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  • @katemyertarot
    @katemyertarot  Рік тому +3

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  • @sarahstfirminderodriguez9672
    @sarahstfirminderodriguez9672 4 місяці тому +7

    This reading came back and I picked Pile 1. It's too late. I was born to be happy and never to be even considered like an option, solution or potential of stability. I'm not coming back. Thank you again.

  • @cris7707
    @cris7707 Рік тому +14

    Pile #3 resonated way too well 😔 Honestly, I'm done being the side character in someone else's story... but well, I always choose a harsh truth over a sweet lie, and I know I need to work on myself to finally feel like I am the protagonist of my own life. Thank you anyway for your reading ❣

  • @icantseeyou1294
    @icantseeyou1294 Рік тому +11

    Pile 1 - Ohh, I’ve just started to believe in spirit and their influence in our lives again. Thank you so much!

  • @marytong8013
    @marytong8013 Рік тому +9

    I listened to pile 1 reading. This felt like one of the best readings I have heard because from a Tarot reader as this was not sugar coated or just all lovey dovey as many to tend to be This helps me because it rings so very true. I feel a relief and know that I can just move on with my life I actually feel a sense of peace and acceptance as my heart remains open. Thank you for your wonderful service 🌺🌺🌺

  • @dollyllama816
    @dollyllama816 Рік тому +7

    Pile 2 and I must say this was hard to watch but very accurate. I watched it like ripping some duct tape off my skin. Thank you for your honesty.

  • @mayal9606
    @mayal9606 Рік тому +7

    Pile #1. Spot on, thank you!

  • @vivien5tar
    @vivien5tar 10 місяців тому +7

    Thank you Kate for the reading ❤
    I picked Pile 1 and it resonated so much.. i truly hope he realizes that he should choose what he truly want. Luckily for him, ill wait for him. Ive kinda realized that hes the one worth wating for.

  • @CFB284
    @CFB284 Рік тому +7

    Pile 1. Beautiful, seamless read, very clear message. ❤

  • @TESSIE167
    @TESSIE167 Рік тому +2

    Wow pile 1 was insanely accurate. I literally had to pause several times to gather my thoughts especially on the 3rd party outcome. It confirmed everything I was feeling .

  • @breakingpointe727
    @breakingpointe727 Рік тому +6

    Pile 2 resonated massively. My soon to be ex husband has a trauma based porn/sex/love addiction that destroyed our marriage. I was never able to fully get the truth from him and he spend a lot of his time and energy with cam girls - the next shiny object. He fully lived in his shadow. I don't blame Kate for wanting to get out of the energy of the reading, I felt the same way and finally left and filed for divorce. It has been a very painful journey, but I'm looking forward to a much happier future.

  • @wiltedthread
    @wiltedthread 8 місяців тому +3

    Pile 1 was spot on.. I got goosebumps 😮

  • @lydia8948
    @lydia8948 Рік тому +7

    #1 very right 😮 this will fall apart between them !!

  • @kath234
    @kath234 5 місяців тому

    #2 You really did a great job and so accurate. He always chooses to escape from one to others when hitting rock bottom and never bravely facing his wrongs and shadow.

  • @shweta9784
    @shweta9784 Місяць тому +1

    Can you please do a reading about how third party views the person..? It would be highly appreciated .

  • @alisasalem8316
    @alisasalem8316 Рік тому +4

    I like you as a reader, Kate. You read it with truth and sensitivity. Thank you. Pile 2 as terribly challenging as it was, resonates. I appreciate you🙏

  • @soulsignature1453
    @soulsignature1453 6 місяців тому +1

    Wow Kate, pile 2 was so on point. I have no words. You are an incredible reader ❤

  • @rosemuseli8933
    @rosemuseli8933 6 місяців тому +1

    Group 2. Amazing. Thank you.

  • @shesadreamer5845
    @shesadreamer5845 9 місяців тому +2

    Pile 1 🎯🎯 she’s investing in all of his businesses ✌🏽

  • @aditi9110
    @aditi9110 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for this reading ❤ pile 2 ….. it has helped me in getting clarity!

  • @GenerationXDoll
    @GenerationXDoll Рік тому +23

    The third party is his financial backer she's buying his attention I think she has helped him invest in property. I called them out and informed the third party. When I blocked him he just continues to call from other phone numbers and wants to meet to talk. No need for talking you made your choice now enjoy your relationship. I am the whistle blower and yes I'll tell her again and if he doesn't stop harassing me I'll send her every screenshot every message and even my camera footage when he drives by. He needs to be truthful and I wish he did really love her then he could leave me alone

    • @lydia8948
      @lydia8948 Рік тому +1

      You're a strong woman and I wish I was as strong as you, to forget all about the person I love but I can't. I'll do as pile one says and help them understand their mistake earlier, see my path is different and I'm called to do different things than you but I still appreciate how strong you are and wish you all the best dear soul !! Love and light ❤❤

    • @Pschychotically
      @Pschychotically Рік тому +2

      Honestly, perhaps you should get police involved that he keeps harassing you. Only to let them know and to have a file, a report you could potentially refer back to. Just a thought which came to my mind just now...😅

    • @maz8891
      @maz8891 Рік тому +1

      I like how you think 😂. I’m the same way. Show his girl that she’s dealing with a piece of 💩…. And guess what…. Keep him!!!! 😂

  • @Vasuda26
    @Vasuda26 4 місяці тому

    pile 1. Thank you for the comprehensive reading. Each and every word resonated with the situation. ur energy is like a cool breeze. I appreciate your work.

  • @nonai7897
    @nonai7897 3 місяці тому +1

    Wow 1 hr reading. Pile 1. Only the first half was accurate for my situation. I got the sense he wasnt really into her but she kept asking to meet up. I felt he felt obligated bc his friend set them up and hes a people pleaser. He said he was attracted to her but it felt shallow to me. He admitted hed rather be with me.

  • @LH-kw9hi
    @LH-kw9hi 5 місяців тому

    Listened to Pile 2. As frustrated and confused as you were, everything was spot on. Human emotions are complex and not always easy to suss out. I'm glad you ended up posting this reading; it gave me good perspective. My situation is frustrating with what feels like constant oscillating feelings on both his end and mine (attachment issues all around lol), and he always ends up running away and refusing to do real work on the issues that impact all his relationships. We both care deeply for each other and I've tried to be patient because i know what he's gone through, but he is very uncomfortable with me trying to work with him through our issues; I can't see a future with someone who can't sit with himself and refuses to grow through life. We've both backed off and are trying to move forward separately.
    I've been binging your readings after finding you today, and everything has resonated in a way my favorite readers used to but no longer do. Thanks for bringing your calm and objective perspective.

  • @123.ppt.
    @123.ppt. 7 місяців тому

    #2, indeed, this guy is an intelligent and disguised with gentle harmless appearance so i ignored his problems. i regret that i jumped too fast with codependent problems too. i’ll appreciate that the universe gave me this chance to learn this lesson.

  • @oem2925
    @oem2925 Рік тому +1

    The second Pile is on the spot

  • @PernillasPolitiskaÅsikter
    @PernillasPolitiskaÅsikter Рік тому +1

    P3 It is about me. It was familiar how I felt for him. But I wanted to heal something. I needed to travel, and I wanted to leave the familiar and go into the unknown. I was fixated on that goal. It was a goal (the devil) I was fixated on. So I choose myself, and studies. Not bringing him with me. And he felt that I was his lobster but I only saw him as an option. Only lust, not emotions. Where was the love? I have truly grown since when I was 19. This was when I was 19.

  • @niko2951
    @niko2951 Рік тому +3

    Pile 1, i guess i was the 3rd person in this one despite still being married. Good to know. Thank you for the info.

    • @huigao1404
      @huigao1404 Рік тому +2

      The third one means the other person apart from the viewer

  • @sarahstfirminderodriguez9672
    @sarahstfirminderodriguez9672 Рік тому +5

    Group 3. It's not possible... I left but I was always thinking that he would take a solid decision. Oh well may he find happiness with the mother of his son.
    Thank you for everything. After 14 years... I'm leaving.

    • @Satc34
      @Satc34 4 місяці тому +2

      im watching pile 3 now and I cant finish it because I know shes right, I need to leave for good and I cant handle it. I've also been in this about 14 years. I need to block him but when I walk away he says he misses me.i've wasted so much of my life

  • @deborahdowling4185
    @deborahdowling4185 Рік тому +1

    Kate, I tuned right into this reading (pile 3) and was clarifying Felt like a personal reading. Thank you for your insight xo

  • @mysticmiss333
    @mysticmiss333 11 місяців тому

    42:37 claiming for it to happen sooner rather than later. I know it’s happing my intuition won’t stop screaming even though I’m trying to detach. It’s very karmic and I pray he learns the lessons he needs from this situation, I’ll continue to pray for him.

  • @africanyvette2908
    @africanyvette2908 2 місяці тому +1

    Pile 3, he goes back and forth between the 2 then make them baby mamas then go marry a random 😂

  • @kiwiwiki2081
    @kiwiwiki2081 Рік тому +3

    Pile 2: I found proof that he was seeing another woman behind my back and comfronted him. He tried to play the victim. I will never know what trully happened anyway but he was a huge disappointment.

  • @PernillasPolitiskaÅsikter
    @PernillasPolitiskaÅsikter Рік тому +3

    He wanted to commit to me, but he saw me as changing so much, when I wanted to leave to study, and he did not want to leave, because he had work and responsibilities and he had to choose. I was very sad. Because I wanted to study. I choose myself at that time. I had decided already. I challenged him. He had invited me to his parents and I already knew who they were. He saw me studying and he was a painter and earned money. He has intention to work. With or without me. He saw stability with me. He perceieved me bringing stability. But he did not resolve the issue. So he called me and said it was over. So leaving the work or not, it was the question. He felt bound to it. I understand his situation. No home, no work, he was afraid of stepping into his manhood, he was 20 years old I guess. We were counterparts. We were a perfect match. He was a KingP. And I was QP at that time. So we would be a lovely couple. It was real. It was true. But I wanted to expand, instead of settling. Do I want to expand now? Committing or not? He said no to me. If he had chosen me he would have chosen self-love. I chose right. His fear of leaving would have inhibited me, if he could not expand.
    So, yes, that moment is frozen in time. I was sad.
    It looked very promising. But the energy between him and the other party was trauma based. Parents. Work. Yes. If he had followed his own heart, it would change for both of us.
    This was 25 years ago. ❤ P1

  • @ruslanakovtoniuk4975
    @ruslanakovtoniuk4975 Рік тому +5

    such a powerful, accurate reading, thank you! (pile 1)

  • @mysterious-fo8yj
    @mysterious-fo8yj Рік тому +2

    Pile 1, thank u

  • @Starshine151-k4h
    @Starshine151-k4h 4 місяці тому +1

    Group 2❤❤ Completely resonates..I confronted him with the third party and his ego got hurt i said to him that he is a player,he then ran away to her..They both r addicts of porn/sex/flings. he's a complicated person..very intelligent..in my case he needs to let go his addictions which he can't. Third party doesn't know anything about me but i know that woman. Am no longer in communication with him.. he's commitment phobic.if u question him he run away..he just needs bodily favours. He has a shiny object syndrome which is true. He is wounded and not healed. I know all about him.. because with me he shared all his past pain. as a woman of high self-respect,i set boundaries with him.

  • @mysticjen379
    @mysticjen379 5 місяців тому

    Pile 1: Thank you so much this was spot on 💖

  • @jDubbie2
    @jDubbie2 Місяць тому

    Pile 3… heart broken but necessary I guess. Thank you ❤

  • @GXica
    @GXica 5 місяців тому

    Oh my gosh! Pile2 and this is so sssso true!

  • @KatieKiki1111
    @KatieKiki1111 Рік тому +3

    I chose Pile 1. Right person wrong time 😢 I'm so frustrated nothing ever goes right for me.......💔

  • @gaia7277
    @gaia7277 5 місяців тому

    Omg I asked the universe to show me a seashell as a sign and wow the synchronicity!!! 😱😳😳🔥

  • @Noumenon4Idolatry
    @Noumenon4Idolatry 11 місяців тому

    Pile 3
    Excellent 🎉

  • @aishwarya.r
    @aishwarya.r 7 місяців тому +1

    Pile 2 - thank god it won’t work, hope they step back for good and leave me

  • @rain7bow437
    @rain7bow437 10 місяців тому +1

    This was the most accurate reading ive had on this situation and trust me ive had a few. You were spot on ❤
    Hes made his choice, he can now put up with her gold digging. Made his bed, he can lie in it. Im done being used.
    Thanks again lovely ❤

  • @celiaconverse5652
    @celiaconverse5652 Рік тому +3

    Lol well that was enlightening

  • @luzdragon100
    @luzdragon100 Рік тому

    Pile 3 well done married but separated, 3rd party for many years

  • @Propheticflame4321
    @Propheticflame4321 4 дні тому

    Pile 2

  • @orbit6229
    @orbit6229 11 днів тому

    Excellent reading and my first time listening to you. I’m pile two. Married and with a child, third party is an ex that has been a problem from the start. 😢so I think with the new year some things have gotten revealed to me. I’m very intuitive and always have signs when I am meant to see something. I’m hurting a lot and I’m feeling pretty stuck. I felt it was sexual, it’s always been a strange energy and I’ve always felt like she is always lurking in the background.

  • @cd3777
    @cd3777 Рік тому

    Group 3, thank you

  • @eaccus_522
    @eaccus_522 4 місяці тому

    Thanks 🎯#2

  • @salimi.sheriff7608
    @salimi.sheriff7608 3 місяці тому +1

    I’m used to keeping a poker face

  • @nanan797
    @nanan797 Рік тому

    Pile 3 accurate !.

  • @antologia888e
    @antologia888e 9 місяців тому

    Pretty accurate Pile 2

  • @angelarainey7258
    @angelarainey7258 Рік тому

    What an interesting reading for Pile 3 - pretty much it on. She's a narcissist and Iikes to be in control his life which might make him feel secure, although she abuses him. He does have abandonment issues. We have a very good connection and we share a lot of fun and laughter together which I know he doesn't get elsewhere. It's a complex situation.

  • @SArahcapa
    @SArahcapa 11 місяців тому +1

    woooowww🫨🫨🫨🫨
    I've been praying and crying to GoD to guide me in this situation with this person!! and now!!!! I'm just totally shocked!!! and I remember the sentence "expect the unexpected"
    and thus reading was much much more than what i asked from GoD =]
    you and you're reading saved me again and again🥺💗
    it was 💯 accurate
    thank you.
    so so much🎆💖

  • @DishyLemon
    @DishyLemon Рік тому

    Thanks, Kate

  • @Blessed.Allwin
    @Blessed.Allwin Місяць тому

    🖤🖤🖤
    2. I told him I couldn't invest with him since he cheated on me. I gave him closure so I can have my merry way. 😌 I blocked him for good because it's done and over. We're just not meant to be in this lifetime and the next. He's a deadbeat BD anyway. Resonated to the core. Thank you.

  • @clsconrad
    @clsconrad Рік тому +2

    Pile #1... maybe Im the 3rd party 😮

  • @Landrews80
    @Landrews80 3 місяці тому +1

    ♒️😂 I don’t understand how I become a 3rd party when we were married for 20 yrs with 2 kids and I caught him cheating why we divorced and his mistress is still married and went back to her husband once our divorce was final !! And he ♐️ hasn’t seen our kids since he chose his mistress ♊️ then his mistress went back to her husband 😂☠️

  • @sisid6295
    @sisid6295 Рік тому +2

    He damb me broke my heart is so hard to hear he is happy but with someone else 😭 the whole year he act like he may cheat on me but i never get a proved ..

  • @TeamAminagacha
    @TeamAminagacha Рік тому +2

    Wow

  • @emmaowen9468
    @emmaowen9468 Рік тому +1

    Pile 1. He has children with both of us. Seems he wants to do right by her but not me 😢

  • @Amelia-el4mq
    @Amelia-el4mq Рік тому

    Pile 3.. so, this is sooo interesting. In this ready I am both the top and bottom row. The 8 of pentacles in the feelings place is a feeling of commitment (he's a Cap moon) we had this passionate but extremely private bond but our fears (especially his) of commitment were causing all kinds of problems in us manifesting this into a relationship.. we were feeling very insecure.. we both couldn't handle the toxicity and we cut it out and have taken a few months apart.. I originally started watching this thinking it was about him dating someone new .. but that isn't the case. Anyways.. I started to realize that these piles are linked.. in my case, because the 2nd row is also me, the part he's not seen because he has been so non-committal and afraid. I asked him recently if we could please just get rid of the toxic environment we were in and make it healthy in a more normal and balanced dynamic so we aren't just sneaking in eachothers homes and treating eachother like f buddies.. I'm still waiting for a response but your reading.. just WOW

  • @himans-w1b
    @himans-w1b Місяць тому

    Twin flame

  • @arielvazquez2437
    @arielvazquez2437 6 місяців тому

    First one.
    Even Virgo energy 😮
    🙁👍

  • @maureenbrokken4918
    @maureenbrokken4918 Рік тому

    Pile 2, all true 😢

  • @Pschychotically
    @Pschychotically Рік тому

    I really liked this reading, it was quite accurate. I was asking about clarification on a certain ex-couple I know and wanted to know more about what went on before they entered the divorce process. I was thinking that the ace of swords in reverse could also very well be a no communication between people. Some of the messages were a bit contradictory at times, but I assume they come in bit by bit and evaluate the other ones which went before. I was also wondering why you only used this Shadow deck for advice as I assume it majorly contains messages which lean more towards a negative perspective. This is useful, but it may have been a bit more balanced if you had also used another deck. Thank you in any case for the interesting reading, it was really useful and well-structured.❤

  • @decemberlove1221
    @decemberlove1221 Рік тому

    Group 1 and group 2 he wishie washie like you mention in group 2...

  • @sophialetgo
    @sophialetgo Рік тому +2

    Pile 2. It resonates with me as well . I am one for open communication. I feel I have put that aside when it involved my relationship with my partner of nearly 20 years.And I am no longer stroking his ego. So he is reveling as if I am his mother and he doesn’t want to listen by being ornery and feels he I can hurt me by his old ways. I’m slowly detaching and he doesn’t phase me anymore. Same with sex, which I do enjoy with him but since I started detaching it hasn’t been the same. He’s exploring his sexuality and at first I was ok with it hopping he would open a door of honesty, he didn’t tell me I snooped and found out many years ago, but for me it’s put a strain in our relationship and feel he needs to either be honest about it or let me go . Sexy now is As if we are two strangers being erotic trying to fit into eachother. I suggest open relationship if he can stand the image of me with someone else. He’s holding on mainly because we have children together and his first BM traumatized him and always tried to use their son as leverage if she wanted to hurt him. I think he feels I will do the same. Although he I may B be my twin flame and I am very understanding, this relationship has B gotten dark, and quite. As if we have no past.

  • @mattdawson6627
    @mattdawson6627 6 місяців тому

    Group 1
    Resonates. Speaks. I AM her Divine counterpart but, yes: I cause her to be happy, yet she “risks” growing, healing, and confronting commitment to the one she’s actually meant to be with.
    Thing is, doing what she did to me…then running to this douchebag again? Gotta say, I might be able to solve her dilemma for her right NOW, and alleviate the need for her to “choose”…

  • @crystaldawn6193
    @crystaldawn6193 Рік тому

    Is this specific 👀 Do you know me and our whole situation 😅😅😅 pile 3 thank you ☺️

  • @amiyasimpson2600
    @amiyasimpson2600 Рік тому

    Pile 3 is very like (similar) energy for me because we are poly lol

  • @Brutally_Honest77
    @Brutally_Honest77 Рік тому

    resonates, except for the kids part we have kids. keep up the great work

  • @ameliawilson8593
    @ameliawilson8593 Рік тому

    Thank you 3🙂🤍🙂❤️

  • @K10S-j2r
    @K10S-j2r Рік тому

    Pile 3- extreme sexual tension- spot on.

  • @Blissedx
    @Blissedx Рік тому +5

    Pile 2. It’s most likely because he’s bisexual. He might like men more so that’s why he’s indifferent towards both of us women.❤

  • @beaneleane
    @beaneleane 8 місяців тому

    3rd reading

  • @nandaralinlet2821
    @nandaralinlet2821 Рік тому +1

    pile 1 i am the third party😂

  • @Rebecca-GLaines
    @Rebecca-GLaines 4 місяці тому

    Lol, the 1st half of pile 3❤ made sense until it was ni linger for me since the 3rd party isnt a person.
    I laughed when the repeating cards kept falling out because it's the same dam cards I get when I question it, and its ALWAYS a repeated cycle, never any change lol! Hes got a toxic habit hes been doing since a teenager, so nearly half his life now, we've known each other forever, so there is history.
    But he doesn't know who he is without that crap. When I try talking to him its about like trying to make a rock respond!
    I think im finally ready to be done w the situation. I maybe stuck for a while though because I dont have any intention to meet anyone new lol!
    (Didn't want anybody in the first place so idk what the purpose was in this bs w him)

  • @annila1176
    @annila1176 5 місяців тому

    J1, are you married? And do you have children with that person?

  • @divineawakenedempress888
    @divineawakenedempress888 9 місяців тому +2

    I’m sorry but I didn’t resonate with pile 2. From what I heard they don’t even have sex very often even though they live together. He’s only using her to get over me and use her for a place to stay.

  • @PernillasPolitiskaÅsikter
    @PernillasPolitiskaÅsikter Рік тому

    P1 Andreas P2 Chawki P3 Myself then.

  • @snxnda2435
    @snxnda2435 Рік тому

    3❤

  • @youcancallmeTD
    @youcancallmeTD 10 місяців тому +1

    Pile 3 : toooo disturbing

  • @parlakgoezde
    @parlakgoezde Рік тому

    2

  • @elizabethabera9552
    @elizabethabera9552 Рік тому

    💕🙏

  • @Evedder007
    @Evedder007 Рік тому

    😭💔

  • @Countrygirlwithasideofgangsta
    @Countrygirlwithasideofgangsta 3 місяці тому

    Group 2

  • @kath234
    @kath234 5 місяців тому

    #2 You really did a great job and so accurate. He always chooses to escape from one to others when hitting rock bottom and never bravely facing his wrongs and shadow.

  • @kath234
    @kath234 5 місяців тому +1

    #2 You really did a great job and so accurate. He always chooses to escape from one to others when hitting rock bottom and never bravely facing his wrongs and shadow.

  • @kath234
    @kath234 5 місяців тому

    #2 You really did a great job and so accurate. He always chooses to escape from one to others when hitting rock bottom and never bravely facing his wrongs and shadow.