I don’t get why Elena goes “maybe if you and I had met first” it’s like she’s choosing the brothers not based on how much she loves them but based on chance and coincidence that they literally can’t control.
I think that she's just trying to justify to herself and to Damon, that it 'could've been IF' meaning it's an excuse not to face facts that she actually did use Damon whilst broken up with Stefan, to distract herself and make herself feel better.
I don't know what Damon was thinking when he asked her who would get her goodbye. Sure, in season 3 their bond grew pretty strong but Elena and Stefan dated. They takes risks for each other. She obviously still loved Stefan. Why would Damon do that to himself? Elena said it herself, she never really unfell for him.
Aquarius Is my sign There's such thing as hope, you know. He probably already knew it was a long shot, but he still had hope that maybe, just maybe she might choose him
men like that exist ... believe me ahahahahah... I guess it's a self talk/thought in order to convince themselves that they will not get the girl... so they need to hear that to go away.....
But i always think about damon's one track mind in s1, it was all katherine katherine katherine! So if their meeting hold ANY CREDITS, that would totally dismantle the purpose of s1.
I feel so bad for damon in this scene. I mean I know what happens in the end which I love. But this scene when damon says 'it's always gonna be stefan.' I feel so bad for him cause first it was 100 yrs of waiting and loving katherine just for her to choose stefan every time. And then it was elena , and for so long she always chose stefan. That's got to hurt.
@@riturajput7573 No way. I'm not even going to watch the ending because it's not the original couple here! And besides Damon is not even cute at all here!
True but if you think of it he did it to himself. Damon put himself between stefan and elena since day 1 just to bother his brother. Why couldn't he find someone else to go after? That was weird af
I don't understand why everyone wants to focus on the negative things Damon has done, and forget everything else every single bad thing other characters on this show had done. Damon just doesn't hide his bad parts that often. Because a person is not what they claim to be, they are who they hide, if that makes any sense.
Because every shitty and disgusting thing Damon did was his own choice of his own free will. None of the rest of the main characters did anything that wasn't understandable or reasonable for example, Stefan killed his own father when he was in transition for the first time understandable and he apparently was abusive so it makes it less horrible for some people and he was a ripper something he couldn't really control because the bloodlust was that hard for him and his emotions were turned off I could go on forever about things Damon did just to be a dick. Snapping Jeremy's kneck because Elena didn't return his feelings for example what the hell? How is that excusable? None of the characters are entirely blameless or have clean hands they've all killed but Damon can't be compared to them at all and the worst part is how he tried to blame Katherine for everything he did like turning Vicky. If Elena had dropped him and choose Stefan the way Katherine had I'm sure he'd blame Elena for everything he ever did after meeting her too. That's why people focus on the "negative things" Damon has done sweetie. Fuck Damon.
they forced that flashback for delena shippers because he was acting all nice here like he wants to get to know her but in the first season he was a antagonist to elena i mean he used her as a bargaining chip and wished she died
Karan Patel it was probably the shock of seeing her, she looked like the woman he loved, the one he was back in town to find. Once he got over the fact they aren’t the same person, he adjusted and treated her like everyone else. Even Stefan admitted to watching her, following her around etc to make sure she wasn’t Katherine before officially meeting her.
This scene showcases the serious difference between human Elena and vampire elena. Yes she was returning to stefan but she was also placing her friendships before Damon. I used to ship Delena especially in season 3 when Stefan was absent but as the show went on, Delena became toxic and it ruined both Damon and Elena's characters.
I agree with everything you said. When Elena was human, she made Damon accountable and he was a better person for it. Once she was a vampire, they brought out the worst in each other, and it was fight, breakup, makeup sex, on repeat. They knew they were toxic together and even admitted it.
Karen Anderson They only had break up sex once that does not equate to their entire relationship....And it's funny ya'll keep trying it with the toxic BS when Stefan and Elena were not healthy their damn selves. They NEVER discussed their underlying issues...When Stefan traumatized Elena by force feeding her his blood/driving her off Wickery bridge all we got out of it was Stefan saying "I shouldn't have done that" NO real apology even worse the writers had Elena saying Stefan was the "perfect" boyfriend who "never" scared her when there has been many instances that have showcased otherwise. Stefan was fixated on fixing her as soon as he found out she had feelings for Damon which goes against the whole Stefan "respects" Elena's choices BS, created this false image of being a human 17 yr old boy when he met Elena in the hallway and was not going to tell her he was a century old vamp who compelled his way into a high school to organize some faux meeting after months spent on stalking Elena and her family's back story. At least Elena knew and fell in love with the REAL Damon....She didn't have to lie to herself to make HIM feel better as she so often did with Stefan..She told him how she really felt and they addressed their respective issues....Elena and Damon knew the good and bad sides of each other, there was no pretending it was real and that is what Elena wanted. How can they possibly be the worse versions of themselves together when Elena makes Damon better and Damon makes Elena happy? The girl is happily married and successful in the medical field with children of her own now...I doubt her supposed future with Stefan would result in anything close to that.
Angelique McConell that's what made the show good, the fact that their love was toxic. Plus that's how most TV show love stories are, it's not always going to be a smooth ride, sometime there will be bumps on the way.
Lol I knew they would make that Damon met Elena first to create this some sort of "deeper" connection between Damon and Elena and I can't express in words how much I found that ridiculous. It's like they wanted Elena with Damon and pushed it in no matter how long it took for them to actually be together in season 4. Just, I loved watching Elena and Damon but then it got so twisted and I just couldn't enjoy anything about the show anymore except watching Katherine and the Originals. Damn I miss Seasons 1 - 3 of TVD.
Omg finally someone voiced it. I cringed so hard at that flashback scene. Honestly the dynamic between Damon and Elena would've been more satisfying had they kept the flashback out. It didn't even feel remotely authentic.
Fuck off ... It's one of the best scenes and Delena is the reason S1 to S3 interesting ..Stelena is fucking boring and there's no fucking chemistry whatsoever
Hamna Naeem No....Delena is where it's at....Stefan and Elena drifted apart...Even Elena knew it which is why she couldn't think about always with him anymore.
I ship both Delena and Stelena, but these two scenes made me cry because I love how Elena cares for Damon and he still waits for her and she's honest with him BUT I also love how she also goes to Stefan. I hope some of you can relate. :)
I like season 1 of Stelena best, season 2 is good, season 3 terrible, season 4 is complete horse shit, season 5 is Oh my fucking god Stefan move on already, and EVENTUALLY he did, falling in love with Caroline, Now, every season is good for Steroline. My reasons for this is because in season 3, when she chose Stefan it was crap, she didn’t love Stefan anymore, sure she cared about him but was in love with Damon. When she kissed Damon on the doorway or when they made out at the motel, was just pure proof, she wasn’t doing any of the stuff with Stefan until the final episode of season 3! She was over Stefan when she started to fall for Damon, she was just deluded to the fact that she shouldn’t be with Damon by Caroline and the rest of her friends, just watch some scenes like “its Stefan’s turn” after she made out with his brother, she should of listened to herself, she shouldn’t of went to the party with Stefan, not even with Damon, not until she had accepted that Damon was who she wanted. It wasn’t between which one to pick, it was who I should be with, and who I want to be with. This was why she chose Stefan, but when she became a vampire, those already strong feelings became much stronger, making them impossible to resist, can’t blame her. She should of been more honest about it, if she had, she may not of had to chose on the bridge, and she wouldn’t of become a vampire, but who are we kidding, practically all of her friends are supernatural, part from busboy but still, that increases the risk of becoming just that, supernatural by a incredibly significant amount. But even if it still played out that way she should of chose Damon on that bridge. If it had been Stefan’s blood in her system, not Damons, she wouldn’t of been sired to Stefan. And when Stefan and Caroline kept telling her that her feelings weren’t real, and that in the final episode he said he would go back to her in a heartbeat, even though he already said to Damon that it was over, when they danced while Elena’s humanity was of and was trying to seduce her?! It so fucking pissed me off, I mean seriously Stefan, LET GO. Anyways, I had to get that outa my system. I hated Stefan this season, I mean seriously seriously hated him and Caroline, Bonnie was more open to it so that’s fine and Caroline season 5 was pretty bad to. As I said, she still cared about Stefan but did not truly love him back.Yes, the sire bond did help her discover the truth, but even if it didn’t happen, she would of still ended with Damon, Delena Has been GREAT all seasons, so has steroline. But yeah, this is my opinion, very long I know. Have a great day!
@@nayantyagi6166 yeah, thanks, I have a thing for going overtop while explaining so I had to go into depth about it, but you agree right, I mean after 2 seasons he should of moved on by then, seriously she no interested in you and she already said she didn’t love him anymore, and you really think she’d make out with you and get a hotel, let go! Okay ima stop now before I go to far. Lol
@@chloewhitlock-claire4720 absolutely.... 100%right.... Carolyn telling her that stefan is ur epic love... and just before she died what did saint stefan do.. when elena said we should discuss this and then said later, he understood right away what she decided.. and then kissed her and saying if there is no later...what the fuck is this... is he suppose to do her where damon is with klaus in car...... damon felt guilty of kissing her so he turn bonnie mom to vampire even though he knows elena will hate him for this it was stefan who is suppose to do this he and Carolyn create a kind of delusion for her.... stefan try to manipulate her.." i will always be with you when alaric dies and told her i hate myself for biting her . Where damon didn't take any move he is just the way he is.. after motel scene if he would have just kissed her again and told her i will try not lash out of any bumper in the road... instead he chooses right thing to do and faught her ....
Best thing about this flashback, it meant nothing in the big scheme of things. Elena did go on to meet Damon again, and she met Stefan, and it was Stefan who she fell in love with. Not Damon. Also this flashback shows Damon's obsession with Katherine, and the only reason Damon even approached Elena was that he believed she was Katherine. He then compelled her to forget meeting him because he believed it could interfere with getting what he wanted. Katherine. Damon has only ever wanted Elena when Katherine wasn't an option anymore. Stefan fell for Elena only after he knew she wasn't Katherine, and that she was this whole other person. That's real love. Damon's love for Elena is based on very self centered feelings. She fills a need for him. She's the Katherine who accepts him.
salemdecember Now I don't believe that. Why would Stefan go to school and say that "had to know her" if he didn't care about her looking like Katherine? The truth is yes, Damon spent a while obsessed with Katherine, but then he realized that there was this whole other person who was caring and selfless that started caring for him as a friend and then fell in love with him. Then he couldn't ignore that. I don't believe Stefan forgot Katherine just like that, I believe there are similar things to both stories and that they fell for her (Elena) in different parts of the story.
salemdecember That is because Damon did not meet her at the time she felt like her world was down and Damon was still in love crazily I might add with Katherine
What delena shippers can't seem to understand is the fact that Elena said "she wanted a love that consumes her" at that particular moment in time. After the accident, Elena became a different person, a person who no longer needed a love that consumed her but a love that made her feel safe and whole. Stefan did that for her. And Damon told her to get everything she wanted. After saying that, Stefan came into the picture, not coincidentally. Stefan will always be the one for Elena... Always.
@Deedee luvs vlogs Yet..if she had fallen in love with Damon, she couldn't be sired to him. I know she had "feelings" for Damon, but it wasn't enough to guard her from the sirebond forming.
@Deedee luvs vlogs I will never get this logic. JP precisely used the sirebond to 'change' Elena's story - "to get her to fall out of love with Stefan" and to "get with Damon." Yes. Elena had "feelings" for Damon. That's how the sirebond formed in the first place. The sirebond is borne from with emotions to control the sired through emotional/mental manipulation. The idea that it ONLY affects "actions" IS BS because with BOTH TYLER AND ELENA - they felt emotionally attached and influenced to their sires. Like "faith." And if she 'loved' Damon, canonically her love should've protected her from the sirebond. Because she was IN LOVE WITH STEFAN NOT DAMON, the sirebond could be made. The witch said she had to have "feelings." If she'd been in love with Damon it would've defeated the purpose of the sirebond. There would be no actual need for it. It's because she was in love with Stefan and NOT Damon, and actually made the choice did it seal her fate.
Fr I can’t with her she switched up so fast and it pissed me off so much stefan sacrificed for her in the end stefan died for Damon and elenas happiness he walked into her life and helped her at desperate times
Arianny M No, because at the time he was still obsessed with Katherine. He also tried compelling Elena to kiss him. So no, he would’ve probably used Elena like he did Caroline. He didn’t care about her at first and even told Stefan he was going to kill her.
matthew mann That still isn’t okay. And Damon did lots of other abusive things to Elena, like sexually harassing her every chance he got even when she was clearly uncomfortable.
Hazel Amarie But first she went to Damon because of the sirebond. And YES i know that the sirebond was broken but if the sirebond would never happend she would be now with Stefan. And i'm so glad Stefan had the good elena and Damon the selfish and stupid elena. And I think elena never unfell for Stefan (5×04 or 03 almost kiss)
_Potter head Elena and Stefan were drifting apart way before Elena being sired to Damon was even revealed. They were going to break up regardless...One because she already had growing feelings for Damon she could no longer push off to the side and two Stefan and Elena were at different points in their lives...Elena was a vampire which is something Stefan could not accept he was fixated on the human version of Elena and went to desperate measures to achieve that which had him keeping secrets from both Damon and Elena while secretly working with Klaus to turn Jeremy into a crazy vampire hunter to complete his mark. The sire bond had nothing to do with Elena's feelings...Her feelings were authentic and were only formed due to her human feelings canon obviously states a vampire only bonds to her sire if she has feelings for him BEFORE she turns HUMAN feelings vampirism only heightens what was already there. Damon never took advantage of the sire bond so Elena coming to him was of her freewill....Damon didn't ask Elena to be with him and the bond was clearly broken when she chose him in 4x23. Damon got the ADULT version of Elena who still loved and protected those she loved but was happy and content with herself...She was no longer the sad and insecure girl easy to manipulate while with Stefan...She GREW up, was happy and secure with who she was if that makes her selfish than so be it lmao
Sorry but you´re talking shit. Stefan was fixated on the Human Elena??? serously? And they broke up (because of the sirebond) because Elena had no ideas what she feel. She broke up with Stefan not because she didn´t love him anymore no! because she wanted to know what she feel
"he came in a time when I needed someone" no girl that ain't love that's another emotion called need Elena never really loved Stefan, she didn't lie or manipulate him, she just thought that she loved him at that time
WTF..you even watch Season One? SHE HAD A GOOD SUPPORT SYSTEM. SHE SAYS. The reason she fell in love with Stefan was because "you know me better than anyone" 🙄😂
@@samhart4205 I watched the whole series but in my opinion stefan wasn't what elena was looking for yes he understood and respected her choices but he was sort of like matt someone who is stable and will be planning for their future .. elena was looking for someone who could live with her in the moment someone passionate and dangerous like Damon.
@@ranahendy6398 Elena was looking for that, yes. But Damon and Elena's idea of 'living in the moment" were different. She realised as a human and even as a vampire. Getting drunk or just having sex wasn't the "passion" she wanted. She wanted to grow and evolve, experience life with her soulmate. Again. Still Stefan. In fact, DE proved Elena regressed as a person with Damon LOL
@@samhart4205 then why did she choose Damon if that wasn't what she wanted? She loved and fixed him. And for stefan she brought him and his brother together he even told that to caroline when elena was in the hospital because of the coma that he has moved on and realised that she didn't come to his life to be his soulmate she brought damon back to him And after all we all have our opinions and theories
This is one of my all time favourite scenes. Don’t get me wrong, I like the things Damon says, but I genuinely can’t stand him. Stefan and Elena are meant to be and the whole time I was watching this I was smiling and crying at the same time
Stelena is a textbook relationship. A ideal one. That nevers happens in reality. Delena is complcated, questionable, confusing, controversial. That's what makes it real, and relatable.
i just realized damon in this exact season promised her 'i promise, i will never leave you again.' passionately. damons word is always true. she knew damon wouldn't leave her unless she asked him to, because his love is selfless enough to handle rejection. she knew stefan would be the one she would actually lose, and that's why she chose him to keep from losing him.
Damon never leaves. His blood in her system in 3x22, his compulsion in her memory in 4x1, and he chooses to stay in town despite her choice. Elena was terrified of losing Stefan's friendship, and Stefan didn't make it easier for her. He actually kissed her after she tried to break up with him. "Just in case there is no later." His comment had nothing to do with risk of death and every bit to do with him knowing they were over. He had to kiss her before she moved on with Damon.
@@DDT-ei7bh ooooohhhh damnnnnn that is such an interesting and believable point. he kisses her like it could be their last kiss, and the idea of it being their last saddens her so much it sort of changes her mind. that's why she didn't want him to kiss her, she knew it would trap her again. that is such a manipulative kiss because in the act of initiating a sexual gesture its assuming that he's hers - i can't imagine kissing a girl in a stage in our relationship where she is literally trying to decide between me and someone else therefore we're not together. damon gives her total space to make her decision herself, as he's expressed he's tired of her allowing the brothers to make the decision of her heart for her. stefan is making the decision for her by kissing her as if they're together. him implying there could be no later increases her fear that if he doesn't choose him she'll never see him again. she's seen damon time and time again show up for stefan and for elena, but not seen stefan stay to show up for damon. she knows stefan would see no reason to stay in town. really, his pride gets in the way of being there for the only people left on the planet that have love for him. pride is the thing that has stefan 'respecting elena's choices' because he fears disapproval so much.
@@nobodysXghost I agree. I do fully believe Stefan knew she was going to break up with him in that moment... at least by the look on his face. I also agree with the rest of what you said. As I tell other fans, this is how Stefan and Caroline continued to confuse her. Both times Caroline found out she kissed Damon, she was pushing Elena to go out with Stefan. While she's sorting out her feelings and trying to make a decision, Stefan should be giving her the same space. I knew he would do this the moment he talked Damon into letting him stay behind with Elena. It was like his last ditch effort to get her back.
Jeremy told Stefan that he and Matt were getting Elena out of town. When she tells him why she was on the bridge in 4x1, he knew she already crossed that bridge on her way out of town, and he never once questions her driving to Damon. Stefan's ego is so big, he doesn't consider Elena wanting to say goodbye to Tyler and Caroline, only wanting to say goodbye to him.
@@DDT-ei7bh oh yeah i guess jeremy and matt were in cahoots with elena in allowing stefan to continue to be oblivious to elena wanting to choose damon. they said 'we're getting elena out of town,' not that matt was driving her to damon. if stefan had considered more what was happening around this time he would have been less surprised about how she is with damon in season 4
@@aviralpandey8547 Lol Noob ... It's the script which made Delena ... Otherwise in Books it was Stelena Endgame .. DAMON ALWAYS HURT HER MADE HER CHOICES . Even the shoemakers agreed
Like I was happy to know that the writers were planning on making stelena endgame but unfortunately it couldn’t happen because Nina left the show after season 6. but at the same time I was not happy because delena was endgame when the show ended. 🥺😭💔 so why whenever I watch the show (again) I stop at this episode because it breaks my heart not seeing Stefan and Elena together.
This is the point when the writers ruined TVD for the Delena viewers, Damon is so selfish and he always wanted Katherine and Elena is the version of her that accepts him and the vampire version is sired to him! I'll always hate Delena 🙄
this scene is heartbreaking and i cried so much when i saw it, he’s always loved her and he pushed his feelings away most of the time. idk damon makes her feel excited truly cares about her.
3x22 was the episode for Elena to figure her shit out, that was the entire point, it wasn’t so she could hide how she felt anymore, it was to confront it and what she confronted was that nothing could eclipse for Stefan:
People need to understand that Elena meant "get to know him first" instead of having one creepy conversation, which she only survived because Damon was too depressed to kill her (and besides, she said MAYBE). And even in their first meeting, Damon proved that he as absolutely zero respect for her free will or for Elena as a person, since he compelled her -the first of many times. Even if she had remembered the weirdo who told her weird crap, she still would have fallen in love with Stefan first. Stefan will always be her epic love.
You are totally right about that. And Damon did go after Elena cause she looked like Katherine as that's what he called her when saw her first. Ayways it doesn't matter anymore. Elena's turned a bitch. I don't like her anymore. Stefan deserves someone better
***** Don't be ridiculous. Damon wasn't there for her, Elena was SIRED to him, which made Stefan unable to help her. "I'm becoming someone I don't want to be." "I'm feeling things I don't want to feel." "You told me to kill him so I did." Does that sound like Damon "was there for her"? And she "evolved into something bigger": She literally wrote to herself "reinvent yourself in the absence of the one WHO DEFINED YOU". That's not romantic, that's fucking creepy. She didn't become a bigger person, she became an empty shell who did whatever Damon told her to do. Even her friends turned their backs on her. "The old Elena would never have..." Damon made a JOKE about KILLING HER BROTHER and when Jeremy snapped back, Elena gave JEREMY hell. You think that's normal? You think that's part of becoming a bigger person? Please. Damon and Elena had the most disgusting and abusive and vomit-inducing relationship I have ever seen.
***** I think from bigger you mean she became a total bitch to Stefan. And if you are forgetting, in season 5 Elena had almost kissed Stefan only to be interrupted by Damon. And the way Elena and Damon pushed Katherine to Silas to feed him her blood. Where's all her humanity gone? And how she killed Kol who was warning them against Silas? I mean seriously Kol is a 1000 year old original vampire. Do you think a man with such an experience would be wrong about something that is so serious? And how she wanted to go with Damon when they were planning to save Stefan! Didn't she realize what a burden she was being at that time? I mean an extra soul had to pass through Bonnie causing her immense pain... The list of Elena's dumbness is just unending.
Lisa Emmanuel Yeah, Bamon is a cool change from pairing up Elena with Damon or Stefan all the time...plus we got some Steroline moments...just imagine the irony if Stefan chooses Caroline and Damon chooses Bonnie:P But because of her stupidity Kol died...and he was one of my favorite characters. Though he is back on the originals in Kaleb's body, I do miss the real Kol...
I ship Stefan and Elena but it's obvious that she's going to choose Damon. I hate it. What he has done to her was completely unforgivable in my opinion and I (and i'm sure any person who really loved their sibling would agree) Remember when he tried to kill Elena's brother? The LAST close living family member she had. ;_;
Sometimes the second person is there to show you everything you'd be giving up. Elena realized that she loved Damon, but ultimately couldn't live without Stefan. Forever Stelena shipping.
Bruh why are you here and when Stefan died she was okay when Damon died she even said she couldn't live without him even other people said it you make no sense 🤦🏾♀️
Delena is often written in fate. When Rebekah forces Elena off the bridge, she's actually working on Damon's behalf. It's the combining of two triangles. The love triangle of Stefan, Elena, and Damon. And the death triangle of Rebekah, Alaric, and Damon. A choice between Stefan and Damon for Elena, a choice between Damon and Rebekah for Alaric. Home is where the heart is, and Elena's heart is with Damon. Because she doesn't continue driving to him, Rebekah forces her off the bridge. She's technically home as she drowns. Stefan saves Matt, Damon's blood saves his girlfriend. To see the whole, 3x22 has to be combined with 3x11 because 3x11 is her metaphoric death and 3x22 is her actual death. Because Stefan abducted Elena and threatened her on the bridge in 3x11, fate has her turning back in 3x22 because she's actually on her way back to Damon. He's just not in town yet. Her drowning in 3x22 is written opposite Stefan's abduction in 3x11. It's Damon's way of taking his girlfriend back. 4x6 shows this combination as they stand on the bridge together. Her heart was with Damon in 3x11, and it was with Damon in 3x22. When Stefan force-fed Elena his blood and threatened to turn her, he was actually doing that to Damon's girlfriend. Damon is the only one who could get Elena to become something she never wanted to be. Had it not been for him, she would've died rather than completed her transition. She'd never become a vampire for Stefan because even though she loves him, she's not in love with him.
Yes, they are often written as fate…because that’s an easy way to retcon a couple as endgame and undo what came before. Julie Plec has said that she tried to turn the fans against Delena for the first 2 seasons and gave up after that, hence the “fate” stuff in season 3. That said, the notion that Elena was somehow not in love with Stefan and that her heart was with Damon here is ludicrous.
That's not always true though.I mean sometimes when you fall for someone else it's not because you don't love the first person but because you need explore your options to make sure you do love them.
Honestly I would have gone to Damon because if they were really dying Damon would all be alone. Stefan would have been with everyone else and Elena would have gone to be with Damon because no one deserves to die alone.
wow can i just defend damon here and say that when damon met elena he still was in love with katherine, he thought that she was still in the tomb. so yeah he did only approach her bc he thought that she was katherine but who wouldn’t have if you thought you saw someone who you’ve been in love with for about 150 years and basically changed the whole course of your life for? after he found out that she wasn’t in the tomb and didn’t care to see/find him for that long of a time period, that’s when he stopped loving her. but he developed a “friendship” with elena and saw her actually care for him and yeah it probably did help that they look the same, but she did something that no one else did and what damon has been looking for and that was care about him. damon knows that elena is not katherine in any way, she’s not just some replica of katherine to him that does care
Even if Elena met Damon first and he didn't remove that memory, everything would be the same...Damon was there for Katherine and Stefan would've saved Elena, they'd have fallen in love. No difference at all! Elena said, maybe if you and I had met first to lighten the hurt a little bit. It's just a fanservice moment in my opinion.
How cruel were they to Damon here.. he’s done so much and they were just gonna let him die all alone. The others were together but he would died all alone... I would have chosen him in a heartbeat.
"It's always gonna be Stefan." I think there's more to that then Damon thinking Elena will always want Stefan. All his life, Stefan has gotten in his way and everyone always chooses him. Stefan made him the vampire he is. Katherine loved Stefan more than him. Stefan saved Elena and she fell in love with him when Damon probably saw Elena as a better version of Katherine. Someone he loved that would never stab him in the back. Elena is everything Damon can't get. And Stefan is the one who gets her
It's the opposite? Stefan meets Katherine first, take an interest in her, falled in love with her and Damon gets in the picture. The same with Stefan and Elenas relationship. Damon always ruins Stefans happines.
+Lauren Karvaski not to be mean or anything but sure your right stefan gets alot of things ,but at the same time the things that he get's , at the same time someone always takes it away from him.
dela linda Stefan fell in love with her first maybe but he was not actively trying to pursue her until Damon did it Stefan even said he knew how Damon felt about her but did not care that he wanted Katherine and was pursuing her to begin with with Elena it is Stefan who pursues her romantically first so the whole going after the same girl thing started with Stefan he even admitted to his brother that all the bad blood between them started because of himself
Stefan never made Damon into the vampire that he is. Where did you get that. Stefan wanted Damon to drink human blood so they could be together forever brothers FOREVER. Damon got mad lol. Also same with Katherine, she loved Stefan more and used Damon the reason why Damon came back to mystic falls was because of the comet and the Bonnie's necklace. He needed those things to bring back Katherine as he stated in season 1. All he ever wanted since becoming a vampire was Katherine Katherine Katherine and also he wanted to get Katherine out and kill everyone in the town for revenge because of what they did to the vampires in 1964.
You know what. In the end every time Elena chooses Stefan I choose to believe this is an episode story and she didn’t have enough diamonds to choose Damon. And I live by that.
@@Jesussavesall1 Why don't you do that instead like I've been telling people I'm not even interested in watching the ending here because it should have ended with the original here! And also Damon is not even cute at all here so I don't get what is the big deal with him anyways I rather have cute than not cute here!
it's been like 5 years since this happened and i was team stelena since day one, and she picked stefan i was jumping up and down singing and dancing because all my otps NEVER worked (except for naley) and the fucking writers had to go make elena meet damon first in a flashback, but she was compelled to forget and i was like 😑 are fucking kidding me?? and then she fucking turned into a goddamn vampire so then i was like "oh fuck she's gonna remember meeting damon first" WTF. AND NOW STEFAN IS DEAD LOVE IT GR8 JOB JULIE AND KEVIN!!! also i was low key shipping steroline season 2, but then i was like no no stelena, and then steroline acc happened and i was not feeling their relationship so basically TVD went to shit after season 3 THE END BYE HELLO BROTHER
"I love him, Damon." "Maybe if you and I had met first." "Yeah, maybe.." "Damon was not selfless" my ass! This is the reason why he didn't tell her. He was respecting her choice in choosing to be with Stefan. (Even though we all know her heart was not fully in it anymore.) Damon accepted her choice because, at the end of the day, all he wanted was for her to be alive and happy. Sure, a part of him didn't want to tell her because he didn't think it would change her decision, but I think it was more out of selflessness because he believed that her mind was made up and he wasn't gonna keep trying to win her heart. It's just like when he compelled her to forget he said he loved her. Cause even then, he knew she loved Stefan and he wasn't gonna put her under that kind of emotional stress when they all already had enough going on. Damon could've told her the truth sooner, but then again, she ended up with Stefan pretty quick, so why would he tell her? Idc..to me this shows that Damon deeply regretted compelling her to forget ever meeting him. 💔
that is a selfless move to don't force your love!don't say nonsense!she even admit it!when Damon gave her the neacklace which Stefan gived,was the most selfless thing!because knowing how much it hurts he still wanted to make her happy!
I stopped watching at season 3 and started seires again cause I can't stand the sight of Damon and elena together I much more think that stefan and elena look much better 😭ugh it hurts my heart
Delena is much more pure and exciting than Stelena.... Stelena was boring... And I knew from the first episode that they would be endgame bcuz they had more than love between them.... Gosh how can u seriously ship stelena after delena
As for the “Maybe if I met you first” I’m legit tired of people on both sides bringing up how Elena met Damon first when that literally had nothing to do with Elena and everything to do with Damon. Receipt: “It was just that slight little thing that she said to him, when she was just trying to take the sting off: “Hey, maybe if you and I had met first.” She was just trying to soften the blow” (source)and the fact that she had met Damon first served only one narrative purpose, which was to keep Damon fighting: “But in reality, he had this memory that gave him the will to fight back. I love that moment, where Ric’s about to drive the stake into him, and he’s like “You know what? I’m not ready to die today.” And the significance ends there. Why does it end there? Because nothing would’ve changed if Elena remembered meeting Damon except that she’d be like “Oh Stefan, I know your brother, I met him on Wickery Bridge.” And why would nothing have changed if Elena remembered? Because Damon was still there for Katherine. Elena still got driven off the road with her parents in the car and Stefan still saved her. Stefan still met her the first day of school. Like honestly, what does the fact that Elena physically met Damon first really mean?
stefan is EVERYONE'S first choice, For Ex, Katherine she only truly loved Stefan she even said it herself, Damon spent 145 ish years trying to free her to learn that she couldn't give a rats ass about him. And your worried about Stefan?Damon seeing Stefan with Elena everyday hurted him too. Stefan isn't the only one who was hurt.
@@yuhhmade1632 damon chooses to be obsessed with Kath what kind of grown ass man would think that the lady who is sleeping with his younger brother is in love with him?! Like wtf...I feel no sympathy for Damon bcz he not only choose Kath and Elena over his own brother but also ruined his own brother's life. He deserves nothing but hate.
Elena chose Damon. Anyone who paid mind to the flashbacks and their purpose would know this. That's why they don't actually show Elena breaking up with Matt. She's gonna break up with Stefan after her death, just like she broke up with Matt after her parents' death. Stefan then parallels Matt in the first season. That's why she told Damon she couldn't think about always. Damon is her always. That girl put Stefan in the friend zone with Tyler and Caroline. Matt knew all along, that's why he had no problem drugging her and driving her out of town. And when she took off to be with Damon in 4x7, Matt knew. With Stefan, it was about his love for Elena. With Damon, it was about Elena's love for him. You can see it in their conversations. You get the actual truth when Rebekah compels it from her.
Now it makes sense why Damon never hurt Elena in the first season. It's because of her similar looks to Katherine, he never wanted to hurt her and he actually looked after her she just never knew about it.
Puertorican 100% actually it is.Elena and Damon have completely different personalities and their chemistry is Pitch red Just like in Fifa ultimate team.
This would be so romantic if you just forget that right after meeting Elena, Damon went on a killing rampage at Mystics Falls and didn't feel bad about any single one of them.
I don't know why people keep hating damon and looking at the bad things he's done, yeah he did bad shit but unlike everyone else he got shit done. Keep in mind: IT'S THE BAD GUYS THAT GET SHIT DONE.
@Grosvenor the whole point is how evil he was in s1 but how he changed so much till s6 if you compare like because she brought a better side of him,, he was broken becuase of katherine where he did all the bad things in s1
I knew the moment I saw 3x22 that Damon and Elena would end up together in season 4, I just didn't know which episode. The moment I saw Damon save her on the bridge in 4x6, I knew Stefan and Elena were over. They ran it full circle on the bridge, then had Damon put her daylight ring back on her finger. "Forever" was his.
Sad for Matt to sit there and listen to Elena lie to Damon. He knows what she's doing to Stefan because it's the same thing she did to him when her parents died. She chose Stefan sooner and Damon later because Stefan is right now and Damon is always. I find it best to look at the actual writing because Stefan and Elena are both written in deep denial. When you have Stefan choosing to deny Elena is in love with Damon, and Elena choosing to deny she's in love with Damon, what you're gonna get in the first episodes of S4, is a woman trying to continue a relationship with her best friend because she put Stefan in the friend zone. You might as well be watching Elena try to continue a relationship with Matt for all that it matters. When she's ready to face her truth, she'll be with Damon. And she will defend her relationship with Damon just as she defends every other choice she makes. Becuase he's her true choice.
I was so happy when she chose Stefan, but letter on in season 4 when she became a vampire and broke up with Stefan I was like: "wtf" I mean I'm team Stelena from beginning and I love them so much, but Elena was with Damon only because of sire-bond, she always did everything what Damon said to do, their relationship is toxic and their love is not real. When Elena became human again in the end of season 6 she told Stefan: "I love you so much." "You knew me better than anyone. " one more prof that Stelena is real love. Elena, when she is human, always chose Stefan and we all know that and Stefan always wanted human life with her. Damon hid the cure from Elena because he knew that she has never wanted to be with him when she is human. So Stelena is real endgame and their love is so pure, epic and romantic 💚💚💚 #StelenaForever
Ingrid Abramović Sire bond was only formed because she had feelings for Damon....She still had feelings for him during this scene that doesn't just magically disappear....After the bond was broken she still chose and loved Damon. Which proves their love was very much REAL. Stefan and Elena's "love" was due to a spell cast by an ancient Markos who spent centuries putting the Doppelgangers together there is nothing epic about that. You can be upset about your OTP not lasting but don't try and rewrite what's canon on the show.
I honestly don’t know how to feel, I need Damon to be happy and with Elena but Stephan needs to be happy as well but he falls for elena, doesn’t get her, looses his mind, gets better, falls for Caroline then dies so I don’t know who I feel bad for
Becoming a vampire only heightens who you really are. It doesn't change your personality, your feelings towards something..or someone. Almost all of Elena's friends thought becoming a vampire was changing her for the worst. But it really didn't. It just, in a more amplified way, revealed everything she was or felt as a human (even if she didn't realize it.) How she never wanted to be a vampire, how she had a darkness in her that she never believed existed in her, and (once a vampire) was afraid of it. And...how she was in love with Damon. And how, deep down, she wanted to choose him but didn't because she was able to convince herself that she was still in love with Stefan. Damon and Stefan were told that the sire bond was set in place between vampires *only* if the new vampire had human feelings for the sire before she turned. And it was vampirism that heightened those emotions. The bond itself did nothing to them. The bond clearly ended up turning into more of a physical affect for her; her actions. Just like it did to Tyler towards Klaus. (Her only being able to feed from the vein, killing the hunter, sleeping with Damon after her break up with Stefan, wanting to spend every minute with Damon, seeing him happy etc.) So technically, yes, the sire bond is what made Delena happen quicker, but it wasn't the only reason why Elena fell for him. As a human, Elena was never gonna accept or truly admit (to herself) how she felt about Damon. But as a vampire, with heightened emotions, she wasn't gonna be able to repress them anymore. That's where the sb came in. It was Elena's nudge to finally admitting her true feelings. As well as trying to prove it to Damon. (See, actions.) Tyler only got sired to Klaus cause his "human feeling" was gratitude. Since he didn't have to turn anymore on a full moon and suffer that pain. But the bond didn't affect how Tyler felt about Klaus as a person. He still hated him, even though he did what Klaus told him to do. And even if he didn't want to. But in Elena's case, she had to have been in love with Damon. *If she was more in love with Stefan* like she claimed, then despite being sired to Damon, she would've still been with Stefan. Plain and simple. Yet she was only still with Stefan when she was still half human. So if she really was more in love with Stefan, then her love for *him* should've been magnified. More than anything she felt for Damon was. More magnified that it didn't lead to them breaking up. Yet, her love for Stefan wasn't stronger. Her love for Damon was. And Elena said to Caroline and Stefan that it had been ever since she turned. When you're in love with someone, your love for that person is much deeper and stronger than your love is towards someone that you only care for as a friend. So to me, that was saying something. That's the main reason why Stefan and Elena broke up. Because Elena realized that her feelings for Damon were becoming more intense. And she could no longer resist them. But, to a point, it also was because once Stefan was told about a possible cure, he not only kept it from Elena, but he became hellbent on finding it. And soon, fixing her became more important to him than it did to her. Because Jeremy was becoming a bigger threat and Elena didn't want the cure if it meant Jeremy turned into an evil person. So, I personally think that if she truly was still in love with Stefan and never was with Damon, then..despite a sire bond, she would've still seen Damon the same way, both during transition and once fully a vampire: He was someone she loved and cared for, but just as a friend. And I know what some people must think, the sire bond was just an illusion for Elena or based on fake feelings. Well, if that was true, then she would've went back to Stefan in the S4 finale. She would've seen it for herself what everyone else thought: that it wasn't real. Yet, in her heart, Elena believed and trusted it was. And it really was. So she ended up choosing Damon in the end. In death, Damon made her feel most alive because he never treated her like vampirism would ruin her. Change her, yes, but not to where she'd completely lose herself and "die". Maybe he felt that way about her being with him, but not about her being a vampire alone. He believed that she could handle the downsides as well as the perks. But above all, he loved her no matter what. Human or vampire. Good sides and bad. And he helped her embrace and accept her new reality instead of making her feel like she would be eternally miserable. And maybe Elena was never gonna be ok with immortality, but that's why Damon made her feel alive and happy. Cause she was allowed to be whoever/whatever she wanted to be without being judged. Caroline wanted to understand how Elena could have feelings for Damon that made her break up with Stefan. Yet, she said it herself: vampirism only amplifies everything you were as a human. Elena went through changes once a vampire, but she didn't become a completely different person. And that's the way everyone else was treating her. Anyways, that's what I think: Elena was in love with Damon before she died. It just never hit her or came to the surface because Elena was able to repress them when human. Maybe even subconsciously. She obviously (consciously) knew she loved him, but after all that time spent with him in S3, I think it turned into something more for her and again, she just was just unknowingly denying it. She also already (consciously) knew how impulsive and reckless he was, so I think that's the initial reason why she chose Stefan. It had nothing to do with not loving him anymore. Imo, it had more to do with who made more sense for her to choose. And Stefan definitely made more sense; he was the safe choice. (But look, this is just merely my personal opinion, so if you disagree, please kindly respect my pov. Please and thank you. ✌)
she chose damon in the end. as johnny depp said, “if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.” it wasn’t true love. nor was it way more. yes she may have fallen for him first but she also fell for damon too, so re read that quote. just saying .
"I can't think about always. All I can think about is right now." (because it may not be always?) Keeping him dangling again, are we? You knew what you wanted Elena. You have always known. You knew it even before you met him. You knew, that's why you got into that fight with Matt, and that's how you met him. You were just too scared to admit it. You had to die to get over that fear. How lucky you are Elena, to be getting another shot! But irl, we don't get resurrected. TVD taught me that the heart wants what it wants. Follow it, because this is the real world, and life will not offer any second chances.
The idea of choosing Stefan because she felt obligated to him is ridiculous to me because what is obligation in the face of true love? If Damon was the one she really loved, whether or not it scared her, when he was on the phone with her and makes a deathbed wish:
@@pixiedust3000 You have to rewatch 3x21 to understand 3x22. She's in love with Damon. That's why she chooses Damon when it's just Stefan and Damon. Tyler and Caroline affected her choice in 3x22. That's why Kai says he's probably missing a detail or two. Because he's missing Tyler and Caroline. He would've pointed this out to Damon had he known. Damon was her choice, and she lied to him. She then lied to Stefan in 4x1 by leaving out Tyler and Caroline. She didn't choose Stefan on the bridge, she chose the three of them. There's a difference.
"If you love two people at the same time choose the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldnt have fallen for the second. - Johnny Depp" Johnny said everything.
Honestly I think that if she loved Damon she wouldn't expect him to change, where as with Stefan she knows exactly who he is, what he has done and yet she still loves him :) but now it's come to point where I actually don't mind who she picks ...
omg exactly! & Stephan is the celeb you glamorise & put on this saintly pedestal.... until that rose-eyed perception fissures & fractures & shatters, & you finally go through those growing pains of transitioning from one version of yourself to another, & seeing things for what they truly are ✨
@@Jesussavesall1 I "hope" you can take your advice someday. Because there are people that think Delena are a trash can and always will. Oop. Truth bomb. Hope you can get on with your life.
@@samhart4205 people also think stelena is trash reason why they weren't endgame and didn't win any rewards as of delena tho chemistry awards was all them good day
At this point Wondered to myself what is she thinking, until I realised delena will always break even. Stelena was always so sloppy and down to earth and I liked that but delena is bomb
That is literally the point of 3x22. That is her truth. If it was about obligation then why would she feel obligated to Stefan and not to Damon who was alone in a remote location and would potentially die that way? Would obligation sincerely make her lie to a man who’s “dying wish” is to hear the truth about whether or not she would choose him or his brother and say his brother when it was really him? Because they give Elena an out. She says, “Matt’s taking me home.” “To Stefan.” “Not just Stefan …” but Damon presses her, “If it was just down to him or me and you had to choose who would get the goodbye, who would it be?” And she can’t lie, it would be Stefan because she loves him. The fact that she calls out to Stefan and says “never mind” and then he kisses her, I mean if a kiss is all it took to make Elena change her mind from Damon to Stefan then Damon wasn’t a real choice, I frankly find that argument against SE more ridiculous than flimsy.
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How awkward must it be for Matt to just sit there and listen to that conversation? :D
Hahah
Friend zoned!
She is also her ex
@@janeb533do you mean his
@@twinsadakz1346yeah
I don’t get why Elena goes “maybe if you and I had met first” it’s like she’s choosing the brothers not based on how much she loves them but based on chance and coincidence that they literally can’t control.
I think that she's just trying to justify to herself and to Damon, that it 'could've been IF' meaning it's an excuse not to face facts that she actually did use Damon whilst broken up with Stefan, to distract herself and make herself feel better.
He did not need her pity or anyone's for that matter.
Julie plec said she only said that to take the sting off because she felt bad for hurting him
@@Anya.2299 yes she did she always does and stefan always make damon look good.
Elena was toxic .. and a plague in Salvatore brothers life.
She was selfish and always in confusion.. no one does that.
I don't know what Damon was thinking when he asked her who would get her goodbye. Sure, in season 3 their bond grew pretty strong but Elena and Stefan dated. They takes risks for each other. She obviously still loved Stefan. Why would Damon do that to himself? Elena said it herself, she never really unfell for him.
Aquarius Is my sign
There's such thing as hope, you know. He probably already knew it was a long shot, but he still had hope that maybe, just maybe she might choose him
cas In the end she did choose him.
men like that exist ... believe me ahahahahah... I guess it's a self talk/thought in order to convince themselves that they will not get the girl... so they need to hear that to go away.....
ahahahahahah if Damon had a sign it would be aquarius x))))))
Unexisted Profile She chose him as a human too in season 6 moron.
“maybe if you and I had met first”
lmfao you did
And he compelled her
But i always think about damon's one track mind in s1, it was all katherine katherine katherine! So if their meeting hold ANY CREDITS, that would totally dismantle the purpose of s1.
I feel so bad for damon in this scene. I mean I know what happens in the end which I love. But this scene when damon says 'it's always gonna be stefan.' I feel so bad for him cause first it was 100 yrs of waiting and loving katherine just for her to choose stefan every time. And then it was elena , and for so long she always chose stefan. That's got to hurt.
Yess I mean whateveer he went through season 3 i felt really bad....she made out with him...n all it just pissed me off...but DELENAFOREVER❤️🔥
@@riturajput7573 No way. I'm not even going to watch the ending because it's not the original couple here! And besides Damon is not even cute at all here!
True but if you think of it he did it to himself. Damon put himself between stefan and elena since day 1 just to bother his brother. Why couldn't he find someone else to go after? That was weird af
@@Swiftie3forever exactly. As much as I feel bad for him, i gotta admit that he had it coming.
@@Swiftie3forever as damon said, he was there to make stefan suffer. That's exactly what he was doing by stealing his gf
I don't understand why everyone wants to focus on the negative things Damon has done, and forget everything else every single bad thing other characters on this show had done. Damon just doesn't hide his bad parts that often. Because a person is not what they claim to be, they are who they hide, if that makes any sense.
Leah Baptiste I agree
Leah Baptiste... I understand what your saying. But I think Stefan and Elena should be together.
G D what are u talking about? Ur gross
Because every shitty and disgusting thing Damon did was his own choice of his own free will. None of the rest of the main characters did anything that wasn't understandable or reasonable for example, Stefan killed his own father when he was in transition for the first time understandable and he apparently was abusive so it makes it less horrible for some people and he was a ripper something he couldn't really control because the bloodlust was that hard for him and his emotions were turned off I could go on forever about things Damon did just to be a dick. Snapping Jeremy's kneck because Elena didn't return his feelings for example what the hell? How is that excusable? None of the characters are entirely blameless or have clean hands they've all killed but Damon can't be compared to them at all and the worst part is how he tried to blame Katherine for everything he did like turning Vicky. If Elena had dropped him and choose Stefan the way Katherine had I'm sure he'd blame Elena for everything he ever did after meeting her too. That's why people focus on the "negative things" Damon has done sweetie. Fuck Damon.
@@AyelMathias didn't Stefan kill an entire village full of innocent men women and children, doesn't matter ripper or not that's evil
they forced that flashback for delena shippers because he was acting all nice here like he wants to get to know her but in the first season he was a antagonist to elena i mean he used her as a bargaining chip and wished she died
Karan Patel it was probably the shock of seeing her, she looked like the woman he loved, the one he was back in town to find. Once he got over the fact they aren’t the same person, he adjusted and treated her like everyone else. Even Stefan admitted to watching her, following her around etc to make sure she wasn’t Katherine before officially meeting her.
he didn't wished she died he pretend to wish her dying
CharlieFen He was obsessed with Katherine and Damon had little patience for niceties in s1. 🙄
Karan Patel He said that only to piss off Stefan. In the same episode or next episode he was already moving his ass to save Elena
@@mahakpunjabi4814 Maybe he was undermining his brother to give him "misery"?
This scene showcases the serious difference between human Elena and vampire elena. Yes she was returning to stefan but she was also placing her friendships before Damon. I used to ship Delena especially in season 3 when Stefan was absent but as the show went on, Delena became toxic and it ruined both Damon and Elena's characters.
I agree with everything you said. When Elena was human, she made Damon accountable and he was a better person for it. Once she was a vampire, they brought out the worst in each other, and it was fight, breakup, makeup sex, on repeat. They knew they were toxic together and even admitted it.
Karen Anderson They only had break up sex once that does not equate to their entire relationship....And it's funny ya'll keep trying it with the toxic BS when Stefan and Elena were not healthy their damn selves.
They NEVER discussed their underlying issues...When Stefan traumatized Elena by force feeding her his blood/driving her off Wickery bridge all we got out of it was Stefan saying "I shouldn't have done that" NO real apology even worse the writers had Elena saying Stefan was the "perfect" boyfriend who "never" scared her when there has been many instances that have showcased otherwise.
Stefan was fixated on fixing her as soon as he found out she had feelings for Damon which goes against the whole Stefan "respects" Elena's choices BS, created this false image of being a human 17 yr old boy when he met Elena in the hallway and was not going to tell her he was a century old vamp who compelled his way into a high school to organize some faux meeting after months spent on stalking Elena and her family's back story.
At least Elena knew and fell in love with the REAL Damon....She didn't have to lie to herself to make HIM feel better as she so often did with Stefan..She told him how she really felt and they addressed their respective issues....Elena and Damon knew the good and bad sides of each other, there was no pretending it was real and that is what Elena wanted.
How can they possibly be the worse versions of themselves together when Elena makes Damon better and Damon makes Elena happy? The girl is happily married and successful in the medical field with children of her own now...I doubt her supposed future with Stefan would result in anything close to that.
Hazel Amarie chill dude.......u r one of a crazy delena fan!!!! Explaining so much......ah! U can totally work as a relationship therapist!!!! Lol
Hazel Amarie MAGNIFICENT! THANK YOU🙏👏👌 so well said & explained!
Angelique McConell that's what made the show good, the fact that their love was toxic. Plus that's how most TV show love stories are, it's not always going to be a smooth ride, sometime there will be bumps on the way.
Team Stelena since day ONE!
I don't like the fact that she went to Damon afterwards.. like wtf?
She's dead now anyway
Actually she's sleeping. Idk but she might or might now wake up in season 8
Azalia_theadventurer atleast books end with stelena
Azalia_theadventurer Delena FOREVER 💓
gulmina haider Books ended with Delena as well as LJ Smith confirms...The story is about Elena falling in love with Damon.
Lol I knew they would make that Damon met Elena first to create this some sort of "deeper" connection between Damon and Elena and I can't express in words how much I found that ridiculous. It's like they wanted Elena with Damon and pushed it in no matter how long it took for them to actually be together in season 4. Just, I loved watching Elena and Damon but then it got so twisted and I just couldn't enjoy anything about the show anymore except watching Katherine and the Originals. Damn I miss Seasons 1 - 3 of TVD.
Omg finally someone voiced it. I cringed so hard at that flashback scene. Honestly the dynamic between Damon and Elena would've been more satisfying had they kept the flashback out. It didn't even feel remotely authentic.
Katherine was just the best...idk y stefan weren't that into her🙄🙄❤
Yes! The writers wanted Damon and Elena to be endgame so bad that they Spun the most ridiculous storyline to make it happen.
Fuck off ... It's one of the best scenes and Delena is the reason S1 to S3 interesting ..Stelena is fucking boring and there's no fucking chemistry whatsoever
@@swaroopboyina4236 okay, calm down.
What does meeting first has to do with Anything? First or not , fall in love is Everything.
And that my friends is the way it should've stayed.
Hamna Naeem No....Delena is where it's at....Stefan and Elena drifted apart...Even Elena knew it which is why she couldn't think about always with him anymore.
100% agree with you there. S3 was pretty much that last decent season for me.
Hamna Naeem no
Hamna Naeem Yes you're right. The last decent season.
Hazel Amarie I could never ship them because of the things Damon has done (including harming her loved ones).
Season 2 episode 1 Elena: "I love Stefan. It's always gonna be Stefan"
I like it how she always said it’s Stefan it always has been Stefan it always will be Stefan then she gets with Damon
When I saw Damon’s face I cried so hard. This was a hard episode for Delena.
I can't believe that after something like this she ended up with Damon... God I hate this show post-Season 4.
FlowerTrollSan ikr... Stelena forever
stay pressed
Sierra Richardson NO
I ship both Delena and Stelena, but these two scenes made me cry because I love how Elena cares for Damon and he still waits for her and she's honest with him BUT I also love how she also goes to Stefan. I hope some of you can relate. :)
it's good to fan of the both relationships
I like season 1 of Stelena best, season 2 is good, season 3 terrible, season 4 is complete horse shit, season 5 is Oh my fucking god Stefan move on already, and EVENTUALLY he did, falling in love with Caroline, Now, every season is good for Steroline. My reasons for this is because in season 3, when she chose Stefan it was crap, she didn’t love Stefan anymore, sure she cared about him but was in love with Damon.
When she kissed Damon on the doorway or when they made out at the motel, was just pure proof, she wasn’t doing any of the stuff with Stefan until the final episode of season 3! She was over Stefan when she started to fall for Damon, she was just deluded to the fact that she shouldn’t be with Damon by Caroline and the rest of her friends, just watch some scenes like “its Stefan’s turn” after she made out with his brother, she should of listened to herself, she shouldn’t of went to the party with Stefan, not even with Damon, not until she had accepted that Damon was who she wanted. It wasn’t between which one to pick, it was who I should be with, and who I want to be with. This was why she chose Stefan, but when she became a vampire, those already strong feelings became much stronger, making them impossible to resist, can’t blame her. She should of been more honest about it, if she had, she may not of had to chose on the bridge, and she wouldn’t of become a vampire, but who are we kidding, practically all of her friends are supernatural, part from busboy but still, that increases the risk of becoming just that, supernatural by a incredibly significant amount. But even if it still played out that way she should of chose Damon on that bridge. If it had been Stefan’s blood in her system, not Damons, she wouldn’t of been sired to Stefan. And when Stefan and Caroline kept telling her that her feelings weren’t real, and that in the final episode he said he would go back to her in a heartbeat, even though he already said to Damon that it was over, when they danced while Elena’s humanity was of and was trying to seduce her?! It so fucking pissed me off, I mean seriously Stefan, LET GO. Anyways, I had to get that outa my system. I hated Stefan this season, I mean seriously seriously hated him and Caroline, Bonnie was more open to it so that’s fine and Caroline season 5 was pretty bad to. As I said, she still cared about Stefan but did not truly love him back.Yes, the sire bond did help her discover the truth, but even if it didn’t happen, she would of still ended with Damon, Delena Has been GREAT all seasons, so has steroline. But yeah, this is my opinion, very long I know. Have a great day!
@@chloewhitlock-claire4720 great u cleared everything
@@nayantyagi6166 yeah, thanks, I have a thing for going overtop while explaining so I had to go into depth about it, but you agree right, I mean after 2 seasons he should of moved on by then, seriously she no interested in you and she already said she didn’t love him anymore, and you really think she’d make out with you and get a hotel, let go! Okay ima stop now before I go to far. Lol
@@chloewhitlock-claire4720 absolutely.... 100%right.... Carolyn telling her that stefan is ur epic love... and just before she died what did saint stefan do.. when elena said we should discuss this and then said later, he understood right away what she decided.. and then kissed her and saying if there is no later...what the fuck is this... is he suppose to do her where damon is with klaus in car...... damon felt guilty of kissing her so he turn bonnie mom to vampire even though he knows elena will hate him for this it was stefan who is suppose to do this he and Carolyn create a kind of delusion for her.... stefan try to manipulate her.." i will always be with you when alaric dies and told her i hate myself for biting her
. Where damon didn't take any move he is just the way he is.. after motel scene if he would have just kissed her again and told her i will try not lash out of any bumper in the road... instead he chooses right thing to do and faught her ....
Am I the only one who kinda wished that Damon died and elena realized how much she hurt him
yessss that’s what I was thinking I’m like I hope Damon dies so elena can see what she missed out on
Yess
He did die and she decided to erase her memories of him
@Yuliana Vargas Fr fr ❤️
So glad she picked Stefan. I had no doubt, but so happy its official.
Hahahahah haha
@@noneishere3269 😀😀😂😂
@@riturajput7573 😂😂😂
HAHAHAHAA now this seems to be so funny
@@kate020 hahhahahah
Best thing about this flashback, it meant nothing in the big scheme of things. Elena did go on to meet Damon again, and she met Stefan, and it was Stefan who she fell in love with. Not Damon. Also this flashback shows Damon's obsession with Katherine, and the only reason Damon even approached Elena was that he believed she was Katherine. He then compelled her to forget meeting him because he believed it could interfere with getting what he wanted. Katherine. Damon has only ever wanted Elena when Katherine wasn't an option anymore. Stefan fell for Elena only after he knew she wasn't Katherine, and that she was this whole other person. That's real love. Damon's love for Elena is based on very self centered feelings. She fills a need for him. She's the Katherine who accepts him.
salemdecember Now I don't believe that. Why would Stefan go to school and say that "had to know her" if he didn't care about her looking like Katherine? The truth is yes, Damon spent a while obsessed with Katherine, but then he realized that there was this whole other person who was caring and selfless that started caring for him as a friend and then fell in love with him. Then he couldn't ignore that. I don't believe Stefan forgot Katherine just like that, I believe there are similar things to both stories and that they fell for her (Elena) in different parts of the story.
Exactly..
salemdecember That is because Damon did not meet her at the time she felt like her world was down and Damon was still in love crazily I might add with Katherine
salemdecember same thing applies too Stefan LOOOL
Not really because there were times in the episode when even if Katherine was an option he still hated her and cared more for Elena.
What delena shippers can't seem to understand is the fact that Elena said "she wanted a love that consumes her" at that particular moment in time. After the accident, Elena became a different person, a person who no longer needed a love that consumed her but a love that made her feel safe and whole. Stefan did that for her. And Damon told her to get everything she wanted. After saying that, Stefan came into the picture, not coincidentally. Stefan will always be the one for Elena... Always.
Basically Human-Elena chose Stefan so when she died...Stelena was endgame :))
Cameron Ashley Elena turned human again in 6x20 and chose Damon....So as vampire and human she chose Damon twice....Delena is endgame ;)
@@HazelAmarie That's because Stefan wasn't persuing her, genius 🙄😂
Deedee luvs vlogs Julie plec (the producer for this show) said that Stelena would’ve been endgame if Nina didn’t leave the show
@Deedee luvs vlogs Yet..if she had fallen in love with Damon, she couldn't be sired to him. I know she had "feelings" for Damon, but it wasn't enough to guard her from the sirebond forming.
@Deedee luvs vlogs I will never get this logic. JP precisely used the sirebond to 'change' Elena's story - "to get her to fall out of love with Stefan" and to "get with Damon." Yes. Elena had "feelings" for Damon. That's how the sirebond formed in the first place. The sirebond is borne from with emotions to control the sired through emotional/mental manipulation. The idea that it ONLY affects "actions" IS BS because with BOTH TYLER AND ELENA - they felt emotionally attached and influenced to their sires. Like "faith."
And if she 'loved' Damon, canonically her love should've protected her from the sirebond. Because she was IN LOVE WITH STEFAN NOT DAMON, the sirebond could be made. The witch said she had to have "feelings." If she'd been in love with Damon it would've defeated the purpose of the sirebond. There would be no actual need for it. It's because she was in love with Stefan and NOT Damon, and actually made the choice did it seal her fate.
What are you thinking Elena? You said you choose Stephen but you slept with Damon and live with him omg 😲 wtf
Fr I can’t with her she switched up so fast and it pissed me off so much stefan sacrificed for her in the end stefan died for Damon and elenas happiness he walked into her life and helped her at desperate times
Even if Damon and Elena had met first, Damon would have still been the bad guy like he was in the first season. He hadn't changed yet.
Yes because in that scene, he was still after Katherine. Which is why he called her that.
He wouldn’t. Have Damon be with Elena first and have her change him will be a big difference
Arianny M No, because at the time he was still obsessed with Katherine. He also tried compelling Elena to kiss him. So no, he would’ve probably used Elena like he did Caroline. He didn’t care about her at first and even told Stefan he was going to kill her.
@@hannahbarr.4233 He did care about Elena he just said he did not care to piss Stefan off
matthew mann That still isn’t okay. And Damon did lots of other abusive things to Elena, like sexually harassing her every chance he got even when she was clearly uncomfortable.
It made me so happy she chose Stefan, too bad she ended up with Damon it broke my heart
Megan Izzy 😭😭😭😭😭 its always gonna Stefan
Karly Guerra Except it wasn't....Elena chose Damon as vampire =Eternal life and human to start a family with him. 😊
Hazel Amarie But first she went to Damon because of the sirebond. And YES i know that the sirebond was broken but if the sirebond would never happend she would be now with Stefan.
And i'm so glad Stefan had the good elena and Damon the selfish and stupid elena.
And I think elena never unfell for Stefan (5×04 or 03 almost kiss)
_Potter head Elena and Stefan were drifting apart way before Elena being sired to Damon was even revealed. They were going to break up regardless...One because she already had growing feelings for Damon she could no longer push off to the side and two Stefan and Elena were at different points in their lives...Elena was a vampire which is something Stefan could not accept he was fixated on the human version of Elena and went to desperate measures to achieve that which had him keeping secrets from both Damon and Elena while secretly working with Klaus to turn Jeremy into a crazy vampire hunter to complete his mark.
The sire bond had nothing to do with Elena's feelings...Her feelings were authentic and were only formed due to her human feelings canon obviously states a vampire only bonds to her sire if she has feelings for him BEFORE she turns HUMAN feelings vampirism only heightens what was already there.
Damon never took advantage of the sire bond so Elena coming to him was of her freewill....Damon didn't ask Elena to be with him and the bond was clearly broken when she chose him in 4x23.
Damon got the ADULT version of Elena who still loved and protected those she loved but was happy and content with herself...She was no longer the sad and insecure girl easy to manipulate while with Stefan...She GREW up, was happy and secure with who she was if that makes her selfish than so be it lmao
Sorry but you´re talking shit. Stefan was fixated on the Human Elena??? serously? And they broke up (because of the sirebond) because Elena had no ideas what she feel. She broke up with Stefan not because she didn´t love him anymore no! because she wanted to know what she feel
"he came in a time when I needed someone" no girl that ain't love that's another emotion called need
Elena never really loved Stefan, she didn't lie or manipulate him, she just thought that she loved him at that time
Say it out louddd please....😭
WTF..you even watch Season One? SHE HAD A GOOD SUPPORT SYSTEM. SHE SAYS. The reason she fell in love with Stefan was because "you know me better than anyone" 🙄😂
@@samhart4205 I watched the whole series but in my opinion stefan wasn't what elena was looking for yes he understood and respected her choices but he was sort of like matt someone who is stable and will be planning for their future .. elena was looking for someone who could live with her in the moment someone passionate and dangerous like Damon.
@@ranahendy6398 Elena was looking for that, yes. But Damon and Elena's idea of 'living in the moment" were different. She realised as a human and even as a vampire. Getting drunk or just having sex wasn't the "passion" she wanted. She wanted to grow and evolve, experience life with her soulmate. Again. Still Stefan. In fact, DE proved Elena regressed as a person with Damon LOL
@@samhart4205 then why did she choose Damon if that wasn't what she wanted? She loved and fixed him. And for stefan she brought him and his brother together he even told that to caroline when elena was in the hospital because of the coma that he has moved on and realised that she didn't come to his life to be his soulmate she brought damon back to him
And after all we all have our opinions and theories
This is one of my all time favourite scenes. Don’t get me wrong, I like the things Damon says, but I genuinely can’t stand him. Stefan and Elena are meant to be and the whole time I was watching this I was smiling and crying at the same time
KatherinePierce I agree I love seeing elena and stefan together for me damon isn't worthy for elena elena and stefan all the way go team stelena
@@jashascarlett7760 #TeamStelena it is!
Stelena is a textbook relationship. A ideal one. That nevers happens in reality. Delena is complcated, questionable, confusing, controversial. That's what makes it real, and relatable.
I love how selfless he is, not telling her that they actually did meet first
Can you imagine waiting an entire summer to find what happens next? So glad I watched this on Netflix. 🤣
i just realized damon in this exact season promised her 'i promise, i will never leave you again.' passionately. damons word is always true. she knew damon wouldn't leave her unless she asked him to, because his love is selfless enough to handle rejection. she knew stefan would be the one she would actually lose, and that's why she chose him to keep from losing him.
Damon never leaves. His blood in her system in 3x22, his compulsion in her memory in 4x1, and he chooses to stay in town despite her choice. Elena was terrified of losing Stefan's friendship, and Stefan didn't make it easier for her. He actually kissed her after she tried to break up with him. "Just in case there is no later." His comment had nothing to do with risk of death and every bit to do with him knowing they were over. He had to kiss her before she moved on with Damon.
@@DDT-ei7bh ooooohhhh damnnnnn that is such an interesting and believable point. he kisses her like it could be their last kiss, and the idea of it being their last saddens her so much it sort of changes her mind. that's why she didn't want him to kiss her, she knew it would trap her again. that is such a manipulative kiss because in the act of initiating a sexual gesture its assuming that he's hers - i can't imagine kissing a girl in a stage in our relationship where she is literally trying to decide between me and someone else therefore we're not together. damon gives her total space to make her decision herself, as he's expressed he's tired of her allowing the brothers to make the decision of her heart for her. stefan is making the decision for her by kissing her as if they're together. him implying there could be no later increases her fear that if he doesn't choose him she'll never see him again. she's seen damon time and time again show up for stefan and for elena, but not seen stefan stay to show up for damon. she knows stefan would see no reason to stay in town. really, his pride gets in the way of being there for the only people left on the planet that have love for him. pride is the thing that has stefan 'respecting elena's choices' because he fears disapproval so much.
@@nobodysXghost I agree. I do fully believe Stefan knew she was going to break up with him in that moment... at least by the look on his face. I also agree with the rest of what you said. As I tell other fans, this is how Stefan and Caroline continued to confuse her. Both times Caroline found out she kissed Damon, she was pushing Elena to go out with Stefan. While she's sorting out her feelings and trying to make a decision, Stefan should be giving her the same space. I knew he would do this the moment he talked Damon into letting him stay behind with Elena. It was like his last ditch effort to get her back.
Jeremy told Stefan that he and Matt were getting Elena out of town. When she tells him why she was on the bridge in 4x1, he knew she already crossed that bridge on her way out of town, and he never once questions her driving to Damon. Stefan's ego is so big, he doesn't consider Elena wanting to say goodbye to Tyler and Caroline, only wanting to say goodbye to him.
@@DDT-ei7bh oh yeah i guess jeremy and matt were in cahoots with elena in allowing stefan to continue to be oblivious to elena wanting to choose damon. they said 'we're getting elena out of town,' not that matt was driving her to damon. if stefan had considered more what was happening around this time he would have been less surprised about how she is with damon in season 4
In the whole vampire diaries series this was the portion that really makes me heartbroken ☹️
Love you Damon
What she felt for Damon was confusion, it was attraction mixed with affection exacerbated by the intensity of their situation:
I care about you Damon even though you killed everyone I loved .
Brought so much danger .
Hurt me every time
You must have not watched the whole show how about you shut your mouth and let people think your stupid then to open it and prove them right
Watch the full show you idiot
Everyone has done wrong things but everyone hates damon why ??
@@Jesussavesall1 lol I watched Originals and legacy too so stay quiet ... All his sins doesn't make up for the love he gave to Elena or his brother
@@aviralpandey8547 Lol Noob ... It's the script which made Delena ... Otherwise in Books it was Stelena Endgame .. DAMON ALWAYS HURT HER MADE HER CHOICES . Even the shoemakers agreed
"It's always gonna be Stefan."
Yah she chose him but end up with Damon anyway .. I hated the series after that
I like ur mind
Agreed
Same
Me too
Me too
Am I the only one who can never choose delena or stelena? Is it wrong to love them both?
it's okay it's all win win for those who love the 2 couples because no matter who elena chose it's okay
spikenbuffy29 yeah it is
Katherine: “Is it so wrong for me to love you both?” Haha
EFFFF UUUUU.....oh and yes it it wrong u saddo😁🙄
katherine: “its ok to love them both.”
When Elena chose Stefon I was jumping up and down my house.
Same and I was crying
Same but it was bad luck she became a vampire ... It changed her
ME TOO
But it all went downhill🥺😭💔
Like I was happy to know that the writers were planning on making stelena endgame but unfortunately it couldn’t happen because Nina left the show after season 6. but at the same time I was not happy because delena was endgame when the show ended. 🥺😭💔 so why whenever I watch the show (again) I stop at this episode because it breaks my heart not seeing Stefan and Elena together.
This is the point when the writers ruined TVD for the Delena viewers, Damon is so selfish and he always wanted Katherine and Elena is the version of her that accepts him and the vampire version is sired to him! I'll always hate Delena 🙄
Absolutely false. It is a known fact that Elena is NOT sired to Damon and never was. She chooses Damon so you'll have to get over it.
"And never was" sorry to break it you but she was at one point during season 4. The blood bag thing...um she was. She got out of it but she was.
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Adam Henderson Actually she was sired to him
this scene is heartbreaking and i cried so much when i saw it, he’s always loved her and he pushed his feelings away most of the time. idk damon makes her feel excited truly cares about her.
3x22 was the episode for Elena to figure her shit out, that was the entire point, it wasn’t so she could hide how she felt anymore, it was to confront it and what she confronted was that nothing could eclipse for Stefan:
I have a question do you mena like no one could erase her love for stefan nit even her feelings for damon
Love isn't about who is sexy and who you feel LUST for. It's a choice of the heart and not of the hormones.
People need to understand that Elena meant "get to know him first" instead of having one creepy conversation, which she only survived because Damon was too depressed to kill her (and besides, she said MAYBE). And even in their first meeting, Damon proved that he as absolutely zero respect for her free will or for Elena as a person, since he compelled her -the first of many times. Even if she had remembered the weirdo who told her weird crap, she still would have fallen in love with Stefan first. Stefan will always be her epic love.
I agree
You are totally right about that. And Damon did go after Elena cause she looked like Katherine as that's what he called her when saw her first. Ayways it doesn't matter anymore. Elena's turned a bitch. I don't like her anymore. Stefan deserves someone better
***** Don't be ridiculous. Damon wasn't there for her, Elena was SIRED to him, which made Stefan unable to help her. "I'm becoming someone I don't want to be." "I'm feeling things I don't want to feel." "You told me to kill him so I did." Does that sound like Damon "was there for her"?
And she "evolved into something bigger": She literally wrote to herself "reinvent yourself in the absence of the one WHO DEFINED YOU". That's not romantic, that's fucking creepy. She didn't become a bigger person, she became an empty shell who did whatever Damon told her to do. Even her friends turned their backs on her. "The old Elena would never have..." Damon made a JOKE about KILLING HER BROTHER and when Jeremy snapped back, Elena gave JEREMY hell. You think that's normal? You think that's part of becoming a bigger person? Please.
Damon and Elena had the most disgusting and abusive and vomit-inducing relationship I have ever seen.
***** I think from bigger you mean she became a total bitch to Stefan. And if you are forgetting, in season 5 Elena had almost kissed Stefan only to be interrupted by Damon.
And the way Elena and Damon pushed Katherine to Silas to feed him her blood. Where's all her humanity gone?
And how she killed Kol who was warning them against Silas? I mean seriously Kol is a 1000 year old original vampire. Do you think a man with such an experience would be wrong about something that is so serious?
And how she wanted to go with Damon when they were planning to save Stefan! Didn't she realize what a burden she was being at that time? I mean an extra soul had to pass through Bonnie causing her immense pain...
The list of Elena's dumbness is just unending.
Lisa Emmanuel Yeah, Bamon is a cool change from pairing up Elena with Damon or Stefan all the time...plus we got some Steroline moments...just imagine the irony if Stefan chooses Caroline and Damon chooses Bonnie:P
But because of her stupidity Kol died...and he was one of my favorite characters. Though he is back on the originals in Kaleb's body, I do miss the real Kol...
I ship Stefan and Elena but it's obvious that she's going to choose Damon. I hate it.
What he has done to her was completely unforgivable in my opinion and I (and i'm sure any person who really loved their sibling would agree) Remember when he tried to kill Elena's brother? The LAST close living family member she had. ;_;
As if Stefan has not done stuff to her brother like forcing Jeremy to become a Hunter against his will and risking Jeremy possibly dying there
Sometimes the second person is there to show you everything you'd be giving up. Elena realized that she loved Damon, but ultimately couldn't live without Stefan.
Forever Stelena shipping.
Bruh why are you here and when Stefan died she was okay when Damon died she even said she couldn't live without him even other people said it you make no sense 🤦🏾♀️
@@Dajias_meldoys She was fully in love with damon at that point and fell out of love with stefan, she was also in shock, they all were.
and does anyone notice we let delena fans write on are stelena videos but when we do it to theres they block us -_____-
Delena is often written in fate. When Rebekah forces Elena off the bridge, she's actually working on Damon's behalf. It's the combining of two triangles. The love triangle of Stefan, Elena, and Damon. And the death triangle of Rebekah, Alaric, and Damon. A choice between Stefan and Damon for Elena, a choice between Damon and Rebekah for Alaric.
Home is where the heart is, and Elena's heart is with Damon. Because she doesn't continue driving to him, Rebekah forces her off the bridge. She's technically home as she drowns. Stefan saves Matt, Damon's blood saves his girlfriend.
To see the whole, 3x22 has to be combined with 3x11 because 3x11 is her metaphoric death and 3x22 is her actual death. Because Stefan abducted Elena and threatened her on the bridge in 3x11, fate has her turning back in 3x22 because she's actually on her way back to Damon. He's just not in town yet. Her drowning in 3x22 is written opposite Stefan's abduction in 3x11. It's Damon's way of taking his girlfriend back. 4x6 shows this combination as they stand on the bridge together. Her heart was with Damon in 3x11, and it was with Damon in 3x22. When Stefan force-fed Elena his blood and threatened to turn her, he was actually doing that to Damon's girlfriend. Damon is the only one who could get Elena to become something she never wanted to be. Had it not been for him, she would've died rather than completed her transition. She'd never become a vampire for Stefan because even though she loves him, she's not in love with him.
Yes, they are often written as fate…because that’s an easy way to retcon a couple as endgame and undo what came before. Julie Plec has said that she tried to turn the fans against Delena for the first 2 seasons and gave up after that, hence the “fate” stuff in season 3.
That said, the notion that Elena was somehow not in love with Stefan and that her heart was with Damon here is ludicrous.
@@nikig2382 Point out the Plec interview, otherwise your comment is ludicrous.
although she chose damon after I still felt so bad for him here 🥺💔
That's not always true though.I mean sometimes when you fall for someone else it's not because you don't love the first person but because you need explore your options to make sure you do love them.
Honestly I would have gone to Damon because if they were really dying Damon would all be alone. Stefan would have been with everyone else and Elena would have gone to be with Damon because no one deserves to die alone.
wow can i just defend damon here and say that when damon met elena he still was in love with katherine, he thought that she was still in the tomb. so yeah he did only approach her bc he thought that she was katherine but who wouldn’t have if you thought you saw someone who you’ve been in love with for about 150 years and basically changed the whole course of your life for? after he found out that she wasn’t in the tomb and didn’t care to see/find him for that long of a time period, that’s when he stopped loving her. but he developed a “friendship” with elena and saw her actually care for him and yeah it probably did help that they look the same, but she did something that no one else did and what damon has been looking for and that was care about him. damon knows that elena is not katherine in any way, she’s not just some replica of katherine to him that does care
Even if Elena met Damon first and he didn't remove that memory, everything would be the same...Damon was there for Katherine and Stefan would've saved Elena, they'd have fallen in love. No difference at all! Elena said, maybe if you and I had met first to lighten the hurt a little bit. It's just a fanservice moment in my opinion.
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How cruel were they to Damon here.. he’s done so much and they were just gonna let him die all alone. The others were together but he would died all alone... I would have chosen him in a heartbeat.
"It's always gonna be Stefan." I think there's more to that then Damon thinking Elena will always want Stefan. All his life, Stefan has gotten in his way and everyone always chooses him. Stefan made him the vampire he is. Katherine loved Stefan more than him. Stefan saved Elena and she fell in love with him when Damon probably saw Elena as a better version of Katherine. Someone he loved that would never stab him in the back. Elena is everything Damon can't get. And Stefan is the one who gets her
It's the opposite? Stefan meets Katherine first, take an interest in her, falled in love with her and Damon gets in the picture. The same with Stefan and Elenas relationship. Damon always ruins Stefans happines.
+dela linda EXACTLY!
+Lauren Karvaski not to be mean or anything but sure your right stefan gets alot of things ,but at the same time the things that he get's , at the same time someone always takes it away from him.
dela linda Stefan fell in love with her first maybe but he was not actively trying to pursue her until Damon did it Stefan even said he knew how Damon felt about her but did not care that he wanted Katherine and was pursuing her to begin with with Elena it is Stefan who pursues her romantically first so the whole going after the same girl thing started with Stefan he even admitted to his brother that all the bad blood between them started because of himself
Stefan never made Damon into the vampire that he is. Where did you get that. Stefan wanted Damon to drink human blood so they could be together forever brothers FOREVER. Damon got mad lol. Also same with Katherine, she loved Stefan more and used Damon the reason why Damon came back to mystic falls was because of the comet and the Bonnie's necklace. He needed those things to bring back Katherine as he stated in season 1. All he ever wanted since becoming a vampire was Katherine Katherine Katherine and also he wanted to get Katherine out and kill everyone in the town for revenge because of what they did to the vampires in 1964.
I don't understand why you all think that this compulsion was bad. He wanted her to get EVERYTHING SHE WAS LOOKING FOR!
Why is that a bad thing?
they (haters) are gonna turn all good moments of delena wrong
Cz he violated her mind?
@@samhart4205 damn ur that type of stelena shipper makes sense good thing stefan died fuck that nigga
You know what. In the end every time Elena chooses Stefan I choose to believe this is an episode story and she didn’t have enough diamonds to choose Damon. And I live by that.
Ayooo this kinda funny ngl I'm bout to walk around telling people this
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Everything should have stayed that way, stelena forever.
Right
Stelena is dead fuck that ship it's already said and long gone move on delena is endgame
@@Jesussavesall1 Why don't you do that instead like I've been telling people I'm not even interested in watching the ending here because it should have ended with the original here! And also Damon is not even cute at all here so I don't get what is the big deal with him anyways I rather have cute than not cute here!
it's been like 5 years since this happened and i was team stelena since day one, and she picked stefan i was jumping up and down singing and dancing because all my otps NEVER worked (except for naley) and the fucking writers had to go make elena meet damon first in a flashback, but she was compelled to forget and i was like 😑 are fucking kidding me?? and then she fucking turned into a goddamn vampire so then i was like "oh fuck she's gonna remember meeting damon first" WTF. AND NOW STEFAN IS DEAD LOVE IT GR8 JOB JULIE AND KEVIN!!! also i was low key shipping steroline season 2, but then i was like no no stelena, and then steroline acc happened and i was not feeling their relationship so basically TVD went to shit after season 3 THE END BYE HELLO BROTHER
dolan's pineapple pizza ikr that's exactly how I felt I'm so mad at them
Yessss so true other sesaons are totally shit
whats a steroline?🤗😂
Omg... exactly my words after season 3
"I love him, Damon."
"Maybe if you and I had met first."
"Yeah, maybe.."
"Damon was not selfless" my ass! This is the reason why he didn't tell her. He was respecting her choice in choosing to be with Stefan. (Even though we all know her heart was not fully in it anymore.)
Damon accepted her choice because, at the end of the day, all he wanted was for her to be alive and happy. Sure, a part of him didn't want to tell her because he didn't think it would change her decision, but I think it was more out of selflessness because he believed that her mind was made up and he wasn't gonna keep trying to win her heart.
It's just like when he compelled her to forget he said he loved her. Cause even then, he knew she loved Stefan and he wasn't gonna put her under that kind of emotional stress when they all already had enough going on.
Damon could've told her the truth sooner, but then again, she ended up with Stefan pretty quick, so why would he tell her? Idc..to me this shows that Damon deeply regretted compelling her to forget ever meeting him. 💔
that is a selfless move to don't force your love!don't say nonsense!she even admit it!when Damon gave her the neacklace which Stefan gived,was the most selfless thing!because knowing how much it hurts he still wanted to make her happy!
@@altinaykor364 I surely agree with you
I stopped watching at season 3 and started seires again cause I can't stand the sight of Damon and elena together I much more think that stefan and elena look much better 😭ugh it hurts my heart
Delena is much more pure and exciting than Stelena.... Stelena was boring... And I knew from the first episode that they would be endgame bcuz they had more than love between them....
Gosh how can u seriously ship stelena after delena
@@chiranjitadasadhikari9093 exactly
@@thegirlwithflaws I know right
@Yuliana Vargas exactly. I can't even tolerate Stelena together
@Yuliana Vargas me too 😂
As for the “Maybe if I met you first” I’m legit tired of people on both sides bringing up how Elena met Damon first when that literally had nothing to do with Elena and everything to do with Damon. Receipt: “It was just that slight little thing that she said to him, when she was just trying to take the sting off: “Hey, maybe if you and I had met first.” She was just trying to soften the blow” (source)and the fact that she had met Damon first served only one narrative purpose, which was to keep Damon fighting: “But in reality, he had this memory that gave him the will to fight back. I love that moment, where Ric’s about to drive the stake into him, and he’s like “You know what? I’m not ready to die today.” And the significance ends there. Why does it end there? Because nothing would’ve changed if Elena remembered meeting Damon except that she’d be like “Oh Stefan, I know your brother, I met him on Wickery Bridge.” And why would nothing have changed if Elena remembered? Because Damon was still there for Katherine. Elena still got driven off the road with her parents in the car and Stefan still saved her. Stefan still met her the first day of school. Like honestly, what does the fact that Elena physically met Damon first really mean?
I really don't wanna watch vampire diaries because of their relationship! Stelena all the way!! Delena just makes me so angry omg
AussieAngels10 omg same
AussieAngels10 same
Saammeee after they got together I just stopped watching TVD altogether...
OMG same
Spoorthy Bhat me too delena is so stupid and fake ughhh
I have to admit, When I found out she chose Damon at the end, I cried for a literal few hours. I couldn’t stand Stefan going through that..Just why..
stefan is EVERYONE'S first choice, For Ex, Katherine she only truly loved Stefan she even said it herself, Damon spent 145 ish years trying to free her to learn that she couldn't give a rats ass about him. And your worried about Stefan?Damon seeing Stefan with Elena everyday hurted him too. Stefan isn't the only one who was hurt.
Yuliana Vargas yeah they deserve each other, trash belongs with trash
@@yuhhmade1632 damon chooses to be obsessed with Kath what kind of grown ass man would think that the lady who is sleeping with his younger brother is in love with him?! Like wtf...I feel no sympathy for Damon bcz he not only choose Kath and Elena over his own brother but also ruined his own brother's life. He deserves nothing but hate.
@Yuliana Vargas yaa
@@annasofia3109 and trash died also😂
Elena chose Damon. Anyone who paid mind to the flashbacks and their purpose would know this. That's why they don't actually show Elena breaking up with Matt. She's gonna break up with Stefan after her death, just like she broke up with Matt after her parents' death. Stefan then parallels Matt in the first season. That's why she told Damon she couldn't think about always. Damon is her always. That girl put Stefan in the friend zone with Tyler and Caroline. Matt knew all along, that's why he had no problem drugging her and driving her out of town. And when she took off to be with Damon in 4x7, Matt knew. With Stefan, it was about his love for Elena. With Damon, it was about Elena's love for him. You can see it in their conversations. You get the actual truth when Rebekah compels it from her.
Elena choosing stefan at this point literally confirmed delenas endgame
Just really seeing Damon lying on the floor like a plank just cracks me up that part was funny.
0:40 she says "Damon too" I think she made a mistake there
She’s was saying “Not just to Stefan, Damon. To Tyler. To Caroline.” Punctuation is everything.
this episode and 4x08 are my top favourites of TVD
Now it makes sense why Damon never hurt Elena in the first season. It's because of her similar looks to Katherine, he never wanted to hurt her and he actually looked after her she just never knew about it.
stelena forever
graceholt35 I have to disagree
This was it, in my opinion, delena ruined this show. Maybe if Nina hadn’t of left, it would of ended differently.
Delena made show better just facts😉
Skye Carabotta ikkk, imagine if she came back, the epic live would of been reunited,
A lot of people hooked upto this show coz of delena...or damon
@@ellas6760 yeah repeat those words in your sleep IMAGINE if it happened
@@riturajput7573 facts
I only have one thing to say:Stelena:Two people forced to fall in love by the universe.Delena❤️:Two people who fell in love against the universe.
this is the dumbest comment ever.
Armir Gashi actually is not 😂
Puertorican 100% actually it is.Elena and Damon have completely different personalities and their chemistry is Pitch red Just like in Fifa ultimate team.
They literally said in season 5 that the whole doppelgänger thing was made up and Stefan and Elena fell in love on their own
This would be so romantic if you just forget that right after meeting Elena, Damon went on a killing rampage at Mystics Falls and didn't feel bad about any single one of them.
No he didn't. He waited four months before dropping a body.
@@DDT-ei7bh Because that makes it so much better.
@@nikig2382 Better than stalking her for four months.
I don't know why people keep hating damon and looking at the bad things he's done, yeah he did bad shit but unlike everyone else he got shit done.
Keep in mind: IT'S THE BAD GUYS THAT GET SHIT DONE.
@Grosvenor the whole point is how evil he was in s1 but how he changed so much till s6 if you compare like because she brought a better side of him,, he was broken becuase of katherine where he did all the bad things in s1
The Elena-less brother is always going to be my favorite
Sorry Damon but after season 3, Stefan’s got my heart 💓❤️
Same Damon was a badass until his whole world got consumed by Elena. I miss his season 1 self where he was unbothered If she died.
She also became worse for it. In season 3 she was becoming such a hypocrite it was painful to watch, but in later seasons she was unbearable.
STELENA ALWAYS.... kyak!... a little bit of delena romance to excite delena fans, but the endgame will be Stelena...
Elena choosing Stefan at the end of season 3 kinda confirmed for me that Delena was endgame ❤️😁
I knew the moment I saw 3x22 that Damon and Elena would end up together in season 4, I just didn't know which episode. The moment I saw Damon save her on the bridge in 4x6, I knew Stefan and Elena were over. They ran it full circle on the bridge, then had Damon put her daylight ring back on her finger. "Forever" was his.
Sad for Matt to sit there and listen to Elena lie to Damon. He knows what she's doing to Stefan because it's the same thing she did to him when her parents died. She chose Stefan sooner and Damon later because Stefan is right now and Damon is always. I find it best to look at the actual writing because Stefan and Elena are both written in deep denial. When you have Stefan choosing to deny Elena is in love with Damon, and Elena choosing to deny she's in love with Damon, what you're gonna get in the first episodes of S4, is a woman trying to continue a relationship with her best friend because she put Stefan in the friend zone. You might as well be watching Elena try to continue a relationship with Matt for all that it matters. When she's ready to face her truth, she'll be with Damon. And she will defend her relationship with Damon just as she defends every other choice she makes. Becuase he's her true choice.
I was so happy when she chose Stefan, but letter on in season 4 when she became a vampire and broke up with Stefan I was like: "wtf" I mean I'm team Stelena from beginning and I love them so much, but Elena was with Damon only because of sire-bond, she always did everything what Damon said to do, their relationship is toxic and their love is not real. When Elena became human again in the end of season 6 she told Stefan: "I love you so much." "You knew me better than anyone. " one more prof that Stelena is real love. Elena, when she is human, always chose Stefan and we all know that and Stefan always wanted human life with her. Damon hid the cure from Elena because he knew that she has never wanted to be with him when she is human. So Stelena is real endgame and their love is so pure, epic and romantic 💚💚💚 #StelenaForever
Ingrid Abramović Sire bond was only formed because she had feelings for Damon....She still had feelings for him during this scene that doesn't just magically disappear....After the bond was broken she still chose and loved Damon. Which proves their love was very much REAL.
Stefan and Elena's "love" was due to a spell cast by an ancient Markos who spent centuries putting the Doppelgangers together there is nothing epic about that.
You can be upset about your OTP not lasting but don't try and rewrite what's canon on the show.
Unexisted Profile Yep. The rewriting of canon for DE is real 😂😂
I honestly don’t know how to feel, I need Damon to be happy and with Elena but Stephan needs to be happy as well but he falls for elena, doesn’t get her, looses his mind, gets better, falls for Caroline then dies so I don’t know who I feel bad for
Becoming a vampire only heightens who you really are. It doesn't change your personality, your feelings towards something..or someone.
Almost all of Elena's friends thought becoming a vampire was changing her for the worst. But it really didn't. It just, in a more amplified way, revealed everything she was or felt as a human (even if she didn't realize it.) How she never wanted to be a vampire, how she had a darkness in her that she never believed existed in her, and (once a vampire) was afraid of it. And...how she was in love with Damon. And how, deep down, she wanted to choose him but didn't because she was able to convince herself that she was still in love with Stefan.
Damon and Stefan were told that the sire bond was set in place between vampires *only* if the new vampire had human feelings for the sire before she turned. And it was vampirism that heightened those emotions. The bond itself did nothing to them. The bond clearly ended up turning into more of a physical affect for her; her actions. Just like it did to Tyler towards Klaus. (Her only being able to feed from the vein, killing the hunter, sleeping with Damon after her break up with Stefan, wanting to spend every minute with Damon, seeing him happy etc.)
So technically, yes, the sire bond is what made Delena happen quicker, but it wasn't the only reason why Elena fell for him. As a human, Elena was never gonna accept or truly admit (to herself) how she felt about Damon. But as a vampire, with heightened emotions, she wasn't gonna be able to repress them anymore. That's where the sb came in. It was Elena's nudge to finally admitting her true feelings. As well as trying to prove it to Damon. (See, actions.)
Tyler only got sired to Klaus cause his "human feeling" was gratitude. Since he didn't have to turn anymore on a full moon and suffer that pain. But the bond didn't affect how Tyler felt about Klaus as a person. He still hated him, even though he did what Klaus told him to do. And even if he didn't want to.
But in Elena's case, she had to have been in love with Damon. *If she was more in love with Stefan* like she claimed, then despite being sired to Damon, she would've still been with Stefan. Plain and simple. Yet she was only still with Stefan when she was still half human. So if she really was more in love with Stefan, then her love for *him* should've been magnified. More than anything she felt for Damon was. More magnified that it didn't lead to them breaking up.
Yet, her love for Stefan wasn't stronger. Her love for Damon was. And Elena said to Caroline and Stefan that it had been ever since she turned. When you're in love with someone, your love for that person is much deeper and stronger than your love is towards someone that you only care for as a friend. So to me, that was saying something.
That's the main reason why Stefan and Elena broke up. Because Elena realized that her feelings for Damon were becoming more intense. And she could no longer resist them. But, to a point, it also was because once Stefan was told about a possible cure, he not only kept it from Elena, but he became hellbent on finding it. And soon, fixing her became more important to him than it did to her. Because Jeremy was becoming a bigger threat and Elena didn't want the cure if it meant Jeremy turned into an evil person.
So, I personally think that if she truly was still in love with Stefan and never was with Damon, then..despite a sire bond, she would've still seen Damon the same way, both during transition and once fully a vampire: He was someone she loved and cared for, but just as a friend. And I know what some people must think, the sire bond was just an illusion for Elena or based on fake feelings. Well, if that was true, then she would've went back to Stefan in the S4 finale. She would've seen it for herself what everyone else thought: that it wasn't real. Yet, in her heart, Elena believed and trusted it was. And it really was. So she ended up choosing Damon in the end.
In death, Damon made her feel most alive because he never treated her like vampirism would ruin her. Change her, yes, but not to where she'd completely lose herself and "die". Maybe he felt that way about her being with him, but not about her being a vampire alone. He believed that she could handle the downsides as well as the perks. But above all, he loved her no matter what. Human or vampire. Good sides and bad. And he helped her embrace and accept her new reality instead of making her feel like she would be eternally miserable. And maybe Elena was never gonna be ok with immortality, but that's why Damon made her feel alive and happy. Cause she was allowed to be whoever/whatever she wanted to be without being judged.
Caroline wanted to understand how Elena could have feelings for Damon that made her break up with Stefan. Yet, she said it herself: vampirism only amplifies everything you were as a human. Elena went through changes once a vampire, but she didn't become a completely different person. And that's the way everyone else was treating her.
Anyways, that's what I think: Elena was in love with Damon before she died. It just never hit her or came to the surface because Elena was able to repress them when human. Maybe even subconsciously. She obviously (consciously) knew she loved him, but after all that time spent with him in S3, I think it turned into something more for her and again, she just was just unknowingly denying it. She also already (consciously) knew how impulsive and reckless he was, so I think that's the initial reason why she chose Stefan. It had nothing to do with not loving him anymore. Imo, it had more to do with who made more sense for her to choose. And Stefan definitely made more sense; he was the safe choice.
(But look, this is just merely my personal opinion, so if you disagree, please kindly respect my pov. Please and thank you. ✌)
Why the hate? It's a TV show, get over it..
Stelena is way more of true love, can't be compared.
she chose damon in the end. as johnny depp said, “if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.” it wasn’t true love. nor was it way more. yes she may have fallen for him first but she also fell for damon too, so re read that quote. just saying .
"I can't think about always. All I can think about is right now." (because it may not be always?) Keeping him dangling again, are we? You knew what you wanted Elena. You have always known. You knew it even before you met him. You knew, that's why you got into that fight with Matt, and that's how you met him. You were just too scared to admit it. You had to die to get over that fear. How lucky you are Elena, to be getting another shot! But irl, we don't get resurrected. TVD taught me that the heart wants what it wants. Follow it, because this is the real world, and life will not offer any second chances.
The idea of choosing Stefan because she felt obligated to him is ridiculous to me because what is obligation in the face of true love? If Damon was the one she really loved, whether or not it scared her, when he was on the phone with her and makes a deathbed wish:
@@pixiedust3000 You have to rewatch 3x21 to understand 3x22. She's in love with Damon. That's why she chooses Damon when it's just Stefan and Damon. Tyler and Caroline affected her choice in 3x22. That's why Kai says he's probably missing a detail or two. Because he's missing Tyler and Caroline. He would've pointed this out to Damon had he known. Damon was her choice, and she lied to him. She then lied to Stefan in 4x1 by leaving out Tyler and Caroline. She didn't choose Stefan on the bridge, she chose the three of them. There's a difference.
"If you love two people at the same time choose the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldnt have fallen for the second.
- Johnny Depp"
Johnny said everything.
This quote is cruelly ironic. Yikes.
She didn't want to hurt Stefan, so she chose him, she felt guilty for loving his brother. That's why she chose him, not Damon.
True
If you really love one person you wouldn´t fell in love for a second person!
Elena is meant to be with Stefan!! If it wasn't for him, she wouldn't even be alive, because he saved her when her parents drove off the bridge...
stelena is true love :))
no true love is hard and delena wasn’t an easy love
Its sad how she said maybe if they met first.. when they really did and she doesnt remember:'(
Honestly I think that if she loved Damon she wouldn't expect him to change, where as with Stefan she knows exactly who he is, what he has done and yet she still loves him :) but now it's come to point where I actually don't mind who she picks ...
Poor Matt that had to be awkward
Stelena forever, they are soulmates all the way
The fact that Damon was so okay with wanting her to choose between him and his younger brother is just sick
stelena
i love the way Damon says Klaus is a Big Fat Liar!
damon rappresents the common man :) he is not perfect but he tries to be. he has more negative aspetcs than positive but he wants to change.
omg exactly! & Stephan is the celeb you glamorise & put on this saintly pedestal.... until that rose-eyed perception fissures & fractures & shatters, & you finally go through those growing pains of transitioning from one version of yourself to another, & seeing things for what they truly are ✨
I hope to God "common man" doesn't have murderous tendencies.
@@samhart4205 I hope to god u get over yourself and realised this show is over and delena was endgame hope u can sleep with that hun
@@Jesussavesall1 I "hope" you can take your advice someday. Because there are people that think Delena are a trash can and always will. Oop. Truth bomb. Hope you can get on with your life.
@@samhart4205 people also think stelena is trash reason why they weren't endgame and didn't win any rewards as of delena tho chemistry awards was all them good day
Am i the only one that laughed at Damon just casually lying on the road?
At this point Wondered to myself what is she thinking, until I realised delena will always break even. Stelena was always so sloppy and down to earth and I liked that but delena is bomb
That is literally the point of 3x22. That is her truth. If it was about obligation then why would she feel obligated to Stefan and not to Damon who was alone in a remote location and would potentially die that way? Would obligation sincerely make her lie to a man who’s “dying wish” is to hear the truth about whether or not she would choose him or his brother and say his brother when it was really him? Because they give Elena an out. She says, “Matt’s taking me home.” “To Stefan.” “Not just Stefan …” but Damon presses her, “If it was just down to him or me and you had to choose who would get the goodbye, who would it be?” And she can’t lie, it would be Stefan because she loves him. The fact that she calls out to Stefan and says “never mind” and then he kisses her, I mean if a kiss is all it took to make Elena change her mind from Damon to Stefan then Damon wasn’t a real choice, I frankly find that argument against SE more ridiculous than flimsy.
I cry every time I see this -/3
OMFG DAMON MEET ELENA FIRST
I FEEL SO BAD