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I agree with YOU... but DON'T be deceived by CHS she is a feminist SHILL undercover. She condescends against boys every chance she gets. BOYS DO NOT HAVE learning problems. BOYS never had learning problems until wo-MEN took over the schools. In fact, BOYS have 10% larger brains than girls by the age of 15 and 5 points higher IQ...
Women connect to women, men connect to men. The only time the opposite gender connects to the opposite gender is when people have siblings of the opposite gender. I don’t have any siblings but I have A’s and B’s which doesn’t show what I am interested in, it shows that I’m a good student not what I like. I feel like if students could graduate high school based on what they like, our country would be better off than with the current school system. And also have certain gender males for classes because there are things men can do that women can’t and there are things women can do that men can’t. Then there is also the things that men and women can do. The army is something that use to be men only, but now women can join even though we need women to get more kids which the replacement rate is supposed to be 2.1 kids, but in America it is 1.9.
My fourth grade teacher was the dropout prevention teacher. He was a Vietnam war vet. He said no one was going to fail his class. He brute forced it. he made kids cry. He pushed us to our limits. And in the end he made us proud of ourselves for succeeding. Moms don’t do this for their kids. Dad do.
@@waiki8223immediately goes to defending MOM ! " but - but - the exception .... " Just stop it . Of COURSE there are awesome parents of both sexes - we all get it . It's like you missed the whole point .
@@waiki8223not my single mother, I learned everything I needed to learn about love and dating from watching her. I have no interest in that nonsense. Never satisfied, doesn’t know the words “I’m sorry I was wrong”, never communicates what exactly she wants, you have to do it wrong till you do it right. Nope I’m good, I live in ✌️ .
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@@waiki8223My mother did that for me but failed to do so for my younger brothers... But I suspect it's laziness behind it.
Well, you also care if your doctor is well educated, right? Yet you also claim that highly educated and well accomplished women are not what men are into. This is toxic masculinity. Lack of respect for women. Treating them as a kind of prize for YOUR accomplishments, submissive servants. I did great so now I am entitled to come home, get dinner and god forbid she talks about what is important for her. I already talked with my buddies at the bar, at home I want peace and no drama - essentially drama is everything what is important to her. She should talk with her friends, cook dinner, clean a house and give head. All as silent as possible bs exhausted male needs a rest. You know what toxic masculinity is? Making everything a competition. Loosing way and never asking anybody how to get where you want bc it’s unmanly. Never going to a doctor bc it’s unmanly. Always wanting to be right. Being aggressive and humiliating people and then when they break - making fun of them. And pretending you work for your family and this is why you have no time for said family. It s Big fat crap. Men who say these don’t need to work so much - their wives beg them to slow down, house can be smaller, we don’t need new car every 4 years and so on. Nope, he works. For his family 😂😂😂. No he works bc he wants to prove himself to other males, keep his status in his work environment- and this is world more important to him than any f*** family of his. Maybe he really thinks about a family - a new one he can have with a much younger woman if he succeeds more.
I am a male teacher in science and history. If any of you guys are looking for a career, please consider teaching. One of the main reasons I joined was to be a male role model. Kids need it more than ever.
Let's not forget how one well placed, false, baseless accusation can land a male teacher in jail followed by wearing an ankle monitor for the rest of his life. Not worth the risk for men.
My high school English teacher hanged himself in his cell awaiting trial because a 17 year old bombshell of a student texted him nudes that he never asked for and her parents found out 3 years after the fact.
I have seen where female teachers get caught having sex with students and they don’t do jail time, just get on the sex offender list. A man will always do time for the same crime.
I've been a teacher for 23 years, and have only worked with a few fellow men. Once an older colleague retired, I became the only male teacher in our school system K-8. I have been told by some students I was the first male classroom teacher I've ever had, and I teach 8th grade. I've had quips thrown out at me by my female colleagues like "well, you're a man, so you wouldn't understand" or "sorry I have to repeat that, but you're a typical man and were ignoring me" or "the kids just behave for you differently because you're a man". Now, imagine if I said a parallel comment to any of these to my female coworkers?? Yes, schools are supremely feminized environments. Kids in a poorer community like mine come to school to female authority and supervision, and too often go home to female authority and supervision only. Part of boys acting out is because they're seeking the attention they are literally never getting from their female teachers. The interesting thing that has also played out is having female students drawn to me because they, too, lack male role models or a balance of masculinity to the femininity in their lives. It's painfully obvious. Thank you for bringing this out in the open.
In addition, if I may... FOOD is part of this problem. Sugars, (all carbohydrates) Soy, Seed oils, Grains, (breads) Fruit is SUGAR, Vegetables can't provide enough good protein. What all humans need! BEEF, EGGS, FAT, SALT, SUN, DIRT, WATER and SLEEP !!! OH, and good competitive hobbies!
@@craigmccall7450 Bro, I hate to break it to you but a diet and going to boot camp don't magically make people into adults. I know the military would like you to believe so but Fort whatever the name is in texas with its very nice kilimanjaro maself rate is indicative that you are wrong.
It’s funny, when my son was a freshman in high school, I got a call at home by the principal. She told me that my son was involved in a very violent incident with another student (his best friend and teammate on the football team). The way she describes the incident, I was picturing a UFC grudge match. I got the full speech on no violence will be accepted in any shape or form. During the speech, I saw that my son was playing football with his presumed victim/best friend in the back yard. I when to talk to them and they told me that there was no bad blood between them, and that what started as a tackling practice in the locker room got a bit heated but nothing more… Boys will be boys!!
People really tend to forget we found joy in a playful fight with our mates not because we HAVE to be agressive because someone told us to, but because its just another form of bondin with someone
I haven't been a kid in school for a looooong time, but back when I was in highscool, one of my good friends and I used to push each other around a lot just for fun. We got to the point where we'd do it when the other wasn't expecting it because you could push them further if they weren't braced and ready for it. There was no malice or anger or anything, we were great friends, we just liked to push each other. Anyway, one day after we ate lunch together, we were walking to our next class and I suddenly pushed him really hard. He flew back so far, that he crashed through a window and fall on the ground on the other side of it, which was inside a classroom that was in progress so it scared a lot of people who didn't know what was going on when this guy suddenly burst through the window and fell on the floor. He was not injured at all. He was wearing his backpack loaded with thick heavy books and they were what crashed into the window and broke it, and pushed all that glass out of his way as he went. I immediately ran to go check on him to make sure he was alright, because I was worried since he broke that window maybe he got hurt, or at the very least cut up by glass, but he was fine, then we started laughing about it. We got grabbed by a teacher and taken to speak with the principal as well as the school counselor. This tiny little black lady, who was very sweet, who sat us down and began to ask us why we were fighting. We kind of looked at each other and laughed and told her what happened. That we were just pushing each other around and we're friends, there was no fight. She understood and looked relieved. Ultimately, we didn't get in any trouble at all, the school just made our parents pay to fix the window and that was that. Even our parents didn't mind too much, they weren't happy about having to pay to fix that window (although it was only like $75 each) but we'd never really gotten in trouble before so they basically just let us go because we weren't exactly trouble makers where this was a routine thing. Additionally, without anyone telling us this, we both agreed to not push each other anymore because we saw the potential consequences of it and didn't want to go through it again, so instead we just ramped up our competitions in PE. Who could run faster, who could do more pushups and situps and pullups, etc. Had a friendly rivalry where we pushed each other to get better and stronger and faster. I haven't thought about this in years, but your story reminded me of it. I'm so glad I went to school in a place and at a time where you could just be yourself without all this modern new age BS oppressing your every thought and action
I changed schools for my kids several times. My son ended up in a STEM school. My daughter has been pulled out because of ratchet students. I remember my daughter had a male teacher, and a mother told me that he was bad teacher, maybe because he wasn’t a pushover. MY daughter loved him as did the other children. I think our society makes men stay out of education by characterizing men that want to teach as predators. While there have been men that were predators, people somehow miss or put their heads in the ground when it comes to the women teachers that are predators.
My buddy was a math teacher. He left after 3 years. Reason: the kids didn't want to try to apply themselves, and their parents were insufferable. This was basic Algebra. He wasn't bad at teaching. In fact one of our friends who struggled in math would listen to him and reply, "that makes sense. If it was explained like that, I wouldn't have struggled."
Libs' only know one way..artificially promote the girls while ignoring & placing obstacles for the boys... This will create 'equity'. The crazies are in charge.
As a former teacher aide I would be very hesitant to encourage any male to enter the current education system. I had a young girl hug me in front of more than fifty of her classmates because she was excited that I would be listening to her read. The female teacher swiftly reprimanded her and then me for inappropriate behaviour. The child was confused. What had she done wrong? Perhaps, it was simply 'embracing the enemy?'
As female teacher but not from US I wouldn't encourage anyone to do this, low payment, hard to find job (my country has problems with population), parents, whole system is against you. Being male just adds risk of accusations of harassments of that kind.
I wonder tho if her reaction is actually due to the amount of men / dads that would actually have a problem with this, causing the teacher to preemptively go into protective mode to avoid the wrath of parents…..
I am a current MS teacher & past HS teacher, This is the problem: forcing boys to sit still for 2 hours straight and focus on a subject. Most boys are hands on learners, make mistakes & fix it, create things, build things. But instead we sit thm down, give them Romeo and Juliet and tell them to read it and write about it. They are disinterested, bored, dont care, fail as a result. And then believe the straight Ds and Fs is who they are.
(former MS teacher here) What's interesting is when we act out Romeo and Juliet instead of reading it, the boys get into it. This has been the same across the board with literature and books- though this applies to both boys and girls
@@mattsmichel9864 you are exactly right. I'm a Spanish teacher. When I teach the convivejcia of Spain and then Mexico history, I dress the kids up and I tell the history as they play their parts. The boys love it, and they remember it and understand it better.
@@mattsmichel9864It has been proven that boys learn better by doing, whereas girls learn by listening/repeating. School programs have been emasculated in order to boost female performance.
Psychologist here (and male). YES! Psychology is saturated with an anti-male bent. And of course this was fostered and festered in undergrad and graduate psychology schools where males (especially white and straight) we consistently targeted. It would earn female students unspoken brownie points to say all this crap aloud in class. I would eventually lose my shit and point this out and they could argue nothing back. It was a disturbing lesson on the state of education at the higher levels and on psychology in America. To this day when a colleague (nearly always female) asks what my specialty is, I reply "Being a dude."
Well until a few decades ago women were still being diagnosed with hysteria and there is a medical gap between women and men where medical trials were conducted on mostly men. But this is where I disagree with feminists, the points you mentioned and in the video show us that the world is changing and that the so called patriarchy(which they believe is still alive, I think its on its last legs) is withering away and now we have to make sure it doesn't get replaced with a matriarchy.
Well, no, they aren't falling behind... they are being kicked out and abandoned... and don't think it's because the education system is somehow failing. The education system is doing *exactly* that they want it to do, at least in this area. This isn't a bug... it's a "feature".
And for your parliament which decides the frame-work of your countries education - you voted for whom and allied with whom? How much money did they want to allocate for better education and better life-conditions for kids and teachers? How much did they walk their talk? I learn about the schools in the USA and it is a horror story on all lvels!
I’m in the UK, where schools tend to be overseen by a board of governors, which usually includes a mix of local ‘community leaders’ and parents of children in the school. One of my work colleagues was a parent governor for her son's primary school and was asked to take part in interviews for a new teacher. Before the interviews, the head of the school took her aside and apologised that one of the candidates was a man, explaining that they had tried to find a legal reason to reject him at the application stage but hadn’t been able to. The head then said that she was confident that they would be able to find something in the interview to reject him. When my colleague expressed surprise that a teacher would be rejected purely based on gender, the head said, “Well, we all know there’s only one reason a man wants to work with children...”.
My 8th grade English and one my high school history teachers was a one armed man. Lost it in WW2 yeah he was guilty of most men of that era. Visual of him for me was awesome awareness. My English teacher was very cool. That was first period. I still remembered them over 50 years.
Yep. They are always paranoid of men being sexual predators, when female teachers regularly sexually abuse students too. I'm not saying male teachers can't be predators, because they very much can, but there is a massive un-acknowledgement of the fact that women can be predators too and its being going on for a long time and still doesn't show any signs of being addressed. I always wonder what sexist teachers like this think when one of their trusted female staff members get caught molesting or raping a 12 year old boy. Pisses me off so much.
I was in a meeting where we dicussed who we might have for our next speaker talk about. Someone said, "Anyone but a dead white male". Everyone either agreed or said nothing until I said, "Like my Dad?" He had passed away the week before. The silence was deafening.
At Disney, they implemented a "Rosie's Program" designed exclusively to help women become more technical. However, for men, the assumption was that they already possessed the necessary technical skills, and no similar training opportunities were provided. This approach felt completely contrary to the principles of inclusivity, as it alienated male employees and left them feeling unsupported, essentially signaling that they were on their own.
The same idea pervades modern day corporations. Opportunities for cross job training, internships, employee resource groups, etc are open to individuals who are simply put; not a man. If you're a man or "identify" as a man - they're not places for you. And people wonder why there's any level of resentment being harbored by young men? Just open your eyes, it's everywhere around us.
I was asked to colour in a mushroom and I did so. I used browns and greys because that is what a mushroom is to a 6 year old boy. And I got so embarrassed by my teacher who compared it to the girl who was next to me. She used bright and multiple colours that made no sense to me, mushrooms aren't those colours and yet she was somehow better than me. That teacher harmed my self esteem and I still remember it to this day.
My nephew graduated a coupe of years ago. The guest speaker, a woman, spoke at length about how she succeeded in a male world, and how if you're female don't let any wall stop you, you can succeed. You are powerful, etc. Not once did she say a male can succeed. This was to a graduating class which was 70% male. I noticed it, my sister did, and many other parents did. The problem was no one complained to the school about it. So the school continues this because they get no pushback. As a society we give all the positive reinforcement we can to women and none to men.
Even parents push their daughters to go to college (usually destroying them by turning them wild) while not bothering to encourage boys to do something for their future..
That's exactly it, girls get all the positive messaging while boys are constantly told they're the problem. Boys in these newest generations have been told their whole lives that they're what's wrong with the world, I imagine that's going to cause more and more problems going forward.
The "myth of male power" is part of this. We've had it so good for so long, says the narrative, that it's not REALLY hurting us to give girls advantages in school.
Working in a workplace run by women is like living in hell. Constant complaining, bickering, gossiping about each other, micromanaging, and making small issues into massive issues, always drama.
Women HATE each other. I have worked in 50/50 ish gender ratio work places and women just do not get along. This Hollywood and mainstream propaganda narrative of women standing together is total lies.
my favourite foreman told me on a construction site to note gossip about other workers unless they were present. One of the best life lessons ive been given. I felt like such a wimp when I did so when he chastised me, if you have a problem, deal with it with the person.
I'm a woman, and completely agree with you. I'd been out of the US for the 80's and 90's and when I returned, it seemed women were in charge of everything. This disturbed me, especially during my sons school years, where every problem they/we had was caused by the rule of silly/maniacal/helicopter women.
Let’s just admit the school system itself is the issue. Teachers are under paid, over emotional, and over worked. Half the teachers ain’t qualified to be a teacher, it’s emberassing we allow anyone with a piece of paper become a teacher. For a child to learn they have to be engaged and interested. Our school system is neither interesting nor engaging.
My son was learning about the differences between fairy tales and folk tales. He did his writing assignment and said that he like folk tales better than fairy tales "because people die in them." Haha.. I think the teacher was mortified, but I was like: I see where you are coming from.
Haha, I'm a male teacher who used to teach about the past. Both girls and boys perk up when their is drama and death. The fairy tale thing with happy endings only appeals to people (mainly girls) 10 or below. A lot of the girls probably felt the same as your son or would when they reach teenage years. Left teaching, though, it definitely isn't a job any man in the 21st century should do.
@@ApesAmongUsYeah, that's pretty crazy that a school would teach that fairy tales don't have death in them. I am really curious as to what they are pointing out as different about them though. The most recent The Little Mermaid should have stayed accurate to the original story and people would have freaked out.
I am a male teacher. I've been a high school and middle history teacher for 21 years. During my Credential program we had to do a presentation on a educational book. I did the War Against Boys. It was a truly eye opening book and definitely affected the way I teach and the way I think about teaching.
@@ОксанаЧернохвостенкоI think violence against women is an overused topic. That doesn't deny it's importance though. It's just that something involving male victimization is more unique and a nearly untouched topic.
I worked for four years teaching a fifth grade class, the only male in the building. i was very aware at the start of my first year how stark and purposeful my classroom looked compared to the bright, colorful, cozy classrooms in the rest of the building. I wondered if i hadn't made a mistake, taking the position. I'd been a middle school science teacher up to that point and my classroom had been filled with projects under construction or revision, utilitarian in the extreme, and filled with energy. But guess whose room in my new school became the magnet, mostly for the other fifth grade boys but for some of the girls, too. Kids don't mind the differences, they value them , and value good people, male or female. They need models of both as they grow up. Thanks to Christina for standing up and speaking truths too many people in education don't want to hear.
no modern "teacher" would survive what was on our minds back in the 70s. We all wanted to be cops, soldiers, firemen, athletes, etc. So much testosterone and big dreams of big things like manned missions to Mars, exploring the unknown and having dangerous jobs in adult life. After a career in the Army, I got to live that life and have no regrets.
Being a boy in 6th grade I had a male teacher. We butted heads. He finally got my mind right. I really needed the discipline I got. My favorite teacher of all time.
So a bunch of boys are told to express their feelings, but then are punished for doing exactly this around a bonfire, the thing we've been doing together for millions of years?
Been tons of studies done on educational bias being slated to female students. The study shows that men tend to take it slightly easier on female students but women seem to take it noticeably harder on boys. There was a blind study done where teachers were asked to grade papers and all they knew up top was the name. Papers that had a female names were graded between a half a grade and a full grade higher by men and a grade to a grade and a half lower by females. This is just basic gender bias. Now imagine the real bias that plays out as teachers establish relationships with students.
This is why I've been saying that all boy school's and all girl school's need to become mandatory. That way men can teach boys how to be men, and women can teach girls how to be women. Zero bias.
This reminds me when I was in high school and we had a sub English teacher come in around deer season and we got a speech on how horrible hunting is (small town where most folks hunt) then she started screwing with our grades so me and a few others left a deer head on her porch lol she quit soon after
The funny thing is that she’s a real feminist. She just isnt delusional and knows men and women are different and that we both need a place in this world.
The not so funny thing is that this very profound female expert has no real power over anything - who denies her the last word in many decisions? Exactly who? How could Dads look to, that she gets more power?
Femenism is destroying human civilization. Look at the effects. Maybe I can see it more clearly since I grew in Cuba. But in the west, boys are demonized for pursuing their Primal urges to chase a girl and make a family. Boys got nothing to aspire for anymore. No reason to invent new things when there's no reward.
4:31 I also will add, that men usually drop out because they have to work, to feed their family, whether it he their mother and father, or whether it be their children and wife. Just because feminists feel that their role of "homemaker" is optional, does not mean men's role of "provider" is optional. There's nothing to make men's lives easier or dreams come true. They have to work for it.
@@SWOTHDRA I really hope that we go back to a male friendly education environment, if we to have a public school at all. I prefer homeschooling, though.
The idea behind feminism is that men and women would have the same opportunities and choices. In a perfect world, a single income is enough to allow one parent (mom or dad) to be a parent/ homemaker. Rarely, neither parent has that option because two incomes are a necessity today.
@caronadams4486 1) Even if that is the definition of feminism ( which, there is more to it than that), that's a stupid idea. For one, we are very different, from our anatomy, to our psychology. We shouldn't have the same opportunities and choices, because, to be honest, we are simply not the same. For instance, no woman should be a firefighter. That's not me being unnecessarily discrimanatory. Lives would be at stake if she gets the job. And, how the workplace has altered in various ways to accommodate women, proves this point. Why do we have HR, sensitivity training, etc.? Because women have a strong need to have social conformity. 2) The ideology of feminism actually has a huge part to play in the economic turmoil we face. When women flooded the workplace (causing reduction in wages due to distribution) AND started asking for the same wage (an actual entitlement, given women actually were new employees at the time, still work less hours, have less duration in a company, etc.), everyone started asking for more money. We'll, the government continually prints more money, causing inflation. And, by in large, the same people wanting to flood the workplace with women, also want to flood the workplace with illegals. Something to be said. 3) Again, create a problem, and causing economic gridlock. The truth is , there are still ways for one to have a nuclear family, just, few want to. Even if some make the sacrifice to swing it (a growing number do), they are ostracized by the likes of people like you.
I recall a story in a SF magazine in which the assignment was for a girl and a boy were to write alternating sections of a story. The girl’s story was about how she was selecting her tea after her breakup with her boyfriend. The boy’s was SF and he was captain of a starship lamenting that the girl he left behind was pretty but boring, always obsessed with her tea. The assignment descended into a screaming match between the boy and the girl. I’m so old, I remember the time before “Dick and Jane” when the stories were interesting.
This reminds me of a time my teacher demanded we write a recount of our personal affairs when i made it clear im not sharing my personal life with people who dislike me i got told i can do it or get detention so i just said fine then wrote a small fantasy story with a false holiday mixed in and my teacher got pissy i made up a story and explained clearly i told her im not giving personal information for a poor quality english class.
Our school district has quite a few male teachers and I’m so grateful. In elementary school, they tend to be in 4th-6th and I feel that’s the exact time it’s needed most. They have outgrown the need for a motherly figure at school. They desire the energy and loud voices of the men. Also, I’ve found that male teachers show much more interest in the kids lives & interested simply because men can compartmentalize and don’t stress as much. We’ve had them come to soccer games, lemonade stands, ask for pictures of the things they like to do outside of school. We have yet to have a female teacher ask for any of that. They tend to have the mindset that kids should be seen and not heard. Sit still for 7 hours and listen, while men think of the classroom as a community.
My grandmothers are/were both of the pre-WW2 generations. One thing I have noticed with them is how they never ever have made any generalized statements about men or women. I never heard "men are like..." or "women are like..." - and these are both very critical women, who have very little nice to say about things. And yet, never blanket statements about the genders. From my mother and my mother's generation onwards though. Oh boy, the vitriol, the blaming, the shaming. This is taught behavior! Women are taught at an early age, by women who had some bad interactions, to hate men. Yes, hate - because that's what it is. A taught loathing of men.
I had an assignment at a local elementary school. I was a semi retired teacher working as a substitute teacher. The fits grade female teacher gave her class a writing assignment in which they had to choose a female athlete to write about. The girls loved it. The boys were confused and concerned why they couldn’t choose a male athlete. They did poorly on the assignment. The classroom was so feminized the boys acted as if they were outcast because the class prioritized girls needs.
@danielscott7985 childless dead end spotted. My youngest has definitely gotten assignments in this same vein. The lockdown era was eye opening for what’s really going on in these schools
here is the deal: teachers do not earn as much money. While the ladies can in certain ways afford to do that because eventually many will meet a guy who makes more money doing something else… many guys who become teachers probably automatically shrink their pool of future partners . Many women will not consider a male teacher as a viable husband due to earning potential . So when we say - we just need more male teachers, how do we entice them? Majority of men want to have a possibility of starting a family and the women in their life will eventually want to know how he will provide for the family . “ that’s so cool/cute that you work with kids” reaction does not fly too far for many women. An educated guess here
You get it too, the dating scene is filled with this problem, women have been given better career opportunities i have no problem! but when it comes to relationships and forming families, they STILL want a guy who makes more money than they do! As a result it’s harder to find these guys because the majority of men are beneath them now! from day 1 in school to adulthood, society has stopped giving men a fair way to succeed. It will be no surprise to me if in the next 10 years time we see a rise in violence from young men as society has clearly failed them, and we’re seeing laws being setup in anticipation for this already.
@@CloudWalkBeta yeah, then we'll wonder and ask ourselves "why are men so violent? We don't understand!" as the idiots we humans are and the only solution we'll find will be making sentences more and more harsh for men rather than ACTUALLY IMPROVING the fucking education system. What a joke.
In high school, I had a female English teacher that halfway understood boys. After having certain students all in the same class, she better understood. We almost revolted one day until she understood that when we were writing about the drive to commit actions we were writing about our feelings. For most boys, feelings motivate or hinder behaviors, actions. We can feel them, powerfully. We can ponder them, deeply. We have a hard time applying words of description to feelings without learning to translate thoughts on motivation or avoidance in other ways that actually have words. We are literally just feeling the feelings and diving into them in the most pure sense when we try to ponder. Until we learn the words, there are none. Often when we do learn the words, we are told we are too broad. How can one not speak broadly when looking upon the wide sea?
If they weaken or discourage the men earlier in life, it makes for a much more controllable society. It is truly Teri or thing that is happening! As a mother of three boys, I have always encouraged them to be themselves. They are strong, kind, both emotionally and mentally intelligent. All we can do is start with our own children and support the young men of the world by standing up to this nonsense!
Where I live, the boys are becoming so feminised that sometimes I think I've walked into the wrong toilet! Our influence on our children is subverted by Big Corp which wants boys in make-up and whose hobby is shopping. Worse, the dark hand wants boys to eschew their masculinity (all of which is "toxic"), assertiveness and challenge. They want boys to be obedient and docile. Then the hidden hand has total power.
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If isn't controllable without strong men holding up the pillars. It will collapse.
It starts with mothers (especially single mothers) that live their sons and don’t disrespect their fathers in front of them- same goes with fathers talking about mothers. Even if your ex is a piece of work don’t talk negatively about him around your son OR Daughters. We ALL Need to be taught to respect one another as individuals. Too Many angry man hating single moms raising fearful, untrusting man-hating daughters and insecure, unwanted boys.
This idea of feminine based learning having an impact on male learning was written about a few decades ago. The fact that it has been ramped up as opposed to a serious look, tells you all you need to know. I also find it interesting that a more feminized society has a sharp increase in mental health problems for both sexes.
@@michaelconvery8871It hasn't changed. Kids have been sitting in class rooms for a while now. Higher education is conducted in a classroom, and the lower grades model it. Higher education and its imitators is how old? Four or five hundred years? People have been sitting in lectures forever. Church is one example.
@@teresamagnussonwhy do females need special accommodation? Because we are different. Equally valuable, equally important, both needed for the continuation of society. Tending toward different inclinations, skills and desires. The top 1% has made the other 99% lives rachet for millenia, continuing their control by redirecting anger towards the Other of the day instead of those who made the system what it is.
Boys respond well to physical activity. They need a bit of adventure to capture the imagination. Little boys absolutely love to help out with anything physical. A males mind needs physical activity. I think an exhausted body can be the best way to calm the mind in males. I don't think that we need to go wild and have them lift weights all day but rather incorporate physical activity as a way to learn and solve problems. Sitting in a chair all day is probably not the best way for boys. Gym class is OK, but it's not exactly the physical adventure that will capture the attention. Teaching math and science to boys would be a thousand times easier through carpentry, engineering, technology, and money where they can get their hands on it and see the reward of creating through these skills to really capture their imagination
@@chrisquinn394 It’s a start to better accommodate boys in elementary schools. Our local school has a great playground space, but they only let the kids out at most once a day. After lunch they sit and watch movies.
I homeschool my kids. My son is sick and he collects the trash and takes it out, gets the mail, and lets out the dog and feeds him. And his grandparents know anytime they have little tasks to do, Charlie is always up for it. I love to help but he really just wants to do it and his demeanor is so good after helping everyone out. He just wants to be appreciated! And he is
I whole heartedly agree, they don’t teach civics anymore or phonics - too difficult. The system has been perverted into a career path and not a true education system…thank you National Education Administration and Teachers Unions. If administrators and teachers got paid according to their actual performance of the education students received, most would be fired for subpar performance. They don’t want to teach the basics (reading, writing and arithmetic), they want to teach the esoteric DEI crap that permeates society, they need to teach not only the proper curriculum but also life skills (minor medical, cooking, cleaning, finances, budgeting, light sewing and job interview skills) to prepare the students (prospective adults) for the rest of their lives. Oh, but national teacher association thinks that too hard for them. True the parents should be teaching a lot of this to their children, but often time both parents are working very hard, sometimes at two or more jobs just to make ends meet. Who has the most time to teach, eight or more hours at school, or at home, where they’re lucky if the parents have two maybe three hours to teach, including doing homework.
The system also makes children depressed by the time they grow up. By a young age, if they start failing and isn't brought back up, they will be beaten down by their surroundings and the system until the become broken. the ironic part is that the broken children is still a better outcome than the pampered ones.
I am a single mother .My son his starting 11 th grade and I got to admit ,the best teachers he got through the years were men . They would teach things in a way only guys could get and it was great to see my son perform in these conditions . The hardest years were somehow always when he got a female teacher . Those write your feelings down ,is just ridiculous. You can learn things without spilling yourself out to a whole class room . Just ridiculous and our boys are paying the price so that means our society will be paying the price for the “ lack “ of education our future men are getting . Things need to change , we need “ tough” men to care for this country ! Not sissies talking about their feelings ! Look at the state of the world because of “ feelings” ! Humanity is losing its grip on reality ! Very scary !
Ya I should have left his father beat me up in fro rid our kids of another 20 years ,just he could teach his son how to be a real man . Assumptions and judgments will fall back on you o e day ! Ya because according to your statement all single mothers are the bad ones , wanting to be raising kids on their own in this f up world filled with people like you who often speak without even knowing nothing about nothing. Get out of your bubble and see what is really happening in your neighbourhood . You might be very supeise to learn that there is such a thing as bad fathers,or husbands or maybe is it my fault and maybe I did deserve to have broken ribs and broken nose because the man I married turned out to be a coward! Like a lot of other cowards always easy to blame the most vulnerable !
Way back during my years teaching pre-K, Kindergarten, early grade science and math intervention, the parents called me "the boys' teacher" because I included so much movement, had play centers with a focus on animals and block play was a priority. All of that is good for girls too. We aren't serving either sex well with the focus on sitting, reading and writing ad infinitum.
This is interesting to me as a mom of a male child in Middle School. Almost all of his teachers have been female, and I have never seen classrooms that were "overly feminine". I also spent time in classrooms helping out I felt that it wasn't very gender-specific at all. In fact, almost all of my teachers were females when I was growing up too and that was a long time ago. Female dominance in the education system is nothing new.
As a long -too long - time teacher, I recall how in Australian secondary schools from the 80's onwards there was special emphasis on helping girls to succeed in the STEM subjects. At least in the public schools where I could observe, it really was a zero-sum game: girls were (and still are) praised for breaking 'glass ceilings' and the achievement of boys was allowed to slide away. Coupled with skilled work going overseas, so that technical training diminished, the lack of 'ordinary' jobs and the impossible costs of housing, I suspect that many boys simply lost all faith that school was worth the effort.
Also a former educator in Canada. Your time lines for the male detoxification of public school is about the same as ours. This is what happens whenyou engineer an admin takeover by feminists of which many (70%) are self admitted alphabetors, there sole doctrine is to rid the world of toxic masculinity,
Exactly, its even worse when you add dating into this mess. I’m seeing guys growing up with minimum wage dead-end service jobs that are mind numbing boring. While girls are seeing high up career opportunities quickly opening for them and they out earn the guys, BUT when girls want to find a BF, they STILL look for guys who make more money than they do! HOW? HOW are guys supposed to live up to girls desires when boys were setup to lose at school!?
From my school experience in the 90s it was hardcore uncool to be a nerd. I remember my classmate saying that we are weird because we don't bully our electronics geek. So I think the story is more nuanced than that, boys partly did it to themselves. Though, I wonder where it came from, there were a lot of shows at the time that pushed the nerd loser stereotype.
@@justachannel8600 Hello there. I'm sure that you're right about the issue being more nuanced. I went to an all-male technical (trade) school before your time, and was part of a group that was interested in both electronics/science and sport. There were fights literally every day, but I never heard of anything about bullying a 'geek' (the word wasn't even used). However, as skilled jobs went overseas and local power stations were sold off, there was a shift - as I recall it, at least - in emphasis away from STEM subjects for boys and a corresponding movement towards STEM for girls, particularly in the wealthy private schools. I suspect that many boys in the public system simply didn't see that STEM had anything to offer them, whereas previously boys were being pushed towards apprenticeships etc that required STEM. Once the jobs were lost, it seems that STEM for boys lost community status, while for girls it may be that it still represented, particularly for those from a wealthier background, opportunities and the status of being a high achiever in an area once largely dominated by males. No doubt the 'nerd loser' stereotypes which you mentioned didn't help. There are many other factors, but I'm sure that you don't need me to go on even further. Best wishes to you in any case.
I have an older sister. It has been my contention that if you have a girl first and a boy second that you will think that your second child is brain damaged. My mother thought so.
@@theskyizblue2day431 My mom was a great mom with a bad understanding of the difference between boys and girls. If you expect that your boy will be anything like your girl you will be sorely mistaken.
I was a substitute teacher for 3 1/2 years. I would have elementary school kids scream in joy that they had a male teacher. I went to an assembly in one school where I was one of two men in the room, the other being the janitor. This is not a problem of indoctrination. This is a problem of paying your teachers too little.
I have served at a Youth Camp for my church for several nears now (over a decade) and we have a girls and a boys camp (separate). The leader of the camps over all is a woman; wonderful lady. She is quite good at what she does, but she did have a lot of learning to do about boys. She did not realize how important sports were for boys and thought, since the camp has a lot of teaching goals attached to it, that perhaps we could take out some of the sports to allow for more classroom time. Every single male counselor almost quite (me included) and we all had a difficult time explaining to her why sports were vital. She also thought the boys needed to have more "socializing time" and that was the breaking point. we all, in unison said to her "WHAT DO YOU THINK THE SPORTS ARE FOR!!!". Slowly, to her credit, she started to understand just how different boys and girls are.
I remember now in like 4th or 5th grade when playing football at school not on a sports team to be exact but when playing football the teachers wouldn’t allow tackle football the teachers were both male and female saying that but then when i went to church camp when i was like 14 or 15 the counselor was saying in Q and A that in the Bible about not touching women which is what the counselor was telling us not to do and i asked him about women not touching men I can’t remember the exact answer he gave but he didn’t like me asking that question and around that time i had issues with some girl they found out and the girl got the soft talk while i got the more hostile approach from the counselor
the university down the street from me has a women's business center. Amazon has preferential treatment for women owned businesses. the school I attended has special scholarships for women. women are eligible for no bid contracts that men are not eligible for at both the state and county level. google has a women's startup accelerator but men are forbidden from organizing in the same fashion. women can join the police, the military or firefighting with lowered standards. women in the aggregate are net tax recipients, men are net tax payers. men are forced to serve in the selective service in order to vote, but women are exempt from the draft. there are a lot more men than women who are homeless but there is no effort to equalize that. the average man pays anywhere between 25 to 65 percent of his income to pay for social entitlements, which is more than serfs were made to pay during feudalism. Social security and medicare are insanely bad investments for men both because men pay more in taxes and don't live as long. women complain about the pay gap but fail to note that men are much more likely to be injured on the job.
Women are also net tax payers. There are women with high paying jobs and are taxed. As for the Selwctive Service, there hasn't been a draft since Vietnam. The armed forces are fully staffed. Yes, more men are homeless, but could it be that many homeless men choose that lifestyle? I have a brother who is both mentally ill and homeless, and after many years of my mother trying to help him, even helping him with an apartment, chose to walk away from all that to be homeless again. There is help for homeless men, but many homeless men do not seek nor accept help. I think KHS is very biased. She paints men as being "victims." She is no different than what many feminists believe about female vuctimhood. If zkHS is concerned that there are too many female kindergarten and elementary school teachers and not enough men, then she should advocate for higher pay for teachers to attract men.
@@debrawehrly6900 Women are definitely not net tax payers and draw far more out of the system than they put into it overall. Just because high earning women pays a higher tax rate it does not make up for the millions that are collecting welfare and drawing benefits through the endless programs provided to them by the government. A lot of men are homeless because people like yourself just don't care as well as the fact that they don't endlessly complain about their fate like your kind does. You are so used to claiming perpetual victimhood yourself you can't even conceive men can fit into that category as well. Contrary to your beliefs men's concerns should be just as valid as yours and not dismissed because they upset you. In your mind you think we are second class citizens when nothing could be further from the truth.
@@debrawehrly6900 Yes there are women with all those things, BUT on average there are MORE men with higher paying jobs. NOBODY chooses to be homeless, so to paint it as men's fault is such a typical feminist response. Just because of your brother situation, doesn't mean it is like that for everyone. Men have higher suicide rates than women, but it is ignored. When women are in any of these situations there is more access to help and catering to females in society now than has ever been, than in any country, in history. Men don't go into teaching, because they have been pushed out, and hello Metoo!!!! So instead of answering well women are this and women are that blah blah, do your research on what is actually happening in our society as it has been happening for the last 30 years!! By the way women caused this problem not men.
There were many matriarcal cultures in the past. ALL of them failed. They were usually submitted or destroyed by more stronger tribes, or had to endure an internal cultural revolution that made them patriarchal, and just to survive. As a history buffer, i always wondered why that happened. Now i start to REALLY understand.
I homeschool to try to give my boys a place where they never have to hear that being a man is intrinsically evil. I am their mother, but luckily I am married to their father. 😊
We need more mothers like you who see the differences with boys as simply reality and something that needs to be nurtured, not something boys should be embarrassed of or to have them neglected.
But they Will encounter horrible messages outside sooner or later? The thing about men is we are on our own however cruel that is, so def make sure you don’t shelter them too much
Personally back when I was in school I never really noticed anything like this and that could be because I've never been particularly interested in being manly, and super masculine, and tough or maybe its because I was lucky with the schools I went to. My biggest issues in schooling were always rather the absolutely obscene amount of schoolwork and major projects that they would constantly dole out to take home. Getting sent home constantly with hours and hours of schoolwork that stole away from your time even after school hours was tedious and demoralizing. An hour bus ride going to school, 8 hours at school, an hour returning, and then 4-6 hours of schoolwork!? When am I supposed to have time to go outside or play with my friends or do anything besides school-related activities. I guess you could say just play or socialise over the weekend except they'd give you work or projects to have done by Monday or Tuesday on Thursdays and Fridays that you would most likely be working on over the weekend.
@@monkey6207 Schools are just horrible environments for children in general. But this video is more discussing an example of male discrimination in society.
I’ve been a male Primary school teacher for 10yrs and quit to work in a factory. I make less money, but deal with a lot less stress. The boys are 1000% being feminised and I received a lot of backlash in my final year when I tried to teach the boys with structure and discipline. Apparently, I had to be more “gentle” with them.
I can tell you very easily who the most dangerous students in my school were the boys who had no strong stability at home and no one ever enforced discipline with so they were mentally and emotionally weak ether being docile as a corpse or the most violent people you have met.
I'm strongly considering homeschool for all my kids after second grade, sex irrelevant. Public school is a terrible environment for both girls and boys. Girls in the throes of puberty are borderline insane, and the entire education system is stifling for boys. The academics stink across the board. Where's the benefit?
Okay, as a teacher, how do I help these kids. The majority of the disruptions are from boys. The majority of my failing students are boys. As a male teacher, I see that there is an issue, but how do we fix it? Is it the system itself? Is school and the way it is done a poor way to teach boys, but better for girls? Are there better teaching strategies to help boys learn? I feel like the books and short stories I am allowed to read with my class is steadily becoming diluted. My school considered taking out classics like The Most Dangerous Game, The Sniper, and Lamb to the Slaughter. All of those stories have great engagement from both boys and girls. A real solution needs to be presented.
I worked in my younger three children’s school for about three and a half years…. One daughter and two sons. Small charter, 3 male teachers and about 28 female teachers. Witnessed how the male teachers talents were constantly challenged and squandered by bureaucracy and policies. The boys suffered the most. Long story short, my husband and I now home educate and encourage as many as who will listen to do as well. Not always easy but is doable.
Did anyone ever consider that the whole idea of compulsory public school sucks? 1. As run, it consumes far too much of a child's life. If you look back on K-12 in your own life, you will probably agree that at least half the hours you spent there were wasted, in that you could have gained similar capabilities with half the time invested, freeing up many hours for other avenues of interest, or study, or work. Truly, we teach kids to waste time rather than to invest it pleasantly and profitably. And we see the results in the workplace. 2. It costs WAY more money than it should. 3. It does not deliver 98%+ training to proficiency in the intended basic life skills (3 Rs and civics). How do you graduate high school while still functionally illiterate? 4. It provides a baby-sitting service for working parents. No, that's NOT a benefit! It diminishes thereby a parent's necessary influence on the child. And if we didn't have a wasteful, punitive tax structure, many working parents would willingly stay home, say degreed colleagues I've worked with. Children are a more important product than what companies make. I point out the huge tax burden schools impose on EVERYBODY for your whole adult life. How much better to pay tuition for your kids only, only in periods they need it. 5. Parents should direct their children's education. Who has a greater interest? 6. If educators had actually to sell their services in an open market, can you imagine the difference?
More importantly it has a destructive effect on children. Being surrounded by other children all the time in a parallell world means that children are essentially raised by other children. The results are of course predictable. No wonder that young 'adults' grow ever more infantile and dependent. In earlier times children interacted more with adults on the farm, as apprentices or even workers, and shaped themselves and their behavious after adults. And they interacted with the real world, and not some extended kindergarten.
I looked at my son's summer post-reading assignment in middle school once. It described a decision made by one of the characters in the book and asked, "how do you feel about that?" Apparently, "I feel hungry about that" wasn't an acceptable option. Now, had they asked, "what this person right?" they could have engaged the boys, but nobody seemed to think about that before I raised the issue with my son's teacher.
There's a general rule that I've noticed exists: Every social movement, no matter how good, no matter how necessary, has a point where it oversteps the line. You see this repeatedly, like Helicopter Parenting was an overcorrection to the "Let them go feral" parenting of the 70s and 80s that kicked up toward the end of the 90s, and then we went too far with Gentle Parenting correcting from the Helicopter Parenting. Gentle Parenting is good, but not when it leads to the kids just doing whatever they feel like all the time. There's a line. Follow Your Dreams is great advice, but at the same time, there's a point where things go sort of off-kilter and we're seeing a ton of college students who're graduating college with woefully inadequate college degrees that aren't going to help them get careers that can actually move them forward. People who got told that, yes, pursue writing, but maybe take a sales or marketing course alongside it were seen as being total jerks who were assuming failure. Nevermind that if you want to be a writer, you're going to need to know how to sell and market your writing at some point.
I've been saying this for years ( I'm sure others have too). This is a huge problem in our society, and it even goes as far as having unrealistic expectations in relationships and marriage. The refusal to acknowledge that boy/ girls and men/ women are different is hurting us big time.
True, relationships are a mess, women are always looking for men who earn more income than they make, expecting men to pay the majority of the bills, how are men supposed to do that if women are automatically given the better career opportunities?
@@0volts157 You can say that, but for sake of argument, if the education and job opportunities are failing men, how are guys supposed to live up to societal expectations let alone start families? OR another question, what will a large group of disenfranchised young men do instead? Crime? Start a revolt? They aren't going to just lazily sit around doing NOTHING. There should a reaction coming and it might not be peaceful.
in grade 9 my son informed his teacher he was no longer doing any "group projects". tests only. he passed. the projects are girl oriented and all the girls know how that goes. as a girl i dont like group projects either. he impressed me as all they could do was try to play on his sympathies and offer threatening scenarios that never came to pass.
@@yesimemoin0935because the brain abhors boring and loves the interesting. What’s more interesting? A hands-on/interactive lecture (preferably with some real-life application) or a cut-and-dry lecture? Even something simple like a Kahoot can bring great benefits.
Group projects honestly suck for everyone, especially because there are always the kids who make you do all the work but still get credit as if they were a part of it.
[9:08] This is what really woke me up to all of these cultural problems. Specifically someone telling me that my (then) 5 yr old son was a misogynist. Absolutely had to be. Because he was the son of a straight white man (me), who was obviously a misogynist because I didn't like The Last Jedi. I mean, the augments about the movie or my opinions were one thing... but declaring my 5 yr old son was unquestionably a misogynist... It was like my son was guilty until he proved himself to not be just another toxic male. At 5 years old. Really started me asking more questions.
They are I struggle to pay attention for 3 mins and would start drawing blueprints of buildings as something to do. I got sent to the office so many times because of that. Even when a lot of us boys got together and put in the papers for a club start up for video games at lunch time for anyone who wanted to join we were denied but when the girls asked for it they allowed it and made it a girl only space like all the rest of the clubs there was not 1 club allowed for boys
Different continent, same problem. Today some friends of mine just complained about missing male teachers that can serve as positive role models for boys. I remember my school-time and having female teachers was pure stress. They could be so unpredictable in what they expected, they never admitted any faults, also they could explode any second and start shouting. What a relieve it was, my first male teacher (aside from PE). Calm, understanding, patient -- the complete opposite, then I knew how I wanted to be.
Ours were very predictable. you always had to recite the text in class verbatim. Your own formulations were not permitted. Even interpretations of poems only had one single correct solution. And when in doubt give girls a better grade.
We have known this for 20 years but no one is doing anything here in Finland while the PISA learning results especially for boys keep on falling. 90% of primary school teachers are also women. Everything is demasculated and violent out-of-control kids are given personal development discussions after their rampages when instead they needed limits, attention, discipline and appreciation for their innate strengths as boys.
Weird, because Finland has one of the best performing education systems in the world. Its been top 5 for as long as I remember. More often in the top 3.
Not all of us. I went into Science. Specifically I am a Maine/Evolutionary Ecologist. With the best will in the world, you are not really doing that through an apprenticeship. Thats not to say hands on experience is not vital, Ecology is very much a field based Biological Science. The best way to study an ecosystem is to get into it! You also need all the background knowledge and skills that go into it however, and that means much time spent in classrooms. I will say that in general I found classrooms a University level to be far more interesting than at school. That however was due to the fact that I was learning what I wanted to learn, and things I was interested in rather than trying to work out which sadist had invented Calculus, or looking for deep meaning in Lord of the Flies! In the latter, there is plenty, but its grim as all hell... Lord of the Flies is not a pleasant book! Its like Animal Farm in that respect, starts of innocuous and devolves into murder and authoritarianism startlingly quickly!
Heard no mention of who to blame here in this vid. Lemme give you a clue, it's not the right. Lefties realized the Iphone is the greatest brainwashing device known to man and they put it to work trying to create unearned equity. Goes beyond boys and girls.
It's all about who is more likely to follow directions and submit to control. The powers-that-be know that disenfranchised young men are a necessary ingredient to waging Armed Revolution.
@@monkey6207 because the creative projects women are interested in tend to follow the way of the movers and shakers of society and are thus encouraged , on the other hand , male interests and projects are discouraged.
@@mayursharma7594 Why are the most insulting claims about all women just thrown out on a whim every other second? "When women are creative it's just because they're following trends". WHATEVER YOU SAY. If it makes you feel better! Tell me more about how all bad qualities are feminine and all virtues are masculine. Whenever women do it, it's because of a sin!
@@monkey6207 and your rage leads to... nothing. Stop pretending that this change in enviroment is a "good thing" - you are commiting the same error as Icarus.
I’m an ex cop and builder, been teaching Maths co-ed 11-18 for 30 years here in the UK. I’m old school, pupils work in silence, no group work, no ‘death by worksheet’, no textbook, everything taught from the board. I throw in humour and a few stories from my past! Boys and girls perform equally well in my class……
My son's school, still has shop, has a separate welding class outside of shop, PE, and other types of PE, like outdoor education, and and a more intensive PE type of class called "fitness".
From 1950 to 2023, the labor force participation rate (LFPR) for wmn rose from 34% to 57% (+23%). During the same time period, the LFPR for men declined from 87% to 68% (-19%). This means that incentivizing wmn to enter the workforce only resulted in a net gain of about 4% in total workers. Was this gain of 4% really worth all of the madness that came with it? I think not.
@@djaeger-k5m The biggest problem is wage stagnation. The data clearly shows that wage growth and productivity split right at the point when wmn started entering the workforce in larger numbers. The extra money that would've normally increased wages started going into HR, lawsuits, and additional benefits. Now we have more people working for less money
Growing up I didn’t see a male teacher outside of PE until I was in middle school, and it was one teacher out of 7. When I walked into that classroom and saw my teacher was a man it felt like seeing a unicorn in the wild.
4 grandsons The parents And we are working on them ….. thank you for encouraging us to continue on the right path for future men and fathers Are we awake now🕊
That's another thing . Boys must be CONTROLLED , GUIDED - and CHANNELED . So be it ... But girls are encouraged to - spread their wings - don't allow anyone tell you how to behave - be a BOSS , Girl - but don't let anyone call you ' bossy ' or ' slut-shame ' you ! And vote as a block ... which they do - on all - imlortant ' womens issues ' . Which ain't no mans bidness ! G-d help us all .
Keep at it. My nephews are amazing because their parents have taught them how to be of service to their moms at an early age and later to the extended family and community as they got older. They are forging their own paths and thriving!
It's worthless to talk about this if nothing substantive happens to fix it. I've heard this for years, and then everyone slumbers back to the status quo.
They still need us to keep the society running, but I'd be more than glad if we left feminists behind to build and run their own cities without men. They could have kids but each time it would be a boy, it'd be given to a non-feminist adoptive traditional family outside their borders. They could keep the girls, raise them and try to maintain their own cities in terms of infrastructure and everything. It would be the first woman only country. If they ever tried to cross our borders, they'd face military resistance. I was always in favor of keeping the feminists in their own country, I don't want to work for them or to have anything to do with them.
One aspect of teaching that young men respond to is 'how is this education applied'. An example is showing them mathematical wood working and how to measure and cut fittings.
Not all but most female teachers take their view of the world into the classroom. I'm 67 and never had kids, but I cannot imagine what the classrooms are like now.
I know a person who transitioned out of desperation. Got bullied at school, dropped out, got sexually assaulted, lost himself, got brainwashed in lockdown, lost his social skills, transitioned, detransitioned twice and now is blissful at how strong his body is as he's stopped taking hormones, how his muscles are growing back, and his genitals are functioning properly. He enjoys every second of heterosexual sex, practises boxing and muay thai, feels safe and at peace finally. He's told me he's never explored his own self, things he genuinely likes. I believe the assaults made him hate himself and want to erase himself. Had he had one good friend or a caring, intelligent parent guiding him, he wouldn't have suffered so much.
Take responsibility for your sons yourself. Guide them to take 'advantage' of school, but educate them yourself. My son is 17, he has already read Camus, Voltaire, Dostoevsky, Robert Greene, Bulgakov. I talked with him, read to him, kept him close so that I could be a role model for him yet without helicoptering him. He sees the crap of the world and seems ready for it. Don't wait for school, don't wait for authorities, don't wait for others. They are your children. It is your responsibility. I am a teacher. I treat boys and girls as individuals, not as members of their 'sex' community. They choose their sex role path, and I encourage them to be curious and to challenge themselves when they allow me to. As an observant teacher I can see the different ways boys and girls are and how they learn and what they need. Most other teachers are top down and insist on conformity to the teacher paradigm.
Camus is so topical for our current online society. I was blessed by living above a used bookstore during college to get 50-cent hardbacks of those classics.
Sending your kids to school is borderline abusive. It's like there's a reason women stayed home with the kids. But now women are too selfish and indoctrinated.
Very interesting video, thank you. I have a twelve year old son. I think school in general needs to focus on academics and not on all this "social justice" that is anything but.
As an indigenous male, I feel exactly how these white male kids feel. I was not only bullied and told I wasn’t wanted by white students but also my fellow indigenous people because I had learning problems. Neither the white or indigenous teachers cared enough about me to see me succeed. I will always be grateful to the few teachers that did believe in me but unfortunately, there were too many people that didn’t care about me. It’s why I dropped out.
Before the feminist movement there were male fraternal organizations where men taught other men to be men. The feminists sued them and forced them to accommodate women. We need to rebuild these male spaces without women's approval.
So I had a male history teacher in high school older gentleman and a good man. I once corrected him about medieval armor and instead of getting pissed off and telling me to be quiet and not give false information, after school he did the research. The next day at the start of class he basically said in front of everyone I was right and that he was wrong. He was also my math teacher and was probably one of the best teachers I ever had
I graduated from high school in 1988, before spending a career in the US Army (Infantry) and retiring in 2010. Then, I was a school teacher in South Dakota for three years as part of the Troops to Teachers program. I can tell you - modern-day school is PAINFUL for average to below-average boys. They are mainly bored and disinterested. I completed my university education (MA, Intl Sec Studies, 2010) and in most of my classes, students hardly communicated with one another when they had opportunities - they were too entranced by their phones. We are doomed.
That’s why the phones need to go from the kids. Especially in the classroom. I don’t understand. When I was in high school, we couldn’t have piercings or different colored hair cause it would be deemed “distracting” yet phones with video games on them and social media are okay? So, when did the education system (largely in the 2010s it seems) start to not care anymore? I’ve asked many parents would they be okay if there children went to schools where they weren’t allowed to have phones? The overwhelming majority say they wouldn’t feel comfortable about that cause of all the school shootings. And I think to myself, okay, but if school shootings are occurring at a higher rate than ever and it’s coincided with rising rates of depression and anxiety which also have coincided with the rise of smartphone and tablet use… maybe everything will actually improve if we don’t give kids access to these devices and online services? And why not hire retired police officers and fund it for protection at every school? It just makes no sense and eventually the parents are gonna have to budge if they want there kids to succeed in the classroom and later in life. Safety is important but not when it stunts the healthy development of your child. Risk is extremely important in a child’s development skills and conflict resolution. Whats happening is it seems that the U.S. education system along with A LOT of parents now seem to want to eliminate all risk from their child. That’s so destructive to your kid. No wonder the kids now and young adults can barely function when dealing with any kind of conflict, when the system and the parents literally tried to prevent all risk from their kids. It’s like the movie Bubble Boy but it’s the majority of kids now. And it scares me to think what happens to kids raised in that environment going into military service when becoming adults. Not good for a society at all.
@@nicholasanderson7316 You make some excellent points. My two recommendations are that curriculum designers find some way to make subjects FUN for boys, otherwise they seem to check out, while also incorporating more physical activity for both boys and girls. There were a lot of high school kids lacking in muscle tone and cardiorespiratory endurance, and who had very poor body composition. At least that was my experience from 2011-2014. Hopefully, they are aware of the problems.
@@nicholasanderson7316well taking away there phones would be the best idea to make them concentrate on their classes but a phone is still important in my school because if ever we do stuff like group activity works it requires a phone for research purposes and we also used our phones to answer a quiz app that allows us to answer questions related to our subjects questions that we just discussed like a while ago but we are also given strict rules and regulations about the use of phone's we call it gadget policy
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Strange, I'm failing all my classes with female teachers and not male teachers, I didn't notice this and it makes so much sense.
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I agree with YOU... but DON'T be deceived by CHS she is a feminist SHILL undercover. She condescends against boys every chance she gets. BOYS DO NOT HAVE learning problems. BOYS never had learning problems until wo-MEN took over the schools. In fact, BOYS have 10% larger brains than girls by the age of 15 and 5 points higher IQ...
Women connect to women, men connect to men. The only time the opposite gender connects to the opposite gender is when people have siblings of the opposite gender. I don’t have any siblings but I have A’s and B’s which doesn’t show what I am interested in, it shows that I’m a good student not what I like. I feel like if students could graduate high school based on what they like, our country would be better off than with the current school system. And also have certain gender males for classes because there are things men can do that women can’t and there are things women can do that men can’t. Then there is also the things that men and women can do. The army is something that use to be men only, but now women can join even though we need women to get more kids which the replacement rate is supposed to be 2.1 kids, but in America it is 1.9.
My fourth grade teacher was the dropout prevention teacher. He was a Vietnam war vet. He said no one was going to fail his class. He brute forced it. he made kids cry. He pushed us to our limits. And in the end he made us proud of ourselves for succeeding. Moms don’t do this for their kids. Dad do.
He sounds awesome.
Depends on a mom.... Personal experience...
@@waiki8223immediately goes to defending MOM !
" but - but - the exception .... "
Just stop it .
Of COURSE there are awesome parents of both sexes - we all get it .
It's like you missed the whole point .
@@waiki8223not my single mother, I learned everything I needed to learn about love and dating from watching her. I have no interest in that nonsense. Never satisfied, doesn’t know the words “I’m sorry I was wrong”, never communicates what exactly she wants, you have to do it wrong till you do it right. Nope I’m good, I live in ✌️ .
@@waiki8223My mother did that for me but failed to do so for my younger brothers... But I suspect it's laziness behind it.
Nobody complains about "toxic masculinity" while the hard-hatted men up in those bucket trucks are repairing your power lines after a bad storm.
Or staring down the enemy guns.
Well, you also care if your doctor is well educated, right? Yet you also claim that highly educated and well accomplished women are not what men are into. This is toxic masculinity. Lack of respect for women. Treating them as a kind of prize for YOUR accomplishments, submissive servants. I did great so now I am entitled to come home, get dinner and god forbid she talks about what is important for her. I already talked with my buddies at the bar, at home I want peace and no drama - essentially drama is everything what is important to her. She should talk with her friends, cook dinner, clean a house and give head. All as silent as possible bs exhausted male needs a rest. You know what toxic masculinity is? Making everything a competition. Loosing way and never asking anybody how to get where you want bc it’s unmanly. Never going to a doctor bc it’s unmanly. Always wanting to be right. Being aggressive and humiliating people and then when they break - making fun of them. And pretending you work for your family and this is why you have no time for said family. It s Big fat crap. Men who say these don’t need to work so much - their wives beg them to slow down, house can be smaller, we don’t need new car every 4 years and so on. Nope, he works. For his family 😂😂😂. No he works bc he wants to prove himself to other males, keep his status in his work environment- and this is world more important to him than any f*** family of his. Maybe he really thinks about a family - a new one he can have with a much younger woman if he succeeds more.
Men get hormonal so they become horny why don’t women sympathize with them?
@@kc6810are you on your period?
Nah- they still complain.
I am a male teacher in science and history. If any of you guys are looking for a career, please consider teaching. One of the main reasons I joined was to be a male role model. Kids need it more than ever.
If you can engauge muscle memory a boy will do much better than straight theory.
Men don't want a job surrounded by ninety percent female workers
Let's not forget how one well placed, false, baseless accusation can land a male teacher in jail followed by wearing an ankle monitor for the rest of his life. Not worth the risk for men.
My high school English teacher hanged himself in his cell awaiting trial because a 17 year old bombshell of a student texted him nudes that he never asked for and her parents found out 3 years after the fact.
Well why didn't he report it right away? Did he just keep them? These are the questions you have to ask before you assume innocence@@guyledouche7939
@@guyledouche7939 holy shi dude fr?? Thats wild
MRAs whine about that. But every time there is a story about a teacher being inappropriate, we see that it had been happening for years.
I have seen where female teachers get caught having sex with students and they don’t do jail time, just get on the sex offender list. A man will always do time for the same crime.
I've been a teacher for 23 years, and have only worked with a few fellow men. Once an older colleague retired, I became the only male teacher in our school system K-8. I have been told by some students I was the first male classroom teacher I've ever had, and I teach 8th grade. I've had quips thrown out at me by my female colleagues like "well, you're a man, so you wouldn't understand" or "sorry I have to repeat that, but you're a typical man and were ignoring me" or "the kids just behave for you differently because you're a man". Now, imagine if I said a parallel comment to any of these to my female coworkers?? Yes, schools are supremely feminized environments. Kids in a poorer community like mine come to school to female authority and supervision, and too often go home to female authority and supervision only. Part of boys acting out is because they're seeking the attention they are literally never getting from their female teachers. The interesting thing that has also played out is having female students drawn to me because they, too, lack male role models or a balance of masculinity to the femininity in their lives. It's painfully obvious. Thank you for bringing this out in the open.
Thanks for your input, we need teachers like yourself to speak up
In addition, if I may...
FOOD is part of this problem.
Sugars, (all carbohydrates)
Soy,
Seed oils,
Grains, (breads)
Fruit is SUGAR,
Vegetables can't provide enough good protein.
What all humans need!
BEEF, EGGS, FAT, SALT, SUN, DIRT, WATER and SLEEP !!!
OH, and good competitive hobbies!
@@craigmccall7450absolutely!
@@craigmccall7450 Bro, I hate to break it to you but a diet and going to boot camp don't magically make people into adults. I know the military would like you to believe so but Fort whatever the name is in texas with its very nice kilimanjaro maself rate is indicative that you are wrong.
I am a new male teacher and being a positive role model to male students and students in general is why I joined
It’s funny, when my son was a freshman in high school, I got a call at home by the principal. She told me that my son was involved in a very violent incident with another student (his best friend and teammate on the football team). The way she describes the incident, I was picturing a UFC grudge match. I got the full speech on no violence will be accepted in any shape or form. During the speech, I saw that my son was playing football with his presumed victim/best friend in the back yard. I when to talk to them and they told me that there was no bad blood between them, and that what started as a tackling practice in the locker room got a bit heated but nothing more… Boys will be boys!!
like that one. it sounds just like me and my brothers. 🙂💪
sure. See here we have another example of a man making excuses for uncivilized behaviour.
People really tend to forget we found joy in a playful fight with our mates not because we HAVE to be agressive because someone told us to, but because its just another form of bondin with someone
@@sinyu4015 both people need to be on board...if not, its bullying. also, the school is liable if anyone gets hurt...
I haven't been a kid in school for a looooong time, but back when I was in highscool, one of my good friends and I used to push each other around a lot just for fun. We got to the point where we'd do it when the other wasn't expecting it because you could push them further if they weren't braced and ready for it. There was no malice or anger or anything, we were great friends, we just liked to push each other.
Anyway, one day after we ate lunch together, we were walking to our next class and I suddenly pushed him really hard. He flew back so far, that he crashed through a window and fall on the ground on the other side of it, which was inside a classroom that was in progress so it scared a lot of people who didn't know what was going on when this guy suddenly burst through the window and fell on the floor.
He was not injured at all. He was wearing his backpack loaded with thick heavy books and they were what crashed into the window and broke it, and pushed all that glass out of his way as he went. I immediately ran to go check on him to make sure he was alright, because I was worried since he broke that window maybe he got hurt, or at the very least cut up by glass, but he was fine, then we started laughing about it.
We got grabbed by a teacher and taken to speak with the principal as well as the school counselor. This tiny little black lady, who was very sweet, who sat us down and began to ask us why we were fighting. We kind of looked at each other and laughed and told her what happened. That we were just pushing each other around and we're friends, there was no fight. She understood and looked relieved.
Ultimately, we didn't get in any trouble at all, the school just made our parents pay to fix the window and that was that. Even our parents didn't mind too much, they weren't happy about having to pay to fix that window (although it was only like $75 each) but we'd never really gotten in trouble before so they basically just let us go because we weren't exactly trouble makers where this was a routine thing.
Additionally, without anyone telling us this, we both agreed to not push each other anymore because we saw the potential consequences of it and didn't want to go through it again, so instead we just ramped up our competitions in PE. Who could run faster, who could do more pushups and situps and pullups, etc. Had a friendly rivalry where we pushed each other to get better and stronger and faster.
I haven't thought about this in years, but your story reminded me of it. I'm so glad I went to school in a place and at a time where you could just be yourself without all this modern new age BS oppressing your every thought and action
I changed schools for my kids several times. My son ended up in a STEM school. My daughter has been pulled out because of ratchet students. I remember my daughter had a male teacher, and a mother told me that he was bad teacher, maybe because he wasn’t a pushover. MY daughter loved him as did the other children. I think our society makes men stay out of education by characterizing men that want to teach as predators. While there have been men that were predators, people somehow miss or put their heads in the ground when it comes to the women teachers that are predators.
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And look at all the female predators we see in the news now too!
plenty of women predators in school
That’s not why-it’s, ironically, because becoming a teacher for a guy is considered a weak career choice.
@@RobertMJohnsonnot sure why. Teachers are grossly overpaid and recognized for the little they do.
My buddy was a math teacher. He left after 3 years. Reason: the kids didn't want to try to apply themselves, and their parents were insufferable.
This was basic Algebra.
He wasn't bad at teaching. In fact one of our friends who struggled in math would listen to him and reply, "that makes sense. If it was explained like that, I wouldn't have struggled."
As a former boy now a man I can attest that the policy in schools is "The beatings will continue until moral improves"
Libs' only know one way..artificially promote the girls while ignoring & placing obstacles for the boys...
This will create 'equity'. The crazies are in charge.
The goal is to destroy the development of boys and men so as to destroy Christianity, representative democracy, and western civilization.
This
Morale*
😅😅😅😅😅 nice
As a former teacher aide I would be very hesitant to encourage any male to enter the current education system. I had a young girl hug me in front of more than fifty of her classmates because she was excited that I would be listening to her read. The female teacher swiftly reprimanded her and then me for inappropriate behaviour. The child was confused. What had she done wrong? Perhaps, it was simply 'embracing the enemy?'
You should report that teacher. That’s unacceptable.
@@sawyerlachance7745 Except then he'd get reprimanded for reporting a woman.
@@bluesbest1 So what your already not allowed to do your job and be a good male figure in kids lives. Might as well go out in a blaze of glory.
As female teacher but not from US I wouldn't encourage anyone to do this, low payment, hard to find job (my country has problems with population), parents, whole system is against you. Being male just adds risk of accusations of harassments of that kind.
I wonder tho if her reaction is actually due to the amount of men / dads that would actually have a problem with this, causing the teacher to preemptively go into protective mode to avoid the wrath of parents…..
we are suffering from toxic femininity.
We are suffering from emotional mismanagement. Toxic masculinity and femininity are only side effects of it.
Not really. I'm not suffering at all, I'm loving this.
@@teresamagnusson Do you want men to fail?
@@teresamagnusson Did you imagine somehow that being an outspoken and joyful bigot would be a good look?
@@LucidStewidk you tell us bigot. He asks if you want men to fail and you go an call him a bigot. Says more about you than him bigot.
I am a current MS teacher & past HS teacher, This is the problem: forcing boys to sit still for 2 hours straight and focus on a subject. Most boys are hands on learners, make mistakes & fix it, create things, build things. But instead we sit thm down, give them Romeo and Juliet and tell them to read it and write about it. They are disinterested, bored, dont care, fail as a result. And then believe the straight Ds and Fs is who they are.
(former MS teacher here) What's interesting is when we act out Romeo and Juliet instead of reading it, the boys get into it. This has been the same across the board with literature and books- though this applies to both boys and girls
@@mattsmichel9864 you are exactly right. I'm a Spanish teacher. When I teach the convivejcia of Spain and then Mexico history, I dress the kids up and I tell the history as they play their parts. The boys love it, and they remember it and understand it better.
Actually should have several hours of physical activity and a bit of math, reading, writing, art, and lab.
@@mattsmichel9864It has been proven that boys learn better by doing, whereas girls learn by listening/repeating. School programs have been emasculated in order to boost female performance.
this is main problem, the curriculum needs to change.
Psychologist here (and male). YES! Psychology is saturated with an anti-male bent. And of course this was fostered and festered in undergrad and graduate psychology schools where males (especially white and straight) we consistently targeted. It would earn female students unspoken brownie points to say all this crap aloud in class. I would eventually lose my shit and point this out and they could argue nothing back. It was a disturbing lesson on the state of education at the higher levels and on psychology in America. To this day when a colleague (nearly always female) asks what my specialty is, I reply "Being a dude."
Well until a few decades ago women were still being diagnosed with hysteria and there is a medical gap between women and men where medical trials were conducted on mostly men. But this is where I disagree with feminists, the points you mentioned and in the video show us that the world is changing and that the so called patriarchy(which they believe is still alive, I think its on its last legs) is withering away and now we have to make sure it doesn't get replaced with a matriarchy.
@@khosrowanushirwan7591 in psychology women were the primary study subjects it's the inverse of traditional medicine.
@@khosrowanushirwan7591 that is the issue:
The narcisist feminists WANT power at any cost.
Boys are not falling behind. The education system is.
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Well, no, they aren't falling behind... they are being kicked out and abandoned... and don't think it's because the education system is somehow failing.
The education system is doing *exactly* that they want it to do, at least in this area.
This isn't a bug... it's a "feature".
@@HauChau_ oh no they are...
Mostly cuz they dont see the point working hard can only lead u to outcomes u dont desire and are forced on u
And for your parliament which decides the frame-work of your countries education - you voted for whom and allied with whom? How much money did they want to allocate for better education and better life-conditions for kids and teachers? How much did they walk their talk? I learn about the schools in the USA and it is a horror story on all lvels!
@@HauChau_ yeah cause grossly gynocentric!!😡
I’m in the UK, where schools tend to be overseen by a board of governors, which usually includes a mix of local ‘community leaders’ and parents of children in the school. One of my work colleagues was a parent governor for her son's primary school and was asked to take part in interviews for a new teacher. Before the interviews, the head of the school took her aside and apologised that one of the candidates was a man, explaining that they had tried to find a legal reason to reject him at the application stage but hadn’t been able to. The head then said that she was confident that they would be able to find something in the interview to reject him. When my colleague expressed surprise that a teacher would be rejected purely based on gender, the head said, “Well, we all know there’s only one reason a man wants to work with children...”.
My 8th grade English and one my high school history teachers was a one armed man. Lost it in WW2 yeah he was guilty of most men of that era. Visual of him for me was awesome awareness. My English teacher was very cool. That was first period. I still remembered them over 50 years.
Yep. They are always paranoid of men being sexual predators, when female teachers regularly sexually abuse students too. I'm not saying male teachers can't be predators, because they very much can, but there is a massive un-acknowledgement of the fact that women can be predators too and its being going on for a long time and still doesn't show any signs of being addressed.
I always wonder what sexist teachers like this think when one of their trusted female staff members get caught molesting or raping a 12 year old boy. Pisses me off so much.
I was in a meeting where we dicussed who we might have for our next speaker talk about. Someone said, "Anyone but a dead white male". Everyone either agreed or said nothing until I said, "Like my Dad?" He had passed away the week before. The silence was deafening.
Wow!
Nice
These people have no self awareness. 😞
Don't let them forget.
Very well done. And, condolences.
At Disney, they implemented a "Rosie's Program" designed exclusively to help women become more technical. However, for men, the assumption was that they already possessed the necessary technical skills, and no similar training opportunities were provided. This approach felt completely contrary to the principles of inclusivity, as it alienated male employees and left them feeling unsupported, essentially signaling that they were on their own.
yeah well what's new
@@TonyZmex thats pretty tame...
Wm make up 70% of college grads and they still have more opportunities for "historically oppressed" ppl
Most males learn these skills from fathers
The same idea pervades modern day corporations. Opportunities for cross job training, internships, employee resource groups, etc are open to individuals who are simply put; not a man. If you're a man or "identify" as a man - they're not places for you.
And people wonder why there's any level of resentment being harbored by young men? Just open your eyes, it's everywhere around us.
That's every tech company nowadays.
I was asked to colour in a mushroom and I did so. I used browns and greys because that is what a mushroom is to a 6 year old boy. And I got so embarrassed by my teacher who compared it to the girl who was next to me. She used bright and multiple colours that made no sense to me, mushrooms aren't those colours and yet she was somehow better than me. That teacher harmed my self esteem and I still remember it to this day.
Know the pain man. Had a teacher like that too.
My nephew graduated a coupe of years ago. The guest speaker, a woman, spoke at length about how she succeeded in a male world, and how if you're female don't let any wall stop you, you can succeed. You are powerful, etc. Not once did she say a male can succeed.
This was to a graduating class which was 70% male. I noticed it, my sister did, and many other parents did.
The problem was no one complained to the school about it. So the school continues this because they get no pushback.
As a society we give all the positive reinforcement we can to women and none to men.
Even parents push their daughters to go to college (usually destroying them by turning them wild) while not bothering to encourage boys to do something for their future..
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Weak men allow this to happen.
That's exactly it, girls get all the positive messaging while boys are constantly told they're the problem. Boys in these newest generations have been told their whole lives that they're what's wrong with the world, I imagine that's going to cause more and more problems going forward.
The "myth of male power" is part of this. We've had it so good for so long, says the narrative, that it's not REALLY hurting us to give girls advantages in school.
Working in a workplace run by women is like living in hell. Constant complaining, bickering, gossiping about each other, micromanaging, and making small issues into massive issues, always drama.
Lol I've worked in a place with mostly women once and that's exactly what it was. It was hell on Earth 😂
Women HATE each other. I have worked in 50/50 ish gender ratio work places and women just do not get along. This Hollywood and mainstream propaganda narrative of women standing together is total lies.
my favourite foreman told me on a construction site to note gossip about other workers unless they were present. One of the best life lessons ive been given. I felt like such a wimp when I did so when he chastised me, if you have a problem, deal with it with the person.
Just thinking back to my office days has me browsing Amazon for nooses.
I'm a woman, and completely agree with you. I'd been out of the US for the 80's and 90's and when I returned, it seemed women were in charge of everything. This disturbed me, especially during my sons school years, where every problem they/we had was caused by the rule of silly/maniacal/helicopter women.
Let’s just admit the school system itself is the issue. Teachers are under paid, over emotional, and over worked. Half the teachers ain’t qualified to be a teacher, it’s emberassing we allow anyone with a piece of paper become a teacher. For a child to learn they have to be engaged and interested. Our school system is neither interesting nor engaging.
My son was learning about the differences between fairy tales and folk tales. He did his writing assignment and said that he like folk tales better than fairy tales "because people die in them." Haha.. I think the teacher was mortified, but I was like: I see where you are coming from.
Haha, I'm a male teacher who used to teach about the past. Both girls and boys perk up when their is drama and death. The fairy tale thing with happy endings only appeals to people (mainly girls) 10 or below. A lot of the girls probably felt the same as your son or would when they reach teenage years. Left teaching, though, it definitely isn't a job any man in the 21st century should do.
Your son recognizes and favors reality over fantasy. Seems like you were a good teacher.
You need to get him the original versions of those fairy tales.
I think real fairy tales were much darker. You'd call the magical creatures fair because they are kind of narcissistic.
@@ApesAmongUsYeah, that's pretty crazy that a school would teach that fairy tales don't have death in them. I am really curious as to what they are pointing out as different about them though. The most recent The Little Mermaid should have stayed accurate to the original story and people would have freaked out.
I am a male teacher. I've been a high school and middle history teacher for 21 years. During my Credential program we had to do a presentation on a educational book. I did the War Against Boys. It was a truly eye opening book and definitely affected the way I teach and the way I think about teaching.
An educational book
why did you not do 'why does he do that?' or other book on violence against women? Oh was in too inconvenient?
@@ОксанаЧернохвостенкоanother female victim out here. Bohoo😢😢, go cry me a river.
@@ОксанаЧернохвостенко
A wild feminist appeared!
feminist used "everything must be about women".
It had no effect, feminist is now confused.
@@ОксанаЧернохвостенкоI think violence against women is an overused topic.
That doesn't deny it's importance though. It's just that something involving male victimization is more unique and a nearly untouched topic.
I worked for four years teaching a fifth grade class, the only male in the building. i was very aware at the start of my first year how stark and purposeful my classroom looked compared to the bright, colorful, cozy classrooms in the rest of the building. I wondered if i hadn't made a mistake, taking the position. I'd been a middle school science teacher up to that point and my classroom had been filled with projects under construction or revision, utilitarian in the extreme, and filled with energy. But guess whose room in my new school became the magnet, mostly for the other fifth grade boys but for some of the girls, too. Kids don't mind the differences, they value them , and value good people, male or female. They need models of both as they grow up. Thanks to Christina for standing up and speaking truths too many people in education don't want to hear.
no modern "teacher" would survive what was on our minds back in the 70s. We all wanted to be cops, soldiers, firemen, athletes, etc. So much testosterone and big dreams of big things like manned missions to Mars, exploring the unknown and having dangerous jobs in adult life.
After a career in the Army, I got to live that life and have no regrets.
Wow, so this is basically why the movies in the 80s were so goddam testosterine driven awesome? XD
@@CloudWalkBetayup, watching an action movie back then at 14 yrs old you would be walking out the theater with a full chest of hair
😂😂
Bro sounds like recruiter 🦅
Being a boy in 6th grade I had a male teacher. We butted heads. He finally got my mind right. I really needed the discipline I got. My favorite teacher of all time.
Imagine what had happened if you had a female teacher and was pampered with...
So a bunch of boys are told to express their feelings, but then are punished for doing exactly this around a bonfire, the thing we've been doing together for millions of years?
Yet another example of what "unhindered by what has been" really meant.
Been tons of studies done on educational bias being slated to female students. The study shows that men tend to take it slightly easier on female students but women seem to take it noticeably harder on boys. There was a blind study done where teachers were asked to grade papers and all they knew up top was the name. Papers that had a female names were graded between a half a grade and a full grade higher by men and a grade to a grade and a half lower by females. This is just basic gender bias. Now imagine the real bias that plays out as teachers establish relationships with students.
well dam 💀💀💀
@@1TightMinute as if this is surprising in this gyno culture 😆
Par for the course
This is why I've been saying that all boy school's and all girl school's need to become mandatory. That way men can teach boys how to be men, and women can teach girls how to be women. Zero bias.
This reminds me when I was in high school and we had a sub English teacher come in around deer season and we got a speech on how horrible hunting is (small town where most folks hunt) then she started screwing with our grades so me and a few others left a deer head on her porch lol she quit soon after
This comment would be 10/10 if it provided a source for the study.
The funny thing is that she’s a real feminist. She just isnt delusional and knows men and women are different and that we both need a place in this world.
The not so funny thing is that this very profound female expert has no real power over anything - who denies her the last word in many decisions? Exactly who? How could Dads look to, that she gets more power?
@@DNA350ppm the fuck are you on about? Your words make no senses.
Femenism is destroying human civilization. Look at the effects. Maybe I can see it more clearly since I grew in Cuba. But in the west, boys are demonized for pursuing their Primal urges to chase a girl and make a family. Boys got nothing to aspire for anymore. No reason to invent new things when there's no reward.
The real funny thing is Feminism was never about equality. So being a "real" Feminist is trying to make lead into gold.
The place of women is at home, obeying their husband.
Burning the notebooks was a completion of the assignment. What greater expression of the soul can you get than that
4:31 I also will add, that men usually drop out because they have to work, to feed their family, whether it he their mother and father, or whether it be their children and wife. Just because feminists feel that their role of "homemaker" is optional, does not mean men's role of "provider" is optional. There's nothing to make men's lives easier or dreams come true. They have to work for it.
Thank you
@@SWOTHDRA I really hope that we go back to a male friendly education environment, if we to have a public school at all. I prefer homeschooling, though.
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The idea behind feminism is that men and women would have the same opportunities and choices. In a perfect world, a single income is enough to allow one parent (mom or dad) to be a parent/ homemaker. Rarely, neither parent has that option because two incomes are a necessity today.
@caronadams4486 1) Even if that is the definition of feminism ( which, there is more to it than that), that's a stupid idea. For one, we are very different, from our anatomy, to our psychology. We shouldn't have the same opportunities and choices, because, to be honest, we are simply not the same. For instance, no woman should be a firefighter. That's not me being unnecessarily discrimanatory. Lives would be at stake if she gets the job. And, how the workplace has altered in various ways to accommodate women, proves this point. Why do we have HR, sensitivity training, etc.? Because women have a strong need to have social conformity.
2) The ideology of feminism actually has a huge part to play in the economic turmoil we face. When women flooded the workplace (causing reduction in wages due to distribution) AND started asking for the same wage (an actual entitlement, given women actually were new employees at the time, still work less hours, have less duration in a company, etc.), everyone started asking for more money. We'll, the government continually prints more money, causing inflation. And, by in large, the same people wanting to flood the workplace with women, also want to flood the workplace with illegals. Something to be said.
3) Again, create a problem, and causing economic gridlock. The truth is , there are still ways for one to have a nuclear family, just, few want to. Even if some make the sacrifice to swing it (a growing number do), they are ostracized by the likes of people like you.
I recall a story in a SF magazine in which the assignment was for a girl and a boy were to write alternating sections of a story. The girl’s story was about how she was selecting her tea after her breakup with her boyfriend. The boy’s was SF and he was captain of a starship lamenting that the girl he left behind was pretty but boring, always obsessed with her tea. The assignment descended into a screaming match between the boy and the girl.
I’m so old, I remember the time before “Dick and Jane” when the stories were interesting.
Brilliant comment, l can see it in my mind 😂
I thought that was a 4chan meme...
I know the article. they got an A on it.
@@music-jj2pl lmmfao
This reminds me of a time my teacher demanded we write a recount of our personal affairs when i made it clear im not sharing my personal life with people who dislike me i got told i can do it or get detention so i just said fine then wrote a small fantasy story with a false holiday mixed in and my teacher got pissy i made up a story and explained clearly i told her im not giving personal information for a poor quality english class.
"Pathological masculinity" (a.k.a. toxic masculinity) tends to happen in the absence of [sufficient] masculinity.
Our school district has quite a few male teachers and I’m so grateful. In elementary school, they tend to be in 4th-6th and I feel that’s the exact time it’s needed most. They have outgrown the need for a motherly figure at school. They desire the energy and loud voices of the men. Also, I’ve found that male teachers show much more interest in the kids lives & interested simply because men can compartmentalize and don’t stress as much. We’ve had them come to soccer games, lemonade stands, ask for pictures of the things they like to do outside of school. We have yet to have a female teacher ask for any of that. They tend to have the mindset that kids should be seen and not heard. Sit still for 7 hours and listen, while men think of the classroom as a community.
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Generalization
Interesting perspective. I'm reflecting on my own experience. I remember male teachers joking about families, kids, wives a lot more.
They also make schools as boring as humanly possible. They get rid of competition, recognition, and sports.
There's almost nothing so demoralizing as living in an environment where you aren't allowed to prove yourself.
@@simonhadley8829 Or be yourself...
I wouldn't have gone to school if they didn't have baseball.
@markrussell4682 same but with Football, Gym, Recess. That would be Hell.
@@simonhadley8829 Or improve.
Men and women should be treated equally, but that doesn't mean they are equivalent. Boys and girls need specific environments to flourish.
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Equal under the law. Equal opportunities. However the way they are treated depends on what they need.
My grandmothers are/were both of the pre-WW2 generations. One thing I have noticed with them is how they never ever have made any generalized statements about men or women.
I never heard "men are like..." or "women are like..." - and these are both very critical women, who have very little nice to say about things. And yet, never blanket statements about the genders.
From my mother and my mother's generation onwards though. Oh boy, the vitriol, the blaming, the shaming.
This is taught behavior! Women are taught at an early age, by women who had some bad interactions, to hate men.
Yes, hate - because that's what it is. A taught loathing of men.
I had an assignment at a local elementary school. I was a semi retired teacher working as a substitute teacher. The fits grade female teacher gave her class a writing assignment in which they had to choose a female athlete to write about. The girls loved it. The boys were confused and concerned why they couldn’t choose a male athlete. They did poorly on the assignment. The classroom was so feminized the boys acted as if they were outcast because the class prioritized girls needs.
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If you're a teacher, I assume that you were teaching a "fifth" grade class, not "fits" grade. Right?
You just made that up. Get a life outside of the screen
@danielscott7985 childless dead end spotted. My youngest has definitely gotten assignments in this same vein. The lockdown era was eye opening for what’s really going on in these schools
@@artawhirlerAutocorrect loves to ruin people's sentences.
here is the deal: teachers do not earn as much money. While the ladies can in certain ways afford to do that because eventually many will meet a guy who makes more money doing something else… many guys who become teachers probably automatically shrink their pool of future partners . Many women will not consider a male teacher as a viable husband due to earning potential . So when we say - we just need more male teachers, how do we entice them? Majority of men want to have a possibility of starting a family and the women in their life will eventually want to know how he will provide for the family . “ that’s so cool/cute that you work with kids” reaction does not fly too far for many women. An educated guess here
You get it too, the dating scene is filled with this problem, women have been given better career opportunities i have no problem! but when it comes to relationships and forming families, they STILL want a guy who makes more money than they do! As a result it’s harder to find these guys because the majority of men are beneath them now!
from day 1 in school to adulthood, society has stopped giving men a fair way to succeed. It will be no surprise to me if in the next 10 years time we see a rise in violence from young men as society has clearly failed them, and we’re seeing laws being setup in anticipation for this already.
@@CloudWalkBeta how would you change some of the trends and dynamics ? Say if you were in the government? :-)
@@CloudWalkBeta yeah, then we'll wonder and ask ourselves "why are men so violent? We don't understand!" as the idiots we humans are and the only solution we'll find will be making sentences more and more harsh for men rather than ACTUALLY IMPROVING the fucking education system. What a joke.
But teachers earn a lot of money.
@@heartig1219 No. No, they don't.
In high school, I had a female English teacher that halfway understood boys. After having certain students all in the same class, she better understood.
We almost revolted one day until she understood that when we were writing about the drive to commit actions we were writing about our feelings. For most boys, feelings motivate or hinder behaviors, actions. We can feel them, powerfully. We can ponder them, deeply. We have a hard time applying words of description to feelings without learning to translate thoughts on motivation or avoidance in other ways that actually have words.
We are literally just feeling the feelings and diving into them in the most pure sense when we try to ponder. Until we learn the words, there are none. Often when we do learn the words, we are told we are too broad. How can one not speak broadly when looking upon the wide sea?
If they weaken or discourage the men earlier in life, it makes for a much more controllable society. It is truly Teri or thing that is happening!
As a mother of three boys, I have always encouraged them to be themselves. They are strong, kind, both emotionally and mentally intelligent.
All we can do is start with our own children and support the young men of the world by standing up to this nonsense!
Where I live, the boys are becoming so feminised that sometimes I think I've walked into the wrong toilet! Our influence on our children is subverted by Big Corp which wants boys in make-up and whose hobby is shopping. Worse, the dark hand wants boys to eschew their masculinity (all of which is "toxic"), assertiveness and challenge. They want boys to be obedient and docile. Then the hidden hand has total power.
If isn't controllable without strong men holding up the pillars. It will collapse.
It starts with mothers (especially single mothers) that live their sons and don’t disrespect their fathers in front of them- same goes with fathers talking about mothers.
Even if your ex is a piece of work don’t talk negatively about him around your son OR Daughters.
We ALL Need to be taught to respect one another as individuals.
Too Many angry man hating single moms raising fearful, untrusting man-hating daughters and insecure, unwanted boys.
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prevent govt, interference/indoctrination
This idea of feminine based learning having an impact on male learning was written about a few decades ago. The fact that it has been ramped up as opposed to a serious look, tells you all you need to know. I also find it interesting that a more feminized society has a sharp increase in mental health problems for both sexes.
Why do males need special accomodations?
@@teresamagnussonwhy did they change it in the first place? Hmmmn…
@@michaelconvery8871It hasn't changed. Kids have been sitting in class rooms for a while now. Higher education is conducted in a classroom, and the lower grades model it. Higher education and its imitators is how old? Four or five hundred years? People have been sitting in lectures forever. Church is one example.
Women are getting special treatment non damn stop @@teresamagnusson
@@teresamagnussonwhy do females need special accommodation?
Because we are different.
Equally valuable, equally important, both needed for the continuation of society.
Tending toward different inclinations, skills and desires.
The top 1% has made the other 99% lives rachet for millenia, continuing their control by redirecting anger towards the Other of the day instead of those who made the system what it is.
Boys respond well to physical activity. They need a bit of adventure to capture the imagination. Little boys absolutely love to help out with anything physical. A males mind needs physical activity. I think an exhausted body can be the best way to calm the mind in males. I don't think that we need to go wild and have them lift weights all day but rather incorporate physical activity as a way to learn and solve problems. Sitting in a chair all day is probably not the best way for boys. Gym class is OK, but it's not exactly the physical adventure that will capture the attention. Teaching math and science to boys would be a thousand times easier through carpentry, engineering, technology, and money where they can get their hands on it and see the reward of creating through these skills to really capture their imagination
Just let them have recess.
@projoebiochem yeah that helps for small children but not quite ambitious enough to solve this problem for the rest
@@chrisquinn394 It’s a start to better accommodate boys in elementary schools. Our local school has a great playground space, but they only let the kids out at most once a day. After lunch they sit and watch movies.
@@projoebiochem yes I agree
I homeschool my kids. My son is sick and he collects the trash and takes it out, gets the mail, and lets out the dog and feeds him. And his grandparents know anytime they have little tasks to do, Charlie is always up for it. I love to help but he really just wants to do it and his demeanor is so good after helping everyone out. He just wants to be appreciated! And he is
Education is designed for teachers to have a career, not for students to prepare for life. Most subjects are irrelevant to life.
I whole heartedly agree, they don’t teach civics anymore or phonics - too difficult. The system has been perverted into a career path and not a true education system…thank you National Education Administration and Teachers Unions. If administrators and teachers got paid according to their actual performance of the education students received, most would be fired for subpar performance. They don’t want to teach the basics (reading, writing and arithmetic), they want to teach the esoteric DEI crap that permeates society, they need to teach not only the proper curriculum but also life skills (minor medical, cooking, cleaning, finances, budgeting, light sewing and job interview skills) to prepare the students (prospective adults) for the rest of their lives. Oh, but national teacher association thinks that too hard for them. True the parents should be teaching a lot of this to their children, but often time both parents are working very hard, sometimes at two or more jobs just to make ends meet. Who has the most time to teach, eight or more hours at school, or at home, where they’re lucky if the parents have two maybe three hours to teach, including doing homework.
It's purpose nowadays is more for parents to have childcare while they're at work than it is to educate kids.
It's purpose is to indoctrinate the socialist revolution. All of this would be solved with parent choice.
@@rebekahmontesdeoca565yep! Almost half the time spent there is completly useless
The system also makes children depressed by the time they grow up. By a young age, if they start failing and isn't brought back up, they will be beaten down by their surroundings and the system until the become broken. the ironic part is that the broken children is still a better outcome than the pampered ones.
“Nobody wanted me there” 4:19 feels the same way in most modern work forces and in society at large sometimes…
I am a single mother .My son his starting 11 th grade and I got to admit ,the best teachers he got through the years were men . They would teach things in a way only guys could get and it was great to see my son perform in these conditions . The hardest years were somehow always when he got a female teacher . Those write your feelings down ,is just ridiculous. You can learn things without spilling yourself out to a whole class room . Just ridiculous and our boys are paying the price so that means our society will be paying the price for the “ lack “ of education our future men are getting . Things need to change , we need “ tough” men to care for this country ! Not sissies talking about their feelings ! Look at the state of the world because of “ feelings” ! Humanity is losing its grip on reality ! Very scary !
You are the biggest part of the problem, as a single mom, you robbed your son of his father. Dont blame school , blame yourself
Ya I should have left his father beat me up in fro rid our kids of another 20 years ,just he could teach his son how to be a real man . Assumptions and judgments will fall back on you o e day ! Ya because according to your statement all single mothers are the bad ones , wanting to be raising kids on their own in this f up world filled with people like you who often speak without even knowing nothing about nothing. Get out of your bubble and see what is really happening in your neighbourhood . You might be very supeise to learn that there is such a thing as bad fathers,or husbands or maybe is it my fault and maybe I did deserve to have broken ribs and broken nose because the man I married turned out to be a coward! Like a lot of other cowards always easy to blame the most vulnerable !
I could be a widow for all you know ! Assume and judge much !
@@Curious245 you could, but you are not......
Get him into trade school if he isn't already. Just about anything else is a waste
Way back during my years teaching pre-K, Kindergarten, early grade science and math intervention, the parents called me "the boys' teacher" because I included so much movement, had play centers with a focus on animals and block play was a priority. All of that is good for girls too. We aren't serving either sex well with the focus on sitting, reading and writing ad infinitum.
But we've gotta churn out more office and factory workers who will mindlessly do repetitive tasks for 8+ hours a day.
This is interesting to me as a mom of a male child in Middle School. Almost all of his teachers have been female, and I have never seen classrooms that were "overly feminine". I also spent time in classrooms helping out I felt that it wasn't very gender-specific at all. In fact, almost all of my teachers were females when I was growing up too and that was a long time ago. Female dominance in the education system is nothing new.
As a long -too long - time teacher, I recall how in Australian secondary schools from the 80's onwards there was special emphasis on helping girls to succeed in the STEM subjects. At least in the public schools where I could observe, it really was a zero-sum game: girls were (and still are) praised for breaking 'glass ceilings' and the achievement of boys was allowed to slide away. Coupled with skilled work going overseas, so that technical training diminished, the lack of 'ordinary' jobs and the impossible costs of housing, I suspect that many boys simply lost all faith that school was worth the effort.
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Also a former educator in Canada. Your time lines for the male detoxification of public school is about the same as ours. This is what happens whenyou engineer an admin takeover by feminists of which many (70%) are self admitted alphabetors, there sole doctrine is to rid the world of toxic masculinity,
Exactly, its even worse when you add dating into this mess.
I’m seeing guys growing up with minimum wage dead-end service jobs that are mind numbing boring. While girls are seeing high up career opportunities quickly opening for them and they out earn the guys, BUT when girls want to find a BF, they STILL look for guys who make more money than they do! HOW? HOW are guys supposed to live up to girls desires when boys were setup to lose at school!?
From my school experience in the 90s it was hardcore uncool to be a nerd. I remember my classmate saying that we are weird because we don't bully our electronics geek. So I think the story is more nuanced than that, boys partly did it to themselves. Though, I wonder where it came from, there were a lot of shows at the time that pushed the nerd loser stereotype.
@@justachannel8600 Hello there. I'm sure that you're right about the issue being more nuanced. I went to an all-male technical (trade) school before your time, and was part of a group that was interested in both electronics/science and sport. There were fights literally every day, but I never heard of anything about bullying a 'geek' (the word wasn't even used). However, as skilled jobs went overseas and local power stations were sold off, there was a shift - as I recall it, at least - in emphasis away from STEM subjects for boys and a corresponding movement towards STEM for girls, particularly in the wealthy private schools. I suspect that many boys in the public system simply didn't see that STEM had anything to offer them, whereas previously boys were being pushed towards apprenticeships etc that required STEM. Once the jobs were lost, it seems that STEM for boys lost community status, while for girls it may be that it still represented, particularly for those from a wealthier background, opportunities and the status of being a high achiever in an area once largely dominated by males. No doubt the 'nerd loser' stereotypes which you mentioned didn't help. There are many other factors, but I'm sure that you don't need me to go on even further.
Best wishes to you in any case.
I have an older sister. It has been my contention that if you have a girl first and a boy second that you will think that your second child is brain damaged. My mother thought so.
Nah your mom was just a bad mom. Forgive her and be better
@@theskyizblue2day431 My mom was a great mom with a bad understanding of the difference between boys and girls. If you expect that your boy will be anything like your girl you will be sorely mistaken.
@@JR-bj3ufsister to sister brother to brothers are different as-well lmao
@@JR-bj3ufwhere is your dad? She cant be that great if she couldnt keep your father around
@@SWOTHDRA Why do you think my dad was absent? He wasn't.
I was a substitute teacher for 3 1/2 years. I would have elementary school kids scream in joy that they had a male teacher. I went to an assembly in one school where I was one of two men in the room, the other being the janitor. This is not a problem of indoctrination. This is a problem of paying your teachers too little.
I have served at a Youth Camp for my church for several nears now (over a decade) and we have a girls and a boys camp (separate). The leader of the camps over all is a woman; wonderful lady. She is quite good at what she does, but she did have a lot of learning to do about boys. She did not realize how important sports were for boys and thought, since the camp has a lot of teaching goals attached to it, that perhaps we could take out some of the sports to allow for more classroom time. Every single male counselor almost quite (me included) and we all had a difficult time explaining to her why sports were vital. She also thought the boys needed to have more "socializing time" and that was the breaking point. we all, in unison said to her "WHAT DO YOU THINK THE SPORTS ARE FOR!!!". Slowly, to her credit, she started to understand just how different boys and girls are.
and this is why the Bible says women shouldnt be in leadership positions over men
I remember now in like 4th or 5th grade when playing football at school not on a sports team to be exact but when playing football the teachers wouldn’t allow tackle football the teachers were both male and female saying that but then when i went to church camp when i was like 14 or 15 the counselor was saying in Q and A that in the Bible about not touching women which is what the counselor was telling us not to do and i asked him about women not touching men I can’t remember the exact answer he gave but he didn’t like me asking that question and around that time i had issues with some girl they found out and the girl got the soft talk while i got the more hostile approach from the counselor
Sport is as much important for girls too
@@Commentator488 yeah but not at the expense of boys
Yes it is certainly important to both genders. And I fully expect all the women to take it on as a responsibility to stand up and speak out about it.
the university down the street from me has a women's business center. Amazon has preferential treatment for women owned businesses. the school I attended has special scholarships for women. women are eligible for no bid contracts that men are not eligible for at both the state and county level. google has a women's startup accelerator but men are forbidden from organizing in the same fashion. women can join the police, the military or firefighting with lowered standards. women in the aggregate are net tax recipients, men are net tax payers. men are forced to serve in the selective service in order to vote, but women are exempt from the draft. there are a lot more men than women who are homeless but there is no effort to equalize that. the average man pays anywhere between 25 to 65 percent of his income to pay for social entitlements, which is more than serfs were made to pay during feudalism. Social security and medicare are insanely bad investments for men both because men pay more in taxes and don't live as long. women complain about the pay gap but fail to note that men are much more likely to be injured on the job.
Just a little bit more, and they will have achieved true equality!
Women are also net tax payers. There are women with high paying jobs and are taxed.
As for the Selwctive Service, there hasn't been a draft since Vietnam. The armed forces are fully staffed.
Yes, more men are homeless, but could it be that many homeless men choose that lifestyle? I have a brother who is both mentally ill and homeless, and after many years of my mother trying to help him, even helping him with an apartment, chose to walk away from all that to be homeless again.
There is help for homeless men, but many homeless men do not seek nor accept help.
I think KHS is very biased. She paints men as being "victims." She is no different than what many feminists believe about female vuctimhood.
If zkHS is concerned that there are too many female kindergarten and elementary school teachers and not enough men, then she should advocate for higher pay for teachers to attract men.
@@debrawehrly6900 Women are definitely not net tax payers and draw far more out of the system than they put into it overall. Just because high earning women pays a higher tax rate it does not make up for the millions that are collecting welfare and drawing benefits through the endless programs provided to them by the government. A lot of men are homeless because people like yourself just don't care as well as the fact that they don't endlessly complain about their fate like your kind does. You are so used to claiming perpetual victimhood yourself you can't even conceive men can fit into that category as well. Contrary to your beliefs men's concerns should be just as valid as yours and not dismissed because they upset you. In your mind you think we are second class citizens when nothing could be further from the truth.
@@debrawehrly6900 How can both men and women in aggregate be net positive tax payers?
@@debrawehrly6900 Yes there are women with all those things, BUT on average there are MORE men with higher paying jobs. NOBODY chooses to be homeless, so to paint it as men's fault is such a typical feminist response. Just because of your brother situation, doesn't mean it is like that for everyone. Men have higher suicide rates than women, but it is ignored. When women are in any of these situations there is more access to help and catering to females in society now than has ever been, than in any country, in history. Men don't go into teaching, because they have been pushed out, and hello Metoo!!!! So instead of answering well women are this and women are that blah blah, do your research on what is actually happening in our society as it has been happening for the last 30 years!! By the way women caused this problem not men.
There were many matriarcal cultures in the past. ALL of them failed. They were usually submitted or destroyed by more stronger tribes, or had to endure an internal cultural revolution that made them patriarchal, and just to survive.
As a history buffer, i always wondered why that happened. Now i start to REALLY understand.
You understand the male tendency is to dominate? Good.
None of this is an accident.
The plans of those at the High Table require that 'non-compliant' males be weakened to the maximum degree that is possible.
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Yes, to overthrow the so-called patriarchy. The whole thing has become an obsession, to the point where the line of absurdity has long been crossed.
@@QTwoSixwhy a star of david
I homeschool to try to give my boys a place where they never have to hear that being a man is intrinsically evil.
I am their mother, but luckily I am married to their father. 😊
We need more mothers like you who see the differences with boys as simply reality and something that needs to be nurtured, not something boys should be embarrassed of or to have them neglected.
@@cygnusprime6728 Oh, thank you! What a nice compliment 😊
I think I speak for all men when I say thank you for your service. Every effort made to stem this tide is a good thing.
But they Will encounter horrible messages outside sooner or later? The thing about men is we are on our own however cruel that is, so def make sure you don’t shelter them too much
@@sumomaster5585 I promise I won't. But since they are 5 and 6 right now, I think full shelter is still appropriate ;)
Personally back when I was in school I never really noticed anything like this and that could be because I've never been particularly interested in being manly, and super masculine, and tough or maybe its because I was lucky with the schools I went to. My biggest issues in schooling were always rather the absolutely obscene amount of schoolwork and major projects that they would constantly dole out to take home. Getting sent home constantly with hours and hours of schoolwork that stole away from your time even after school hours was tedious and demoralizing. An hour bus ride going to school, 8 hours at school, an hour returning, and then 4-6 hours of schoolwork!? When am I supposed to have time to go outside or play with my friends or do anything besides school-related activities. I guess you could say just play or socialise over the weekend except they'd give you work or projects to have done by Monday or Tuesday on Thursdays and Fridays that you would most likely be working on over the weekend.
Right, and no one enjoys that, you'd think girls like homework according to these comments??
@@monkey6207 Schools are just horrible environments for children in general. But this video is more discussing an example of male discrimination in society.
The best way I've seen to communicate this and I think Sommers might have coined this phrase: Boys should not be treated like defective girls.
Exactly
I’ve been a male Primary school teacher for 10yrs and quit to work in a factory. I make less money, but deal with a lot less stress.
The boys are 1000% being feminised and I received a lot of backlash in my final year when I tried to teach the boys with structure and discipline. Apparently, I had to be more “gentle” with them.
That sucks man. Might look into the electric/oil/transport industries. My buddy is HVAC at Walmart doing 100 plus a year.
@@KX5Kat 2/3 of time we spent in sxhool is either useless or straight up aint doin anythin
lookin b on it its wild
Bs. Give'em discipline and reward good attitudes. We are so emotionally deprived that reward makes us feel good.
I can tell you very easily who the most dangerous students in my school were the boys who had no strong stability at home and no one ever enforced discipline with so they were mentally and emotionally weak ether being docile as a corpse or the most violent people you have met.
It sounds like it was the best for the students that you quit
I'm strongly considering homeschool for all my kids after second grade, sex irrelevant. Public school is a terrible environment for both girls and boys. Girls in the throes of puberty are borderline insane, and the entire education system is stifling for boys. The academics stink across the board. Where's the benefit?
This is all going to end very badly
As designed.
😢exactly. That’s what it’s meant to do.
We are living in the consequences as we speak
It will be a glorious violent backlash against feminist matriarchy
Feminization of boys with the addition of porn and video games means they’ll be placated and non violent
They're not doing anything to change it because they are getting the results they want
BINGO; as I said in another comment on this video, people in positions of power are looking at the data and saying "IT'S WORKING!!!"
Okay, as a teacher, how do I help these kids. The majority of the disruptions are from boys. The majority of my failing students are boys. As a male teacher, I see that there is an issue, but how do we fix it? Is it the system itself? Is school and the way it is done a poor way to teach boys, but better for girls? Are there better teaching strategies to help boys learn? I feel like the books and short stories I am allowed to read with my class is steadily becoming diluted. My school considered taking out classics like The Most Dangerous Game, The Sniper, and Lamb to the Slaughter. All of those stories have great engagement from both boys and girls. A real solution needs to be presented.
I worked in my younger three children’s school for about three and a half years…. One daughter and two sons. Small charter, 3 male teachers and about 28 female teachers. Witnessed how the male teachers talents were constantly challenged and squandered by bureaucracy and policies. The boys suffered the most. Long story short, my husband and I now home educate and encourage as many as who will listen to do as well. Not always easy but is doable.
Did anyone ever consider that the whole idea of compulsory public school sucks?
1. As run, it consumes far too much of a child's life. If you look back on K-12 in your own life, you will probably agree that at least half the hours you spent there were wasted, in that you could have gained similar capabilities with half the time invested, freeing up many hours for other avenues of interest, or study, or work. Truly, we teach kids to waste time rather than to invest it pleasantly and profitably. And we see the results in the workplace.
2. It costs WAY more money than it should.
3. It does not deliver 98%+ training to proficiency in the intended basic life skills (3 Rs and civics). How do you graduate high school while still functionally illiterate?
4. It provides a baby-sitting service for working parents. No, that's NOT a benefit! It diminishes thereby a parent's necessary influence on the child. And if we didn't have a wasteful, punitive tax structure, many working parents would willingly stay home, say degreed colleagues I've worked with. Children are a more important product than what companies make. I point out the huge tax burden schools impose on EVERYBODY for your whole adult life. How much better to pay tuition for your kids only, only in periods they need it.
5. Parents should direct their children's education. Who has a greater interest?
6. If educators had actually to sell their services in an open market, can you imagine the difference?
More importantly it has a destructive effect on children. Being surrounded by other children all the time in a parallell world means that children are essentially raised by other children. The results are of course predictable. No wonder that young 'adults' grow ever more infantile and dependent. In earlier times children interacted more with adults on the farm, as apprentices or even workers, and shaped themselves and their behavious after adults. And they interacted with the real world, and not some extended kindergarten.
I looked at my son's summer post-reading assignment in middle school once. It described a decision made by one of the characters in the book and asked, "how do you feel about that?"
Apparently, "I feel hungry about that" wasn't an acceptable option.
Now, had they asked, "what this person right?" they could have engaged the boys, but nobody seemed to think about that before I raised the issue with my son's teacher.
There's a general rule that I've noticed exists: Every social movement, no matter how good, no matter how necessary, has a point where it oversteps the line. You see this repeatedly, like Helicopter Parenting was an overcorrection to the "Let them go feral" parenting of the 70s and 80s that kicked up toward the end of the 90s, and then we went too far with Gentle Parenting correcting from the Helicopter Parenting. Gentle Parenting is good, but not when it leads to the kids just doing whatever they feel like all the time. There's a line.
Follow Your Dreams is great advice, but at the same time, there's a point where things go sort of off-kilter and we're seeing a ton of college students who're graduating college with woefully inadequate college degrees that aren't going to help them get careers that can actually move them forward. People who got told that, yes, pursue writing, but maybe take a sales or marketing course alongside it were seen as being total jerks who were assuming failure. Nevermind that if you want to be a writer, you're going to need to know how to sell and market your writing at some point.
You're completely right
I've been saying this for years ( I'm sure others have too).
This is a huge problem in our society, and it even goes as far as having unrealistic expectations in relationships and marriage.
The refusal to acknowledge that boy/ girls and men/ women are different is hurting us big time.
It’s only a problem for women when the problem starts effecting them……
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True, relationships are a mess, women are always looking for men who earn more income than they make, expecting men to pay the majority of the bills, how are men supposed to do that if women are automatically given the better career opportunities?
@@CloudWalkBeta Men no longer want to be in that type of relationship. Pay for your own stuff.
@@0volts157 You can say that, but for sake of argument, if the education and job opportunities are failing men, how are guys supposed to live up to societal expectations let alone start families?
OR another question, what will a large group of disenfranchised young men do instead? Crime? Start a revolt? They aren't going to just lazily sit around doing NOTHING. There should a reaction coming and it might not be peaceful.
Boys need role models too. Not just females! Both kids should have love at the same time. Make both shine. Never favor one over the other.
Thanks for bringing Christine back. She did great UA-cam commentaries years ago, and her 2000 tome "The War Against Boys" is a classic.
Yes, it is. A must-read
Agreed. Fantastic book.
in grade 9 my son informed his teacher he was no longer doing any "group projects". tests only. he passed. the projects are girl oriented and all the girls know how that goes. as a girl i dont like group projects either. he impressed me as all they could do was try to play on his sympathies and offer threatening scenarios that never came to pass.
Where is his father?
Interesting, most of the comments here say hands-on work and less lecturing works better for their boys
@@yesimemoin0935because the brain abhors boring and loves the interesting. What’s more interesting? A hands-on/interactive lecture (preferably with some real-life application) or a cut-and-dry lecture? Even something simple like a Kahoot can bring great benefits.
Group projects honestly suck for everyone, especially because there are always the kids who make you do all the work but still get credit as if they were a part of it.
sounds weird. When i grew up all the boys wanted to do group projects because you got a chance to 'not do work'. and all the girls wanted tests.
A good reason to have a father in the home. Everyone needs male and female role models
[9:08] This is what really woke me up to all of these cultural problems. Specifically someone telling me that my (then) 5 yr old son was a misogynist. Absolutely had to be. Because he was the son of a straight white man (me), who was obviously a misogynist because I didn't like The Last Jedi.
I mean, the augments about the movie or my opinions were one thing... but declaring my 5 yr old son was unquestionably a misogynist... It was like my son was guilty until he proved himself to not be just another toxic male. At 5 years old.
Really started me asking more questions.
crazy someone would put a label like that on a child for no good reason whatsoever. they're absolutely deluded
My female teachers were left wing feminists, looking back now I realized all the bull craps they spoon fed us about the war
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Which war?
I feel like schools are mind numbingly boring.
For everyone, not just special little spoiled boys.
Agreed and I’m not a male lol.
They are I struggle to pay attention for 3 mins and would start drawing blueprints of buildings as something to do. I got sent to the office so many times because of that. Even when a lot of us boys got together and put in the papers for a club start up for video games at lunch time for anyone who wanted to join we were denied but when the girls asked for it they allowed it and made it a girl only space like all the rest of the clubs there was not 1 club allowed for boys
Different continent, same problem. Today some friends of mine just complained about missing male teachers that can serve as positive role models for boys.
I remember my school-time and having female teachers was pure stress. They could be so unpredictable in what they expected, they never admitted any faults, also they could explode any second and start shouting. What a relieve it was, my first male teacher (aside from PE). Calm, understanding, patient -- the complete opposite, then I knew how I wanted to be.
I have noted that my wife is like those female teachers.
Ours were very predictable.
you always had to recite the text in class verbatim. Your own formulations were not permitted. Even interpretations of poems only had one single correct solution. And when in doubt give girls a better grade.
yall had some awful teachers jfc
We have known this for 20 years but no one is doing anything here in Finland while the PISA learning results especially for boys keep on falling. 90% of primary school teachers are also women. Everything is demasculated and violent out-of-control kids are given personal development discussions after their rampages when instead they needed limits, attention, discipline and appreciation for their innate strengths as boys.
@@wombatillo don't wait to see that fabled female "empathy". They have none for men and boys.
Weird, because Finland has one of the best performing education systems in the world. Its been top 5 for as long as I remember. More often in the top 3.
@@alganhar1 the failure of boys is no doubt seen as part of that"'success"
Boys need apprenticeships, but that can never be implemented using institutions. It can only be done with community.
Not all of us. I went into Science. Specifically I am a Maine/Evolutionary Ecologist. With the best will in the world, you are not really doing that through an apprenticeship.
Thats not to say hands on experience is not vital, Ecology is very much a field based Biological Science. The best way to study an ecosystem is to get into it!
You also need all the background knowledge and skills that go into it however, and that means much time spent in classrooms. I will say that in general I found classrooms a University level to be far more interesting than at school. That however was due to the fact that I was learning what I wanted to learn, and things I was interested in rather than trying to work out which sadist had invented Calculus, or looking for deep meaning in Lord of the Flies! In the latter, there is plenty, but its grim as all hell... Lord of the Flies is not a pleasant book! Its like Animal Farm in that respect, starts of innocuous and devolves into murder and authoritarianism startlingly quickly!
We’ve been having these conversations for years
Decades.
@@HouSlalomF- enists....Womanists are in charge.....and they WANT weak men...Men that are de- moralized.....
Heard no mention of who to blame here in this vid. Lemme give you a clue, it's not the right. Lefties realized the Iphone is the greatest brainwashing device known to man and they put it to work trying to create unearned equity. Goes beyond boys and girls.
It's a problem when an old spinster says it's a problem.
That’s because they solved the problem. Men and boys just have to do better.
It's all about who is more likely to follow directions and submit to control. The powers-that-be know that disenfranchised young men are a necessary ingredient to waging Armed Revolution.
Then why do you all just go on to get 40 hr desk jobs while women are more likely to be creative and have lives and passion projects?
@@monkey6207 not all. Some.
@@monkey6207 because the creative projects women are interested in tend to follow the way of the movers and shakers of society and are thus encouraged , on the other hand , male interests and projects are discouraged.
@@mayursharma7594 Why are the most insulting claims about all women just thrown out on a whim every other second? "When women are creative it's just because they're following trends". WHATEVER YOU SAY. If it makes you feel better! Tell me more about how all bad qualities are feminine and all virtues are masculine. Whenever women do it, it's because of a sin!
@@monkey6207 and your rage leads to... nothing.
Stop pretending that this change in enviroment is a "good thing" - you are commiting the same error as Icarus.
I’m an ex cop and builder, been teaching Maths co-ed 11-18 for 30 years here in the UK. I’m old school, pupils work in silence, no group work, no ‘death by worksheet’, no textbook, everything taught from the board. I throw in humour and a few stories from my past! Boys and girls perform equally well in my class……
No more PE or shop classes for young men. I loved that in school.
Literally the best classes where knowledge sticks with you the most, what a shame its no longer the norm.
My dad would mention those to me, a woodworking on was his favorite. Nowadays a computer building one would be relevant and informative.
My son's school, still has shop, has a separate welding class outside of shop, PE, and other types of PE, like outdoor education, and and a more intensive PE type of class called "fitness".
@@leamas5971 , you don't have to be specific but what region of the country is that in? North, East South or West?
@@bobbullethalf Rural North Western Canada.
From 1950 to 2023, the labor force participation rate (LFPR) for wmn rose from 34% to 57% (+23%). During the same time period, the LFPR for men declined from 87% to 68% (-19%). This means that incentivizing wmn to enter the workforce only resulted in a net gain of about 4% in total workers. Was this gain of 4% really worth all of the madness that came with it?
I think not.
This assumes that more people in official "work" is a good thing. Are you sure that it is good?
@@davidvanderklauw There aren't any assumptions in my comment.
What’s worse is the productivity rates, it hit a peak and we’re declining now
@@djaeger-k5m The biggest problem is wage stagnation. The data clearly shows that wage growth and productivity split right at the point when wmn started entering the workforce in larger numbers. The extra money that would've normally increased wages started going into HR, lawsuits, and additional benefits. Now we have more people working for less money
Or maybe it means deadbeat men left their wives and the work force…
Growing up I didn’t see a male teacher outside of PE until I was in middle school, and it was one teacher out of 7. When I walked into that classroom and saw my teacher was a man it felt like seeing a unicorn in the wild.
4 grandsons
The parents
And we are working on them ….. thank you for encouraging us to continue on the right path for future men and fathers
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That's another thing .
Boys must be CONTROLLED , GUIDED - and CHANNELED .
So be it ...
But girls are encouraged to - spread their wings - don't allow anyone tell you how to behave - be a BOSS , Girl - but don't let anyone call you ' bossy ' or
' slut-shame ' you !
And vote as a block ... which they do - on all - imlortant ' womens issues ' .
Which ain't no mans bidness !
G-d help us all .
Keep at it. My nephews are amazing because their parents have taught them how to be of service to their moms at an early age and later to the extended family and community as they got older. They are forging their own paths and thriving!
As a product of the 1960-1970 period, Education was a matriarchy even back then.
It's worthless to talk about this if nothing substantive happens to fix it. I've heard this for years, and then everyone slumbers back to the status quo.
All female teachers explains a lot about our failing public schools.
Society tells men "We don't want you here"
Worst, they say "you are toxic just because you are a boy"
Then it wonders why angry men turn to the likes of Andrew Tate!
Then men get message and leave and everyone else loses their damn mind.
Not needed? Not going to show up then.
They still need us to keep the society running, but I'd be more than glad if we left feminists behind to build and run their own cities without men. They could have kids but each time it would be a boy, it'd be given to a non-feminist adoptive traditional family outside their borders. They could keep the girls, raise them and try to maintain their own cities in terms of infrastructure and everything. It would be the first woman only country. If they ever tried to cross our borders, they'd face military resistance. I was always in favor of keeping the feminists in their own country, I don't want to work for them or to have anything to do with them.
One aspect of teaching that young men respond to is 'how is this education applied'. An example is showing them mathematical wood working and how to measure and cut fittings.
One of my elementary school teachers proudly proclaimed she rather teach a class of girls over boys. Just how did this affect the boys?
Not all but most female teachers take their view of the world into the classroom. I'm 67 and never had kids, but I cannot imagine what the classrooms are like now.
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I know a person who transitioned out of desperation. Got bullied at school, dropped out, got sexually assaulted, lost himself, got brainwashed in lockdown, lost his social skills, transitioned, detransitioned twice and now is blissful at how strong his body is as he's stopped taking hormones, how his muscles are growing back, and his genitals are functioning properly. He enjoys every second of heterosexual sex, practises boxing and muay thai, feels safe and at peace finally. He's told me he's never explored his own self, things he genuinely likes. I believe the assaults made him hate himself and want to erase himself. Had he had one good friend or a caring, intelligent parent guiding him, he wouldn't have suffered so much.
All efforts towards Diversity, Equity and Inclusion NECESSARILY lead to excluding someone else.
Take responsibility for your sons yourself. Guide them to take 'advantage' of school, but educate them yourself. My son is 17, he has already read Camus, Voltaire, Dostoevsky, Robert Greene, Bulgakov. I talked with him, read to him, kept him close so that I could be a role model for him yet without helicoptering him. He sees the crap of the world and seems ready for it. Don't wait for school, don't wait for authorities, don't wait for others. They are your children. It is your responsibility.
I am a teacher. I treat boys and girls as individuals, not as members of their 'sex' community. They choose their sex role path, and I encourage them to be curious and to challenge themselves when they allow me to. As an observant teacher I can see the different ways boys and girls are and how they learn and what they need. Most other teachers are top down and insist on conformity to the teacher paradigm.
Camus is so topical for our current online society. I was blessed by living above a used bookstore during college to get 50-cent hardbacks of those classics.
And put your son on the wrestling team if u want grandkids
Common sense by Thomas paine
I could recommend to put George Orwell's 1984 on the list.
@@adamcrookedsmile He already read that and Brave New World.
Sending your kids to school is borderline abusive. It's like there's a reason women stayed home with the kids. But now women are too selfish and indoctrinated.
Very interesting video, thank you. I have a twelve year old son. I think school in general needs to focus on academics and not on all this "social justice" that is anything but.
As an indigenous male, I feel exactly how these white male kids feel. I was not only bullied and told I wasn’t wanted by white students but also my fellow indigenous people because I had learning problems. Neither the white or indigenous teachers cared enough about me to see me succeed. I will always be grateful to the few teachers that did believe in me but unfortunately, there were too many people that didn’t care about me. It’s why I dropped out.
Before the feminist movement there were male fraternal organizations where men taught other men to be men. The feminists sued them and forced them to accommodate women. We need to rebuild these male spaces without women's approval.
So I had a male history teacher in high school older gentleman and a good man. I once corrected him about medieval armor and instead of getting pissed off and telling me to be quiet and not give false information, after school he did the research. The next day at the start of class he basically said in front of everyone I was right and that he was wrong. He was also my math teacher and was probably one of the best teachers I ever had
I graduated from high school in 1988, before spending a career in the US Army (Infantry) and retiring in 2010. Then, I was a school teacher in South Dakota for three years as part of the Troops to Teachers program. I can tell you - modern-day school is PAINFUL for average to below-average boys. They are mainly bored and disinterested. I completed my university education (MA, Intl Sec Studies, 2010) and in most of my classes, students hardly communicated with one another when they had opportunities - they were too entranced by their phones. We are doomed.
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That’s why the phones need to go from the kids. Especially in the classroom. I don’t understand. When I was in high school, we couldn’t have piercings or different colored hair cause it would be deemed “distracting” yet phones with video games on them and social media are okay? So, when did the education system (largely in the 2010s it seems) start to not care anymore? I’ve asked many parents would they be okay if there children went to schools where they weren’t allowed to have phones? The overwhelming majority say they wouldn’t feel comfortable about that cause of all the school shootings. And I think to myself, okay, but if school shootings are occurring at a higher rate than ever and it’s coincided with rising rates of depression and anxiety which also have coincided with the rise of smartphone and tablet use… maybe everything will actually improve if we don’t give kids access to these devices and online services? And why not hire retired police officers and fund it for protection at every school? It just makes no sense and eventually the parents are gonna have to budge if they want there kids to succeed in the classroom and later in life. Safety is important but not when it stunts the healthy development of your child. Risk is extremely important in a child’s development skills and conflict resolution. Whats happening is it seems that the U.S. education system along with A LOT of parents now seem to want to eliminate all risk from their child. That’s so destructive to your kid. No wonder the kids now and young adults can barely function when dealing with any kind of conflict, when the system and the parents literally tried to prevent all risk from their kids. It’s like the movie Bubble Boy but it’s the majority of kids now. And it scares me to think what happens to kids raised in that environment going into military service when becoming adults. Not good for a society at all.
@@nicholasanderson7316 You make some excellent points. My two recommendations are that curriculum designers find some way to make subjects FUN for boys, otherwise they seem to check out, while also incorporating more physical activity for both boys and girls. There were a lot of high school kids lacking in muscle tone and cardiorespiratory endurance, and who had very poor body composition. At least that was my experience from 2011-2014. Hopefully, they are aware of the problems.
Yep...I went back to school and no one talked to each other in the Class...all on thier phones.
@@nicholasanderson7316well taking away there phones would be the best idea to make them concentrate on their classes but a phone is still important in my school because if ever we do stuff like group activity works it requires a phone for research purposes and we also used our phones to answer a quiz app that allows us to answer questions related to our subjects questions that we just discussed like a while ago but we are also given strict rules and regulations about the use of phone's we call it gadget policy