Siyabonga sis Zola. I hope Penuel gets to be reunited with his kids and ayeke ukwenza ama-baby mamas left, right and centre. Kodwareally happy to hear there are viable solutions
Pen is actually a good listener but also the lady has EQ in her delivery. I'm sure Penny outlined going through the courts possible not with this route but big ups to both of them for having a cordial conversation on such a personal matter
Let's celebrate this sister and the respect she brings to this difficult & complicated conversation. There is a lot of dysfunction that we men bring to this current pandemic of single parenthood in South Africa and we seldom have to deal with just the societal shame in the same way that women have to deal and live with it... Then there's the lack of self reflection and introspection on our role and part in this, which in turn allows us to repeat these cycles. This comment does nothing for Penuel and adds nothing of value to his situation and those in the same position. However, those that aren't and the younger ones need to be influenced in a different direction. Our black society in SA can't hold if we continue down this trajectory and don't reverse these trends
I hope Penuel knows that we love him that's why we expect him to vibrate at high levels. I love that he will give you a hearing even when he disagrees. Your platform, and those of many others, are our last hope Pen. Zola, we need to hear a lot more from you. Please consider UA-cam for yourself sisi❤
The sad part about most single educated mothers us that ,they took time focusing on their Qualifications only to later meet the man who impregnated and desert them .The information she provided bout fathers accessing their kids is valuable and may be usefull to a lot of dads that experience hurdles in seeing their kids.
Parents that are not fully in their children lives should be shamed! We are trying to raise strong, stable blk men and women, stop the stereotypes around blk fatherhood and look after your kids. if you have too many kids to look after, dont have kids! Its disgraceful
He loves his kids all maar these two women r full of kaak n not considering the kids feelings, hence Pen says I'm out. He is not stereotype he can't keep feeding these snakes
@@sandilembanjwa8266surely their individual Facebook pages are not as big a platform as his podcast. There’s always two sides of a story and the truth. His truth may not necessarily be theirs and choosing silence is by no means admission of guilt.
This was so POWERFUL! Thank you, thank you, thank you. This is how you IMPACT a nation!!!! This was an intellectual conversation rooted in cultural grounding. Zola is a force... Im still processing how dynamic she is.
Here’s the Irony: If Pen doesn’t “use his platform” and say what he said (wrong or right) he wouldn’t have Zola give him these options…ngesintu bathi “usana olungakhali lufela embhelekweni”
I get it why pen did what he did ,but i think he should've dealt with it privately,he even named all the kids he's gonna stop supporting which does more harm to the kids than the mother
I have seen a few videos of this woman, she is always on point.I respect her.She is always fighting for justice for all black people , male or female.Shout out to her.
She's good she brings criticism and solutions. She brings receipts 👌. Edited: Naaah, towards the end I had to come back and edit my comment, she is not talking about castody access on that family trust idea so she's not helping.
Ausi Zola....I have gone thru that with baby mama n damn courts r damn expensive cos in the process she wud gooi an allegation that will b a formal case opened at the sap station n run thru court with a lawyer defending me... Family advocate Free State is useless n the court now says I must go fight this child alienation in the high court. Advocate = R20k one appearance. N with dat court order in hand... prosecution still throw our cases out
Why do we find being frank so uncomfortable, that we always have to inflate an individual's ego as ground work. What does respecting him has to do with the moment 😂😂
It’s not inflating a person’s ego but establishing a platform of love/respect so that the message is received! People don’t necessarily remember what you said but how you made them feel when you said it!
Mxm Penuel utaze atsi ngyamfuna ngoba kuk'Twitter nginje , kukpodcast yakhe still ngsemsileni wakhe 😢maybe ngyamfuna vele 😂😂Ngyadlala i just like him cz sengimbuka from a different angle than 'that social media angle ' . I wish my bd can watch this
Eish I think I look for women at wrong places and always end up with the dumb ones. where do I find such beautiful intelligent women , I can listen to her speak 😊🥰🥰🥰🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Zola Mbatha Podcast loading . . . she is such a powerhouse - to get Penuel quiet the entire time, that's very rare occurrence - extremely rare!
Yeah I noticed that too Jola, respectfully keep him shut the whole show
Yes please
Expecting floods to see Penuel listening n not interrupting
He will naturally be quiet considering that what is being spoken about is directed to him in his personally capacity
Very informative. Very mature conversation. Thank you
Siyabonga sis Zola. I hope Penuel gets to be reunited with his kids and ayeke ukwenza ama-baby mamas left, right and centre. Kodwareally happy to hear there are viable solutions
Pen is actually a good listener but also the lady has EQ in her delivery. I'm sure Penny outlined going through the courts possible not with this route but big ups to both of them for having a cordial conversation on such a personal matter
Let's celebrate this sister and the respect she brings to this difficult & complicated conversation. There is a lot of dysfunction that we men bring to this current pandemic of single parenthood in South Africa and we seldom have to deal with just the societal shame in the same way that women have to deal and live with it... Then there's the lack of self reflection and introspection on our role and part in this, which in turn allows us to repeat these cycles. This comment does nothing for Penuel and adds nothing of value to his situation and those in the same position. However, those that aren't and the younger ones need to be influenced in a different direction. Our black society in SA can't hold if we continue down this trajectory and don't reverse these trends
She knows how to express herself her English is on point
Being eloquent in English is just a bonus but not a sign of wise & intelligent
I hope Penuel knows that we love him that's why we expect him to vibrate at high levels.
I love that he will give you a hearing even when he disagrees. Your platform, and those of many others, are our last hope Pen.
Zola, we need to hear a lot more from you. Please consider UA-cam for yourself sisi❤
The sad part about most single educated mothers us that ,they took time focusing on their Qualifications only to later meet the man who impregnated and desert them .The information she provided bout fathers accessing their kids is valuable and may be usefull to a lot of dads that experience hurdles in seeing their kids.
Thanks Zola and Penuel, very informative
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I like your outlook on issues.
The caption, I thought this was posted by someone else😂
Wow! Maturity on high level Damn! Well spoken, highly respectful and mostly your Aura
Yea Pen, we owe it to our kids to fight for them.
Please bring Tumiso Masha to discuss this.
Parents that are not fully in their children lives should be shamed! We are trying to raise strong, stable blk men and women, stop the stereotypes around blk fatherhood and look after your kids. if you have too many kids to look after, dont have kids! Its disgraceful
He loves his kids all maar these two women r full of kaak n not considering the kids feelings, hence Pen says I'm out. He is not stereotype he can't keep feeding these snakes
"every child deserves a father" No, every child deserves a healthy father. I'd like to hear the sides of the mothers
Dont have kids please, your mentality is scary and you will raise broken humans!
they could easily do a Facebook post. Or a video. But their silence is telling. They have no valid reason. It's pettiness.
@ what if is a a smear campaign,If he truly is a narcissist as he says. If he is a narcissist truly, the kids are better off.
@@sandilembanjwa8266surely their individual Facebook pages are not as big a platform as his podcast. There’s always two sides of a story and the truth. His truth may not necessarily be theirs and choosing silence is by no means admission of guilt.
@@mphomarokane6485 he is raising 4 other kids fine, with no issues. So clearly he's a capable father.
This was so POWERFUL! Thank you, thank you, thank you. This is how you IMPACT a nation!!!! This was an intellectual conversation rooted in cultural grounding. Zola is a force... Im still processing how dynamic she is.
Here’s the Irony: If Pen doesn’t “use his platform” and say what he said (wrong or right) he wouldn’t have Zola give him these options…ngesintu bathi “usana olungakhali lufela embhelekweni”
I get it why pen did what he did ,but i think he should've dealt with it privately,he even named all the kids he's gonna stop supporting which does more harm to the kids than the mother
We need to continue this conversation!!!
@penueal please do that episode on trusts with Zola. Sounds very interesting.
I have seen a few videos of this woman, she is always on point.I respect her.She is always fighting for justice for all black people , male or female.Shout out to her.
Thanks to for bringing het
She's good she brings criticism and solutions. She brings receipts 👌.
Edited: Naaah, towards the end I had to come back and edit my comment, she is not talking about castody access on that family trust idea so she's not helping.
she did say that the second option (family court) is recommended because you can get access immediately while the case is ongoing
this was great
What a brilliant, brilliant woman! I would please like her contact details. I have an estate issue to engage her service on. Please if you can
I see a bit of Adv Muzi Sikhakhane SC in her.
Big ups to grootman @Penuel
Exactly by becoming a deadbeat Pen is also hurting the innocent kids.
I was thinking it's Zola 7
This is beautiful words
I love Penuel hle ❤
❤❤❤
I wish my baby mom can watch this, because she I making my life hell I Don't have access to my son and she doesn't want my son to visit me😢
Sorry to hear that brother.😢
Wena you didn't listen to Zola, GO TO COURT!
Ausi Zola....I have gone thru that with baby mama n damn courts r damn expensive cos in the process she wud gooi an allegation that will b a formal case opened at the sap station n run thru court with a lawyer defending me... Family advocate Free State is useless n the court now says I must go fight this child alienation in the high court. Advocate = R20k one appearance. N with dat court order in hand... prosecution still throw our cases out
2 can play that game.
She uses allegations, find allegations of your own, whilst her own pockets dry up as well, till she comes to her senses
❤🕯@penuel, Unkulunkulu akubusise, akulondoloze ebese ekupha amandla engeziwe. UMMME NJEH!🙌🙌🙌
Only the mother of the child can stop you
Ooooooh! I like her!
Why do we find being frank so uncomfortable, that we always have to inflate an individual's ego as ground work. What does respecting him has to do with the moment
😂😂
She knows that it's an emotional issue. It's just to make sure the conversation is calm.
It’s not inflating a person’s ego but establishing a platform of love/respect so that the message is received! People don’t necessarily remember what you said but how you made them feel when you said it!
Indaba she's hasn't followed Penuel's story from Day 1, she wouldn't say all this if she did.
Exactly, you hit the nail on the head.
Yes.Part of what she explained is what Penuel did.
🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️ Into yokuba u-baby mama, kusazonyiwa
Mxm Penuel utaze atsi ngyamfuna ngoba kuk'Twitter nginje , kukpodcast yakhe still ngsemsileni wakhe 😢maybe ngyamfuna vele 😂😂Ngyadlala i just like him cz sengimbuka from a different angle than 'that social media angle ' .
I wish my bd can watch this
Eish I think I look for women at wrong places and always end up with the dumb ones. where do I find such beautiful intelligent women , I can listen to her speak 😊🥰🥰🥰🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
You attract what you are..so.....
@lamoola9279 you could be right. 💔💔💔💔
Ngoba amaZulu kuthiwa awafundile nje, manje lo mmeli? 😂
I respect her...sifuna umamela aba abafazi. Bayokha.