the girl saying she doesn’t like her ears because they’re a bit big made me sad, i think big ears on guys and girls are quite cute, especially with the right hairstyle that doesn’t cover them
I’m so jealous of people with big ears because they have lots of space for piercings and they make the face look more petite, I wish I had bigger ears lol
Wait seriously?! My ears are small, but they stick STRAIGHT out. Kids on the bus used to tell me to puff up my cheeks bc I didn’t even have to hold my ears out to look like a monkey. I’ve always wanted to get the surgery to get them pinned back
It’s heart melting how the girls are so supporting towards each other. The little things that they did to each other after someone said something (that must be very hard) they would hold each other’s hands or tap on the backs and say that they are brave. Also it’s also really nice of the guy the way he talks to them it’s refreshing✨
Yea same, but they probably didn't do that so that she wouldn't feel insecure yk? Especially since she knows its a video that will be watched by many many people
@Le secret account aw dude I thought people like that don’t exist anymore I am sorry for what you had to go through and I just wanna tell you that your beautiful no matter what it’s the Society we live in that makes us feel ugly
selenophile I always think about this when I watch videos like these like “what would happen if they actually get somewhere and have kids, will they show their kids the video or make something up?”
When the girl was talking about her crying with her mouth shut trying to hide the fact that she was crying and not making sound 5:50 hit me really hard and if I was talking about that I would’ve cried
He looked so mad when she said “you would have been beautiful if it weren’t for that scar” he looked like he was gonna go find who it was and knock em out 🥺
I think it helps make it more personal, also. Plus, like that we get to see everyone but the women don't have to be 'exposed' to the internet. Something like that..
I love it because it is so disturbing Haha. Hard to fantasize what that person might look like really and build up a picture in your head when that THING is staring at you.
as an american its crazy to see how the guy didn't fake smile and laugh his way through the uncomfortable situation he was actually genuine through his reactions
some people have extreme cases with that like 2 different cup sizes. either way it’s still just as fine tho it’s thing no one should be insecure about but the media has trained us to think that both boobs have to be the same size and symmetrical 😔
@@capybara809 i think it's not media thing, but mostly personal preferences to be more symmetrical 😅 And feel yourself nice about it. It's just my opinion.
Helena Quinn yes many times. My sister is really pretty and use to have really bad acne and guys would tell her that all the time “jokingly” but it’s still very offensive and crushed her confidence
I love how sweet this guy is. Especially at 5:28 when he had to do the trauma question. You can see him contemplating and then he says "it doesn't have to be specific" like he understood the weight of such a question.
When I read the title I was a little uneasy but after actually watching the video it was quite a positive experience for me, and I think, the people involved as well. Being so honest about their fears and intrusive thoughts and bad memories, and saying things you wouldn't normally say to strangers, it was so refreshing to see others garner the courage to do so. I felt like I gained a good grasp of their personality in just the few minutes of talking, something that is hard to do even spending hours of time together in real life. I wish I could be as brave as them.
Firstly, the guy is simply adorable for listening to these women. It sucks that he has to judge them, in a sense, but I don't feel like he dislikes their insecurities... rather he picked the ones that he could relate with the most. I imagine that he, himself, also has insecurities. This is kind of refreshing overall because I think everyone has insecurities about themselves... even people who one would consider to be extremely beautiful.
Based from what I can see is that he chose to pick the persons with the most severe insecurities and decides to talk about them further to understand and maybe provide explanation or comfort
honestly agreed. i believe every person has insecurities, whether it may be big or small. I think people who act arrogant all the time, all high and mighty, or all narcissistic are truly the most insecure ones. although i'm saying this from experience, everyone needs a person to rely and lean on in tough situations, even if you don't like them. we have to be there for each other in the toughest situations, not try to kill each other. we are all vulnerable and have insecurities that will lower our self-esteem, for some others, it's hard to speak up about their insecurities, so when a person speaks up about their insecurities, i believe that we should listen, support and help them all at the same time instead of writing negative comments. too many people in this world are getting hurt daily.
I think they also didn’t want to make their faces public as well as their insecurities. Just like the girl said, she would have had to know someone for 3 years to say what she said in this video so I think it‘a just that they didn’t want to be shown. (I assume)
@Strawberry Milk Reminds me of a nightmare I had before, about some man or woman with a doll face mask. Creepy and lifeless just staring through my window. I was at school and the light outside turned on... a few minutes later the doll face man shows up and stands there. Then after that, I go home and see the doll face man just looking at me in the window.
maybe not, after all the guy thanks her for sharing that very part of her. i may not have suicidal thoughs but i can assure you that those words, despite his decition, would warm my heart, i say she is ok, i have faith in her, and that she will get her way to her heart, and people around her
I think shes okay, she held her self together like glue. Coming from once being in that place of feeling like death is a option to just put life on pause, I eventually resorted to just sleeping. Unfortunately now im at that point in life where I sorta feel rejected, although I finally managed to get a job! Im proud of that. Im 18 going on 19 after my trama Ive realized that life’s definitely going to challenge you and reward however and whenever it wants to. But as long as you keep waking up and going, you will find out that you’re alright. I think shes on a similar path, shes gone through so much yet still hasn’t given up. She knows her issues wont be forever, she knows she has a future. Its all in the matter of playing the waiting game. I hope shes okay
She is a person, I'd really like to get to know. I think it's, because I can relate to that struggle to some extent. Having a goal, but not bring able to archive it or at least having a lot of trouble doing so, is so frustrating. I think it's so easy to blame oneself for that, but I hope she knows that that doesn't change her being someone deserves to be loved, by herself as much as by other people. All the best to her and to everyone else
저는 사실 유튜브에 댓글을 처음 달아봅니다! :) 상대방의 '컴플렉스' 를 이야기하고, 그것에 '호감' 이 가는 사람을 선택하는 소개팅이라니. 정말 획기적인 아이디어라고 생각했습니다, 너무나 많은 사람들이 이 영상을 보고, 정말 넓고 깊은 많은 '자기만의 생각' 들을 하게 될 것 같아요. 저 또한 이제 영상을 공부하기 시작한 사람으로서, 아직 너무 초보이지만, 좋은 영상이란 이런 게 아닐까 혼자 생각해봤습니다. 너무 잘 봤습니다! :)
I love the fact that they never had a close up of woman 4 at the end to respect her complex about her scar, and kept the focus on her as a person instead of her image. Im sure everyone, including me, were curious about what her scar looks like, but the way she was filmed felt very sensitive and respectful.
Yes, when the video ended I realised how intentional it was that they didn’t show a close up. Solfa consistently delivers high quality in all aspects of his work.
Nossa, gostei muito desse programa. É chocante e ao mesmo tempo, me faz refletir sobre mim mesma. Parabéns pela produção e, espero que todos fiquem bem.
it’s not about picking the most “favorable” insecurity in the sense that youre dating the insecurity. this man finds that he identifies with one woman more based on her experiences in life, and that is how it should be anyways. hes not picking on her or picking on the others, hes just relating to her and bonding over something they can relate too. i think these women are grown up enough to know that he doesnt mean to pick on them by not relating to them. it’s not his fault he has similar experiences to one girl and not the others.
exactly. he’s literally there to find someone *he* matches with/ bonds with. that’s the premise. like that’s exactly what they all signed up for. they’re all amazing and beautiful in their own ways, and just because they didn’t get with this guy, that doesn’t take away from their individuality and inner (and outer) beauty.
yes exactly!! i mean i can see the value in the comments critiquing about potentially worsening insecurities but it was a very interesting idea, and he never, ever made it seem like he was rejecting based on the favorability or whatever of insecurities, he was empathetic all the way through and picked the one he could relate to most.
the moment 7:04 those girls comforted each other makes me so sad and happy at the same time. They have struggled a lot and were hurt deeply by the society.
What's sad is that I bet she only believes it's rough because bullies couldn't find anything to tease her with, and chose to tease her with something she can't "truly" hear. When you hear your own voice, it's different from how others hear it, unless you listen to a recording of you speaking normally to someone.
Everyone is so nice to each other. The guy was so genuine and polite and all the girls were so sweet to each other, holding hands and encouraging them through their insecurities. 😭💜
WE NEED SERIES OF THIS AND LET PEOPLE LISTEN TO OTHERS. Let each other learn by listening to others' problems, this can be small therapy for them who need helps!
@@JesusPerez-pe8vk You are the one that stupid. He is a very cute and beautiful green creature that bestowed us from the heavens. Shrek is love shrek is life.
Este video y su mensaje es muy bueno. Me dieron ganas de llorar con las palabras de cada chica, y no me esperaba que el chico también hablara de sus inseguridades. Más vídeos así por favor!
@Busto Caponi Everyone has insecurities ? I don't see how caring about others' opinions on you is unattractive if anything it should make you more attractive because you're too scared about being disliked for one specific aspect...
Busto Caponi you are the problem you are the problem this is why people have insecurities.If someone’s depressed would you just go up to them and say “oh being depressed is so unattractive”that’s just messed up seriously
I almost feel like this wasn't as much of a test to see who was the most "attractive" based on their insecurities, and rather who he could relate to the most and understand the most
@@perrytheplatypus5503 I know I came off rather aggressive, but I just don't really understand how the focus of the video would have been if it was about straight-up "attraction"; this format made it much less shallow
@@sweetwheatsy I think it's cause some people are talking about how the guy should've picked whomever and implying that he's blind dating in a way of who he finds more attractive rather than relatable. some ppl don't have a clear idea of the focus of the vid
I think these types of videos are much more intense and valuable over the ones about makeup vs. without, because of the vulnerability and personality shared. You can find a match and go for coffee after the show after you match based on something trivial, but to choose someone to talk to based on their life so far helps build that bridge to connect with someone so much better.
People like that aren’t worth wasting time on because there are people out there that will love you and accept you for who you are and wouldn’t want to change a thing about you and those are the people that matter and are worth spending time on!
this was terrifying at first but as the guy said, having them talk about their insecurities was really refreshing and made me feel good too? he responded really tactfully and i love the decision at the end not to show her full face (despite my curiosity), i think that was very respectful
COMPLEX 8 Complex Idk if you use your channel, but maybe it would be a good idea to start if you disagree with the way things are done in this platform. Or start your own thread to discuss the issues you see with the video/channel. It could create a much needed conversation about SK, others experiences there, etc. There is nothing wrong with constructive criticism as long as it’s productive and not accusatory. Anyway, I apologize for butting in and possibly interpreting things wrong, but the statement you made came off as really angry and hurt.
COMPLEX 8 Complex Why do y’all always gotta make it political? It’s UA-cam, of course not everybody in South Korea acts like that. I don’t think anybody is that dense to believe so. You’re coming off very emotional and defensive which doesn’t make anyone want to consider your points because they’re hidden behind a shadow of, what appears to be, insecurity. I don’t know you, but this isn’t the right way to approach constructive criticism.
I think some people missed the point, one, they wouldn’t have signed up and talked about their insecurities if they weren’t comfortable talking about it. And two, the whole point is to normalize the fact that everyone has insecurities, and instead of it creating barriers, the vulnerable environment it creates can open up to a more deeper connection.
Yeah, you are totally right but maybe the 3 ladies felt bad even tho they didn't said anything about it (obviously knowing they accepted to talk about their insecurities) or maybe not
He was very thoughtful and ended up coming off as likeable from this experience. Props to him and the girls for being so articulate and mature in this presentation, and to Solfa for providing critical and substantial content :)
저 영상 보면서 든게 4번 분이 아닌 다른 분들이 아웃(?)이랄까 선택 받지 못했을 때 기분이 어떠셨을까,,, 나 같으면 "역시나 내 컴플렉스가 이해받기가 힘들구나' 이런 생각이 들 것 같기도 하다. 부디 저 분들이 선택 받지 못하셨다는 것에 자신을 비난하시거나 자책하시지 않으셨음 좋겠다.
I can’t even reject one of these girls if I’m in that guy’s place. I’ll feel bad rejecting a girl that told me their insecurities but,I won’t be there because I’ll probably be the one that’s wearing the mask lol
3번분은 너무 기죽어 계신듯ㅜㅠㅜㅠㅠ 계속 눈을 밑으로 하시넹ㅠ 본인을 더 사랑해주시고 깍아내리지 않으시면 좋겠네요ㅜㅠ 본인 자신을 아껴주고 많이 사랑해주길 응원할게욥.! 그리고 다른 분들도 상처가 많은 분들이구나 라는 생각이 드네요ㅠ 트라우마가 생긴게 단지 자신 때문이 아닌 점들은 더 안타깝드라고요.. 이 영상의 분들이 아니여도 모두 꼭 트라우마를 이겨내시고 본인의 상처가 남아있을지라도 그 상처를 보듬어주고 수용하고 낫게 해주는 능력을 길러서 꼭 행복해지길 바래요..!! 다들 응원하겠습니다!
I really feel that the guy is genuinely listening to these women’s insecurities and trying his best to put himself in their shoes. He seemed so sweet i hope things go well between them ❤️
콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낮고 또 그 콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낡고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그럼 걍 대출받으면서 살아라
I loved how supportive everyone was towards each other!!but after hearing their stories and struggles and trauma, I feel like my reason for being insecure is so insignificant because it is just a matter of "I'm not pretty enough" I really think everyone is beautiful both inside and out but they just have to find the confidence and their true selves...i don't know what I'm saying lol
많은 사람들은 자신의 단점을 감추기 위해 노력한다. 특히 이성과의 만남을 갖는 소개팅 자리에서는 더욱 노력한다. 화려한 옷, 가식적인 웃음으로 자신의 장점을 뽐낸다. 그러나 인연이 계속 되면서 결국 알게 되는 서로의 단점은 독이 될 수도 있다. 하지만 영상 속의 '컴플렉스 소개팅'은 일반적인 소개팅과는 다르다. 기본적인 통성명은 커녕 얼굴조차 보이지 않는다. 일반적인 소개팅처럼 장점만으로 자신을 나타내는 것이 아니라 단점만으로 자신을 나타낸다. 여자는 외모, 성격, 가치관에 나타나는 자신의 단점을 모조리 말한 후, 남자는 자신이 가장 공감하는 단점들을 가진 여자와 함께 한다. 이어지는 대화에서 둘은 각자의 컴플렉스에 대해 서로를 공감하며 이해한다. 이후 영상은 일반적인 소개팅의 형태가 된다. 기본적인 통성명을 시작하고 다시 서로에 대해서 알아간다. 이제 남은 것은 각자의 장점을 나타내는 일뿐이다.
![[ENG CC] Can teenage girls stay indifferent in front of a hot guy?](/img/n.gif)
the fact there are numbers on their foreheads make it even more creepier
yeah where did they even get these masks?
@@lukeklo oh my 👀
@@lukeklo for real tho
@@user-tk4st4mi3b what
5,000th like
ok but these women being so supportive of each other's difficulties despite not knowing how each other look makes me so happy.
YEAH
gottfer Yeah but they don’t like properly know each other still, they are pretty much strangers.
Thats what women do, we men call out each others bullshit like we been infected
@@vonluciff7027 ugh of course someone brings gender into it
Tha Boogee please just don’t think that the way you are born plays any role in how you behave.
"U would have been perfect if it weren't for that scar" ok wtf who do I have to beat up
we jumpin them
@@itssophiaonly damn right we are
Yess go have a go at him
Don’t forget your supplies. Also I’m coming to help you beat them-
YOUR PFP OMG
this guy is so well spoken , he's such a gentleman and really handsome, whoever ends up with him is going to be so so lucky.
Hhhhh
do anyone know why solfa is not uploading anymore?
@@sharkll corona...?
what does luck have to do with it? there are guys like this everywhere, begging for women.
@@MrShaiya96 what
This looks like a cult he's trying to apply in lmfao
underrated 😂
The KKK
love ur pfp
LMFAOOOOOO
Suga drama llama Lets not bring that up, it’s a bit more dark than it seems.
This is me and my four brain cells having a meeting about why i hate myself
LMFAOOOAO
Luna Crybaby LMAO same
😂😂
i appreciate your comment too much lmao
so me
the girl saying she doesn’t like her ears because they’re a bit big made me sad, i think big ears on guys and girls are quite cute, especially with the right hairstyle that doesn’t cover them
Do you really think so? I struggle a lot with that too💔
Same! Hoenstly I really think bigger ears are cute
I’m so jealous of people with big ears because they have lots of space for piercings and they make the face look more petite, I wish I had bigger ears lol
me too ! to me i think they're adorable tbh
Wait seriously?! My ears are small, but they stick STRAIGHT out. Kids on the bus used to tell me to puff up my cheeks bc I didn’t even have to hold my ears out to look like a monkey. I’ve always wanted to get the surgery to get them pinned back
It’s heart melting how the girls are so supporting towards each other. The little things that they did to each other after someone said something (that must be very hard) they would hold each other’s hands or tap on the backs and say that they are brave. Also it’s also really nice of the guy the way he talks to them it’s refreshing✨
Ayee Mitchiko!!!
So true
YEEEEESSSS
They're pouring their heart out and sharing insecurities.. In TV? I agree with you on how brave they are- It takes so much courage to be like that..
Nobody is born ugly we just live in a judgmental society- some random man
Staff: How creepy do you want the masks to be?
Producer: YES
I know right especially with the number in the forehead like
Huh
they looked like they were ready for the purge
the like comment ratio is 1:1000
Ikr like why'd they have to add the hyper realistic ears? 👁️👁️
They didn't had some cute mask? This one looks like he's getting kidnapped
lmaoo
💀💀
HAHAHAHA for real tho
😂😂
"like he's getting kidnapped" this comment had me dead lmaoo
The guy is perfect but can we talk about girls supporting girls here.. like holding their hands, connecting... feeling sorry... just wow
Anyone else kinda wish we got a closeup of the girl afterwards,,, just to see if the scar is actually bad
Yeah ofc. We all wanted to see their faces
Yea same, but they probably didn't do that so that she wouldn't feel insecure yk? Especially since she knows its a video that will be watched by many many people
dawg same
@Blake Babushka :3 exactly.
She may have requested to not be shown closely on camera
Those masks were creepy but this was really sweet.
ikr seems like a horror movie or at least an episode of Black Mirror 😂
@@NightshadeGoddess right lmao- nice video overall though
I don't know this channel. I thought I'm clicking on an interview with a metal band
At first I thought it had something to do with the kkk when I saw the thumbnail
Tamra Armstrong ikrr
Imagine if dating were like this.
All of our dirty laundry out in the open from the get go.
It would be quite an experience.
Best way to do it, weeds out the ppl who aren't really interested in/good for you.
That's how I do it
Wouldn't choosing the girls, is going to cause them MORE insecurity?
its just my opinion
Ty for the likes!! ❤❤
Ikrrrr I would feel like damn he didn’t even see my insecurities but still rejected me
@Le secret account aw dude I thought people like that don’t exist anymore I am sorry for what you had to go through and I just wanna tell you that your beautiful no matter what it’s the Society we live in that makes us feel ugly
I tought that
That's exactly what I was thinking.
Yessss, thanku for saying this. I feel so sad for the other 3 girls. They were so lovely :(((( with so pure heart
남자 진짜 남의 말 경청 할 줄도 알고 생각도 깊어보인다 저랑 동갑인데 짧은 영상이지만 사람 대하는 태도 배워갑니다
Kid: mom how did u meet dad
**shows a picture of a man sitting on the same table with 4 ladies wearing creepy masks**
selenophile I always think about this when I watch videos like these like “what would happen if they actually get somewhere and have kids, will they show their kids the video or make something up?”
@@litzikendrickman lmao same
😂😂😂
😂lol
Lol
When the girl was talking about her crying with her mouth shut trying to hide the fact that she was crying and not making sound 5:50 hit me really hard and if I was talking about that I would’ve cried
Same
I agree too... I dont think I'll cry, because I have a super defensive personality lol
I relate to her
timestamp?
When?
I just like the way he respected all of them and couldn't face them when he rejected them...
He looked so mad when she said “you would have been beautiful if it weren’t for that scar” he looked like he was gonna go find who it was and knock em out 🥺
I got mad too like what? Such a rude thing for someone to say.
Where is that part???
@@eyexsee5040it's in 6:42
Their disguise is kind of horrifying. I wonder why they just couldn't be behind a wall or something.
So he can still see their eyes.
I think it helps make it more personal, also. Plus, like that we get to see everyone but the women don't have to be 'exposed' to the internet. Something like that..
I love it because it is so disturbing Haha. Hard to fantasize what that person might look like really and build up a picture in your head when that THING is staring at you.
The ski masks robbers wear would be more comforting honestly
I thought it was the woman from the grudge😢😢
The girl that said she feels like the world rejects her was rejected....
I would have choosed her, personally i liked her better
Jasmin Amezcua Sameeeee
I felt that on an emotional level
@Jasmin Amezcua maybee
Yeah so the guy is obviously obligated to choose her right?
최종 선택 받으신분 얼굴 안비춰주는거 너무 좋다
JAjsu
진짜 ㅇㅈㅇㅈㅇㅈㅇㅈ
Jaja no mames si es cierto
mal re aweonao
남자 벗겨 놓고 어린 여자애들이 그림 그릴땐 남자모델 얼굴 다 까던데
여자애 얼굴은 가리는게 좋다?
If I were him I would be crying when hearing their insecurities and I would cry even harder when it was time to choose one I like least 🥺
omg same i was crying the whole timeee
“i don’t like that my jawline shows”
UM _W H A T_
What?
What?
In Korea jawlines are quite masculine facial feature that’s why
Right, I wish I had a shaper jaw
@@mohamedahmedyassinhussein6856 oh okay, the standards are so high there damn
as an american its crazy to see how the guy didn't fake smile and laugh his way through the uncomfortable situation he was actually genuine through his reactions
lydia slocum we americans are weird and sometimes childish unlike the rest of the world where people don’t speak english
@@godfirst7216 Huh I'm British and I would've done exactly as the guy on here I think.
Wow... as an "american". Where do you live? lol, I feel sorry for the place you're at. 🙄
Broken Inside uh what do you mean by that?
Broken Inside they live in america 🤪
Yo quería ver su cicatriz xD
(Aquí esta el comentario en español que estaban buscando) 😹
@yo pos quien mas :b
Tô si
Yo si
@@alexandrafigueroacardenas9094 tú si qué?
@yo pos quien mas a okey jeje
01:51 아 옆에분 빤히 쳐다보시는거 왤케 웃기지 ㅜㅜㅜㅜㅜㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅌㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ ㅡ
마스크때매 보니까 웃기긴 하네요 ㅋㅋ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ아 진짜 웃기다ㅠ
아 독서실에서 개터짐 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ ㅜㅜ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ더웃긴건 그 분 다음대사가 “이야기를 잘 들어주고 있다? 좀 연기를 하는 거 같아요.” ㅋㅋ
"My boobs aren't symmetrical."
Well,, normal boobs aren't symmetrical though.
some people have extreme cases with that like 2 different cup sizes. either way it’s still just as fine tho it’s thing no one should be insecure about but the media has trained us to think that both boobs have to be the same size and symmetrical 😔
@@capybara809 i think it's not media thing, but mostly personal preferences to be more symmetrical 😅
And feel yourself nice about it. It's just my opinion.
Sireen yeah symmetry is naturally favorable, not something the media did.
They aren't?
Wait i do is that bad? Am i gonna die
“And i have thick thighs”
Me : That won’t be a problem.
thick thighs save lives and make dick rise :)
Wait is their English subtitles ? I didn’t understand a thing
@@asher1528 i wish
Jocelyn Salgado yeah there are but i don’t need to use them
UwU ! it’s true, really. trust me. guys freaking love them. especially if you’re an hourglass/slim thick
When you have to talk about your insecurities but have a Halloween party at 10
Skjdjsh
Underrated- 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
AHAHAHA I laughed harder than i should 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Omg fork🤣
((남자분... 차분히 얘기하시는거 너무 좋다...👍🏻 ))
남자분께서 생각이 깊으신게 느껴져서 뭔가.. 저도 같이 생각이 많아지는 영상이었어요.
Director: How much scary do you want in this video?
Korean guy: Yes.
Yes
캐슬실버 Yes
@@wriaxcoon Yes
Lmao
this is so wild lmao, i need to watch more of this
"If only you didn't have pimples" girls with pimples and acne scars get their confidence shattered by these words....
Guys too
Has it ever been said?
Its horrible man
Helena Quinn yes many times. My sister is really pretty and use to have really bad acne and guys would tell her that all the time “jokingly” but it’s still very offensive and crushed her confidence
Happened to me. But instead of my pimples, they added in my nose. Said the pimples could be treated but the nose...
저 남자분 나가서 우실것 같아ㅠㅠ
남자분 눈빛이나 분위기 등이 로꼬님 처럼 맑고 선해보이네요
"if only you didn"t have that scar" THROW THAT WHOLE MAN AWAY
Ah I hate it that's like when people say "you're pretty for a ___ girl" e.g. fat, black, asian, etc.
Wait, her man said that to her?
Time stamp?
LEJINDARY OT7 6:42
Just imagine you're rejecting someone just because of her scar. It says a lot about your character. SMH.
Number 3: "I feel like the world is rejecting me"
The guy: *rejects her*
I wanna hug her 🥺
Oh, I didn't pay attention to that point, I really feel sorry for her. 🙏🏼😢
She shouldn't have said that unfortunately makes you a target to be rejected
Ameera you ruined it for me
Ameera I thought the same!!
i want to hug all of them :(
I love how sweet this guy is. Especially at 5:28 when he had to do the trauma question. You can see him contemplating and then he says "it doesn't have to be specific" like he understood the weight of such a question.
When I read the title I was a little uneasy but after actually watching the video it was quite a positive experience for me, and I think, the people involved as well. Being so honest about their fears and intrusive thoughts and bad memories, and saying things you wouldn't normally say to strangers, it was so refreshing to see others garner the courage to do so. I felt like I gained a good grasp of their personality in just the few minutes of talking, something that is hard to do even spending hours of time together in real life. I wish I could be as brave as them.
Firstly, the guy is simply adorable for listening to these women. It sucks that he has to judge them, in a sense, but I don't feel like he dislikes their insecurities... rather he picked the ones that he could relate with the most. I imagine that he, himself, also has insecurities.
This is kind of refreshing overall because I think everyone has insecurities about themselves... even people who one would consider to be extremely beautiful.
Based from what I can see is that he chose to pick the persons with the most severe insecurities and decides to talk about them further to understand and maybe provide explanation or comfort
Krystal109 LMAO I love ur profile
Le GentleMan agreed. I feel like he was leaning towards someone who felt more insecure about herself.
honestly agreed. i believe every person has insecurities, whether it may be big or small. I think people who act arrogant all the time, all high and mighty, or all narcissistic are truly the most insecure ones. although i'm saying this from experience, everyone needs a person to rely and lean on in tough situations, even if you don't like them. we have to be there for each other in the toughest situations, not try to kill each other. we are all vulnerable and have insecurities that will lower our self-esteem, for some others, it's hard to speak up about their insecurities, so when a person speaks up about their insecurities, i believe that we should listen, support and help them all at the same time instead of writing negative comments. too many people in this world are getting hurt daily.
we all have insecurities and we deal with them differently
The dude could have just worn a blindfold then they wouldn’t ve had to wear those creepy ass masks.
holy- ur so right HAHAHA
But body language counts in it too.
I think they also didn’t want to make their faces public as well as their insecurities. Just like the girl said, she would have had to know someone for 3 years to say what she said in this video so I think it‘a just that they didn’t want to be shown. (I assume)
Yeah. These masks are giving me nightmares, cult and kkk vibes...
@Strawberry Milk Reminds me of a nightmare I had before, about some man or woman with a doll face mask. Creepy and lifeless just staring through my window. I was at school and the light outside turned on... a few minutes later the doll face man shows up and stands there. Then after that, I go home and see the doll face man just looking at me in the window.
3번 여성분 목소리도 그렇고 느껴지는 아우라가 상대에게 굉장히 편한 느낌을 주는 사람 같습니다
This was..the *MOST* adorable thing...I’ve ever...EVER seen.
I’m surprised😂👏👏👏👏
I'm so scared for number 3
She said "the world is rejecting me" and she feels like dying is a solution and now he also "rejected" her
I hope she's ok
I was thinking the same thing, I felt so much for her, but I was sure he would choose 4. I truly hope she (3) is okay...
maybe not, after all the guy thanks her for sharing that very part of her. i may not have suicidal thoughs but i can assure you that those words, despite his decition, would warm my heart, i say she is ok, i have faith in her, and that she will get her way to her heart, and people around her
I think shes okay, she held her self together like glue. Coming from once being in that place of feeling like death is a option to just put life on pause, I eventually resorted to just sleeping. Unfortunately now im at that point in life where I sorta feel rejected, although I finally managed to get a job! Im proud of that. Im 18 going on 19 after my trama Ive realized that life’s definitely going to challenge you and reward however and whenever it wants to. But as long as you keep waking up and going, you will find out that you’re alright. I think shes on a similar path, shes gone through so much yet still hasn’t given up. She knows her issues wont be forever, she knows she has a future. Its all in the matter of playing the waiting game. I hope shes okay
She is a person, I'd really like to get to know. I think it's, because I can relate to that struggle to some extent. Having a goal, but not bring able to archive it or at least having a lot of trouble doing so, is so frustrating. I think it's so easy to blame oneself for that, but I hope she knows that that doesn't change her being someone deserves to be loved, by herself as much as by other people. All the best to her and to everyone else
Same feelings
They are so brave for talking openly about their insecurities
Linn they really are brave even with the mask I think I’d still be terrified.
Marceline Abadeer the guy also opened up about his insecurities without a mask, and i respect that so much
철학적 심리적으로 여러가지 재밌는 생각, 자극을 주는 영상이네요.
흥미롭게 봤습니다.
저는 사실 유튜브에 댓글을 처음 달아봅니다! :)
상대방의 '컴플렉스' 를 이야기하고, 그것에 '호감' 이 가는 사람을 선택하는 소개팅이라니.
정말 획기적인 아이디어라고 생각했습니다, 너무나 많은 사람들이 이 영상을 보고, 정말 넓고 깊은 많은 '자기만의 생각' 들을 하게 될 것 같아요. 저 또한 이제 영상을 공부하기 시작한 사람으로서, 아직 너무 초보이지만, 좋은 영상이란 이런 게 아닐까 혼자 생각해봤습니다.
너무 잘 봤습니다! :)
This is absolutely incredible, one of the most original ‘social experiment’ videos I’ve ever seen.
watch more :) Solfa has really awesome social experiments!
Solfa really set the bar high for other creators.
Absolutely.
Jubilee bout to steal this concept
So tru
I love the fact that they never had a close up of woman 4 at the end to respect her complex about her scar, and kept the focus on her as a person instead of her image. Im sure everyone, including me, were curious about what her scar looks like, but the way she was filmed felt very sensitive and respectful.
Yes, when the video ended I realised how intentional it was that they didn’t show a close up. Solfa consistently delivers high quality in all aspects of his work.
@@binboda Yes really, it was a good sensiblle touch to the video
yes agree, i felt guilty tho because kind of expecting them to show it. But this is good.
Awwwww.....yep
Bluilisht i love your profile picture :>
Nossa, gostei muito desse programa. É chocante e ao mesmo tempo, me faz refletir sobre mim mesma. Parabéns pela produção e, espero que todos fiquem bem.
Ss só queria ter entendido alguma coisa
Point is, everyone has insecurities. Embracing them, and being happy with who YOU are by being the best person YOU can be is what matters.
it’s not about picking the most “favorable” insecurity in the sense that youre dating the insecurity. this man finds that he identifies with one woman more based on her experiences in life, and that is how it should be anyways. hes not picking on her or picking on the others, hes just relating to her and bonding over something they can relate too. i think these women are grown up enough to know that he doesnt mean to pick on them by not relating to them. it’s not his fault he has similar experiences to one girl and not the others.
Thank you, someone who knows what this video was about. 🤝
Thank 👏 you 👏
exactly. he’s literally there to find someone *he* matches with/ bonds with. that’s the premise. like that’s exactly what they all signed up for. they’re all amazing and beautiful in their own ways, and just because they didn’t get with this guy, that doesn’t take away from their individuality and inner (and outer) beauty.
Thank you for saying this! I was like? People are missing the deeper meanings here
yes exactly!! i mean i can see the value in the comments critiquing about potentially worsening insecurities but it was a very interesting idea, and he never, ever made it seem like he was rejecting based on the favorability or whatever of insecurities, he was empathetic all the way through and picked the one he could relate to most.
the moment 7:04 those girls comforted each other makes me so sad and happy at the same time. They have struggled a lot and were hurt deeply by the society.
have a load of *this* society
That’s life. We all feel this way about something. It’s important to remember that about the people we meet
Ay, que triste. 🥺 Empecé a llorar al escuchar sus inseguridades, mi corazoncito.
i miss solfa's videos. odg is nice, but solfa's video concepts revolving around adults was more fun to watch.
The guy was so sweet when he said her voice doesn't sound rough.... also that was NOT rough AT ALL.
What's sad is that I bet she only believes it's rough because bullies couldn't find anything to tease her with, and chose to tease her with something she can't "truly" hear. When you hear your own voice, it's different from how others hear it, unless you listen to a recording of you speaking normally to someone.
@@TheGoldenDunsparce Yes thats what must have happened, also, everyone hates their voice so she must have beleived it as well!
If that’s rough then what’s my voice supposed to be seen as??
@@elephantpen2865 i know right..... lol they have no idea what rough even IS.
TheGoldenDunsparce oh my god, I can’t stand myself talking in recording I felt sooo guilty to people that have listened to my *really* ugly voice 😔
Everyone is so nice to each other. The guy was so genuine and polite and all the girls were so sweet to each other, holding hands and encouraging them through their insecurities. 😭💜
Yes that's how our human worked not different from other
that is korean people for you, they are so sweet , most of them.
That's cuz they're kr
SIMP
Jk
I felt connected with the third girl, there's something we share
Omg me to
Damnnnn same here
That's how I feel about the first girl
kinda same
yeah i really related to her for some reason
when she came out I was yelling YESSS bc she's so GORGEOUS OMG
Solfa is slowly making dark web content here.
Raka Rachmanda Putra 💀
Raka Rachmanda Putra fr 💀
Raka Rachmanda Putra 💀
Frr
Raka Rachmanda Putra fr 💀
WE NEED SERIES OF THIS AND LET PEOPLE LISTEN TO OTHERS. Let each other learn by listening to others' problems, this can be small therapy for them who need helps!
@@partlycloudy2526 A big stupid ugly ogre ?
@@JesusPerez-pe8vk You are the one that stupid. He is a very cute and beautiful green creature that bestowed us from the heavens. Shrek is love shrek is life.
@@exosproudmamabear558 ;-; how could i not see
영상 올려주세요ㅠㅜㅜㅜㅜ진짜 너무 재밌는 사회실험이여서 좋단말입니다ㅠㅠ
Este video y su mensaje es muy bueno. Me dieron ganas de llorar con las palabras de cada chica, y no me esperaba que el chico también hablara de sus inseguridades.
Más vídeos así por favor!
I feel like this would make me feel worse, talking about my insecurities and then being "rejected"
I'm not saying this is bad, but if I was there I would've been so scared.
@Busto Caponi Everyone has insecurities ? I don't see how caring about others' opinions on you is unattractive if anything it should make you more attractive because you're too scared about being disliked for one specific aspect...
Busto Caponi what if I said, people like u cause my insecurities?
Busto Caponi you cant just stop being insecure.Its hard freakin gosh your stupid
Busto Caponi you are the problem you are the problem this is why people have insecurities.If someone’s depressed would you just go up to them and say “oh being depressed is so unattractive”that’s just messed up seriously
I almost feel like this wasn't as much of a test to see who was the most "attractive" based on their insecurities, and rather who he could relate to the most and understand the most
Yas.
Yeah...? Rather obvious, I'd say. Also depends on your definition of "attractive" to begin with
@@sweetwheatsy jeeze why is there always someone like you in the comment. 'Isn't it obvious' like shh
@@perrytheplatypus5503 I know I came off rather aggressive, but I just don't really understand how the focus of the video would have been if it was about straight-up "attraction"; this format made it much less shallow
@@sweetwheatsy I think it's cause some people are talking about how the guy should've picked whomever and implying that he's blind dating in a way of who he finds more attractive rather than relatable. some ppl don't have a clear idea of the focus of the vid
#4 Definitely the right and best choice... well done brutha!
I think these types of videos are much more intense and valuable over the ones about makeup vs. without, because of the vulnerability and personality shared. You can find a match and go for coffee after the show after you match based on something trivial, but to choose someone to talk to based on their life so far helps build that bridge to connect with someone so much better.
just like a man said to her “if only you didn’t have that scar”, one said to me “if you didn’t have that mole you’d be perfect” which HURT
Ignore that, it's all BS, slight things like that make someone even more attractive because it sets you out as unique
Faithleap thank you so much! :(( that honestly means so much
Someone said this to me with my glasses...
People like that aren’t worth wasting time on because there are people out there that will love you and accept you for who you are and wouldn’t want to change a thing about you and those are the people that matter and are worth spending time on!
Bruh i got the same thing but I got a big forehead
this was terrifying at first but as the guy said, having them talk about their insecurities was really refreshing and made me feel good too? he responded really tactfully and i love the decision at the end not to show her full face (despite my curiosity), i think that was very respectful
@COMPLEX 8 Complex are u on drugs?
Yeah
@COMPLEX 8 Complex youtube isn't real life, chief. At least not for the majority of us.
COMPLEX 8 Complex Idk if you use your channel, but maybe it would be a good idea to start if you disagree with the way things are done in this platform. Or start your own thread to discuss the issues you see with the video/channel. It could create a much needed conversation about SK, others experiences there, etc. There is nothing wrong with constructive criticism as long as it’s productive and not accusatory. Anyway, I apologize for butting in and possibly interpreting things wrong, but the statement you made came off as really angry and hurt.
COMPLEX 8 Complex Why do y’all always gotta make it political?
It’s UA-cam, of course not everybody in South Korea acts like that.
I don’t think anybody is that dense to believe so.
You’re coming off very emotional and defensive which doesn’t make anyone want to consider your points because they’re hidden behind a shadow of, what appears to be, insecurity.
I don’t know you, but this isn’t the right way to approach constructive criticism.
Si llegó yo a estar hay me pegó 5h o mas diciendo inseguridades y defectos JAJAJAJAJ
X2 🐢
KAKAKAJAJAJAA LIT
JWVEKSHRKWKDKWKS YO
Solfa please upload vedios.... your content is amazing, honest, and ofcourse unique. We want more of these.
I think some people missed the point, one, they wouldn’t have signed up and talked about their insecurities if they weren’t comfortable talking about it. And two, the whole point is to normalize the fact that everyone has insecurities, and instead of it creating barriers, the vulnerable environment it creates can open up to a more deeper connection.
Yeah, you are totally right but maybe the 3 ladies felt bad even tho they didn't said anything about it (obviously knowing they accepted to talk about their insecurities) or maybe not
모두다 감춰왔던 내면의 낯을 꺼내어 아픔을 공감할수있는 소개팅 ..
첫외모 3초만으로 결정되는 기존 소개팅과는 전혀반대의 이야기 할수록 빠져드는 소개팅 정말 신박스....
그와중에도 외모를 궁금해하는 내모습을 보면 참 이중적이다. 하지만 사람이라 그렇지뭐
이런거보면 사람은 다 어렵고 달라보여도 누구나 같은거같다
He was very thoughtful and ended up coming off as likeable from this experience. Props to him and the girls for being so articulate and mature in this presentation, and to Solfa for providing critical and substantial content :)
저 영상 보면서 든게 4번 분이 아닌 다른 분들이 아웃(?)이랄까 선택 받지 못했을 때 기분이 어떠셨을까,,, 나 같으면 "역시나 내 컴플렉스가 이해받기가 힘들구나' 이런 생각이 들 것 같기도 하다. 부디 저 분들이 선택 받지 못하셨다는 것에 자신을 비난하시거나 자책하시지 않으셨음 좋겠다.
이 부분은 생각지도 못했는데 정말 그럴수도 있을것 같아서 걱정되네요 저는 개인적으로 네분 모두 공감이 갔고 이해가 됬었어요
Yes
@@sobrasadavegana lol
아 스포 ㅠㅠㅠ
Ok thx
I can’t even reject one of these girls if I’m in that guy’s place. I’ll feel bad rejecting a girl that told me their insecurities but,I won’t be there because I’ll probably be the one that’s wearing the mask lol
LOL SAME
Same
SAME BRUH
I'm late but I'll probably be the one watching the video:)
Same
Nossa gente, esse vídeo trás uma mensagem muito profunda !! Amei
3번분은 너무 기죽어 계신듯ㅜㅠㅜㅠㅠ 계속 눈을 밑으로 하시넹ㅠ 본인을 더 사랑해주시고 깍아내리지 않으시면 좋겠네요ㅜㅠ 본인 자신을 아껴주고 많이 사랑해주길 응원할게욥.!
그리고 다른 분들도 상처가 많은 분들이구나 라는 생각이 드네요ㅠ 트라우마가 생긴게 단지 자신 때문이 아닌 점들은 더 안타깝드라고요.. 이 영상의 분들이 아니여도 모두 꼭 트라우마를 이겨내시고 본인의 상처가 남아있을지라도 그 상처를 보듬어주고 수용하고 낫게 해주는 능력을 길러서 꼭 행복해지길 바래요..!! 다들 응원하겠습니다!
선택되지 않으신 세 분이 자신이 선택되지 않았다고 혹여나 마음 한 구석에 그것마저 트라우마로 남지 않았으면 좋겠다. 그 분들의 이야기를 듣지 않은 사람들과 공감해줄, 같이 헤쳐나갈 사람이 아직 앞에 나타나지 않았을 뿐이니,,
여성분의 얼굴이 공개된 후 단독적으로 원샷을 잡지 않은 게 참 인상 깊다... 단점을 파고 드려는 시점이 아니라 한발 물러서서 바라보는 앵글이 마음에 든다
와 맞네. 난 왜 여자 얼굴 안보여주노 이러고 있었는데 단점에 개한테 물린 흉터가 있었지 참ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 배려해준건가
@Prada Villain 나쁘게만 생각하지 않아도 되는게 얼굴을 영상 내내 가리다가 마지막에 짠하고 보여주니까 여성분의 외모랑 분위기에 대한 호기심과 궁금증은 당연히 드는것같아요
No hablo taka taka :v xD
ㅇㅈ
여자분 얼굴 궁금했는데...ㅜ
신선하면서도 긴장되면서도 공감되면서도 따뜻했습니다 ㅎ 좋으네요
It's so beautiful! How wholehearted the people and the the conversation were!
I really feel that the guy is genuinely listening to these women’s insecurities and trying his best to put himself in their shoes. He seemed so sweet i hope things go well between them ❤️
Walchen -_- :))))
Yeah
I trust My Days!!
johnny suh ! DUDE WHY HE KINDA LOOK LIKE MARK LEE SKSKSK
결과적으로 여성 참가자들의 얼굴에 대해 포커스가 맞춰진게 아닌 컴플렉스에 관한 심리적인 것에 초점이 맞춰졌다는게 인상깊었습니다. 예쁜 여성이나 잘생긴 남성의 노출을 통해 조회수를 노린 다른 영상과는 확연히 차이점이 느껴지네요.
좋은 영상 감사합니다
진짜
진짜 100% 공감
근데 남자 잘생김
제 수준에 대해 깊이 반성하고 갑니다.
잘생긴 남성은 있긴 하네요 ㅋㅋㅋ
남자 존나 무섭겠다 ㅋㅋㅋ
가면을 너무 무섭게했어....일부러 노린거같긴한데
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ진짵ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
자신의 콤플렉스를 가지고 이야기해줬는데 콤플렉스가 마음에 드는 사람 안 드는 사람으로 결정해버리면 탈락된 사람은 자신의 치부마저 모르는 사람의 마음에 들지 않는다고 안 좋은 생각에 빠질 듯. 나라면 그럴 거야 ㅜㅜㅜ뭐 물론 그런거 다 감안하고 신청 했겠지만
마지막에 여자분 옆모습만 찍은거 엄청 배려있는 것 같아요👍 사실 여자 분 얼굴 궁금했는데 어쩌면 저도 모르게 속으로 평가하려고 했던건 아닐까 반성하게 됩니다
와 진짜 저도요 순간 왜 안보여주지.. 란 생각을 했었네요
ㅇㄱㄹㅇ;;
왜 얼굴 안보여줘 하며 댓글내리다 반성하고감.
자신이 혐오스럽다
콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낮고 또 그 콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낡고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 날고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낳고 또 그콤퓰렉스가 콤퓰렉스를 낫고 또 그럼 걍 대출받으면서 살아라
I loved how supportive everyone was towards each other!!but after hearing their stories and struggles and trauma, I feel like my reason for being insecure is so insignificant because it is just a matter of "I'm not pretty enough" I really think everyone is beautiful both inside and out but they just have to find the confidence and their true selves...i don't know what I'm saying lol
I feel the same, I really understood what I wanted to talk about
It feels like a group therapy, I almost cried :(
When they said "annyeonghaseyo" all together I felt like it was some cult shit but it turned out really cute
namtiddies you're name...**snickers**
Is this a Joonie stan party?
damn army party
your pfp is cult shit tf
You’ve never heard people say hello all at once? That sounds a little racist bud
남성분 너무 바른 가치관을 가진 사람..ㅠㅠㅠ 진짜 착하다는게 느껴진다
그리고 성형 전 얼굴이던 성형 후 얼굴이던 다 본인의, 딱 하나밖에 없는 본인의 모습이니깐 그런 생각하지말아요 ㅠㅠ
자신이 겪어보았기에 더 올바른 가치관을 바로잡을수있었던것아닐까요?
진짜 저 남자분 인스타나 뭔가가 알고 싶어요 아시는 분
@@kiukium 그걸 왜 궁금한거지..
@@bongsupark9514 그럴수도 있징..
Eu quase chorei, meu Deus...
Sabe, se as pessoas fizessem mais isso o mundo não seria o mesmo.
Você é muito fofa, parabéns por pensar assim ฅ•ω•ฅ
The guy seems so pure and empathetic, I can feel that he is a good man
마지막에 여자분 가면 벗으시고 나서 얼굴 안 보여주시는 것까지 너무 인상 깊어요 최고다 증말ㅠ
그러게요
속으론 궁금하면서도 옆모습만 살짝 보여주니까 그게 더 좋은 거 같아요
마지막에 여성분 얼굴 나오겠지 생각했는데.. 음 뭔가 반성하게 되는군요
진짜 맞아요 이부분에서 진짜 세심하다고 생각했어요
오히려 궁금했던장면을 보지못했지만 더 마음이 따듯해지고 편안했어요
되게... 뭔가 열린결말 같은 느낌이네요 ㅎㅎ
많은 사람들은 자신의 단점을 감추기 위해 노력한다.
특히 이성과의 만남을 갖는 소개팅 자리에서는 더욱 노력한다.
화려한 옷, 가식적인 웃음으로 자신의 장점을 뽐낸다.
그러나 인연이 계속 되면서 결국 알게 되는 서로의 단점은 독이 될 수도 있다.
하지만 영상 속의 '컴플렉스 소개팅'은 일반적인 소개팅과는 다르다.
기본적인 통성명은 커녕 얼굴조차 보이지 않는다.
일반적인 소개팅처럼 장점만으로 자신을 나타내는 것이 아니라 단점만으로 자신을 나타낸다.
여자는 외모, 성격, 가치관에 나타나는 자신의 단점을 모조리 말한 후, 남자는 자신이 가장 공감하는 단점들을 가진 여자와 함께 한다.
이어지는 대화에서 둘은 각자의 컴플렉스에 대해 서로를 공감하며 이해한다.
이후 영상은 일반적인 소개팅의 형태가 된다.
기본적인 통성명을 시작하고 다시 서로에 대해서 알아간다.
이제 남은 것은 각자의 장점을 나타내는 일뿐이다.
와...이 영상의 핵심부분들을 너무 잘 적어주심👍 영상보고 이 댓글보니까 더 마음에 와닿는 영상😭
그러네요
유명한 유튜버 부부의 말이 생각나네요 처음 사람을 만날땐 내가 꿈꾸는 그사람을 좋아해서 만나지만 오랫동안 만나며 사랑을 거듭할수록 그사람자체를 인정하게 된다고요
으아아리가또 그 유튜버 부부가 누구신지 알려주실 수 있으신가요? 너무 멋진 말이어서 직접 보고 싶네요
대박이당.. 이제 남은 것은 각자의 장점을 나타내는 일뿐이라니... 이것보다 좋은 소개팅이 있을까요,,
Okay but can we talk about how the girl who has the scar sits so straight-
Like how?!
i thought they were gonna show everyone's face :( they didn't even show number 4 face closely
Ya same😞 but that was cuz her scar they didn’t wanna embarrass her