Lani babe I wanna say that first of all I’m from Denmark, and I found u on Instagram from the very first time and then saw u on bkchat and I fell in love with u, I fell in love with ur vibe, personality, look everything, I didn’t know a thing about ur situation with that guy. I just wanna say that there’s probably a lot of ur followers that’s like me u know, that’s been loving u from the start and didn’t get to know u as the girl that talks about the guy. I feel ur pain, not cause I’ve been through it before but watching and hearing u speak about it, it touches my heart. So please believe in urself and see the good in all the bad things that happened to u, obviously this situation did bring a lot of audience, make them see another side of u and switch it to a good thing. I really love u, and I really cry every time u do. Please know that there is a lot of people, that don’t see u as this obsessed girl but as Lani motherfcking good. Hope u read this ❤️❤️
Thank you Joyce for imparting encouragement and into this beautiful soul.... Lani, you have did and done well. You will be fine, the money was one thing but your mental is another and that may take time to heal. You'll be fine. But I hear you.
Really grateful for this conversation and Lani not trying to hide her emotions, I think a lot of people are gonna be able to heal from seeing her heal so rawly before our eyes, thank you
This has to be my favorite episode... i love her courage honestly and she is so strong I’m so proud of her ❤️❤️ I have been in a similar situation and listening to her story has really helped me
The last part where Madame Joyce is encouraging Lani just made me subscribe🤍 God bless you Joyce for not judging and misunderstanding her And Lani,I love the fact that she lives her truth and shows that she’s human and flawed.she’s learning as she goes No one is perfect All the best to you both❤️
Big Up Lani🤭💃🏽 Auntieee Madam Joyce, suggestion!! I would love to see you with the author of "Keisha The Sket" - Jade LB, I’ve been listening to renewed version this week and I think that would be a lit, insightful episode. You're doing so well💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 1:04:07 yeah people do that!!! They said Obsession, Clout etc to try to shut you up, it's like when you wanna talk about race, sexism or classism or the plight of Black women (intersections) etc and people say you're complaining and you just want a free ride BLAH BLAH BLAH. People always YAPPA YAPPA YAPPA! They just want you to say nothing, KEEP TALKING 💃🏽 1:06:20 fr!! Yes!! "Field day"💀😭 treating it in like a cookout, like a hall party. Yess Joyce.🥰🥰 Gwarrn Lani. 🥰🥰
Lani really intrigues me, she’s an utter nutcase. But I’m intrigued by her transition bcoz it’s not the first time I’ve heard her say she used to be shy. I’m the shyest of shys, the only shy in the village and that really speaks volumes to me. Again, I just wish she wasn’t mad. I hope this is going to be a really introspective interview. If not I know Wunmi Bello will do the job (assuming she hasn’t already interviewed Lani). Side note: When people are saying they think others hate them, especially when there’s no evidence to support such claim, you’re really projecting your self-hate/dislike and I believe this exaggerated persona of Lani’s is to safe guard her from feeling ppl hate her. Her persona is a defence mechanism in my opinion, if you put forward a different version of yourself nobody really knows you and that way you stop caring that people hate you bcoz you know they don’t know the real you enough to hate you you. Just my opinion, we as people really need to learn vulnerability and self compassion if we truly want to heal.
Yh Lani is one calculated person. I wouldn’t be surprised if she turned on the water works at the end because she knows where it’ll end up… shadeborough. Grandiosity, vindictiveness, attention seeking. All recipes for one thing… And I was very right about her self hatred… She needs help my g’s. The positive is, I think Lani is going to change the trajectory of the game, a lot more ppl/youtubers are going to follow her footsteps after this and it won’t be long before UK starts mirroring what we see in US media. I guess we can call her a game changer.
Ughh SPEAK UP MISS JOYCE😮💨 loved this soo much. Ngl i loved Lani from timeee she’s her authentic self. Some of you could NEVER. That’s why y’all hating.
I see that she gets a lot of hate but she definitely has a lot of supporters especially out here in the US I love seeing her growth and where she’s going and when she’s on top everybody’s going to come back crawling
One method I have encountered is that a superficiality charming narcissist will work their way into their target's friend group , and then ruin their reputation with false accusations before getting bored of that group a few months after the damage has been done and they have made sure that the damage is locked down and their target is a social pariah who will never be able to return to that group. A socially isolated target is a perfect for a narcissist looking to establish milieu control to facilitate other forms of abuse that would be difficult to perform if their target has a social support structure of friends.
I judged Lani like most but I’m realising shes a sweet girl! She deserves better🥺 the internet has broken this girl down now look how she thinks of herself 💔be yourself girl, live your movie
I was facing something like Lani aleast it was not Tion it was an ordinary boy that did the same I was so hurt but you know what I did something to him that he will never forget yes I am a petty Bitch
Genuinely: she no dey hear word That’s just that Even i tried and I don’t know her but I do feel she needs wise people in her life but sounds like she probably does have but just doesn’t wna take it 🤷🏾♀️
Walking into a room and thinking everybody hates you is so saddening to hear. Nobody should feel like that
I really loved how Joyce uplifted Lani towards the end 🥺❤️ This is definitely how other woman should have responded to her from the beginning.
🤔
This interviewer is absolutely INCREDIBLE. She has a bright future ahead of her. Keep the good work up
She owns her truth and she’s honest. Respect.
I’m American so I don’t know who Lani is or what she’s been through but I felt her pain. Joyce is a great interviewer! I love this show!
Joyce has such comforting energy
These 2 girls are 10/10. Love them. Very strong women and good role models.
What an amazing interview. lani, please don't feel bad. You're a great person living in your truth.
Lani babe I wanna say that first of all I’m from Denmark, and I found u on Instagram from the very first time and then saw u on bkchat and I fell in love with u, I fell in love with ur vibe, personality, look everything, I didn’t know a thing about ur situation with that guy. I just wanna say that there’s probably a lot of ur followers that’s like me u know, that’s been loving u from the start and didn’t get to know u as the girl that talks about the guy. I feel ur pain, not cause I’ve been through it before but watching and hearing u speak about it, it touches my heart. So please believe in urself and see the good in all the bad things that happened to u, obviously this situation did bring a lot of audience, make them see another side of u and switch it to a good thing. I really love u, and I really cry every time u do. Please know that there is a lot of people, that don’t see u as this obsessed girl but as Lani motherfcking good. Hope u read this ❤️❤️
🔥🔥💯
if only lani knew how much we LOVE her
Thank you Joyce for imparting encouragement and into this beautiful soul.... Lani, you have did and done well. You will be fine, the money was one thing but your mental is another and that may take time to heal. You'll be fine. But I hear you.
Joyce's interview skills, adapting and making feel lani feel comfortable
I love Lani, atleast she's real.
Really grateful for this conversation and Lani not trying to hide her emotions, I think a lot of people are gonna be able to heal from seeing her heal so rawly before our eyes, thank you
Joyce has the most soothing voice ever 😍😍 love the interview. Big up Lani ❤️
I love you LANI! The character development within the 2 years has been amazing to see!!! God bless you in your new chapter 😍❤️
You two work very well together, you need a show together
When you have to keep changing the volume because one minute Joyce is shouting the next she’s whispering into the mic
*laughs in the bushes on the cuRb* ...I LOVE IT STILL!!!
Joyce! Your energy is heavenly! Thank you sis 💗
Making myself known to Joyce before this podcast takes off 🤝 love this show so much
This has to be my favorite episode... i love her courage honestly and she is so strong I’m so proud of her ❤️❤️ I have been in a similar situation and listening to her story has really helped me
Lani is so beautiful
People always paint lani a different side of her which is sad…kinda wish this world was loved and kind
The last part where Madame Joyce is encouraging Lani just made me subscribe🤍
God bless you Joyce for not judging and misunderstanding her
And Lani,I love the fact that she lives her truth and shows that she’s human and flawed.she’s learning as she goes
No one is perfect
All the best to you both❤️
Your podcasts helped me in lots of ways babes 😍 ly guys so much
Big Up Lani🤭💃🏽
Auntieee Madam Joyce, suggestion!! I would love to see you with the author of "Keisha The Sket" - Jade LB, I’ve been listening to renewed version this week and I think that would be a lit, insightful episode. You're doing so well💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
1:04:07 yeah people do that!!! They said Obsession, Clout etc to try to shut you up, it's like when you wanna talk about race, sexism or classism or the plight of Black women (intersections) etc and people say you're complaining and you just want a free ride BLAH BLAH BLAH. People always YAPPA YAPPA YAPPA! They just want you to say nothing, KEEP TALKING 💃🏽
1:06:20 fr!! Yes!! "Field day"💀😭 treating it in like a cookout, like a hall party. Yess Joyce.🥰🥰 Gwarrn Lani. 🥰🥰
Love lani,she seems like a genuine and lovely person❤
Great episode! My dream episode would be for you to get Naya Talks on! I think you guys would get on sooooo well omds!
It’s great to see Lani from a different view in her own words! Love her🥰
Absolutely loved this conversation. 🥰
Omg lani is a pisces, yep this explains alot lool We love you girl x
Lani really intrigues me, she’s an utter nutcase. But I’m intrigued by her transition bcoz it’s not the first time I’ve heard her say she used to be shy. I’m the shyest of shys, the only shy in the village and that really speaks volumes to me. Again, I just wish she wasn’t mad.
I hope this is going to be a really introspective interview. If not I know Wunmi Bello will do the job (assuming she hasn’t already interviewed Lani).
Side note: When people are saying they think others hate them, especially when there’s no evidence to support such claim, you’re really projecting your self-hate/dislike and I believe this exaggerated persona of Lani’s is to safe guard her from feeling ppl hate her. Her persona is a defence mechanism in my opinion, if you put forward a different version of yourself nobody really knows you and that way you stop caring that people hate you bcoz you know they don’t know the real you enough to hate you you.
Just my opinion, we as people really need to learn vulnerability and self compassion if we truly want to heal.
Yh Lani is one calculated person. I wouldn’t be surprised if she turned on the water works at the end because she knows where it’ll end up… shadeborough. Grandiosity, vindictiveness, attention seeking. All recipes for one thing…
And I was very right about her self hatred… She needs help my g’s. The positive is, I think Lani is going to change the trajectory of the game, a lot more ppl/youtubers are going to follow her footsteps after this and it won’t be long before UK starts mirroring what we see in US media. I guess we can call her a game changer.
all this for what let her be abeg
@@maryammaragan you came here to read comments… rest abeg
Ughh SPEAK UP MISS JOYCE😮💨 loved this soo much. Ngl i loved Lani from timeee she’s her authentic self. Some of you could NEVER. That’s why y’all hating.
This woman has been through a lot sha, lani i rate u man ✌🏾
I love Joyce's posture.
I see that she gets a lot of hate but she definitely has a lot of supporters especially out here in the US I love seeing her growth and where she’s going and when she’s on top everybody’s going to come back crawling
it can only be God who told me to watch this episode today because it was exactly what i needed to hear, thank u ladies for this 💕
I’m a Pisces and I’m impulsive too. I would too get married in vegas been thinking about it for time
Wait so Tolani isn't Nigerian? I even thought she was Yoruba lol. It was nice to see this side of her. Great interview
She’s from Zambia
Am African but I know Lani and honestly I really love Lani people in Africa watch you and love you so much 🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’m here adding my two piece in each conversation like they can hear me 😂😂
Lol this is me all the time, I’ll even pause to give my own opinion
No no no ...that sounds like us Pisces...the cautious bring us thrills
One method I have encountered is that a superficiality charming narcissist will work their way into their target's friend group , and then ruin their reputation with false accusations before getting bored of that group a few months after the damage has been done and they have made sure that the damage is locked down and their target is a social pariah who will never be able to return to that group. A socially isolated target is a perfect for a narcissist looking to establish milieu control to facilitate other forms of abuse that would be difficult to perform if their target has a social support structure of friends.
Pisces ♓️ gang gang gang we gooooo deeeppppppp
Lany is such a pure soul
This was deep 💯💯💯 loved it
Lani we love you Regardless ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I love you so much Lani💞 this interview was lit
I judged Lani like most but I’m realising shes a sweet girl! She deserves better🥺 the internet has broken this girl down now look how she thinks of herself 💔be yourself girl, live your movie
Lani deffo move to America I love their vibe there mannn ❤️🔥❤️🔥 England is dead
Lani let ppl judge u continue to do u 💯💯🙏🙏
that bit about the self hatred is fkin deep, Idek how shit that must feel
Bless her, she’s so entertaining if only she knew she is liked.
So educational, really loved this it’s great❤️
Great episode, love to you both 🙏
13:31 THIS IS FACTSSSS my days
We all know a girl like Lani 😂
She’s lovely
@@LL-ip5mm !!! Indeed
I'm a girl like Lani!!
i love this girl man
This podcast is called cocktails & takeaway but I have never seen a cocktail or takeaway. This can't happen in ghana.
What the hell are you talking about now?
first 5 mins I needed that
Gisela complicating everything lmao
Aunty what is sense of direction I cant lol
People pleaser vs narcissists that’s it
I truly believe she's misunderstood.
I love you guyssss❤️❤️❤️
Land needs to go on love island
Amazing interviewer
OH MY DAYS SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT MARC
Lani’s beautiful 😍 always effed with her
Thank you ♥️
She is a great girl
Nooooo Demi😂😂
I was facing something like Lani aleast it was not Tion it was an ordinary boy that did the same I was so hurt but you know what I did something to him that he will never forget yes I am a petty Bitch
As you should💅🏿
why’d i think lani was nigerian 🙃🙃? what is she?
Zambian
@@madamejoyce1 i did ! i’m saying before watching i thought she was nigerian loll
No babe this wasn’t for you someone else was arguing and deleted their comment 💜💜@orea
I love this ❤️
I think Lani might have BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER...I recognise some of her sentiments
Love you lani !!!
Bless Lani❤️
The girl on your left is pretty wooow
Love this .
❤️❤️❤️
Genuinely: she no dey hear word
That’s just that
Even i tried and I don’t know her but I do feel she needs wise people in her life but sounds like she probably does have but just doesn’t wna take it 🤷🏾♀️
I feel Lani so hard 🙁
loved this video!
48mins is about marc cuban
Joyce ❤️ Lani ❤️
All dis girls r gonna be single 4ever black woman with there mentality looking for rich guy u all need to work to look after yourself
Im also in that « trust the process » mode . Not easy sometimes but its a part of the plan
Oh nah this was 🤌🏾
Joyce you was made for this!!!
new subscriber!
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