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A lot times men will lead with saying they are Christian, but their actions will reflect otherwise. Sex and being manipulative with multiple women is common in the dating pool in todays society.
It’s so ghetto out here and dudes don’t believe you when you say you’re honoring God with your body. Especially for me since I do have a child. My child is the reason why I ran back to God and chose his ways over mine! But they also make it very easy to keep it pushing. Bc that’s nonnegotiable.
I figured out, before I ever married, that whenever I sinned, I would talk myself into it. I would literally rationalize until my thoughts aligned with my fleshly desires! So, do you know how I learned to put my flesh down? I started "talking myself out of it" with the Word of The Lord!
I really appreciate these men of GOD talking about what GOD requires and that He's able to help the men of GOD do and be what He called them to. IT IS POSSIBLE with Him
You right the word of God says that's the number one thing he said he desires you can do anything that God tell you to do if you want him to help you he will help you if you don't he won't
We shouldn't have to ask men if they're willing to abstain. But there are men claiming to be Christian who will act like when we bring it up that we just asked them to solve am impossible equation. To many of us true believers it's a no brainer but apparently some of us may not be serving or talking about the same Jesus. 🤷🏾♀️😅
There are women out here on the same mindset, we can't just put it all on men. When I moved to Georgia, the women were the ones coming after me for sex. I was trying to date and see where it will go.
I'm not sure what you mean by myth? I know plenty of women who are celibate. Bru, know them by their fruit. Fruit ain't growing in the strip club😂@theronwright1413
I appreciate this and especially the part about seeing yourself as a prize. I really compromised myself because of justifications and feeling like i have to be what she wants. I hold myself accountable for letting someone pressure me or guilt me I believe its possible to abstain till marriage. It just seems like some of these women don't
We represent Christ to godly people staying holy and the sight of God is representing Christ we have to show the world how to do this thing we are supposed to be the example that's why He said die to self I know it doesn't sound easy but we can do all things through Christ
In this culture it's a fight, especially growing up seeing kids move fast in junior high and high school, pron is introduced and then college you get free reign. Leaning on God is a must when courting and staying away from situations that can jam you up.
I’ve encountered guys who don’t believe in honoring God with their body but are attracted to people like me who do believe in it (and these are guys who believe in God). I’ve had to make compromises in a previous relationship that ultimately ended because I kept expressing my desire to please God. He was God fearing in every aspect but sex - he was even concerned about the rapture and being sin free but wasn’t concerned about honoring God with his body, which was confusing to me.. It was like he actively blocked out not having sex from his brain. It’s painful because I’m sad for displeasing God and I feel like I can’t marry or have a relationship because no one wants to honor God the way he commands
It's a lot of guys who want to be holy, it's not just women who want to go to heaven, wait on God before you start dating and he will lead the right guy to you
You not weak men but your relationship with God is weak, because when you're strong in the Lord and in the power of His might you can stand anything because your mind and heart love for God above anything.💯
I just met a guy who had graduated from Bible college got his degree in the New testament, teaches men's bible study and discipleship at his church. But he told me that he could not meet my standards of waiting until we get married. So I stopped talking to him completely. How disappointing that was for me!!!! You would think a guy that graduated from Bible college would have convictions especially in that area. I mean you just see him at a higher standard. And not even he is abstaining. He just kept saying wow wow 😳. He couldn't believe that I practice celibacy. I thought I had hit the jackpot by the way😂🎉😂
It really is disappointing. Sis, I'm so proud of you for not settling. As a 37 year old woman... it's hard to meet a man who truly has the fruit of the spirit.
If you want God's best you got to give him your best bottom line you settle don't cry about what you get I want God's best and if that has to mean I got to wait for years that I don't want to wait then I wait Deuteronomy 28
Where are the so-called Christian men trust in the Lord first of all do you trust in and believe that God LED you to be with this woman if you can lay down with her she ain't yours because God tells you to wait you're cheating on God first so if you're faithful to God you can be faithful to the person you marry if you cannot be faithful to God before you marry and lay down before you marry you cannot be faithful to your spouse for future spouse
When you don't do it God's way you're just cheating yourself it may be fun and feel good for the moment but in the end you missing something way more glorious and way more valuable hindering it and delaying it
The Bible has a scripture the Bible has the scripture also for men like proverbs 31 for women, where it says who can find a faithful man, 👉🏾( Proverbs 20:6-7) just like who can find a faithful woman (Proverbs 31:10-15)
Don't put yourself in temptation way is what you're saying and don't put her in a testing spot either when you feel a little itching going on you say it's time for me to leave if she should have the same attitude if she's around you
Your not respecting women when you know as a Christian man you should be saying to the women who’s down God doesn’t want that for you You can’t abstain cause you’re not in the word not in his presence. The answer didn’t change b/c of your age the era We know but we don’t know and we don’t know why
Whatever happened to praying for God's strength in self-control seeking God to do what he calls you to do that don't even seem to come into play in the thought of these men and even some of these women but that's what it's about you put your hope and trust in God to carry you through that he ain't going to call you to do something that you can't do he said we can do all things through Christ that strengthens us bull crap with these lines talking about I can't do that you don't want to do that you can be kept if you want to be kept God will keep you but if you don't want to be kept you won't be kept bottom line boom 💥
With men I think they’re missing accountability. Also, if we keep it 1000 there are not many men in church. I live in DC and a great deal of men do not go to church would actually say the majority.
One of the problems in the church is, sexuality isn’t addressed. When it is, it’s coming from someone who is going to share a bed with their spouse. A lot of times when a man says no, he’s perceived to be gay.
We don't have no right and no excuses of why we don't hold ourselves down we know God says do not fornicate do not commit adultery do not lust after another woman do not lust after any woman even if you ain't got a woman God say don't lust after you look upon a woman and lust after her you committed adultery you didn't say if you was married or not they ain't your woman and he said you're committing adultery or I would say fornication if you single in your heart already
I don't understand the obsession with Christian men and their willingness or non willingness to have sex before marriage. If you aren't gonna keep that same energy with unforgiveness, gossip, divorce (as something everyone seems to give a pass to), drunkenness, idolatry, etc. Then stay quiet. So much judgment and condemnation. Y'all need to let people's journey be their journey and their understanding their understanding. In these things called sin, there are often many deep levels that will only make sense to you and God.
Yeah those fake Christian guys that'll put Jesus on the back burner when it comes to sex but if you truly fear God and love God with all your heart nope no problem I want God's best so I'm giving him my best
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A lot times men will lead with saying they are Christian, but their actions will reflect otherwise. Sex and being manipulative with multiple women is common in the dating pool in todays society.
It’s so ghetto out here and dudes don’t believe you when you say you’re honoring God with your body. Especially for me since I do have a child. My child is the reason why I ran back to God and chose his ways over mine! But they also make it very easy to keep it pushing. Bc that’s nonnegotiable.
@@mijahburns94 congratulations! 👏🏿
💯💯💯 It's not easy out here especially if you're a single parent.
Amen!!!!
Thank you fellas being honest.
We need more Godly men with standards.
Anthony 'sneakum and freakum" Oneal. 😆😆😆😆 I'm loving this podcast - very good topic.
Most men don’t respect it, they just see it as a challenge 🙂↔️
Most Christian men?
I figured out, before I ever married, that whenever I sinned, I would talk myself into it. I would literally rationalize until my thoughts aligned with my fleshly desires! So, do you know how I learned to put my flesh down? I started "talking myself out of it" with the Word of The Lord!
@@mr.dennis5503 this comment rt here 🤌🏽
I really appreciate these men of GOD talking about what GOD requires and that He's able to help the men of GOD do and be what He called them to. IT IS POSSIBLE with Him
Exactly. This is sorely needed for men and women who claim to be Christians.
Yes, very frustrating for us single christian girls
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You right the word of God says that's the number one thing he said he desires you can do anything that God tell you to do if you want him to help you he will help you if you don't he won't
We shouldn't have to ask men if they're willing to abstain. But there are men claiming to be Christian who will act like when we bring it up that we just asked them to solve am impossible equation. To many of us true believers it's a no brainer but apparently some of us may not be serving or talking about the same Jesus. 🤷🏾♀️😅
There are women out here on the same mindset, we can't just put it all on men. When I moved to Georgia, the women were the ones coming after me for sex. I was trying to date and see where it will go.
Big facts . It’s a myth that Christian women be pure a lot of them be putting on a front
@@dewoynesmith so true brother!
I'm not sure what you mean by myth? I know plenty of women who are celibate. Bru, know them by their fruit. Fruit ain't growing in the strip club😂@theronwright1413
It's good to call out the "Christian" women who refuse to wait, too. Anybody calling themselves a Christian and refusing to wait is suspect to me.
Which women though - were they actual Christians?
I appreciate this and especially the part about seeing yourself as a prize. I really compromised myself because of justifications and feeling like i have to be what she wants. I hold myself accountable for letting someone pressure me or guilt me
I believe its possible to abstain till marriage. It just seems like some of these women don't
We represent Christ to godly people staying holy and the sight of God is representing Christ we have to show the world how to do this thing we are supposed to be the example that's why He said die to self I know it doesn't sound easy but we can do all things through Christ
Thanks Guys for having the conversation
Thank you!
We need more of these conversations! This is good bro!
Great discussion! 🙏🏾
In this culture it's a fight, especially growing up seeing kids move fast in junior high and high school, pron is introduced and then college you get free reign. Leaning on God is a must when courting and staying away from situations that can jam you up.
Ima be real ! It’s a lot of Christian women with it as well
True! I think that's why they added the part on accountability and leadership
True 😂😂😂
It's hard out here 😩
Don’t give up! Keep praying
Keep going
Is there a reason why you put Lacrae in the thumbnail in red with fire like he's going to hell? Tad click baity :/
I’ve encountered guys who don’t believe in honoring God with their body but are attracted to people like me who do believe in it (and these are guys who believe in God). I’ve had to make compromises in a previous relationship that ultimately ended because I kept expressing my desire to please God. He was God fearing in every aspect but sex - he was even concerned about the rapture and being sin free but wasn’t concerned about honoring God with his body, which was confusing to me.. It was like he actively blocked out not having sex from his brain. It’s painful because I’m sad for displeasing God and I feel like I can’t marry or have a relationship because no one wants to honor God the way he commands
It's a lot of guys who want to be holy, it's not just women who want to go to heaven, wait on God before you start dating and he will lead the right guy to you
@@thulani2640 thanks for the encouragement
You not weak men but your relationship with God is weak, because when you're strong in the Lord and in the power of His might you can stand anything because your mind and heart love for God above anything.💯
Thanks!
Thank you 🙏🏽
That’s right do it for you man of God
Amen on that
You a💯🎯 you should be a prize to two prizes coming together is a present 🎁
“I’m a reformed thot” 😭😭 we love the honesty!!
There is a Christian woman by the name of Juli Slattery, great information.
That’s right
7:04 yeah thats true. We need help for real.
I just met a guy who had graduated from Bible college got his degree in the New testament, teaches men's bible study and discipleship at his church. But he told me that he could not meet my standards of waiting until we get married. So I stopped talking to him completely. How disappointing that was for me!!!! You would think a guy that graduated from Bible college would have convictions especially in that area. I mean you just see him at a higher standard. And not even he is abstaining. He just kept saying wow wow 😳. He couldn't believe that I practice celibacy. I thought I had hit the jackpot by the way😂🎉😂
Wow!! So very disappointing.
@@joymosley8997
Which Bible college
Really Bro. God is not going to judge him for checking to see if she a natural born woman with a real womb in THESE DAYS MANKIND😂😅
😂@@kathleenking47
It really is disappointing. Sis, I'm so proud of you for not settling. As a 37 year old woman... it's hard to meet a man who truly has the fruit of the spirit.
If you want God's best you got to give him your best bottom line you settle don't cry about what you get I want God's best and if that has to mean I got to wait for years that I don't want to wait then I wait Deuteronomy 28
You just have to not. Therefore repent and turn to Jesus and His gift of righteousness.
1 Corinthians 6:9-11
Revelation 21:8
1 John 3:7-8
How about men God wants this for you too respect God and Respect yourself
@@barbarasmith1110 and, if nothing more: I don’t want to go to hell!
Courthouse
Where are the so-called Christian men trust in the Lord first of all do you trust in and believe that God LED you to be with this woman if you can lay down with her she ain't yours because God tells you to wait you're cheating on God first so if you're faithful to God you can be faithful to the person you marry if you cannot be faithful to God before you marry and lay down before you marry you cannot be faithful to your spouse for future spouse
That's those nick cannon type of man's
When you don't do it God's way you're just cheating yourself it may be fun and feel good for the moment but in the end you missing something way more glorious and way more valuable hindering it and delaying it
The Bible has a scripture the Bible has the scripture also for men like proverbs 31 for women, where it says who can find a faithful man, 👉🏾( Proverbs 20:6-7) just like who can find a faithful woman (Proverbs 31:10-15)
Don't put yourself in temptation way is what you're saying and don't put her in a testing spot either when you feel a little itching going on you say it's time for me to leave if she should have the same attitude if she's around you
Your not respecting women when you know as a Christian man you should be saying to the women who’s down God doesn’t want that for you
You can’t abstain cause you’re not in the word not in his presence.
The answer didn’t change b/c of your age the era
We know but we don’t know and we don’t know why
Whatever happened to praying for God's strength in self-control seeking God to do what he calls you to do that don't even seem to come into play in the thought of these men and even some of these women but that's what it's about you put your hope and trust in God to carry you through that he ain't going to call you to do something that you can't do he said we can do all things through Christ that strengthens us bull crap with these lines talking about I can't do that you don't want to do that you can be kept if you want to be kept God will keep you but if you don't want to be kept you won't be kept bottom line boom 💥
With men I think they’re missing accountability. Also, if we keep it 1000 there are not many men in church. I live in DC and a great deal of men do not go to church would actually say the majority.
One of the problems in the church is, sexuality isn’t addressed. When it is, it’s coming from someone who is going to share a bed with their spouse. A lot of times when a man says no, he’s perceived to be gay.
No not taking nobody’s husband That’s not Godly
We don't have no right and no excuses of why we don't hold ourselves down we know God says do not fornicate do not commit adultery do not lust after another woman do not lust after any woman even if you ain't got a woman God say don't lust after you look upon a woman and lust after her you committed adultery you didn't say if you was married or not they ain't your woman and he said you're committing adultery or I would say fornication if you single in your heart already
I don't understand the obsession with Christian men and their willingness or non willingness to have sex before marriage. If you aren't gonna keep that same energy with unforgiveness, gossip, divorce (as something everyone seems to give a pass to), drunkenness, idolatry, etc. Then stay quiet. So much judgment and condemnation. Y'all need to let people's journey be their journey and their understanding their understanding. In these things called sin, there are often many deep levels that will only make sense to you and God.
Yeah those fake Christian guys that'll put Jesus on the back burner when it comes to sex but if you truly fear God and love God with all your heart nope no problem I want God's best so I'm giving him my best
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