girly everything you say hits so hard, in every video and podcast 😭 I cant help but feel like you're attracting people in to help you as well, I was studying to be a coach and Ive done so much research into neurodivergencies, psychology, theology and how to bring science into the spiritual from a really grounded place to help people who struggle with their beliefs make sense and root them in evidence based reality. I remember in a vlog I just saw, you mentioned not having any friends, and I am in the same boat with a lot of the same health challenges, ADHD, cptsd, eds, and its so hard to make and keep friends, but I feel like maybe we could be friends 😅 I have literally never ever done this (pitched a friendship in a youtube comment) and it feels extremely parasocial but I hope you can feel the intent is pure and I do genuinely feel like I need to hear the things you have to say, and also like I might have something of value to add and say back, so many things you mention are my special interests.... I just cant shake the feeling that we would get along 😂 💕okay byeee I hope you have a wonderful day
Aw wow that’s amazing, thanks so much for sharing. It’s such a great irony that the people I seem to resonate most with aren’t the ones in my “real life” - but I’m learning that maybe that’s the point! (Deffo doing a podcast on that at some point 😅). Haha we love a friendship pitch! If you have instagram, that’s a great place to start? I love chatting in my dms, and have developed some really close internet friendships there. It’s amazing we have so much in common (thank you algorithm gods hahaha!) xx
This is a perfectly timed video for me - I'm in limbo following a miscarriage 3 1/2 months ago. I've grieved my baby but my body isn't ovulating so I'm stuck in the limbo of waiting for my body to sort itself out! And I'm finding every day DRAGS so much, and I can get so easily frustrated. I think reminding yourself you can't control it, distracting in the meantime and trying to appreciate your current situation can help a lot. I'm a control-type person like you so I know the struggle! Wishing you all the love and hope for whatever you're going through xx
Wow thank you for such a powerful share. I can’t imagine how torturous that must be. Without trying to “fix” things for you, I do have two videos that may be of interest, one on hormone imbalance, which may help rejig things, and one on my own miscarriage, which may help you feel seen. Take what resonates- just wanted to let you know they’re there. I’m with you on the distractions as well. Although when it’s been so loud this week sometimes the distraction has been pulling the car over and sitting and asking myself big questions: “What am I making this mean?” “What is this really about?” “Why do I feel like x is the only option?” It’s helped me do that “moving through” grief type expression of emotion rather than letting it get stuck in stagnation. Anyway, I RAMBLE! Sending you so much love you brave brave warrior ❤️🫶🏻 thank you for being here.
@@rebeccaaaawild I'll definitely give those a watch, thank you dear 🥰 I really appreciate all you've said. I'm hoping I'm not in limbo for much longer! 🤞
girly everything you say hits so hard, in every video and podcast 😭 I cant help but feel like you're attracting people in to help you as well, I was studying to be a coach and Ive done so much research into neurodivergencies, psychology, theology and how to bring science into the spiritual from a really grounded place to help people who struggle with their beliefs make sense and root them in evidence based reality. I remember in a vlog I just saw, you mentioned not having any friends, and I am in the same boat with a lot of the same health challenges, ADHD, cptsd, eds, and its so hard to make and keep friends, but I feel like maybe we could be friends 😅 I have literally never ever done this (pitched a friendship in a youtube comment) and it feels extremely parasocial but I hope you can feel the intent is pure and I do genuinely feel like I need to hear the things you have to say, and also like I might have something of value to add and say back, so many things you mention are my special interests.... I just cant shake the feeling that we would get along 😂 💕okay byeee I hope you have a wonderful day
Aw wow that’s amazing, thanks so much for sharing. It’s such a great irony that the people I seem to resonate most with aren’t the ones in my “real life” - but I’m learning that maybe that’s the point! (Deffo doing a podcast on that at some point 😅). Haha we love a friendship pitch! If you have instagram, that’s a great place to start? I love chatting in my dms, and have developed some really close internet friendships there. It’s amazing we have so much in common (thank you algorithm gods hahaha!) xx
This is a perfectly timed video for me - I'm in limbo following a miscarriage 3 1/2 months ago. I've grieved my baby but my body isn't ovulating so I'm stuck in the limbo of waiting for my body to sort itself out! And I'm finding every day DRAGS so much, and I can get so easily frustrated.
I think reminding yourself you can't control it, distracting in the meantime and trying to appreciate your current situation can help a lot. I'm a control-type person like you so I know the struggle!
Wishing you all the love and hope for whatever you're going through xx
Wow thank you for such a powerful share. I can’t imagine how torturous that must be. Without trying to “fix” things for you, I do have two videos that may be of interest, one on hormone imbalance, which may help rejig things, and one on my own miscarriage, which may help you feel seen. Take what resonates- just wanted to let you know they’re there.
I’m with you on the distractions as well. Although when it’s been so loud this week sometimes the distraction has been pulling the car over and sitting and asking myself big questions: “What am I making this mean?” “What is this really about?” “Why do I feel like x is the only option?”
It’s helped me do that “moving through” grief type expression of emotion rather than letting it get stuck in stagnation. Anyway, I RAMBLE! Sending you so much love you brave brave warrior ❤️🫶🏻 thank you for being here.
@@rebeccaaaawild I'll definitely give those a watch, thank you dear 🥰 I really appreciate all you've said. I'm hoping I'm not in limbo for much longer! 🤞