I love the therapy videos & how educating they are in this society especially for kids & adults who are dealing with certain issues such as: detachment disorder
Well, Vader was replying to the accusation that he killed Luke's father. Also, he was trying to bring his son to the Dark Side, and anger is a gateway to that path.
Turning Red was really relatable as a child of immigrants. I lost a possible romantic relationship because I felt like it wasn’t gonna be accepted but it was completely natural for my friends. That scene where Mei had to suppress her anger is a toxic part of elder respectability culture - you suppress a justified part of yourself to keep the peace but at the cost of your inner voice. It does make it harder to stand up for yourself as an adult but it can be done. These things are skills and it’s never too late to learn them!
In the turning red, I felt that Stephanie literally read me. Like I was like that for a while but later on I let myself feel what I needed to feel, and try not to let my parents tell me what I should do or can do. Still working on it, but turning red is a movie that speaks to me as a Vietnamese American.
Turning red was exactly what happened to me as a kid And when I finally thought I was over it, it happened again as an adult At this point it isn’t fear for a kid but clearly control and manipulating
I always value her opinion, I think it's insightful and useful. It definitely changes the way I watch certain movies. Keep it up VF! This definitely make you think. Things you can learn and incorporate.
I like Stephanie's reactions to a lot of these videos I really liked how she her explanations and what the therapeutic outcomes of this was and I really liked it
This was really cool to see. I remember I took Family Communication in college and it was so cool the things I had learned. We literally had to choose a movie, watch it and use the tools we learned to analyze it. I learned about the Heroes, Scapegoats, Enablers etc. And also that you can't resolve issues in 30 min sitcoms LOL (but we know it's tv so we take what we can get)
This was really cool to see. I remember I took Family Communication in college and it was so cool the things I had learned about the Heroes, Scapegoats, Enablers ect. And sitcoms tv so we take what can get (
"... Luke looks deceived" Well, aparently when they shoot the scene with the actor in the Darth Vader suit, he was saying "Obi-Wan killed your father" as a way to trick everyone in the studio so the big revelation happened on the premiere, and no one could tell before (the movie was shot over a year before)
Looks like Luke looks discovered and shut the scene the actor Darth Vader suit he was saying obedient one kill your father as a way to trick everyone in the studio so the big reveal action happened on the premier, and no one could tell before the movie 🎥📹 was shot over a year before
I love this content! I think it could be helpful, especially for younger people, to see this type of content to make better sense of their favorite movies/shows.
If think about it, Darth Vader and the Emperor are treating Luke like he is an assassin trained by Obi-Wan to take them down. This is basically the instance that Darth Vader actually sets a trap for anyone, since he doesn't really know Luke's capabilities, he was actually extremely cautious(for him) in the Carbonite Chamber. His intention was to manuever Luke into the Carbonite chamber, and freeze him. when Luke escaped the chamber, Vader is left with disarm the threat, through the fight he realizes that Luke is not fully trained and most certainly not the threat Obi Wan once was, and he switches to persueding Luke as soon as he disarms Luke, Vader has to honor the threat that Luke potentially is. Luke is a military threat so family dynamics is not really the right viewpoint to look at that scene with. The Father-son talk during The Return of the Jedi is a much more appropriate family dynamic moment.
Because she is a kid. We pander to them for a while and soothe them, they soon learn that the emotion will pass. As they get older we give them tools to soothe themselves. Bit most of us have been taught to depress our feeling states. (Hence, depression). If someone had very attuned parents, they were very lucky.
"You can't physically abandon your kid without emotionally abandoning them first"
💯💯👏🏿👏🏿
You can't physically abandon your kids without emotional abandoning them first
@@tayloranderson7547 yes you can’t my guy tf
@@tayloranderson7547Of course, because if the kid grows up then it will traumatize them throughout their lives & also attachment problems.
So much fun! Thanks for having me. I’m loving reading all of your comments!
You did an amazing job explaining these concepts! I hope they bring you on again.
a video with you and cinema therapy would be amazing!!! 🤍
I could listen to you talk literally forever.
I love the therapy videos & how educating they are in this society especially for kids & adults who are dealing with certain issues such as: detachment disorder
“You just cut my arm off… like is this really the time for that revelation?” 😂
Well, Vader was replying to the accusation that he killed Luke's father.
Also, he was trying to bring his son to the Dark Side, and anger is a gateway to that path.
What's with the face?
I love this kind of content. And she should definitely be on cinema therapy once.... that would be so cool
Yes! She would be such a good guest on their channel
I love Cinema Therapy! They're so good
Totally!
Agreed!
Cinema therapy yessss
Turning Red was really relatable as a child of immigrants. I lost a possible romantic relationship because I felt like it wasn’t gonna be accepted but it was completely natural for my friends. That scene where Mei had to suppress her anger is a toxic part of elder respectability culture - you suppress a justified part of yourself to keep the peace but at the cost of your inner voice. It does make it harder to stand up for yourself as an adult but it can be done. These things are skills and it’s never too late to learn them!
I love how she sincerely gave a parenting advice to Darth Vader (he sure needed one!)
"You're trying to develop a relationship that you've watched other people have, without the tools in order to do that."
That really hit me hard
In the turning red, I felt that Stephanie literally read me. Like I was like that for a while but later on I let myself feel what I needed to feel, and try not to let my parents tell me what I should do or can do. Still working on it, but turning red is a movie that speaks to me as a Vietnamese American.
Turning red was exactly what happened to me as a kid
And when I finally thought I was over it, it happened again as an adult
At this point it isn’t fear for a kid but clearly control and manipulating
I always value her opinion, I think it's insightful and useful. It definitely changes the way I watch certain movies. Keep it up VF! This definitely make you think. Things you can learn and incorporate.
The Vader stuff is on point, especially if you see their relationship in return of the jedi where Vader actually is more open and even sincere.
I truly loved her input. This video was too short, she should come back a lot more
Love her eyeshadow matching her nails 😍💕
I’m surprised a Modern Family clip hasn’t been chosen. Good vid!
I'm so happy they brought StephAnya back! Love her breakdowns!
I like Stephanie's reactions to a lot of these videos I really liked how she her explanations and what the therapeutic outcomes of this was and I really liked it
Love seeing her. Please have her more often!!
This was really cool to see. I remember I took Family Communication in college and it was so cool the things I had learned. We literally had to choose a movie, watch it and use the tools we learned to analyze it. I learned about the Heroes, Scapegoats, Enablers etc. And also that you can't resolve issues in 30 min sitcoms LOL (but we know it's tv so we take what we can get)
This was really cool to see. I remember I took Family Communication in college and it was so cool the things I had learned about the Heroes, Scapegoats, Enablers ect. And sitcoms tv so we take what can get (
Tools we Learned to analyze it. I learned about also that you can't resolve issues in 30 min
Thank you, Stephanie Yates-Anyabwile. Great vid and love your point of view.
Steph Anya is THE BEST!!!!!!!!! PERIOD!!!!
I absolutely love these breakdowns! 💕
I love the insight on these movies & shows. More of this please!
"... Luke looks deceived"
Well, aparently when they shoot the scene with the actor in the Darth Vader suit, he was saying "Obi-Wan killed your father" as a way to trick everyone in the studio so the big revelation happened on the premiere, and no one could tell before (the movie was shot over a year before)
Looks like Luke looks discovered and shut the scene the actor Darth Vader suit he was saying obedient one kill your father as a way to trick everyone in the studio so the big reveal action happened on the premier, and no one could tell before the movie 🎥📹 was shot over a year before
I love this content! I think it could be helpful, especially for younger people, to see this type of content to make better sense of their favorite movies/shows.
I have never seen pink eyeshadow look better. This is how it's done! Beautiful human.
Loveeee Stephanie Yates Anyabwile
this was so lovely
I loved this! And she is soooo educational and well spoken
YAYYY I LOVE STEPHANIE
please let her do the haunting of hill house!!
I want to see her react the shameless dynamics so bad!
Please do a whole episode about Tony Soprano and his mother
Can you do one of these for student teacher relationships?
Thanks for sharing interesting video
If think about it, Darth Vader and the Emperor are treating Luke like he is an assassin trained by Obi-Wan to take them down. This is basically the instance that Darth Vader actually sets a trap for anyone, since he doesn't really know Luke's capabilities, he was actually extremely cautious(for him) in the Carbonite Chamber. His intention was to manuever Luke into the Carbonite chamber, and freeze him. when Luke escaped the chamber, Vader is left with disarm the threat, through the fight he realizes that Luke is not fully trained and most certainly not the threat Obi Wan once was, and he switches to persueding Luke as soon as he disarms Luke, Vader has to honor the threat that Luke potentially is. Luke is a military threat so family dynamics is not really the right viewpoint to look at that scene with. The Father-son talk during The Return of the Jedi is a much more appropriate family dynamic moment.
Love steph.
We love Stefanie!
I need an entire analysis on Turning Red.
I'd love to see this therapist look at the scene in Season 1 of Breaking Bad where the family gets together to talk about Walt's cancer diagnosis.
LMAOOOO I need to see her session with Luke and Vader
I hope she does another video with Everybody Loves Raymond or Roseanne
I hope most families don’t have a dynamic like Vader and Luke
Okayyyy Vanity Fair *snap snap*
What, no Game of Thrones?
Do breaking bad
👍
Do Rick and Morty
An episode about family and there's no Fast and Furious? Disappointed....
Really?
We're sending Vader and Luke to therapy??? :P
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I skipped the Kardashians 🙄
But why do we need to pander to people who have less control of their emotions and can’t use reason?
Because she is a kid. We pander to them for a while and soothe them, they soon learn that the emotion will pass. As they get older we give them tools to soothe themselves. Bit most of us have been taught to depress our feeling states. (Hence, depression). If someone had very attuned parents, they were very lucky.