Stop Allowing Circumstances to Program YOU

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  • Опубліковано 10 жов 2024

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  • @WithoutNarcissism
    @WithoutNarcissism 9 місяців тому +27

    True. A lot of people think because they have learned something that they know it. That is actually an understanding, not knowing it. The ancients used to say that knowledge was in the heart because when you know something by heart, then and only then do you truly know it. The head understands. The heart knows.

  • @Tweezy316
    @Tweezy316 9 місяців тому +18

    I was one of those people. I avoided Kim’s videos because all she did was talk about self-concept and I refused to do it. Well after manifesting my SP multiple and realizing when I felt good about myself she came back and when I started feeling shitty about myself she left I now get it. And I’m doing the work! Currently down 20 pounds and feeling great. I know when she comes back this time she will stay because self-concept is the KEY!

    • @melycatpls
      @melycatpls 9 місяців тому +4

      I was in the same boat!! My self concept was so high and when he came back i got triggered so much. We’re still happily together but I’ve been working on my SC while being together and it’s tough but getting easier and easier 🤍 YOU GOT THIS!

    • @Tweezy316
      @Tweezy316 9 місяців тому +1

      @@melycatpls Thank you mamas❤️

    • @bluesapphire7458
      @bluesapphire7458 9 місяців тому +1

      Im working on my relationship concept & figured out why tf it happened from the 1st place..& i figured out that i always felt unfullfillment & lonely without a partner & relationship & kept embodied that energy throught out my past yrs hence i manifested toxic circumstances with mens..i kept attracted unhealthy relationship with mens becoz of it..& also included low self esteem & attachment style ..now i stooped affirming for sp..& working on love & relationship concept..i dont want to end up my life affirming forevery single person i meet ..its bettter to affirm for myself..✌🏻

    • @suras8984
      @suras8984 9 місяців тому +4

      ​@melycatpls I think it's also important to create a belief that just because your feeling insecure doesn't mean they have to leave. There are plenty of people in long lasting toxic relationships or people who stay with people who are insecure. I'm not saying to strive for that by any means. But I think that it's an important belief to incorporate that your sp will stay even when you fall off the sc wagon.

  • @sobersimone
    @sobersimone 3 місяці тому

    Wow Kim, this is a video where everything came together for me. Two years ago, I started listening to your ‘Goddess Queen’ meditation. I didn’t understand why it would help me, but it felt right. Then, I learned about manifestation and manifested my SP multiple times, my car, and more money. But the feeling inside me stayed the same.
    A few weeks ago, it clicked: I was constantly focusing on my 3D (SP, money, etc.) instead of being obsessed with myself. The most important thing was missing: my obsession with myself. That’s why it felt so hard to convince myself of my worthiness-why people or money should choose me.
    From 2022 until now, I was just too scared. Too scared to let go, too scared to focus only on myself. But I am so ready now. My Goddess Queen Era, a new era of me. I feel better so much better since the last couple of weeks and I am becoming a version of myself that knows her worth and value because she loves herself unconditionally and is obsessed with herself.
    Thank you, Kim ❤

  • @teresaeb34
    @teresaeb34 9 місяців тому +7

    Currently been a therapist for 10yrs. Ready to do more different move on… but I have a health anxiety. Need to fix that asap

  • @jadespinelli5504
    @jadespinelli5504 9 місяців тому +5

    Those bloody childhood hidden beliefs they hang on for dear life lol!!!

  • @teresaeb34
    @teresaeb34 9 місяців тому +5

    Right!!!! Read Neville again and again. Every chance I get to burn it into my conscious and subconscious

  • @a.l.hurston7548
    @a.l.hurston7548 9 місяців тому +3

    No offense to Neville, but I'm *really* wanting to hear Abdullah. Now, *there's* the GOAT!

    • @sadistmy
      @sadistmy 9 місяців тому

      i have been thinking of that too!

  • @freepressright
    @freepressright 9 місяців тому

    Repetition is what leads to knowing. Practice is what leads to effective execution and the attainment of goals.
    There's learning -- thats general awareness. Then there's accepting. Somewhere thereafter, you will reach the point of knowing. That's when much of this becomes automatic.

  • @raphaelwoods5502
    @raphaelwoods5502 6 місяців тому

    Thanks kum for being a good person in this world of craziness

  • @roseclimbpaintcont
    @roseclimbpaintcont 9 місяців тому +1

    I took a critical thinkimg class in college. It was very helpful. That was like 2001 though

  • @thecurioussoul1111
    @thecurioussoul1111 9 місяців тому +2

    my god I definitely needed to hear this today

  • @ClareBaker-sy8eb
    @ClareBaker-sy8eb 6 місяців тому

    This is me right now 😢

  • @ngocdiep8746
    @ngocdiep8746 9 місяців тому +2

    i love this video Kim❤

  • @spirituallydivineevibess
    @spirituallydivineevibess 9 місяців тому +2

    Thanks kim❤ happy holidays. Hope u had a blessed Christmas.

  • @footballgirl87
    @footballgirl87 9 місяців тому

    How do you handle or change your perspective/thoughts when your feelings are very powerful? My old programming/thoughts have a lot of feelings behind them (and I am a feeler for sure). So when I try to change my thoughts to match the new vision I have for myself... well, it is very hard to do with all those emotions and feelings that have been engraved in me over the years from what I thought before. And believe me... I have tried and continue to try to change myself from within. . I just cant believe how hard this is despite my best efforts every day (definitely not giving up though!). Any tips to snap myself out of it when the feelings from old programming are super strong?

  • @ElisabethKanyer
    @ElisabethKanyer 9 місяців тому +1

    💗

  • @percyvazquez1474
    @percyvazquez1474 9 місяців тому +1

    I know its about change within, but do we call out people when its not what we deserve?? Or just stay quiet and continue to work on the inner story??? I think if i stay quiet, I am that same doormat.

    • @fatimaamer3267
      @fatimaamer3267 9 місяців тому

      Keep a distance between you and them. Stay quite and keep working on the inner story. Ignore them and focus on yourself

    • @percyvazquez1474
      @percyvazquez1474 9 місяців тому

      @@fatimaamer3267 thank you so much.....much love to you

  • @teresagallagher9166
    @teresagallagher9166 9 місяців тому

    Looking into how to do this with you.

  • @anth0niie
    @anth0niie 9 місяців тому +1

    3:08 - these days you leave a pen and paper in front of someone, they’ll ask you - “how do i write?”

  • @akshe4748
    @akshe4748 9 місяців тому +1

    Critical thinking skills actually dispel everything you teach, Kim. 😂

    • @KimVelezCoach
      @KimVelezCoach  9 місяців тому

      Not at all. Critical thinking requires self awareness of your own biases and assumptions. It also requires you to be able to identify credible sources.

  • @rgbosteen3944
    @rgbosteen3944 9 місяців тому +1