My Parents Abandoned Me at 12, Now They Expect Me to Raise My Niece

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 74

  • @peppermanson7567
    @peppermanson7567 Місяць тому +44

    If Michael was so ill, how did he find the energy to father a child? Just wondering.

    • @nightstar11801
      @nightstar11801 Місяць тому +7

      That thought occurred to me as well.

    • @kpc9602
      @kpc9602 Місяць тому +6

      that's what I wanna know too! people should explain more about it!!

    • @nancythane5672
      @nancythane5672 28 днів тому +4

      He Starfished?

    • @wonderwoman5732
      @wonderwoman5732 22 дні тому +1

      ​@@nightstar11801SAME TO THE HERE.

    • @sailoranime289
      @sailoranime289 20 днів тому +3

      Viagra and Red Bull.

  • @jamesalvisii8491
    @jamesalvisii8491 Місяць тому +29

    She made a right choice to cut ties from her own family and start a new life

  • @Kingaoiun57831
    @Kingaoiun57831 Місяць тому +23

    She wad definitely justified. Don't set yourself on fire to keep others warm.

  • @annettemalaski1967
    @annettemalaski1967 Місяць тому +43

    Lisa was still in school and working two shifts to make ends meet! How was she going to be able to take care of a child? She did the right thing for both parties!

  • @ask-128
    @ask-128 Місяць тому +26

    why didn't the family relatives take care of Emma instead of making the college student feel guilty...I would of told those relatives to take a good look at themselves....

    • @kpc9602
      @kpc9602 Місяць тому +3

      I would too!!

    • @catspaw3092
      @catspaw3092 19 днів тому

      They don't want their lives disrupted looking after a kid they know they can take care of a young childless colllege student with no burden would be a perfect candidate. To me that's just wrong & selfish a college student has no time to look after a kid an older person who's had or has kids, has lived life a little & has the resources can take care of a kid.

  • @cyoung9733
    @cyoung9733 Місяць тому +20

    It's not a joke that sometimes you have to be your own hero.

  • @diamondminer9515
    @diamondminer9515 Місяць тому +31

    Seriously these parents are so stupid and messed up! Honestly how is OP going to raise a child that the parents wanted to dump on their forgotten daughter while dealing with college full time and working a double shift at the college library?! That is so messed up.

    • @wonderwoman5732
      @wonderwoman5732 Місяць тому +5

      @diamondminer9515 EASY, THOSE FORMER PARENTS WILL TRY TO FIND ANY WAY TO USE THEIR FORGOTTEN DAUGHTER AS A SCAPEGOAT WHILE MICHAEL IS THE IRON PYRITE CHILD(TRANSLATION: FOOL'S GOLD). THE REAL GOLD IS LISA WHO'S DOING THE RIGHT THING AND MAKING THE REAL GOLD AND HAS THE GOLDEN HEART.
      LIKE I SAID THEY ARE DEFINITELY MARIA MEAN-ASS AND JUAN JACKASS MONTEZ ON STARGIRL DC TV SERIES. WATCH SEASON 3 EPISODE 7.

    • @kpc9602
      @kpc9602 Місяць тому +3

      yeah! honest to god🤦‍♀who in the flippin' heck taught the parents how to be so ignorantly toxic and narcissistic!?!

  • @KimberlyVasconez-bm7cq
    @KimberlyVasconez-bm7cq 21 день тому +3

    Where these critical relatives when she was neglected and offering their own help to the family.

  • @meghanmcclamma1662
    @meghanmcclamma1662 28 днів тому +3

    What terrible parents!

  • @RJ-sb5qr
    @RJ-sb5qr 25 днів тому +7

    These parents sure found it easy to give children away. OP escaped a terrible situation without even knowing it.

  • @gamero31o
    @gamero31o 24 дні тому +3

    What is wrong with the family? OP was abandoned by her own family now they want her to be free babysitting. If the baby is so important how about they take care of her instead of relying on OP. How pathetic and toxic does someone have to be to expect free child care from someone they neglected

  • @MsStormyRose21
    @MsStormyRose21 19 днів тому +1

    Totally agree with Op, where was her family when she needed them, if they have such big mouths, they can take care of the kid themselves. Wishing Op all the best.

  • @StephengrantCahow
    @StephengrantCahow Місяць тому +21

    Here's what I have to say about this story.Her parents had this coming

  • @ericmcclenathan5449
    @ericmcclenathan5449 Місяць тому +6

    Sometimes you have to forget the "family" aspect of life and be somewhat selfish and do what is right for you. Decide on your own path in life and do not let others guilt you into making poor decisions. We must learn from our past experiences and forge ahead and be the best person we can be.

  • @Gancanna
    @Gancanna Місяць тому +6

    If Lisa had the means and wanted to take care of her niece, that would have been fine. After how she had been dumped by her parents, she actually handled telling them, 'no,' in graceful manner. They reaped what they sowed.

  • @pamelacharbonneau3115
    @pamelacharbonneau3115 Місяць тому +16

    The relatives can raise Emma.

    • @kpc9602
      @kpc9602 Місяць тому +3

      exactly!!

    • @catspaw3092
      @catspaw3092 19 днів тому

      IKR? Either raise her or put her in the system for another loving family who wants a kid take her it sounds harsh but at least Emma would be raised in a loving environment. Rather than be with blood relatives who aren't interested in looking after her. Lisa did what was best for herself she herself was neglected she wanted to live her life.

  • @KarenWilson-mz6tl
    @KarenWilson-mz6tl 22 дні тому +3

    She did what was best for her situation at the time!

  • @johnrutka8658
    @johnrutka8658 Місяць тому +8

    Wait a minute! The story made it sound like the brother was constantly at death's door; pretty much bedridden. How in the world was he able to find a girlfriend, marry her and have a child? Something is DEFINITELY wrong with this picture.
    EDIT: And another thing: If OP's extended family (who were constantly berating her) were so concerned about Emma then THEY should have stepped up to the plate.

    • @jenniferhunter3751
      @jenniferhunter3751 24 дні тому +3

      As a caregiver for a total assist, they NEVER step in 😢

    • @johnrutka8658
      @johnrutka8658 24 дні тому +3

      @@jenniferhunter3751 - Indeed they don't. I just get such a kick out of how quick they are to demand that other people do it instead.

  • @melissadavis453
    @melissadavis453 Місяць тому +14

    Situation wise it was probably for the best that Lisa said no to taking care of Emma. At the time Lisa was still in college and had to work double shifts to make ends meet. She wouldn't have been able to care for Emma. Even if she could take care of Emma she'd be away at classes or working most of the time. That would most likely lead to Emma feeling unloved or like she was always the second choice just like Lisa felt. I'm sure Lisa would have felt horrible if she put another child through that.

  • @wonderwoman5732
    @wonderwoman5732 Місяць тому +18

    LISA WAS SURELY JUSTIFIED IN NOT TAKING EMMA IN. HER FORMER PARENTS IGNORED HER FOR YEARS AND ALL OF A SUDDEN, THEY NEEDED A SCAPEGOAT TO USE ON LISA. THOSE FORMER PARENTS ARE DEFINITELY MARIA MEAN-ASS AND JUAN JACKASS MONTEZ ON STARGIRL DC TV SERIES. HOW DARE THEY TRY TO MAKE LISA LOOK LIKE THE BAD PERSON. MY HEART DOES GO OUT TO MIKE FOR FOR LOSING HIS WIFE IN AN AUTOMOBILE ACCIDENT. THERE'S NO EXCUSE WHATSOEVER TO TRY TO USE LISA THAT WAY. SHAME ON THE FORMER PARENTS AND RELATIVES.

    • @jnicoulakos
      @jnicoulakos Місяць тому +4

      Why should she drop her future to take care of another family member. Have the flying Monkeys who are calling her for the first time in years help out.

    • @wonderwoman5732
      @wonderwoman5732 Місяць тому +3

      @@jnicoulakos Amen to that!!

  • @sandrapersaud3105
    @sandrapersaud3105 16 днів тому +1

    This family is very toxic and selfish. Only care about their golden son. They expect Lisa to give up her education and her life for her niece. What the heck is wrong with these people? Good on lisa for standing up for herself.

  • @honeybee2587
    @honeybee2587 Місяць тому +6

    This isn't a family this is a toxic group of people. A true family doesn't pick and choose when you are useful too them and when to ignore you.

  • @kalishevlin2504
    @kalishevlin2504 Місяць тому +7

    Why do they think its best to take Emma away from her remaining parent? That would only cause her more harm.

  • @carynvanwyk
    @carynvanwyk Місяць тому +10

    The relatives want to attack her for not taking Emma in yet I don't see any of those relatives running to take her in.

    • @jnicoulakos
      @jnicoulakos 11 днів тому

      I was thinking the same thing.

  • @waynec38
    @waynec38 Місяць тому +9

    Something I MUST say,`cause why did`nt she just say..."I WAS my Mom and Dad`s Daughter,yet at 12,THEY booted ME OUT..Where were they,when I WAS IN TROUBLE?" When the relations was getting on her case,why did`nt she just...Say that,to them? I`m confused!

  • @rebekah.2187
    @rebekah.2187 Місяць тому +10

    Someone edited this story oddly. They made it sound like she was still in college when her parents asked her to take care of Emma, and then suddenly she had a job. Either way, it doesn't matter. I find it very difficult to believe that one parent couldn't have spent time and paid attention to Lisa while the other parent cared for her brother. He was Lisa's brother right? I'm trying to figure out how he married and had a kid when he was so sick all the time. Like I said, it was poorly edited.

    • @jnicoulakos
      @jnicoulakos Місяць тому +4

      I was wondering the same.

    • @kpc9602
      @kpc9602 Місяць тому +2

      yeah

  • @suegreco9452
    @suegreco9452 Місяць тому +4

    Lisa was right, not taking in her niece. That was not something she needed to do especially when they were all the relatives in the family. But I do have a question the way the parents often spoke about the brother and why they sent Lisa away it seemed like he was always in the hospital always needed help, so how did the wind up getting married and having a child?

  • @mariewilliams3524
    @mariewilliams3524 20 днів тому +3

    I believe she was because if she does have them most of the damage that is still there but not showing it might probably wind up on the kids so honestly she protecting herself and the kid

  • @RDT-qi1wk
    @RDT-qi1wk Місяць тому +4

    Amazing how selective and one way concerns for family can be, ain't it?

  • @carsteinert132
    @carsteinert132 Місяць тому +4

    If brother had so many medical problems how did he make a child and what kind of medical problems does she have.

  • @SandraMiller-zv3rf
    @SandraMiller-zv3rf 16 днів тому +1

    They wanted to throw Emma away just like they did her.

  • @wonderwoman5732
    @wonderwoman5732 Місяць тому +3

    I AM VERY CURIOUS ABOUT SOMETHING. I CAN UNDERSTAND ABOUT DEALING WITH SEVERE HEALTH ISSUES AS A CHILD. MAYBE RECOVERING AND GROWING OUT OF IT. HOW DID MIKE MANAGE TO GET MARRIED AND HAVE A CHILD AND HEALTH ISSUES RESCIND THE WAY IT DID AFTER HIS WIFE DIED IN A CARE ACCIDENT.

  • @42bluey
    @42bluey Місяць тому +4

    The parents talk about shellfish entitled wow

  • @user-rp1st3nk8y
    @user-rp1st3nk8y Місяць тому +4

    Talk about a family chock full of narcissists.

    • @kpc9602
      @kpc9602 Місяць тому +3

      I hate that!!!

  • @marcuslam696
    @marcuslam696 Місяць тому +4

    I wonder where is her niece in the video ? Cause they showed her in the graphic .

  • @paulleckner8235
    @paulleckner8235 4 дні тому

    All those long lost relatives who guilt trip her about taking in Emma should considered taking in the child.

  • @user-rp1st3nk8y
    @user-rp1st3nk8y Місяць тому +3

    Family should come second to living your best life, always put your own air mask on first before you can help anyone.

  • @northshorecouple1060
    @northshorecouple1060 22 дні тому +2

    She’s 12 and playing with crayons?

  • @Dreamerlighting
    @Dreamerlighting Місяць тому +4

    Why did the family take Emma in them parents are rotten !!!

    • @kpc9602
      @kpc9602 Місяць тому +2

      IKR?! not to mention ignorant, unreasonable and selfish, if they can look in the mirror for it!

  • @kpc9602
    @kpc9602 Місяць тому +2

    "it's already decided" they say "this will be good for you" they say! abandoning their child, my BUTT!!

  • @l3xsterz298
    @l3xsterz298 24 дні тому +2

    H9w can you give your babies away? Who does that!! I could never imagine doing that!. They are my.life. love them equally. If micheal is so ill why did he marry and have a child? Sounds like bull crap to me. Op parents cant be arsed to watch her. Were being selfish!. Not even parents or grandparents. Emma will find out one day that they tried to hand her over. She'll be pissed.

  • @roslizanbintimalik
    @roslizanbintimalik Місяць тому +2

    Her parents want no responsibility. Easy life that's what they want.

  • @snidecommenter7117
    @snidecommenter7117 Місяць тому +2

    "I. Will. Not. Be. 'Family'. Of. Convenience."

    • @kpc9602
      @kpc9602 Місяць тому +1

      ✊I'll be on your side!

  • @peach_cobbler
    @peach_cobbler 28 днів тому +2

    Who is Sarah?

  • @sumathiparanjothi7946
    @sumathiparanjothi7946 13 днів тому +1

    How can a person so sick get married and have a child. If do they should be prepared for whatever happens. The story sounds ridiculous. What dumb parents would want their daughter who is stoll studying to take of their grandchild. Where is the mother??

  • @olly2027
    @olly2027 23 дні тому +1

    This story made no sense.

  • @sumathiparanjothi7946
    @sumathiparanjothi7946 13 днів тому

    These stories seem so absurd.

  • @D8TNCracka
    @D8TNCracka Місяць тому +1

    Blood is not thicker than water, I found that out the hard way.

    • @nancythane5672
      @nancythane5672 28 днів тому +1

      "The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb."