This was such a horrible life changing event for my sons !!! They are stronger than they both realize !!! I love them so much !!! and our little girl Aubrey will forever be in our hearts and minds and forever our guardian angel to look after her dad ... daddy ... brother .. sister and all of us who loves her ❤️❤️❤️
I lost my Angel girl, Samantha, at 19w5d. On the 26th anniversary, my daughter told me she was having my first grandson!! God Bless y’all for sharing this story & showing so much love to each other through this time.
*sends virtual hug* this is definitely a sad story and I’m over here emotional for y’all just from watching. I would never want to go through anything like that! Much love to y’all!😍😍
Always and Forever Loved. Rest In Perfect Peace Aubrey 🎀💕 Terrell, Jarius, Ashton & Aria you all are LOVED by so many & I thank you for sharing your life experiences with us. Stay well, uplifted in love, life and happiness✨
Whew! As someone who’s wants to have children this is my worst nightmare, I’m glad you guys were able to have this experience and share it others like myself. So sorry for your loss ❤️
Thank y'all for sharing such a personal experience. The series has been a huge emotional rollercoaster. I know the trials and tribulations that y'all went through will have a positive impact on anyone that has gone through or will be going through surrogacy as an option for being parents. Take pride in the fact that you're sharing will be helping others on so many levels. Y'all continue to be blessed and stay blessed and booked. T&J family for life. Love y'all.💟💙💚💛💜🖤💖❤💟💙💚💛💜🖤💖❤💟🖤💜💛💚💙💖❤👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😊😊😊😊
I admire the strength it takes to share something so hard in a vulnerable forum like this. Thank you for showing the world in yet another way that “love is love is love is love”! ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
My heart goes out to you both....I can’t imagine and was tearing as I watched. Thank you both for sharing your story and journey. I’ll keep watching!!! 💚❤️💜
I don’t even really know what to say beyond THANK YOU. I thank you for selflessly sharing your story. We hear people talk about having miscarriages more often today but never have heard anyone go through & recount the actual emotional details. It’s enlightening, inspiring and you are helping others who’ve been through this see there is light from the angels we lose to protect us as the journey of life continues. Thank you both for being so open about this. Sending so much love to you both and your family. From your virtual family.
God I love y’all. Me and Ian going on 25 years this year. I look back and wish we had tried. No matter the journey your stronger for it and have 3 beautiful souls. One is just looking over the other 2 from heaven
You talking bout a heartbreak feel like I couldn’t breathe watching this. I know this was tough recording but I appreciate y’all sharing y’all story with so many of us
Omg this made me cry this is so touching I’m so sorry u guys had to go thru that is very rough to go through she is with u guys she is y’all guardian angel 👼
God bless y'all. My first born would've been 17 on Tuesday. Jacob Wayne Smith. He was born June 2, 2004, 10.5 inches long and 2lbs. I was 23 weeks when I had to be induced. Similar situation. My sack didn't rupture, but Jacob only had one kidney that didn't function, so he didn't have any fluid either. Two years later, I had my daughter. Her name is Aubree. 🥰 I believe the lord put your video on front of my via Facebook. I always get down this time of year......I'm now a subscriber of you 2 beautiful humans! Much love!
You will ALWAYS be her daddies, she will ALWAYS be your baby girl! I'm so so sorry from your loss, for all the hard work you had done. I'm sure she's watching her siblings growing and learning with you two right now! She loves you as much as you love her!
My heart goes out to the both of you, having miscarried 3 times before I had my son I know what you went through but know that your baby girl is still in your hearts love you guys
Thank for sharing your story. I camt imagine how hard it would be. I was unable to finish this due to my own loss recently but i have watched all other episodes. Lots of love from Australia
I am so sorry for your loss, I know this was hard for you all to speak about, but I'm glad we got a glimpse into your lives. Thank you, thank you, thank you
I love you both so much for sharing this part of your journey. Oh my God. I can't stop crying. I wish I was there just to hug you both. I'm so sorry you both went through such a tragic incident at such a young age. Even now, just to remind you since you texted me if you ever in need of a neutral older person to talk to, just know Uncle Anthony is always here no matter what time of day it is.
💜💜💜 so sorry for your loss. I’m a single guy starting my surrogate journey. I had someone picked but things didn’t go as planned. I can’t imagine going through that😢 so sad!
After what happened to get your beautiful twins, I’m just going to say Hang in there. You guys are awesome parents, and what’s meant will happen. Rest heavenly rainbow baby
So sorry for the loss with me I've seen it all...I've experienced four and God still blessed me with four more🙏🙏...am a strong believer and that's why I've pulled through everything though it's never easy
my emotions are all over the place ,but am sure Aubrey is so proud of her daddies as she watches her dad ,daddy and siblings from up there...LOVE YOU GUYS
Actually my dp WhatsApp has been your pic with AJ 😍. Never knew until today when I was on TIKTOK that I saw the picture Mad love and respect LOVE WINS 🌈
THX! FIRST FOR SHARING,IT WILL HELP YOU AND OTHER'S! YOUR 2 CHILDREN NOW HAS A SPECIAL GUARDIAN ANGEL WATCHING OVER THEM ALL DAY AND ALL NIGHT! FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVE'S. NEVER FORGET HER, SHE WAS A KEY ROLE IN YOUR LIVE'S. STAY STRONG, STAY SAFE & MUCH LOVE*
Oh dear, this really is so much sad news, I just can't imagine being in that position. But I know you both are stronger now. You got two babies back for your troubles. Love, light and peace.
I remember my brother almost having one. My nephew was doing well up till out was the day of good breath. He was being big like she should and everything was good. But the day he cane his breathing was very low to where the doctors thought he was not going to make it. His breathing was like a 20 r 30% and the first day he stayed there then next day it got lower. My family fight Kno how to tell me. Because they knew b4 he came I tried my best to b there everyday Eddie he was still inside his mother. I would sit with her and we talk I’ll put my head phones on her stomach letting him listen to music and everything. So when they told me I broke down crying. I took it so hard and at the same time being in high school made it even harder. So the 3rd day his breathing increased. The 4th day it went back down and I broke down crying in the waiting room. And stayed praying to god if u have to take me not him r take years of my life to give him life. And with in 2 days he was breathing on his own 100%. When I say that was the most scariest time of my life because he is my first and only nephew. So I was really ready to give up my life just so he could live and when he got older that they could tell him yo uncle gave his life so u could have life. Til this day I still love at him and he makes me smile. I never thought I could feel the feeling of unconditional love that lil boy changed it ask that day. I was at the hospital everyday. Then when he was in ICU they told us only his parents abs grandparent could see him it hurt so bad but it never stopped me going to there. The next year I graduated and I heard him cry during it I just smiled and said that’s my nephew Ik that cry from any thing. Even though I’m not his father I treat him as if he’s mine and I will do anything in my power to make sure he don’t go without for no reason. I’ll give up everything for him.
I cried so much during this video as I have had a misscarriage and 7 months ago I loss my oldest son in a car Accident he was only 11 years old and it’s heart breaking to loose one your babies it literally rips you apart 💔😢 I’m so sorry for the loss of you baby girl
My brother had 3miscarriages,the doctors say her woman was too hot in her, so babies couldn't exceed 7months,the first baby to die is the reason why l swore never to give birth, because that trauma is still in my brain, the pain her woman went throw only to deliver adead soul left me torn apart, l remember her little hands and her soft skin, l walked out and sat beside the house, it was the first my mum came to talk to me in a more soft manner, "she called my name, and said*it's OK, you cry.. we all have different journeys on this planet*l live upto this day to know life is a walk, sorry for your experience but life is a journey
Sorry for your loss 😥🙏 love you guys and your babies are getting big. They are adorable and I am so happy for you both. Much love and blessing to you all ❤
Sorry you had to go through this :( RIP Aubrey💞 Y’all this is no miscarriage this is considered a Stillbirth 💔!!! I feel y’all’s pain I had my angel baby at 23 weeks 😢 Y’all are such strong 💪🏼 people I love your channel & y’all’s lil fam keep up the great content !
I understand your pain. I had the same situation but I went the whole nine months. I thought I could not live after that. I end up having two more children after that. But I still miss my son til this very day @T&J Family
Hey👋🏾 T&J I’m missing y’all 😕🙁☹️😔I hope everything’s all right and i hope the babies are doing great With their little intelligent self🥰🥰 Looking forward to seeing your videos again and hopefully soon 💙💙😘
Omg god must have wanted me to see this. I just suffered a miscarriage yesterday and I’m literally crying constantly just asking why. Thank you so much.
We send our condolences to you both! My husband and I want kids as well and that is my biggest fear. I applaud both of you for being strong and how you moved forward to have two beautiful kids! I couldn’t imagine losing a child. We have one but he is grown. We want another one and is considering all things. You guys are very encouraging! Thanks may God bless you and your family!
My condolences go out to the both of you. This was definitely the hardest videos I’ve watched with you too. I pray you both will get though this and she continues to live in your hearts.
My condolences ..on the loss of y'all first born daughter and I'm glad that y'all decided to try again ..now y'all have two beautiful children...Sorry I did not finish the video before my first comment but it's a beautiful sad story.With a double blessing And a their heavenly sister is watching over them and her daddies.....🙏
This was such a horrible life changing event for my sons !!! They are stronger than they both realize !!! I love them so much !!! and our little girl Aubrey will forever be in our hearts and minds and forever our guardian angel to look after her dad ... daddy ... brother .. sister and all of us who loves her ❤️❤️❤️
Sorry I’m late but are you okay? I’m sorry for your loss of your child! Love for everyone
R.I.P🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
R.I.P. Aubrey🙏🏿
Aubrey is an angel now. You will see her again one day and she will know you. This is my belief
I understand. I’m glad you acknowledged that men grieve too and the lack of support we are given-especially if we are not the husband.
I lost my Angel girl, Samantha, at 19w5d. On the 26th anniversary, my daughter told me she was having my first grandson!! God Bless y’all for sharing this story & showing so much love to each other through this time.
Awwwwh I’m so sorry for you alls loss. Just know she is always watching over y’all. I love you guys💙💙💙
I lost a baby around 18 weeks as well. I feel your pain loves. You’re so strong + such amazing dads. 🖤
*sends virtual hug* this is definitely a sad story and I’m over here emotional for y’all just from watching. I would never want to go through anything like that! Much love to y’all!😍😍
You guys go through so much. It's amazing how u guys remain such beautiful spirits.
Always and Forever Loved. Rest In Perfect Peace Aubrey 🎀💕
Terrell, Jarius, Ashton & Aria you all are LOVED by so many & I thank you for sharing your life experiences with us. Stay well, uplifted in love, life and happiness✨
Whew! As someone who’s wants to have children this is my worst nightmare, I’m glad you guys were able to have this experience and share it others like myself. So sorry for your loss ❤️
My Deepest Condolences On The Loss Of Your Daughter R.I.P. Aubrey
Thank y'all for sharing such a personal experience. The series has been a huge emotional rollercoaster. I know the trials and tribulations that y'all went through will have a positive impact on anyone that has gone through or will be going through surrogacy as an option for being parents. Take pride in the fact that you're sharing will be helping others on so many levels. Y'all continue to be blessed and stay blessed and booked. T&J family for life. Love y'all.💟💙💚💛💜🖤💖❤💟💙💚💛💜🖤💖❤💟🖤💜💛💚💙💖❤👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😊😊😊😊
I admire the strength it takes to share something so hard in a vulnerable forum like this. Thank you for showing the world in yet another way that “love is love is love is love”! ♥️🧡💛💚💙💜
I can only imagine how devastating this was for you guys. My heart goes out you guy and anyone that has suffered thru miscarriages.
My heart goes out to you both....I can’t imagine and was tearing as I watched. Thank you both for sharing your story and journey. I’ll keep watching!!! 💚❤️💜
I don’t even really know what to say beyond THANK YOU. I thank you for selflessly sharing your story. We hear people talk about having miscarriages more often today but never have heard anyone go through & recount the actual emotional details. It’s enlightening, inspiring and you are helping others who’ve been through this see there is light from the angels we lose to protect us as the journey of life continues. Thank you both for being so open about this. Sending so much love to you both and your family. From your virtual family.
Thanks for sharing, there’s so many couples who need to hear your story💜💜
God I love y’all. Me and Ian going on 25 years this year. I look back and wish we had tried. No matter the journey your stronger for it and have 3 beautiful souls. One is just looking over the other 2 from heaven
You talking bout a heartbreak feel like I couldn’t breathe watching this. I know this was tough recording but I appreciate y’all sharing y’all story with so many of us
My sincere condolences to you both, and we love you guys!!
Omg this made me cry this is so touching I’m so sorry u guys had to go thru that is very rough to go through she is with u guys she is y’all guardian angel 👼
Teetee loves you Aubrey 💜
God bless y'all. My first born would've been 17 on Tuesday. Jacob Wayne Smith. He was born June 2, 2004, 10.5 inches long and 2lbs. I was 23 weeks when I had to be induced. Similar situation. My sack didn't rupture, but Jacob only had one kidney that didn't function, so he didn't have any fluid either. Two years later, I had my daughter. Her name is Aubree. 🥰 I believe the lord put your video on front of my via Facebook. I always get down this time of year......I'm now a subscriber of you 2 beautiful humans! Much love!
I literally started crying watching this video. You guys give me so much hope ❤️
So many tears have fallen while watching this. Rest in paradise little Aubrey. You two are so very strong!! Love and hugs
This story touched my heart! Very sad, but yall are truly blessed now!❤
You will ALWAYS be her daddies, she will ALWAYS be your baby girl! I'm so so sorry from your loss, for all the hard work you had done. I'm sure she's watching her siblings growing and learning with you two right now! She loves you as much as you love her!
R.i.p baby girl we miss you. Don't cry guys *hugs*
My heart goes out to the both of you, having miscarried 3 times before I had my son I know what you went through but know that your baby girl is still in your hearts love you guys
Thank for sharing your story. I camt imagine how hard it would be. I was unable to finish this due to my own loss recently but i have watched all other episodes.
Lots of love from Australia
I am so sorry for your loss, I know this was hard for you all to speak about, but I'm glad we got a glimpse into your lives. Thank you, thank you, thank you
I love you both so much for sharing this part of your journey. Oh my God. I can't stop crying. I wish I was there just to hug you both. I'm so sorry you both went through such a tragic incident at such a young age. Even now, just to remind you since you texted me if you ever in need of a neutral older person to talk to, just know Uncle Anthony is always here no matter what time of day it is.
Sorry for the lost. You all are amazing dads and she will always be with you all.❤️
💜💜💜 so sorry for your loss. I’m a single guy starting my surrogate journey. I had someone picked but things didn’t go as planned. I can’t imagine going through that😢 so sad!
Condolences. Lots of Love from South Africa ❤️
Very emotional thanks for sharing
After what happened to get your beautiful twins, I’m just going to say Hang in there. You guys are awesome parents, and what’s meant will happen. Rest heavenly rainbow baby
Always love a good story time.
So sorry for the loss with me I've seen it all...I've experienced four and God still blessed me with four more🙏🙏...am a strong believer and that's why I've pulled through everything though it's never easy
my emotions are all over the place ,but am sure Aubrey is so proud of her daddies as she watches her dad ,daddy and siblings from up there...LOVE YOU GUYS
I feel your pain. My heart is breaking for you. I'm sorry you went through that.
My emotions are all over the place right now
This is so emotional 😭😭😭 am not used to see Jairus crying.
Sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing your story with us, hope that everyone is okay now.
Actually my dp WhatsApp has been your pic with AJ 😍. Never knew until today when I was on TIKTOK that I saw the picture
Mad love and respect
LOVE WINS 🌈
I’m so sorry you guys went through that.. I found you from JesssFam and I’m so glad I did!
Wow!!! You both has my condolences. Praying for the both of you.
Was waiting for this story. Love you guys 😘
THX! FIRST FOR SHARING,IT WILL HELP YOU AND OTHER'S! YOUR 2 CHILDREN NOW HAS A SPECIAL GUARDIAN ANGEL WATCHING OVER THEM ALL DAY AND ALL NIGHT! FOR THE REST OF THEIR LIVE'S. NEVER FORGET HER, SHE WAS A KEY ROLE IN YOUR LIVE'S. STAY STRONG, STAY SAFE & MUCH LOVE*
Oh dear, this really is so much sad news, I just can't imagine being in that position. But I know you both are stronger now. You got two babies back for your troubles. Love, light and peace.
I love.yiu guys so much and really enjoy your videos. I came after I saw you in Jesssfams videos.
You guys are such an inspiration to all people.
I’m soooo sorry 😞. feeling a bit of your pain. So glad you all stood up from that to more blessings
I remember my brother almost having one. My nephew was doing well up till out was the day of good breath. He was being big like she should and everything was good. But the day he cane his breathing was very low to where the doctors thought he was not going to make it. His breathing was like a 20 r 30% and the first day he stayed there then next day it got lower. My family fight Kno how to tell me. Because they knew b4 he came I tried my best to b there everyday Eddie he was still inside his mother. I would sit with her and we talk I’ll put my head phones on her stomach letting him listen to music and everything. So when they told me I broke down crying. I took it so hard and at the same time being in high school made it even harder. So the 3rd day his breathing increased. The 4th day it went back down and I broke down crying in the waiting room. And stayed praying to god if u have to take me not him r take years of my life to give him life. And with in 2 days he was breathing on his own 100%. When I say that was the most scariest time of my life because he is my first and only nephew. So I was really ready to give up my life just so he could live and when he got older that they could tell him yo uncle gave his life so u could have life. Til this day I still love at him and he makes me smile. I never thought I could feel the feeling of unconditional love that lil boy changed it ask that day. I was at the hospital everyday. Then when he was in ICU they told us only his parents abs grandparent could see him it hurt so bad but it never stopped me going to there. The next year I graduated and I heard him cry during it I just smiled and said that’s my nephew Ik that cry from any thing. Even though I’m not his father I treat him as if he’s mine and I will do anything in my power to make sure he don’t go without for no reason. I’ll give up everything for him.
thank you both so much for your vulnerability ♥️.
My heart goes out to you both. I have been there and you are right.... you never get over it. It gets better but it’s always in the back of your mind.
So damn hard to watch this video when your eyes are full of tears. The screen has been blurry for the majority of the video.
It'll only make you stronger. God had you from the start.
I cried so much during this video as I have had a misscarriage and 7 months ago I loss my oldest son in a car Accident he was only 11 years old and it’s heart breaking to loose one your babies it literally rips you apart 💔😢 I’m so sorry for the loss of you baby girl
I'm so sorry for your losses, Roberta.
This is horrible, I can’t even imagine the pain y’all went through I am so sorry for your loss
Not even 4 minutes in and I’m tearing up 🥺
Brung tears to my eye 😥... Much love Aubrey Your missed ❤😇
From Tik Tok. I'm so sorry this happened. I absolutely love you both!
I am in tears. Thanks for sharing. Love you guys. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Awwww the whole time i just literally wanted to hug you guys aww.
My brother had 3miscarriages,the doctors say her woman was too hot in her, so babies couldn't exceed 7months,the first baby to die is the reason why l swore never to give birth, because that trauma is still in my brain, the pain her woman went throw only to deliver adead soul left me torn apart, l remember her little hands and her soft skin, l walked out and sat beside the house, it was the first my mum came to talk to me in a more soft manner, "she called my name, and said*it's OK, you cry.. we all have different journeys on this planet*l live upto this day to know life is a walk, sorry for your experience but life is a journey
This was hard to watch, you guys are my favorites and to hear you guys had to go through this is heartbreaking. Lol I couldn’t stop crying 😭
Omg this was very sad . My condolence goes out to you guys . You guys are so strong. Thats something nobody. Cant take away . 💙
I love y'all family, stay safe and I sorry for what happen to y'all 🙏🏽✝️🙏🏽
I cried with y’all 😥😥. This vid is so emotional 😭
TikTok. Your light is beautiful. I was immediately drawn in.
Sorry for your loss 😥🙏 love you guys and your babies are getting big. They are adorable and I am so happy for you both. Much love and blessing to you all ❤
That was tough, but yet, beautiful. ❤️🇨🇦
Thank you for sharing.
I'm sorry for y'alls loss I'm sending a virtual hug to both of yall
Sorry you had to go through this :( RIP Aubrey💞 Y’all this is no miscarriage this is considered a Stillbirth 💔!!! I feel y’all’s pain I had my angel baby at 23 weeks 😢 Y’all are such strong 💪🏼 people I love your channel & y’all’s lil fam keep up the great content !
😭😭😭😭🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾. Thank you for sharing . Loss Is very hard very hard. 😭😭😭😍
I understand your pain. I had the same situation but I went the whole nine months. I thought I could not live after that. I end up having two more children after that. But I still miss my son til this very day @T&J Family
Hey👋🏾 T&J I’m missing y’all 😕🙁☹️😔I hope everything’s all right and i hope the babies are doing great With their little intelligent self🥰🥰 Looking forward to seeing your videos again and hopefully soon 💙💙😘
Omg god must have wanted me to see this. I just suffered a miscarriage yesterday and I’m literally crying constantly just asking why. Thank you so much.
We send our condolences to you both! My husband and I want kids as well and that is my biggest fear. I applaud both of you for being strong and how you moved forward to have two beautiful kids! I couldn’t imagine losing a child. We have one but he is grown. We want another one and is considering all things. You guys are very encouraging! Thanks may God bless you and your family!
My condolences go out to the both of you. This was definitely the hardest videos I’ve watched with you too. I pray you both will get though this and she continues to live in your hearts.
Hi I’m new here saw you guys on tik Tok and you guys are doing y’all best n don’t let anyone’s opinion get you down congrats n keep the love alive
Girl, where yall at!? It's been 2 weeks, everybody else breaking up. If yall get a divorce, I'm calling child services
Omg just saw you guys on tik tok. In love with you alreadyyy. 💛💙💜💚❤ I'm so sorry for your loss. 😔
Came here from Tik Tok.... y’all are so awesome!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss.
We love ya'll!!!!♥️♥️♥️♥️😭😭😭😭🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
I came over from tiktok y'all are awesome. I'm going to binge watch your videos.lol
My heart and prayers goes out to you guys 🙏🏿
So sorry for your loss 🥺😭🙏
I'm sorry to hear about your baby, may Gob bless you 2 wonderful men with a big family.
My condolences ..on the loss of y'all first born daughter and I'm glad that y'all decided to try again ..now y'all have two beautiful children...Sorry I did not finish the video before my first comment but it's a beautiful sad story.With a double blessing And a their heavenly sister is watching over them and her daddies.....🙏
All love ♥️ happy u have two beautiful kids now 💛
This is so sad I cannot help but cry with you guys. I feel for you
Sorry for y’all loss
This was too touching 😭😭😭😭😭.
Here from Tic tok! God bless
I'm so sorry, guys. I can't even imagine.
Aww so sorry to here this y’all are so strong and I’m glad y’all are at the point where y’all are now 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 😇😇😇😇😇
I found yall on tiktok and had to see more. New fam here❤
Nice family.. Following from tiktok