That happens because he is not getting the love from you that you promised and he is finding that pure love with his children...yyou can blame him, or you can change yourself.
@@TheMarriageFoundationwow, what a rotten comment. So she has to change and it’s her fault? Buddy, I think your advice is incorrect. I don’t think I need to watch anymore of your videos.
I’m going through a similar situation. My soon to be ex husband put his 3 children first before me. Long story short he got custody of his 3 kids 3 years ago. Ages 16,13,&10 the kids came to live with us in a blink of an eye and him and I started having problems due to the way he disciplined them. Not only where they disrespectful towards me but to him as well. I gave him advise to get them therapy or some type of counseling because their behavior would only get them in big trouble if he’d not correct it. Well he told me one day not to tell him how to raise his kids and that hurt me deeply. It took me 3 years to finally make the decision to leave. To him I was just a selfish b$tch that only thought about myself.
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I think the spouse should come first. That is your life partner. Unless the spouse is abusive to you or the kids. When I think of my grandparents, I would hope that they would try to save eachother in a situation rather than others. My grandparents are ALWAYS together and have been married over 50 years.
I absolutely agree with you: The spouse comes first - but when the children are in danger, being abused or are otherwise suffering, then the mother (or father) needs to protect the children and see them as the number one priority! This is a very important video for couples to watch, thank you so much 🙏🏼
My husband puts our kids first. I’ve felt unloved and invisible for years.
That happens because he is not getting the love from you that you promised and he is finding that pure love with his children...yyou can blame him, or you can change yourself.
Then you should be putting the kids first as well and then you won't feel left out. Put the kids first together.
@@TheMarriageFoundationwow, what a rotten comment. So she has to change and it’s her fault? Buddy, I think your advice is incorrect. I don’t think I need to watch anymore of your videos.
It’s all fun and games until your children feel unloved and invisible
Spouse first for sure.
I’m going through a similar situation. My soon to be ex husband put his 3 children first before me. Long story short he got custody of his 3 kids 3 years ago. Ages 16,13,&10 the kids came to live with us in a blink of an eye and him and I started having problems due to the way he disciplined them. Not only where they disrespectful towards me but to him as well. I gave him advise to get them therapy or some type of counseling because their behavior would only get them in big trouble if he’d not correct it. Well he told me one day not to tell him how to raise his kids and that hurt me deeply. It took me 3 years to finally make the decision to leave. To him I was just a selfish b$tch that only thought about myself.
Are you sure its too late? You can change and you can rebuild your marriage if you choose and if he is not with another woman. themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
I wouldn't want a man back who disrespects me by calling me a bit**
I think the spouse should come first. That is your life partner. Unless the spouse is abusive to you or the kids. When I think of my grandparents, I would hope that they would try to save eachother in a situation rather than others. My grandparents are ALWAYS together and have been married over 50 years.
I absolutely agree with you: The spouse comes first - but when the children are in danger, being abused or are otherwise suffering, then the mother (or father) needs to protect the children and see them as the number one priority!
This is a very important video for couples to watch, thank you so much 🙏🏼
Yes, the distinctions are very important. Thank you.
Be careful. That's means your spouse comes first under CERTAIN CIRCUMSTANCES
KIDS COME FIRST. ALWAYS.
Yes
I love your gentle approach, Sir
I completely agree. My husband and I came to the same conclusion once we started trying and focused on preparing to be parents.
I love your videos :)
Thank you for being a part of us 🙏
Blended family advice where kids are involved from each partner?
This may help you ua-cam.com/video/mqylFy6vmfg/v-deo.htmlsi=rlBqAwnFNRWYgMAh and remember love is for all 🙏
It depends on the age of the kids and circumstances. If the kids are almost 18 and older, then my spouse comes first.
Why not always? Then your kids will do much better
Are any videos of your for child and parent relationships
I'm sorry, no
Love for a spouse is always conditional
Until you choose to make it unconditional that is true.