You can Change the Negative Life & Create a Positive Family! Dr V S Jithendra

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  • Опубліковано 3 гру 2024
  • How to Stop the flow of toxicity in the family and change the way we live!
    Courses offer: www.psychology...
    இந்த சேனலில் வரும் வீடியோக்களை வழங்குபவர் வா.சீ.ஜிதேந்திரா. இவர் உளவியல் நிபுணரும் தலைமை பயிற்சியாளருமாவார். உளவியலில் 10 ஆண்டுகள் அனுபவம் கொண்டவரும் உளவியலில் முதுகலை பட்டம் பெற்றவரும் ஆவார்.
    www.drvsj.com
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  • @nagalakshmi6804
    @nagalakshmi6804 3 місяці тому +36

    Sir,
    வாழ்த்துகள். உங்கள் காணொளிகள் என் மனதை சில நேரங்களில் அமைதிப் படுத்தியது, சில நேரங்களில் நல்வழி காட்டியது, சில நேரங்களில் தவறுகளை சரி செய்தது, சில நேரங்களில் தைரியமூட்டியது. சில நேரங்களில் ஆறுதல் வழங்கியது. இந்த முறை உங்களுக்கு நன்றி கூறுவதோடு உங்கள் தாய்க்கும் தந்தைக்கும் மனதார நன்றி கூறுகிறேன். உங்கள் சேவை மேன்மேலும் தொடர வாழ்த்துகள். இறைவன் அருள் என்றென்றும் தங்களுக்குக் கிடைக்கட்டும்.

  • @muaadh6433
    @muaadh6433 3 місяці тому +13

    Brooh unga videos pathu pathu enda life eh maarii nalle nelamaki vandhuru brooo,,🫂 and 30 days serious enda life la neraye help panru brooh and na orru month ku munnuka week celery 7500 eduthutu idha ipo week celery 30000 ku mela edukra broooh and love from Sri Lanka 🇱🇰 enda age 18 ahdhu and your My guru 🫂❣️

  • @Jo-12-
    @Jo-12- 2 місяці тому +3

    1) Treat everyone as adults.
    2) Equal respect
    3) Responsibility
    4) Listening
    5) Logical
    6) Honesty
    7) Open discussion
    8) Respect in choices

  • @mangaiyarkarasi-i1t
    @mangaiyarkarasi-i1t 2 місяці тому +3

    உண்மையில் இந்த பதிவு ஒரு விழிப்புணர்வு ஏற்படுத்தும்.மிகவும் நன்றி

  • @enni_thuniga807
    @enni_thuniga807 2 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Jitendra. I dont know how to measure the amount of impact that my life has because of your guidance. Your videos have been my place to search for clarity. This video has reached me at right time in my life like many other videos of yours. I am very glad that such perspectives are being shared in tamil. Its so easy for me to understand it. I am very grateful. I will keep sharing about your quality content with my fellow human beings. Keep up your work. Particularly on family and relationships, please do more videos.❤
    By Sivaranjini,
    Your long term follower

  • @jothivels9817
    @jothivels9817 3 місяці тому +3

    வாழ்த்துக்கள் சார்,
    நிச்சயமாக உங்களுடைய இந்த பயணத்தில் நாங்கள் மிகுந்த பயன்களையே அடைந்துள்ளோம்..
    மிக்க நன்றி சார்

  • @sakthim7973
    @sakthim7973 2 місяці тому +1

    Now a days you are my part of life . I found the solution for my all problem through your viedio s

  • @cutecute3203
    @cutecute3203 3 місяці тому +3

    வரே வா வணக்கம் Dr. Sir,
    இவளோ பெரிய சிக்கலை தீர்க்க, சிரிச்சிகிட்டே என்னை அழ வைத்தீர்கள், மிக்க நன்றி sir, இப்போ எங்கிருந்து இதை start செய்து எங்குட்டு போய் முடிக்க முடியும் என்று தெரியல,,,
    😰😨😰😯

  • @sivakami7354
    @sivakami7354 3 місяці тому +4

    வாழ்த்துகள் sir!
    பதின் வயது பிள்ளைகளை வளர்க்கும் பெற்றோர்க்கு மிகவும் பயன் தரும் வீடியோ.

  • @chinnagopal6766
    @chinnagopal6766 3 місяці тому +8

    A Honest Opinion as a 19 year old Boy! (A Dedicated Comment for People near in my Age as Single 🥰)!
    In My Opinion :
    This Video is really very very Great 😃!
    But sadly we can't able to expect from others 😎 (including Family)!
    So we have to possess Self Love and Expect from People who is worthy for it 🥰!
    If Family isn't give you the Love, Respect ☺️! Please make sure 😃, you are worthy for Love and Respect 🥰!
    So Husband and Wife or Romantic Long term love ❤ is the first basic step for strong Family 😃!
    Sadly our Parents are Narcissists where they can't able to accept our intention 😎!
    So if they're Provider and Creator of us means 😃!
    Let us just Love and Respect them with zero expectations, No need any Tolerance 🥰 just be emotionally detached for their Actions and also be assertive and resistance for their Criticisms and actions 😌🔥!
    And choose Future Partner's Character and internal Values with you're expectations!
    Not in Imposing Manner 😃 but with Like Minded Nurturing Manner 🥰!
    Then you will create a Non Narcissistic or Misogynistic Family with lot of Love 🥰!
    Where Open Communication with Respect and Love towards each others will be flawless 😃! We will make sure to pass, 🥰 that which our parents failed to do 😏! 😍🤩☺️🥰

  • @manjulasree6870
    @manjulasree6870 3 місяці тому +4

    வாய்க்கு வந்ததை எல்லாம் பேசி விடுகிறோம் ஆனால் அதில் எத்தனை விஷயங்களை பார்க்க வேண்டியுள்ளது மிக மிக நன்றி அண்ணா

  • @RamayeeValliappan-gj5gu
    @RamayeeValliappan-gj5gu 3 місяці тому +1

    இந்த காணொளியை தனியாக பார்ப்பதை விட குடும்பமாக பார்ப்பது (கேட்பது) நல்லது என்று நினைக்கிறேன். நன்றி Dr.

  • @ashnstrings1054
    @ashnstrings1054 3 місяці тому +2

    Sir, Infedelity pathi oru video...inga ella relationship layum idhu oru periya problem due to social media and lack of gratitude

  • @chokkalingammuthu3861
    @chokkalingammuthu3861 3 місяці тому +19

    என்னை சுட்ரி உள்ள கணவன் மனைவி அனைவரும் சகித்துக் கொண்டே வாழ்கின்றனர். ௭ண் தாய் தந்தை ௨ட்பட

  • @chinnagopal6766
    @chinnagopal6766 3 місяці тому +1

    Happy 10th Anniversary Thalaiva 🥰!

  • @tubekanda
    @tubekanda 3 місяці тому +1

    அருமையான காணொளி,👌👌 வாழ்த்துக்கள், for 10th anniversary.. 🌹❤

  • @chakravarthi1853
    @chakravarthi1853 2 місяці тому

    tip to maintain lovable family
    1..treat children adult
    respect your children
    invite your children's opinion when you do mistakes
    hear your children's opinion
    make the time time to your children opinion
    if you say no to your children proposal , explain logical reason why you reject your children proposal,,
    be honesty ,, some time tell the bitter truth to your family
    2,,, discus all topic openly with your family
    3,,,respect your family member choice

  • @manikandarajan9387
    @manikandarajan9387 2 місяці тому

    Omg this is such an important video for me who's living with my father and facing all issues mentioned. I was trying to convey this to my father but couldn't but you gave a clear cut framework. Thank you sir! Doing this alone will lead to peace and harmony in home and family life!

  • @subhadrapandu4629
    @subhadrapandu4629 2 місяці тому +1

    Insightful sir🎉

  • @Priyanka18567
    @Priyanka18567 3 місяці тому

    Happy teacher's day jii ❤️💫
    Your guidance and mentorship have been invaluable✨ Mikka nandri aiyaa 🙏🏻

  • @sunsiva4005
    @sunsiva4005 2 місяці тому

    அருமையான பதிவு Dr🎉 thank you so much for your wonderful contributions to the society.. stay blessed

  • @Sai-id6vq
    @Sai-id6vq 2 місяці тому

    Hi bro, i have one request. The dark psychology series was amazing and useful. Please try to make more videos about dark psychology.

  • @Sai-id6vq
    @Sai-id6vq 2 місяці тому

    One more request is please try to make video about the law of human psychology by Robert greenen

  • @Mr.Manikandan-z7l
    @Mr.Manikandan-z7l 2 місяці тому

    1 watch your video from you start youtbe chennel till now i see only +ve words godbless you

  • @Jo-12-
    @Jo-12- 2 місяці тому

    Thank you doctor

  • @gvthabalasanmugam9031
    @gvthabalasanmugam9031 3 місяці тому +1

    Congratulations for 10 th anniversary sir big fan of you 😊😊😊

  • @bhadusha6845
    @bhadusha6845 14 днів тому

    Thank you

  • @rajeswarithiyagu5499
    @rajeswarithiyagu5499 2 місяці тому

    True words👍

  • @samicart4105
    @samicart4105 3 місяці тому

    Happy teachers day na 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @BlackSwanClan
    @BlackSwanClan 2 місяці тому

    Doctor, you have to keep this appropriate playlist. I don't think people will understand the title and content mutually. Cuz if I wanna revisit your it will be difficult to find the video

  • @fishingchennai
    @fishingchennai 3 місяці тому +1

    Vaalthukal sir❤

  • @KARTHIKG-q7q
    @KARTHIKG-q7q 3 місяці тому

    மிக அருமையான பதிவு சார். மிக்க நன்றி 🎉

  • @vijaykumarramaswamy7464
    @vijaykumarramaswamy7464 2 місяці тому

    Bro matured crystal clear thoughts

  • @durkadevi164
    @durkadevi164 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks Sir Thank you so much

  • @RR-0301
    @RR-0301 2 місяці тому

    Super topic very useful

  • @alagu-en3ft
    @alagu-en3ft 2 місяці тому

    Thankyou sir👍

  • @Mr.Manikandan-z7l
    @Mr.Manikandan-z7l 2 місяці тому

    best advice to live happly

  • @manivannannarayanaswamy3867
    @manivannannarayanaswamy3867 3 місяці тому

    Congratulations for your 10th anniversary thank you for your all videos very useful to all

  • @suventhansuven6183
    @suventhansuven6183 2 місяці тому

    Thanks sir

  • @jayabharathy9295
    @jayabharathy9295 3 місяці тому

    நல்ல பதிவு நன்றிகள்

  • @AkumaresanKumaresan
    @AkumaresanKumaresan 2 місяці тому

    nice sir

  • @vennilas2263
    @vennilas2263 3 місяці тому

    I like your speech na fine

  • @sakthim7973
    @sakthim7973 2 місяці тому

    Your viedio is guiding me

  • @devis2747
    @devis2747 2 місяці тому

    Very useful video. Thank you Dr.

  • @madhankumar7174
    @madhankumar7174 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for the video sir

  • @menakachinnusamy831
    @menakachinnusamy831 3 місяці тому

    Most needed video for my life at the moment...

  • @venkadeshwaran8074
    @venkadeshwaran8074 3 місяці тому

    Congrats sir for 10th year Anniversary 🎉

  • @senthilkumar6973
    @senthilkumar6973 3 місяці тому

    Congratulations sir for 10th Anniversary 🎉

  • @PJay099
    @PJay099 3 місяці тому

    Much needed topic to shift the thought process, Many Thanks for changing lives 🙏🏻
    Sir, a kind request-the background music is a bit distracting and makes it harder to fully absorb the valuable content you're sharing. If you feel the same, please consider adjusting it. Thank you

  • @Umamaheswari-z5r
    @Umamaheswari-z5r 3 місяці тому

    Congratulations🎉🥳👏😊❤sir❤❤

  • @facilitator-Jagannehru
    @facilitator-Jagannehru 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Master

  • @Param20-20
    @Param20-20 3 місяці тому

    Thank you sir🎉🎉

  • @NisackNisack
    @NisackNisack 3 місяці тому

    Good topic

  • @j.kasthurij.kasthuri3781
    @j.kasthurij.kasthuri3781 3 місяці тому

    Congratulations 👏🎉 10th Anniversary Your channel Universe like ❤ channel ❤❤

  • @kalaisekar6734
    @kalaisekar6734 3 місяці тому

    Thank you sir 🙏

  • @Ravikumar-iv2xe
    @Ravikumar-iv2xe 3 місяці тому

    Vanakkam Master

  • @manimegalai6983
    @manimegalai6983 3 місяці тому

    Super vedio sir

  • @SaraK-g3g
    @SaraK-g3g 3 місяці тому

    Nice

  • @sureshramasamy4997
    @sureshramasamy4997 3 місяці тому

    Need this video today life

  • @SelvaKumar-t4l
    @SelvaKumar-t4l 3 місяці тому

    சூப்பர் ஈகோ எப்படி பயன்படு ஐயா காணொளி கிடைக்குமா சூப்பர் ஈகோ என்ன இருக்கா இல்லையா தெளிவுபடுத்துங்கள் ஐயா

  • @aravindanandan
    @aravindanandan 3 місяці тому

    Excellent video. Thank you Dr

  • @SrinivasanSrinivasan-nc3rz
    @SrinivasanSrinivasan-nc3rz 3 місяці тому

    Anna super 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 1:17

  • @Ravikumar-iv2xe
    @Ravikumar-iv2xe 3 місяці тому

    The great journey of ten years congratulations sir

  • @j.kasthurij.kasthuri3781
    @j.kasthurij.kasthuri3781 3 місяці тому

    Very clear explanation My family la follow sir

  • @t.kugathas9956
    @t.kugathas9956 3 місяці тому

    Most important sir . thank you

  • @scopis
    @scopis 2 місяці тому

    Useful topic and great approaches! Thank You Dr.

  • @ilakkiyasiva3607
    @ilakkiyasiva3607 3 місяці тому

    Super Anna
    Thank u very much

  • @nayarkumar5140
    @nayarkumar5140 3 місяці тому

    Your video is my motivation

  • @sumathrak1857
    @sumathrak1857 3 місяці тому

    Excellent e

  • @surfvasanth
    @surfvasanth 3 місяці тому

    Great content. Your words are enriching my life Sir 🎉 thank you for your great work

  • @samuvenkat3442
    @samuvenkat3442 3 місяці тому

    Excellent sir

  • @esai3411
    @esai3411 3 місяці тому

    Super 👍

  • @Raw-bl5gn
    @Raw-bl5gn 3 місяці тому

    Tq Dr

  • @VDharmanDS
    @VDharmanDS 3 місяці тому

    Super ❤❤

  • @anithasekar7244
    @anithasekar7244 3 місяці тому

    You can change negative cycle be positive in life ~i have to tolerate my parents, frds, relatives nobody is wrong, how to talk important mindset shift I love my family 👪Treat everyone as adults, family la no problem, Adult def @ Respect them feelings choices u accept or not, Both parents and children analyse equal respect 🎉Responsibility 🎉 One thing u need How it affect u ur family day, u think or not Otherwise anyone ask ques if they wrong everyone has equal rights to ask this is problem how to solve, listening is important Everyone give time to All, give space, if they wrong think wt u did in childhood age, epdi sona ne seriyaguva, logical thinking, Preplan u try to explain to others, honesty❤ Not tell all to everyone, Nilamiyai puriya vachi honest, otherwise it wrong 🎉 We can talk everything open discussion 🎉Clarity important, otherwise they don't go wrong guidance, respect choices ❤U must do it, Live let live, don't take decisions to others don't allow others to take decisions of urs 🎉

  • @prajushaprabhakar-is5vy
    @prajushaprabhakar-is5vy 3 місяці тому

    Sir nice video
    But how to tolerate with husband and inlaws and some times handling house maids also difficult. Hw to tolerate them. This video looks more like parenting
    But it's good to understand about kids
    Tolerating adults become a tough task
    Kids r better than adults
    They listen to us n understand
    But adults they never listen they behave like they know everything n lots of ego. They think we are stupid
    Hw to tolerate n accept husband too. They never understand ladies in the house. They think it's easy to handle house works
    M sorry need a video regarding this issues
    M a big fan of u sir
    Ur videos motivate me a lot ❤

  • @mohamedshafiqs5279
    @mohamedshafiqs5279 2 місяці тому +1

    Very superb sir, but idhellam enga dad ta solli puriya vaika mudiyathu, intha video patha kooda avaga thiruntha mataga... Avaroda decision matume than enga life time ah suck panni te iruku, even athu engaluku end la good results thanthalum, athu ennoda decision illathanala, eneku antha path full uh me na enna loose pannite irukra mari iruku, inner self ah kill pandra kari than iruku, 22age aguthu, idhu vara en istathuku ethume nadakala, enna decision edukavum vidala, ennoda decision ah respect uhm pannala, enga family members yaroda feelings kum enga dad respect kodukala, he's kill our innerself, bcoz he is narcissist

  • @vidhyahari642
    @vidhyahari642 2 місяці тому

    எங்கள் வீட்டில் எப்போதும் நான் சொல்வதை தப்போ சரியோ செய்யவேண்டும் என்று சொல்வார்கள்
    தப்பை செய்துவிட்டு அதை சரி செய்வது பெரிய டாஸ்க் 30 வருடமாக தெடரும் தெல்ல
    இதற்கு நீங்கள் சொல்வது போல் திருமணம் செய்யாமல் இருந்திருந்தால் நிம்மதியாக வாழ்ந்திருக்கலாம் என்று தோன்றும்

  • @sudhananthansachuthanantha8013
    @sudhananthansachuthanantha8013 2 місяці тому

    Sir.. 6.25: Sometimes even someone asks about the matter that we need to be kept as secreat, I will strongly say that matter need to be kept hidden as secret for what so ever situations.. And no matter what relation they are relate to us.. Including spouse..
    You may say this from your good intention perspective. But the true is.. if the statement taken by wrong person.. Their life can go miserable and may get into serious trouble that they can't recover back..

  • @KrishnaKumar-mv9pz
    @KrishnaKumar-mv9pz 3 місяці тому

    Nalla Video...One small request unga playlist section la "Members Live Session" videos aa public aa poda mudiyuma please?

  • @muaadh6433
    @muaadh6433 3 місяці тому

    Adhee mai na enda friends and family ellareyo oru group open pani unga voice eh upload panra avegelum maranum idhu ella nanmeyum Allah

  • @sudhavalli7706
    @sudhavalli7706 3 місяці тому

    🙏🙏🙏

  • @sobanahshoba4318
    @sobanahshoba4318 2 місяці тому

    Mee too

  • @BhindhuShree-es1qc
    @BhindhuShree-es1qc 2 місяці тому

    Close anavunga kita over ah ethir pakurom ...avunga namaku time spend panunu ana anga respect yea ilandrapa romba stress aguthu...epdi dr expectations ah control pandrathu...control pana romba kastama iruku ...

  • @meganathankns6375
    @meganathankns6375 3 місяці тому

    Can I have conversation with you about my career life

  • @Dhayanchemistry
    @Dhayanchemistry 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Pandya98
    @Pandya98 3 місяці тому

    👍

  • @Kabeervaliyakath-zt9it
    @Kabeervaliyakath-zt9it 3 місяці тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @shaktivelsankarishaktivels226
    @shaktivelsankarishaktivels226 3 місяці тому

    👍👍👍👌👌👌👌

  • @smashmemes3109
    @smashmemes3109 2 місяці тому

    Sir , How to become member to this channel. I don't see any join button. Kindly reply Sir.

  • @worldoftamilexplore3868
    @worldoftamilexplore3868 2 місяці тому

    Thumbnail பாதுட்டு உள்ள வரலாமா வெனவா என்று இருந்தது ஆனால் இதில் உள்ளதை நான் பார்க்கலனா எனக்கு தான் நட்டம் ஏற்பட்டு இருக்கும்

  • @samueldinesh
    @samueldinesh 2 місяці тому +1

    Can you use more tamil words, here many english words are hard for elders who are watching your video.

  • @tharunn08
    @tharunn08 2 місяці тому

    En company la vaccancy pottu irukanga bro

  • @jintha2012
    @jintha2012 2 місяці тому

    Hello Dr. I have a question.. IPO conversation contradictory ah marite iruku.. for example you said we can give space and to everyone.. but intha space la use pandra discussion contradictory ah venpoitu irutha between husband and wife... How to adjust within the relationship.. for example.. I am telling Dr .. you have to answer me in binary words but it is never followed by spouse.. how to handle this by he way in this you never want to change yourself... How to run relationship

  • @everydaymeditation9270
    @everydaymeditation9270 2 місяці тому

    Chair pottu illa sir pottu🤔

  • @Mohamedsirajudeen-cw2uv
    @Mohamedsirajudeen-cw2uv 3 місяці тому +1

    Anna I am collage fees kattanum please komjam help pannuga😢😢😢😢😢

    • @chinnagopal6766
      @chinnagopal6766 2 місяці тому +1

      I also felt this kind of problem 🥺! But don't expect financial helps from others bro 😔, because everyone have their own boundary of sharing money😤! Because everyone did Hardwork for the money 😔 can't able to give it easily 🥺! Try to take a Loan 😭 if it didn't work 😡😡 paravala College dropout panitu, ethachu work poitu, earn pana start panunga 😤 and remembered 😢 money is most valuable which we can't able to expect without providing value 😤!

    • @Mohamedsirajudeen-cw2uv
      @Mohamedsirajudeen-cw2uv 2 місяці тому

      @@chinnagopal6766 anna atleast 2000 pay pannuga please very argent

  • @priyankacrush4340
    @priyankacrush4340 2 місяці тому

    Sir naan enga vettula health and foods pathi explain panna yaarum keka matanga. Apporam health issue vanthu hospital la naan sonnathy doctor solvaru intha problem eppadi handle pandtathu plz solluga

  • @krishan3091
    @krishan3091 3 місяці тому +1

    💐💐💐💐💐

  • @gnanadurai7900
    @gnanadurai7900 3 місяці тому +1

    may be its about generational shift a 90's kid cannot expect this from their parents as their parents were more authoritarian, biased, doesn't care about their childs opinion or wish, they take the decision in the child's education, career and marital relationship etc. they never gave a choice to the child, they took their childs life as granted. its even worse in centuries before them , especially in uneducated families. but in case of GenZ its totally opposite.

  • @user-wk1rp6go4f
    @user-wk1rp6go4f 3 місяці тому

    enna sir backround changr