly teenagers in which case just leave them alone, like if you're an old guy you should easily be able to recognise who is too young for you I'm sorry that weirdo decided that didn't matter to him, some people have gotta realise it's not about them

    • @rileynatalie
      @rileynatalie 2 роки тому +26

      I hate this for you. My son is that age now & he gets constant inappropriate DMs from older men on IG all the time. He doesn’t even post anything suggestive of him being gay but he’s constantly harassed by these old creeps calling him a twink & offering him money for nudes. Totally inappropriate & unwarranted for a 15yr old boy.

    • @Corbomite_Meatballs
      @Corbomite_Meatballs 2 роки тому +17

      @@rileynatalie Make sure you report them. There's way too much spam and sock puppet accounts on various social media that makes even a minimal amount of time on it suck.
      Ultimately, it may not do anything in terms or the platforms or the almighty algo, however it might also stop someone from being harassed or taken advantage of.

    • @Blakiedoo
      @Blakiedoo 9 місяців тому

      @@rileynatalienot to be that person but if ur son is not posting anything remotely gay he wouldnt be getting dms from old men💀 ur son is either entertaining these old men’s creepy thoughts (which i 100% did as a young gay teen) or he’s truly posting his twinkness for the world to see and its just inevitable. i know its problematic but we gotta be real, young gay men are susceptible to this stuff

  • @SoBethSaid
    @SoBethSaid 2 роки тому +966

    Katya looks GORGEOUS here. So so beautiful.

    • @louiseb6111
      @louiseb6111 2 роки тому +24

      She’s got the most gorgeous mouth. Shape, lip size and plumpness, teeth. The lot. Just stunningly beautiful. And her make-up is less drag like and more glamoured up woman! She’s very good at it! And I’m not jealous of her plump lips at all. At all. 😏🥰They’re just a great pair of ladies and I’ll watch anything they’re both a part of bc they have such a great friendship. Unhhh is my church!!! 🤷‍♀️😂

    • @kab9706
      @kab9706 2 роки тому +9

      So gorgeous. Her style gets better and better as well 💝

    • @dearjessie83
      @dearjessie83 2 роки тому +4

      She reminds me of Madonna circa 1998 here

    • @Catherine-lr3ul
      @Catherine-lr3ul 2 роки тому +5

      She looks soooooo BEAUTIFUL as she does always honestly and I gotta say this look plus the tattoos 😭 plus the eye makeup 😭 OMG

  • @rebelbumscum
    @rebelbumscum 2 роки тому +252

    It’s so heartening to hear Trixie call out the rampant transphobia and hate directed towards non binary people in the UK. If someone from America has to point it out then you know things are bad…

    • @jamesb4729
      @jamesb4729 2 роки тому +1

      You go out wanting to draw attention to yourself and then complain when you get negative attention. You only want affirmation and positive attention, not gonna happen.

    • @jlhn
      @jlhn 2 роки тому +58

      @@jamesb4729 Karen, calm down; the only person wanting attention here is you, so, now you have it girl, you can go and play outside

    • @Alice-gr1kb
      @Alice-gr1kb Рік тому +29

      @@jamesb4729 I’m trans and I don’t want attention, positive or negative. I don’t think most of us do. Id rather everyone mind their business and not worry about me.

    • @aimeeinkling
      @aimeeinkling 4 місяці тому +7

      @@jamesb4729Gross. I hope in the year since you made this comment, you've grown the eff up.

    • @Travmann777
      @Travmann777 24 дні тому

      @@jamesb4729 you sound like a rape apologist, Mr “Well what was she wearing?”

  • @SophhpoS30
    @SophhpoS30 2 роки тому +776

    Katya smile every time she says “money” 😬 1:48 is my favorite. I can be in the worst mood and Katya always makes me smile.

    • @ekaterina_shum
      @ekaterina_shum 2 роки тому +17

      She does the same money smile in the Red Scare collection reveal on Trixie’s channel

    • @peepo2560
      @peepo2560 2 роки тому +12

      she's just so cute

  • @joel2856
    @joel2856 Рік тому +77

    I was born male (in the UK) and I've bought my first 2 dresses to wear I public as myself (not in a wig or drag) and I'm trying to build up the courage to wear them as I'm not in the most gay-friendly areas of the UK - thank you for raising the issues and fear that some LGBTQ+ people have :)

    • @annarajala578
      @annarajala578 Рік тому +6

      Wishing you best of luck! I hope you feels safe and beautiful wearing your dresses!!

    • @halm1773
      @halm1773 Рік тому +6

      Sending you love, from a UK gender bender !! Rock those dresses 💛

    • @alexysq2660
      @alexysq2660 Рік тому +1

      *@Joe L* ...💗💖💗....

  • @beardpandaa
    @beardpandaa 2 роки тому +805

    I think many men are taught that violence is a way to protect themselves and defend their masculinity. I think it's a fight or flight response to people who already resort to violence to confront their fears. I think it can be sad and speaks to the fragility of identity for someone who never had to confront their selfhood when challenged (fragile masculinity as a concept). If you have to have to confront that at an early age like us out queer people, you learn early that the stability of your identity only depends on your ability to accept yourself and not on the opinions of those around you or society's expectations. That's not always true for all queer people but I think it puts us at an advantage in that way to get started earlier on being able to confront our identity sooner. Some people never form a distinct personhood or come to understand identity and just conform to what's expected of them. Some people just fit in to what's expected of them, are never challenged, and never have to think about identity in that way.

    • @jbshiva865
      @jbshiva865 2 роки тому +60

      Patriarchy is a HELL of a drug...

    • @BurningHellz
      @BurningHellz 2 роки тому +40

      i think you're spot on with this comment

    • @josemariaalamo8919
      @josemariaalamo8919 2 роки тому +27

      I just love your comment, I wanna be able to read it every once in a while.

    • @barsxsalicia
      @barsxsalicia 2 роки тому +28

      Not just for males tho. I’m bisexual and mostly feminine. Whenever I go to straight clubs with my boyfriend, I have a very violent mindset. The girls are all so competitive and toxic, I have to either act the same way even thought I could careless about their “man”. OR I become very “YASSS QUEEEN!” Just to be accepted by them, so they don’t take me as a threat.
      But when I’m in a lgbt+ club, I feel so free and nonviolent, I can just be happy and be myself. 🤷‍♀️

    • @freudiannipslip
      @freudiannipslip 2 роки тому +10

      This is such a wonderful, insightful comment. I'm glad to have read it.

  • @sigh9913
    @sigh9913 2 роки тому +377

    WOWOWOW Katy’s looks amazing. I love this style on her.

    • @arieldominguez2905
      @arieldominguez2905 2 роки тому +11

      I can't believe she looks that good whit out any makeup

    • @lll000l00o
      @lll000l00o 2 роки тому +5

      it kinda gives her pearl transformation

    • @bobbiobanion7706
      @bobbiobanion7706 2 роки тому

      I'm living for kaytas milf era, Claire St Clair , if you will. she reminds me of a young mom who's kids are almost grown and she's young enough to live it up.

  • @blackensky
    @blackensky 2 роки тому +378

    As a Glaswegian I'm so sad to hear about Katyas experience in Glasgow. Scottish people are genuinely known for being super friendly and kind, but I totally get the experience of coming across a group of drunken guys (or NEDS as we call them: 'Non-Educated Delinquents') late at night can be frightening, even for us locals!

    • @XxstardropzdreammxX
      @XxstardropzdreammxX 2 роки тому +46

      I appreciate the term NEDS & feel like it needs to be used in more places 😂

    • @janejanejaney
      @janejanejaney 2 роки тому +78

      It's not just neds though tbf. I've dealt with plenty of middle to upper class people on nights out or hanging out with family/ friends who get a kick out of mocking or questioning the existence of queer people. I find them especially annoying bc they can't blame hostile environment or lack of education for their ignorance, which is typically the case for folk you might call neds. Comfortable people are just bored of their lives and resent themselves for it, so they like to subjugate non-boring people for entertainment and ego.

    • @rirerose
      @rirerose 2 роки тому +33

      Not trying to brew an argument or anything, but I was in Scotland way back in 2004, and the kids there were rotten. We were told that bullying was a real issue. Those kids would be in their late 20's right about now, and I can just picture them being the type of people Katya spoke of.

    • @richiethev4623
      @richiethev4623 2 роки тому +8

      @@rirerose hey in 2004 America was also really rotten with bullies in particular all over Southern Cali so those kids age range's now 21-36 yes bullying was rotten ripe from grade school all the way up to high school but nowadays programs for anti bullying have been reinforced and a strong stance has happened. It's a turtle pace change but at the very least it's happening and I can say it's working because as someone who is 33 with a ten yearold son who got bullied for a rapid short period and when my sisters(his auntie's) n' nana steeped in with the school(they didn't let me go with them because they know I have a short fuse and will get loudly ghetto so yeah that is why I avoided going) they properly handled the situation with his school along with the bully and my son no longer gets bullied much better day's🌈💯🤗
      I hope someday the school system in Glasgow would do something similar because trust my words the anti bully program does work and is extremely affective...

    • @butasimpleidiotwizard
      @butasimpleidiotwizard 2 роки тому +11

      @@janejanejaney they don't do it because they resent themselves they do it because they think they're better than everyone else and no one ever taught them otherwise when they were young enough to learn, they think it's funny and that people who are different to them don't matter, the consequence their behaviour has on the people they harass doesn't matter to them because they genuinely don't believe it's important or worth caring about. They aren't really suffering for their actions which is frustrating to admit but it is true, the only way to make them suffer is to make the people they bully matter.

  • @praalgraf
    @praalgraf 2 роки тому +132

    very entertained by trixie referring to herself as a small business

    • @johanvajse8410
      @johanvajse8410 2 роки тому +13

      she is - Trixie Cosmetics is one
      she has also opened a bar and a motel

    • @SwtBeat
      @SwtBeat 2 роки тому +10

      @@johanvajse8410 I think this may be commentary from another video Trixie did with Katya where she jokingly asks "what if I called my 🍆 small business" - it was from their UNHhhh series, which is HILARIOUS btw

    • @Corbomite_Meatballs
      @Corbomite_Meatballs 2 роки тому +3

      @@johanvajse8410 And touring, which depending on size may employ a small band, or an entire stage show troupe.

  • @ninalove3044
    @ninalove3044 2 роки тому +665

    The hatred towards us in the LGBTQIA+ community is heartbreaking to me. I can say that it sometimes comes from those who wish they could be a free and in love with themselves as we are!

    • @balenciaugust6342
      @balenciaugust6342 2 роки тому +71

      @@stevennguyen4993 it’s almost as if Pride was curated to include all walks of life from all communities to gather together in their authenticity and not be judged. After being silenced, either socially or put to death for being gay, Pride is for everyone to be loud and proud about who they are. As you said, most people are private about their personal lives (which I’m sure you said that to focus the value of “privacy” onto straight people who want gays to be quietly gay) but the thing is, behind closed doors, regardless of sexuality or gender, people are doing things that you wouldn’t approve of if they were made public. Everyone has a right to be loud and proud about who they are, it’s not gay peoples responsibility to make straight people comfortable and it’s not straight peoples responsibility or right to choose how gay people express themselves. You can simply mind your business or at least be educated if you’re going to insert yourself into a persons life

    • @stevennguyen4993
      @stevennguyen4993 2 роки тому

      @@balenciaugust6342 No. Compared to your innocent reframing of pride as the inclusion of all walks of like, the actual celebration of pride is the absurd hypersexuality of those who are outside heterosexual tendencies. Again, butt cheeks, chokers, leather straps, and waving your tongue between two fingers is not a "curation to include all walks of life." Public pride events is not a place I'd want to bring my 5-year-old cousin to and tell them "this is what gay is, this is what gay represents, and being gay means you can do this and no one can stop you."

    • @jonevan580
      @jonevan580 2 роки тому +13

      @@balenciaugust6342 well said 👏🏻

    • @ninalove3044
      @ninalove3044 2 роки тому +11

      @@balenciaugust6342 Well said indeed! 💪💪💪💗💗💗✌️✌️✌️

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 2 роки тому +4

      @@stevennguyen4993 well said steven. unfortunately many of us were not able to adequately express ourselves in our youth and find the need to act out our adolescents in adulthood. I was in DC just this weekend visiting family and it was pride weekend. The amount of butt cheeks in public was just trashy, and unneeded. People also have a right to not expect nudity in public. Not sure what any of that has to do with pride anyways.

  • @route66ally
    @route66ally 2 роки тому +289

    them being sat down for a somewhat serious interview is so unusual, yet I loved it as always

  • @kate.d024
    @kate.d024 2 роки тому +81

    As an individual from rural Alabama, I would lay my life on the line for Trixie & Katya. Period.

  • @moonlightbae5425
    @moonlightbae5425 2 роки тому +409

    What Katya said about glasgow is kinda true, I’m a gay guy (sometimes dress kinda fem but not overly) and me and my friends get shouted at sometimes so I can imagine why they told her to not walk to the venue

    • @johanvajse8410
      @johanvajse8410 2 роки тому +73

      I was glad Katya kept saying that it was unsafe after the interviewer tried to make light of it. It seems like he wanted her to laugh along and say "yeah the States are much worse."
      Ignoring it doesn't help

    • @moonlightbae5425
      @moonlightbae5425 2 роки тому +51

      @@johanvajse8410 yeah I’m sure there are places that are waaaay worse than here but it still goes on sometimes, the Uk in general and particularly places in Scotland have a very toxic masculine “lad” culture which is very scary to be around if you aren’t a straight person

    • @dusssss631
      @dusssss631 2 роки тому +4

      @@moonlightbae5425 it is very baffling to see sometimes as an outsider.

    • @dkatzism
      @dkatzism 2 роки тому +30

      @@johanvajse8410 Seems like bashing the States is a favourite activity, but these biological women held their ground and rightly pointed out that it's a big enough country that it depends where. It is a shame that a place like Glasgow has made a name for itself in this way.

    • @rsmith6366
      @rsmith6366 2 роки тому +1

      @@moonlightbae5425 Or a man.

  • @cheappurposes2904
    @cheappurposes2904 2 роки тому +660

    A few years ago I was watching Trixie's insta stories and the next ones were of a popular Miami barber I used to follow. Coincidentially he was recording Trixie walking right outside of his shop in full drag; they were laughing loudly and calling her names. In the last story the guy zoomed in, Trixie looked at the camera and walked away in silence with a sad look on her face.
    That was a very shocking thing to witness and I remember thinking: she's white, she has money and fame and she could still get hate-crimed at any moment just for existing while queer.

    • @nelsonth
      @nelsonth 2 роки тому

      Ugh. Some straight guys are so toxic

    • @michellete8545
      @michellete8545 2 роки тому

      I’m so sorry to see this and fuck that barber. It’s such a disappointment to like someone and then see them be such bigoted assholes.

    • @nickyb932
      @nickyb932 2 роки тому

      trixie is a poc

    • @jazzminwhite4228
      @jazzminwhite4228 2 роки тому

      It doesnt matter the race, at the end of the day, hate is hate, and it will spread like wild fire because people have no jobs or hobbies and love to just be rude and spiteful

    • @cheappurposes2904
      @cheappurposes2904 2 роки тому +95

      @@jazzminwhite4228 I'm mentioning the race to point out that there is a scale of privilege that can be granted or overruled depending on the severity of the "crime" commited against the patriarchal system which I think is interesting.

  • @ruraldog2617
    @ruraldog2617 2 роки тому +58

    Damn as a queer folk from the uk it felt validating to hear katya say she doesnt feel safe there. People here come across so friendly but when it concerns LGBTQ+ people it's so hit and miss you just feel like you can't trust shit.

  • @jerrysizzler44
    @jerrysizzler44 2 роки тому +115

    "My band made me go to a straight bar, have a flight of beers and watch BMX. And I felt violent. So I think it's kind of similar."
    Trixie keeping it fair and real as always haha.

  • @luiggicastillo2944
    @luiggicastillo2944 2 роки тому +57

    Katya is rocking that Shakira wig. I love it

  • @You-cm2lh
    @You-cm2lh 2 роки тому +177

    I’m glad they touched on the reality of queer people, especially trans/non-binary presenting people

  • @LovelyNayru
    @LovelyNayru 2 роки тому +46

    8 minutes wasn’t enough of this!! I need more queer icons discussing these kinds of experiences; it’s illuminating, melancholy, and beautiful

    • @mikuenjoyerXD
      @mikuenjoyerXD 2 роки тому

      Melancholy how?

    • @fatskinnyguy66
      @fatskinnyguy66 Рік тому +2

      @@mikuenjoyerXD When you think about the queer experience aren't you filled with a sense of sadness as you ponder why things are the way they are for a lot of us? no? Just me?? ok.

  • @jamesscalise4990
    @jamesscalise4990 2 роки тому +522

    I feel like people in the UK can be quite polite but express all of their evil through alcohol and tabloids

    • @richardpoole9793
      @richardpoole9793 2 роки тому +23

      Lol. Spot on.

    • @avggamer86
      @avggamer86 2 роки тому

      This is the same country that waged wars all across the world. Inflicting itself everywhere they went

    • @barrytaylor1642
      @barrytaylor1642 2 роки тому +14

      Absolutely that’s England

    • @megan-1600
      @megan-1600 2 роки тому +34

      We’re just like everyone else. The idea that we are more polite is bollocks. Definitely agree with Katya that it is scary to be gay in the UK.

    • @rhysgarner8677
      @rhysgarner8677 2 роки тому +4

      Select areas it would seem, but in Wales, I’ve never really felt unsafe whether it’s just a general gathering or on a night out or even if it’s a day of some form of sports and there’s a big event in Cardiff.

  • @Waevform
    @Waevform 2 роки тому +71

    These two are always brilliant and this is the most “serious” thing I’ve seen them do together

    • @alexysq2660
      @alexysq2660 Рік тому

      i always carry my smallish but sharp-pointed knife with me - cleverly ( ?? ) sheathed in a small plastic shop bag - when going out of an evening in ( my home town ) LDN, sad enough to have to say ... or to *do* 😔....

  • @hoobslice
    @hoobslice 2 роки тому +44

    As someone from Scotland, it’s definitely fair for Katya to feel unsafe here 💀

  • @tabularasa
    @tabularasa 2 роки тому +173

    Great interview, this might be the most honest and laid back I've ever seen this duo

    • @jazrei9441
      @jazrei9441 Рік тому +3

      Their podcasts are similar to this

  • @Lunabandit
    @Lunabandit 2 роки тому +109

    oh yeah katya is completely valid in not feeling safe in the uk. lad culture is so ingrained in this place

    • @Ayoutubeaccount3
      @Ayoutubeaccount3 2 роки тому +3

      oi oi geezer

    • @kulera
      @kulera Рік тому +4

      What culture?

    • @ccsx222
      @ccsx222 4 місяці тому

      @@kuleraUK version of American douchebros

    • @slaturwinters1828
      @slaturwinters1828 Місяць тому

      @@kulera Apparently, people behaving like uncivilized animals is a culture.

  • @upupina90
    @upupina90 2 роки тому +57

    wow. I am glad they discussed about feeling not safe and how they deal with this. that's so interesting to hear that from gay icons.

  • @leahmurphy8928
    @leahmurphy8928 2 роки тому +58

    I'm from rural Alabama, a lot of us love you and would be happy to have you here! There's plenty of hate, but its usually indoors by people you know or that go to your church, not random strangers you walk by. That AJ & the queen bar scene of the Rupaul wet tee-shirt contest is actually pretty accurate, if it had happened here!!!!

  • @lanaholic3015
    @lanaholic3015 2 роки тому +61

    am I the only one but I can’t stop looking at Katya She looks beautiful

  • @tonny2202
    @tonny2202 2 роки тому +25

    YAY! Thank you Katya. I booked you for that show in Copenhagen and you were AMAZING. Incredible performance and you are a sweetheart

  • @smoothblink
    @smoothblink 2 роки тому +69

    this was actually a really cool series of reflections, thank u queens

  • @ChrisMinusHumour
    @ChrisMinusHumour 2 роки тому +33

    I am a gay from Scotland and my straight friends sometimes tell me I am crazy to be cautious of homophobic people. They think homophobia is gone and gay people have no worries. The reality is Scotland has some negative attitudes to gay and trans people.

    • @Boilingfrogg
      @Boilingfrogg Рік тому +1

      A phobia is an irrational fear of something.

    • @ChrisMinusHumour
      @ChrisMinusHumour Рік тому

      @@Boilingfrogg wow congratulations on knowing the definition of a phobia. Homophobia is a culturally produced fear or prejudice against gay people. It is not clear what your point is.

    • @slaturwinters1828
      @slaturwinters1828 Місяць тому

      Youre just ignorant and sheltered bud, please be safe.

    • @ChrisMinusHumour
      @ChrisMinusHumour Місяць тому +2

      @@slaturwinters1828 Certainly not ignorant and I was not sheltered growing up either. You plucked both of those out of nowhere. I think you are projecting 🤭

  • @lilyjo3248
    @lilyjo3248 2 роки тому +6

    so nice of these biological women to speak out about lgbt issues, what great allies!

  • @KimaAli
    @KimaAli 4 місяці тому +2

    Trixie is so brave to sit next to someone so stunning. I admire her courage

  • @ava-tf1ni
    @ava-tf1ni 2 роки тому +41

    Katya looks absolutely stunning omg

  • @Wyster
    @Wyster 2 роки тому +51

    I accidentally came out to my mom and brother a week or so ago… my brother was being homophobic. Saying something about how he wouldn’t go to a gay person’s wedding. And I just felt so hurt and offended and before I realized it I said “well I’m bi. Would you not come to my wedding if I marry a woman?” And he said “no, I’d come to yours, but I’d sit in the back.” And he was serious.
    I feel lucky to have the support of my mom. She doesn’t do the warm and fuzzy emotions thing. She would never be one of those moms at a pride parade. But she’s very vocal when she doesn’t like something, and she was silent.
    My coming out story is so much better than a lot of people’s, and I feel grateful for that. But I think the shock of not only my brother’s blatant rejection and accidentally coming out like that I’m just kind of off kilter. Not great.
    It helps to watch videos like this, and I love these two fine gentle ladies. I try to remind myself that I can be quietly proud and not outwardly talk about it even though I’m technically out now. And that’s okay. Anyway, sorry. Blabber mouth.

    • @jennabeanz
      @jennabeanz 2 роки тому +9

      im so sorry that was their reaction! u deserve better. many would and will love u just the way u are

    • @slaturwinters1828
      @slaturwinters1828 Місяць тому

      Walk away and never look back, they dont love you, and dont deserve you putting time into helping them grow. F*ck em all! BE FREE!

  • @kathleenuclear
    @kathleenuclear 2 роки тому +26

    omg I have also seen Joan Jett live and I got so lucky to be right in front of her, she constantly made eye contact with me while singing. IT WAS WILD she is literally a legend and she was LOOKING AT ME!! SINGING TO ME!! and her stare is so intense she makes you feel like the only one there. I am so happy Trixie and I share that experience.

  • @josevillanueva8173
    @josevillanueva8173 2 роки тому +7

    Anyone clock the fly on the window at 7:00? It found you Trixie! 😂

  • @mahoushoujo7278
    @mahoushoujo7278 2 роки тому +20

    I love it how they identified them as UNnnh personalities than Drag Race 🤣

  • @Lupinvanjosef
    @Lupinvanjosef 2 роки тому +29

    Katya’s “wow..” at 4:10 😭

  • @sophiab7368
    @sophiab7368 2 роки тому +83

    I went on a date with my then boyfriend, we were gonna get Japanese food and the go hang out at a bar and listen to the live bands. On the way to the Japanese place we walked past some queen’s on their way to a gig. I was like ooh pretty clothes, and this one brought backup hair and I turned to my then boyfriend to say about how much I liked their outfits only to find him on the other side of the street. We broke up pretty much right after that date. I dunno what he was so damn scared of.

    • @slaturwinters1828
      @slaturwinters1828 Місяць тому

      YIKES!!!!!! Hes probably ashamed of being gay. Seeing you be so accepting when hes a bigot made him feel scared. A total looser waste of time; youll find better.

  • @ptc4566
    @ptc4566 2 роки тому +64

    I love these biological women.

    • @olivalko7970
      @olivalko7970 2 роки тому +1

      Sutch a stupid thing to say 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @coralramos7208
      @coralramos7208 2 роки тому +1

      They're guys

    • @wetbread6757
      @wetbread6757 2 роки тому +14

      @@coralramos7208 r/woosh

    • @unknownuser6757
      @unknownuser6757 Рік тому

      @@coralramos7208 I think they’re trying to be someone else because deep down they don’t love themselves.

  • @ktswing88
    @ktswing88 2 роки тому +10

    ‘It was a small town, Copenhagen’ - literally a capital city lol

    • @janenaj1
      @janenaj1 2 роки тому

      It twas a joke

  • @joemanu96
    @joemanu96 2 роки тому +30

    born and raised in Ireland and i always have heard "oh were very friendly people, if your nice we accept anyone" yeah for like a day, far from it. how insecure people are here, if your a dude wearing a normal pink/salmon shirt/tshirt and take one wrong turn your gonna get soo many eyeballs and decent chance of being called the F word from the other side of the street.
    not even with drag, being a guy and wearing a lick of nail polish in public. just black, let alone a colour, feels like you got a knife at your neck here in the UK/Ireland. doesnt stop me tho hahaha.

    • @jamesb4729
      @jamesb4729 2 роки тому +7

      Yeah I don’t get that Ireland is full of friendly people stereotype. I mean sure they are chatty, and not very reserved, but they’re not particularly nicer than people anywhere else.

    • @alexysq2660
      @alexysq2660 Рік тому +1

      That really is a bloody shame, particularly when you consider that Ireland is - as far as i'm aware - the first and still the only country on the planet to have instated marriage equality by large-ish majority vote in referendum 😕😔....

    • @joemanu96
      @joemanu96 Рік тому +5

      @@alexysq2660 wasn't one of the first to legalize it. But I remember it was first to say it was fully protected by law though with like a 65% majority in like 2015. I'm under the assumption that it along with gay people in general are more accepted in the Republic where this happened.
      But where I live which is in the North it was only legalized in like 2017 and only because it was more pressured from mainland Britain cause the North is part of the UK. I say this because the political party here thats always held power due to majority populuse voters is against it completely for "religious reasons" if It wasn't forced in by England it would still most likely be illegal here... Not to mention we got heavy religious roots, then also the due to us recovering slowly from the Troubles, which happened here for decades so most people are still have very backwards mindsets here in general.

    • @alexysq2660
      @alexysq2660 Рік тому

      @@joemanu96 Oh, yes i know actually; i am a Brit in fact, although of largely - but not 'exclusively' 😏 - Irish ethnicity and heritage, born in Manchester and raised in ( outer west ) London. And, yeah, i did also know about Ulster's having been, sadly, quite a bit 'behind' when it came/comes to a lot of pro-lgbtq+ legislation/'acceptance'/inclusion, etc. Are you from Belfast, btw ? From what i know of it, having been a few times ( had relatives in [ County ] Armagh and in Dunmurry [ BT ... who aren't even Protestant 😯😆...! ] ), BT seems to be the more 'progressive- ish' portion of the region ( oh and, by "BT" i do of course mean Belfast [ city and district ] as i realise that it is also actually the Post Code designation for all of N Ireland, yes ? ) But, yeah: the rather rapid change in social and 'religion-rooted' mindset in the Republic ( Eire ) quite surprised and favourably impressed me, considering just how much were their own deeply-ingrained RC 'religious' inculcation and belief system ( those bleedin' "papists" 😂: i was raised RC incidentally, my school and all [ only just primary though, thankfully...! ] but not at all 'obsessive-compulsively', am happy to recall 😌.... ) so the way they've managed in so relatively short a time span to pretty much throw-off t h a t yoke, especially younger people oc, is truly an impressive achievement well done and very much to their credit. Hopefully that 'attitudinal sea-change' shall soon also begin spreading up into and throughout Ulster as well 🥺.... ~At any rate then, cheers and thanks very much for having replied to what i'd commented😊; do keep well 💚💖...!

  • @rachelw1076
    @rachelw1076 2 роки тому +13

    It's bizarre to see Katya clutch Trixie's hand without the zappy electric static that the editors usually add!

  • @AbsolPowers
    @AbsolPowers 2 роки тому +15

    "while joan jett, who was like 60 at the time" had me laughing because Joan Jett is hardly 60 NOW lmao

  • @a03mr
    @a03mr 2 роки тому +6

    I was at that pride in Copenhagen and Katya was absolutely the headliner :)) So glad she enjoyed it too ! It was a great show:,)

  • @EricAllen8494
    @EricAllen8494 2 роки тому +14

    They are the MOMENT, EVERY MOMENT ♥️

  • @alexandraw.4012
    @alexandraw.4012 Рік тому +4

    I am so glad I have never felt that kind of hate towards anyone.
    What a horrible way to live! It makes me want to cry thinking that someone could literally fly into a rage over a HATING a person's differences?! Whether it be gender, race, etc., or even who one chooses to love. I really hope that those types of people find their way because there's a lot of love out there to be had! Why add to the hate? 💜

  • @WCYUM
    @WCYUM 2 роки тому +25

    I would love to hear more stories like this from them ❤️‍🩹

  • @LittleMissMorningstar
    @LittleMissMorningstar 2 роки тому +5

    I love when Kayta shows off her tattoos.

  • @aurska4061
    @aurska4061 2 роки тому +45

    Now I can’t unsee Katya standing in the middle of an elevator in full glam trying not to get clocked by a bunch of rugbymen breathing down her neck. 😓

    • @richcampbell6808
      @richcampbell6808 2 роки тому +3

      Rugby players are gay friendly and teddy bears. Don't stereotype.

    • @mojochay
      @mojochay 2 роки тому +36

      @@richcampbell6808 didn't you just stereotype with that comment? 💀

    • @ellellio
      @ellellio 2 роки тому +38

      She's shared this story before. They pulled at her hair/clothes so clearly it was an unsafe situation for her. Maybe you shouldn't minimize her experience by defending Rugby players.

    • @jorgehenriquez5808
      @jorgehenriquez5808 2 роки тому

      Trying ?! HAHAHGHAHAHAHAHH dead

  • @NuntawatPisaisawat
    @NuntawatPisaisawat 2 роки тому +24

    Please upload the full version day-until-noon interview, I do really enjoy both of them so much!

  • @sandra-jones
    @sandra-jones 2 роки тому +13

    Man, Katya is the shit!! So beautiful, so funny and such a nice person. Damn near perfect!

  • @michiMF
    @michiMF 2 роки тому +33

    Watching a clip of Katya in Copenhagen doing freakin flips and p poppin splits……meanwhile in Austin present day I’m watching her get dragged around stage, I think she was asleep!! 🤣🤣🤣 love it 🥰🤸🏼‍♀️

  • @La_1E_TJ
    @La_1E_TJ 2 роки тому +37

    I can say that even as a woman, being dressed up and near drunken men can be dangerous too. The UK does still have a long way to go when it comes to feeling safe on the streets at night. Even in the cities, and sometimes especially in the cities. Drunk straight white men are the scariest here

    • @kirax7293
      @kirax7293 2 роки тому

      Men are such fucking jokes. Unbelievable how quick they resort to bullying and violence when there’s a target they think they can take on without threat. It’s like this in every part of the world.

    • @jamesb4729
      @jamesb4729 2 роки тому +1

      Ok well go and dress up and walk the streets in the Middle East, you’ll feel even more unsafe, and those men won’t even be drunk.

    • @La_1E_TJ
      @La_1E_TJ 2 роки тому +12

      @@jamesb4729 yes cheers for that. Very helpful and not at all unnecessary and rude.

    • @1rd2th3st
      @1rd2th3st Рік тому +3

      @@La_1E_TJand racist lol

  • @SM-vr8dz
    @SM-vr8dz 2 роки тому +11

    They look amazing! Love the shout out to lesbians from Trixie!

  • @Bridgetcbarry
    @Bridgetcbarry 2 роки тому +6

    Them instinctively bringing themselves back on topic like they’re on uhnnn by just say “hey but pride-“

  • @misterpinsky9535
    @misterpinsky9535 Рік тому

    I haven’t witnessed a duo that plays off each other so fantastically in really forever. You are both amazingly funny, witty and I look forward to enjoying you both for years to come.

  • @shaunawright
    @shaunawright 2 роки тому +5

    at NYC comic con there are big signs that say cosplay is not consent. a message very relevant to pride and drag cons too

  • @SimplyDivineTV14
    @SimplyDivineTV14 2 роки тому +4

    6:58 omg i thought that bug on the the window was a rat or something climbing the rail 😭😭

  • @ddjackso26
    @ddjackso26 2 роки тому +5

    Not Katya being that kid you can’t take anywhere and Trixie giving her the mom eyes… like girrrl, don’t start no international incident😂😂😂 or “f” up the gig 💴. Swear Katya is me, what comes up, comes out. Love this interview. Love love love ❤️!!

  • @geneventide5314
    @geneventide5314 2 роки тому +12

    These two!
    They both brought up some important topics

  • @seanwho232
    @seanwho232 2 роки тому +169

    Gay People Don't Make Gay People, Straight People Do.
    People don't usually just hate gay people out of thin air. Usually, the haters had a bad experience or they're battling with their own insecurities and tendencies.
    Like, if you go out of your way to make time to act out on your "homophobia" and over all aggressive ignorance, you're just trash. Find a Hobbie.
    I LOVE YOUR WORK TRIXIE AND KATYA!!! UHHhhh!!!!!

    • @mojochay
      @mojochay 2 роки тому

      Huh... they hate gay people because they've been taught to. Our system caters to straight people in every aspect and that teaches people gay people are weird or wrong. Growing up no one does anything when there is homophobia in school so that plays a role as well. Obviously being straight up told homophobic beliefs also makes people homophobic too

    • @OneMoreBookMatt
      @OneMoreBookMatt 2 роки тому +1

      Mama, people just have gay people out of thin air. Is a thing for a couple of millennia now. Everything that is different and go against patriarchy is hated by a Christian society

    • @925263
      @925263 2 роки тому

      Incorrect.
      It usually is absolutely out of thin air. 0 reason, 0 justification. That's 99% of cases. The ol' "this closeted gay is acting like a homophobe to compensate" is very rare.

  • @haunted2882
    @haunted2882 2 роки тому +35

    "Here, in the UK, I don't feel safe" as a queer afab, 100% feel you and so do many of my queer and trans friends/family.

  • @PokhrajRoy.
    @PokhrajRoy. 2 роки тому +2

    I’m happy to see them together because I LIVE for their reactions to Netflix shows.

  • @SuperOMGFTWBBQ
    @SuperOMGFTWBBQ Рік тому +3

    Provincetown is one of the most magical, open, accepting, inclusive, beautiful towns I’ve ever been to. I have a summer vacation home in cape cod and I make an effort to visit Ptown every year. This year, they had carnival, which they haven’t had in a while due to covid, and it was AMAZING. First time ever being there for it and it was literally the most eccentric and spectacular day I’ve ever had. I always recommend people put it on their bucket lists

  • @mc23243
    @mc23243 2 роки тому +10

    They look so stunning! I love Katya’s rock outfit

  • @DC-sd1lw
    @DC-sd1lw 2 роки тому +9

    Awww Katya you look so gorgeous! My chihuahua will protect you in the uk! He doesn’t have a gun but his cuteness can kill at 10 feet

  • @alguaii272
    @alguaii272 2 роки тому +2

    OMG 😱 MY favorite queens are finally on Attitude magazine !?!?
    Period 💅

  • @lindaAA3101
    @lindaAA3101 2 роки тому +1

    LOL!...These two just crack me up! Also, they sure look amazing in their black & white outfits!

  • @benjyzarko
    @benjyzarko 2 роки тому +26

    having just gotten a lot of hateful comments and accusations of pedophilic / grooming behavior due to organizing a drag brunch
    .. whew there is something going on out there, be safe bbz, happy pride

  • @superhotnutjob
    @superhotnutjob 2 роки тому +7

    I love these 2 more than any family member... I would kill to have a friendship like theirs.

  • @ClaytonGoldhawk
    @ClaytonGoldhawk 2 роки тому +1

    Love this look that Katya has on!! The wig, the pleather, the shape!! So good.

  • @Catherine-lr3ul
    @Catherine-lr3ul 2 роки тому +4

    Katya always looks gorgeous and in this look she is glowing!!!!!

  • @annaselbdritt7916
    @annaselbdritt7916 2 роки тому +6

    Katyas fave pride being the CPH one made me feel a surge of national pride like never before

  • @chicagosusieq8548
    @chicagosusieq8548 2 роки тому +3

    The sight of anyone in drag triggers pure joy in me!🥰

  • @AmandaSilva-xs7hy
    @AmandaSilva-xs7hy 2 роки тому +1

    Looooooove you both !!!! Love all the great success y’all are having . Oxox

  • @comet3nb
    @comet3nb 2 роки тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you for enlightening us and making our lives better❤️

  • @asterialuna2493
    @asterialuna2493 2 роки тому +18

    i'm not even ashamed that i'm drooling over katya mouth wide open

  • @jonathansosa2302
    @jonathansosa2302 2 роки тому +3

    "its not as sexy as you imagine" as the nun passes behind Katya lolol

  • @peppermintea420
    @peppermintea420 2 роки тому +1

    Great interview!!

  • @mmmelissa001
    @mmmelissa001 2 роки тому +1

    Two skinny legends! Will watch anything with Trixie and Katya. Love them big time. 💗

  • @nidhalkmira8777
    @nidhalkmira8777 2 роки тому +10

    I like how trixie still call herself a smalll business

  • @cookieslarue3023
    @cookieslarue3023 2 роки тому +4

    I feel like they think we wouldn’t want them to be this chill and casual for their show but idk, the vibes here are immaculate

  • @josefinesvenson638
    @josefinesvenson638 2 роки тому

    Watching you guys makes me feel calm and happy🙂

  • @lilmoo2222
    @lilmoo2222 2 роки тому +1

    love!!! Thank you!!

  • @AlexaBellaMuerte
    @AlexaBellaMuerte 2 роки тому +3

    Trixies earrings are awesome

  • @Nicalus
    @Nicalus 2 роки тому +17

    Talking about locations that might be homophobic...sponsored by United Airlines 😆

  • @lleeyumm
    @lleeyumm 2 роки тому

    Love the Marlborough shout out, thank you Kathy for the rep

  • @w.samanthahaase5584
    @w.samanthahaase5584 2 роки тому +2

    Who could not love these queens?!