This couldn’t have come at a better time. It made the difference between me bruising my dignity and calling this man who does not want to be with me. I will allow myself to feel the hurt and move on cause the worst place to be is with someone who doesn’t honor your presence. I turned the corner. Thank you!
Like others in the comments this got me through!!! The thing that stayed with me is I refuse to be with someone who doesn’t want ME...I focused on the love that I gave to that relationship was open and giving. How could anyone turn that down
A person that has a closed heart. They are not ready, just going through the motion. Best thing is to heal, take the wisdom of it and not put yourself in that position again. You saw the signs but thought it would get better When you make room for newness it happens🙏🏽
This is so what I needed to hear, never ask why, I was about to do just that. Indeed I can see how my ego and fears are at play here. I will do my best to focus on me and stay away of anger. This is tough because I am used to be in control, Putting my pieces back together!
He self satisfies, and leaves me untouched....there is porn in his life, and he tried to hide KY jelly coming in the mail...he is unable to be intimate with me, since my spine broke during sex and the position he had me in....now I need my 12th surgery (spine surgery in November) in the past 6 years...I have been married almost 6 years.....I keep telling myself something is wrong here, I feel alone, and I am new to Delaware....thank you for the head advise...I think I will get my surgery and move on and on....not sure where or how....yet I am sure God is guiding me already!
What I did wrong was marry too quickly after loosing my previous hubby to heart failure...so now the question is, what can I do to make it right, for me....I am poor but I will sew face masks and get me out of this, even in pain, I will work my way through!
This couldn’t have come at a better time. It made the difference between me bruising my dignity and calling this man who does not want to be with me. I will allow myself to feel the hurt and move on cause the worst place to be is with someone who doesn’t honor your presence. I turned the corner. Thank you!
As far as being gentle with yourself, be your own best friend. This has helped me to be gentle with me.
Wow stay in peace not pieces ☺️
Like others in the comments this got me through!!! The thing that stayed with me is I refuse to be with someone who doesn’t want ME...I focused on the love that I gave to that relationship was open and giving. How could anyone turn that down
A person that has a closed heart. They are not ready, just going through the motion. Best thing is to heal, take the wisdom of it and not put yourself in that position again. You saw the signs but thought it would get better When you make room for newness it happens🙏🏽
Renee Roberson Amen 🙏🏽
Such a great topic! Rarely is there advice for the person being left.
Thank you, I have watched this many times when I feel like I can’t move past my hurt. It makes me feel so much stronger ❤️
I’ve watched this before it helped me tremendously when I was going through my situation
Same, it feels so good to look back like what was I tripping on 🤦🏽♀️
This is so what I needed to hear, never ask why, I was about to do just that. Indeed I can see how my ego and fears are at play here. I will do my best to focus on me and stay away of anger. This is tough because I am used to be in control, Putting my pieces back together!
Iyanla your real good. I felt every word you said and you helped me prepare for that day. Thank you so much. 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌹🌹🌹🌹
Iyanla bless you every day. X
Why not important ...you are important ❤️
Good evening,. A very inspirational and informative video message. The world is watching you. Stay focus. Be safe. Blessings.🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️❤️❤️
Iyanla Vanzant thank you beautiful 💕
Thank You
Let go!
Did he ever try to come back?
Amen
Never ask why 8:53
This so juicy let me wipe my mouth 🥰‼️❣️
He self satisfies, and leaves me untouched....there is porn in his life, and he tried to hide KY jelly coming in the mail...he is unable to be intimate with me, since my spine broke during sex and the position he had me in....now I need my 12th surgery (spine surgery in November) in the past 6 years...I have been married almost 6 years.....I keep telling myself something is wrong here, I feel alone, and I am new to Delaware....thank you for the head advise...I think I will get my surgery and move on and on....not sure where or how....yet I am sure God is guiding me already!
What I did wrong was marry too quickly after loosing my previous hubby to heart failure...so now the question is, what can I do to make it right, for me....I am poor but I will sew face masks and get me out of this, even in pain, I will work my way through!
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