Ephesians 4:32: "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you". Christ calls us to be kind but your right in the sense that you shouldn’t be submissive to other theological ideas because the word of truth is forever
Right lol we ain’t gonna win nobody to Christ name calling and insulting people let alone restore a brother or sister back to the narrow path. 😂 We should desire redemption not condemnation
We are to be kind and have compassion towards others Christ is kind and He has compassion for us Scripture tells us to be slow to anger but if we do get angry not to allow anger to cause us to sin. Christ got angry for the right reasons but Christ cared for others his anger was towards the ungodly things but Christ didn't act in hate He spoke the truth being compassionat towards others is part of what separates us from the world. Christ gave compassion to mary who was a woman who slept around He forgave her and said go and sin no more. Followers of the Lord Christ need to study Scripture and take to heart what Scripture says we must gain wisdom in Christ and be more Christ like we must hate what God hates and love what God loves.
Ive been struggling with this, i try to be nice but its hard and i prefer being more serious and bold and telling people off when i need to. But i thought that it means being nice but then i realized you were right jesus was kind but when he needed to be he was direct and bold. So thank you for this. I wont be a jerk 😂 ill just be bold and speak the truth and be direct when i need to
The fact that I came across this video is like the Voice of the Lord telling me the exact word "Stop being too nice to others." I tried my best to be nice in all my ways to please others because I thought it was the right thing to do and in return I was always taken as GRANTED,now I understand. Thank you 🙏 my brother in Christ.May the Lord bless you,as you continue on spreading the TRUTH.This video is truly meant for me and who are like me.Amen.
I started reading Galatians today! I kind of looked over that "If I were to please man, I would not be a servant to Christ" verse without thinking too deeply about it. I recognized it when you said it. God gave a verse and then gave a lesson using that verse later in the day. My lack of connection to that shown me that I have been disengaged in spiritual study, which drew me a little farther from God, which has been the root for some sin. I have learned two things today and have been reminded of the key to righteousness. Thank you
Thanks a LOT for letting yourself be used by the Holy Spirit, to set before us the Word, to expose the truth here. I needed to hear this, and God is dealing with me on this. May God bless you and your whole family powerfuly in Jesus' mighty, awesome, majestic name, amen!! ❤🔥🙌🔥🔥🔥
This video made me realize that I was wrong and I shouldn't be nice to my neighbor but to be kind, bold, direct onto it. and I'm glad you shared this facts. May God bless you always.
There was a guy who said this about God. *"Jesus isn't nice he's kind"* I learned somethings. God loves you, your soul. He doesn't care about your feelings he cares about You. There was a man who said he almost died but he saw Jesus with a not so happy look sitting on what he described to be a stone chair. He told Jesus how life was cruel and hard. He said Jesus gave him a look like he was crazy and stupid. I cannot confirm if what happened to the man was true nor can I say it was a lie either, cause almost dying isn't something you can ALWAYS fake about.
One of the worst dialectic attacks to us christians, I can't count the massive amount of atheists who told me "you're a hypocrite, doesn't your religion says to turn the other cheek?"
I've encountered this before - once you show strenght of character, a lot of people see you as abstructive or stubborn, but it earns respect from the right people. Most importantly is that it keeps you grounded in your moral principles.
This video helps me open my eyes more. But before I was really the kind who helped everyone and always even without asking, well it ruined me slowly... And then a period came in my life, which in principle continues to this day, where I dislike all the people around me because they once did not reciprocate my love with love. And then I thought that they and no one else deserve my love and help, but now... Everything is slowly falling into place. We need to help only those people who need it and ask for it, because in the world, unfortunately, there are still those who use this help without gratitude, like cancer... Thank you brother for your great work! God bless you!
Wow such good timing. I really needed to hear this, been struggling as a people pleaser for years and as I rededicated my life to Christ back in 2019 I've struggled extra hard with being bold but also kind. Didn't even know there was a difference between being nice and kind. Now it makes sense. Thank you so much for this, this is going to help me with my faith and my mental health haha
Same goes for me i feel like i need to stop being so ashamed of gospel of Jesus Christ and start being bold and courageous for Jesus Christ and stand up for truth because that what happened when i don't tell people about Jesus Christ but i attend to run and hide just keep it to myself because I'm afraid to offend people because i don't know what people are going through
Use to volunteering and give money to either friends or beggars, they started following.me around and the so called friends never spoke to me unless they needed cash, i had to put my foot down but made me feel bitter, the lord call us to charity but many of those who asked me were just lazy and taking advantage, also o tried to be nice to people but all it did is made me more alone, so i Just embrace it, i pray, i fast when i can, go work, go Church and go gym, otherwise im home.
@Tom-sd9jb It Is also written to turn the other cheek, Always forgive, of they ask for the cloack give the tunic also and of they force you for One mile, go with them two
Amen. Thank you for sharing this message. A nice person would never tell the truth, but a virtuous person would tell the truth even when it hurts 🙏🏻❤️🕊️✝️
Amen amazing message to explain how Jesus was not nice, but kind. The world always asks Christians to stop, "forcing religion" even though there is a price for not Entrusting your life through Jesus. Great message and keep it up bro ✝❤
Nice is the meaning of being extremely valuable to the people that can hurt you. Sure, is good to be nice, but when you are too nice is harmful, causing us to get burned out and depressed because at the end of the day, you aren’t being nice to yourself. That’s what Satan wants us to do with his system to be nice and a righter. We are the salt of the world, we provide but we sting. Glory to GOD the father and law of everything.
I want to thank you so much for this video and what you have said in it. My whole life I have mostly sought the approval of other people and was extremely depressed when somebody didn’t laugh at a joke I made or didn’t like me. I wanted everyone to like me, both me and my Mom who I sort of got it from. We’re both people pleasers. I would foolishly help people blindly and try to be a “good person” by helping even when it hurt me greatly. I almost never stood up for myself which caused people to chew me up and spit me out. At the end of the day my backbreaking kindness was all for nothing as I only got treated like dirt and only received hate from others. I was betrayed over and over and nobody ever showed me an ounce of true respect, which along with other things caused me greatly depression and severe anxiety my whole life. Only when I really got to really know Jesus did I realize that I should not try to please man but God. What you have said has reinforced this new notion and thanks to you I can walk stronger in the Lord God Bless and thank you again.
I love the fact that you state biblical truth and verses God bless you brother Elias and you the viewer .these are some truths that may be uncomfortable but we must face !!!
This teaching is false. There doesn't exist any lukewarm christian. There ain't no way you'd be burning out. "As the only thing that burns are the sins of the world." Maybe look into sam shamoun. He's with the spirit, brother, and denays his flashy desires.
i will not be told who i am supposed to be or not supposed to be. no human can tell me who i am or why i should change for anyone, i will be the person i am meant to be in the eyes of Jesus Christ as a christian is meant to be as they say love your neighbor as you love yourself
Right us as christians are also supposed to have conduct and etiquette their is difference between righteous anger and lack of temperance. We are to imitate Christ as he followed God as a Jew. He did not come to abolish the law but to magnify it shalom to all ❤.
This is a good video but sometimes the best we can do is be nice especially when we don’t want to. It’s a really tough line to walk alone but that’s why we get help from the spirit!
Identifying as sin is vanity. It's as if saying with your entire existence I commit to sin. Saying to Jesus with your entire soul you have nothing to offer me. We are to be Holy temples unto the Lord Jesus Holy and set apart.
Thank you so much for this video. I have seen characters like Luisa from encanto or Aphmau from SMP who are nice and there people pleasers. They don’t say no to other peoples and they neglect their own needs and get burned out by helping everyone. They are not kind, they are nice. Thank you for teaching the difference of being kind and nice. A kind person can be compassionate but also be assertive, and a nice person cares too much about what other people think
Good points, brother. God bless you, and God bless all my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ. Blessings from Australia. Edit: you have a new subscriber. Keep up the good work.
This is tricky because while yes, there were times Jesus was strict, he didn't belittle every person that had doubt either. So just be careful. When his followers had doubt, he didn't yell at them going like"what are you stupid?" He was patient.
@iElia Direct and clear? Well, it depends on who he talked to. He did speak in parables after all. Matthew 13-10-12 10 The disciples came to him and asked, “Why do you speak to the people in parables?” 11 He replied, “Because the knowledge of the secrets of the kingdom of heaven has been given to you, but not to them. 12 Whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them Some people have to be eased into it. Some may even fight you on it. Pressure can make diamonds, yes, but pressure can also crumble rock into pieces. You want to build a foundation, not just hammer it into bits with aggressive force.
Gots to resist Evil. Otherwise, it won't flee. Resist evil the devil will flee. Otherwise, FASTING & PRAYER & PRAISE your way out if the situation, issue, problems. Read Holy Bible everyday outloud. Do the words in red, that you should observe.
I honestly, being nice isn't part of my life. The big part of me is that I am still mostly a behavioral attitude that I couldn't control myself as frustrated, mad, and confused while studying the bible.
Societies Christians manifest fruits of people pleasing before Jesus Christ and the Father.....Disciples manifest fruits of first pleasing the Father and Jesus Christ no matter what!! Better to obey God than to fear men.
In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God. THE HEAVENLY FATHER RULES AND MADE EVERYTHING WITH A SINGLE WORD. God told Adam to take dominion over the earth, satan was jealous, and wisperd sin to mankind. So God sent holy men to preach the holy word to the chosen people, then later on it came to the gentles. GOD WAS MANIFESTED IN JESUS CHRIST. Meaning what ever was in this man was God, and Bible say The word was made Flesh. Jesus Christ is the embodiment of the evaluating Holy Word.
Ephesians 4:32: "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you".
Christ calls us to be kind but your right in the sense that you shouldn’t be submissive to other theological ideas because the word of truth is forever
Right lol we ain’t gonna win nobody to Christ name calling and insulting people let alone restore a brother or sister back to the narrow path. 😂
We should desire redemption not condemnation
True
Yeah this is demonic
Y'all didn't finish the video, I can see
@@DJ_BumperYTthis comment isn't denying the video😂😂
God timing is perfect, the fact that I came across this video is definitely the Holy Spirit 🙏🏾🔥. Thank you Father
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Agree i am grateful tooo
Same also❤❤❤
We are to be kind and have compassion towards others Christ is kind and He has compassion for us Scripture tells us to be slow to anger but if we do get angry not to allow anger to cause us to sin. Christ got angry for the right reasons but Christ cared for others his anger was towards the ungodly things but Christ didn't act in hate He spoke the truth being compassionat towards others is part of what separates us from the world. Christ gave compassion to mary who was a woman who slept around He forgave her and said go and sin no more. Followers of the Lord Christ need to study Scripture and take to heart what Scripture says we must gain wisdom in Christ and be more Christ like we must hate what God hates and love what God loves.
Yeah me too
Jesus he's not nice he's kind 👑
The fruits of the Holy Spirit kind ,honest, humble, gentle, patient, loving and caring
Ive been struggling with this, i try to be nice but its hard and i prefer being more serious and bold and telling people off when i need to. But i thought that it means being nice but then i realized you were right jesus was kind but when he needed to be he was direct and bold. So thank you for this. I wont be a jerk 😂 ill just be bold and speak the truth and be direct when i need to
Me too
The fact that I came across this video is like the Voice of the Lord telling me the exact word "Stop being too nice to others." I tried my best to be nice in all my ways to please others because I thought it was the right thing to do and in return I was always taken as GRANTED,now I understand. Thank you 🙏 my brother in Christ.May the Lord bless you,as you continue on spreading the TRUTH.This video is truly meant for me and who are like me.Amen.
I started reading Galatians today! I kind of looked over that "If I were to please man, I would not be a servant to Christ" verse without thinking too deeply about it. I recognized it when you said it. God gave a verse and then gave a lesson using that verse later in the day. My lack of connection to that shown me that I have been disengaged in spiritual study, which drew me a little farther from God, which has been the root for some sin. I have learned two things today and have been reminded of the key to righteousness. Thank you
Ty brother in Christ, I was encouraged with Galatians 1:10
@@DrewAujus 💪🏽💪🏽
Thanks a LOT for letting yourself be used by the Holy Spirit, to set before us the Word, to expose the truth here. I needed to hear this, and God is dealing with me on this. May God bless you and your whole family powerfuly in Jesus' mighty, awesome, majestic name, amen!! ❤🔥🙌🔥🔥🔥
This video made me realize that I was wrong and I shouldn't be nice to my neighbor but to be kind, bold, direct onto it. and I'm glad you shared this facts. May God bless you always.
There was a guy who said this about God. *"Jesus isn't nice he's kind"* I learned somethings. God loves you, your soul. He doesn't care about your feelings he cares about You. There was a man who said he almost died but he saw Jesus with a not so happy look sitting on what he described to be a stone chair. He told Jesus how life was cruel and hard. He said Jesus gave him a look like he was crazy and stupid. I cannot confirm if what happened to the man was true nor can I say it was a lie either, cause almost dying isn't something you can ALWAYS fake about.
One of the worst dialectic attacks to us christians, I can't count the massive amount of atheists who told me "you're a hypocrite, doesn't your religion says to turn the other cheek?"
They think Christians should get walked over
The reason why I find it hard to be bold and stern because I always spear people's feelings.
I've encountered this before - once you show strenght of character, a lot of people see you as abstructive or stubborn, but it earns respect from the right people. Most importantly is that it keeps you grounded in your moral principles.
Greatly depends on context
Praise God
Amen 🙏🙌❤️✝️☦️🛐 Thank you Lord for this message and opportunity, and also great content my guy.
Thank God brother 🙏
This video helps me open my eyes more. But before I was really the kind who helped everyone and always even without asking, well it ruined me slowly... And then a period came in my life, which in principle continues to this day, where I dislike all the people around me because they once did not reciprocate my love with love. And then I thought that they and no one else deserve my love and help, but now... Everything is slowly falling into place. We need to help only those people who need it and ask for it, because in the world, unfortunately, there are still those who use this help without gratitude, like cancer... Thank you brother for your great work! God bless you!
Be gentle as doves but wise as serpents
Wow such good timing. I really needed to hear this, been struggling as a people pleaser for years and as I rededicated my life to Christ back in 2019 I've struggled extra hard with being bold but also kind. Didn't even know there was a difference between being nice and kind. Now it makes sense. Thank you so much for this, this is going to help me with my faith and my mental health haha
this is a sign my friend a follower of god is lukewarm i had the urge to tell him hes wrong but i didnt want to seem judgeful but then this came up
how is that “judgeful”?
@ I didn’t want to force my beliefs so I thought it was judged up but I learned it’s not now
That’s great.
Same goes for me i feel like i need to stop being so ashamed of gospel of Jesus Christ and start being bold and courageous for Jesus Christ and stand up for truth because that what happened when i don't tell people about Jesus Christ but i attend to run and hide just keep it to myself because I'm afraid to offend people because i don't know what people are going through
Don't be afraid of meeting resistance; resistance training is what builds strength.
Thank you for your encouragement. It's tough sometimes being rejected by the world but we need more Christians like this.
That's what I call true Christianity.
Use to volunteering and give money to either friends or beggars, they started following.me around and the so called friends never spoke to me unless they needed cash, i had to put my foot down but made me feel bitter, the lord call us to charity but many of those who asked me were just lazy and taking advantage, also o tried to be nice to people but all it did is made me more alone, so i Just embrace it, i pray, i fast when i can, go work, go Church and go gym, otherwise im home.
Be gentle as doves and wise as serpents.
@Tom-sd9jb It Is also written to turn the other cheek, Always forgive, of they ask for the cloack give the tunic also and of they force you for One mile, go with them two
Amen. Thank you for sharing this message. A nice person would never tell the truth, but a virtuous person would tell the truth even when it hurts 🙏🏻❤️🕊️✝️
💥💥Very powerful sir, I love the naked truth you speak, May God empower more and grant you more boldness to strengthen us through your messages
Dude, thanks man. I needed to hear this! God bless you! 🙏🏼
@@metalrocker627 My pleasure 🙏
I need this thanks bro god bless
Amen amazing message to explain how Jesus was not nice, but kind. The world always asks Christians to stop, "forcing religion" even though there is a price for not Entrusting your life through Jesus. Great message and keep it up bro ✝❤
You look like an Arab and it warms my heart to see Arabs who are growing in faith and praising Jesus Christ mashallah❤
I’m Armenian
@iElia cool! Orthodox brother! Greetings from Romania! 🇷🇴🫱🏻🫲🏽🇦🇲
Nice is the meaning of being extremely valuable to the people that can hurt you. Sure, is good to be nice, but when you are too nice is harmful, causing us to get burned out and depressed because at the end of the day, you aren’t being nice to yourself. That’s what Satan wants us to do with his system to be nice and a righter. We are the salt of the world, we provide but we sting. Glory to GOD the father and law of everything.
I am soo convicted by this.
Thank you brother 🙏🏼 ❤
Thank you.Jesus is Lord
Praise our Lord and God Jesus Christ for what he has done for us Amen. ❤❤❤❤❤❤🛐🛐🛐🛐🛐✝️✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏🙏👑👑👑👑👑
Amen.
We aren't pure we are sinners and christ paid the price.
I needed to see this bc i have fallen into being nice not kind
Thank you so much for opening my eyes about righteousness . I slowly come to know about Jesus as the savior and the word of God. Keep going brother.
I want to thank you so much for this video and what you have said in it. My whole life I have mostly sought the approval of other people and was extremely depressed when somebody didn’t laugh at a joke I made or didn’t like me. I wanted everyone to like me, both me and my Mom who I sort of got it from. We’re both people pleasers. I would foolishly help people blindly and try to be a “good person” by helping even when it hurt me greatly. I almost never stood up for myself which caused people to chew me up and spit me out. At the end of the day my backbreaking kindness was all for nothing as I only got treated like dirt and only received hate from others. I was betrayed over and over and nobody ever showed me an ounce of true respect, which along with other things caused me greatly depression and severe anxiety my whole life. Only when I really got to really know Jesus did I realize that I should not try to please man but God. What you have said has reinforced this new notion and thanks to you I can walk stronger in the Lord God Bless and thank you again.
@@moya3199 🙏❤️
Thank you, god bless !
I love the fact that you state biblical truth and verses God bless you brother Elias and you the viewer .these are some truths that may be uncomfortable but we must face !!!
Did not know this, thank you for spreading these words. God bless you all!
This teaching is false. There doesn't exist any lukewarm christian.
There ain't no way you'd be burning out. "As the only thing that burns are the sins of the world."
Maybe look into sam shamoun. He's with the spirit, brother, and denays his flashy desires.
God is Good and God bless you
I connect myself to this message and I stand in agreement with this message in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth amen!
i will not be told who i am supposed to be or not supposed to be. no human can tell me who i am or why i should change for anyone, i will be the person i am meant to be in the eyes of Jesus Christ as a christian is meant to be as they say love your neighbor as you love yourself
Yes love your neighbour as thyself, but dont let people make use of you & dont sacrifice your own peace if you dont want to do stuff.
Right us as christians are also supposed to have conduct and etiquette their is difference between righteous anger and lack of temperance. We are to imitate Christ as he followed God as a Jew. He did not come to abolish the law but to magnify it shalom to all ❤.
MAY THE LORD BE WITH YOU
@@DavidDolapoAdeyemi God bless brother
I needed this ❤🙏
Amen, God bless You All 🙏❤️
I'm such a mr nice guy but Thank be to God I saw this video, Glory to God ❤❤❤
This is a good video but sometimes the best we can do is be nice especially when we don’t want to. It’s a really tough line to walk alone but that’s why we get help from the spirit!
Jesus said to mortify the flesh. Mortify means to cause extreme shame or sever guilt unto repentance
Identifying as sin is vanity. It's as if saying with your entire existence I commit to sin. Saying to Jesus with your entire soul you have nothing to offer me. We are to be Holy temples unto the Lord Jesus Holy and set apart.
God Forever
Precisely so! God bless you man
Amen! Thank you for this video!
God bless!
Thank you
@@spokanecedar8886 My pleasure
Thank you so much for this video. I have seen characters like Luisa from encanto or Aphmau from SMP who are nice and there people pleasers. They don’t say no to other peoples and they neglect their own needs and get burned out by helping everyone. They are not kind, they are nice. Thank you for teaching the difference of being kind and nice. A kind person can be compassionate but also be assertive, and a nice person cares too much about what other people think
That's the reason why do what you need to do, but don't allow anyone to take advantage of you.
Thank you for this brother! This blessed me.
Well, that's true !
Good points, brother.
God bless you, and God bless all my fellow brothers and sisters in Christ.
Blessings from Australia.
Edit: you have a new subscriber. Keep up the good work.
Lately I've been hearing more men saying: "I'm a good person, but I am NOT a 'nice' guy."
thats a red pill mentality bro
Thanks, Brother... Bless You😇
Thanks God
Very well said, brother.
GREAT VIDEO 🙌💗🙌
Glad you liked it!!
Great video
WORD 🔥
Thank you for this video it's really good advice! ❤️🙏✝️🙏❤️✝️😁
Amen thank you for the help
Well said ❤
Well done brother, us Christians must understand the difference between being kind and being nice. Christian men are getting too soft nowadays
Amen
Amen ❤
This is tricky because while yes, there were times Jesus was strict, he didn't belittle every person that had doubt either. So just be careful.
When his followers had doubt, he didn't yell at them going like"what are you stupid?" He was patient.
When in doubt, reach out to the Holy Spirit to provide you with clarity.
@@scottsommer9843 Yes patient. But also direct / clear in his communication.
@iElia Direct and clear? Well, it depends on who he talked to. He did speak in parables after all.
Matthew 13-10-12
10 The disciples came to him and asked, “Why do you speak to the people in parables?”
11 He replied, “Because the knowledge of the secrets of the kingdom of heaven has been given to you, but not to them. 12 Whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them
Some people have to be eased into it. Some may even fight you on it. Pressure can make diamonds, yes, but pressure can also crumble rock into pieces. You want to build a foundation, not just hammer it into bits with aggressive force.
Thank You for this message.
Bro i love u thank u for this God bless u brother
Thank you I needed this
I’ve officially stopped being a people please such a relief
Gots to resist Evil. Otherwise, it won't flee.
Resist evil the devil will flee.
Otherwise, FASTING & PRAYER & PRAISE your way out if the situation, issue, problems.
Read Holy Bible everyday outloud.
Do the words in red, that you should observe.
I should've seen a video like that like 3 years ago,
@@endorphineguy share!
Love this!!!
*JESUS WAS NICE WITH GOOD PEOPLE, AND JESUS ALWAYS WAS FOR HIS FATHER AND TRUTH. WE SHOULD LIVE LIKE HIM.*
"why do you call me good? no one is good, except God alone"
@giuseppegalvagno90 *Your right, your faithful, just live like Jesus. (and spread the gospel). Btw God bless you. God loves you.*
AMEN☦❤🙏🏻
I honestly, being nice isn't part of my life. The big part of me is that I am still mostly a behavioral attitude that I couldn't control myself as frustrated, mad, and confused while studying the bible.
He was nice and you should be nice, but you also need to call other out on their hypocrisy and other 2 faced actions just as Jesus did
Amen to that
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾 Amen 😊
Societies Christians manifest fruits of people pleasing before Jesus Christ and the Father.....Disciples manifest fruits of first pleasing the Father and Jesus Christ no matter what!!
Better to obey God than to fear men.
Amen ❤❤❤❤
In the beginning was the word and the word was with God and the word was God. THE HEAVENLY FATHER RULES AND MADE EVERYTHING WITH A SINGLE WORD. God told Adam to take dominion over the earth, satan was jealous, and wisperd sin to mankind. So God sent holy men to preach the holy word to the chosen people, then later on it came to the gentles. GOD WAS MANIFESTED IN JESUS CHRIST. Meaning what ever was in this man was God, and Bible say The word was made Flesh. Jesus Christ is the embodiment of the evaluating Holy Word.
So good!
thanks this was very helpful
Glad it helped
excellent video
Thank u
this was a great video!
no worries, there are no "nice" preachers on yt here.
they are very agressive and don't hold back when attacking.
mostly not kind either.
Amen bro, Jesus is holy and righteous but he is not Mr. Nice guy.
Jesus Christ is our savior and king. Amen.