"If we step on a cat's tail and we don't see that we step on it - when it screams we will think it is crazy because we don't see that we hurt them" like the scapegoat in a family. They don't see the depression or invisible illness as being legitimate so it's easier to paint that person as insane. It's easier than being kind or providing support. It allows them to avoid responsibility by victim blaming.
The shield analogy is a great visual. I had so much frustration someone’s resistance to everything I brought up or tried and I bulldozed myself trying to get through to them. Unfortunately I don’t feel that I was the person to do this work with them. They pulled away and became abusive and projecting when I brought anything up. I left, working on myself. It was the best thing to do because I’m here and am doing the work. I wish them love and healing on their journey
wish she would’ve given more direct examples in this video. i understand all these concepts, but idk how to actually go about talking to people in that way
Good point but every person is different every situation is different even if she gave you step by step might not be applicable to your situation.. and if she were to mention every situation it wouldn't make sense...
I think she means that is important to have a conversation with this person, and establishing a safe space with them where then you can address their resistance
To communicate the truth it’s always easier to lead by example. You give someone a real model or formula of something and they can use their 5 senses to correlate Your Spoken truth to their 3D fact or at least perspective
Should we apply this technique to abusers, narcissists, racists, rapists? That is, dance around the truth so as not to trigger their hurt feelings? Deal with their resistance instead of direct confrontation? Are these tactics worthwhile on all types of people?
When we fight our blocks they grow stronger. Acceptance/acknowledgement is the key. If you can't accept the resistance, accept your resistance to accepting the resistance.
This video is offering the potential to be more skilled with "the narc". Though the average of the five people you focus on the most will be your level of conscienceness so I would not say say spend all your time around narcs! All my love and warmth.
Best is, non attachment to everything, people, mindsets, outcomes, places.. and travel the world. Travel opens one up to attach, detach quickly by this you will walk away easier from anything in your life.
This video is perfectly timed, I can't get my mom to see what my needs are, she thinks that being dismissive and putting down my emotions will help and refuses to see things otherwise. It's painful to be in a relationship with a mother who just can't see how much I need emotional support
Well your first problem is you only see it as a one way street. Both you and your mom have needs. Try being supportive of her needs and she might resend such kindness. This new age dribble will only get you in trouble.
@@AllyMonsters hey! I have to be honest, I actually really resonate with a lot of new age stuff. But I wanted to comment about the other thing you said because it’s not always as simple as “you meet my needs I meet your needs.” Some people literally can’t meet your needs and don’t care about your needs. I was in many relationships where I was constantly trying to meet other people’s needs in hopes that if I asked them, they would meet mine. That’s not how it works. Relationships should be reciprocal, but not everyone is capable of meeting certain needs. And also, it is not a child’s responsibility to meet a parents needs. I’m not saying I don’t encourage respect and kindness for your parents, but a parents needs should be getting met through other adults. My parents used to use me as a little therapist and I will tell you it was not healthy.
Teal has extraordinary sensitivity and true perception. It helps to wean ourselves out of the habit of suddenly cutting off from friends or partners out of pride from feeling hurt. Fight the urge and see the situation through with awareness.. and gradually the habit falls away.
Yes, we've been taught that our eyes inform our brain. But we now find evidence that the reverse is true - the brain and emotions inform the eyes. I see highly intelligent, compassionate people being mentally and emotionally programmed / indoctrinated so they become blind to the clear evidence of harmful individuals and situations.
This is exactly what I needed thank you so much. As someone who wants to bring attention to controversial topics that I deem to be very important this is absolutely key.
I just had a massive conflict resolved with my fiancee which was accumulating for several days to a point of feeling “no return point”. It all sorted through and what happened is... exactly what Teal has described in this video. Feeling back in the flow big time. I wish everybody a great day and deep life explorations with a love filling your entire being at the end of each page🙏😌
Wow, Teal, you make so much sense. I never before thought that a person holding onto something that I see is a lie as their way of protecting themselves, but of course. Thank you. You're magnificent!
A few years ago I felt concerned about my sister and during a conversation with my step Mum, I asked if her alcohol and sexual behaviour could be linked to her feelings about our fathers suicide...my step mum angrily replied “I’m not having her blame that!”
Yes...and here's another analogy for the effect of resisting resistance.... Chinese handcuffs. The more force you put into getting out of them, the tighter they become...(and the less likely you will be to succeed) ....and the analogy continues with the fact that it's HARD not to resist being trapped...whether by "handcuffs" or someone's inability to see the truth...and yet relaxing, taking a look at our own fear and opening our own eyes is what gives us access to our own better judgment which is often the "only way out".
flipped this video on its head and pointed it inward as if I'm the one with resistance to Truth so I can work on my own resistance. Nice video thanks ~ So becomes the final segment of the video:: "If the universe really wants me to see the truth it's never going to be able to just force me to see the truth. Instead it's got to show me my own resistance to seeing the truth and help me to work with that resistance." oh and "Have a good week" 😜 💝~
exactly and this will straight lead to getting into the flow. Being in the present moment - being aware of now and seeing what is presented and taking your responsibility to handle it.
And Acceptance IS the answer to All of My Problems Today. When I am disturbed, it IS because I find some Person, Place, Thing, Situation or some Other Truth in My Life Unacceptable to Me. I can find No Peace, nor can I follow Any Joy until I Accept that Person, Place, Thing, Situation, or some Other Truth in My Life as Being Exactly the way it IS supposed to Be at this Very Moment. When I do I may seek out That desired change that Betters Us All. Resistance tags along as the touchstone of Pain, pain reveals Itself as the touchstone of Expansion, and Expansion is the touchstone of Authentication. Teals Wonderful words once said, "We expand until We Are seamless...." This Is a Truth realized thru the Simply Amazing "suffering" of disillusionment thru the awareness of Acceptance. Thanks Teal. I hate dancing. But I would sooooo Do the tango to capitalize on someones Best interests to the fullest. 😘
Mine were 2019 like... Love you teal... All your pain hasn't been in vain... You have save our a$@$ many times... And we will save yours... We are one... Namaste...
Yasss Teal Swan 2020 love you. Love how you explain acceptance and using fact finding questions in this video Teal, two things that were big game changers for me.
But when is it appropriate for us to attempt to change someone else's perspective? There are a lot of potential shadows in believing that it's one's place to change someone's perspective, especially when it relates to making them see something they're not ready for.
That's a real practical way to look at it.. I honestly see myself often working with the resistance since shoving your point down someone's throat isn't helpful at all.. hahaha I appreciate your notes on the subject teal!.. Keep making your waves!.. 🌊🔥🙏
Tanks for the video Teal. Always very interesting and though provoking. Although, I think some practical examples on how to dance with the resistance with life situations would have been useful to truly understand the video. Merci;)
I’m sorry I don’t like enough of your videos, I mean I like your videos but I forget to hit the like button. I think I have watched the majority of your videos and because I am so inspired or baffled by them I usually Forget to like them but I’m sure you realise it’s actually really good thing. Keep up the good work Teal Xxx
I love how as sadguru explains bowing with the hands is actually kind of an insult in an ironic way it’s being respectful while also saying “I don’t want to risk touching your energy”
4:56 - I had seen this in action a few months ago with a friend when I brought something up exactly like this with their child. Not only was it deflected, but I was accused of projecting my own "stuff" onto their situation. That would have been fine to call me on if I didn't realize why I was concerned about it, but I was bringing it up specifically BECAUSE I knew what I was seeing in their situation and was bringing it up to offer some insight that could change the situation before it lead to anything that the child would internalize in a harmful way. After all, our wounds come from exactly these types of situations as kids and don't happen in a vacuum. I also had to let go of my own resistance that what I was observing was not going to be acknowledged even if was obvious or true to the other person for their own reasons.
Ah, is Teal a Gemini? Makes total sense. i'm working with a group of Geminis who have not found their true power yet and it's challenging me. i'm so ready to see them move up into their power.
Spot on as always, fight fire with fire never work, you need to have some patience and understanding their position, and find creative ways in showing them the truth without getting in any unnecessary disputes, if possible.
You are amazing Teal! Love to the curiousity approach! This is exactly the video I needed, I was thinking about this then ended up on your channel and saw this vid. I also saw 333 on a licence plate when watching this ✨
This is one great clip Teal!!! So, so true...the only problem is that I have found with that is that most of the time we're being dragged into superficiality...at least, that's how I perceive it...I have little tolerance to none to superficiality, I know, something I probably have to work on it myself...I get it! Thank you! Namaste
Seeing pain is tough. I view it as anthropology, art, and law. I just use those three words and not step on the cat's tail. I go towards what makes sense and I've left places that are closed unwilling to grow.
As for boundaries between me and others I dont have one all my boundaries are dissolved already. The truth of my life is that I can feel everything. The hardest parts of life is thinking as the moment a thought is thought its released. And I instantly get a response lol. And it's even harder when your a single guy because when you see so many women the animal instincts kick in. Thoughts tend to be the hardest thing of all to content with when your so open. Because your picking up on 1000s of thoughts daily and being Influenced by everyone. Because each persons life force you can say is influenced as well by what they eat. And from my personal observation deep fried foods have the largest heat signatures probably causing most pain to the genetics of the animal or vegetable as such not entirely sure. Life is very complex substance and coping mechanisms can also add alot too it as well. Anyways thanks for the video great info as always.
My brother is currently the only medium to forward communications between my parents and me which is a horrific situation. He spends their money on drugs and they entrusted him with their finances which is hair raising to say the least. I am absolutely worried for my parents. I had warned them but nobody in the entire family listens to me. They all took my brother's side. I am about done now with all of them. I think it's time for me to move on with my life even if that means that I am disowned.
Recently my husband and I have confronted his brother(my brother-in-law) addressing the recurrent promiscuous behavior of his wife. He has always been in denial of her ways even in blatantly obvious situations that she has been practically caught in. He lets her off he hook. Anyway when we told him about this very significant recent incident he of course insisted that there was no proof(there absolutely was). I asked him what would be so bad if she did cheat? He replied that obviously he’d have to divorce her etc. And what is bad about the result of that? And I intended to keep it up and end with “My point is that you’re in denial because of the pain that the truth would bring.” Unfortunately I was interrupted from there and it just left him puzzled and mad I’m sure...I just have to work on my 5th chakra even more. Especially since I’ll soon be dealing with my Bible thumping mother-in-law who thinks I’m a hell bound witch(fun one) all while attempting to dodge as many new age phrases as I can so as to keep her frontal lobe from shutting off. Phew!
Love you Teal, and I watch the attacks on you. they are always led by the side - from the side of relaxation and forgetfulness. forgive stray souls, nothing else unfortunate ... and never reach :)
When their denial shield is so thick, no amount of exchange, or experiencing a different approach will be possible. That is their stuff. Step away and work on you.
So when this video popped up I ignored it saying that I don't need that right now. 4 days later I literally lost my best friend because she would make silly excuses for her shitty behaviour lately. I blocked her from messenger and now I just feel sad. Can't help but go through our memories. I just hope she'll understand.
Now that I am spiritually awake (or simple, strongly self aware) I handle reluctance with genuine goodwill, understanding and a variety of descriptions- as a result I usually can meet someone where they are at and this helps build the bridge to where we can go together. 👁⭐ BTW, if anyone else is reading this, I am imagining a red balloon floating toward you and you gently popping it, and a little piece of paper falling out with a positive ENCOURAGING word on it! Reply to this with what word you received?! 🎈
Everyone on earth is steeped in ego . It is not your job , or your ability to change some one . No one person changed me . Instead God Exposed my weaknesses ,and when I was ready, provided the answers . Seek your truth without animosity , and let God ! Your Fan With Love & Admiration ❤️
Truth is relative. Your truth my truth two separate. You try walking in my shoes. Then you can seek to persuade with your thoughts of what you think I should hear or consider. I Don't need to deal with your idea of your seen as it is truth. If you see what another is going through that is empathy. Manipulation is your allness attitude of the need to be correct you want to be more powerful within a power tug of war or power differential. The way you get Trust is to see and show the other person that you see the other person. I prefer alone to conflict with those who don't hear me anyway. They just dont get all. Yeah you wish to dance. K. There is yin and yang with that too one leads the other is the one to be in sync and take the pace. I will dance. Question is if I'm waltzing will they tango or be in the same ballroom at all.
Btw. The whole point of the yin yang concept isnt balance. Its to paint a portrait of the dynamics of our life as it really is and to make it to the swirl between them both, the other worlds.
Resistance is a necessary part of each individual, and without it we would often get hurt and hurt others. Without it we would simply follow every temptation and there would be no conscience, so resistence itself is not the problem then, and becoming aware of what is being resisted can only assist anyone when it is seen in context.. It is not correct to say that people do not want to live without pain, and often, what you or I might see as their pain is how they know themselves. They can experience an unconscious resistence to identifying themselves in any other way, and even if they say that they wish to sort out the cause of their problems, they will mostly quickly revert to the habits and activities that lead to pain for them, and listen to the thoughts in their head that encourage these habits, because of this unconscious self identification. The internal castle walls have to begin to fall if the defences are to be breached, and yet self-identity will immediately start to rebuild them, until an inner resistence to the former authority of this mostly hidden and ignored world stages a rebellion. The resistence seeks to break down an unwarented authority, and within human beings it is no different. Unconsciousness is what it says it is, and the only way to become conscious of some parts of your unconscious is to observe what it, you, say and do as it maintains the identity that you seem to know yourself by and as, and to repeat the process as you keep on observing changes in your habits, of breathing, of thinking, of standing, of walking, of talking, of relationships, and of, of, of and of. Trying to probe anothers resistence or even to understand it s impossible until you become aware of your hidden self and can begin to be aware of and form an honest and mutually respectful relationship with this unconscious self, because this part of you is the habits that identfy you to yourself within both uyour inner and the outer worlds, regardless of what your so-called conscious mind thinks.
This reminded me on situation with my friend. He was in mental hospital, now he is "depressed". and he isn't person that will dive into himself. I have told him zillion times to go on therapy, he totally freezes.. He doesn't want to face some deep issue. It is so sad to know it.
If I would ask the question "What is your resistance?" my mom gets triggered, because she sees that as her son educating his mom straight against the hierarchy she desperately clings to. Since she got triggered by a single "Good morning" at a certain point, and she started to ghost me anyway, I have waited until she took the initiative to contact me. This resulted in more than a year of no contact, until I picked it up again myself. She still gets triggered with every. single. thing I say or do. She literally wants me to unconditionally shut up and obey eternally. I know this is a choice too, but I would quite literally die if I were to distance myself too long from her, because I am under curatorship (In America known as conservatorship, like the one Britney Spears is under) and my mom is my curator. I have only found dead-ends in resolving the conflict, or dissolving the curatorship. Does anyone have any advice how to get out of this toxic and restricting situation?
Thank you! For those of us who declare abundance in everything including money and agree to our desire to manifest a horographic society without money because it is the origin of all evil in humanity. Decree: I decree my unlimited provision in all densities, in all worlds, in all lives, in all time lines, in all incarnations in all states where I manifest and decree to live in a horographic society with all benefits of those who already enjoy in harmony, perfection, equality and respect the benevolent races of 5 density.
What if my parents don't want to see myself but refuse to see they are resisting, even if for "good" reasons? They don't admit their vulnerability, they just fight to protect themselves and all that is trying to melt the shell is seen as a threaten. To them, all the world is wrong, and they are right.
"If we step on a cat's tail and we don't see that we step on it - when it screams we will think it is crazy because we don't see that we hurt them" like the scapegoat in a family. They don't see the depression or invisible illness as being legitimate so it's easier to paint that person as insane. It's easier than being kind or providing support. It allows them to avoid responsibility by victim blaming.
I feel you. Thats what happened to me
how is this relevant to the vid?
"The truth hurts" Unfortunately, awakening to truth often happens during life's most painful experiences.
The shield analogy is a great visual. I had so much frustration someone’s resistance to everything I brought up or tried and I bulldozed myself trying to get through to them. Unfortunately I don’t feel that I was the person to do this work with them. They pulled away and became abusive and projecting when I brought anything up. I left, working on myself. It was the best thing to do because I’m here and am doing the work. I wish them love and healing on their journey
wish she would’ve given more direct examples in this video. i understand all these concepts, but idk how to actually go about talking to people in that way
Good point but every person is different every situation is different even if she gave you step by step might not be applicable to your situation.. and if she were to mention every situation it wouldn't make sense...
I think she means that is important to have a conversation with this person, and establishing a safe space with them where then you can address their resistance
To communicate the truth it’s always easier to lead by example. You give someone a real model or formula of something and they can use their 5 senses to correlate Your Spoken truth to their 3D fact or at least perspective
Ram boul you sound like you’re trying to say, “analogies are the most effective way to communicate”
Should we apply this technique to abusers, narcissists, racists, rapists? That is, dance around the truth so as not to trigger their hurt feelings? Deal with their resistance instead of direct confrontation? Are these tactics worthwhile on all types of people?
When we fight our blocks they grow stronger. Acceptance/acknowledgement is the key. If you can't accept the resistance, accept your resistance to accepting the resistance.
Dude...right on!😀😀😀🙃
love this, think you unblock sth in me 🫂
With the truth, nobody gets hurt in the long run.
@Med dy Oh gosh yes that is so true. That's why I am going to have to break off from my family.
1000%
This video is offering the potential to be more skilled with "the narc". Though the average of the five people you focus on the most will be your level of conscienceness so I would not say say spend all your time around narcs! All my love and warmth.
Truth fav
Ayahuasca will open you up to the ultimate truth.
Best is, non attachment to everything, people, mindsets, outcomes, places.. and travel the world. Travel opens one up to attach, detach quickly by this you will walk away easier from anything in your life.
There's a time not to walk away though. There is joining and there is settling. This is about a gradual unity of frequency, right?
This video is perfectly timed, I can't get my mom to see what my needs are, she thinks that being dismissive and putting down my emotions will help and refuses to see things otherwise. It's painful to be in a relationship with a mother who just can't see how much I need emotional support
You aren't alone there 💜
That was my mother too😔
How old are you?
Well your first problem is you only see it as a one way street. Both you and your mom have needs. Try being supportive of her needs and she might resend such kindness. This new age dribble will only get you in trouble.
@@AllyMonsters hey! I have to be honest, I actually really resonate with a lot of new age stuff. But I wanted to comment about the other thing you said because it’s not always as simple as “you meet my needs I meet your needs.” Some people literally can’t meet your needs and don’t care about your needs. I was in many relationships where I was constantly trying to meet other people’s needs in hopes that if I asked them, they would meet mine. That’s not how it works. Relationships should be reciprocal, but not everyone is capable of meeting certain needs. And also, it is not a child’s responsibility to meet a parents needs. I’m not saying I don’t encourage respect and kindness for your parents, but a parents needs should be getting met through other adults. My parents used to use me as a little therapist and I will tell you it was not healthy.
Teal has extraordinary sensitivity and true perception. It helps to wean ourselves out of the habit of suddenly cutting off from friends or partners out of pride from feeling hurt. Fight the urge and see the situation through with awareness.. and gradually the habit falls away.
*Eyes can’t see when the mind is blind*
I see u everywhere
U r everywhere...like me...oh..man we don't have any work
@@sanu7325 Come and see me more
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Yes, we've been taught that our eyes inform our brain. But we now find evidence that the reverse is true - the brain and emotions inform the eyes. I see highly intelligent, compassionate people being mentally and emotionally programmed / indoctrinated so they become blind to the clear evidence of harmful individuals and situations.
This is exactly what I needed thank you so much. As someone who wants to bring attention to controversial topics that I deem to be very important this is absolutely key.
I C Y yes ✨🙏🏼✨💜
i see why 🕊
@White Rider I'm White and I am not ashamed to be white... NOT AT ALL ! I didn't know that was a thing..
Please tell me if that key worked. As soon as you see results.
Tough practice. Takes a lot of time and patience. Especially when the other party keeps trying to deflect or "what about ism"
I just had a massive conflict resolved with my fiancee which was accumulating for several days to a point of feeling “no return point”. It all sorted through and what happened is... exactly what Teal has described in this video. Feeling back in the flow big time. I wish everybody a great day and deep life explorations with a love filling your entire being at the end of each page🙏😌
Teal is super intelligent human being 💯❤️
extraterrestrial intelligence ;)
I think she is not human 😅
So by showing us examples of resistance you lowered my resistance because I am now more conscious about my resistance to resistance
Wow, Teal, you make so much sense. I never before thought that a person holding onto something that I see is a lie as their way of protecting themselves, but of course. Thank you. You're magnificent!
7th Heaven yeah it’s a great lie to tell yourself . If you are wrong you get a get out of jail free card by blameshifting with this ‘theory’
@@camogrrl Whatever, dude. Go be happy, ok?
@@camogrrl what part of this “theory” do you not agree with?
A few years ago I felt concerned about my sister and during a conversation with my step Mum, I asked if her alcohol and sexual behaviour could be linked to her feelings about our fathers suicide...my step mum angrily replied “I’m not having her blame that!”
I think this is the answer to getting my kids back. Thank you for being there for me since the beginning.
Yes!! Me too! My sister took mine. This is so key. i hope you got yours back.
Ive done this but then I was call manipulative so be careful who you're dealing with
True, it's a selling technique too since it works to get people comfortable enough to buy the product.
@@gustafrindestal - Truth is Freedom - not 'a product', as you say.
It IS manipulation.
Yes...and here's another analogy for the effect of resisting resistance.... Chinese handcuffs. The more force you put into getting out of them, the tighter they become...(and the less likely you will be to succeed) ....and the analogy continues with the fact that it's HARD not to resist being trapped...whether by "handcuffs" or someone's inability to see the truth...and yet relaxing, taking a look at our own fear and opening our own eyes is what gives us access to our own better judgment which is often the "only way out".
I love it- no blaming, labeling or attacking, just compassionate understanding/curiosity and the desire to help people heal
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It‘s how ALL spititual ppl do it, it‘s not just Teal... 😄
It‘s normal!
I love Saturdays afternoons coz I know their will be a video from Teal. Thankyou. Love you.
Right! I love it too!
Yesss.
Yay! Brainwash Saturday’s!
flipped this video on its head and pointed it inward as if I'm the one with resistance to Truth so I can work on my own resistance. Nice video thanks ~
So becomes the final segment of the video::
"If the universe really wants me to see the truth it's never going to be able to just force me to see the truth.
Instead it's got to show me my own resistance to seeing the truth and help me to work with that resistance."
oh and "Have a good week" 😜 💝~
Before all that ask yourself why you want to help them.
exactly and this will straight lead to getting into the flow. Being in the present moment - being aware of now and seeing what is presented and taking your responsibility to handle it.
oh and while you're at it seeing the other person's resistance take a chance to look at yourself as well. We sometimes attract ppl to mirror us.
I saw this video when it came out but I wasn't ready and now when the student is ready here i am. Thank you teal
I struggle with this a lot. Specially with my husband. This video is spot on. Thank you Teal!
And Acceptance IS the answer to All of My Problems Today. When I am disturbed, it IS because I find some Person, Place, Thing, Situation or some Other Truth in My Life Unacceptable to Me. I can find No Peace, nor can I follow Any Joy until I Accept that Person, Place, Thing, Situation, or some Other Truth in My Life as Being Exactly the way it IS supposed to Be at this Very Moment. When I do I may seek out That desired change that Betters Us All. Resistance tags along as the touchstone of Pain, pain reveals Itself as the touchstone of Expansion, and Expansion is the touchstone of Authentication. Teals Wonderful words once said, "We expand until We Are seamless...." This Is a Truth realized thru the Simply Amazing "suffering" of disillusionment thru the awareness of Acceptance. Thanks Teal. I hate dancing. But I would sooooo Do the tango to capitalize on someones Best interests to the fullest. 😘
thank you for your existence
Mine were 2019 like... Love you teal... All your pain hasn't been in vain... You have save our a$@$ many times... And we will save yours... We are one... Namaste...
Alright. Thank you, Teal. This actually helped me figure something out for myself, too.
She does that.
Yes it's like trying to tell a hypercondriact that they are a hypercondriact...it ain't ever gonna work!
Yasss Teal Swan 2020 love you. Love how you explain acceptance and using fact finding questions in this video Teal, two things that were big game changers for me.
Again just on time I needed think. Thank you. I love you ❤😘🙏
But when is it appropriate for us to attempt to change someone else's perspective? There are a lot of potential shadows in believing that it's one's place to change someone's perspective, especially when it relates to making them see something they're not ready for.
Its not appropriate, it's called brainwashing, lol.
That's a real practical way to look at it.. I honestly see myself often working with the resistance since shoving your point down someone's throat isn't helpful at all.. hahaha I appreciate your notes on the subject teal!.. Keep making your waves!.. 🌊🔥🙏
Teal is a beautiful human being. She preaches much needed truth explained in mundane terms. Much love.
Tanks for the video Teal. Always very interesting and though provoking.
Although, I think some practical examples on how to dance with the resistance with life situations would have been useful to truly understand the video. Merci;)
Divine timing, I couldn't off needed to hear then right NOW. Thanks you're amazing love the way you explain the world.
I’m sorry I don’t like enough of your videos, I mean I like your videos but I forget to hit the like button. I think I have watched the majority of your videos and because I am so inspired or baffled by them I usually Forget to like them but I’m sure you realise it’s actually really good thing. Keep up the good work Teal Xxx
I love how as sadguru explains bowing with the hands is actually kind of an insult in an ironic way it’s being respectful while also saying “I don’t want to risk touching your energy”
4:56 - I had seen this in action a few months ago with a friend when I brought something up exactly like this with their child. Not only was it deflected, but I was accused of projecting my own "stuff" onto their situation. That would have been fine to call me on if I didn't realize why I was concerned about it, but I was bringing it up specifically BECAUSE I knew what I was seeing in their situation and was bringing it up to offer some insight that could change the situation before it lead to anything that the child would internalize in a harmful way. After all, our wounds come from exactly these types of situations as kids and don't happen in a vacuum. I also had to let go of my own resistance that what I was observing was not going to be acknowledged even if was obvious or true to the other person for their own reasons.
this is exactly what I do when I am in a discussion.
I'm so glad you exist.Fellow Gemini here.Wishing everyone healing,happiness and love ❤️
Ah, is Teal a Gemini? Makes total sense. i'm working with a group of Geminis who have not found their true power yet and it's challenging me. i'm so ready to see them move up into their power.
My beloved mother’s ‘polite enforcement’, my resistance. Spot on, Teal. Thank you.
Spot on as always, fight fire with fire never work, you need to have some patience and understanding their position, and find creative ways in showing them the truth without getting in any unnecessary disputes, if possible.
looks like I got my work cut out for me..... **puttin on my dance shoes to dance the damned tango with resistance**
Love your perspective 💜
You are amazing Teal! Love to the curiousity approach! This is exactly the video I needed, I was thinking about this then ended up on your channel and saw this vid. I also saw 333 on a licence plate when watching this ✨
Thank you for the clarity!
Good day Teal. And yes this is truth, fusing duality as th one. #becomeyourbeliever greatness coming
This is one great clip Teal!!! So, so true...the only problem is that I have found with that is that most of the time we're being dragged into superficiality...at least, that's how I perceive it...I have little tolerance to none to superficiality, I know, something I probably have to work on it myself...I get it! Thank you! Namaste
Seeing pain is tough. I view it as anthropology, art, and law. I just use those three words and not step on the cat's tail. I go towards what makes sense and I've left places that are closed unwilling to grow.
As for boundaries between me and others I dont have one all my boundaries are dissolved already. The truth of my life is that I can feel everything. The hardest parts of life is thinking as the moment a thought is thought its released. And I instantly get a response lol. And it's even harder when your a single guy because when you see so many women the animal instincts kick in. Thoughts tend to be the hardest thing of all to content with when your so open. Because your picking up on 1000s of thoughts daily and being Influenced by everyone. Because each persons life force you can say is influenced as well by what they eat. And from my personal observation deep fried foods have the largest heat signatures probably causing most pain to the genetics of the animal or vegetable as such not entirely sure. Life is very complex substance and coping mechanisms can also add alot too it as well. Anyways thanks for the video great info as always.
The truth is, I love Teal!
This is so helpful. Thanks!! 😊
I accept thee protection from you Teal
Each time I listen to you I know why I’m a subscriber. X
My brother is currently the only medium to forward communications between my parents and me which is a horrific situation. He spends their money on drugs and they entrusted him with their finances which is hair raising to say the least. I am absolutely worried for my parents. I had warned them but nobody in the entire family listens to me. They all took my brother's side. I am about done now with all of them. I think it's time for me to move on with my life even if that means that I am disowned.
Resistance=Stubbornness=Egoistic=Vanity, it's not only because of painful experience...
Very funny watch this for myself I feel like this is for me! 😌
Same 😊
Me too 🤣💛
Thank the Cosmos for Teal Swan! 💖 I always seek Teal's advice when going through the really, painful, shitty episodes in life. 💖
❤️❤️❤️🙏❤️Thank you Teal i needed this! Im super good at this and I dont like it about my self :( 😥
Recently my husband and I have confronted his brother(my brother-in-law) addressing the recurrent promiscuous behavior of his wife. He has always been in denial of her ways even in blatantly obvious situations that she has been practically caught in. He lets her off he hook. Anyway when we told him about this very significant recent incident he of course insisted that there was no proof(there absolutely was).
I asked him what would be so bad if she did cheat? He replied that obviously he’d have to divorce her etc. And what is bad about the result of that? And I intended to keep it up and end with “My point is that you’re in denial because of the pain that the truth would bring.” Unfortunately I was interrupted from there and it just left him puzzled and mad I’m sure...I just have to work on my 5th chakra even more. Especially since I’ll soon be dealing with my Bible thumping mother-in-law who thinks I’m a hell bound witch(fun one) all while attempting to dodge as many new age phrases as I can so as to keep her frontal lobe from shutting off. Phew!
Love you Teal, and I watch the attacks on you. they are always led by the side - from the side of relaxation and forgetfulness. forgive stray souls, nothing else unfortunate ... and never reach :)
An amazing insight !! 💖 👼
Needed it !!
When I need a dose of truth, I watch these videos
Excellent video!
Lovely Teal 💚
When their denial shield is so thick, no amount of exchange, or experiencing a different approach will be possible. That is their stuff. Step away and work on you.
So when this video popped up I ignored it saying that I don't need that right now. 4 days later I literally lost my best friend because she would make silly excuses for her shitty behaviour lately. I blocked her from messenger and now I just feel sad. Can't help but go through our memories. I just hope she'll understand.
Now that I am spiritually awake (or simple, strongly self aware) I handle reluctance with genuine goodwill, understanding and a variety of descriptions- as a result I usually can meet someone where they are at and this helps build the bridge to where we can go together. 👁⭐ BTW, if anyone else is reading this, I am imagining a red balloon floating toward you and you gently popping it, and a little piece of paper falling out with a positive ENCOURAGING word on it! Reply to this with what word you received?! 🎈
Thank you ❤️
The timing, again. 👏👏👏💜 Thank you Teal!
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Perfect timing for self reflection. Thank you.
I can't dance with anyone... Just by myself ☹️
Jah MagicDragon yes teal swan makes everyone yearn for her false promises of happiness
Everyone on earth is steeped in ego . It is not your job , or your ability to change some one .
No one person changed me . Instead God Exposed my weaknesses ,and when I was ready,
provided the answers . Seek your truth without animosity , and let God !
Your Fan With Love & Admiration ❤️
Truth is relative. Your truth my truth two separate. You try walking in my shoes. Then you can seek to persuade with your thoughts of what you think I should hear or consider. I Don't need to deal with your idea of your seen as it is truth. If you see what another is going through that is empathy. Manipulation is your allness attitude of the need to be correct you want to be more powerful within a power tug of war or power differential. The way you get Trust is to see and show the other person that you see the other person. I prefer alone to conflict with those who don't hear me anyway. They just dont get all. Yeah you wish to dance. K. There is yin and yang with that too one leads the other is the one to be in sync and take the pace. I will dance. Question is if I'm waltzing will they tango or be in the same ballroom at all.
So you don't mind fragmentation as long as it suits your biases. That's most people...
Btw. The whole point of the yin yang concept isnt balance. Its to paint a portrait of the dynamics of our life as it really is and to make it to the swirl between them both, the other worlds.
Resistance is a necessary part of each individual, and without it we would often get hurt and hurt others. Without it we would simply follow every temptation and there would be no conscience, so resistence itself is not the problem then, and becoming aware of what is being resisted can only assist anyone when it is seen in context..
It is not correct to say that people do not want to live without pain, and often, what you or I might see as their pain is how they know themselves. They can experience an unconscious resistence to identifying themselves in any other way, and even if they say that they wish to sort out the cause of their problems, they will mostly quickly revert to the habits and activities that lead to pain for them, and listen to the thoughts in their head that encourage these habits, because of this unconscious self identification.
The internal castle walls have to begin to fall if the defences are to be breached, and yet self-identity will immediately start to rebuild them, until an inner resistence to the former authority of this mostly hidden and ignored world stages a rebellion.
The resistence seeks to break down an unwarented authority, and within human beings it is no different.
Unconsciousness is what it says it is, and the only way to become conscious of some parts of your unconscious is to observe what it, you, say and do as it maintains the identity that you seem to know yourself by and as, and to repeat the process as you keep on observing changes in your habits, of breathing, of thinking, of standing, of walking, of talking, of relationships, and of, of, of and of.
Trying to probe anothers resistence or even to understand it s impossible until you become aware of your hidden self and can begin to be aware of and form an honest and mutually respectful relationship with this unconscious self, because this part of you is the habits that identfy you to yourself within both uyour inner and the outer worlds, regardless of what your so-called conscious mind thinks.
yes but how do you that?! Thanks Teal for this vid, definitely helpful, just an extremely difficult topic and maybe could do with a al onger vid.
Have a good week.
If agree with everything you say, when conflicts arise, We think we can come to an agreement as long as we're both willing to talk about it.
Great ideas, Teal! Keep up the great work!
thank you very much Teal.. i love you.. i'm so gratful for ur work
I feel this. Thank you for your energy
I wanna hang out with you Teal. I love you ❤️❤️❤️
Nicole Rebitski and i wanna hang out with you.
Someone deleted their comment 😂
Nicole Rebitski hahaaha who is that?
All I know is I had the notification and came back to the other two and not the one I saw in my notification. Wish I took a screenshot 🤷
You posted multiple?
Just speaking the truth is not enough for those who see it backwards. It’s like a tug of war going back and forth.
This reminded me on situation with my friend. He was in mental hospital, now he is "depressed". and he isn't person that will dive into himself. I have told him zillion times to go on therapy, he totally freezes.. He doesn't want to face some deep issue. It is so sad to know it.
Outro music is epic, nice work
Thank you so much!! Спасибо!!
Holy crap I needed this video. I'll have to rewatch it.
Very similar to how one works with animals in order to train them or herd them.
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If I would ask the question "What is your resistance?" my mom gets triggered, because she sees that as her son educating his mom straight against the hierarchy she desperately clings to. Since she got triggered by a single "Good morning" at a certain point, and she started to ghost me anyway, I have waited until she took the initiative to contact me. This resulted in more than a year of no contact, until I picked it up again myself. She still gets triggered with every. single. thing I say or do. She literally wants me to unconditionally shut up and obey eternally. I know this is a choice too, but I would quite literally die if I were to distance myself too long from her, because I am under curatorship (In America known as conservatorship, like the one Britney Spears is under) and my mom is my curator. I have only found dead-ends in resolving the conflict, or dissolving the curatorship. Does anyone have any advice how to get out of this toxic and restricting situation?
Needed this..ty!
If only I myself could see the truth, I don't know what is really real anymore.
Thanks Ms.Teal.......!
Thank you! For those of us who declare abundance in everything including money and agree to our desire to manifest a horographic society without money because it is the origin of all evil in humanity. Decree: I decree my unlimited provision in all densities, in all worlds, in all lives, in all time lines, in all incarnations in all states where I manifest and decree to live in a horographic society with all benefits of those who already enjoy in harmony, perfection, equality and respect the benevolent races of 5 density.
I love you! Thank you!
Absolutely Beautiful as Always!
What if my parents don't want to see myself but refuse to see they are resisting, even if for "good" reasons? They don't admit their vulnerability, they just fight to protect themselves and all that is trying to melt the shell is seen as a threaten. To them, all the world is wrong, and they are right.
Anyone else here to deal with their own resistance to resistance? Lawwwwdy I wear myself out with it!
The more I watch. You look like Bella Swan 😍. Love your videos