Isithembu 1. Requires a man who will treat all wives the same 2. A man who will be able to satisfy all woman's needs 3. Requires financial stability not necessarily millions
Mmmm ngempelaaa babu Mtshali qinisile mele ube yindoda ezaziyo especially ephaketheni nokuba strong cz u must satisfy dem nango cansi,mostly sthembu esekengazbona kunzima cz kunobandlululo especially komdala nkosikazi,even muzi,I ndlela ondla ngayo nezingane azondliwa kokfanayo,it was my first time to see isthembu esiphethwe nge ndlela efanayo ngo Musa Mseleku,chaaaa Mseleku I just wish He can teach amadoda anesthembu ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani...even sinenzondo kumakhosikazi bt it's better if nephethwe nge ndlela eyodwa,cz izingane azizondani.. Mseleku ngbonga I ndlela esakhe asphethe ngayo 👍
@@giftkorope5968 I dont respond to stupid misogynists. Some of us have voices, our own money and brains. Most of these idiots who want isithembu lately cant even afford themselves financially they are struggling, isithembu boosts their broken egos. So miss me with that " accept it or not " rubbish.
Isithembu is not for everyone. You can have imali but not be able to manage isithembu. Just like growing up esithenjini does nit mean uzokhona ukuganga or ukuganwa isithembu.
On the point of 1st wife keep bearing girls..... then the husband has to take a second wife!!!! IT IS A MAN WHO DETERMINES THE GENDER OF A CHILD!!!!! Please guys hayibo
That is what eurocentric view tells u,that gender of a child is determined by men, Afrocentric view tells us that women determines the gender n hence men that have taken isithembu,they did get sons on da second wife...we are tired of ppl believing lies that we r fed by Europeans n then we look down on what is ours as Africans.
Mina ningifonele when you airing our views.I have a story to tell....@Gagasi FM.I would like to remain anonymous kodwa men need to learn the damage ngobudlabha ababenzayo when they initiate isthembu whether sivunywe ithongo or not.
Isithembu 1. Requires a man who will treat all wives the same 2. A man who will be able to satisfy all woman's needs 3. Requires financial stability not necessarily millions
Lokhu okushoyo kungivezela ngokusobala ukuthi awusazi isithembu
Ubaba uMtshali uyasazi isizulu futh Uma ebeka, ubeka into ezwakalayo..
Aww sukani madoda , Isalukwazi sendonda, uLock Smith wethu. Aunty Ushaa wethu madoda. 💃💃💃💃💃💃 #GogoBathiniMbathaTV Maluju
uXolani Mtshali kmele abekhona njalo on the show... engathi kuningi esizokufunda kuyena
Ay uyanemba uhlabangani yazi isinanqa isinanqa ushuni nje oyisinanqa loh into enamathelen ethule ethe du ey isinanqa 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Ngizonda into enye ku sithembu suke kuzodlala umthi ngoba niya competer
Mmmm ngempelaaa babu Mtshali qinisile mele ube yindoda ezaziyo especially ephaketheni nokuba strong cz u must satisfy dem nango cansi,mostly sthembu esekengazbona kunzima cz kunobandlululo especially komdala nkosikazi,even muzi,I ndlela ondla ngayo nezingane azondliwa kokfanayo,it was my first time to see isthembu esiphethwe nge ndlela efanayo ngo Musa Mseleku,chaaaa Mseleku I just wish He can teach amadoda anesthembu ukuthi kwenziwa kanjani...even sinenzondo kumakhosikazi bt it's better if nephethwe nge ndlela eyodwa,cz izingane azizondani.. Mseleku ngbonga I ndlela esakhe asphethe ngayo 👍
Can we have part 2 with uMusa Mseleku no sisi Ayanda Borotho?
Yayqhatha 😂
Siyayicela lena!
Wuuuuh what a nice topic bathong🤗🤗🙌🙌🙌💕💕 😘🔥👏👏👏
Ishubile... Part2 must be scheduled very soon. Including uMseleku!
Niyokhuluma nini ngenzondo, competition, nobu thakathi obenziwa abafazi base sithenjini or as a result of isithembu.
Kubalulekile naloko
Where are the women on this panel? Isithembu is also about women, where is thier voice?
Nope , it's either you accept it or not
@@giftkorope5968 I dont respond to stupid misogynists. Some of us have voices, our own money and brains. Most of these idiots who want isithembu lately cant even afford themselves financially they are struggling, isithembu boosts their broken egos. So miss me with that " accept it or not "
rubbish.
yaz yamnandi indaba!! very informative.
You always give me strength every day. Thanks
Ngiyamthanda uBaba xolani Mtshali uma ethi awukwazi ukuthatha isithembu usahlulwa uku satisfyer u first wife needs and wants.
Lolu hlelo yiUniversity! Siyabonga Sohlaza, Galela, Salukazi seNdoda, nawe Khathini. Engikufunda lapha ngiyakubongela kakhulu..👌🏿👌🏿
How i miss thse show . Woow 😍
Kanti kwenze njani ama Audio Podcast ningasawafaki kwiWebsite?
Isithembu sihle ngoba uma indoda ingekho endlini usukewazi ikuphi knokuthi indoda ihamba ibhabhabala ihambilala nabantu besfazane abangayganile inhloso yesthembu ukwandisumuzi wobabamkhulu bakho nami ngyeneliseka ngalencazelo yesthembu anyway big up madoda angempela
Into ongayazi kwesinye iskhathi ayikubulali,manje le oyaziyo NEVER
@@patriciakhumalo6977 nihlupha lapho ke Nina ngoba anizwani neqiniso kodwa nizwana namanga Kanye nezimfihlo,uma ezobanomakhwapheni owakwakho,nxt thing kuzovela izingane zakhe ezigcwele izwe lonke leli,ezihluphekayo n worse zivele esefile yena,sezifuna amafa,bese kuba ngathi wena wala nefa lika baba wazo
Kodwa umNakwethu uyethula intombi akukona ukucela loku
Isithembu is not for everyone. You can have imali but not be able to manage isithembu. Just like growing up esithenjini does nit mean uzokhona ukuganga or ukuganwa isithembu.
In my case, I was told sisa jola by his grandma that , he has to marry isithembu, i think I was 3 months in.
Good for you, you had a choice to decide. Isithembu asisibi inkinga indlela abantu abasenza ngayo
I love the background track, anyway I can get it?
On the point of 1st wife keep bearing girls..... then the husband has to take a second wife!!!! IT IS A MAN WHO DETERMINES THE GENDER OF A CHILD!!!!! Please guys hayibo
That is what eurocentric view tells u,that gender of a child is determined by men, Afrocentric view tells us that women determines the gender n hence men that have taken isithembu,they did get sons on da second wife...we are tired of ppl believing lies that we r fed by Europeans n then we look down on what is ours as Africans.
@@mzwakhethenjwayo3618 it's not just a eurocentric view but a medical fact!
Lona owsfazane osuke egangile, ebese kthiwa angabuya esthebeni as long as ebuya nenkomo nabakubo. Usebuya nezifo uzofafazela laba abangaphumanga!! Likuphi iqiniso lapho?
Aycha Mtshali wangibekela kamnandi!
Part2 plz Alex... haibo nakhu sesisaba umendo ngenxa yamadoda angenawo umthambo ka"NO!" ...isthembu siwkuzehlisa isthunzi njengendoda. "USUKE UZBIZELANI NGENDODA UMA USAHLULWA UKUZIHLONIPHA???".
Ngathi awuzwanga kahle izizathu zesithembu,futhi uma uyindoda enesithembu,loko wukuzihlonipha than ukuba wumnumzane onomfazi oyedwa kodwa ube uhamba ubhabhalala,uba nezingane izwe lonke
Thenjwayo Mzwakhe uze ibhebhetheke nj... ismilo sobukzibiza ngendonda sisuke sishoneph?
Kwixesha langoku isithembu asilunganga imisebenzi ayikho namapeni emadodeni akabhali shem kubi.
mmm kubi ke okwamadoda angabhali
Engani umjolo nawu ukhona nje loku umfazi eyedwa kodwa amadoda anabomakhwapheni n nani bafazi anifebi go
Imali isebendza noma kungasiso isthembu idingeka kunkosikazi oyedwa nje kumele umondle abantu abayeke kusebendzisa isithembu ngobufebe
Bathong. There is a famous man who's had isthembu for 15 years now and his dad umfundisi. The wives have learned to get along just fine.
Guys Why don't you upload last week's show?
Trucap Só true. I thought maybe there was no broadcast.
Alex can we have a topic of divorce ngokwesintu.
Ayikho ngokwesintu. Uzothi musulobola uthi ulobola umfazi womuntu? Uzomulobola kumkhenyana wakhe? Lenyongo athelwe ngayo uzoyisula kanjani? Ngamafuphe, there's is no divorce.
Uphuma phambili u Mantshinga uzwakala eyisoka kakhulu ngiyaqala ukuqondana naye.unolwazi futhi uyasazisa nesikhathi uyashesha ukufika kuvuthondaba
Where are the women on this panel?
This was an introductory episode. Here we were defining what isithembu is and we only touched lightly on the impact is has/causes.
Gagasi, please upload the Thursday video too 🙏
@@GAGASIFM That's even more reason to have female voices as well. Let's be more conscientious about inclusivity.
Mina ningifonele when you airing our views.I have a story to tell....@Gagasi FM.I would like to remain anonymous kodwa men need to learn the damage ngobudlabha ababenzayo when they initiate isthembu whether sivunywe ithongo or not.
Sondliwa ngenhla nange nzansi isthembu wabeka baba
lol... "Kuzogcina kunemashi ebaleni", ngiyawucabanga nje lowo mbhikisho!
😅😅
Molo Alex, mina angikathathwa kodwa umuntu engizwana naye unomuntu abanabantwana naye, ngase ngiba pregnant uhambee washo kubo ukuthi ufuna ukungithatha noma engakaqedi ukukhokha kwamamkhulu, wase etshela umamkhulu ngami, so ngiyakholelwa ukuthi ubaba wuye okumele atshele umamkhulu ngomamncane
Honey, you were sleeping with indoda yomuntu? Angikujaji..
Yebo kukanjalo @Mbali Ntshingila kodwa ngokwesintu kuvumelekile uma indoda izogcina ngokukthatha
Sicela nisichazela nge child adoption esintwini ukuthi ivumelekile yini, nokuthi umntwana umfaka kanjani esibongweni sakho.
Volume volume estudio asizwa kahle
The audio is above +3DB, Wawa. Please check your speakers/audio device.
ngiyaphikisana nalenkulumo eku 24: 40 to 25:00 aksilo iqiniso njelelo...
It isn't true hey
Very true I tell you...
BubuMtshali🙏
Kuzogcina kune mashi lebaleni😂😂😂😂🙌 ay Mtshali
nam iyanghlekisa leyo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Mbhanjwa🤘🏽🤝
Salukazi sendoda - cela ungenze ngibe slim camera man 🤭🏃
Order comrade
Utat'uMtshali uyicacisa kakuhle lendaba
👌🏽mmm
Mhhhm what a sensitive topic
Hini isulumane?
Muslim or Indians
Sivenkosi Sigcine Quintus Vuwani Muslim
kwaze kwamnandi estudio
Lendaba ithinta wonke umuntu wesilisa
24:40 😯 I don't agree with Mbanjwa on this one.
Uyanhlanhlatha nje la uMbanjwa, ngiyala nami.
@@sazibuthelezi4164 Ukunhlanhlatha is a harsh word to use. Phendule njengo Phaphama.
Isithembhi asisihle mhlobo
Yaze yabuhlungu le ndaba yesithembu mina ngisezinhlelweni zokushiya emshadweni ngoba umyeni wami nomndeni wakhe bath kuzofuneka aqhubeke alobole angene ingoduso yomfowabo owashona manje nje ngeke ngilunge isithembu nje naleso
Shiya phansi lowo doti ongakuyisi ndawo sthandwa uqale phansi. WnGena ku lowo Mshado wazi ukuthi kuzoba uwena nomyeni wakho zange athi vuh indaba yezithembu. Shiya uqale phansi
Ay sisi ngoba vele ekugcineni asinakho ukuthula isthembu
Isithembu sibi siyahlukumezana and sinenzondo kakhulu , I hate it , even abantwana bayazondana.
Mina ngicela ukubuza ukuthi umfazi uma enganile waphinga kangaya wabika kubo kodwa wabuya engaphethe lutho aqubeke nokuhla laphe khaya indoda ingamxoleli aqubeke ahlale ngenkani aqome ekhona layikhaya. Sikhona yini isidingo sokuba ubaba wekhaya ukuba amusapote ngoba sehlala ngenkani layikhaya. ubophisa ubaba wekhaya ufuna amsabote ngenkani aze ayombophisa. Amaphoyisa nawo athi kamodle ngapha uhleli nabakubo layikhaya. Ngicela ukucaciseleka kulokhu
Eish!cishe ngakhuluma kabi...yisilingo leso,uma esajola esegcekeni,kusho ukuthi akaziboni enephutha n uwunomalungelo lowo,akahambe nawo amaphoyisa lawo,akayi ngani kuyofuna umsebenzi or ayohlala nama soka wakhe,ikhona kodwa enye indlela yokususa isinengiso kuwe
Kodwa Mantshinga ngyakuzwa mina...ayi ikuwe lento uyembethe