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These women say they feel uncomfortable when they go out but I can't tell. They wear tight, revealing clothes yet feel uncomfortable? Normally if you feel that way you wear something loose to cover up or camouflage the problem, not accentuate the problem! Make it make sense!
They don't have much choice. After getting a BBL, many of them say the only clothing that fits them is stuff light stretchy spandex and even sweatpants still end up fitting differently so they look tight. I've seen videos of women lamenting that they can't find classy or even normal clothes that fit their new shape.
@@chelseacatastrophe4766 this is why there's elastic waistbands on free flowing pants or skirts. This is why we have belts to draw in material and hold up our garments that fit loosely. In other words there's more than just the size of clothes before the BBL, there's bigger, complimenting and camouflaging sizes. This is my opinion though. When I feel uncomfortable in something I adjust the size up or down and still get compliments of how the clothes fit me. I think that they're possibly in denial of needing bigger size clothes after getting this procedure done.
Body dismorphia is real. I had it after having weight loss surgery. I couldn't see that I was losing too much weight because I only saw the fat me. Be kind to yourself ladies, you are beautiful the way you are.
That's not an uncommon look in the black community. That's not a look that's called body dysmorphia in our community. That look is simply mimicking an appreciation of others' bodies. She looks nice in her outfits. I'm not seeing an issue here. Is that not good enough for our women now? What's the new standard that she should choose that's acceptable for straight women?
@@teliciahodges3093 i am a black woman. I was referring to what she looked like prior to her surgery. It takes years for your mind to catch up with your physical appearance. She was beautiful before the surgery, yet she didn't see it. This is exactly why the cosmetic surgery industry is flourishing. Instead of living up to a beauty standard, we need to be thankful for what God gave us. Not everyone is meant to be a "brick house".
@@monicaking7793 I think people should stop saying that cosmetic surgeries are due to the mental illnesses of women. There is a doctor that determines if you are mentally fit enough for that. She was not ugly then and she's not ugly now and if she was from Africa, nobody would even question her looks. Women treat women's choices to have plastic surgery like it's an issue for our tax dollars or something. Cosmetic surgeries on others are not our issues. She was simply giving an update to women about her surgery. She obviously wasn't unhappy enough to reverse the surgery or cover her body up. She's saying 'I gained weight.' It's not uncommon for women to gain weight either. She looks very nice and I'm not seeing why we need to pile up on her and call her mentally ill or say mean things about her. In her community, she is seeing effeminate men staring and her laughing at her. If she wasn't around so many gay men, she would not have that issue. And straight women get jealous too.
Most women don’t even work out or practice a healthier lifestyle before or after surgery anyways. All of the slicing and dicing messes your body up over time as well.
@@upaige911 I’m going with 55% of woman that have BBLs and that have issues/complications afterwards! That ish really messes up your body’s naturally ability to lose and gain weight too.
I just don't understand why messing up a nice body. The sad part is ,I'm sure they all were warned not to do it,but they don't listen .Now they want sympathy .
She looked better before the BBL than after. She lying to herself saying she didn’t do it for attention. They all do it for attention. The BBL look just don’t look natural at all or healthy as well the weird stares.
When I was younger and thinner, I was very popular for my figure -- small waist, big hips, 100% natural. Always received compliments on my body from both men and women. Now that I am older and have gained a lot of weight, I am experiencing what the first girl mentioned regarding the sleeping. It has become difficult to sleep in any position, and yes, there is back pain! I never thought that as I aged, I would start to feel the weight of my hips on my lower back and knees. I am sure the future of living with these BBL's is not discussed at the BBL consultation with their surgeons because if they were, these women would think twice before going under the knife.
I appreciate her honesty. There are too many women on social media who will show off their body and advertise it, but won’t ever talk about the horrible consequences that came from it. Hopefully her message will save many women and change their minds. Even if it doesn’t it was worth a try. This young lady’s body was amazing before she had surgery. I hope that women think smarter and harder before making a permanent decision like this.
And they say they "I do it for myself" lol, when you do something im for yourself you do it to be comfortable, you did it to turn heads and others attention, if you was on a island a bbl would never enter your thoughts
Sis needs to workout and she’ll be fine. At least her thighs match but sis NEVER needed that surgery. There are legit workouts you can do to get the illusion you have hips. I dont have hips but I can work on my side glutes and grown them and BOOM I then have the illusion I have hips. This is sad but I’m glad these women are being honest so young girls can hear this and think about not doing it. Is it legal to get surgery at 16 😳
I'm an older women, where in my time there was no such thing as BBL surgery, the only thing was padded under garments back then. Thank goodness I never needed one, I had a naturally small waist, flat stomach, hips and butt. The bad thing guys never knew how smart I was because all they saw was my body. I wore my jordache jeans fitted but I was able to breathe 😮 and a scooped neck fitted shirt. My point, I never wanted the attention, but like I said that was back in the day 😅.
Yup would say 98% of women with bbls I’ve met personally are in sex work. Onlyfans, strippers, p stars, blade walkers, “escorts”, “bottle girls”, renegades etc.
That's not true. What happens when you insist on being looked at is that people stop looking at you. It's not uncommon for men to not want unnattractive women ot women who need lots of attention. But she's not unattractive or seeking attention, she's just cute. She wore some spandex and looked even better than in other pictures of her. I'm not sure why women are so jealous of cute women on UA-cam nowadays. She's not trying to get attention, she's just a nice looking woman.
Why they don’t never tell the truth on what the inside of their draws look like with them scrubby thighs and them areas that can’t breeze. It’s a lot of unwipe BBL
I was recently told to give BBL a try, but I'm a small petite woman, small chest and booty, I'm not built like the ladies in the video. But here's the problem why I don't like the bbl on me is because it won't match my body, it would look weird and fake. So I'll just stick with my small natural bottom.😊
Some of these women are already beautiful and don’t need BBL’s. Sadly, all they can wear is FashionNova club clothes unless they can afford to pay for custom made clothes.
These BB’Ls are destroying lives it’s not worth it. Just doesn’t look right there’s nothing wrong with going to the gym! I go and okay with what I have remember men do like natural and there’s nothing wrong with it ❤️ the body that GOD created it’s okay to have flaw and embrace them.
To spend that kind of money on plastic surgery should be invested in a business of your own , buy a house, or in stocks to where you can see the longevity of your money. Not something that you can lose your life or it deform itself. All is needed is a good diet and workout at the gym . It may take a while but you'll see results.
I’ve never wanted a big butt I don’t get the look to be extremely tiny up too and extremely big at the bottom 😂 just funny looking to me They look like Centaurs if you ask me
Your body had to compensate for the new addition to your body! And I am surprised the doctor didn't tell you that you would start gaining weight after the procedure
I know those teenage girls laughing at her definitely triggered the insecurities that caused her to get the BBL in the first place. When will women learn to invest in therapy, a personal trainer and nutritionist instead of running to get surgeries that have killed many? We'll never know...
I dont feel bad for women that get bbl. My sister got one and i seen her a year later and it look like she never had one! Its like the fat dissolved back into her body.
She talking bout weight gain in other places ma’am as you age your body changes for example even with out surgery skinny women can get bigger and bigger women can get smaller dont rush the progress ya body at 15 ain’t the body you gonna have at 35. Should just waited and hit the gym saved the money and struggles cause when it drops droops and wrinkles it ain’t gonna look good anymore especially if you not enjoying working out on the regular
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These women say they feel uncomfortable when they go out but I can't tell. They wear tight, revealing clothes yet feel uncomfortable? Normally if you feel that way you wear something loose to cover up or camouflage the problem, not accentuate the problem! Make it make sense!
They don't have much choice. After getting a BBL, many of them say the only clothing that fits them is stuff light stretchy spandex and even sweatpants still end up fitting differently so they look tight. I've seen videos of women lamenting that they can't find classy or even normal clothes that fit their new shape.
Thank you. Common sense is no longer common. These are the same women that say men are insecure because we do not let them do whatever they want.
@@chelseacatastrophe4766 this is why there's elastic waistbands on free flowing pants or skirts. This is why we have belts to draw in material and hold up our garments that fit loosely. In other words there's more than just the size of clothes before the BBL, there's bigger, complimenting and camouflaging sizes. This is my opinion though. When I feel uncomfortable in something I adjust the size up or down and still get compliments of how the clothes fit me. I think that they're possibly in denial of needing bigger size clothes after getting this procedure done.
Insecurities is one hell of a feeling 😂😂
BBL at 16 should be illegal
Child abuse
@@emandawatts06🫢
Irresponsible parent to allow their 16 year old to get bbl surgery 😢
She looks much older than 22, I would have guessed 35 plus.
Who performs that on a 16 year old though
Body dismorphia is real. I had it after having weight loss surgery. I couldn't see that I was losing too much weight because I only saw the fat me. Be kind to yourself ladies, you are beautiful the way you are.
I appreciate your honesty and sepf disclosure. More power to you.
That's not an uncommon look in the black community. That's not a look that's called body dysmorphia in our community. That look is simply mimicking an appreciation of others' bodies. She looks nice in her outfits. I'm not seeing an issue here. Is that not good enough for our women now? What's the new standard that she should choose that's acceptable for straight women?
@@Bellissimainfinite thank you.
@@teliciahodges3093 i am a black woman. I was referring to what she looked like prior to her surgery. It takes years for your mind to catch up with your physical appearance. She was beautiful before the surgery, yet she didn't see it. This is exactly why the cosmetic surgery industry is flourishing. Instead of living up to a beauty standard, we need to be thankful for what God gave us. Not everyone is meant to be a "brick house".
@@monicaking7793 I think people should stop saying that cosmetic surgeries are due to the mental illnesses of women. There is a doctor that determines if you are mentally fit enough for that. She was not ugly then and she's not ugly now and if she was from Africa, nobody would even question her looks. Women treat women's choices to have plastic surgery like it's an issue for our tax dollars or something. Cosmetic surgeries on others are not our issues. She was simply giving an update to women about her surgery. She obviously wasn't unhappy enough to reverse the surgery or cover her body up. She's saying 'I gained weight.' It's not uncommon for women to gain weight either. She looks very nice and I'm not seeing why we need to pile up on her and call her mentally ill or say mean things about her. In her community, she is seeing effeminate men staring and her laughing at her. If she wasn't around so many gay men, she would not have that issue. And straight women get jealous too.
Most women don’t even work out or practice a healthier lifestyle before or after surgery anyways. All of the slicing and dicing messes your body up over time as well.
MOST women? Lol 😂. Nah.
@@upaige911 I’m going with 55% of woman that have BBLs and that have issues/complications afterwards! That ish really messes up your body’s naturally ability to lose and gain weight too.
That’s very true when I go to the gym I see more men.
@@upaige911You must got a bbl😅
“I didn’t do it for attention”😂
So she did it to sit on her back porch and read her Bible then??
Wild.
I’m screaming 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hell naw! 😫😫😫😫
😭😭😭😭
😂😂😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂
Them bbls be killing yall 🎶🎼🎵
And the thighs / legs don't match...Her knees , were knocking , the hell outta each other..😅
😂and the thighs don't match 😂and stinking up the cat
Literally no reason for the First Lady to get a BBL. Smh
I just don't understand why messing up a nice body. The sad part is ,I'm sure they all were warned not to do it,but they don't listen .Now they want sympathy .
😂😂😂facts
BBL's is stinky nasty work. Facts.
😂😂😂😂NASTY WORK THE REAL KIND
I heard it smells, so i dont know
She looked better before the BBL than after. She lying to herself saying she didn’t do it for attention. They all do it for attention. The BBL look just don’t look natural at all or healthy as well the weird stares.
This shows you that kids have to stay in a kids place. But kids always feel they know everything
When I was younger and thinner, I was very popular for my figure -- small waist, big hips, 100% natural. Always received compliments on my body from both men and women. Now that I am older and have gained a lot of weight, I am experiencing what the first girl mentioned regarding the sleeping. It has become difficult to sleep in any position, and yes, there is back pain! I never thought that as I aged, I would start to feel the weight of my hips on my lower back and knees.
I am sure the future of living with these BBL's is not discussed at the BBL consultation with their surgeons because if they were, these women would think twice before going under the knife.
BBL doesn’t screams confident, strong personality ; all it says is I’m insecure or a follower. She honestly didn’t need it at all 🤦🏾♂️
Imagine starting a “plastic surgery journey”.
Sick world.
Who da fucc cares? If someone sees something comical they will laugh. Women with BBLs are for lease, renting or a test drive ONLY! 😂😂😂😂 💀
by now most women should've learned that BBL's ain't worth it 🤢
You Would Think 🤔
that’s not a a BBL that’s a “BBD” (Bad Booty Drop)! Much ❤ to Bell Biv Devoe! 💯
🤣
She didn't do it for attention🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Nawwww...Not At All. 😅😅😅
Girl. Your body is attacking itself.
its all on you girl you went and do that to yourself
I appreciate her honesty. There are too many women on social media who will show off their body and advertise it, but won’t ever talk about the horrible consequences that came from it. Hopefully her message will save many women and change their minds. Even if it doesn’t it was worth a try. This young lady’s body was amazing before she had surgery. I hope that women think smarter and harder before making a permanent decision like this.
SAD! Gotta build our kids to be stronger. This mental stress to seek perfection is TERRIBLE!!
And they say they "I do it for myself" lol, when you do something im for yourself you do it to be comfortable, you did it to turn heads and others attention, if you was on a island a bbl would never enter your thoughts
Sis needs to workout and she’ll be fine. At least her thighs match but sis NEVER needed that surgery. There are legit workouts you can do to get the illusion you have hips. I dont have hips but I can work on my side glutes and grown them and BOOM I then have the illusion I have hips. This is sad but I’m glad these women are being honest so young girls can hear this and think about not doing it. Is it legal to get surgery at 16 😳
Not illegal if you have your parents permission, although maybe it should be...
That's crazy..some things are overboard
The first woman could have went to the gym and did squats and achieved what she wanted for far less the cost smh.
They would rather do it the quick unhealthy way
That's crazy. She was already curvy. She needs therapy instead of a BBL.
I'm an older women, where in my time there was no such thing as BBL surgery, the only thing was padded under garments back then. Thank goodness I never needed one, I had a naturally small waist, flat stomach, hips and butt. The bad thing guys never knew how smart I was because all they saw was my body. I wore my jordache jeans fitted but I was able to breathe 😮 and a scooped neck fitted shirt. My point, I never wanted the attention, but like I said that was back in the day 😅.
Having a BBL is like walking around advertising yourself as an S worker.
Thts not Tru smh
@@kevinkev1530 What do you see? A Wife? Smash and Dash? Or an S worker?
Yup would say 98% of women with bbls I’ve met personally are in sex work. Onlyfans, strippers, p stars, blade walkers, “escorts”, “bottle girls”, renegades etc.
That's not true. What happens when you insist on being looked at is that people stop looking at you. It's not uncommon for men to not want unnattractive women ot women who need lots of attention. But she's not unattractive or seeking attention, she's just cute. She wore some spandex and looked even better than in other pictures of her. I'm not sure why women are so jealous of cute women on UA-cam nowadays. She's not trying to get attention, she's just a nice looking woman.
@@teliciahodges3093 Girl, you missed the plot. This doesn't even make sense.
Bro. J R. I'm loving the 82nd Airborne Division sweatshirt. Represent the Army.
Dang, she messed herself up.
Serves her right!!😂
I don't feel sorry for them at all
Its all tom foolery and these geniuses never thought past looks
22?? I thought the same thing. More like 32. Miles???
Airborne Artillery. Ooosha JR!!!
Female do this for each other, we done ask for this. This a IG thing
5:27 WOW. 😮. She was stunning 🤩 BEFORE 😢 🖤
That's what I'm saying! She could have spared herself the money, time and above all the risk of undergoing unnecessary surgery.
Don't feel sorry for ya! 😂
💯
Those BBL's look as ridiculous as Antonio Fargas with aquarium platforms on.
6:15 SIXTEEN!? How was that legal!? She wasn’t 😢 even a WOMAN yet! 🖤
It shouldn't be but it was because she had her parents consent.
This is why I kept my natural body
They always say it wasn’t for attention when they don’t get the attention they want. She didn’t imagine people laughing at her
Looking like Squidward after he ate all those burgers.😂
Both women are beautiful.
Great video keep up the good job
BBL life matters ! keep buttock alive 😂😂😊
That’s exactly correct. Eww why is it so big.
One doctor told me that recommend a size for the persons frame. But half the time he said they wanna go big…smh
Why they don’t never tell the truth on what the inside of their draws look like with them scrubby thighs and them areas that can’t breeze. It’s a lot of unwipe BBL
Sad she was beautiful
BBL or Natural?
Natural like an afro!
A BBL is natural since women are using their own fat vs fillers like the Kardashians.
I'm trippin bc this bitch was perfect WTFEEZY MAN!!!!!
@@tburt6551God didn’t transfer the fat on the ass. A doctor did that so no it’s not natural. She’s sold separately
NATURAL 🖤
I was recently told to give BBL a try, but I'm a small petite woman, small chest and booty, I'm not built like the ladies in the video. But here's the problem why I don't like the bbl on me is because it won't match my body, it would look weird and fake. So I'll just stick with my small natural bottom.😊
The smile on my face when she explained she's judged by women the most 😊
I think men actually like these bodies that’s why 🥴
Some of these women are already beautiful and don’t need BBL’s. Sadly, all they can wear is FashionNova club clothes unless they can afford to pay for custom made clothes.
Wow What Happen? what did I miss? 😳 Oh Did She get to the part about BBL smells 😒
People that make changes to their. BODY is telling GOD that he made a mistake
Amen! IVE always said that. Its disrespectful to him.
I have a natural big butt and I cannot lay flat on my back. This is the norm to me, so I can imagine how uncomfortable it is for a bbl girl
That is a ridiculous look. She doesn't even realize it. Where is her father?
She’s being disingenuous, because she did it exclusively for the stares!
How are they funding this nasty work at such a young age.
These BB’Ls are destroying lives it’s not worth it. Just doesn’t look right there’s nothing wrong with going to the gym! I go and okay with what I have remember men do like natural and there’s nothing wrong with it ❤️ the body that GOD created it’s okay to have flaw and embrace them.
Your intros 😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀
😂😂😂😂😂 Y'all funny
To spend that kind of money on plastic surgery should be invested in a business of your own , buy a house, or in stocks to where you can see the longevity of your money. Not something that you can lose your life or it deform itself. All is needed is a good diet and workout at the gym . It may take a while but you'll see results.
I’ve never wanted a big butt I don’t get the look to be extremely tiny up too and extremely big at the bottom 😂 just funny looking to me They look like Centaurs if you ask me
2:30 I wonder how she has adjusted her hygiene routine, because alll dat ain’t easy to keep clean, alll day 😢
Boi that thumbnail really got me to click
Just leave your body alone... There is no need unless it is for medical reasons.
But I guess its their bodies so ...
Yall be safe ❤
Your body had to compensate for the new addition to your body! And I am surprised the doctor didn't tell you that you would start gaining weight after the procedure
Is that y I can’t sleep on my back? Because my derrière is too big? Guess you learn something new everyday.
I know those teenage girls laughing at her definitely triggered the insecurities that caused her to get the BBL in the first place. When will women learn to invest in therapy, a personal trainer and nutritionist instead of running to get surgeries that have killed many? We'll never know...
She 22 looking 34, plastic surgery is ruining her.
Bruh the TEENAGE girls laughing at you rather than idolizing you should’ve been a big wake up call
She looked better before. She had a nice shape.
I make bad decisions. Now treat me with kid gloves.
Why she even do her body, she had a beautiful body before surgery.
It’s not worth it
She had hips before the bbl so what is she talking about she wanted fuller hips oh my.
16? I’d bet the bank her real dad is no where in the picture.
It's too big 😮 She could enhance without going overboard.
She looks like a cartoon character
I am guy I’m thinking about a bbl 2 match my belly
It’s 100 percent for attention you’re not attracting yourself
The 1st lady just needs to lose weight and exercise. The 2nd lady is crazy for having plastic surgery at 16 😳
We don’t care about all of that ‼️‼️‼️
That first lady is lying about her before pictures, She done had several rounds of BBL‘s they need to stop the 🧢
Ooooh well ain't it a shame 😊
What's with all the facial gymnastics with the 2nd girl.
Man i understand what she saying but to me she fine.ill make her feel good about her self..she aint bad looking
Clown activities get clown results
There was nothing wrong with her that some time with family and friends could've have helped...
The world is full of 🐦 bird brains 🧠 😂
Simple. Too much money, not enough security in themselves. They changed themselves physically cause they didn’t wanna work on the mental
I dont feel bad for women that get bbl. My sister got one and i seen her a year later and it look like she never had one! Its like the fat dissolved back into her body.
🤷🏾🤦🏿♂️
She talking bout weight gain in other places ma’am as you age your body changes for example even with out surgery skinny women can get bigger and bigger women can get smaller dont rush the progress ya body at 15 ain’t the body you gonna have at 35. Should just waited and hit the gym saved the money and struggles cause when it drops droops and wrinkles it ain’t gonna look good anymore especially if you not enjoying working out on the regular
Bruh, You were 82nd??? I was 2nd and 3rd ID l!!! Hooah