Idk why I all of a sudden got this Video in my recommended, but I love your energy and your self-awareness. I come to find out how few people actually have a kind of self-awareness, especially after arguments. And it helps me to think that my ex-girlfriend also did not reflect on what she said to me and what led to me breaking up with her. I try to practice self reflection once a day, where I think about how I felt and acted over the day and often I come to the conclusion that if I feel strong emotions, that I do and say things I wouldnt have done if I was more self-aware in the moment. Anyways, thank you and I love your video.
it's difficult to have the mindset that we are in this conflict together because it never was that way growing up.. it was always unsafe to bring anything up.. and also most people are emotionally immature and don't see it like this.. meaning the conscious party now has to reparent the other in the process, pulling through the conflict and being the solo calm rock that takes responsibility.. that is unfair! haha
@@heeiiii thank you so much for sharing so vulnerably. I know the feeling of not having this awareness modeled by parents or caretakers and that is also something you get to grieve. I also thought for a long time I had to reparent others but you don’t need to take responsibility for that and that’s a whole journey in itself. It’s hard to accept others as they are especially family but that’s why it’s good that we can choose our friends and choose people that meet us where we’re at. You deserve people you don’t need to manage. ♥️
Idk why I all of a sudden got this Video in my recommended, but I love your energy and your self-awareness. I come to find out how few people actually have a kind of self-awareness, especially after arguments. And it helps me to think that my ex-girlfriend also did not reflect on what she said to me and what led to me breaking up with her. I try to practice self reflection once a day, where I think about how I felt and acted over the day and often I come to the conclusion that if I feel strong emotions, that I do and say things I wouldnt have done if I was more self-aware in the moment.
Anyways, thank you and I love your video.
@@setoki2838 thank you for sharing about your journey and practice. That’s sounds powerful. I’m glad the video resonated. Sending you all the best ✨
it's difficult to have the mindset that we are in this conflict together because it never was that way growing up.. it was always unsafe to bring anything up.. and also most people are emotionally immature and don't see it like this.. meaning the conscious party now has to reparent the other in the process, pulling through the conflict and being the solo calm rock that takes responsibility.. that is unfair! haha
@@heeiiii thank you so much for sharing so vulnerably. I know the feeling of not having this awareness modeled by parents or caretakers and that is also something you get to grieve. I also thought for a long time I had to reparent others but you don’t need to take responsibility for that and that’s a whole journey in itself. It’s hard to accept others as they are especially family but that’s why it’s good that we can choose our friends and choose people that meet us where we’re at. You deserve people you don’t need to manage. ♥️