Maybe I'm strange, but I do not trust any "power couple/influencer" types. The constant posting, everything is great, look at me I'm a success and this is how I did it, gives me the ick.
I don't think you are strange. I think this goes for the majority of people. Sadly there is still a market for this crap. The words influencer > momfluencer > fitfluencer etc gets my blood boiling. What a world we live in..
@@Jojo-pv3ufThis. I too, have noticed this phenomenon in my own life-people constantly posting how happy they are, just makes me think they aren’t happy at all.
I'll never understand why people care more about impressing people/strangers than living a genuine, happy life. To me it always screams low self esteem when people live for social media instead of for themselves/their family.
Their relationship was base on selfishness greed being envious jealousy and being materialistic. All relationships should be based on love trust and honesty and respect 🥰😍😘🕊😇👼💔🙏🙏🙏
This video is half of why I deleted most of my social media. I found myself comparing other’s lives to my own and would constantly think I was doing something wrong because I wasn’t at the financial level I want to be. Once I realised some people don’t have a bed to lay on, but always wearing designer posting for the internet to see their “expensive clothes”, I decided to take a break. They say, “comparison is the thief of joy”, and I truly understand now.
Yes, I have learned to be content with much and little. Satan blesses his people as well. I'm building my treasure in The Heavenly Kingdom. All this stuff going to burn 🔥
People who brag about designer things are so trashy. It's just expensive fast fashion made in China like the cheaper versions, to scam idiots who think it'll make them look cool/rich. People with actual money don't buy any of that shit lol
Oddly enough, and yes even in the comments, I think YT has the most sane experience nowadays. Other social media is just so…stressful to manage. But I can always manage to find time to watch true crime videos lol
@@evalunloca I purposely don't mark videos like that as not interested, because if UA-cam recommends it to me and I don't click them it will kill the algorithm for that video and hopefully it doesn't get recommended
Kiana lived not far from me in Missouri. So I got to see so much commentary regarding this. His side chicks were coming out the woodwork and it was revealed he was shot in his groin intentionally. People were genuinely surprised at their fake lifestyle. I wasn’t. I can’t stand online couples.
I viewed the same claim of her shooting him in his groin on the Nique@Nite Podcast! From your being in the area, was this guy known as a Confidence Man?
In my 20's, I wanted to do the Power Couple thing. Now, at 41, I don't care about none of that. Please give me my peace and I'll let others have the facade of living the dream life. Once you get Stability in your life, you really Value the things money can't buy.
@@NourKLIReally? Who was the og power couple for you? I think the issue here is, younger people always think they have invented something. 😂 Like how people tried to say Ariana Grande invented the high ponytail. Laughable. I personally am reminded of "Bonnie and Clyde" but I'm sure someone else could list an early version of a power couple that was not infamous. Just the first example I thought of. Y'all didn't invent anything.
When you mentioned Ronnell was involved in a MLM it became clear what sort of person he was. And racking up half a mil in debt shows how shallow they were. Scamming never ends well.
And by the sounds of it, instead of growing out of it, Ronnell saw the money only trying to siphon it all from his friends and family. That just screams greed.
Ronnell was about to leave his current wife with the debt and the 6,000 a month mortgage . He was on to the next unsuspecting woman. You saw when he was on the TV court show he left the wife in debt and was cheating and on to the next. His scam caught up to him. He was a Romance scammer and personally I think he was Bi.
@roseboone1890 he robbed her, though. 😢 She was doing great until he came along. That's another Legion right there 😢 She should have done a "who tf did I marry"
Never trust the loudest, most outgoing man in the room at face value. 9 times out of 10, those theatrics are to draw your attention away from other aspects of their character.
Agreed. How could anyone listen to his inarticulate boasting , low-IQ ramblings and believe that he was a business genius? He gave off clear con-man vibes!
Anyone sharing “how to get rich” with others, will only get rich off YOUR dime from sales of their bogus products, courses and/or books. Real wealth is quiet.
Someone was once trying to recruit me about some “online business “and I ask them “ what will I be selling in the business “they say online business I say selling what and they tell me training people how to train other peoples to train other people how to do online business bunch of crap but people are signing up
@@ariesunicorn8225Warren Buffett is known for his sage advice on investing and wealth accumulation, which he often shares through his annual letters to shareholders, interviews, and speeches.
Be careful who you let into your life. This man drained her financially and had the audacity to cheat multiple times. But murder was not the answer to her problems. Very sad story!
@@Ytorisv: Exactly. Show off. In deep debt and moving into to more debt in the name of what? Show off. Never hang your hand where your hands can’t take it down. The audacity of offering prayer to others when she should be asking God for forgiveness. Sad situation but it’s a lesson for others.
I watch the coverage of the story on different channels and I gather it was definitely more him to blame than her. I think her down for what she trusted too much
It really puts into perspective how one bad moment where your emotions have fully taken over can end in such devastation. I don't believe that if she had a chance to step back and think about the children and everyone who loved them both, she would even be able to fathom doing this. Our impulses are the scariest danger lurking inside of us. This is why you have to get out of toxic relationships no matter how much you love the person. Your emotions get so volatile and if you convince yourself you won't lose control, you've already lost it. Even we ourselves don't know what we're capable of. We all can do greater things AND worse things than we can imagine. 😢
The damage was done with eight kids. Theres no way they had a proper childhood with parents giving them each about zero attention. Narcissists gonna narcissist, i guess...@@IamVintage72
Listen! I am 45 but I recall my high school English teacher telling a classmate "Class is not flashy!" He had seen her driving her Benz and said she needed some rims.😂😂 But I agreed then and still today remember her response verbatim. Class is not flashy. You won't ever have to showcase it if you truly have it.
He literally took her spirit away but she still kept her faith in God, if you notice you don't see him with any male friends in his pictures that's because this type of man don't have friends
@@shonterrell8098 you're very right, they don't. Cause he only keeps people around for as long as he can use them and that in itself drives any self-respecting person away. No long term friends for someone like that.
That's exactly what I have been saying. All these people posting how strong their marriages and families ties are and fans hollering couples goals. Sooner or later the s**t blows up.
Agreed with you. A wise humble human being will NOT show off at all. Do you know as of this year, they are 756 Multi-billionaires residing in the United States? And most of these same 756 Multi-billionaires are so quiet and humble. In that, they don't show off. Not to even talk of the Multi-millionaires across the United States. Peace
When my sister use to post about her now exhusband acting like they were so in love and doing so good when I knew what was happening in their real lives and he was always cheating and they were constantly arguing 🙄 Stuff like that made me not post so much of my life on Facebook anymore, I barely post at all now.
POWER; is the drug, rich don’t need nothing running for President, cop killers, crooked prosecutors and judges and lawyers, money, all rooted by power.
@@latoshiaguffin6594 Is that why they moved to Atlanta?? Makes sense now. Who was the man and is that why the girl who came to stay with them took the laptop and other belongings out the house???. was it evidence on the laptop?? Where can I get more information about this story from?? Everyone keeps tiptoeing round this story. It's bigger than cheating and finances.
The fact that he had them move away from her friends and family is, unfortunately, classic controlling behaviour. It was a way of distancing her from others whose voices and ideas might have given her a different perspective, and might have even warned her off him. Also a way of getting her to relinquish her business, which was the one thing that truly was hers.
That's not what happened. She was an extremely strong personality. It's not like he was controlling, and she was some weak victim. They were in major debt, so they decided to mask their bankruptcy by pretending to buy a house in cash. She put on the lie just the same.
Typical "let's blame the man" comment. Both were at fault, just in different ways, but both bore the blame for the mess their lives became. The real victims are their 8 children.
We own a small flat most of the nice furniture we picked up at charity shops cheap. At Christmas we struggle to find things to buy each other because we have clothes phones a games console and a tv. I never understand why people want a massive house and tons of expensive crap so they can impress their fake friends. Real friends dont give a crap what you have
@@CasperInkyMagoo I buy used because I was finishing a whole flat and wanted nice stuff. I didn't want to blow thousands that I can use on other things I enjoy more but you do you.
My dad told me never trust someone who calls themselves an entrepreneur, there is more validity to their claim when your clients or business partners call you that rather than yourself.
I worked for Ronnell for about 4 months. Didn't make a penny selling insurance... And he wasn't the only one who got caught up. One of his partners was the guy who wrote the insurance policy at the center of the Murder for hire scheme that took down Sweetie Pies.
This is one example as to why I'm not to quick to latch on to those online ads tutorials etc I see many people just like they showed here praising people and don't know people from Adam all fox but all swept and taken away by words and pictures.
This is why I've always believed in the saying "The person you choose to spend the rest of your life will be the most important investment you'll ever make". People just couldn't live within their means, I don't know why a lot of people have to impress other people who do not bring food to their table. More often than not the people they try to impress do not even care about them
These cases just prove why you shouldn’t just believe anything on social media. All of these influencers and these families that are famous, how do people not realize that so much is fake
@@TRUECRIMESPTV oh yeah well I mean that’s obvious I think but I’m talking about how people idolize social media stars and families and compare themselves to them when a lot of it’s not real.
@@WWEENETWORKbut my husband and I been together for 8yrs😩 he’s a REAL narcissist. Never take on accountability. Totally different from this case. He’s my biggest supporter. No financial issues with us
@@hollylaflair1260maybe no financial issues but you want to keep dealing with that? I know that's your husband but are u happy? U said he's a narcissist, Why keep dealing with that if you know?... Just curious
We live in a world where a person can be $500,000 in debt and still manage to rent a freaking MANSION!!! But a person with ONE non violent 3rd degree felony can't rent a STUDIO apartment thats absolutely insane 🤯
Considering how consistently prosecutors downgrade charges for criminals, I can understand building managers not wanting felons in their complexes. Especially since they could get sued for allowing one wrong person to assault, grape, or unalive someone.
I live in St. Louis and used to pass by their barber shop/hair salon all the time. I also used to see him around town at various events, and I knew quite a few people who knew them well. It’s a sad story for everyone involved, especially the children. 🙏🏽
This guy is the definition of a drone. He sucks as much as he can and after draining his partner, leaves her for the next one unlucky woman who won't see the red flags.
And the even more tragic, is that this kind of cheating is the worst, because the other person plays with the other person's feelings, and it is difficult for her to realize or admit that she has been played. whether she realizes it or not, the result is tragic, even if there is no death in the end. It leaves deep scars on the soul. I feel sorry for Kiara and for their kids, the collateral victims.
I'm not usually one to jump on blaming the man because it's usually 50/50 but in this case yeah.... its on him. Sucked her in, sucked her dry and then threw her to the curb. And wasn't the first time he'd done it either. Absolute leech
Man. All I could think of was I wish she had moved back to her home town and started over. She already had a client base just waiting for her. Stop posting on social media for a while, and when she got her business back up and running, brand herself as a strong independent business woman instead. Pride goeth before a fall.💔 One thing extroverts struggle with is that image isn’t that important. For the most part, it's rarely who you truly are.
Cleary wasn't that strong, independent, or smart if she let this guy worm his way in and take all her money. Then killed him and herself and left their kids to deal with it. Yeah she was a real smart cookie.
@@alec57she picked the wrong person , if she’s stupid well then so is 50% of americans because that’s our divorce stat .. everyone makes mistakes do disparage her character because of it . Shame on you
@@LC_Hdo you even know what he said to her. Brave to assume he was honest and open from the jump, especially given how he lied to and manipulated her. Smh.
He sounded so uneducated I can't believe people paid him in the first place for advice. It's exhausting living with someone who's always going on and on about their big business plan. It's too bad she wasn't able to put her foot down against some of the more foolish decisions.
there’s absolutely no fixing or slowing down an arrogant, self aggrandizing Narcissist. He was so over the top, even if they divorced, he’d only get worse…it wasn’t going to end well…no matter what she did to try to make it better.
@Lovemore-yn7rhI thought that he said that she killed him and then herself. I am just asking a question. What did you him say? How did he say they ended?
I remember this story. Living a lie on camera is what most people do these days. When you start using cars and lifestyles to validate yourself, then it's a very bad sign of emptiness. The saddest thing is the kids left with no parents. It's sad
Just like ma grandma always said be happy with what you have even the small things in live ....and she also said once 1 neighbor buy a big car the next need a bigger one so sad this kind of life
My goodness this pair were infuriating, rent a small place, get rid of the flash cars, sell off the jewellery etc. She had a successful business for twenty years, I’m sure they could have recovered from $500,000 debt with some proper financial planning. Why she stayed with him is beyond me.
Him living lavish like he's self- made! smh ... the nerve to split her business which he didn't even help to build. Sad that she fell for such a joker😢
Adrian, you wrapped this up perfectly. A sleazy conman and a prideful woman is a horrible mix. If Keianna had moved back to St Louis this would have had a much different ending. She would have started to thrive again. He was looking for a "come up" without working for it and she wanted to "believe". May their children find peace.
She fell for a married con man and made that one mistake of thinking she could make it better than the wife could. He used up his 1st wife to move on to her to use her up too. I am almost very sure she saw the red flags but still wanted him because he appeared to be successful and have momentum, probably blaming his ex wife for his downfalls. This is so tragic. People please use discernment and it is not far fetched to get background checks and hire a PI
Sounds like he also had his next victim wife number 3 ready because who says, “we’ll both remarry,” while filing for divorce. Like sir maybe be single for awhile first 🤦🏾♀️
Facts my mama taught me to do background checks these days chicks don’t even know the guys they’re dealing with last names!!! Alarming af I’ve literally met every person I’ve dated entire family it’s not many people but still something I’ve always been proud of. And they folks always loved me
I know an African British couple exactly the sane story. It was shoking how similar both stories are. But thing have not got to suicide or killing yet but financial situation is same gir both. Man spending and losing wife's money and get business struggling because he keeps taking money out. I tried to tell her to stop him from using the money from her business but she is not convinced. So it will be interesting to see where it all ends up 😮
Perfect example of everyone should be guarding their characters rather than their reputation cause ur reputation is who people say u r but ur character is who u really r.
Very well said. NEVER live your life to impress others or caring about what others think of you, materially, it's a fools game, no one can or should sustain it.
She wanted prayer because she knew she was the wrong one & would kill him if he kept up the BS! Her frustration of dealing with a narcissist caused her to kill him !! Iykyk 🤦🏾♀️
For sure. She knew she was about that life & would kill him. And she had too much bride to let the marriage end. I wish she just left and rebuilt her life :(
@@angelpeoples4877 Never said killing him is justified but, People who’ve been broken by a narc understands why sis killed him !! How invincible a narcissist acts after they’ve ruined your life when all you tried to do was be there for them is insane! I had to pray & cry out in pain so I didnt do something similar to the narcissist that almost destroyed me !!😔 It was the Betrayal for me 😤
Completely agree. This is why I cannot follow ‘influencers’ and have no real SM presence myself. None for my kids either. Life is much better lived as an experience when it’s not posted for the world to see. Just my opinion.
I believe with all my heart that if she had just went home with her children and left him behind she could have made it again. That beautiful intelligent woman could have started from scratch, learned from her mistakes, opened another salon, and been happy and successful again...but more humble this time! She had the wherewithal to make it even a second time! But even if she didn't get that far, she still would be here for them babies she brought into this world, but without that anchor of a man hanging around her neck! R.I.P 🙏💔🌹😢😊
Anything I see on social media, success, failure, power couple...etc, I "do not" believe it. They show you only what they want. This case show it perfectly.
Honestly whenever i see someone vlogging online about how perfect their family/buisness/life is i know 99% of the time thats BS. Nobody has a perfect life and its like theyre outwardly trying to convince themselves they do
I personally know someone that’s going through a divorce right now. But the more the relationship went on a decline the more they posted on instagram like things were great 🤦🏾♂️ ..I don’t believe nobody that’s online posting everyday, that’s always a telltale sign of something deeper
Wow thank you for this video. I was a regular at Ms Keianna's shop and I knew it had to something devastating that happened for her to do this. I figured either an incurable disease or he wiped her out financially to the point she couldn't face the world. So sad. RIP and condolences to the children.
The parents of my ex wife, and mother of my kids, are like this. They have a huge luxury car dealership (Porshe/Audi) in Moskow. They know almost every shady individual in the western part of Russia. They were so "artificial" I kept them as far as possible from us, the 21 years we were together. Horrible people to be around.
My husband's cousin is the same. He's always been a grifting "get rich quick" scammer. He went to jail for 5 years for trying to import coke to our country. Then after he got out his grandma was telling us he must be doing well since he was driving a Lexus. He's been back with the same dr.g dealing people again trying to get rich without having to really work for it. A narcissist show and now he's in his late 50's and still trying to pick up 20yr old girls and putting on shows of success. All you need to do is research his name online and there he is in stories about importing coke.
She preferred to unalive herself rather than accept that she made a poor choice in men and let that sorry jigalow go, file for bankruptcy and move forward! A top notch business woman with not an ounce of self worth. Ladies make sure you are checking your self worth while falling in love out here! How quickly we can fall from success to feeling completely hopeless. So sad!
From what I know about suicide, it's not that simple. This lady clearly had greater problems than just her husband. By you trying to simplify this, you actually diminish the pain of everyone who's ever taken their own life.
[Quote] "Those who feel the need to float their success and luxury are usually the most insecure of people..." Adrian, I couldn't have agreed more, nor could I have said it any better. And there are countless numbers of them on social media every day.
As an *independent* self-made woman, she worked *hard* to achieve success, only to *allow* a selfish, opportunistic, and greedy *dusty* to misuse and abuse her. This is a sad *cautionary* tale. 🕊
Complete leech. Sucked her in, sucked her dry and then disposed of her when the money had gone. She's not completely blameless in this but you have to think, she'd probably still be in St Louis with a successful salon if she'd never met him
At 20 yrs old she started a business and maintained a successful business for over 20yrs until he came along. Just sad. She loved him, that was her downfall.
@@kaykay3458 More importantly, she didn't love herself, nor her children. It's tragic all the way around. *NEVER* place a man over yourself or your children. *NEVER* You are worthy. 🕊
In my classes I am always telling my students that chances are the people they are following online are only living the image that they want you to believe. That there is always more to the story then what is being projected. Often my students tell me they feel depressed their lives are not like the people they follow on social media.
A massive swath of social media is nothing more than poisoned candy for the eye and the mind. Please keep warning your students about the reality of it.
Thanks for communicating that to your students. I grew up watching Leave it to Beaver and the Donna Reed Show, Brady Bunch. I thought we were impoverished. Of course, pop culture sociologists' studies have shown that those shows screwed up millions. Furthermore, we also learned that the back stories behind those "perfect" people were not REMOTELY perfect. In fact, their real lives made mine look ideal.
@@wolfgangk1thanks for making that link. People hating on influencers without realising it's nothing new and that we are being manipulated in many ways.
It's easier to lie about having money than actually working hard to get it. If you are really about making money then you dont have time for social media. Not to the degree they were on it anyway.
This is a sad story, this is one of the reasons social media is the WORST thing that ever happened to human kind. Drew a line down the middle of what? Her money and his $0??? What a loser that guy was. She should have left him. She probably would have needed a year or two to get her business back up and then she should have been OK. Condolences to the kids.
It's scary that kids (and adults) these days see it as a calling, a "job" they want to do. I can live with "content creator" but "influencer" itself has a bad connotation and are typically nothing more than marketers/salespeople in disguise.
Not very clued up on social media, and I prefer it that way, but I remember the first time I heard the word influencer I was dumbfounded. It wasn't even that long ago😂 it puts me off altogether now. Perhaps I'm catching on because nowadays I can't watch a UA-cam video without reading the comments.
Adrian always cracks me up with his straight face when randomly throwing shade..." An overconfident, promiscuous, conman"😂 then calmly proceeds with the storyline... that said, seeking constant social media attention and validation is extremely toxic 😔 people lose themselves entirely trying to impress strangers. This is why I'm not on any of them
Right?! It's so revolting to me. "Look how important I am!" " I live the high life and you don't!" ad nauseum... It's in your face "I'm better than you!" Take away the bling, makeup and money and they're no better than anyone else.
Ive seen every video on them and she earned her business.She fell in love with a scammer and she already put her reputation on the line.She had to keep going through with the scams and it took a toll on her mentally from the scams and the affairs.
Um yeah, of course... Things are never how they appear to be online.. most people don't put there low moments online ,only people with a humiliation fetish post there lowest moments
My landlady’s fallen for several MLMs. She says she’s ‘going to be rich soon’ but a few months ago asked me if she could borrow $800 to pay her mortgage. I’m a senior and that’s half my monthly income!
0 remorse for these two. Living lavishly with money they didn’t have only to show off on social media is so cringy and ugly. But mainly they really racked up all those debt and killed themselves is so selfish. They never cared for their own kids? They are the real victims here
Makes me glad society doesn't automatically pass on parents debts to their kids upon their death anymore. If it still was like that the selfishness of these morons would be further burdening their kids even beyond the grave, and with that much debt they'd never even have a chance to be free from it
@@HarleyHerbert Actually I believe any remaining debt left after a person passing is put on the next of kin if there isn't a spouse so the children would be responsible for it.
Agreed with you. A wise humble human being will NOT show off at all. Do you know as of this year, they are 756 Multi-billionaires residing in the United States? And most of these same 756 Multi-billionaires are so quiet and humble. In that, they don't show off. Not to even talk of the Multi-millionaires across the United States. Peace...
Be wary of the ostentatious weddings! The bigger the wedding, the more insecure the couple. The best marriages I’ve seen last the test of time, had modest weddings. The wedding is a microcosm of the quality of the relationship. However stressed the wedding process is… will be a direct symptom of the problems in your marriage.
Funny you should say this, my hubby n I got married 27 years ago, been together 34, we only had 30 guests, just immediate family & a meal afterwards, we were saving for our first home. I had 2 friends & my cousin who all got married that same year with lavish weddings, not one of them lasted past 7 years yet we're still here. Make's you think.
You are, by far, one of my most favorite channels. After 20+ years in the legal field (primarily criminal cases), I really enjoy and appreciate your content. Keep up the amazing work! P.S. You should check out the Terry Clark case out of NM. A pedo was arrested, released on bond, and then kidnapped and killed a little girl (Dina) while out on that bond. Tragic case. He ended up asking to be executed after many appeals and he later was.
The lengths that people are willing to go to just to impress strangers is crazy. Your life cannot be sacrificed for entertainment, because when it is all said and done, the very same people you're trying to impress will continue to live their lives without a care in the world about what is going on with you. The most you'll get is "shame, poor thing" It is simply not worth it..
So that means she can kill people? If this was a man and the roles were reversed you wouldn't have that same energy. He would be all types of pieces of shit. You women cannot accept accountability at all.
@@skelly4998 I was just thinking to myself, there was something deeply wrong with this woman way before she met this man. That something attracted her to him, prompted her to move away with him despite colossal debt, prop up his scams for years, tolerate blatant infidelity,and to ultimately end both their lives.
This is super sad. She clearly worked so hard for what she built. He absolutely leeched off her success but also fueled her ego. It seems like her family was able to help keep that part of herself in check, but once she moved miles away from her grounding source, she’d lost all reason. I wish she could have woken up sooner and gotten her and her children away from him. She was hardworking and could just go back home to rebuild her life. But it’s like her ego and pride was so overgrown at that point, she made the worst possible decision.
I have stopped following a few people like this, throwing extravagant parties, private jets for their kids who are 3 and nearly 1!its just showing off, but like you say behind closed doors there is more to it! Thank you Adrian for continually bringing us these fantastic videos x
@@jadezee6316you have 69 comments on this channel, why do you follow coffeehouse crime? Is it….perhaps you like what he posts? Please use critical thinking skills next time.
He never loved her. He loved her money until it ran out because of his actions. Then it was time to move on. Sadly she was, whatever was the reason was, to really leave him. The beginning mistake was getting with him. So sorry for the children. Hey Adrian, all of your stories are tragic (I forget how you put it, sorry) and that's why your channel is so good.
That man left no stone unturned with trying to get money 😭 MLM, reality TV, cc debt, ministry… only thing he didn’t do was insurance fraud 😅 RIP to both of them though smh.
It is so interesting to see people like this in action. I can’t say men only because I know there are women like this as well. But to say the first wife literally dodged a big issue with her ex. I feel the same. My ex and I met young and were married for 15 years, but we divorced and now his true narcissistic conman ways are in full force. I never knew him to be the unhappy mean, lying man he is now. But when I tell you I say a prayer of thanks at night that that man is no longer my husband and can’t drag me down with his schemes and lies. 🙏🏾😬
I'm 61 and self sufficient. I'll never marry again because a lot of older men are looking for a purse and a nurse. No thank you. I worked too hard to get to this place.
He had absolutely nothing, she let a bum finesse her , and now her kids dont have a mom..🤦🏿♀️. Sis we gotta do better we not that lonely..he was a loud broke narcissist
Fast-talkers is the first sign of a scam artist and swindler. Talking fast allows them to fool simple-minded people by barraging them with so many words that they cannot keep up.
This was a lot triggering. Im glad I've escaped the narcissist who tried to bankrupt me. I'm even more grateful that the situation never escalated to this!
No matter what he did, I can’t wrap my head around her checking out of life and leaving 8 children without parents. More money can be made and there are plenty of other men in the world. I think her priorities were out of order.
Maybe I'm strange, but I do not trust any "power couple/influencer" types. The constant posting, everything is great, look at me I'm a success and this is how I did it, gives me the ick.
honestly. the statistics of divorce make me question all those “happy” marriages.
I believe they exist, but they're not airing out everything they do for other folks to give them likes, lol
@@underratedvibes145 I’ve realized for myself personally, the more content and happy i am with my life the less compelled i feel to post things.
I don't think you are strange. I think this goes for the majority of people. Sadly there is still a market for this crap. The words influencer > momfluencer > fitfluencer etc gets my blood boiling. What a world we live in..
@@Jojo-pv3ufThis. I too, have noticed this phenomenon in my own life-people constantly posting how happy they are, just makes me think they aren’t happy at all.
I'll never understand why people care more about impressing people/strangers than living a genuine, happy life. To me it always screams low self esteem when people live for social media instead of for themselves/their family.
Or arrogance.
A lack of or fractured identity. They are how they believe other people see them.
@@TRUECRIMESPTV They are how they *WANT* other people to see them.
Such types false grandiose believe socials & their warped enabling followers are real life
@@cdes1776 Exactly! Adrian Included...he's seeking the same attention, views and likes _just in a different way!_
This is why I learned NEVER to be jealous of others. You never know what you're looking at.
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So truth
Their relationship was base on selfishness greed being envious jealousy and being materialistic. All relationships should be based on love trust and honesty and respect 🥰😍😘🕊😇👼💔🙏🙏🙏
Marrying somebody who tried to scam you is INSANE
Right. That was the first red flag she ignored
I think that was the first wife not her
Those types are Dusty & Thirsty. I'm not surprised....
@@aj-gw1rlyup, she basically picked up the red flag and moved it to the side.
Absolutely wild
This video is half of why I deleted most of my social media. I found myself comparing other’s lives to my own and would constantly think I was doing something wrong because I wasn’t at the financial level I want to be.
Once I realised some people don’t have a bed to lay on, but always wearing designer posting for the internet to see their “expensive clothes”, I decided to take a break.
They say, “comparison is the thief of joy”, and I truly understand now.
So true, never compare yourself to others, especially people online. You don't need validation from strangers.
Yes, I have learned to be content with much and little. Satan blesses his people as well. I'm building my treasure in The Heavenly Kingdom. All this stuff going to burn 🔥
People who brag about designer things are so trashy. It's just expensive fast fashion made in China like the cheaper versions, to scam idiots who think it'll make them look cool/rich. People with actual money don't buy any of that shit lol
@@RawachRayachagree 💯 💯 💯
Oddly enough, and yes even in the comments, I think YT has the most sane experience nowadays. Other social media is just so…stressful to manage. But I can always manage to find time to watch true crime videos lol
Most influencers, are the most fake people on line, sadly but true..😔
You're DAMN RIGHT !!!
So is tiktok full of them too
@@kwazimokavaYes!
@Candyg14 i think the same although i have facebook bt not used only for messenger
@Candyg14 same insta fb everything is gone only yt since 2016 and i dont miss it
Speaking of fake, more and more True Crime channels are AI-narrated which is why I appreciate your channel along with great content.
Yes ,,I don't watch them n I mark not interested
@@evalunloca
I purposely don't mark videos like that as not interested, because if UA-cam recommends it to me and I don't click them it will kill the algorithm for that video and hopefully it doesn't get recommended
I couldn't agree with you more . It absolutely drives me up the wall when simple , one syllable words are constantly mispronounced .
I always vote them 👎
The quickest way to make me downvote and move on
Kiana lived not far from me in Missouri. So I got to see so much commentary regarding this. His side chicks were coming out the woodwork and it was revealed he was shot in his groin intentionally. People were genuinely surprised at their fake lifestyle. I wasn’t. I can’t stand online couples.
she shot his GROIN? a big part of their fight that night had to have been his infidelity surely.. this is so sad
WoW 😮
Ouch
All guys nightmare I still rem cringing at the bobott story as cafeteria lady at work told me about in thirty yrs ago she was smiling lol .
I viewed the same claim of her shooting him in his groin on the Nique@Nite Podcast!
From your being in the area, was this guy known as a Confidence Man?
In my 20's, I wanted to do the Power Couple thing. Now, at 41, I don't care about none of that. Please give me my peace and I'll let others have the facade of living the dream life. Once you get Stability in your life, you really Value the things money can't buy.
True
Amen 🙏🏿
Wasn’t even a thing back then😂😂😂😂😅
@@NourKLIReally? Who was the og power couple for you? I think the issue here is, younger people always think they have invented something. 😂
Like how people tried to say Ariana Grande invented the high ponytail. Laughable.
I personally am reminded of "Bonnie and Clyde" but I'm sure someone else could list an early version of a power couple that was not infamous. Just the first example I thought of.
Y'all didn't invent anything.
The moment someone says "power couple", stay the hell away from them.
*Or, TD Jakes. Ijs...
Humans have different views of business.
Thank You👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 l couldn’t agree with you more
Exactly
Can they even be called Apex Predator at all lol.. to themselves gahahahahha
When you mentioned Ronnell was involved in a MLM it became clear what sort of person he was. And racking up half a mil in debt shows how shallow they were. Scamming never ends well.
And by the sounds of it, instead of growing out of it, Ronnell saw the money only trying to siphon it all from his friends and family. That just screams greed.
Lmao victim blaming always cool when it’s a male. Dude got killed. What are u even saying 😂
Ronnell was about to leave his current wife with the debt and the 6,000 a month mortgage . He was on to the next unsuspecting woman. You saw when he was on the TV court show he left the wife in debt and was cheating and on to the next. His scam caught up to him. He was a Romance scammer and personally I think he was Bi.
How do christians have multiple marriages and steal and lie
@roseboone1890 he robbed her, though. 😢 She was doing great until he came along. That's another Legion right there 😢 She should have done a "who tf did I marry"
People who are truly wealthy don’t advertise their private lives in public. They often shun attention and go unnoticed.
Unless you come from nothing and not used to really having anything
Never trust the loudest, most outgoing man in the room at face value. 9 times out of 10, those theatrics are to draw your attention away from other aspects of their character.
Women too. Loud and desperate for attention 😓
Yep! Empty vessels make the most noise
Man sthu, being the life of the party isnt and shouldn't be deemed untrustworthty..
People have energy so?
@@PSICK1234ikillallracistrolls Clown comprehension. There is a difference between being the life of the party and being the loudest guy in the room.
Agreed. How could anyone listen to his inarticulate boasting , low-IQ ramblings and believe that he was a business genius? He gave off clear con-man vibes!
Anyone sharing “how to get rich” with others, will only get rich off YOUR dime from sales of their bogus products, courses and/or books.
Real wealth is quiet.
Those who can’t do, teach 😂. No offense to school teachers I love them
@@nvk743 Exactly!! Imagine Françoise Bettencourt Meyers, Bill Gates or Warren Buffett doing courses on “how to get rich like me”? 😂
Just like the “psychic” living in a tenement but can foretell wealth in your future.
Someone was once trying to recruit me about some “online business “and I ask them “ what will I be selling in the business “they say online business I say selling what and they tell me training people how to train other peoples to train other people how to do online business bunch of crap but people are signing up
@@ariesunicorn8225Warren Buffett is known for his sage advice on investing and wealth accumulation, which he often shares through his annual letters to shareholders, interviews, and speeches.
ATTENTION is one hell of a DRUG!
That’s what I think too.
YOU GOT THAT RIGHT
Something I never liked
@@mrs.hopson9426💯🤦🏽
Factz 🫡
Be careful who you let into your life. This man drained her financially and had the audacity to cheat multiple times. But murder was not the answer to her problems. Very sad story!
Her standards were clearly low.
usually its the other way around
She was a 304 she was already cheating she cheated her first husband with him
She lost the moral high ground when she decided to murder him. Screw the kids, I guess.
Half mill in debt, and he wants to split the business? What a clown.
Proves how poisonous social media,attention seeking and vanity can make someone.
SM DIDNT MAKE THEM THAT WAY, THEY WERE THAT WAY...😂😂😂
He was a thief. So he wants to get rid of her when they had 500 000 in debt.
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What does that make him ?
@@mariawestman9026She murdered him. It's not like there was a victim. They were the same.
@@VioletJoy I don’t agree.
@@VioletJoyI agree
Moving to ATLANTA while already 500k in debt is INSANE
Got to show off.
And they wasn’t “expanding” a thing because they had no real money to begin with. 😬😬
@@Ytorisv: Exactly. Show off. In deep debt and moving into to more debt in the name of what? Show off. Never hang your hand where your hands can’t take it down. The audacity of offering prayer to others when she should be asking God for forgiveness. Sad situation but it’s a lesson for others.
I watch the coverage of the story on different channels and I gather it was definitely more him to blame than her. I think her down for what she trusted too much
Love is always the downfall of a woman that had it all. That part when they say, I CAN DO BAD BY MYSELF!😑
8 kids immediately losing one or both parents. The poor things.
It really puts into perspective how one bad moment where your emotions have fully taken over can end in such devastation. I don't believe that if she had a chance to step back and think about the children and everyone who loved them both, she would even be able to fathom doing this. Our impulses are the scariest danger lurking inside of us.
This is why you have to get out of toxic relationships no matter how much you love the person. Your emotions get so volatile and if you convince yourself you won't lose control, you've already lost it.
Even we ourselves don't know what we're capable of. We all can do greater things AND worse things than we can imagine. 😢
The damage was already done to them while the parents were alive. Chances are they grow up in a life of confusion and trouble withnthe law
Thank you GOD THAT YOU RESCUE THE CHILDERN FROM THEM!
The damage was done with eight kids. Theres no way they had a proper childhood with parents giving them each about zero attention. Narcissists gonna narcissist, i guess...@@IamVintage72
They have no kids together… those kids are better off. These two fools are total losers.
Poverty is loud and screams
Richness talks
But wealth whispers. You can always tell the true brokies and fake rich from how hard they flex
Truer words have rarely been spoken.
Listen! I am 45 but I recall my high school English teacher telling a classmate "Class is not flashy!" He had seen her driving her Benz and said she needed some rims.😂😂 But I agreed then and still today remember her response verbatim. Class is not flashy. You won't ever have to showcase it if you truly have it.
@@TiffTALKS22 Love this.
Facts
This
She was doing quite well without that man in her life. He came in and ruined everything, BUT she played along to save face and lost it all. Literally!
He literally took her spirit away but she still kept her faith in God, if you notice you don't see him with any male friends in his pictures that's because this type of man don't have friends
@@shonterrell8098 you're very right, they don't. Cause he only keeps people around for as long as he can use them and that in itself drives any self-respecting person away. No long term friends for someone like that.
@@shonterrell8098 shes in hell for murder regardless
Tale as old as time. When will women wake up.
@@shonterrell8098her money and lifestyle was her God.
In many instances, the bigger the “public displays of love & affection” the more it ceases to be the truth.
Actually, it’s always a lie
That's exactly what I have been saying. All these people posting how strong their marriages and families ties are and fans hollering couples goals. Sooner or later the s**t blows up.
Agreed with you. A wise humble human being will NOT show off at all. Do you know as of this year, they are 756 Multi-billionaires residing in the United States? And most of these same 756 Multi-billionaires are so quiet and humble. In that, they don't show off. Not to even talk of the Multi-millionaires across the United States. Peace
So true! Fake image
When my sister use to post about her now exhusband acting like they were so in love and doing so good when I knew what was happening in their real lives and he was always cheating and they were constantly arguing 🙄 Stuff like that made me not post so much of my life on Facebook anymore, I barely post at all now.
Ive met people like this. I usually say nice to meet you and walk away forever. I have no need for that kinda fake crap in my life.
It's boring to me anyway.
It’s obvious he understood why she did it, he spent her money and tried to divorce her… That can trigger anybody
Yep… that’s y I keep it forever moving and never looking back with ppl like this🤷🏽♀️
Notice how they also love to shove their fake life down your throat?? Almost like they are trying to convince themselves of their blatant lies.
Clout is a hell of a drug. Fake it till you make it is a toxic philosophy.
In certain contexts and without some healthy boundaries, yep.
That's the thing she was actually successful aka HER not Him.
He was a con artist who used her until the end.
Hard lesson.... Fake it till you make it... Is a lie....
POWER; is the drug, rich don’t need nothing running for President, cop killers, crooked prosecutors and judges and lawyers, money, all rooted by power.
Extremely toxic
"Believe half of what you see and nothing of what you hear" - Edgar Allan Poe
I thought that quote was from Marvin Gaye, heard it though the grapevine😂😂😂😂
It's why some people actually review history.
@@sarahmoore1448😂😂😂😂😂
THIS❗️
This quote is more of an introspective analysis of self as opposed to how people talk to you…
Sadly, he didn't "fall out of love" with her, he simply spent all her money.
To him, she was just a meal ticket and a tool he could use for his own gain until he was done with her.
@@LC_H I think she saw him as someone she wanted to be with, And didn't realize what she was getting into until it was too late.
He was in love with what she could provide
I guess y’all missed the part where she cheated on him which is why he filed for divorce.
@warrior4god28 yea she cheated on him.... AFTER he had cheated on her, more than once.
She was so so pissed at what she allowed to happen over the years that she lost who she was. Deep in debt and losing everything she SNAPPED.
Not only that he was dating men on the low!!
@@latoshiaguffin6594 He was?
@@lydiakaptenyes. They were both dealing with the same man and she threatened to expose him.
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@@latoshiaguffin6594 Is that why they moved to Atlanta?? Makes sense now. Who was the man and is that why the girl who came to stay with them took the laptop and other belongings out the house???. was it evidence on the laptop?? Where can I get more information about this story from?? Everyone keeps tiptoeing round this story. It's bigger than cheating and finances.
I've always felt intimidated by these type of people. Now I realize that many of these types are just fake.
Absolutely…keep it extra superficial when dealing with them
It’s not intimidation your feeling, it’s the universe telling you to run away
The fact that he had them move away from her friends and family is, unfortunately, classic controlling behaviour. It was a way of distancing her from others whose voices and ideas might have given her a different perspective, and might have even warned her off him. Also a way of getting her to relinquish her business, which was the one thing that truly was hers.
That’s so right.
yep first thing i thought of HUGE red flag
She killed him. Then she killed her self. But I guess he made her do that too. Yal some dumb mfs.
That's not what happened. She was an extremely strong personality. It's not like he was controlling, and she was some weak victim. They were in major debt, so they decided to mask their bankruptcy by pretending to buy a house in cash. She put on the lie just the same.
Typical "let's blame the man" comment. Both were at fault, just in different ways, but both bore the blame for the mess their lives became. The real victims are their 8 children.
We own a small flat most of the nice furniture we picked up at charity shops cheap. At Christmas we struggle to find things to buy each other because we have clothes phones a games console and a tv. I never understand why people want a massive house and tons of expensive crap so they can impress their fake friends. Real friends dont give a crap what you have
Angry poor detected 🚨
@@CasperInkyMagoonah I know poor people I'm very happy for everything I have
@CasperInkyMagoo that's really pathetic, my dude.
@@CasperInkyMagoo I buy used because I was finishing a whole flat and wanted nice stuff. I didn't want to blow thousands that I can use on other things I enjoy more but you do you.
@@mikesanders8621 eeeeh but I’m right. Hard to argue with being right.
My dad told me never trust someone who calls themselves an entrepreneur, there is more validity to their claim when your clients or business partners call you that rather than yourself.
Or an influencer
Or a humanitarian!
Right like just tell me exactly what kind of business you claim to run 🤔 if you can't do that then that means you don't even have a real legit one
I worked for Ronnell for about 4 months. Didn't make a penny selling insurance... And he wasn't the only one who got caught up. One of his partners was the guy who wrote the insurance policy at the center of the Murder for hire scheme that took down Sweetie Pies.
Wally???
@@KM-ql4eb Yep. I'm not sure what came of the case, but he was the one who wrote the policy.
Y'all in the comments reconnecting and such. That's cool. 👌🏿
Omg 😮
Can you elaborate Mr Bell? Are you saying the person who wrote the policy around the Sweetie Pies incident did it dishonestly?
One thing I've learned is that if someone has a perfectly manicured online presence there probably a narcissist and a sociopath
Soooooo true!!!!
Agree, it sends me running the opposite direction!🤮
wow 😮
Not probably but definitely
This is one example as to why I'm not to quick to latch on to those online ads tutorials etc I see many people just like they showed here praising people and don't know people from Adam all fox but all swept and taken away by words and pictures.
This is why I've always believed in the saying "The person you choose to spend the rest of your life will be the most important investment you'll ever make". People just couldn't live within their means, I don't know why a lot of people have to impress other people who do not bring food to their table. More often than not the people they try to impress do not even care about them
Good one!!!👍
Absolutely 💯
I just posted the same words...
Amen ❤
Amen❤
These cases just prove why you shouldn’t just believe anything on social media. All of these influencers and these families that are famous, how do people not realize that so much is fake
It’s not just social media. It’s being aware of everything you don’t actually know verses what you imagine/believe.
@@TRUECRIMESPTV oh yeah well I mean that’s obvious I think but I’m talking about how people idolize social media stars and families and compare themselves to them when a lot of it’s not real.
Two full-time narcs
@@vocal-hm3yo👆🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 we live in a society that encourages this bs
@@vocal-hm3yoThey all are especially the one who have kids for views.
Atlanta, GA is the epicenter of scammers, hobosecksuals, and ''influencers''.
And not to forget, we are the Mecca for the DL brotherhood
Sad thing about this is not only is their kids without a parent but they showed their kids the wrong way to live and go about making a living.
let's hope the kids learning how not to be their parents, I did.
Poor kids!
That might be the only silver lining. Sometimes kids grow up smart because they had dumb parents.
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I'm so curious about the credit they had, will that be a burden to their children?
This is just a textbook case on how unchecked narcissism and greed CAN end up in unnecessary tragedy.
May her Soul rest in peace
You can't check marcassism...you can just go no contact....
Omg😮 I felt this 🥹
@@WWEENETWORKbut my husband and I been together for 8yrs😩 he’s a REAL narcissist. Never take on accountability. Totally different from this case. He’s my biggest supporter. No financial issues with us
@@hollylaflair1260maybe no financial issues but you want to keep dealing with that? I know that's your husband but are u happy? U said he's a narcissist, Why keep dealing with that if you know?... Just curious
We live in a world where a person can be $500,000 in debt and still manage to rent a freaking MANSION!!! But a person with ONE non violent 3rd degree felony can't rent a STUDIO apartment thats absolutely insane 🤯
Yes it is
Considering how consistently prosecutors downgrade charges for criminals, I can understand building managers not wanting felons in their complexes.
Especially since they could get sued for allowing one wrong person to assault, grape, or unalive someone.
@@MirandaSinistraagree with the first half but the second half just isn't true
That’s so true.
It is insane
I live in St. Louis and used to pass by their barber shop/hair salon all the time. I also used to see him around town at various events, and I knew quite a few people who knew them well. It’s a sad story for everyone involved, especially the children. 🙏🏽
This guy is the definition of a drone. He sucks as much as he can and after draining his partner, leaves her for the next one unlucky woman who won't see the red flags.
Perfectly said!!! 🎯🎯
And the even more tragic, is that this kind of cheating is the worst, because the other person plays with the other person's feelings, and it is difficult for her to realize or admit that she has been played. whether she realizes it or not, the result is tragic, even if there is no death in the end. It leaves deep scars on the soul. I feel sorry for Kiara and for their kids, the collateral victims.
I'm not usually one to jump on blaming the man because it's usually 50/50 but in this case yeah.... its on him. Sucked her in, sucked her dry and then threw her to the curb. And wasn't the first time he'd done it either. Absolute leech
Not unlucky they were both idiots
And she was a murderer and left their kids with no parents, but I guess we arent talking about that 😂
Man. All I could think of was I wish she had moved back to her home town and started over. She already had a client base just waiting for her. Stop posting on social media for a while, and when she got her business back up and running, brand herself as a strong independent business woman instead. Pride goeth before a fall.💔 One thing extroverts struggle with is that image isn’t that important. For the most part, it's rarely who you truly are.
Cleary wasn't that strong, independent, or smart if she let this guy worm his way in and take all her money.
Then killed him and herself and left their kids to deal with it. Yeah she was a real smart cookie.
🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯👍🏿🖤💐🔥🥰💯💅🏿
@@alec57she picked the wrong person , if she’s stupid well then so is 50% of americans because that’s our divorce stat .. everyone makes mistakes do disparage her character because of it . Shame on you
@@LC_Hdo you even know what he said to her. Brave to assume he was honest and open from the jump, especially given how he lied to and manipulated her. Smh.
"BRAND HERSELF AS A STRONG INDEPENDENT BUSINESS WOMAN"... thats the problem with yall. Only a queer would support that.
He sounded so uneducated I can't believe people paid him in the first place for advice. It's exhausting living with someone who's always going on and on about their big business plan. It's too bad she wasn't able to put her foot down against some of the more foolish decisions.
I thought the same thing..he sounds ignorant.
there’s absolutely no fixing or slowing down an arrogant, self aggrandizing Narcissist. He was so over the top, even if they divorced, he’d only get worse…it wasn’t going to end well…no matter what she did to try to make it better.
@Lovemore-yn7rhI thought that he said that she killed him and then herself. I am just asking a question. What did you him say? How did he say they ended?
How was she going to put her foot down? She obviously wasn’t stable either
Lovemore-yn7rhRight! Sounds very one sided and ill informed.
Spirit of greed & narcissim is destroying so many 💔
I feel just terrible for those children. 8 kids and both parents dead. God bless them
😢 Actually, they had a blended family; so it is quite possible that the other parents are there for the kiddos ❤
So selfish
I remember this story. Living a lie on camera is what most people do these days. When you start using cars and lifestyles to validate yourself, then it's a very bad sign of emptiness. The saddest thing is the kids left with no parents. It's sad
Just like ma grandma always said be happy with what you have even the small things in live ....and she also said once 1 neighbor buy a big car the next need a bigger one so sad this kind of life
So true
Yup. That’s what Gabby Petito tried to do. I was close to the family in that case and it was a mess!
Under the circumstances, they might be better off.
They kids still have a parent I don’t think they had kids together but from previous relationships
My goodness this pair were infuriating, rent a small place, get rid of the flash cars, sell off the jewellery etc. She had a successful business for twenty years, I’m sure they could have recovered from $500,000 debt with some proper financial planning. Why she stayed with him is beyond me.
Him living lavish like he's self- made! smh ... the nerve to split her business which he didn't even help to build. Sad that she fell for such a joker😢
@@naturerazzi7shi495 What does smh mean?
Shaking my head
Pipe dreams 💯
@@naturerazzi7shi495 She's a murderer. That's worse.
So glad I didn't have social media when I was younger.
Me too👌🏻
Omg facts
Adrian, you wrapped this up perfectly. A sleazy conman and a prideful woman is a horrible mix. If Keianna had moved back to St Louis this would have had a much different ending. She would have started to thrive again. He was looking for a "come up" without working for it and she wanted to "believe". May their children find peace.
prideful but dumb.. how tf did she put up with this for so long
Well said ❤
She fell for a married con man and made that one mistake of thinking she could make it better than the wife could. He used up his 1st wife to move on to her to use her up too. I am almost very sure she saw the red flags but still wanted him because he appeared to be successful and have momentum, probably blaming his ex wife for his downfalls. This is so tragic. People please use discernment and it is not far fetched to get background checks and hire a PI
Sounds like he also had his next victim wife number 3 ready because who says, “we’ll both remarry,” while filing for divorce. Like sir maybe be single for awhile first 🤦🏾♀️
Facts my mama taught me to do background checks these days chicks don’t even know the guys they’re dealing with last names!!! Alarming af I’ve literally met every person I’ve dated entire family it’s not many people but still something I’ve always been proud of. And they folks always loved me
She was the other woman initially so these type of relationships never work out in the end
I know an African British couple exactly the sane story. It was shoking how similar both stories are. But thing have not got to suicide or killing yet but financial situation is same gir both. Man spending and losing wife's money and get business struggling because he keeps taking money out. I tried to tell her to stop him from using the money from her business but she is not convinced. So it will be interesting to see where it all ends up 😮
Bottom line is She was a murderer
Perfect example of everyone should be guarding their characters rather than their reputation cause ur reputation is who people say u r but ur character is who u really r.
Very well said. NEVER live your life to impress others or caring about what others think of you, materially, it's a fools game, no one can or should sustain it.
'what good does it do for a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul...'
She wanted prayer because she knew she was the wrong one & would kill him if he kept up the BS! Her frustration of dealing with a narcissist caused her to kill him !! Iykyk 🤦🏾♀️
For sure. She knew she was about that life & would kill him. And she had too much bride to let the marriage end. I wish she just left and rebuilt her life :(
No reason to kill
@@angelpeoples4877 Never said killing him is justified but, People who’ve been broken by a narc understands why sis killed him !! How invincible a narcissist acts after they’ve ruined your life when all you tried to do was be there for them is insane! I had to pray & cry out in pain so I didnt do something similar to the narcissist that almost destroyed me !!😔
It was the Betrayal for me 😤
@@courtneyhughes6674
they were both narcissistic.
The same way you get them, is the same way you'll lose them. He was a RED FLAG from day one.
And she wasn't?
Social media really brings out the narcissism in ppl. 🤷🏽♀️
Agreed. I ended up deleting most of mine because of that very fact.
Me too@@alissabrown8114
Completely agree. This is why I cannot follow ‘influencers’ and have no real SM presence myself. None for my kids either. Life is much better lived as an experience when it’s not posted for the world to see. Just my opinion.
Yep
I believe with all my heart that if she had just went home with her children and left him behind she could have made it again. That beautiful intelligent woman could have started from scratch, learned from her mistakes, opened another salon, and been happy and successful again...but more humble this time! She had the wherewithal to make it even a second time! But even if she didn't get that far, she still would be here for them babies she brought into this world, but without that anchor of a man hanging around her neck! R.I.P 🙏💔🌹😢😊
Yep. She had a marketable skill and some business acumen. She would have been ok. 😢
I agree 100%
Am just in Totally Shock!!!! Now her Childrens Gonna Be Alone Be with her Children Jesus
Ummmm not sure about that
I'm not so sure about that. She was extravagant and showy, and shallow too. It was always going to end badly for her no matter what man
Anything I see on social media, success, failure, power couple...etc, I "do not" believe it. They show you only what they want. This case show it perfectly.
20:20
The guy should shut up.
She was good in St. Louis, before getting involved with him.
Being single is underrated.
Honestly whenever i see someone vlogging online about how perfect their family/buisness/life is i know 99% of the time thats BS. Nobody has a perfect life and its like theyre outwardly trying to convince themselves they do
Exactly!!!
Like some marriages
Absolutely, I always wonder what is really happening.
I say this ALL the time
I personally know someone that’s going through a divorce right now. But the more the relationship went on a decline the more they posted on instagram like things were great 🤦🏾♂️ ..I don’t believe nobody that’s online posting everyday, that’s always a telltale sign of something deeper
That’s Why I’ve never went on social media too expose problems in my marriage of 8yrs. Another reason I didn’t Flex because of our rocky marriage
Wow thank you for this video. I was a regular at Ms Keianna's shop and I knew it had to something devastating that happened for her to do this. I figured either an incurable disease or he wiped her out financially to the point she couldn't face the world. So sad. RIP and condolences to the children.
The parents of my ex wife, and mother of my kids, are like this. They have a huge luxury car dealership (Porshe/Audi) in Moskow. They know almost every shady individual in the western part of Russia. They were so "artificial" I kept them as far as possible from us, the 21 years we were together. Horrible people to be around.
My husband's cousin is the same. He's always been a grifting "get rich quick" scammer. He went to jail for 5 years for trying to import coke to our country. Then after he got out his grandma was telling us he must be doing well since he was driving a Lexus. He's been back with the same dr.g dealing people again trying to get rich without having to really work for it. A narcissist show and now he's in his late 50's and still trying to pick up 20yr old girls and putting on shows of success. All you need to do is research his name online and there he is in stories about importing coke.
Dudes a serial mlm scammer with horrible financial practices and many failed businesses?!?! Who would have ever seen that coming 🙄😑
Leaving 8 kids without parents is so brutal.
This here..
She preferred to unalive herself rather than accept that she made a poor choice in men and let that sorry jigalow go, file for bankruptcy and move forward! A top notch business woman with not an ounce of self worth. Ladies make sure you are checking your self worth while falling in love out here! How quickly we can fall from success to feeling completely hopeless. So sad!
You are absolutely correct, I would rather live in a little house by myself than marry a guy with “supposed” money. Nope…
You mean she killed herself. 'Unalive' isn't a word.
@@diamonm854It's a word that we created like we created all words
From what I know about suicide, it's not that simple. This lady clearly had greater problems than just her husband. By you trying to simplify this, you actually diminish the pain of everyone who's ever taken their own life.
No she choose murder ..it amazes me how many broken woman are choosing to forget that fact smh
[Quote] "Those who feel the need to float their success and luxury are usually the most insecure of people..." Adrian, I couldn't have agreed more, nor could I have said it any better. And there are countless numbers of them on social media every day.
".....along with those who feel the need to post online every day. " Was the finishing line. No truer words
As an *independent* self-made woman, she worked *hard* to achieve success, only to *allow* a selfish, opportunistic, and greedy *dusty* to misuse and abuse her. This is a sad *cautionary* tale. 🕊
Complete leech. Sucked her in, sucked her dry and then disposed of her when the money had gone. She's not completely blameless in this but you have to think, she'd probably still be in St Louis with a successful salon if she'd never met him
Very much agreed. She married a gold digger and I’m sure he hid it well.
At 20 yrs old she started a business and maintained a successful business for over 20yrs until he came along. Just sad. She loved him, that was her downfall.
You blaming the man you don't see she was a problem as well
@@kaykay3458 More importantly, she didn't love herself, nor her children. It's tragic all the way around. *NEVER* place a man over yourself or your children. *NEVER* You are worthy. 🕊
In my classes I am always telling my students that chances are the people they are following online are only living the image that they want you to believe. That there is always more to the story then what is being projected. Often my students tell me they feel depressed their lives are not like the people they follow on social media.
A massive swath of social media is nothing more than poisoned candy for the eye and the mind. Please keep warning your students about the reality of it.
Thanks for communicating that to your students. I grew up watching Leave it to Beaver and the Donna Reed Show, Brady Bunch. I thought we were impoverished. Of course, pop culture sociologists' studies have shown that those shows screwed up millions. Furthermore, we also learned that the back stories behind those "perfect" people were not REMOTELY perfect. In fact, their real lives made mine look ideal.
Show them this video :)
Might be a good lesson for them to remember when life feels hard.
It's sad that they even need to hear that when it's so obvious to most of us.
@@wolfgangk1thanks for making that link. People hating on influencers without realising it's nothing new and that we are being manipulated in many ways.
This is why I rarely trust anything I see on social media because a lot of it is a facade.
So true
Social media is just creating weird people who would have turned up normal if they weren't so addicted to the likes and followers...😢
Exactly!! It's become a pandemic of it's own. Chasing clout by all means,at the expense of their sanity and well-being.
Or social media is like money. No innate nature, just takes on the user's character or amplifies it.
Addiction to social media leads to many tragic events 😢
It's easier to lie about having money than actually working hard to get it. If you are really about making money then you dont have time for social media. Not to the degree they were on it anyway.
Lmao you must be young cause the world has always been dangerous especially back then now its just broadcasted
This is a sad story, this is one of the reasons social media is the WORST thing that ever happened to human kind. Drew a line down the middle of what? Her money and his $0??? What a loser that guy was. She should have left him. She probably would have needed a year or two to get her business back up and then she should have been OK. Condolences to the kids.
"Influencers" i hate this word with a passion
Same. "Tiktokerist" comes next. 🤮
@@charmiejung13 First time seeing that one and i already hate it lol
It's scary that kids (and adults) these days see it as a calling, a "job" they want to do. I can live with "content creator" but "influencer" itself has a bad connotation and are typically nothing more than marketers/salespeople in disguise.
Yeah , I agree . The only thing they "influence" me to do is click over to watch something , ANYTHING else . FAKE LOSERS !!!!...
Not very clued up on social media, and I prefer it that way, but I remember the first time I heard the word influencer I was dumbfounded. It wasn't even that long ago😂 it puts me off altogether now. Perhaps I'm catching on because nowadays I can't watch a UA-cam video without reading the comments.
How very sad for the 8 children left behind.
Adrian always cracks me up with his straight face when randomly throwing shade..." An overconfident, promiscuous, conman"😂 then calmly proceeds with the storyline...
that said, seeking constant social media attention and validation is extremely toxic 😔 people lose themselves entirely trying to impress strangers. This is why I'm not on any of them
Makes me laugh too when he says stuff like that!
Important nobody's. The internet is filled with them.
Right?! It's so revolting to me. "Look how important I am!" " I live the high life and you don't!" ad nauseum... It's in your face "I'm better than you!"
Take away the bling, makeup and money and they're no better than anyone else.
True words
I can’t stand those influencers that use their children and “happy marriages” for dollars and clicks. Poor kids.
I say POPULAR nobodies…Nothing important about them.
I hate the word "influencer", but love me some Coffee House Crime
It’s more like INFLUENZA!
@@Geneviev285 ain't that the truth buddy lol
Haha damn right!!!
@@Geneviev285😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Likewise! 😊
Ive seen every video on them and she earned her business.She fell in love with a scammer and she already put her reputation on the line.She had to keep going through with the scams and it took a toll on her mentally from the scams and the affairs.
Then he had the audacity to cheat...🤦🏾♀️
What scams are you talking about?
She wasn't a great person. I don't have sympathy for either of them.
Just crazy how things can appear good online but be terrible offline. I would rather have a great life offline. Smh.
So well put👍👍
Obviously
Um yeah, of course... Things are never how they appear to be online.. most people don't put there low moments online ,only people with a humiliation fetish post there lowest moments
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My landlady’s fallen for several MLMs. She says she’s ‘going to be rich soon’ but a few months ago asked me if she could borrow $800 to pay her mortgage. I’m a senior and that’s half my monthly income!
why would you lend to your landlord?
@@scroogemcduckrich9705 I didn’t the question is what business did she have even asking?
What on earth is your landlord doing asking you for a loan?
@@nhmooytis7058that’s crazy. Pay you back how? Reducing the rent?
@@chloep8808 that’s why I wouldn’t have “lent” it to her even if I’d been able to spare it!
0 remorse for these two. Living lavishly with money they didn’t have only to show off on social media is so cringy and ugly. But mainly they really racked up all those debt and killed themselves is so selfish. They never cared for their own kids? They are the real victims here
I could be wrong but it sure seemed like the children took a back seat while the self-centred parents posed as idols.
I sympathize with her, dude was a master manipulater and manipulated many women and cheated on them
Makes me glad society doesn't automatically pass on parents debts to their kids upon their death anymore. If it still was like that the selfishness of these morons would be further burdening their kids even beyond the grave, and with that much debt they'd never even have a chance to be free from it
@@HarleyHerbert Actually I believe any remaining debt left after a person passing is put on the next of kin if there isn't a spouse so the children would be responsible for it.
@@lindseyyoung9149not in the USA
I don't believe anyone on social media, EVER!
Agree. Not even hair and makeup influencers/ tutorials. They lie.
From this I learned not to show off because there are ppl who will be happy for your downfall to make themselves feel better. I feel sorry for them.
Yes that is true..and I feel sorry for them as well, so sad.
Agreed.
Agreed. I learned not to show off, not to allow ANYONE to disrupt your business, and live within your means
@@monicawhite1963amen
Agreed with you. A wise humble human being will NOT show off at all. Do you know as of this year, they are 756 Multi-billionaires residing in the United States? And most of these same 756 Multi-billionaires are so quiet and humble. In that, they don't show off. Not to even talk of the Multi-millionaires across the United States. Peace...
Be wary of the ostentatious weddings! The bigger the wedding, the more insecure the couple. The best marriages I’ve seen last the test of time, had modest weddings. The wedding is a microcosm of the quality of the relationship. However stressed the wedding process is… will be a direct symptom of the problems in your marriage.
Funny you should say this, my hubby n I got married 27 years ago, been together 34, we only had 30 guests, just immediate family & a meal afterwards, we were saving for our first home. I had 2 friends & my cousin who all got married that same year with lavish weddings, not one of them lasted past 7 years yet we're still here. Make's you think.
I got married at "The Hitchin Post". A pair of Levis and my cleanest dirty sweatshirt. 😎
@@sharongrigg5336 👏🏽🫶🏽💟
@@thegreencat9947 👏🏽🫶🏽💕
Literally! My husband and I got married at the courthouse with two people there, and had a small party at the house afterwards. That was 17 years ago
You are, by far, one of my most favorite channels. After 20+ years in the legal field (primarily criminal cases), I really enjoy and appreciate your content. Keep up the amazing work!
P.S. You should check out the Terry Clark case out of NM. A pedo was arrested, released on bond, and then kidnapped and killed a little girl (Dina) while out on that bond. Tragic case. He ended up asking to be executed after many appeals and he later was.
thank you! I'll check it out!
The lengths that people are willing to go to just to impress strangers is crazy. Your life cannot be sacrificed for entertainment, because when it is all said and done, the very same people you're trying to impress will continue to live their lives without a care in the world about what is going on with you. The most you'll get is "shame, poor thing" It is simply not worth it..
So sick of online fake people.
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"Looks can be deceiving". Very sad for the 8 children.
She would have been doing fine had she never met him.
Yes yes, always the mans fault
So that means she can kill people? If this was a man and the roles were reversed you wouldn't have that same energy. He would be all types of pieces of shit. You women cannot accept accountability at all.
@@skelly4998 I was just thinking to myself, there was something deeply wrong with this woman way before she met this man. That something attracted her to him, prompted her to move away with him despite colossal debt, prop up his scams for years, tolerate blatant infidelity,and to ultimately end both their lives.
That “Meet The Burns” show had me rolling!!! 🤣
A mess !!! Listening to him almost gave me a seizure 😂 so uneducated
This is super sad. She clearly worked so hard for what she built. He absolutely leeched off her success but also fueled her ego. It seems like her family was able to help keep that part of herself in check, but once she moved miles away from her grounding source, she’d lost all reason. I wish she could have woken up sooner and gotten her and her children away from him. She was hardworking and could just go back home to rebuild her life. But it’s like her ego and pride was so overgrown at that point, she made the worst possible decision.
This is so sad!! They were too busy thinking about themselves rather than their children. Thank you for always making great videos Adrian ❤🎉
I have stopped following a few people like this, throwing extravagant parties, private jets for their kids who are 3 and nearly 1!its just showing off, but like you say behind closed doors there is more to it! Thank you Adrian for continually bringing us these fantastic videos x
why do you follow.... anyone?..you must be just a follower
@@jadezee6316 if you follow someone it's cause you liked their content, so yes you become a follower! What's your issue?
@@jadezee6316In a way we're all following someone, we're following Adrian right now so...
@@jadezee6316you have 69 comments on this channel, why do you follow coffeehouse crime? Is it….perhaps you like what he posts?
Please use critical thinking skills next time.
@@jadezee6316 you halfwit...
He never loved her. He loved her money until it ran out because of his actions. Then it was time to move on. Sadly she was, whatever was the reason was, to really leave him. The beginning mistake was getting with him. So sorry for the children.
Hey Adrian, all of your stories are tragic (I forget how you put it, sorry) and that's why your channel is so good.
That man left no stone unturned with trying to get money 😭 MLM, reality TV, cc debt, ministry… only thing he didn’t do was insurance fraud 😅 RIP to both of them though smh.
It is so interesting to see people like this in action. I can’t say men only because I know there are women like this as well. But to say the first wife literally dodged a big issue with her ex. I feel the same. My ex and I met young and were married for 15 years, but we divorced and now his true narcissistic conman ways are in full force. I never knew him to be the unhappy mean, lying man he is now. But when I tell you I say a prayer of thanks at night that that man is no longer my husband and can’t drag me down with his schemes and lies. 🙏🏾😬
You didn't hear the word "Primerica?" That's insurance!
@@RETlREDAVIATORI think what they are referring to is something like burning a business, building, car, etc to collect on the insurance policy
It's the ministry game for me..
Why god always catching strays 🤷🏾♀️
@@RETlREDAVIATORthere's no real money in primerica unless you become district manager and own your own store..
No different from those MLM outfits
Never trust a fast talker, someone who can never shut tf up, and someone who’s always trying to prove/ show that they “have it like that” 💀💀
"someone who can never shut tf up..." - You are too right 🤣🤣
Us Geminis
Perhaps you just don't have anything interesting to say...
Trust NOBODY I've been betrayed by some of the most quiet people. Learned the hard way.
@@conversationovercoffee perhape you're ignorant to think this is the way to live
Poor woman fell for a conman and lost everything, even her mind at the end.
I'm 61 and self sufficient. I'll never marry again because a lot of older men are looking for a purse and a nurse. No thank you. I worked too hard to get to this place.
Yall are pathetic wanting to blame the man.
That’s exactly what happened!
@@ScubaFanatic60👏👏👏
yeah poor her she pulled the trigger fool
He had absolutely nothing, she let a bum finesse her , and now her kids dont have a mom..🤦🏿♀️. Sis we gotta do better we not that lonely..he was a loud broke narcissist
Fast-talkers is the first sign of a scam artist and swindler. Talking fast allows them to fool simple-minded people by barraging them with so many words that they cannot keep up.
lololololol! you are right!
Preach 😢😮😮😮I was once fooled by one 🕐
This was a lot triggering. Im glad I've escaped the narcissist who tried to bankrupt me. I'm even more grateful that the situation never escalated to this!
Glad I wasn't the only one that noticed that part...mine was awful too smh hope you are healing well 😊
So sorry it was so triggering,,so glad it safe now. ❤❤much love to u both
@@heathercarter2475 same to you 🤗🤗🤗🤗
@@evalunloca thanks a lot 🙏
I always told my daughters, who are more successful than I ever was, to always keep their assets separated from any relationship. No. Matter. What.
"Her hair, make-up and nails beautifully arranged " 😂😂😂😂 my apologies, I couldn't stop myself 😂😂😂😂😂
lmfao
She trained for that, looks like she was good at it.
Could you imagine arguing with this guy!? Like how could you keep a straight face! 😅
Combine: man + polite + well spoken. This is how it will come out 😊 💅
No matter what he did, I can’t wrap my head around her checking out of life and leaving 8 children without parents. More money can be made and there are plenty of other men in the world. I think her priorities were out of order.
Looks like you don't understand suicide 😕
Or abusive relationships.
@@007stinkey can’t even deny that…probably why I can’t wrap my head around it 🫤