The last caller avoids conflict and financial responsibility. You told your friend you would pay for the damage then chickened out. That's not a good friend.
Caller 3 damaged their car!! And promised to fix it. It’s not their fault her care was hit and to be quite frank, she could sue the stepdad for damage. If it’s “not about the money” then fix it and pay the money.
1st Caller: Could be entirely wrong, but if this girl is comfortable enough to 5 years later message and say “I would be a better passenger”… she was a passenger at one time. This likely was physical and also may not have ended 5 years ago. I hope she finds peace because pretending you’re not bothered, won’t solve these issues.
I’m sorry but wtf was that advice on the car scratch. That caller is so in the wrong - the caller and her family DAMAGED their car, she said she would fix it (make them whole again!!!). Nick- for someone who preaches taking accountability and responsibly, I’m shocked you wouldn’t tell her she needs to take responsibility and make the situation right. What an entitled and rude person- she damages the friends car and then blocks them on all social media. WOW. So messed up, what a terrible friend.
First caller is hurting so bad😢 she needs a hard wake up call and leave. Her husband is such a POS. Years of therapy and he’s still talking to the girl he had an affair with??? Hellll nah.
I cannot handle that last caller with the car scratch. This was ultimately her (stepdad/friend) fault. She needs to take care of it. It’s her fault all the way around! Car insurance covers rentals when a vehicle is getting fixed. so if she’s not going with insurance she needs to help them get to work. This is silly. Also, that girl is not your friend! My best friend would never ever treat me like this. This sounds like a fake friendship.
I agree that Nick gives good advice, but I thought therapists weren’t supposed to give advice? So I think it’s a very different thing than what you would expect from therapy. I could be wrong though
Caller 1 sounds delusional- I feel for her- but she’s not seeing things clearly. “We have a great marriage” but she just talks about their material assets, not their relationship. She’s clearly not over it - Maybe staying with him and choosing to have child number 2 wasn’t the wisest choice but it’s the one she took- so if she’s going to choose this path with a man who kept lying to her FOR A YEAR, she needs to face reality and either accept it or move on.
You have clearly never been a mother in a complicated marriage . No she doesn’t sound delusional. She sounds like a loving, overextended and overwhelmed mother who has been deeply hurt but loves her family and just wants to make it work.
^ A good mother would leave this man like yesterday for her kids and mostly for her own mental in order to raise them healthy. Stop taking it personal and look at the bigger picture
1st Caller: Could be entirely wrong, but if this girl is comfortable enough to 5 years later message and say “I would be a better passenger”… she was a passenger at one time. This likely was physical and also may not have ended 5 years ago.
3rd caller..... being a teacher isn't an excuse not to pay for the damage your family caused to your friend's car that you said you would pay. you're an adult. pay up
First caller is cooked. She waited 5 years and even had a second kid with him after the affair. Funny, how it's always what he needs to do and about her needs/feelings. Instead of what she needs to do and his needs. But he's the one being selfish according to Nick "the expert", smh.
She sounds like a real piece of work. Just because you’re I just say it how it is doesn’t make it right , It’s not her place to introduce that word , just not. You can make that decision when you have a child of your own. Mind your business and be kind
My hope is that someone on the team can figure out how to harness getting more male callers. Or with the first call, also having her partner call in and speak on the subject. Its anonymous so why not?
mostly female followers, mostly female callers. from the few men that have called in, without a woman partner, have been imo egotistical and its more boastful than a conversation. perhaps a different channel would best suit your need. xx
@@hashtagtrending Can't remember a single "boastful" male caller. In fact the one guy who called in with the Dad who got with a girl he used to talk to was one of the kindest and most chill callers I can remember.
When some people are over domineering . That is not a healthy relationship. You cannot make someone like or love you. When you are looking for a mother figure and a hot relationship. Why hang around people that don't like you & your personality. When a girl gets used for pregnancy , she should look for a real relationship. You don't have to cover real feelings. Just play around , what your life has planned for you.
That first caller needs some real tough love from a friend or family to tell her to get out of this marriage
Love how you skipped the small talk in the beginning ❤
The last caller avoids conflict and financial responsibility. You told your friend you would pay for the damage then chickened out. That's not a good friend.
Caller 3 damaged their car!! And promised to fix it. It’s not their fault her care was hit and to be quite frank, she could sue the stepdad for damage. If it’s “not about the money” then fix it and pay the money.
1st Caller: Could be entirely wrong, but if this girl is comfortable enough to 5 years later message and say “I would be a better passenger”… she was a passenger at one time. This likely was physical and also may not have ended 5 years ago.
I hope she finds peace because pretending you’re not bothered, won’t solve these issues.
I’m sorry but wtf was that advice on the car scratch. That caller is so in the wrong - the caller and her family DAMAGED their car, she said she would fix it (make them whole again!!!). Nick- for someone who preaches taking accountability and responsibly, I’m shocked you wouldn’t tell her she needs to take responsibility and make the situation right. What an entitled and rude person- she damages the friends car and then blocks them on all social media. WOW. So messed up, what a terrible friend.
Second caller kinda rubbed me the wrong way when she said the dog sucks. It’s a puppy! Of course it’s going to have high energy and need training.
First caller is hurting so bad😢 she needs a hard wake up call and leave. Her husband is such a POS. Years of therapy and he’s still talking to the girl he had an affair with??? Hellll nah.
I cannot handle that last caller with the car scratch. This was ultimately her (stepdad/friend) fault. She needs to take care of it. It’s her fault all the way around! Car insurance covers rentals when a vehicle is getting fixed. so if she’s not going with insurance she needs to help them get to work. This is silly.
Also, that girl is not your friend! My best friend would never ever treat me like this. This sounds like a fake friendship.
I agree that Nick gives good advice, but I thought therapists weren’t supposed to give advice? So I think it’s a very different thing than what you would expect from therapy. I could be wrong though
No, you’re right. Therapists are trained to be impartial and give clients the tools and space to work through issues on their own.
Caller 1 sounds delusional- I feel for her- but she’s not seeing things clearly. “We have a great marriage” but she just talks about their material assets, not their relationship. She’s clearly not over it - Maybe staying with him and choosing to have child number 2 wasn’t the wisest choice but it’s the one she took- so if she’s going to choose this path with a man who kept lying to her FOR A YEAR, she needs to face reality and either accept it or move on.
Yea surprising that the caller said she is the “queen of therapy” 😂
You have clearly never been a mother in a complicated marriage . No she doesn’t sound delusional. She sounds like a loving, overextended and overwhelmed mother who has been deeply hurt but loves her family and just wants to make it work.
^ A good mother would leave this man like yesterday for her kids and mostly for her own mental in order to raise them healthy. Stop taking it personal and look at the bigger picture
1st Caller: Could be entirely wrong, but if this girl is comfortable enough to 5 years later message and say “I would be a better passenger”… she was a passenger at one time. This likely was physical and also may not have ended 5 years ago.
Guys did we even talk about LIB reunion? I’ve been waiting 😢
3rd caller..... being a teacher isn't an excuse not to pay for the damage your family caused to your friend's car that you said you would pay. you're an adult. pay up
First caller is cooked. She waited 5 years and even had a second kid with him after the affair. Funny, how it's always what he needs to do and about her needs/feelings. Instead of what she needs to do and his needs. But he's the one being selfish according to Nick "the expert", smh.
Why not allow Justin to chime in? Silly to have him there otherwise.
She sounds like a real piece of work. Just because you’re I just say it how it is doesn’t make it right , It’s not her place to introduce that word , just not. You can make that decision when you have a child of your own. Mind your business and be kind
You’re allowed to type the word lesbian I swear it won’t hurt you.
LEAHHHHH!!!!!!!! AHHHHH!!!!!!!
My hope is that someone on the team can figure out how to harness getting more male callers. Or with the first call, also having her partner call in and speak on the subject. Its anonymous so why not?
mostly female followers, mostly female callers. from the few men that have called in, without a woman partner, have been imo egotistical and its more boastful than a conversation.
perhaps a different channel would best suit your need.
xx
@@hashtagtrending Can't remember a single "boastful" male caller. In fact the one guy who called in with the Dad who got with a girl he used to talk to was one of the kindest and most chill callers I can remember.
When some people are over domineering . That is not a healthy relationship. You cannot make someone like or love you. When you are looking for a mother figure and a hot relationship. Why hang around people that don't like you & your personality. When a girl gets used for pregnancy , she should look for a real relationship. You don't have to cover real feelings. Just play around , what your life has planned for you.