MALE GAZE VS. FEMALE GAZE OUTFITS! WHICH ARE BETTER FOR YOU?

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  • Опубліковано 22 гру 2024

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  • @Camila-sc7wf
    @Camila-sc7wf 11 місяців тому +546

    I thought your female gaze outfit in the last video was so cool, idc what people say😤

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  11 місяців тому +49

      aww thanks so much ✨🤍

    • @killkaisumi
      @killkaisumi 11 місяців тому +18

      same like????

    • @Camila-sc7wf
      @Camila-sc7wf 11 місяців тому +6

      @@cocochinelo You're welcome🤍

    • @r.a.y.a.n.a
      @r.a.y.a.n.a 11 місяців тому +11

      It was it ateeeeee

    • @Tevs91
      @Tevs91 11 місяців тому +7

      I liked it! I rock fits like that too

  • @Ginza92
    @Ginza92 11 місяців тому +329

    Straight male here. I don't know if there's a word to describe someone that's attracted to both male and female gaze outfits, but you look gorgeous in any outfit.

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  11 місяців тому +111

      you are just a lover of all styles, and that’s great :)

    • @Looksmaxxer16
      @Looksmaxxer16 4 місяці тому

      Can't people give honest opinions on black girls.. Most of time they just sugarcoat it.. I liked her some of her outfits but not some..

    • @idontknoww_13
      @idontknoww_13 2 місяці тому +5

      @@Looksmaxxer16 he can have his own opinions?? Plus, what does this have with her being black?

  • @emilydenny5276
    @emilydenny5276 10 місяців тому +104

    I'm 40 seconds in and girl whAAAAT, your "female gaze" outfit in your first video was TOP TIER (and exactly as you mentioned might have been the case, I might have been too in awe and intimidated by how cool you looked to compliment you directly)

  • @gsanchez5116
    @gsanchez5116 10 місяців тому +69

    “Maturing as a woman is realizing not everything has to be bodycon” FACTS 💯💯💯 I was around 17 when body con/insta models were just coming up and I did the whole go to gym, only glute and leg workouts, only tight very showy clothes in my closet. I’m now 23, I’ve accepted im still skinny and not curvy and that’s how I was made, and I now wear clothes that are baggy/cover up most of my body

  • @K.amrrnn
    @K.amrrnn 11 місяців тому +179

    U should make this a series I really enjoy these type of videos!

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  11 місяців тому +13

      i am! so many more to come :)

  • @jadethegemme
    @jadethegemme 11 місяців тому +99

    no cause your social experiment video acc inspired me to make a video analyzing my own outfits for the male/female gaze a few weeks ago similar to this one!! :) so glad to see you continuing this dialogue

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  11 місяців тому +6

      aww of course!

    • @BleahBleah-uk8yq
      @BleahBleah-uk8yq 10 місяців тому +1

      Let us know how it goes, or post link to vid

    • @marvin2678
      @marvin2678 10 місяців тому

      So you did Dress for men ?

  • @1077-o9x
    @1077-o9x 11 місяців тому +22

    OBSESSSSEDDDD with the female gaze fits esp with the second fit, the way it's body con but would kinda likeee throw men off with the baggy short and tall boot is DELICIOUS. the male gaze fits seem to appeal only to sexuality and female gaze fits seem to appeal to SO much more, maybe including sexuality but absolutely not limited to it

  • @AyeshaNoelle
    @AyeshaNoelle 11 місяців тому +48

    Love that you made another video! Crossing my fingers this is becoming a series 😍 I agree that the female gaze is about what you as a woman feel good about without worrying what others might say or think. I feel more comfortable in fitting clothes, with a boho touch, so love layering on top of body con clothes. Weirdly enough the streetwear baggy clothes feel more like I’m one with the boys, which makes me feel awkward.

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  11 місяців тому +4

      omg i love that style!

  • @killkaisumi
    @killkaisumi 11 місяців тому +29

    the last outfit was too cute. im going to try and recreate

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  11 місяців тому +1

      omg i would love to see it!

  • @thisislenard
    @thisislenard 11 місяців тому +31

    your streetwear style is fkn amazing, love the baggy silhouettes! very creative

  • @gracelotoaso
    @gracelotoaso 11 місяців тому +21

    Personally…I LOVED YOUR FEMALE GAZE OUTFIT IN NOT JUST THIS VIDEO BUT YOUR FIRST MALE VS FEMALE GAZE VIDEO!!!! It actually inspired me to wear something similar not long after watching it coz I loooove baggy everything too!! If you think like your last video fLoPpEd then let me tell you girl IT DID NOT! Go offfffff!!!!!

  • @alainasmalling1347
    @alainasmalling1347 11 місяців тому +30

    i’m trying to be in my fashion era sm and ur saving me 🥹

  • @AislynnVargas-l4u
    @AislynnVargas-l4u 10 місяців тому +5

    Bruh that last female gaze outfit was so freaking good I didn’t even expect that I would hear you say people didn’t like it

  • @AmakaIntellectualFactory
    @AmakaIntellectualFactory 11 місяців тому +18

    I absolutely LOOOVE you are revisiting this topic! For me, attraction goes beyond looks, although looks also play a crucial role. I have found that when I admire women, it is more of the feminine woman types. However, when a stud female exhibits a nurturing side to her, then that gets my attention. PLEASE CONTINUE TO REVISIT THIS TOPIC. I LOVE IT! YOU ROCK!😍❤

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  11 місяців тому +1

      aww thank you so much!

    • @AmakaIntellectualFactory
      @AmakaIntellectualFactory 11 місяців тому

      @@cocochinelo My pleasure sweetheart. You are authentically you. I love it! 😘😍

  • @shrutivedasarkar4504
    @shrutivedasarkar4504 10 місяців тому +2

    Girl, I love your hopps😭

  • @Brookelyyn
    @Brookelyyn 11 місяців тому +7

    I love all of the outfits u put on in these video and other’s videos in this series. You really inspire me to dress how i want to dress no matter what others think(lol this sounds corny but im so frr😭)

  • @celiajose2846
    @celiajose2846 10 місяців тому +1

    You go girl….. I aspire to be comfortable in my own style like that..

  • @missing_together
    @missing_together 2 місяці тому

    that first female gaze fit is my fall wardrobe lmao

  • @rainniebee
    @rainniebee 11 місяців тому +5

    i love love love the last outfit in this video, it’s so fun and definitely something i would wear

  • @soleyaastra7099
    @soleyaastra7099 10 місяців тому +2

    Female gaze outfit n°2 was GORGEOUS and definitely inspiring ❤

  • @moonsshadow-gp6kk
    @moonsshadow-gp6kk 2 місяці тому

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR FEMININE GAZE OUTFITSSSS i have a streetwear style too and im gonna start using u as inspo bc omg

  • @missing_together
    @missing_together 2 місяці тому

    another comment, I LOVED the third female gaze outfit sm

  • @silvanamanea7237
    @silvanamanea7237 9 місяців тому +1

    girl u are soo pretty coco jones's twin frrr

  • @alinesaes2573
    @alinesaes2573 10 місяців тому +5

    Love that Chinelo means literally Flipflops here in Brasil 😂 also, loved the experiment and the video ❤

  • @Shion-u8l
    @Shion-u8l 6 місяців тому

    Omg i looooove your female gaze outfits. Totally going to recreate that last one. Can you do a video about how to style baggy streetwear? I'm gonna go to college next year, and I've heard how fashionable college kids are these days. I feel like my wardrobe is boring and totally need new inspo

  • @annamarie2496
    @annamarie2496 10 місяців тому +2

    The outfit of the white strapless dress and black long Bermuda shorts with the high boots was honestly iconic. I loved how honest and raw you were about how it was personal to you and it reminded you of your childhood. The 2000s Disney fashion! I felt that deep! You rocked it 1000000% better than all of them! You’re right fashion is for you for us to express ourselves! I just found you and I love you. I heard you when you said you wanted to come to Miami. I am in not even 2 hours away, let’s be friends!

  • @aysiareynolds9662
    @aysiareynolds9662 11 місяців тому +6

    Second one, heyyy gurl 🥰

  • @DunDunDun45
    @DunDunDun45 10 місяців тому

    Your outfits are nothing but inspiring. I really do aspire to dress like you

  • @LovelyLittleLillies
    @LovelyLittleLillies 8 місяців тому +4

    You might personally enjoy baggy clothes, but I wouldn't consider it female gaze to be frank. It's give more butch gaze, and only butch women or insecure women who also hide in baggy clothes would admire. Look #2 tgat you had for male gaze is what I personally (as a more girly girl) would typically imagine as a female gaze. Women still like and enjoy feminity in other women and doll-like aoperances (for example: admiring hair that's done and makeup). Female gaze is more like cute dresses like that one that have interesting and fun shapes. Thought it was short and thought it was a little hugging, I'd see it more as a female gaze dress bc of it's fun and fashionable style. Female gaze is typically girly-derived things like pink and glittery dresses, pretty miniskirts, ribbons in your hair, cherry, lips, and other fun fruits like strawberries motifs. Take Lana Del Rey for example and how she was big on those things, like red-heart-shaped sunglasses glasses. If you take note of Harley Quinn in birds of Prey, as it was noted, it's full on female gaze. That's why her hair is in cute pigtails and died pink at the ends. It's her fashionable cute outfits, including outfits that look fun. You can notice when a movie is centered on the female gaze, because fashion is more trendy and maybe to an extent "experimntsl" in the sense that male-gaze centered outfits are very bland: ou don't need much details in the cut of the dress, just do a badic strappy slip dress cut short, with cleave ge in one plain color and it's honestly enough. It's that simple.
    In your previous video you were getting complements on your male centered outfit bc the fur hat looked so cute and was definitely a female gaze piece, plus the combo of a form fitting jumpsuit with the fur hat looked really cute. But if you took off the hat it would be a standard male gaze outfit. Tho I'd still give you a compliment bc your body looked so good!
    Maybe the young generation is enjoying baggy silliouhettes of the current fashion trends, but the areay of mini skirts you had with the y2k trend is a better representation of female gaze. I think fashions and movies pre this decade did better job of portraying and revealing what the female gaze is.

    • @lucid_3938
      @lucid_3938 6 місяців тому +7

      Female gaze is personal, I feel like you missed the point

    • @missmoraaaa
      @missmoraaaa 6 місяців тому +1

      I’m not reading allat

  • @IcedFn-s2g
    @IcedFn-s2g 9 місяців тому

    MAKE THIS A SERIES I LOVE ITTT

  • @lauren..12
    @lauren..12 6 місяців тому

    girl ur outfits eat every time

  • @JesusChristisGodintheFlesh
    @JesusChristisGodintheFlesh 4 місяці тому

    Love the first female gaze outfit ❤ I’d wear it

  • @brandcovet
    @brandcovet 28 днів тому

    Female gaze outfits #1 and 3 were soooo good. 😭

  • @quessiabuhinja
    @quessiabuhinja 11 місяців тому +3

    You look amazing as always!!😍😍😍😍

  • @marle102
    @marle102 6 місяців тому +2

    Hannah Montana was referencing Bjork’s swan dress at the 2001 Oscars

  • @chyennetatum3541
    @chyennetatum3541 10 місяців тому

    12:55 oooh why do we have the same life experiences 😂😭😭

  • @theclassyconsultant.
    @theclassyconsultant. 3 місяці тому

    Another good way to dress for the female gaze is to be maximalistic with jewellery (lots of rings and necklaces, bold stylistic choices)

  • @SofieLichtenstein
    @SofieLichtenstein 10 місяців тому +4

    Baggy baggy jeans - NCT U

    • @tlwwweee
      @tlwwweee 7 місяців тому

      Found my ppl

  • @BleahBleah-uk8yq
    @BleahBleah-uk8yq 10 місяців тому +3

    If ur going to wear those outfits, csn u make analysis on ppl’s reaction to them, like in ur other video. I’m interested in what new insights u discover

  • @honeyywheat
    @honeyywheat 11 місяців тому +3

    So where are those earrings from?! 😅 They fit every outfit

  • @Amagaisie
    @Amagaisie 10 місяців тому +1

    Female gaze #2 😍

  • @End-ve4du
    @End-ve4du 11 місяців тому +3

    Yayyy❤ earlyy

  • @serenacoke6929
    @serenacoke6929 11 місяців тому +21

    I guess I’m a male then

  • @JesusChristisGodintheFlesh
    @JesusChristisGodintheFlesh 4 місяці тому

    Every time the screen goes black I think my tv glitched 😂😂😂

  • @ellothereoldchapitsmeolivia
    @ellothereoldchapitsmeolivia 6 місяців тому

    Can you do a summer female vs male gaze video pleasssssssssssse 😅😅😅

  • @googleyoflolz9930
    @googleyoflolz9930 6 місяців тому +2

    Was prob men who said the female gaze outfit was ugly 💀

  • @ma.9029
    @ma.9029 5 місяців тому

    I really want to dress strictly to the female gaze, causa i don’t want no male attention, but i love very feminine outfits like mirror palais. :( I’m not sure what to do

  • @Maria-perez-c2r
    @Maria-perez-c2r 11 місяців тому +5

    First one yaayyy

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  11 місяців тому +2

      congratz on being first!!

  • @kittyp121
    @kittyp121 10 місяців тому +1

    How can I dress for the male gaze when I'm fat? The only thing I like to show is cleavage or shoulders. I have my own style that I really love, I'm more a dark romantik type, always wear long skirts and dresses, velvet, lace, ruffles, accessoiries, hats. But I don't like that I always seem to be invisible for men. I don't want to die alone.

  • @MK-tm8oj
    @MK-tm8oj 11 місяців тому +1

    Where’s the orange top from?

  • @donscarfa777
    @donscarfa777 5 місяців тому

    I was about to comment about skin being the thing that attracts male eyes until you Flats yourself and my eyes immediately went to your thighs

  • @marvin2678
    @marvin2678 10 місяців тому

    So youre saying most women dress for men ?

  • @ChrissyFraser
    @ChrissyFraser 11 місяців тому +2

    I’m so glad that you knew that second female gaze outfit was trash. I love you and I’m not saying that you can’t pair dress with pants but just don’t go out in that outfit that you put on. There’s a way to do it just not that cause as a woman I wouldn’t even approach you because I’d be like what the heck does she have on versus the other the other female gaze outfit I would definitely wear those or even approach you to ask you where you got them from but that second outfit I would avoid you like the black plague

    • @cocochinelo
      @cocochinelo  11 місяців тому +18

      life is not about being approached. it’s about doing what makes you happy regardless of people’s opinions. will be wearing that outfit out today, but thank you for your feedback ✨🤍

    • @maryamasomewhathuman.7870
      @maryamasomewhathuman.7870 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@@cocochineloyou're literally the sweetest girl

    • @lw5820
      @lw5820 10 місяців тому +2

      I mean who said she wants to be approached tho😭

    • @tfg-oq2sc
      @tfg-oq2sc 10 місяців тому +1

      You didn't need to use that many words to say u don't like it... just move on, no need to be rude. I like the outfit, I would wear it without a hat

    • @ChrissyFraser
      @ChrissyFraser 10 місяців тому

      @@tfg-oq2sc so then you wouldn’t wear that outfit if you feel like you need to alter it in order to make it fit you and if I wanted to write a page essay I can y’all be saying anything cute just cause. Some things are ugly and that’s fine

  • @jessicaEgo
    @jessicaEgo 10 місяців тому

    I need that hair tutorial