Ordinary Lives - Original Song

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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
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    Here's a song I wrote a while back about jealousy, insecurity, and setting high standards for myself. It's about coming to terms with all those emotions involved with not living up to your own expectations. I hope you enjoy it! Also check out the new oddities shelf in the background!
    Lyrics:
    All my friends from high school are living ordinary lives
    These mythic figures from my past
    There was so much competition just to learn how to survive
    We had to learn that nothing lasts
    All our dreams used to be endless
    like our energy and our time
    Powered by stupidity and feeling reckless
    Second guessing wasn't worth a dime
    Maybe I'm not meant for something big and that's fine
    And life isn't quite at all what I expected
    And it isn't all if they get theirs well then I can't get mine
    Their acceptance doesn't mean that I'm rejected
    Most people never have a calling
    They'll do whatever it is they fall into
    Or work with friends or family
    They’ll do whatever they're supposed to
    Do dreams die or change and become realistic
    we get happy with the little things we've got
    Each time we leave we get a little bit more homesick
    Because the little things start to mean a lot
    All the people that I love are living ordinary lives
    And why would I ever look down on that
    I'm Getting comfortable with just getting by
    finding my own happiness in that fact

КОМЕНТАРІ • 37

  • @thanetothefalseking332
    @thanetothefalseking332 2 місяці тому +2

    This deserves more views. Your lyrics are too beautifully melancholy to be buried. In particular, the lines, “Maybe I’m not meant for something big, and that’s fine, and life isn’t quite what I expected. It isn’t all ‘if they get theirs, well, then I can’t get mine’; their acceptance doesn’t mean that I’m rejected,” really spoke to me (and I’m sure to anyone who’s ever caught themselves rating their own success against others’).

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  2 місяці тому +1

      @@thanetothefalseking332 thank you! I'm always happy to hear when my lyrics resonate with others. That phrase you quoted in particular is very important to me as well, and it's really the crux of the song.

    • @coyets
      @coyets Місяць тому +1

      I was browsing aimlessly through UA-cam, and this song suddenly made me sit up. How it reflects my thoughts and feelings!

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  Місяць тому

      @coyets I'm glad you could connect with it!

  • @Bill2226
    @Bill2226 8 місяців тому +1

    these mythic figures from my past

  • @user-zn4is8no7z
    @user-zn4is8no7z 9 місяців тому +3

    I can definitely relate to a lot of these lyrics, especially about people in your past being like spectres, but expectations can be like that as well. Like broken promises, they can cling to our souls like rusty chains that we carry with us. Sometimes, we need to let go of _what might have been_ or _what was_, and instead, embrace and reflect on _what is_.

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  9 місяців тому +3

      This is really well put. I feel like I get caught up a lot in either dwelling on what might have been or projecting into the future. Trying to live in the present is a process for me.

    • @user-zn4is8no7z
      @user-zn4is8no7z 9 місяців тому +1

      @@liahavlena Me too. A good song about this is Smell The Flowers by Jerry Reed. I'd recommend it for just this purpose. Hey, btw, keep up the good work. You kinda inspire me to start playing guitar again.

  • @JayKoostix
    @JayKoostix 9 місяців тому +1

    Love how relatable this is Lia, your voice is amazing by the way❤

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  9 місяців тому +2

      Thank you! I appreciate the kind words!

    • @JayKoostix
      @JayKoostix 9 місяців тому +1

      @@liahavlena ❤️❤️❤️

  • @zakkfedak
    @zakkfedak 8 місяців тому +1

    Stupendous. Share yr thoughts, etc. Glad you're writing and singing. The world's better with you in it.

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks man! I sure appreciate it!

  • @maryoliver8247
    @maryoliver8247 9 місяців тому +2

    I really like this one

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  9 місяців тому +1

      Thanks so much! ❤️

  • @TheMiura
    @TheMiura 9 місяців тому +1

    We are all our own worst enemy, great song.

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  9 місяців тому +2

      Right? Thanks for listening!

  • @Andy-il7kf
    @Andy-il7kf 9 місяців тому +1

    Nuanced, insightful songwriting 😊

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  9 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much!

  • @michaelyoung7974
    @michaelyoung7974 9 місяців тому +1

    I'm glad to be in on the ground floor of a new one. The philosophy of his song is refreshing.

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  9 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for listening! Glad you like it!

  • @TEXASREDD76
    @TEXASREDD76 9 місяців тому +1

    Amazing song , really mature take

  • @jameshuman1753
    @jameshuman1753 8 місяців тому +1

    Ok song cover ideas: Going to georgia, going to Alaska, going to Scotland, going to port washington... wait those are all mountain goats songs. Or going to _______ an original, im positive it wouldn't disappoint.

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  8 місяців тому +1

      Sounds like i need to start traveling more lol

  • @1960davedan
    @1960davedan 9 місяців тому +2

    Lovely song - well written. Great guitar playing and fantastic voice - as ever. Keep at it Lia - you are a star.

  • @wayne00k
    @wayne00k 9 місяців тому +1

    Hey Lia - that was wonderful! Absolutely lovely :) thanks for sharing this - one that I'll have on my playlist
    Cheers

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  8 місяців тому +1

      Thanks for listening!

  • @matsnilsson1167
    @matsnilsson1167 9 місяців тому +1

    Great song and great voice. As always. Keep up the good work. Greetings from Sweden!

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  9 місяців тому +2

      Thanks man! Hope you're doing well!

  • @jameshuman1753
    @jameshuman1753 9 місяців тому +1

    Omg I just doomscrolled Facebook to ruin my self esteem last week. This song rings true great job as always Lia! (My motto for the year has been be ok with it being ok so I effin hear ya)

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  9 місяців тому +1

      That's a good motto to have!

  • @kabaleskus
    @kabaleskus 9 місяців тому +1

    Lyrics really ring true with time. Great piece.
    Also -- seems that guitar is a bit buzzy on 5th string 3rd fret. High humidity area?

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  9 місяців тому +1

      You know it! It's been nothing but humid here for like a week.

  • @master_roshi8849
    @master_roshi8849 9 місяців тому +2

    Keep rocking girl! Request, whistle stop Roger Miller? You perfect for old school folk/outlaw

    • @liahavlena
      @liahavlena  8 місяців тому +1

      I'll check it out!