Beyond Frugal: Let's get moving! A day in the life of a frugal girl.

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  • @denisebolin-clark8826
    @denisebolin-clark8826 11 місяців тому +6

    Don't ever apologize for not " moving fast enough". You owe folks nothing. This is your life, not theirs.

  • @kerrybyers257
    @kerrybyers257 11 місяців тому +9

    Hugs,Vivi. Moving is damn hard. I started bawling when you teared up. Didn’t want to leave my home either back in 2017. The country privacy and nature had been my energy, joy and solace. Hubby & I had started the house together after I left military nursing and I spent the years after his death in 2005 finishing it, flower gardening and rehabbing wildlife. Money was very tight so I thrifted and sold antiques. Then, I needed to move. It’s hard to know whether to hang around the old area or try somewhere completely new. As you and your street friend reminisced, I realized no area remains the same whether you stay or go. Neither do we. You seem exceedingly self aware of your essential needs and life affirming wants. That’s a huge start. Remember, your “tubey” friends are with you every step of the journey if you’ll have us along. ❤Kerry

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Oh goodness, what a hard time that must have been for you. Thank you for your kind words lovely and for sharing your experience.....I certainly feel the good wishes of my 'tubey' friends (I love that!). X

  • @ninaoaster8039
    @ninaoaster8039 11 місяців тому +10

    Oh for heaven's sake. You get to move when you're good and ready to move!

  • @mrsc3120
    @mrsc3120 11 місяців тому +8

    Treat yourself to an electric throw Vivi. Super cheap on electric and you’ll be as snug as a bug. No need to sit there feeling the cold.

  • @grumpy_poo
    @grumpy_poo 11 місяців тому +4

    Those tears are probably grateful tears... for the happy times you have had in this place you have occupied for 18 years ... On the morning I left my place in Izmir, I sat outside the the mosque in the early morning to listen to the call to prayer for the last time, sat with a neighbour chatting about leaving, walked past the bread shop smelling the familiar aromas and shed a few unexpected tears . I knew it was my time to move on but was thankful I had the times I did....... bitter sweet

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      Oh my goodness........your description has just made me tearful again. What beautiful memories. 💖

    • @beverley1539
      @beverley1539 11 місяців тому

      Can relate bittersweet memories 🇨🇦🐝

  • @anitaevans2432
    @anitaevans2432 11 місяців тому +4

    I agree about the frustration with solicitors. It took my solicitor almost six years to get back some of my money, when I escaped from domestic abuse. Apparently this was largely due to one solicitor leaving & thus passing my case on to a colleague. What on earth! In most other professions, when someone needs to take over something, there is no problem at all! I had to continually chase them & at the end of their feet dragging, needless to say, they had no problem at all in extremely quickly presenting me with a huge bill. Grrrrr! Good luck lovely Vivi 😊

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +4

      Ugh, how infuriating! I often think, with these cases, what if I had done my nursing job so tardily? Answer......children would have died! It's beyond shoddy! I'm glad you got it sorted eventually. X

  • @marilyn9155
    @marilyn9155 11 місяців тому +5

    Morning Vivi, no need to explain yourself or apologize..anyone who has been through a house move knows what you are feeling . You go when YOU are ready . I have been debating a move for years but the thought is daunting …Ha ha!! After I retired many people asked me ( much to my annoyance) so what do you DO all day --that’s when I show them my calendar with most every square filled ( mostly appointments) . This usually usually puts a stop to the questions!!
    Oh dear Vivi- please take care on the stairway. I’m afraid you’ll lose footing ..cleaning the window..I’m sure one of the chaps would help you ..
    It’s a lovely space though and I’m certain you will have it done up the way you want it to be -I enjoyed the outing very much -
    You don’t need me to tell you how smart, able, disciplined and organized you are .,, you will be okay !
    Have a good rest of the day ❤xx
    Hi Ron !!

  • @maryfennell9672
    @maryfennell9672 11 місяців тому +4

    Vivi, there will be another perfect little home for you when the time is right and you will love it as much as this one and not have all those stairs to worry about, maybe even a little garden! Moving is a big thing, especially on your own so you are bound to feel a bit emotional. Big hugs lovely lady xxx

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +2

      Thank you lovely.......the thought of no stairs plus a little garden keeps me focussed! 😉

  • @charlotterydz6343
    @charlotterydz6343 11 місяців тому +3

    Vivi, I had a feeling you might get a bit teary 🥺 I paused the video and came back later. I wanted to hug you 🫂 and present you with a cake to share after your yummy soup.
    These emotions are so real and valid. We did a big home move a few years ago and although it was a positive move this time, and the start of new things. It very much marked an end of chapter in our lives, which was extremely emotional.
    We are here for you, whenever you need to chat, hope the organising of the trades people goes well 🤞
    Lots of love and hugs 🥰 x

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you so much lovely. Hmm, I think it will be a bit of an up and down time with emotions......but it's ok......all part of the process I guess. Hugs, cake and soup make it easier. 😉

  • @claudiaebert7842
    @claudiaebert7842 11 місяців тому +5

    Yay... the lease is cleared. Not just a stone, but a whole boulder must have fallen from your heart. I'm so happy for you.
    So, now I'll continue watching the video. ❤❤❤
    And what?
    Is your move not going fast enough for some people?
    It's YOUR!!!!! move, and not that of any other person. You should remind yourself of this whenever necessary. And you definitely don't have to apologize for the fact that everything takes time.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      It's a massive relief both to have it and that I can stop chasing it now! Yay! 😀

  • @saracooper6187
    @saracooper6187 11 місяців тому +4

    Beautiful lady, thank you for your honesty 😊

  • @stephaniet9264
    @stephaniet9264 11 місяців тому +4

    Oh VIvi take your time and move at the pace that is best for you, physically and emotionally. It will happen at the right time. I find that when I rush to get everything done quickly, the bottom always falls out. That's a signal to slow down.

  • @susanne6943
    @susanne6943 11 місяців тому +3

    I wish I could give you a big hug, Vivi. Hang in there. You tackle things one day at a time and do the best you can. The move is looming over you. So many things that need to be fixed and organized before it can happen. You can do it and will do it. Shedding a tear when you feel overwhelmed is human. This is what I love the most about you and your channel - being honest and keeping it real. I am sending you lots of virtual hugs and lots of positive energy.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you so much lovely.....all hugs are most gratefully received at the moment! 💖

  • @ruthie2222
    @ruthie2222 11 місяців тому +5

    You’re nearly at 20k subscribers Vivi, Wow! 😊

  • @alonememe
    @alonememe 11 місяців тому +4

    Wow, I enjoyed this episode of "Vivi's Life" the most of all so far. I'm excited for your next step, and I know, it's scary - I'm single woman myself and sometimes moving and "fixing" life is very overwhelming. But one step at a time and you will get there :) And you are very well organized when comes to this move, it's seems that you think about every detail.

  • @katrinadollman7058
    @katrinadollman7058 11 місяців тому +4

    Awhhhh Vivi..... I do not understand for 1 minute why someone thinks that your move is any of their business and your timeline . You do your life at your pace Vivi. I know you do. ❤❤ There are so many things that go into moving on top of your sister last year. . ❤

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +2

      It feels like a bit of a mountain at the moment.........but I'm sure the view from the top will be worth it.... 😊

  • @DianeBaseden
    @DianeBaseden 11 місяців тому +2

    I would put in a small corner shelf on the right hand side with a trailing plant then a thin shelf under it going to the window with plants on ,i wouldn't put a table there as it would make the landing look to small xx

  • @lindagrigg7342
    @lindagrigg7342 11 місяців тому +4

    Emotions have a habit of creeping up on me too !! It’s good that they appear though ,you’ve had quite a lot to contend with what with one thing and another.Take care ❤

  • @helenhawkins4054
    @helenhawkins4054 11 місяців тому +4

    Nice folk on your trip out. Hard to believe the property price. I so hope all goes well for you, you so deserve a positive patch.👍

  • @dinglehopperdaydreamer9882
    @dinglehopperdaydreamer9882 11 місяців тому +4

    There's a beautiful little property out there for you Vivi just waiting to be loved, you're going to be okay. Thank you for another lovely video xXx

  • @JS-bz1vg
    @JS-bz1vg 11 місяців тому +4

    Dear Vivi, as a long term viewer, videofriend and also "getting olderer" with you lol, I will strongly recommend: sell the flat and leave London/South behind for others to enjoy. Broather your house search further, so you can buy cheep, but lovely place and leve yourself with cash for your older days. London/South is crazy expensive, one of the most expensive cities on planet, so prioritise what you actually need. Shop, post office and GP you can find everywhere, and with your bubbly personality you will meet new people. UK is not only south, beautiful places and beaches are all around, as its island lol😅, and you can buy 4 houses at the price your flat in other parts. Yes you can 😂

  • @TheTnaidu
    @TheTnaidu 11 місяців тому +3

    You do what’s good for you when you are ready. Love the chats! Thank you Vivi ❤

  • @lynnpurfield9430
    @lynnpurfield9430 11 місяців тому +3

    Looking forward to the recipe.
    Oh, I couldn't bear all that noise of a town now.

  • @hopesprings7812
    @hopesprings7812 11 місяців тому +2

    Its surprising how hard it is to leave somewhere even when its no longer suitable. We are actually leaving our cottage this year , delayed a year if you remember Vivi as i got cancer .
    All our old neighbourhood friends have either died or moved away. Its time to go, but i know how emotional you must feel, the memories are there in every wall beam and cupboard.
    Take your time my friend, move when you feel ready xx

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Good luck with your move lovely. Ach, yes, a wrench.....but I'm excited for both of us for the new adventure that awaits. X

  • @cerridwencottagediary9194
    @cerridwencottagediary9194 11 місяців тому +4

    So pleased for you that you finally have the lease! A little chair in the corner on the landing with a tiny bookshelf might be sweet so it looks like a reading nook? x

  • @ruth1231
    @ruth1231 11 місяців тому +2

    One step at a time, Vivi. It is such a shame your flat is top floor as it is really lovely and I'm not surprised you don't want to move. It is stressful moving, not knowing where you're going (I'm in the same boat). Viewing some places takes that fear away a little bit I've found. You found a gem with where you are now, made it into a home, and I'm sure you'll do it again. Actually, what keeps me going a bit is that you found that lovely flat and it gives me hope I'll find somewhere that I love or at least like.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      Yay....let's keep that hope going between the pair of us! We will find 'the one'!

  • @lisasprite3322
    @lisasprite3322 11 місяців тому +2

    🩷 Bless…. 24 years in your lovely flat!!!
    Well done!!! The house that Vivi built X
    Nice you are doing your move according to your schedule.
    Means a lot. Such a massive change.
    Congrats with the lease.
    Sending shiny vibes 💫

  • @patmartin9727
    @patmartin9727 11 місяців тому +3

    Afternoon Vivi, I totally agree this house move is your move and no one else’s. Yes you need to keep pushing the move forward but it should be at your pace. The move has to right for you. I have moved house on my own twice since I was widowed. The first move was to down size so much more complicated and strenuous. Because I was in a hurry to get moved which led to the property I bought was not the right property for me which led to me having to move again. This move was a little easier because I had already down sized but was still hard work.
    I total agree that legal bodies move slower than snail pass and they do not communicate. The last property I bought took 8 months to complete and the only people involved in the purchase was myself and the seller.
    Now you have got your lease sorted you will hope fully be able to move things forward.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Oh my goodness, 8 months is bonkers! I'm so glad that's behind you now. 😊

  • @lindacapen500
    @lindacapen500 11 місяців тому +1

    Vivi, closing a chapter in our lives can be hard but look at it as an adventure. The right place is out there for you, I know it. Change is good sonetimes and once you move you can get put on a list to get your knees fixed. A win-win. Chin up sweetheart. Glad you are getting warmer.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Absolutely.......I can't wait to be on the other side of the process!😉

  • @sharonparker2262
    @sharonparker2262 11 місяців тому +2

    I moved to another state 10 years ago. It is very hard adjusting, especially for an older person. Sometimes, it just has to be done. Wishing you the best.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you lovely. I hope you feel happy and settled there now. 😊

  • @barbaraallan5954
    @barbaraallan5954 11 місяців тому +2

    Dear Vivi, just believe that everything will happen soon, keep positive xxx

  • @paulsavident
    @paulsavident 11 місяців тому +3

    Such an informative video, and I loved the guy chatting to you in the street - and as you say, highlighting how friendly Londoners can be. 👍👍

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +3

      Aww, Ron.....such a nice 'geezer'. I reckon if I'd suggested a pint he would have been right in there. 😉

    • @paulsavident
      @paulsavident 11 місяців тому

      @@WhatVivididnext 👍😂👍

  • @grietjehuggan
    @grietjehuggan 11 місяців тому +2

    Viv, take a deep breath. Life can be really overwhelming for even the simplest of things. Your normal, moving house is pretty well on the top of the pile when it comes to stress, when You get a few more things sorted out, Your stress monkey will jump off of your shoulders and You will be able to relax and sleep properly. Been there and done that lol : ) have a chubbily tomorrow Viv, You deserve it. love from Highlands of Scotland x

  • @bethyoung4030
    @bethyoung4030 11 місяців тому +2

    Loved meeting Ron! What a lovely guy. I have moved 4 times from homes and numerous apartments. Each one occurs in its time. As a fellow knee challenged person (I now have 2 new knees but am still post surgery on one and doing physical therapy) I definitely understand avoiding stairs in your new place. Luckily my current and forever home has2 steps to enter and space for a ramp should I need that at some point. I strongly concur with your plan to get a first floor home. Also the free bus pass is excellent idea. You hang in there, all moves have moments of irritation as well as sadness. You feel how you need to. Sending you love💕

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      Awww, thank you so much for your encouraging words lovely. I hope your rehab is going well. 😊

    • @bethyoung4030
      @bethyoung4030 11 місяців тому

      It is going very well!! Thank you

  • @kasandrabrown8611
    @kasandrabrown8611 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi Vivi! I definitely support you getting out of the house more often. Meeting up with neighbors could lead to secret property information such as someone's died, looking for a roommate, etc. I finally found one person who could do painting, carpentry, and repairs through a personal referral. He did everything until he fell off a ladder at someone elses house! Anything to do with a ladder, hire someone. I can't even change light bulbs in my 10 foot ceiling because I get dizzy. I know things are coming together for you. Just breathe.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      Hahah.....yes, I think my ladder days may be behind me.......when I was ding the kitchen ceiling last year I had a couple of proper wobbly moments! 😉

  • @leighwiseman8389
    @leighwiseman8389 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi Viv,
    Thank you for your video. As you said, you can't just move, there is so much you need to sort out especially getting all your requirements ticked, because once you've moved that's it, you can't up and move again if you don't like it there. So moving must be a careful procedure. As for that velux 38:43 careful, and there's no way you could paint the stair/hallway not with all those stairs. Property so pricey where you are but thats London for you. Nice to meet Ron. I loved the muriel
    Take care Viv xxx

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      Cheers lovely......hahaha, I didn't get to explain the mural as Ron and I got chatting......a lovely random meeting. 😊

  • @acolourist1798
    @acolourist1798 11 місяців тому +2

    Sending you a big hug Vivi. Just know there's the most wonderful property just waiting for you. Turn of events, synchronicity, and good timing. Of course keeping the fingers firmly crossed for you. 💕🙏

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you lovely.......and, of course, somewhere to hang my wee artwork from you. 💖

  • @joannewalker7729
    @joannewalker7729 11 місяців тому +6

    Please be careful when you clean your window Vivi and make sure you tell someone that you are out there ! Xx

  • @bigmama2135
    @bigmama2135 11 місяців тому +2

    Dearest Vivi, moving will be a stressful, tiring and emotional time but you are strong, capable and a survivor, you will be ok. I understand its more daunting when you're you don't have a partner to lean on, believe me I get it. I sold two houses (mine and my Mom's) to buy a house during lockdown. I was a single Mom of 1 teenager and fulltime carer for my Mom and my older sister both whose health was deteriorating. It was the most stressful time you can imagine. 1 year later my Mom passed, she was my best friend. Today, I look back and wouldn't change a thing, home is where you make it. You will be ok Vivi and when its all sorted and you're in your darling little cozy nest, you can breath a sigh of relief and peace. Consider yourself hugged.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Wow, that was quite a time you went through! Bravo for managing all that lovely.......you give me hope. 😊 The hug was very much needed, thank you. X

  • @jeanetteomidvar8777
    @jeanetteomidvar8777 11 місяців тому +2

    Bored….phew, and breathe. I sincerely hope you find the perfect place to allow yourself a bit of boredom but I know you will just pack it with more goodies for us yaaay. Bless you Viv.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +2

      Hahaha....probably! Cheers lovely. 😉

  • @ibislife
    @ibislife 11 місяців тому +4

    It is your cottage in the sky, so light and spacious, no wonder you are in no hurry to leave. If only it could be moved to the ground floor! 😅

  • @LesleyanneSPARKLE
    @LesleyanneSPARKLE 11 місяців тому +2

    I’m so pleased the lease finally happened Vivi, I love your swing tags when I buy from your shop. I need to have another look xx

  • @NettiieB
    @NettiieB 10 місяців тому

    Top tip. When dealing with solicitors don’t let 3 days go by without contact, let alone 3 months! Email, phone or visit on a regular basis!

  • @irenesmith5676
    @irenesmith5676 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi vivi you made me cry too sending hugs 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 lv Irene 😘 xx

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Awww, thank you lovely....and a big, squashy hug right back at you. X

  • @joannelandriault7715
    @joannelandriault7715 11 місяців тому +1

    Miracles happen…your new lease came through!!! One day at a time Vivi…it will all come together as it should and you will find a new place. Love the photo collage mural of the greyhound. Your hood is so quaint, welcoming and full of characters with stories to tell. Remember you have a posse out here who can offer support and love as you navigate this time of change. Glad the weather has warmed up! 🌟❤️

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +2

      Thank you so much lovely......I do feel the support and positive vibes here.....it's wonderful. Hahaha....meeting Ron made me forget to tell the story behind the mural........another day maybe. 😉

  • @northernkarma9296
    @northernkarma9296 11 місяців тому +2

    I'm glad you are moving forward with things, that's the toughest bit. Once the momentum kicks in you will ROCK this!! ... and don't worry about the fiddly details in the hallway, leave it too the builders, that's their job.
    Onwards and upwards!!!
    💗💗✨✨🌻🌻👆🏻👆🏻🌼🌼

  • @rickiwinter1587
    @rickiwinter1587 11 місяців тому +2

    Another wonderful video Vivi, the prices really are crazy in London, hope you can find what your looking for without having to go to far afield . Please ,please be careful when your climbing about doing all your DIY ,etc. So glad you finally got the lease sorted.

  • @shess1640
    @shess1640 11 місяців тому +1

    Lovely Vivi..... this is one of those times you may need to adjust your priorities to accomplish the larger goal that is of utmost importance. It's a temporary adjustment....but will lead to great things.... a place with your own little garden : )

  • @lollys9041
    @lollys9041 11 місяців тому +2

    Yay🎉🎉the lease…. Brilliant. Loved this video Vivi, as list kinda gal too I was thoroughly enjoying you going through yours. A big hug to you Vivi. It was a life changing year for you last year bless you and to some extent the same applies to this year. I think we get through these events the best we can. Thinking of you dear Vivi and know that you have us all rooting for you.😻🙏❤️

  • @kathryngardiner5375
    @kathryngardiner5375 11 місяців тому +3

    Please don’t let anymore make you feel under pressure to move house do it in your own way in your own time ❤

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you lovely......absolutely, it has to be in my time. 😊

  • @GeraldineRowe
    @GeraldineRowe 11 місяців тому +1

    Big hugs, Vivi. Moving house is a big life event and I can fully understand your tears. But you'll take your happy memories with you and make new happy memories wherever you end up.

  • @melaniebaker2233
    @melaniebaker2233 11 місяців тому +1

    It will all be ok Vivi, you just don’t know the good bit of the story yet. I’m sure it will be something along the lines of you finding that place with the little garden that makes your heart sing. We’re cheering you on x x

  • @Sally-wm5jh
    @Sally-wm5jh 11 місяців тому +2

    It would be lovely to live in a neighborhood like yours, and I can see your connection to it. When you live in one place so long, it's actually quite scary and overwhelming to make the decision to move on and then even more scary to actually do it. You have to push on and it will become easier. I speak from experience since I just celebrated one year in my new small apartment after living in a large 4 bedroom house. It took us a long time to wrap our heads around making that kind of a move, but once we got going, it got easier and now I have no regrets. We're living in another great neighborhood with new people to meet and make friends with. Congratulations on getting your lease. Part of your emotions could just be dealing with the loss of a part of your life because of your knees. You don't want to move, your knees are forcing the move. I dislike how my health has changed my life, but I've learned to take each step as another chapter in the boook of life. So happy for you to be starting your move and I have faith you will find the perfect home to move to.

  • @JaneDay
    @JaneDay 10 місяців тому +1

    Saw you when the shed fell down. Hilarious, just the lol I needed. So thrilled to find your channel and to subscribe. xxx

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  10 місяців тому

      Thank you so much lovely.....and a very warm welcome to you here. 😊

  • @annl4329
    @annl4329 11 місяців тому +1

    So happy for you, that you have finally got the lease sorted. So exciting to now be able to finish getting the flat prepared for putting it on the market. Look forward to following you on this journey.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you lovely.......the lease is a HUGE relief! 😊

  • @BreakAwayTheChains
    @BreakAwayTheChains 11 місяців тому +1

    I had those feelings when I left Florida after 54 years to move to Tennessee. Around 3 months later covid hit and I was like I want to go back home & what have I just done. But now it was the best thing in my life. The process was very overwhelming for me, looking back I don't know how I did it truthfully. Those prices are so crazy Vivi, take your time darlin.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      I'm so glad you are happy with your decision now....though I can imagine it was tough in the beginning....especially with Covid hitting too.

  • @lulucly
    @lulucly 11 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for the walk about. Sending hugs.

  • @urbsoapco5489
    @urbsoapco5489 11 місяців тому +1

    We’ve just done all those little annoying jobs that we never get around to unless we’re selling lol 😂. We sold to the first person who viewed and are now looking in Dorset for our forever home! It’s ironic that we get our homes just perfect and then leave ha ha . We are viewing a few this week so hope to be on the move soon, if everything goes smoothly. My priorities are a new soap studio and a raised bed garden……so exciting! Take care Vivi , it’s great that you’ve finally got the leasehold sorted woohoo 🎉. Xxx

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Oooooh, fingers very firmly crossed for you! 😊

  • @margaretdouglas905
    @margaretdouglas905 11 місяців тому +1

    Hi Vivi 👋 have really enjoyed your video I love all of them So pleased you finally received the deeds. Ron is such a nice man. How lovely to chat with someone while out. I don't go out much but I love a wee chat with nice people like that It makes my wee day. Look after yourself Vivi You are a lovely warm kind caring lady and I wish you all the very best for your future. If you can stay in your area love it will be wonderful for you.I can see why you love it.xx

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you so much lovely. Ach, one of the reasons I love it here so much is how friendly everyone is......it really does feel like a little village community. 😊

  • @Janlcoyne
    @Janlcoyne 11 місяців тому +1

    Oh, Vivi…you will find the perfect place. I know it is very overwhelming but just do one step at a time. Loved the little view of your neighborhood and would love a drink in the pub with you! XXX

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      You'd be most welcome! The first pint's on me! 😀

  • @elizabethfairlie8296
    @elizabethfairlie8296 9 місяців тому

    I understand how you feel Viv. I suffer from messy mind and the feeling of being overwhelmed on occasions like yours. My approach is like yours. I make and prioritise the list and try not to touch things twice. Start the job finish it and move on is my approach. I wish you all the very very best. A new adventure for me is daunting but also full of hope.

  • @grumpy_poo
    @grumpy_poo 11 місяців тому +2

    Congratulations on getting the lease through... what great news.. you can move on now. I wish you lived near me , I have a chunk of Marine ply that would just do that cupboard. Aww lovely Ron, i giggled a bit at the end... I was listening rather than watching as you were rounding up..... Dinner, pee, risotto..... 😂🤣

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Hahaha....sometimes it IS in that order. Awww, I do love how friendly it is round here. 😊

  • @milda0820
    @milda0820 11 місяців тому +2

    Oh what a lovely video😊💖💖💖

  • @chorky2
    @chorky2 11 місяців тому +3

    You should be entitled to get some PIP for your mobility issues which would then lead you on to get other thing like a bus pass etc. see if you can get a letter from your drs for that. Heather

  • @patrycjas.9725
    @patrycjas.9725 11 місяців тому +2

    Dear Vivi. Perhaps I am wrong, as I am relying mainly on a hunch, but is it not the case that you have made spectacular changes in your life in the past? Perhaps this is overwhelming you. Maybe you think that this change too will be a total change in the life scenario? Meanwhile, maybe things will go more smoothly this time? Don't rush anywhere. Don't be afraid of anything. Your new home is already looking forward to having you live in it, although you don't know where it is yet. Sending you a big hug! ❤

    • @patrycjas.9725
      @patrycjas.9725 11 місяців тому +1

      PS. I hope my comment did not sound patronising. I am well aware that every change can be stressful. It helps me not to look at the whole picture (because that scares me) but at the tiny steps I have to take today or tomorrow.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +4

      Thank you lovely........I am excited about moving.....I can't wait to make a new place home.......it's just all the stuff in between that gets me a bit anxious..... 😉

  • @BeFree-BeFrugal
    @BeFree-BeFrugal 11 місяців тому +2

    House prices are crazy, I always found Londoners to be really friendly

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you! Yes! It does my nut when people from outside say Londoners aren't friendly! 😊

  • @michellejennings3232
    @michellejennings3232 10 місяців тому +1

    Selling a home.
    Buying a home.
    Moving.
    Three separate and giant undertakings.....each is huge alone; doing all three is very, very difficult. Give yourself grace and time...things will work the way they should. God bless you.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  10 місяців тому

      Thank you so much lovely. It is all rather daunting....so I'm just trying to focus on one thing at a time......

  • @mae9064
    @mae9064 11 місяців тому +1

    You have it all in hand Vivi ❤❤ all will be well. 🦋

  • @marionlisle8145
    @marionlisle8145 11 місяців тому +1

    Loved the video. I’m contemplating changing my home to something more suitable - daunting time. Good luck with your adventure xx

  • @indirarimkeit6644
    @indirarimkeit6644 11 місяців тому +1

    I recently got some offcuts from our local "hardware" store to make some shelves and do some repairs. Your "ironmongers" are great!

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      I love that shop.......a real treasure trove! 😀

  • @pamelafreeman4548
    @pamelafreeman4548 9 місяців тому

    You are on a mission and doing a great job!😊

  • @JardineraAnge
    @JardineraAnge 11 місяців тому

    All those feelings are perfectly normal Vivi. It is hard to leave a place you've been happy in. Wherever you end up will be the right place for you, and will happen when the time is right. I can't wait to see how it all unfolds! Take care lovely lady! 🥰

  • @ErnieCG
    @ErnieCG 11 місяців тому +4

    Vivi will move when she’s ready

  • @PlantNative
    @PlantNative 11 місяців тому +3

    I really enjoy your day in the life videos. A little celebration when you hit 20k subscribers?❤

  • @tommeltje1
    @tommeltje1 11 місяців тому +1

    Take care Vivi! You are awesome..😊🥰

  • @poolfield2
    @poolfield2 11 місяців тому +1

    Hallelujah! At last your perseverance has paid off and the lease is off the to do list!! I’m so glad for you! Why is anyone hassling you to hurry up and move? It will all come together when the time is right.

  • @kathymc1863
    @kathymc1863 11 місяців тому +1

    So pleased your lease has finally come through Vivi 🥳
    Even more to get on with now but you have a plan and a list and a reason why…. you can do this!!
    Fingers crossed for the bus pass too… it would make such a difference 😊

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Oh my goodness, yes, the bus pass would be a game changer!

  • @agodlyhome
    @agodlyhome 11 місяців тому +3

    VIvi have you priced a chair lift for the stairs, so you wouldn't have to move? You sit in it, and hit the button and it goes up the stairs.

  • @juliaforsyth8332
    @juliaforsyth8332 11 місяців тому +2

    Tomorrow is another day! I'm facing the same thing with my place. Can't manage the garden anymore and can't afford to fix the house. Not sure what Plan G is at the moment, but I understand the wrench.
    I think people seem to be unfriendly in the CBD parts of big cities but the "ordinary" folk are friendly and helpful still. Love murals. Look up Wellington, NZ shark mural. Every time I go down I look at it because the sharks are so funny. It's to protest shark-finning. You do what you have to do for you. Big, big hug my friend.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      I'm intrigued........hopping over to see my boyfriend Mr Google to ask him all about your shark mural........ 😉

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      I just checked it out.......how cool! I love it. 😊

  • @karenglass9454
    @karenglass9454 11 місяців тому +1

    You're still grieving, and moving from your home is a grief, too. Tears are forgivable!

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you lovely. There have been quite a few of the wet things lately.

  • @Mindyhartwick
    @Mindyhartwick 11 місяців тому +1

    Wow, and I thought prices were high in California! I’m kind of in the same boat, bad knees and stairs. My house is two levels with all the bedrooms upstairs. I bought back in 2011 and my house has more than doubled in value, but if I want to move I don’t have a lot of choices that won’t make my mortgage amount increase.

  • @lynnpurfield9430
    @lynnpurfield9430 11 місяців тому +3

    OMG the house prices are crazy. Here you can get a two bed cottage with a massive garden to be self sufficient, keep chickens and have outhouses and pay £100,000.

    • @rickiwinter1587
      @rickiwinter1587 11 місяців тому

      Goodness that's so cheap , where abouts do you live

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Wowzers!

    • @lynnpurfield9430
      @lynnpurfield9430 11 місяців тому +2

      @@rickiwinter1587 South wales

    • @Vicki-t7s
      @Vicki-t7s 11 місяців тому +2

      Oooh I f I was 20 years younger I would defo think of moving there .South Wales is so beautiful,my grandmothers family were from Wales

  • @janedoe09
    @janedoe09 11 місяців тому

    Amen!!! You got your lease...what a relief for you!!! How much fun Vivi to walk with you today...do take good care of those knees!!!

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Yay for giving yourself a 'doing' month! I hope you manage to get lots of jobs ticked.......and have fun and satisfaction while doing it. 😊

  • @amandasandham3680
    @amandasandham3680 11 місяців тому +2

    I can't believe how anyone affords to live in your area. Good luck with the flat hunting x

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      It's crazy how much it has gone up around here in the last 24 years.......when I moved here it was very much a cheap part of London!

  • @cherylprice1790
    @cherylprice1790 11 місяців тому

    I am so excited for you, too, Vivi. Lots happening. I hope the doctor will help you with the application for a bus pass. I hope you have a quiet moment in the wee small hours dreaming and imagining your lovely new home that awaits you, wherever it may be.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      Awww, thanks lovely....yes, lots of dreaming going on! 😉

  • @nancyesposito1020
    @nancyesposito1020 11 місяців тому +4

    I feel your emotion and pain about leaving your home. But it will be the best thing to be in a home where you can get in and out easy and I know change is always difficult but in this case necessary . We just moved after being in our home for 20 years because we wanted to move to another state to retire. We didn't have as much time as we needed to sell things declutter downsize. It all happened within 60 days our house sold so quickly! I felt so overwhelmed and rushed it was so stressful! At at least you didn't rush it and hopefully things will come together and you'll find the right place and it'll be the best thing for you! It'll be exciting once you find the new place! I'm excited for this change for you!

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you lovely.......crikey, 60 days to do it all would stress me too! So happy you're on the other side of it now!

    • @nancyesposito1020
      @nancyesposito1020 11 місяців тому

      Hopefully you will be soon too! I can't wait to see the new place that you find! Manifest it!!!🤩

  • @tricialeone6651
    @tricialeone6651 11 місяців тому

    Such great news about the lease. Sorry it was such a hassle, but relieved for you! Youre getting things done. Leaving a home you love is hard. The bus pass could be the solution, allowing you to still be connected to the community you love. Just remember, you built your community of people by being yourself so you will do the same no matter where you land. When you get discouraged with the to-do list, keep the image of that garden outside your kitchen window in mind. Sketch it and post it on ur bulletin board even. You've got this and we're cheering you on! - Tricia in Vermont, USA

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +2

      Awww, thank you so much lovely....yes, the kitchen door with a garden beyond is my motivating image! 😊

  • @TheSpottedBoot
    @TheSpottedBoot 11 місяців тому +1

    Not certain of your carpentry skills but a full wall to wall units with matching bookends boxes and one long shelf the full length of the wall like a library table. Each box with access doors. One to access the meter and the other for this and that like outdoor needs (galoshes, mitts, etc) it would be visually more one and custom built in. Never-ending the negative comments about the speed of which you move. Moves are a process and I for one am loving the journey with you however long. XO, Vivi!!

    • @bethyoung4030
      @bethyoung4030 11 місяців тому

      I really like that idea!!

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      I love that idea but it would be a bit too time consuming and costly to make.

  • @sallydavies8267
    @sallydavies8267 11 місяців тому

    Big hugs to you Vivi. Take your time, girl, and bat that niggling voice off your shoulder! Very best luck and mojo for finding the perfect New Vivi Cottage :)

  • @SuperNorini
    @SuperNorini 11 місяців тому +1

    ❤ You deserve the best of good fortune❤

  • @booksknitsthings
    @booksknitsthings 9 місяців тому

    Best wishes Vivi re the future home move preparations

  • @Cashstuffwithjazz
    @Cashstuffwithjazz 11 місяців тому

    I've followed you since last year I'm 31 now I love your videos and your way of life. The move will happen when it's meant to be. Solicitors can be a nightmare 😢 hope you get it all sorted

    • @Cashstuffwithjazz
      @Cashstuffwithjazz 11 місяців тому

      Ps please don't apologise your move takes as long as it takes do it when your ready in your time whatever happens we will still be watching your videos ❤

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you so much lovely. 😊

  • @isobelsmith6999
    @isobelsmith6999 11 місяців тому +1

    If anyone deserves a lucky break, Vivi, it's you 🍀🏡💚

  • @shelleymatthews5050
    @shelleymatthews5050 11 місяців тому

    In the road we live in (not me I’m alone in having a front garden not a drive) we always know when a house is going on the market cos they shove a sad looking bay tree by the front door and hang a garden centre hanging basket!!

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Hahaha.....their interpretation of 'kerb appeal'?

  • @greatwhitenorthtreasures3606
    @greatwhitenorthtreasures3606 11 місяців тому

    Vivi, on your half landing I would forego a table and instead just use a few large urns/planters with tall plants that sit on the ground but produce height (maybe if your or any pals have some in their homes you could temporarily borrow while you sell?). Like at least a meter tall but more like 1.5 -2 m. You could use 2-3 of them to sit in front of the gas box to hide it. And then 2-3 in the opposite corner. This would leave that little window to let in any light to add to the stunning skylight/roof light. Just a thought. Heidi in Vancouver BC Canada

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому

      Thank you lovely.....yes, I was also thinking about just some groups of plants...a bit shorter than 2 meters though as they'd be out of the skylight. 😉

  • @BumblebeeAdventure
    @BumblebeeAdventure 11 місяців тому +1

    🐝Slow and steady just slow and steady ! You can do it

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      It's funny you should mention slow and steady as I'm talking about just that in the next video. 😊

    • @BumblebeeAdventure
      @BumblebeeAdventure 11 місяців тому +1

      @@WhatVivididnext Just had that feeling 🥰

  • @amacintyre9150
    @amacintyre9150 11 місяців тому +1

    Could a grant be obtained for a narrow stair lift? Sorry if that is a daft suggestion. You've invested so much into your lovely home. Although I expect anywhere with you living in it would be lovely 🥰

    • @PlantNative
      @PlantNative 11 місяців тому +1

      I believe she has commented on this prior. Her stairs are for other residents as well so it would not work for them. I guess it would block their right of way?

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you to Plant Native (I love that name!) for answering this perfectly for me. 😊

  • @dianebarwick8965
    @dianebarwick8965 11 місяців тому +3

    Just a thought , you love your flat so much why leave you could get a stair lift ? There's always a way and much cheaper than moving . Take care good luck.

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      Not possible, sadly.

    • @heatherinparis
      @heatherinparis 11 місяців тому +1

      @dianebarwick8965 I came here to say exactly that! A stair lift would have to certainly cost a lot less than a move and a new place.

  • @Gobi512
    @Gobi512 11 місяців тому +1

    Looking at home prices can be so depressing especially in the London area. I don’t know how people can afford the high prices. You will find something. I guess flexibility is necessary. Moving is one of the most stressful things we do in life. I remember packing up dozens of boxes and bawling. It’s stressful but works out in the end 🙂🙂

    • @WhatVivididnext
      @WhatVivididnext  11 місяців тому +1

      I'm certainly looking forward to being on the other side of it all! 😊

  • @innocentbystander4650
    @innocentbystander4650 11 місяців тому +4

    The house move will happen, a few months here or there makes no difference. I believe in fate and that you will end up where you are meant to be for the next phase of your life - so stay chilled about it.