29 Year Old TRAPPED In Family’s Financial Responsibilities

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    In this episode of Fix Your Finance, we sit down with Ashish, a 29-year-old engineer living with his family in Noida. Ashish walks us through his financial journey, from starting his career at 18 to supporting his family as the eldest son. Despite having a solid academic background with a degree from BITS Pilani, Ashish faces challenges managing his finances, especially with family responsibilities, education loans for his sister, and personal expenses.
    With a combined household income of ₹80,000, Ashish and his wife struggle to make ends meet, as EMIs, family obligations, and unexpected medical expenses eat into their budget. Despite careful expense management, they find themselves caught in a cycle of paycheck-to-paycheck living. We explore solutions for managing EMIs, cutting down unnecessary expenses, and shifting financial responsibilities.
    If you’ve ever struggled with balancing personal and family financial duties, this episode offers relatable insights and practical advice. Tune in to learn how Ashish plans to fix his finances and take control of his future!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 497

  • @suryateja8289
    @suryateja8289 День тому +145

    Father and sister should understand his situation and help him in expenses.

    • @theanonworld6633
      @theanonworld6633 16 годин тому

      Not easy

    • @vaibhavbisht1997
      @vaibhavbisht1997 14 годин тому +7

      @@theanonworld6633 Bhai not easy hai toh kyu Jana hai tumhe abroad

    • @suryateja8289
      @suryateja8289 14 годин тому +12

      Sister will happily go to husband's house after marriage and after that she will not pay a rupee for parents responsibilities in 90% cases. And will ask for share in their property with no contribution to family. Saw this across many families.

    • @msdadsfsx
      @msdadsfsx 12 годин тому

      in vedic culture you give everythin to family

    • @_radON
      @_radON 8 годин тому

      sister has already helped, didnt you listen she gave 2-3L. I think he just needs to partner up with wife and split some bills with her and there is no issues at all.

  • @chirayujain6602
    @chirayujain6602 День тому +204

    Trust me I've been watching this series since the first episode, but this is the only guy I found who is in some serious financial stress despite not having made any impulsive purchase (pls don't pinpoint PS5 now, thats ok). Genuinely feel this man needs some help.

    • @HimanshuBaisoya
      @HimanshuBaisoya 21 годину тому +3

      mujhe bech do bhai ps5

    • @abhayrohit
      @abhayrohit 19 годин тому

      ​@@HimanshuBaisoya lelo bro 30k me 3 month old with warranty disc version maine aj tak chalu bhi ni kiya sirf 2 din khela

  • @vaibhavsingh7734
    @vaibhavsingh7734 День тому +232

    this guy will be sad in future, people will leave once they get their share.

    • @chittaranjanswain2738
      @chittaranjanswain2738 20 годин тому +11

      Me wohi soch raha tha😢

    • @lalithrockz
      @lalithrockz 17 годин тому +7

      ​@@chittaranjanswain2738yeah seen this way too many times

    • @rashikasharma0807
      @rashikasharma0807 14 годин тому +5

      but there is nothing wrong in doing for the family.

    • @sahilkadam9076
      @sahilkadam9076 14 годин тому +4

      I agree. Everyone will leave him eventually.

    • @chittaranjanswain2738
      @chittaranjanswain2738 13 годин тому +5

      @@rashikasharma0807 yeah you are right. But I was just sharing my experience. Eventually everyone will leave him. It is not worth the stress That he is in.
      If he would be affluent, and happy giving then there is no problem. He should.
      But here the case is different. He is doing it as responsibility. So it’s not worth the stress. Everyone has to fight for their survival. Why he will only take the pain.

  • @captianbradsword5351
    @captianbradsword5351 День тому +216

    He is a good person but he will become very sad in future just like my father. I know how this ends.

    • @prafulbisne8603
      @prafulbisne8603 23 години тому +21

      Ha bhai family wale subhi favour bhul jate hai

    • @raiamit1601
      @raiamit1601 6 годин тому

      Sad but True

  • @doublezeta04gundam29
    @doublezeta04gundam29 20 годин тому +159

    Why can't his sister take education loan and pay the EMI while working in Australia part time?? Also car loan for dad and bike loan for brother, this guy is being manipulated by his family.
    This will not end well and he will regret this forever.

    • @lalithrockz
      @lalithrockz 17 годин тому +8

      That part time income is not enough for both living expenses and loan

    • @theanonworld6633
      @theanonworld6633 16 годин тому +1

      Correct

    • @Dattebayo3089
      @Dattebayo3089 15 годин тому

      In aus atleast part time jobs are legal. In USA part time job at off campus are illegal except internship.​@@lalithrockz

    • @Shubham-gy1fh
      @Shubham-gy1fh 14 годин тому +8

      true atleast his father should pay the expenses of car and bike

    • @khushilpatel-oc1tp
      @khushilpatel-oc1tp 12 годин тому +2

      Hi, i live in australia for the last 3 years and came here on a student visa , i must say despite me having a really good paying part time job, it gets really hard to pay the fees and theres no guarantee for PR here, the rules change every 6 months and the chances of getting a full time field job gets really affected if ur not PR

  • @nithviews
    @nithviews 23 години тому +53

    Hear this out ASHISH, else you will have to suffer in future. You can help your family with the money you have in your hand BUT not by taking huge loans, that was not your money. Make sure you educate your parents and siblings about current affordability and let them stay under means, else learn to say a NO. You are not responsible to take whole burden of your family. Let all individuals find their own way.
    The problem is with your phsycology you need to change it, try to have a consultation.

  • @TravelTogetherwithYH
    @TravelTogetherwithYH День тому +132

    Story of every middle class family oriented son. But stay strong bro. Everything will be fine.

  • @sksahoo6210
    @sksahoo6210 День тому +47

    He is very harsh of himself in future its going to create lot of trauma in him

  • @shilochanadudi9703
    @shilochanadudi9703 День тому +76

    If this continues much longer, the wife might start having issue because wife will have saving to do fun things, spend on herself/family but he might be in financial burden

    • @disfatbidg5076
      @disfatbidg5076 22 години тому +8

      Yeah typical wife behaviour..no responsibility just fun

    • @SamBahadurManekshaw
      @SamBahadurManekshaw 21 годину тому +11

      That's so stereotypical of you. You need to understand that you have 50% responsibility to bring your wife to confidence. When I got married, I shared my financial situation: earnings, expenses, financial responsibilities, etc. with my wife. She has become so much understanding that she always saves/invests spare money for our future well being. You must see that it's a two-way streak. If you are stubborn enough to carry family responsibilities, ALONEwithout showing even 1% will to sit down and talk money with your wife and family, then kudos! You have earned lifelong stress for YOUR mistakes.

    • @somilbijur8137
      @somilbijur8137 2 години тому

      Wife will have to provide for her parents, husband can't expect her to pay for his sisters loan etc

  • @yamanjain
    @yamanjain День тому +373

    He needs a psychologist more than a financial planner.

    • @FactTourReal
      @FactTourReal День тому +27

      Actually.. sometimes he shows he is very smart and sometimes over smart

    • @anbor7778
      @anbor7778 День тому +8

      he'll be needing a financial planner for that too...iykwim

    • @adrstam996
      @adrstam996 23 години тому +1

      ​@@FactTourRealsaviour complex

    • @kakjhal
      @kakjhal 20 годин тому +5

      He is just one step away from disaster - job loss, ill effects on health due to excessive stress, it can be anything!

    • @nick_29_11
      @nick_29_11 19 годин тому +6

      Bhai mat bolo ye sab.. Galti se kisi psychologist ke pas chala gya to 20-30k aur le lenge ..fir aur financial crunch aur depression 😅

  • @ypytshorts
    @ypytshorts День тому +25

    Bro the way you explain things and also the non financial advice that you give about a family man’s relationships, be it about responsibilities or you and your wife being a team, just hats off !

  • @rithikjain4947
    @rithikjain4947 День тому +29

    You are doing good job brother.
    Sometimes, you have to be courageous for your family. Don't lead a stressful life. Enjoy with your partner this time will fly.

    • @cbazxy2697
      @cbazxy2697 День тому +2

      stop lying dude.
      If this was good job he wouldn't be in this situation and would've not signed up to be on this show.

  • @monstermaker4485
    @monstermaker4485 День тому +23

    Videos like this make you humble and be grateful to your current situation. More power to this guy ❤

  • @siddanagoudagonal106
    @siddanagoudagonal106 День тому +138

    Worst mistake made by this guy- taking such a big loan for his sister. His "Jimmedari" wala mentality is harming him

    • @SAM-tw4wd
      @SAM-tw4wd День тому +7

      Sister khud pay krdegi bs 3 saal ka intrest deraha h yeh bhai

    • @yamanjain
      @yamanjain День тому +17

      Sister could have easily gone to much cheaper countries like Germany or countries with one year msba like UK/even Australia.
      In fact there is no 3 year msba program in Australia !!!

    • @theanonworld6633
      @theanonworld6633 16 годин тому

      Abroad education is big scam

    • @blazie2741
      @blazie2741 7 годин тому

      ​@@yamanjainso he's telling lies in the video?

  • @vaibhavbisht1997
    @vaibhavbisht1997 13 годин тому +18

    27:23 imagine from his wife’s perspective, why would she pay his husband’s family’s non essential expenses from her own pocket.

  • @yashjain2113
    @yashjain2113 День тому +143

    Men watch this....
    Men have a similar feeling and shed a tear inside ...
    Men go out and keep a smiling face
    Circle of Life...

    • @kunalpantkp
      @kunalpantkp День тому +1

    • @Ankitjaiswal-hd7pv
      @Ankitjaiswal-hd7pv День тому +5

      I am going through lot. My sister is going to marry this year and i have another sister. How will i manage both the marriage ibdont know. I just earn 50000.

    • @rohanbose4882
      @rohanbose4882 22 години тому +2

      @@Ankitjaiswal-hd7pv Hi brother, what happens if u dont ? Will they not marry ?

    • @blissfulshanvika460
      @blissfulshanvika460 21 годину тому

      @@Ankitjaiswal-hd7pvdon’t listen to this Bose DK Ankit Bhai… Stay Strong and play your part. Take responsibilities and die HAPPILY. Running away from responsibilities doesn’t make you a strong human being and the guilt will never let you stay happy forever.
      I take all responsibilities of my family including elders and youngers and trust me financially im also in stress but im mentally HAPPY and my families happiness gives me all motivations to do little more extra for them.
      Yeah, unlike this guy in Podcast my wife have equally contributing with me. I must say im blessed ❤

    • @kakjhal
      @kakjhal 18 годин тому

      @@Ankitjaiswal-hd7pv Let's have more kids and make everyone's life miserable 😭 that's usually the motton of most lower middle-class households. If one of the children played IPL, won a lottery or became big in life (which is 1 in a million chance), then family lives a better life or else they live life equivalent of hell

  • @Thinking...579
    @Thinking...579 День тому +36

    Ashish you are a really great person and as you said about your sister hopefully she'll pay off everything.

  • @ishanchawla8290
    @ishanchawla8290 День тому +26

    25 Lakh bhi yahi dega

  • @vivekreddy8682
    @vivekreddy8682 22 години тому +20

    WHY DOES ANYONE IN FAMILY TAKE A LOAN AND GO ABROAD WHEN THERE IS SO MUCH PRESSURE ON EARNING MEMBER OF THE FAMILY ...SOMETIMES FAMILY MEMBERS CAN ALSO UNDERSTAND....SOMETIMES WORK PRESSURE CAN INTERNALLY KILL A PERSONS HAPPINESS

    • @m.praveenkumar3702
      @m.praveenkumar3702 9 годин тому +1

      I don't think the problem is with educational loan that too for abroad, once things get settled in around 3 years, she can very easily clear that. Here the problem is only is that every rupee not spending on cumulative salary which is communication gap between family members who earns.

    • @YashG2309
      @YashG2309 Годину тому

      That's not how it works. His sister has sent him around 3 lakhs within 4-5 itself. Once she completes her course she will literally change the status of the family provided she contributes.

  • @utkarshkulkarni7573
    @utkarshkulkarni7573 День тому +14

    Every elder sibling trying to bring the family one line above can relate.. keep it up ashish bhai i agree with your thought process.

  • @OrganicPandora
    @OrganicPandora День тому +17

    We indians have tendency to get emotional to the wrong things. Being an elder son, I know this very well.

  • @krishnaChander-pl2hu
    @krishnaChander-pl2hu День тому +29

    Fix your marriage with Anshuman Sharma

  • @anmolkissen5199
    @anmolkissen5199 21 годину тому +14

    Feeling bad for he's wife

  • @Prathz
    @Prathz День тому +12

    This is called putting yourself in situations worse than it actually is because you are addicted to pain.

  • @nikitsharma1554
    @nikitsharma1554 День тому +17

    bas ek sawaal 10 saal baad naya Bacha paida karne ki kya zaroorat thi jab beta beti dono thay hee.

    • @themboys304
      @themboys304 15 годин тому +3

      😂😂😂
      Bhai upar se pet bhi hai 😅😂

  • @prashantdogra240
    @prashantdogra240 День тому +39

    PS5 sell krna hai to bhai btana mujhe

    • @urwjtdgkfhkc2286
      @urwjtdgkfhkc2286 22 години тому +23

      Apda mai avsar🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Vishal_Wable_11
      @Vishal_Wable_11 12 годин тому +2

      Bhai wo troma me hai aur tu kya bol raha hai😂

    • @ShubH-0910
      @ShubH-0910 6 годин тому

      Dekh dekh dekh 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @madaarimultitasks5945
    @madaarimultitasks5945 21 годину тому +13

    He will take wedding loan for his younger brother and sister also and spend his entire youth in debts. Everyone will move forward in life except him.

    • @Dattebayo3089
      @Dattebayo3089 15 годин тому +2

      Just think if he gets divorced he is doomed😮

  • @Pulkitdua94
    @Pulkitdua94 23 години тому +19

    What the hell father did his whole life? Why did he had to take a loan for marriage?

    • @shivamtalwar6749
      @shivamtalwar6749 21 годину тому +6

      If he continues helping others like this ,his children also have to struggle.

    • @Pulkitdua94
      @Pulkitdua94 20 годин тому +7

      @@shivamtalwar6749 true, a lot of parents are taking advantage of their children by making them feel guilty of not doing enough, like in this case it was his parents responsibility to look out for their daughter’s education.

    • @AkshayParulekar-cm7hx
      @AkshayParulekar-cm7hx 2 години тому

      @@shivamtalwar6749 bhai mujhe to lgta hai iss stress ke karan usko internally erectile Disfunction jese kuch na kuch to hua hoga
      uska stress alag se
      Bacche krna to bahot dur ki bat hai

  • @akshaykhandelwal1152
    @akshaykhandelwal1152 День тому +18

    @Ashish: You are a superhero buddy

    • @kakjhal
      @kakjhal 20 годин тому +3

      Did you want to say "Emotional Fool" ? 🧐 No superhero lives like that !

    • @akshaykhandelwal1152
      @akshaykhandelwal1152 10 годин тому +1

      @@kakjhal let me have my opinion, you can have yours. We don't need to agree.

  • @revaneshdoni7746
    @revaneshdoni7746 День тому +23

    I think he purposefully wants his life to be complicated as he doesn't like anything to do so this is his kind of entertainment and can have some kick to his life.
    Everyone in his family is self sufficient even then he's like am the THE man of my house, he says his sister has given him back 2-3 lacks but still he thinks she isn't capable of paying 25k.
    He's totally living in fantasy.

  • @ayyubrehmani7615
    @ayyubrehmani7615 День тому +14

    This new format is not better old one was better

    • @maniyamihir4177
      @maniyamihir4177 День тому +2

      Online me vo open nahi ho pate, esa lagta he jese chupa chupa ke baat kar rahe

  • @sammyadas7539
    @sammyadas7539 День тому +26

    I have no idea why he came to this show, everything seems fine, he is just not talking to people

  • @davidraj6466
    @davidraj6466 День тому +12

    Iske Ghar wala ko dikhao ye video pehle

  • @PineApple-yk4qe
    @PineApple-yk4qe День тому +8

    Episode was really good👍
    And...
    Online mode is great for reaching more people from various parts of India
    Excited for future episodes ❤❤
    Keep up the good work

  • @sarikapandey2885
    @sarikapandey2885 22 години тому +19

    He is suffering from the Elder Sibling Syndrome. Sab ka khayal rakhna hai, khudka dhyaan nahi rakhna hai. Your thoughts and deeds are noble brother but please don't be so harsh on yourselves. You're a great son and a brother(hopefully a great husband too). I wish they give you the same amount of support and remember your sacrifices (and I'm sure they will). More power to you!

  • @sunmoon4520
    @sunmoon4520 День тому +18

    I can relate when he was unsure about his wife financials. In today's world husband wife relationship is not that pure due to unknown reasons.😊

  • @amoghsaxena5255
    @amoghsaxena5255 День тому +11

    This is what KL rahul has been suffering from I call it "Elder Brother Syndrome", ki saari resposibities mai hii fulfill krounga agar mai nhi toh kon krega, iss chakkar mai sab fuck all ho jata hai

    • @tutugamer714
      @tutugamer714 20 годин тому +2

      KL rahul ne kb bola esa ? Aapkinkb baat hui usse ?

    • @amoghsaxena5255
      @amoghsaxena5255 19 годин тому +2

      @@tutugamer714 haan phone aaya thha unka, bolo toh aapki bhi baat kra deta hoon

  • @agrajjoshi6635
    @agrajjoshi6635 14 годин тому +40

    Shame on father and particularly sister for exploiting the great soul.
    2yrs down line sister and father would like to have lavish wedding of sister and won’t be surprised sister and father expects this guy to finance the whole thing. This guy will end up getting 25lakh rs. of personal loan
    No feminist would condemn this gold digging sister.
    Business analytics can be learnt at 20% of the cost.

    • @adityaurunkar8633
      @adityaurunkar8633 12 годин тому

      bro relax 😳

    • @Idoknowall
      @Idoknowall 11 годин тому +2

      Agreed 👍 if you spoon feed every one and not letting others to take responsibilities they will take things granted.
      And when you deny 1 thing you have sat such high expectations that things you have suffer in past no one will remember.
      Sad reality.

    • @divyanshbhargava6378
      @divyanshbhargava6378 11 годин тому +9

      Bhai, relax. No need to call his sister a gold digger. Do you even know her? Have you met her personally? He clearly mentioned in the video that she has paid him about 3 lakhs since going abroad, so relax and keep your judgmental horses in control.

    • @subhajitmondal525
      @subhajitmondal525 11 годин тому +3

      ​@@divyanshbhargava6378Just to correct you he gave a downpayment of 25 lakhs already not 3 lakhs.

    • @YashG2309
      @YashG2309 53 хвилини тому

      @@subhajitmondal525 To bhai sister kese 25 lakh abhi khud se dedegi. She already managed to send 3L within 4-5 months. Clearly shows that she is contributing.

  • @nitinkumar-hq1yp
    @nitinkumar-hq1yp День тому +87

    This guy has zero discipline on his finances.
    1) Takes a loan on his marriage which he can't afford
    2) Spends 20k on fuel which he could have avoided
    3) Takes a loan for foreign education which he could have avoided. There are great institutes in India for a bright career.
    4) Doesnt consider is wife's income as a part of their finances.
    I guarantee you this guy will remain bechaara throughout his life, no matter how much money he makes.

    • @gyanaavaibhav
      @gyanaavaibhav День тому

      Totally agree with everything expect the last part you said cause you might not know his wives attitude what is she is like no my money my your money your
      Also attitude is a type of thing which you won't know untill you have spend time with the people or the person plus he cannot git divorce cause taboo and loans for wedding it's like he fked himself

    • @SohailS10
      @SohailS10 День тому +6

      Clearly you didn't see the full video😂

    • @shauryarana5360
      @shauryarana5360 День тому +1

      Bhai, same video dekhi na dono me😂

    • @BHUSHANBARMAN-cs8xf
      @BHUSHANBARMAN-cs8xf День тому +9

      Maybe
      1. His dad thinks asper Indian society shaadi dhum dham which he can't dent
      2. 20k fuel is necessary family> Anything be real
      3.Behen ko padhna tha aur india me konse universities me bussines analytics krskte h india me scope ni h itna
      4. He considered that's why he is saying his income as 180k

    • @chirayujain6602
      @chirayujain6602 День тому +8

      Pls dont be harsh on this guy. I'm sure you haven't watched the video wholeheartedly

  • @skincarewithgarima
    @skincarewithgarima День тому +81

    Ashish!! He is my Wipro batchmate.

  • @teccasual9804
    @teccasual9804 День тому +6

    Ashish bhai, if you are reading this. You are awesome bhai. But as Anshuman also said, you and your wife are a team. It is good to take responsibilties, but sometimes asking for help when you need is okay.
    I think you are a wonderful person, and will do even better in life by doing some slight changes in the way you are living.
    Anshuman's advice are a worth gold. All the best Ashish bhai. 😁

  • @subhabhaduri7382
    @subhabhaduri7382 15 годин тому +41

    Against Anshuman's opinion, I am thinking his wife knows the situation, she intentionally does not merge the finances, so that at least a good portion is saved for their future and does not leak into more family expenses. I am praying it is true. He has been a saviour for his family for so long. Now I am praying he got one in the form of his wife.

    • @randoanon
      @randoanon 12 годин тому +4

      Very well said bhai, he's been a saviour for far too long and desperately needs one for himself rn.

    • @princerathore6665
      @princerathore6665 12 годин тому +2

      What if his wife has something different in her mind ?😮

    • @randoanon
      @randoanon 11 годин тому

      @@princerathore6665 We can only hope that's not the case.

    • @guiltypleasurexd
      @guiltypleasurexd 10 годин тому +4

      In a sea of comments filled with criticism towards his family members, this comment made me genuinely happy. I hope what you're saying is true. Also,tbh, within 4/5 months of marriage, I can't even think of opening a joint account with my husband. I think, that level of understanding takes time. It must be difficult for him to talk about finance with his wife too considering he's bearing this much burden unless they've known each other for long enough to share everything openly.

    • @princerathore6665
      @princerathore6665 10 годин тому +1

      @@guiltypleasurexd yeah we cannot deny the fact that they have recently married

  • @kanikabahri385
    @kanikabahri385 День тому +6

    He really needs psychologist help he is flipping alot…that they will be able to handle then they will not able to handle.

  • @rocket.Singh.
    @rocket.Singh. День тому +6

    Why every financially ruined want sympathy??

  • @CS-si8kl
    @CS-si8kl 12 годин тому +5

    It's time for you to be selfish brother or you will be in deep trouble. If your father is earning let him partly pay for the rent and Grocery.

  • @mukulsharma3782
    @mukulsharma3782 23 години тому +10

    I make the same money, family of 4 and no other source of income. No backup, parents have zero saving, too much stress for multiple personal reasons. Every night wants to end my life but my family will be on road without me, so have to live with stress on everyday basis.

    • @tradingwizard562
      @tradingwizard562 23 години тому

      U are not alone . I am facing debt crisis too . Only diff is there are assets but monetization of assets is currently causing difficulties .
      Still hanging on .

    • @NIHAL960
      @NIHAL960 22 години тому

      Stay strong bhai.. it will be better.. no situation in life is permanent. Whatever situation you are in give it some time trust me things will be better.

    • @kakjhal
      @kakjhal 20 годин тому

      Are you even living like a human 😢 that sounds miserable & inhuman in so many ways brother ! Hope you can get out of it

    • @General_Li_Shin
      @General_Li_Shin 9 годин тому

      @@tradingwizard562 hello, please buy PS5 and make video on the channel, need more content

  • @SohailS10
    @SohailS10 День тому +5

    Respect for anshuman bhai...log aaram se 699-999 ke memberships rakhte hai lekin bhai ka max membership bhi 119 kabhai🥳🥳

  • @RajeshPandey
    @RajeshPandey 22 години тому +5

    This will not end well for the guy in the future

  • @PsychicRogueGaming
    @PsychicRogueGaming День тому +10

    @14:02 bhai ps5 ko koi kuch ni bolega bhaiii! Psn id do mai kheluga tumare saat 😤 dange krvaoge kyaaaaa

    • @PsychicRogueGaming
      @PsychicRogueGaming День тому +1

      Also ps5 is important for corporate mazdur kyuki yar we achieve levels and theres constant grinding in games just like job,but this one is fun.merko to ps5 khelke atleast im not going out or doing other shauk shosha baazi 🥹

    • @PsychicRogueGaming
      @PsychicRogueGaming День тому +2

      Ps5 is the only good thing we working dudes have which keeps our inner child rejuvenated,so..play without guilt.im sure itd relax u,n ud work better,ps plus sale aegi november end,never forget!

    • @NIHAL960
      @NIHAL960 День тому

      +1 on that thought 😄

    • @tutugamer714
      @tutugamer714 20 годин тому +1

      Haan bhai sahi bola 1 saal pehle mene bhi second hand Ps4 kharida tha 20K me but it was worth it... It makes my weekends nights stressfree and peaceful❤

  • @sujitsen003
    @sujitsen003 День тому +7

    You’re a rare breed brother, don’t let anyone tell otherwise. Running a family with that much consumerism & inflation around is tough.
    One thing I didn’t understand is why your sibling had decided to move and study abroad when the family finances are that tight (with all due respect).

    • @maniyamihir4177
      @maniyamihir4177 День тому

      Bhai yaha bahot logo ko foreign jane ka junoon chada he. More than 50% of my school friends are in foreign rn doing masters on BIG loans. Surat me yahi hal he baki apke city me kya he idk.

    • @rahulkumarpatra4206
      @rahulkumarpatra4206 22 години тому +1

      ​@@maniyamihir4177 Ha bhai mein bhi Surat ka hu yahi haal hai idhar. Mere kuch dost return bhi ho gye hai foreign se kyuki job nhi mili thi 😢

  • @tutugamer714
    @tutugamer714 20 годин тому +5

    Ps5 use nhi ho rha he toh mujhe sell krde bhai please

  • @yadav_rahul
    @yadav_rahul 18 годин тому +5

    I’m an Australian citizen, currently living in Sydney. Here PR has become almost impossible for the IT professionals and post study work visa is only for 2-3 years and most of the companies prefer citizens or PR. If his sister’s only goal is to get PR then it won’t be a cakewalk.

  • @akashkumar-tu9wi
    @akashkumar-tu9wi 23 години тому +18

    Emotional Fool... Big wala

  • @drankit7774
    @drankit7774 18 годин тому +4

    Jabtak Bachelor the tabtak theek tha, ab jab shaadi ho chuki hai to 1st responsibility wife ki hai, aur parents ka health ki hai, Pets ek tarah se burden hai that's the truth, if possible kisi ko donate kar do aur apne intrest ko deviate kar sakte ho sports ki trf, aur ek solo trip ki jaroorat hai wife se discuss kar ke unko apne mayke me chor ke 10-15 days

  • @skruti2549
    @skruti2549 День тому +28

    Why middle class people keep pets when their financial condition is not good?

    • @Isaac-un3ge
      @Isaac-un3ge День тому +2

      His condition is good bro... His wife earns his dad earns

    • @vira781
      @vira781 День тому +3

      Since I dont have any pet. But i think having pet reduces stress and increases emotional wellbeing. Also you can use it for guarding house

    • @Goldandus_30
      @Goldandus_30 День тому +1

      Pets reduce stress❤

    • @homestyleoff-grid564
      @homestyleoff-grid564 День тому

      There's no value for something that reduces stress. Pet's reduces stress a lot

    • @ashwinkumar3659
      @ashwinkumar3659 22 години тому +1

      Adopt stray puppy, they are naturally resistant to disease, high immunity. Very low maintenance cost and would love you

  • @SD_003
    @SD_003 14 годин тому +3

    Stop paying for education loan immediately. The whole point of education loan is it’s meant for the student to pay off after getting a job.

  • @cbazxy2697
    @cbazxy2697 День тому +16

    Can't say about other stuff but gaming console was definitely deserved, but maybe didn't Have to be 50k gaming console.
    Guys, just because you are eldest and your parents raised doesn't mean you it's your duty to gift car,bike and fund expensive education.
    These are not medical emergencies, they can live on without these.
    You didn't ask to be eldest nor did you ask to be born so you don't have to agree to these expectations/duties set up in out society.
    You can do nice things for your family but you don't owe them anything, nothing is a must-do.

  • @anujabaijal1960
    @anujabaijal1960 День тому +26

    His family is taking advantage of him. His poori life seems ki family ke liye karna padta hai.

    • @sksahoo6210
      @sksahoo6210 День тому

      True...

    • @karanchaparwal
      @karanchaparwal День тому +4

      bhai aise ghar wale nahi mile kisi ko

    • @vatsalpatel6377
      @vatsalpatel6377 День тому +3

      Chhote bhai aur behen ki sadi bhi karvani hai abhi to 😢😢

    • @darkmatter9054
      @darkmatter9054 День тому

      Family should be a team effort, everybody should be contributing in a certain ratio.

    • @ray-lw7bf
      @ray-lw7bf День тому +9

      uski wife sudhaar dengi usko thoda time rukk jao abhi nayi nayi shadi hui haii 😅😅

  • @Sahilisonline
    @Sahilisonline 18 годин тому +3

    Ye victim nahi hero complex hai is admi ko.
    Khud ki life b barbad karega aur wife ki bhi.

  • @kumarbinay3394
    @kumarbinay3394 День тому +3

    Mujhe bas koi yeh bolo ki jo bhi video ke guests hain unko remuneration kuch mil raha hai ki nahi.

  • @mark42-is-mine
    @mark42-is-mine День тому +10

    Mahine ka 1,80 kamake bhi rorahahe.

  • @divyanshbhargava6378
    @divyanshbhargava6378 11 годин тому +2

    I usually don’t comment, but this guy is doing great considering where he came from. The real issue is his father’s bad decisions - not saving for their marriages, not saving for education. He was smart, so his education got sponsored; otherwise, he’d still be paying off EMIs. Plus, having another kid with a 10-year gap when you already have two? Bad planning. One generation’s mistakes definitely cause the next generation to suffer. Trauma gets passed down for sure.

  • @SAHIL12376
    @SAHIL12376 8 годин тому +2

    "He is taking unnecessary burdens, now a day marriage is a joke no support from wife"😢😢

  • @rahulvermaverma2500
    @rahulvermaverma2500 13 годин тому +2

    The only thing the guy needs to worry about right now is his newly married life. He needs to discuss everything with wife. Else fulfilling family responsibilities wud eat out his personal life!!!

  • @rohitsoni9325
    @rohitsoni9325 22 години тому +2

    Good Son, Good Brother but Bad Husband and a Bad Father (if he continue living with this mentality). Bhai chhote bhai behen bache nhi rahenge hamesha, unko responsibility deni padegi. Sister ka loan dilwaya very good, but stop paying her interest, she'll handle it herself.
    And think about your wife and future kids, include her in financial decisions. Agr use kuch financial dikkat hogi to you are equally accountable and same goes the other way

  • @vishwas55
    @vishwas55 10 годин тому +2

    If he doesnt change i am pretty sure in the future his relationship with sibling will not be good. There might be a fight between his wife and siblings regarding money matter.

  • @simratsahota38684
    @simratsahota38684 21 годину тому +2

    Yeh Banda bahut acha hain yaar🙌..requesting his wife to please just hug him and pamper him a bit
    Maam please do so if you are reading this
    Even men need love🫶

  • @divyansh24
    @divyansh24 22 години тому +2

    If u give so much support to kids, they won't learn to grow by themselves

  • @abhayrohit
    @abhayrohit 19 годин тому +2

    classic adarsh mard, will surely fail financially, money decisions are never made from heart

  • @YPSS-UTube
    @YPSS-UTube День тому +14

    isnt pet a luxury ?

    • @shruti07
      @shruti07 23 години тому +7

      That's wut I thought

    • @arnavkhandekar166
      @arnavkhandekar166 10 годин тому +1

      Absolutely

    • @AttyDG
      @AttyDG 9 годин тому

      Yes

    • @_radON
      @_radON 8 годин тому +1

      No, we have a cat and monthly expense on him is hardly 1k

    • @shruti07
      @shruti07 7 годин тому

      @YPSS-UTube but what if they get sick? You never know. Beside 1k in month may not be huge, but you calculate yearly it will.

  • @ashutosh0011
    @ashutosh0011 21 годину тому +2

    Bhai mera bhi tracking nahi hota hai until and unless maine ek separate account nahi open kiya. Jab bhi meri salary aati hai, sabse pehle monthly expenses ko ek separate account mein transfer karta hu. Sare bill salary account se pay karta hu, uske baad us account ko kabhi touch nahi karta hu.

  • @kamalbala1707
    @kamalbala1707 День тому +3

    Elder brother = father ❤

  • @sanm2662
    @sanm2662 17 годин тому +3

    He is not 100% real…. Some extent sympathy game play

    • @aarti4553
      @aarti4553 12 годин тому +1

      You should watch the session again,his discomfort while sharing about family members, if he wanted to get sympathy he would have published on his own youtube channel or tagged himself to get hype.
      He was looking for a solution for his financial issues not for getting criticized or sympathy.

  • @Ritesh-gr9sd
    @Ritesh-gr9sd 14 годин тому +2

    I am surprised how many people in comment section is defending this guy
    Koi problem hai hi nhi iss aadmi ko
    He is doing totally fine.
    Just being emotional
    He needs to understand and be more practical and moreover
    Can always switch to a better income job and life will totally change

    • @aarti4553
      @aarti4553 12 годин тому

      Yes he takes emotional decisions instead of thinking practically

  • @prayassarangi1393
    @prayassarangi1393 22 години тому +2

    In most cases these siblings ditch and this person will be repaying the loan and he is so much supressed that he will do that for lyf.

  • @ronk337
    @ronk337 7 годин тому +1

    I m 36, earning 65000 in total and family of 4 surviving on this, but I donot have any option I work in Bengaluru along, living in PG and family is in jharkhand. Being loan free is very big relief in life.

  • @nishankbhati3188
    @nishankbhati3188 7 годин тому +1

    May sound rude but his children will be very unlucky to born to such dad.
    To all those brothers and sisters reading this and have dependants, never reveal your salary to your family. They will burden u will their expectations.

  • @phanindra40
    @phanindra40 9 годин тому +1

    be careful with family, the more burden you start to take the more they throw on you. Eventually all be happy except you. Especially these uncounted finances! some day they might ask what have you done for us.

  • @Prathz
    @Prathz День тому +2

    Over pessimistic person.

  • @theredbaron28
    @theredbaron28 10 годин тому +1

    There are any underrated warriors like Ashish in this country. I'm sure his efforts will be appreciated by his loved ones and he will get a good life he deserves 😇

  • @hiteshvedpathak
    @hiteshvedpathak 11 годин тому +1

    If you can't have a conversation with your family, jst make a UA-cam video to let them know 😂

  • @BrokenRecord-i7q
    @BrokenRecord-i7q 20 годин тому +1

    if you visit starbucks when you can barely afford a tapri ki chai, someone needs to call this out just because you can afford the EMI doesnt mean you can afford the product, unfortunately the gentleman has taken loans upwards of 60 lacs that way above the pay grade

  • @ab1ek145
    @ab1ek145 22 години тому +1

    I think his sister should take care of her loan why is he owning it. She should do part-time job and repay loan otherwise not sending sister abroad should have considered.poor guy suffering because of family members

  • @utkarshdixit8116
    @utkarshdixit8116 5 годин тому +1

    This is not the flagship campus course which he has done but the distance one to just get the certificate

  • @DrKallalPramanik
    @DrKallalPramanik 10 годин тому +1

    I don't want to be harsh, but बीवी शादी के बाद ही समझ गई है कि बंदा अपने आप को और अपने future को least priority देता है। People like this are often abandoned by their own in the end. It’s heartbreaking, unless they are mentally prepared for it.

  • @fatboyrecordsinc.7773
    @fatboyrecordsinc.7773 12 годин тому +3

    L sister L Brother L Father. Laura family hai tera

    • @aarti4553
      @aarti4553 12 годин тому

      Jo apni family members ko chorke chle wo b L hi hai jese tum.

    • @divyanshbhargava6378
      @divyanshbhargava6378 11 годин тому +1

      L Sister? Not really. She must be around 22-24 and is trying her best to earn more, hence the decision to go abroad. His brother is 10 years younger than him, so he must be around 18-19 years old. You can't expect a 19-year-old to earn a living. He can't do much right now - L Father agreed.

    • @chiragsharmaYoutube
      @chiragsharmaYoutube 10 годин тому

      ​@@divyanshbhargava6378 sister need to earn in India first ,

  • @kumarbinay3394
    @kumarbinay3394 День тому +2

    This guy over thinks a lot and there is no other problem

    • @dhawaljain3837
      @dhawaljain3837 День тому

      Woi khud ka hi income pakda hai wife ka bhi count karke plan karna chahiye

  • @techmechnegi
    @techmechnegi 11 годин тому +1

    Wife kalesh loading after watching this video 😮

  • @ajaymohan1863
    @ajaymohan1863 14 годин тому +1

    This is what Patriarchy does to men. Open your eyes guys 😢

  • @kigsman007
    @kigsman007 День тому +1

    big brother always does and after younger once become able they just seperate themselves later the elder brother regrets

  • @financewithsom485
    @financewithsom485 23 години тому +1

    He is a good brother and son . There are very less selfless people like him now a days.

  • @Boywithmilliondreams
    @Boywithmilliondreams 17 годин тому +1

    Most of here in comment section can feel his pain being ghar ka bada ladka 😐

  • @geosisofficial
    @geosisofficial 23 години тому +1

    hamara to 30 k salary me to 5 logo ko family acche se chalte he bhai , aur ye to 1.8 lakh me bhi nehi chala pa raha haiy

  • @NiteshSharma-hb7zj
    @NiteshSharma-hb7zj 23 години тому +1

    I also want part of this series, facing many problems to manage my financial

  • @Indianenglish378
    @Indianenglish378 День тому +1

    Brother time flies very fast try to chill don't be workaholic

  • @pratheeklondhe799
    @pratheeklondhe799 23 години тому +1

    Emotional fool ?! inspite of being quite disciplined.

  • @hritwiksom3032
    @hritwiksom3032 День тому +1

    15:32, iss "Aisa Kyun" ka kabhi na kabhi answer hopefully mujhe and saare ghar ke bade siblings ko mil jaye...

  • @moviebuff6178
    @moviebuff6178 День тому +1

    I am willing to buy the PS5 if you want to sell it.......

  • @sumitkumargupta4125
    @sumitkumargupta4125 10 годин тому +1

    Ye jayda hero baan rha Bollywood movie ko dekh kar…… isko acha banna hai sabke samne…. Sahi hai aise logo ki sab maarte h

  • @manjeetsinghnitallahabad4532
    @manjeetsinghnitallahabad4532 21 годину тому +2

    Bhai Kam RR kar