Alex and Adrian, I want to say that you both gave me hope. I was in a long distance relationship. I live in California while my Ex is in the Philippines. She broke up with me after Christmas, and I leave for military training soon. But Adrian, after you telling us viewers that you got back together with your long distance girlfriend after YEARS of separation, I now have hope.
That's so cool. I'm from the Philippines and my ex is from California. He had been dating for 3 years but we had never met in person. He broke up with me today because he's not happy anymore and he can't handle the distance. But I'm still hoping and I have this gut feeling that we will be together in person. I don't know if I should trust my intuition.
Me too Im from the philippines and my ex is from CALIFORNIA but his a Pilipino we broke up for almost 1 month. I really love him we. Had been 7 years in a long distance relationship Im Hoping that we can still get back together
Layfon Itself how often would you see your ex from california? I had an amazing relationship. 6 months same coty but then she had to move to another state. We did long distance a year but now she broke ip. Sucks
I went to sleep everyday at nite with your video on and Wake up in the mornin at 06.00 Am and open your chanel.Thank you for all the videos everyday, its really effect me. im still on NC with my long distance ex its more than a month.. I follow all your lead, not reach out to him or stalking on his media social but im focus working on my self, upgrade my self and quess what i feel? im felling so peaceful.. Im healing slowy and i regain my confidence and my power again.never felt this way before. I still love my ex but i need more time, i know he talking with someone new, but its ok.He stil stalked me on my social media. Sooner or letter He will see my worth.. I can feel it. I will reach out to him when im completly ready with a new version of me. Thank you coach Natalie, Coach Adrian & Coach Alex. You the real MVP
Exactly same situation in my life.....I'm also following your advice and regaining my true self. But sometimes feel very sad.....Trying to distract my attention from being low. I know he will feel my worth nd surely wl contact me soon.
Guys, I do not feel alone or an outcast anymore; I had a LDR, She does not want to see me, she has blocked me from every single way of comunications, but still, I have hopes. I do not know if I am on the verge of loosing her for ever or not, I do not know, but since I cannot do a thing about the past, I'll hold to the conviction that I am writting a happy future for both of us.
Thank you both so much for this video! I'd love to see more content on the first initial meet up and/or date with a long distance ex. Depending on how far away you live from your ex, you might not have seen each other for many, many months or even longer. You often talk about seeing each other to "seal the deal". What I'm interested in is what you mean with this and if you should approach the meet up differently than if you live closer to each other, as you likely wont have a second, third and so forth date in the nearest future to build up attraction. Sincerely, Clara
Honestly long distance could be better if you were patient if you aren’t in a long distance and she or he is always there it’s different I’m glad this video was out bc I need this💪🏾
For me being in a military relationship. We’re friends for now and he even said he doesn’t wanna date in the military at all. We broke up because we know how busy the navy/military is. He even said we may get back together but right now he won’t even be looking for a few years himself. We live in the same city Philadelphia but he’s in Chicago because of his job. I was hoping to to close that long distance gap to come visit him whenever or he comes home I’ll take him out somewhere special for the holidays. I really love this man and I hope everything goes well for us.
Hi JJ, I know you'd like specific steps, but unfortunately, these videos target a generalized audience, who are each going through very unique experiences. If you'd like steps tailored to your unique situation, I invite you to schedule a coaching session with us : www.withmyexagain.com/coaching All the best! Coach Natalie
Can you make some more videos going in depth of the process you should take if your ex is seeing someone else? Eg: if they’ll forget about you if you don’t reach out, or if they’ll move on, and various steps to take
Adrian after you telling us you went back with your ex after years of separation just gave me hope again.... I live in Tahiti (French Polynesia) and she lives in California. I was in a long distance relationship for like 6 years & we broke up this February 2018. Please give us moreee videos about it. Thank you.
Hello guys! God bless all of you! LDR are really painful I’ve been there and I’m still there tbh... I’m that person who had a really stubborn ex and never thought she will reach out, trust me when I said that I really mean it. Take time for you not for them, I know is not easy and is really hard but trust god and he will help you. During my process of recovery I’ve lost 60 lbs! Doing exercises is the best feeling you can get about yourself never expect to look great for other as long you love yourself and feel great is the best thing! And is been 6 months and I have to say I haven’t recovered completely and I feel there still more to work on... changes doesn’t happened over night it takes time it does and a lot! I look great than better I can attached any girl I want but I’m not completely recovered! Don’t expect to break up with your ex and next day with them and they see the change I’ve been there. I blocked my ex because It was really painful see her post and mostly was because she considered me as toxic person. 2 months later she text me with and none sense message(I blocked her on messages, Snapchat, IG, FB and kik I leave WhatsApp open ) since then my ex reach out to me once a week just to see how I’m doing! Is a process that will take time. Meanwhile keep working on you don’t stop just because they reach out to you, you have to keep the work is for you not for them! You need it ! That’s all I have to say. If you need someone to talk to! So you can keep focus on you Here you have a friend and you are free to ask me :)
Thank you guys! Big love. You've stumulated my hopes . I'm planning on getting him back to me though I don't know yet how buh I hope he can be committed to me again. Buh thx lots. Salute.
You saying to meet up we can’t .. we are just teens and he lives all the way across the world not possible for another 7 years because in India they are so strict now idk what to do
Thank you thank you thank you. You guys are amazing. So question for both coaches: my ex just broke up with me today (I saw it coming and it was the second break up so I knew at this point) he bought plane tickets to come visit me before we broke up. Is it good that he comes to say goodbye a week after our breakup? Should I encourage him to come or let him decide or not have him coming? Thanks 🙏🏻 please keep these videos up!
I was in a long-distance relationship for only 19 days and we haven’t said yet whether we broke or not. However, we haven’t talked for three days already. My Ex is from Hongkong but he has moved to live in Malaysia for many years and I’m from Cambodia. The reason that we don’t talk anymore is that I knew for sure that he was going to cheat on me by asking me to pay in advance for the package he sent to me, but actually he didn’t and used an email to cheat me as well; however, he has still not admitted that he is deceiving me. You may wonder why I still seek for your advice because, honestly so, I really really love him and want to be with him in the future. Now, should I talk to him first and ask him for a chance to start again. Please, I need your advice since I’m hurt but o don’t want to lose him as well. Thanks 🙏
That helped a little more. Since I love in NYC and her in Texas, I know it will be a VERY long patience game. I wouldn't know how to create passion because I'm so focused on not creating bad energy like before. She is in a relationship with someone else and we text back and forth sometimes about cooking and movies. I'm just sifting through past traumas, trying to be a better version and every now and again would go on dates with women. At the same time idk if she's even seeing my social media because we don't follow each other.
How do you know if he is your soul mate and he's going to wait for you? . If he left you for someone else because it is a long distance relationship and he doesn't want to wait for you, do you still wait for him? What are chances for you to get him back to your life?
... Me and my boyfriend were in long distance relationship for 10 months... He was a short tempered guy..and yelled at me many times but never tried to leave me because he was very possesive, caring and loving.. And i know he still loves me.. Infact he was much more serious in the relationship than i was. But the situation turned out to be worst.. I was preparing for an entrance exam which is very frustrating and even dealing with the frustration of long distance. Out of anxiety i said" that i m giving up.. I m not sure that if we will ever be able to meet and be together and i don't want this long distance ". Afterwards he stopped responding to me... But after my continous texting.. He was very angry at me.. And said that there is nothing between us and he cannot tolerate any more.. He said me to be happy here in my city.. And he will live happily there. I continously kept apologising..even after he asked me not to text him.. I kept gnatting him until he blocked me in every social media. I never thought that he will be affected so bad with our first fight.. It was really surprising that he has started to avoid me . One day i opened his instagram to see his messages. I saw him texting to his friend that "he is very disappointed... He wanted someone who can never be his own" he was getting constant mood turbulations and blamed love for his suffering... He was even saying that love is waste of time.. And all that... I am feeling that he wants to move on.. It wasn't a clear break up.. But i feel he will never talk to me back. Now because he has blocked me we are in no contact period.. I will be done with my exam next month.. Should i hope that he will try to contact me.. Because somewhere i feel that he did this so that i can study and also it looks to me that he is moving on
Thank you wery mutch coatch alex adrian i whas realy needing this !!!😓😢i am in a long distance break up its bin 5 month s me the netherlands she portugal and made mistakes i should nt done all my emotions like poker cards shatterd all over the place i felt !! not beeing patience not giving here space i realized now faloowing video i learn alot from . its bin a wile ive heard here since november 2017 .we broke up in half september i decited to go no contact no point in talking to here when she made here decision .i stil think about here alot and feelings havent gone away .it was here birthday to the 16 feb 2018 ive stayed no contact by not sending any message thinking she would expect .my feelings for here are stil strong but in time im not sure how it would be .she wil always be my first intence love ive ewer felt if she reaches out to me one day in back of my mind stil hoping to have a normal conversation !! Any suggestions for me coach alex adrian ??
Thanks for your videos it's really helping me. i'm just starting the "no contact". I'm in a long distance break up,i'm a girl and my ex is a girl. Does the same thing applies if she broke up with me because her reason is she's not making me happy and i'm too good for her. We broke up before but we got back together. And this time i'm approaching the no contact. But how does it work for me if she's the one who thinks she's not worth it? Please I need your help
After dating for 3 months, He broke up with me barely a week ago. It's not because of distance it's because of my trust issues and insecurities. We used to fight a lot and he said we shouldn't talk anymore and I'm not even trying to say anything coz it might make him even more mad and he might end up blocking me. I've been in two ldr before this one and they left in both the cases, i wanted them back as well but nothing worked. But this time i thought he was the end of my broken love life and I really thought he was the one. but i have no hopes now. I don't know what to do. Please help me.
He blocked me without any reason. He loves me so much I know but he just blocked me. I feel that natural chemistry with him. I go for the no contact rule for 30days. I know he's got no one and I'm his only woman. I feel he will come back to me.
So ive been doing radio silence for about 2 months. We were seeing each other about every two months until covid hit...then the unknowns, anxiety, lonesomeness, arguing started.
You give me hope, but after I visited..I found out he had several lovers he was pursuing online..I felt trapped..had to enjoy the rest of the visit knowing this. He swore up and down he has now CHOSE me. But my intuition told me otherwise, as I found that he txt one of his lovers the very next morning I was with him. I felt TORN..it was an unreal experience that I had to endure. He was an Egyptian. Still pursues me like nothing ever happened. I now am walking away...what a waste of time 4 years. Damn
I need specific help with an issue. My ex is giving me mixed signals they are confusing and VERY hurtful. Can i contact one of you and send you screenshots of a conversation? I miss him dearly and am drawing in grief and confusion.
Hey me and my boyfriend broke up about 1 and a half month ago and I won’t him so badly back but he has a new girl and I don’t know what to do.. can someone help me please
Dear Coach, Thanks for your videos. It helps me to overcome my situation. My bf left me cause (month ago) he thinks that he felt out of love and he makes us suffer in our situation. He is a nice guy and we used to have a great connection and a lot of common interests (more than 5 years of relationship). We used to live together and I was absent during the week. He told me that he felt a strong emotion for someone else and so it sucked his feelings for me two months ago. I didnt beg or anything, I kept it classy and I was nice. We talked several times via texts cause I need to move out of our apartment. I told him that I respect him for his decision and he thanked me and said we should go for our lives. What are the chances that he comes back to me? Thanks
Hi. I have been in a long distance relationship with a Colombian girl since January 2016 till September 2018. I loved her alot and am devastated from the breakup. I am Canadian and we tried to get her to come to Canada but due to some hard restrictions her simple tourist visa was rejected back in July. She wants me to go to Colombia which I am leaving in 5 days to see her. Her whole family really wants us to get back together but ultimately it is her decision. Any suggestions on what we should discuss or how we can reconcile would be most appreciated. Thank you
I have long distance relationship since 3 years , I have not words to example my story , he live in Europe I live in Asian , we loved each other very much , he committed with me , I'm 100% honest with him , I were share every moment of my life , he was told me I'm crazy about you , lots of false promises with me , IN and Out my life I'm always accept his apology , we have 4 hours time difference , we were talk all night long I forget to sleep , for his person 😔 what he give me , just Waite , suddenly he disappeared no contact why I don't know , I'm going through Agony for waiting , for 7 months , I all tha time I read our 3 years messages , I never believe this person cheated me ,💔 this love very badly affected on my whole life , 😔 my soul are burn , why I'm not forget his person who forget me , I'm stuck empty , I wonder how a person 3 years can lie ? He kept acting and I got it in love 😢 I wish my heart was like that I forget it , 💔😢 I won't love anymore 😢💔
Its been 3 months that she breakup with me.in Past 10 years in relationship with her. some of it is LDR we were happy we see each other last july and august now she ignores my chat even my calls actually i call her alot, and messege her update her but she doesnt care do. But i always look at her fb account look at our picture if she deleted it it. but no im so glad. Do you think its a good sign that she is not sure to let me go?? Im so desperate to take her back i really miss he so much day by day 😔🥺
uren Stuekerjuergen Me and my ex were in a long distance relationship ship for 7 years. We broke up for the first time about 8 months ago. He said he didn’t know what he wanted. We got back together about 4 months later. He said he wanted us to work and that he wanted me to move to where he is, which was the plan all along. He pulled the plug again about a month ago and he broke up with me again. He said he is walking away from this relationship and that he is moving on. He told me he is in a relationship with someone else about 2 weeks after we broke up. Is there any hope for us to work again? I know we are great for each other if he wanted us to work. I’m doing no contact right now and working on myself which I should’ve done the first time but didn’t take advantage of that. Is here any hope for us to be together again even though he is in a relationship now?
Im also in a long distance relationship break up. It's already 6months then, for now im working to improve myself thus this technic work to get him back to me
I m in a LDR ... now my bf trying breakup just bcz of our timing and now he is into new group of friends just to avoid me ... its really frustrating He don't even want to see my face
So true,we became a little bit attracted again,n i said let’s get stay together n back together when i meet each other.then it back fire 🔥 😂.now she hates me,block me n told me not to disturb
Hi ooiweiyan, Don't worry about them dating someone new. They didn't leave you because they met someone, they left because they questioned your ability to make them happy long-term. Best, Natalie
Thank you coach Natalie ! Because we were in a short term long distance relationship. She told me we will never ever get back together. What should I do ? Please reply
My situation actually, except we were together for in a LDR for 4 years going on 5. (We did have visits in person though). She broke up with me (July 1st) cause she felt like I emotionally isolated her and put her down. With in a week, she started dating someone else she claims she likes him. They are a month and a few weeks in, almost 2 months, pretty sure it's a rebound relationship, they have both big signs (started dating quickly and her drawn to his qualities I lacked). We still actively talk and she tells me she still likes me a lot, but wants to explore and figure him out. Now they are in a LDR, he barely talks to her, but sometimes writes sweet poems to her. He apparently showed a lot of attention to her in person, so she's hoping he does that when she sees him again. I am still in love with her, but focused on healing and growing, though I do sometimes still breakdown. She has noticed a change with me she admitted, I share my thoughts and feelings more than I did when we were together. Oh btw, they both are in the military, I am not. They spent 3 months hanging out, she broke up with me, got with him right after, barely knows anything about him. He was moved to another base shortly after them dating. Now she is hoping to be moved to his base since he's more of a hands on lover, rather than LDR, which he is terrible at. She's waiting on her orders to see if they will be on the same base or not. She always says, if he doesn't workout, she'll break it off and come back to me. Been trying to distance myself, but our chemistry is super amazing, even while not together. I know my situation is pretty bad, but I do want her back. 😔😓😢
Hi!!! My case is recent, we were together for over a year and for work he had to move in January for a year.....he started to be a little distance and cold, when he came two weeks ago he break up with me, and saids that is too difficult for him to give me the time I deserve because he is really busy :( We break up in such a calm way I think because I was hoping he will take it back, before he left we spend one last time together and cried but we are still over.....he left one week ago and keeps writing me every 2-3 days......I REALLY DON'T KNOW if in this case I have to apply the not contact technique..... PLEASE help me!!!! Have a great week!!!!
Does NC work if the only thing keeping you and your long distance ex feeling chemistry is the conversations you have? I feel like I’m just pushing her farther away and our chemistry is fading more. I want to talk to her every day, but it hurts too much to see her with this new guy sometimes. She says that if I were there, she would easily pick me over him. I’m the reason we broke up, and I’m the one who has done all of the “changing” at this point. What do I do guys? Deal with the pain and reach out to strengthen our bond, or just wait until the next time we can see each other to even try
My ex brokeup with me after 15 months due to religious reasons. After I moved to a new country, we started to fall apart and now we are not talking to each other. I think she might be going back to her ex who lives nearer to her than me. I wish I could afford a coaching session with you guys but I can't, please help me
I was the one emotionally stable.. He took me for granted and he always blamed on the fact that he was single for a long time and he forgot how to behave with a woman (I was required the bare minimum from him) and still nothing after 2 years of long distance relationship... After he was like he was dumped me telling me he doesn't like to see me suffering because of his behavior and he needs time to fix himself "if he wants to fix doing it in his own timeline" lol. So he decided to dump me and left behind just hope.
What if it was somewhat mutual to break-up in the long distance relationship,but for other reasons and now we are close kinda but I still want to get back with him and it's been several months nearly a year..what do I do now?
My problem is like this: After break up, my ex lost everything, his home, business, everything and he was also forced to leave the country. He is very proud and after breaking up he hoped to show me he will have a great life without me, but all this happened. Shall I contact him to help him in this desperate situation?I want him back , but I think he hates to be in this situation. He also had issues related to insecurity, and this was the cause of break up. Is it wise to offer my help now, when he is so down?
I'm in a long distance relationship we was two years in relationship we break up one week ago she don't want to see me again because she have someone near her he loves her and she also likes him but she is know that boy is not give her good life after married like me but I can to her Mom sister with all family what should I do to i get her back please sir guide me
how can i inspire him... being in a long distance. .to love me back?? pls help me ...we just broke up recently...its being near about one month... exact one month before we meet for the frst time ...we wr having a 8 mnthss long distance relationship... he is shifting to another city now... nd i hav no idea wht is he up to... i initiated the brk up...as his behaviour ws changing...aftr 4 days of brk up... i realised that... i am unable to live without him...i calld him...nd beggd nd pleded vry badly... i hv done 100 msgs in a day.. nd 56 phon calls... bt he didn't answer any of this... he said as i initiated the brkup..thn end it finally...i miss him...badly.i cant spnt a sec without thinking of him..my friend tried to fix this... bt he said he is bzy in his nw life and only want to focus on his carrier... wht cn i do to get him back... its been nearly 20 days m not talking to him..pls help me...
Hi coach! My hubby was absolutely fine but since 6 months he is avoiding like anything and now hates me.. hates my voice and has no interest in me. I’m in USA and he in India, due to some reason he was there and it’s been 2 years we are away. Now he refuses to come to USA and wants to discontinue. I am shattered! I have done everything pleading, begging everything. Ppl say that he may b cheating that’s why but my heart doesn’t get convinced.Please advice
Question: we are long-distance and my ex has blocked me!! We live in different continents and won't see each other in another three months. How to go about this?
Hi Tuhin, Without knowing specifics about your situation, we're unable to provide an appropriate game plan. I invite you to consider scheduling a coaching session with us. www.withmyexagain.com/coaching Best, Natalie
Tuhin Bhattacharjee this happened to me too last year. I had to force myself to move on and talk to new people, after a month i didnt want him back and didnt care about him either. It takes time, but he came back after like 5months and i wanted nothing to do with him. Its hard ik, but i promise he/she will come back. It just takes time
Hi. Our relationship stays for almost 6 years, over three years we were in long distance. He broke up with me three weeks ago because of my neediness and the pressure of trying to move to my country. He wanted to move but turns out realising he doesn't want to give up his life in UK and became unhappy with me. For the past three weeks I keep failing to cut contact and show my neediness and he just become cooler and cooler. I'm going to see him in two weeks because I booked it before this happen. I don't know what to do with him and if seeing him will makes things worse. We see each other only once a year.
My ex boyfriend and I just broke up. We’re in a LDR. I’m suppose to fly to his country and see him in two weeks. Is it to soon? Should I give it more time before seeing it?
I was in LDR with my bf more than 6 years and now he is avoiding me saying his parents are not allowing , i don't know what should I do now , please please help me
Hii... My name is nevis am from india... Me and my ex were in 3 years long distance relationship.. She was already there on short term relationship for 3 months ..they mate each other 2 times even they kissed... But that guy dont why he left and moved on after 1 year he came back ..but on that gap i came into her life... She likes me even love me.. When that guy came i said you can move on with him if you wish she didnt ...everything was fine for 3 years we use to talk 10 hours a day including video calling ,texting ...years before we broke up for silly reason.. But she use to call me or text when i leave her alone.. But later i started chasing her but it didnt worked..1 month before i tried to contact her as i was blocked in all social media ..she hurted me alot she said am not a important person for her...she want nothing to do with me... Now am in no contact for 20 days...but you know she and her first love both follows on instagram each other...coaches please help me what to do
Hai coach ,i was in a long distance relationship and we had a break up one month ago after long fights...I pleaded begged.at last it ended with a good conversation...I said I will not contact u and be happy...stay healthy..now am in no contact period...is it good to go for no contact period...what should I do??or else i have to contact him and try to establish a chemistry..?
It’s been 7 months since my ex and I broke up because he was moving 2 hrs away from me. He’s been all over the place ever since the breakup. One day he will take and then next he will ignore me. About 3 months ago he said he still had feeling for me and that’s why he can’t see me in person yet but wanted to talk. After he said that he’s been ignoring me. I haven’t been contacting him that much at all. Ever since he ignored me I only contacted him 2 times to wish him a happy holidays and birthday. Yesterday was the first time us seeing each other in a mutual group of friends. He didn’t even say hello to me and I didn’t approach him at all either. But I could see in his face that he felt very uncomfortable. He would try to stay away from me even if that meant not talking to our friends. He was very distant and seemed upset and tense. What does this mean? I’m not planning on reaching out to him after this either as I feel like the way he behaved was very rude as I came there to support his and his friends performance.
what about being in long distance relationship break up, your ex says don't call or text them again, but still has you on social media and hasn't block you
Vashti Saroop That's as clear as can be, right? You don't want to reach out to her first ever again, and now you won't be tempted to imagine that she expects you to contact her. Use your energy to improve yourself for you. And move on already, keeping things casual, as there is no downside (for guys) to moving on immediately.
What do I do if he broke up with me just Saturday and I’m already going to have the opportunity to see him in a little less than a month (I’ve never seen him since starting the relationship, but he and I used to see each other a ton and be good friends before he moved), and he says he would still love to be my friend and enjoys talking to me but has just lost feelings for me? He says it’d still be “ok” to see me, and I can’t help wondering if he did maybe he’d change his mind, or is less than a month too soon with the whole “no contact” thing? It’s either this or I wait 4 1/2 months to see him. :/ It’s kinda sad because he and I were once so excited to see each other but because of timing I just never had the opportunity to show him how much I love him in person. I’d love any advice! Thanks!
Coach my question is how to create the chemistry or communicate in the right way if my ex is stubborn and we were in a long distance relationship for a year and before that we were best freinds for 2 years. We had a lot of rough patches. How to create that chemistry? I m also blocked on the social media.
Am I the only one that wants coach Adrian to share his story about his relationship?
More long distance relationship videos pleaseeeeeee
Hi Mercedez!
We'll certainly do this!
Best,
Natalie
O yes please!
And what if you're were in a long distance short term relationship... Is it also possible to get her back?
@@eveliensikking3834 are you back with your ex ?
Alex and Adrian, I want to say that you both gave me hope.
I was in a long distance relationship. I live in California while my Ex is in the Philippines. She broke up with me after Christmas, and I leave for military training soon. But Adrian, after you telling us viewers that you got back together with your long distance girlfriend after YEARS of separation, I now have hope.
That's so cool. I'm from the Philippines and my ex is from California. He had been dating for 3 years but we had never met in person. He broke up with me today because he's not happy anymore and he can't handle the distance. But I'm still hoping and I have this gut feeling that we will be together in person. I don't know if I should trust my intuition.
Me too Im from the philippines and my ex is from CALIFORNIA but his a Pilipino we broke up for almost 1 month.
I really love him we. Had been 7 years in a long distance relationship
Im Hoping that we can still get back together
Jose Luis Acosta u
Layfon Itself how often would you see your ex from california? I had an amazing relationship. 6 months same coty but then she had to move to another state. We did long distance a year but now she broke ip. Sucks
I feel you. I'm a Filipina. My ex is living in New Mexico. It really hurts he broke up with me because he's tired of me 💔
I went to sleep everyday at nite with your video on and Wake up in the mornin at 06.00 Am and open your chanel.Thank you for all the videos everyday, its really effect me. im still on NC with my long distance ex its more than a month.. I follow all your lead, not reach out to him or stalking on his media social but im focus working on my self, upgrade my self and quess what i feel? im felling so peaceful.. Im healing slowy and i regain my confidence and my power again.never felt this way before. I still love my ex but i need more time, i know he talking with someone new, but its ok.He stil stalked me on my social media. Sooner or letter He will see my worth.. I can feel it. I will reach out to him when im completly ready with a new version of me. Thank you coach Natalie, Coach Adrian & Coach Alex. You the real MVP
Hello, how is it going?
@@malinaschroder2000 not too well i guess 🤔😂
Exactly same situation in my life.....I'm also following your advice and regaining my true self. But sometimes feel very sad.....Trying to distract my attention from being low. I know he will feel my worth nd surely wl contact me soon.
Same here :D
THE VIDEO I HAVE BEEN WAITING FORRRRR👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Alex Mercedez did you get him back?
You are the most personal mentor, actually care, in every video
Me and my ex were broken up for 2 years had our relationships lived our lives. And now we’re both single and trying to connect more.
A lot of people including myself do or have done long distance so this is well appreciated
Guys, I do not feel alone or an outcast anymore; I had a LDR, She does not want to see me, she has blocked me from every single way of comunications, but still, I have hopes. I do not know if I am on the verge of loosing her for ever or not, I do not know, but since I cannot do a thing about the past, I'll hold to the conviction that I am writting a happy future for both of us.
You were separated for years and got back together??? Now I have hope...
Thank you both so much for this video! I'd love to see more content on the first initial meet up and/or date with a long distance ex. Depending on how far away you live from your ex, you might not have seen each other for many, many months or even longer. You often talk about seeing each other to "seal the deal". What I'm interested in is what you mean with this and if you should approach the meet up differently than if you live closer to each other, as you likely wont have a second, third and so forth date in the nearest future to build up attraction.
Sincerely,
Clara
Honestly long distance could be better if you were patient if you aren’t in a long distance and she or he is always there it’s different I’m glad this video was out bc I need this💪🏾
This is sooo right... i was sooo a anxious with being with him that it stressed him out😔 i wish i have watched this before we actually broke up...
Finally a video on long-distance! Thanks so much, and more of these please!
Thanks a lot Alex...
Please please make more videos on long distance break up...
Yes!!!! Finally a video that applies to my situation! Thank you guys, keep em coming:)
Adrian I luv that you shared that story- gives so much hope!
Theres no way to go from 0 to 100. You have to start over and build rapport again in a positive way and if they want to as well.
For me being in a military relationship. We’re friends for now and he even said he doesn’t wanna date in the military at all. We broke up because we know how busy the navy/military is. He even said we may get back together but right now he won’t even be looking for a few years himself. We live in the same city Philadelphia but he’s in Chicago because of his job. I was hoping to to close that long distance gap to come visit him whenever or he comes home I’ll take him out somewhere special for the holidays. I really love this man and I hope everything goes well for us.
THats crazy me and my bf of 3 years jus broke up recently and we are long distance. That’s crazy u guys jus made this vid at the right time!
Ariana how is it going between you two now?
Wish they gave more ways though on how so get the ex back, like specific steps.
Hi JJ,
I know you'd like specific steps, but unfortunately, these videos target a generalized audience, who are each going through very unique experiences. If you'd like steps tailored to your unique situation, I invite you to schedule a coaching session with us : www.withmyexagain.com/coaching
All the best!
Coach Natalie
Thank you guys. Every video is so helpful.
Can you make some more videos going in depth of the process you should take if your ex is seeing someone else?
Eg: if they’ll forget about you if you don’t reach out, or if they’ll move on, and various steps to take
Hi Brandon,
We can certainly make videos pertaining to this topic! Stay tuned!
Best,
Natalie
Adrian after you telling us you went back with your ex after years of separation just gave me hope again.... I live in Tahiti (French Polynesia) and she lives in California. I was in a long distance relationship for like 6 years & we broke up this February 2018. Please give us moreee videos about it. Thank you.
We are in no contact now
What a great team. Thanks for great advice.
Hello guys! God bless all of you! LDR are really painful I’ve been there and I’m still there tbh... I’m that person who had a really stubborn ex and never thought she will reach out, trust me when I said that I really mean it. Take time for you not for them, I know is not easy and is really hard but trust god and he will help you. During my process of recovery I’ve lost 60 lbs! Doing exercises is the best feeling you can get about yourself never expect to look great for other as long you love yourself and feel great is the best thing!
And is been 6 months and I have to say I haven’t recovered completely and I feel there still more to work on... changes doesn’t happened over night it takes time it does and a lot! I look great than better I can attached any girl I want but I’m not completely recovered! Don’t expect to break up with your ex and next day with them and they see the change I’ve been there. I blocked my ex because It was really painful see her post and mostly was because she considered me as toxic person. 2 months later she text me with and none sense message(I blocked her on messages, Snapchat, IG, FB and kik I leave WhatsApp open ) since then my ex reach out to me once a week just to see how I’m doing! Is a process that will take time. Meanwhile keep working on you don’t stop just because they reach out to you, you have to keep the work is for you not for them! You need it ! That’s all I have to say.
If you need someone to talk to!
So you can keep focus on you
Here you have a friend and you are free to ask me :)
Hi..can I email you..thanks
Thank you coach for ur support I already didn't have any afraid or depressed of it I believe it will be a wonderful journey for me...
Thank you so much for watching out videos! We are always here to help.
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Im always watching ur videos just to make myself more confident and positive
And its help alot..
Thank you guys! Big love. You've stumulated my hopes . I'm planning on getting him back to me though I don't know yet how buh I hope he can be committed to me again. Buh thx lots. Salute.
More videos on long distance plz this was so informative
You saying to meet up we can’t .. we are just teens and he lives all the way across the world not possible for another 7 years because in India they are so strict now idk what to do
Thank you thank you thank you. You guys are amazing. So question for both coaches: my ex just broke up with me today (I saw it coming and it was the second break up so I knew at this point) he bought plane tickets to come visit me before we broke up. Is it good that he comes to say goodbye a week after our breakup? Should I encourage him to come or let him decide or not have him coming? Thanks 🙏🏻 please keep these videos up!
Thank you so much for this videos. I really love it
I was in a long-distance relationship for only 19 days and we haven’t said yet whether we broke or not. However, we haven’t talked for three days already. My Ex is from Hongkong but he has moved to live in Malaysia for many years and I’m from Cambodia. The reason that we don’t talk anymore is that I knew for sure that he was going to cheat on me by asking me to pay in advance for the package he sent to me, but actually he didn’t and used an email to cheat me as well; however, he has still not admitted that he is deceiving me. You may wonder why I still seek for your advice because, honestly so, I really really love him and want to be with him in the future. Now, should I talk to him first and ask him for a chance to start again. Please, I need your advice since I’m hurt but o don’t want to lose him as well. Thanks 🙏
Thanks for these encouraging words really appreciate
That helped a little more. Since I love in NYC and her in Texas, I know it will be a VERY long patience game. I wouldn't know how to create passion because I'm so focused on not creating bad energy like before. She is in a relationship with someone else and we text back and forth sometimes about cooking and movies. I'm just sifting through past traumas, trying to be a better version and every now and again would go on dates with women. At the same time idk if she's even seeing my social media because we don't follow each other.
How do you know if he is your soul mate and he's going to wait for you? . If he left you for someone else because it is a long distance relationship and he doesn't want to wait for you, do you still wait for him? What are chances for you to get him back to your life?
If she’s seeing someone else all that is is just a rebound
This was great and gave me hope, thank you.
So happy to help Kaizen!
Coach Samira
You guys give me so much HOPE!!!!!
We try! We just hope that something gets accomplished with that hope :) Hope without action is just wishful thinking :) - Coach Adrian
You really gave me hope.
Please give more info on long distance break ups!
... Me and my boyfriend were in long distance relationship for 10 months... He was a short tempered guy..and yelled at me many times but never tried to leave me because he was very possesive, caring and loving.. And i know he still loves me.. Infact he was much more serious in the relationship than i was. But the situation turned out to be worst.. I was preparing for an entrance exam which is very frustrating and even dealing with the frustration of long distance. Out of anxiety i said" that i m giving up.. I m not sure that if we will ever be able to meet and be together and i don't want this long distance ". Afterwards he stopped responding to me... But after my continous texting.. He was very angry at me.. And said that there is nothing between us and he cannot tolerate any more.. He said me to be happy here in my city.. And he will live happily there. I continously kept apologising..even after he asked me not to text him.. I kept gnatting him until he blocked me in every social media. I never thought that he will be affected so bad with our first fight.. It was really surprising that he has started to avoid me . One day i opened his instagram to see his messages. I saw him texting to his friend that "he is very disappointed... He wanted someone who can never be his own" he was getting constant mood turbulations and blamed love for his suffering... He was even saying that love is waste of time.. And all that... I am feeling that he wants to move on.. It wasn't a clear break up.. But i feel he will never talk to me back. Now because he has blocked me we are in no contact period.. I will be done with my exam next month.. Should i hope that he will try to contact me.. Because somewhere i feel that he did this so that i can study and also it looks to me that he is moving on
I love him so much and I want him back.
Thank you wery mutch coatch alex adrian i whas realy needing this !!!😓😢i am in a long distance break up its bin 5 month s me the netherlands she portugal and made mistakes i should nt done all my emotions like poker cards shatterd all over the place i felt !! not beeing patience not giving here space i realized now faloowing video i learn alot from . its bin a wile ive heard here since november 2017 .we broke up in half september i decited to go no contact no point in talking to here when she made here decision .i stil think about here alot and feelings havent gone away .it was here birthday to the 16 feb 2018 ive stayed no contact by not sending any message thinking she would expect .my feelings for here are stil strong but in time im not sure how it would be .she wil always be my first intence love ive ewer felt if she reaches out to me one day in back of my mind stil hoping to have a normal conversation !! Any suggestions for me coach alex adrian ??
Thanks for your videos it's really helping me. i'm just starting the "no contact". I'm in a long distance break up,i'm a girl and my ex is a girl. Does the same thing applies if she broke up with me because her reason is she's not making me happy and i'm too good for her. We broke up before but we got back together. And this time i'm approaching the no contact. But how does it work for me if she's the one who thinks she's not worth it? Please I need your help
How many times do you try to get together before you stop asking?
Thank you sir 😍
You're welcome, Harsh. Thank you for watching.
Coach Alex
Can we do a video about long distance military relationships please ?!
After dating for 3 months, He broke up with me barely a week ago. It's not because of distance it's because of my trust issues and insecurities. We used to fight a lot and he said we shouldn't talk anymore and I'm not even trying to say anything coz it might make him even more mad and he might end up blocking me. I've been in two ldr before this one and they left in both the cases, i wanted them back as well but nothing worked. But this time i thought he was the end of my broken love life and I really thought he was the one. but i have no hopes now. I don't know what to do. Please help me.
He blocked me without any reason. He loves me so much I know but he just blocked me. I feel that natural chemistry with him. I go for the no contact rule for 30days. I know he's got no one and I'm his only woman. I feel he will come back to me.
So ive been doing radio silence for about 2 months. We were seeing each other about every two months until covid hit...then the unknowns, anxiety, lonesomeness, arguing started.
If she blocked you from everything, in long distance relationship. And doesn't contact you for more than a month. How can she back in your life ?
Call her and see
You give me hope, but after I visited..I found out he had several lovers he was pursuing online..I felt trapped..had to enjoy the rest of the visit knowing this. He swore up and down he has now CHOSE me. But my intuition told me otherwise, as I found that he txt one of his lovers the very next morning I was with him. I felt TORN..it was an unreal experience that I had to endure. He was an Egyptian. Still pursues me like nothing ever happened. I now am walking away...what a waste of time 4 years. Damn
I need specific help with an issue. My ex is giving me mixed signals they are confusing and VERY hurtful. Can i contact one of you and send you screenshots of a conversation? I miss him dearly and am drawing in grief and confusion.
Hey me and my boyfriend broke up about 1 and a half month ago and I won’t him so badly back but he has a new girl and I don’t know what to do.. can someone help me please
Dear Coach, Thanks for your videos. It helps me to overcome my situation.
My bf left me cause (month ago) he thinks that he felt out of love and he makes us suffer in our situation. He is a nice guy and we used to have a great connection and a lot of common interests (more than 5 years of relationship). We used to live together and I was absent during the week. He told me that he felt a strong emotion for someone else and so it sucked his feelings for me two months ago.
I didnt beg or anything, I kept it classy and I was nice. We talked several times via texts cause I need to move out of our apartment. I told him that I respect him for his decision and he thanked me and said we should go for our lives.
What are the chances that he comes back to me?
Thanks
Saray did he come back?
Hi. I have been in a long distance relationship with a Colombian girl since January 2016 till September 2018. I loved her alot and am devastated from the breakup. I am Canadian and we tried to get her to come to Canada but due to some hard restrictions her simple tourist visa was rejected back in July. She wants me to go to Colombia which I am leaving in 5 days to see her. Her whole family really wants us to get back together but ultimately it is her decision. Any suggestions on what we should discuss or how we can reconcile would be most appreciated. Thank you
Oh I feel your pain lol, hope you figured it out
I have long distance relationship since 3 years , I have not words to example my story , he live in Europe I live in Asian , we loved each other very much , he committed with me , I'm 100% honest with him , I were share every moment of my life , he was told me I'm crazy about you , lots of false promises with me , IN and Out my life I'm always accept his apology , we have 4 hours time difference , we were talk all night long I forget to sleep , for his person 😔 what he give me , just Waite , suddenly he disappeared no contact why I don't know , I'm going through Agony for waiting , for 7 months , I all tha time I read our 3 years messages , I never believe this person cheated me ,💔 this love very badly affected on my whole life , 😔 my soul are burn , why I'm not forget his person who forget me , I'm stuck empty , I wonder how a person 3 years can lie ? He kept acting and I got it in love 😢 I wish my heart was like that I forget it , 💔😢 I won't love anymore 😢💔
coach adrian, please told me how you make your long distance work?
Its been 3 months that she breakup with me.in Past 10 years in relationship with her. some of it is LDR we were happy we see each other last july and august now she ignores my chat even my calls actually i call her alot, and messege her update her but she doesnt care do. But i always look at her fb account look at our picture if she deleted it it. but no im so glad. Do you think its a good sign that she is not sure to let me go?? Im so desperate to take her back i really miss he so much day by day 😔🥺
uren Stuekerjuergen
Me and my ex were in a long distance relationship ship for 7 years. We broke up for the first time about 8 months ago. He said he didn’t know what he wanted. We got back together about 4 months later. He said he wanted us to work and that he wanted me to move to where he is, which was the plan all along. He pulled the plug again about a month ago and he broke up with me again. He said he is walking away from this relationship and that he is moving on. He told me he is in a relationship with someone else about 2 weeks after we broke up. Is there any hope for us to work again? I know we are great for each other if he wanted us to work. I’m doing no contact right now and working on myself which I should’ve done the first time but didn’t take advantage of that. Is here any hope for us to be together again even though he is in a relationship now?
How can talk to you in person
I was in long distance for 6 years and he Ended up this January 2020 so much pain 😢
i feel you bro😔 god be with you
@@meemoo12322 try and see for yourself
Im also in a long distance relationship break up. It's already 6months then, for now im working to improve myself thus this technic work to get him back to me
I m in a LDR ... now my bf trying breakup just bcz of our timing and now he is into new group of friends just to avoid me ... its really frustrating
He don't even want to see my face
My ex doesn't care about me after we break 😢 what should I do? 😢
Is it good to block her or i just left that way until i return near her
how should I build the chemistry, I'm a lady and my partner is overseas has blocked me everywhere possible..?
Thank you !!
So true,we became a little bit attracted again,n i said let’s get stay together n back together when i meet each other.then it back fire 🔥 😂.now she hates me,block me n told me not to disturb
What if she's dating someone new now ?
Hi ooiweiyan,
Don't worry about them dating someone new. They didn't leave you because they met someone, they left because they questioned your ability to make them happy long-term.
Best,
Natalie
Thank you coach Natalie ! Because we were in a short term long distance relationship. She told me we will never ever get back together. What should I do ? Please reply
Find someone new. Don't get hung up on one short term woman
My situation actually, except we were together for in a LDR for 4 years going on 5. (We did have visits in person though). She broke up with me (July 1st) cause she felt like I emotionally isolated her and put her down. With in a week, she started dating someone else she claims she likes him. They are a month and a few weeks in, almost 2 months, pretty sure it's a rebound relationship, they have both big signs (started dating quickly and her drawn to his qualities I lacked). We still actively talk and she tells me she still likes me a lot, but wants to explore and figure him out. Now they are in a LDR, he barely talks to her, but sometimes writes sweet poems to her. He apparently showed a lot of attention to her in person, so she's hoping he does that when she sees him again. I am still in love with her, but focused on healing and growing, though I do sometimes still breakdown. She has noticed a change with me she admitted, I share my thoughts and feelings more than I did when we were together.
Oh btw, they both are in the military, I am not. They spent 3 months hanging out, she broke up with me, got with him right after, barely knows anything about him. He was moved to another base shortly after them dating. Now she is hoping to be moved to his base since he's more of a hands on lover, rather than LDR, which he is terrible at. She's waiting on her orders to see if they will be on the same base or not.
She always says, if he doesn't workout, she'll break it off and come back to me. Been trying to distance myself, but our chemistry is super amazing, even while not together.
I know my situation is pretty bad, but I do want her back. 😔😓😢
Hi!!!
My case is recent, we were together for over a year and for work he had to move in January for a year.....he started to be a little distance and cold, when he came two weeks ago he break up with me, and saids that is too difficult for him to give me the time I deserve because he is really busy :(
We break up in such a calm way I think because I was hoping he will take it back, before he left we spend one last time together and cried but we are still over.....he left one week ago and keeps writing me every 2-3 days......I REALLY DON'T KNOW if in this case I have to apply the not contact technique..... PLEASE help me!!!!
Have a great week!!!!
Alex sir is like awesome
Does NC work if the only thing keeping you and your long distance ex feeling chemistry is the conversations you have? I feel like I’m just pushing her farther away and our chemistry is fading more. I want to talk to her every day, but it hurts too much to see her with this new guy sometimes. She says that if I were there, she would easily pick me over him. I’m the reason we broke up, and I’m the one who has done all of the “changing” at this point.
What do I do guys? Deal with the pain and reach out to strengthen our bond, or just wait until the next time we can see each other to even try
My ex brokeup with me after 15 months due to religious reasons. After I moved to a new country, we started to fall apart and now we are not talking to each other. I think she might be going back to her ex who lives nearer to her than me.
I wish I could afford a coaching session with you guys but I can't, please help me
I was the one emotionally stable.. He took me for granted and he always blamed on the fact that he was single for a long time and he forgot how to behave with a woman (I was required the bare minimum from him) and still nothing after 2 years of long distance relationship... After he was like he was dumped me telling me he doesn't like to see me suffering because of his behavior and he needs time to fix himself "if he wants to fix doing it in his own timeline" lol. So he decided to dump me and left behind just hope.
I am going through the same situation. It is becoming tough everyday. I so want to move on ! Do share your experience , it will help me a lot
What if it was somewhat mutual to break-up in the long distance relationship,but for other reasons and now we are close kinda but I still want to get back with him and it's been several months nearly a year..what do I do now?
Just ask him or mention it and see how he reacts.
My problem is like this: After break up, my ex lost everything, his home, business, everything and he was also forced to leave the country. He is very proud and after breaking up he hoped to show me he will have a great life without me, but all this happened. Shall I contact him to help him in this desperate situation?I want him back , but I think he hates to be in this situation. He also had issues related to insecurity, and this was the cause of break up. Is it wise to offer my help now, when he is so down?
Lucia Nestor same problem with mine
I'm in a long distance relationship we was two years in relationship we break up one week ago she don't want to see me again because she have someone near her he loves her and she also likes him but she is know that boy is not give her good life after married like me but I can to her Mom sister with all family what should I do to i get her back please sir guide me
How to re create the chemistry if we have the long distance....?
how can i inspire him... being in a long distance. .to love me back?? pls help me ...we just broke up recently...its being near about one month... exact one month before we meet for the frst time ...we wr having a 8 mnthss long distance relationship... he is shifting to another city now... nd i hav no idea wht is he up to... i initiated the brk up...as his behaviour ws changing...aftr 4 days of brk up... i realised that... i am unable to live without him...i calld him...nd beggd nd pleded vry badly... i hv done 100 msgs in a day.. nd 56 phon calls... bt he didn't answer any of this... he said as i initiated the brkup..thn end it finally...i miss him...badly.i cant spnt a sec without thinking of him..my friend tried to fix this... bt he said he is bzy in his nw life and only want to focus on his carrier... wht cn i do to get him back... its been nearly 20 days m not talking to him..pls help me...
Hi coach! My hubby was absolutely fine but since 6 months he is avoiding like anything and now hates me.. hates my voice and has no interest in me. I’m in USA and he in India, due to some reason he was there and it’s been 2 years we are away. Now he refuses to come to USA and wants to discontinue. I am shattered! I have done everything pleading, begging everything. Ppl say that he may b cheating that’s why but my heart doesn’t get convinced.Please advice
Question: we are long-distance and my ex has blocked me!! We live in different continents and won't see each other in another three months. How to go about this?
Hi Tuhin,
Without knowing specifics about your situation, we're unable to provide an appropriate game plan. I invite you to consider scheduling a coaching session with us.
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching
Best,
Natalie
Mine block me too
Tuhin Bhattacharjee this happened to me too last year. I had to force myself to move on and talk to new people, after a month i didnt want him back and didnt care about him either. It takes time, but he came back after like 5months and i wanted nothing to do with him. Its hard ik, but i promise he/she will come back. It just takes time
Hi. Our relationship stays for almost 6 years, over three years we were in long distance. He broke up with me three weeks ago because of my neediness and the pressure of trying to move to my country. He wanted to move but turns out realising he doesn't want to give up his life in UK and became unhappy with me. For the past three weeks I keep failing to cut contact and show my neediness and he just become cooler and cooler. I'm going to see him in two weeks because I booked it before this happen. I don't know what to do with him and if seeing him will makes things worse. We see each other only once a year.
My ex boyfriend and I just broke up. We’re in a LDR. I’m suppose to fly to his country and see him in two weeks. Is it to soon? Should I give it more time before seeing it?
I was in LDR with my bf more than 6 years and now he is avoiding me saying his parents are not allowing , i don't know what should I do now , please please help me
Hii... My name is nevis am from india... Me and my ex were in 3 years long distance relationship.. She was already there on short term relationship for 3 months ..they mate each other 2 times even they kissed... But that guy dont why he left and moved on after 1 year he came back ..but on that gap i came into her life... She likes me even love me.. When that guy came i said you can move on with him if you wish she didnt ...everything was fine for 3 years we use to talk 10 hours a day including video calling ,texting ...years before we broke up for silly reason.. But she use to call me or text when i leave her alone.. But later i started chasing her but it didnt worked..1 month before i tried to contact her as i was blocked in all social media ..she hurted me alot she said am not a important person for her...she want nothing to do with me... Now am in no contact for 20 days...but you know she and her first love both follows on instagram each other...coaches please help me what to do
Hai coach ,i was in a long distance relationship and we had a break up one month ago after long fights...I pleaded begged.at last it ended with a good conversation...I said I will not contact u and be happy...stay healthy..now am in no contact period...is it good to go for no contact period...what should I do??or else i have to contact him and try to establish a chemistry..?
It’s been 7 months since my ex and I broke up because he was moving 2 hrs away from me. He’s been all over the place ever since the breakup. One day he will take and then next he will ignore me. About 3 months ago he said he still had feeling for me and that’s why he can’t see me in person yet but wanted to talk. After he said that he’s been ignoring me. I haven’t been contacting him that much at all. Ever since he ignored me I only contacted him 2 times to wish him a happy holidays and birthday. Yesterday was the first time us seeing each other in a mutual group of friends. He didn’t even say hello to me and I didn’t approach him at all either. But I could see in his face that he felt very uncomfortable. He would try to stay away from me even if that meant not talking to our friends. He was very distant and seemed upset and tense. What does this mean? I’m not planning on reaching out to him after this either as I feel like the way he behaved was very rude as I came there to support his and his friends performance.
what about being in long distance relationship break up, your ex says don't call or text them again, but still has you on social media and hasn't block you
Vashti Saroop
That's as clear as can be, right? You don't want to reach out to her first ever again, and now you won't be tempted to imagine that she expects you to contact her.
Use your energy to improve yourself for you. And move on already, keeping things casual, as there is no downside (for guys) to moving on immediately.
thank you so much :)
Should I still move to her city if she just recently broke up with me, it was still in my plans to move there to be in that city.
Time and recovery.
What do I do if he broke up with me just Saturday and I’m already going to have the opportunity to see him in a little less than a month (I’ve never seen him since starting the relationship, but he and I used to see each other a ton and be good friends before he moved), and he says he would still love to be my friend and enjoys talking to me but has just lost feelings for me? He says it’d still be “ok” to see me, and I can’t help wondering if he did maybe he’d change his mind, or is less than a month too soon with the whole “no contact” thing? It’s either this or I wait 4 1/2 months to see him. :/ It’s kinda sad because he and I were once so excited to see each other but because of timing I just never had the opportunity to show him how much I love him in person. I’d love any advice! Thanks!
Can I message him after no contact that I’m traveling to his country asking him to meet me up ?
How was the meeting?
I've planned to do this and I asked him out. He said yes. Were going to meet on August or September.
what if she said shes over it? she started dating someone 2 days after the breakup, my friend are saying that shes guarded,
Sir when I call her she will not reciving & avoiding me what would I want to do
I can't move on so I am so much depressed
What if she found someone and is dating someone during a no contact period and he is there with her, and I'm 2000 miles away?
What about if I’m gonna see him soon
Coach my question is how to create the chemistry or communicate in the right way if my ex is stubborn and we were in a long distance relationship for a year and before that we were best freinds for 2 years. We had a lot of rough patches. How to create that chemistry? I m also blocked on the social media.