I went through this with my first husband, he verbally abused me and slapped me around. I put up with it for several months and then kicked him out. It was starting to affect my mental health and my career. I never felt so relieved when the day he left finally came. I promised myself no man would EVER put his hands one again!
These women who treat their daughters in law like this is exactly why I’m not above banning her from my life, house and my children’s lives if she can’t act
Sophia is a new mom and it sounds as though Linda would rather stress Sophia even more by ordering her around instead of doing the work herself and then ordering Tom to hit her. In fact, Sophia was right to disconnect herself from both Linda and Tom because of their entitled behavior.
Abusive parents often train their children to be dependent on them. The abused children, even as adults, preferring "the security of misery to the misery of insecurity."
Nobody makes someone assault another person. Her husband should be charged and time for a divorce. No excuse for domestic violence. Next he will start hitting kids when they have them
Honestly that mother-in-law should be ashamed of herself for telling her son to abuse his wife with physical discipline. Honestly that is not right at all. I don't know why that mother-in-law is filling Tom's head with utter nonsense. Also if the mother-in-law decided to pop in to check she could have helped out as well instead of being a fucking dictator
MiL is mentally disturbed and raised Tom to be just as unhinged as herself. Tom is a grown adult and yet he let his monster of a mother control his actions.
Did Linda's (s)mother-in-law do the same thing to her? Did Tom's dad slapped her when things didn't get done fast enough or right ? If not, then what gives her the right to interfere? And this is why women divorce their husbands, because of the (s)mother-in-law being nosy.
She just had a baby, so what if the house is a little messy mother-in-law’s like that piss me off and make my blood boil if you want to help come over and do the dishes so they can take a nap or take care of the baby don’t make them feel bad because of it.
OP is being a mother she’s taking care of her child that is the most important thing not the dishes not a baby toy on the ground not anything else. The family standards. If a family standards is that high I don’t want to be in it.
Leaving with the kid and not telling the father is kidnapping. She needed to contact him and let him know. We helped a woman and her baby get home to her parents in another country. 😮
I CANNOT with these judgemental In-Laws!! I do not understand why these Sons listen to their Mothers with violence?? Tom will learn his bed is about to be EMPTY!! MARRIAGE OVER!! Goodluck on trying to see your grandson BISH!!
I would’ve divorced him in a heartbeat she’s holding a baby and you hit her because your mothers says you need to discipline your wife because the house is not perfect🤬
I like the fact that there's always a Jess or Jessica to save the day 😅 I suspect that the one choosing the names is a fan of "Murder she wrote"😊 As fir the husband he's a disgrace, not at all fit yo be a father or a husband.
Linda, you caused Sophia to divorce Tom and gain permanent custody of her son all because you wanted everything done your own way. In fact, you both earned yourselves permanent isolation from everyone and everything for manipulation and assault.
If you know mil has a standard freaking meet it. Just cause baby isn't sleeping well doesn't mean you slack everywhere else. The baby deserves a CLEAN home.
My thing is that if the (s)mother-in-law help instead of hindering, maybe Tom and Lisa would probably still be married. Or better yet 🤔, Tom should have cut ✂️ off the apron strings and tell his (s)mother not get in his business or else.
Have you ever had a baby? The poor woman is doing her best and is most likely sleep deprived as it it. As stated later on, it's about control for the MIL, not the condition of the house. If MIL doesn't live there, then she needs to keep her standards to her own house. What gives her the right to dictate how someone should live? The baby needs a rested, healthy mother more than a pristine environment.
The moment he struck OP holding their child is the moment I’d I’d call 911 and filed divorce papers. Complete stop.
If you have them... combat veteran male family members puts a stop to that nonsense.
I went through this with my first husband, he verbally abused me and slapped me around. I put up with it for several months and then kicked him out. It was starting to affect my mental health and my career. I never felt so relieved when the day he left finally came. I promised myself no man would EVER put his hands one again!
These women who treat their daughters in law like this is exactly why I’m not above banning her from my life, house and my children’s lives if she can’t act
A handsome little fella is just too cute to be raised by such a mean woman like this mother-in-law.
If my mother complained about my wife, she would get one warning. She would then find herself out her backside on the front lawn.
You are a very refreshing man I wish there was more like you
😮oh mamas boy
I knew a woman like that the family finally had a life of their own after she died they could breathe
Sophia is a new mom and it sounds as though Linda would rather stress Sophia even more by ordering her around instead of doing the work herself and then ordering Tom to hit her. In fact, Sophia was right to disconnect herself from both Linda and Tom because of their entitled behavior.
Why is it these husbands still obey their mothers rather take their wives side?
Bc they never truly grew up.
They are weak period
Momma boys
It's a cultural thing
Abusive parents often train their children to be dependent on them. The abused children, even as adults, preferring "the security of misery to the misery of insecurity."
People need to understand, WE WERE NOT PUT ON THIS EARTH TO BE A PUNCHING BAG FOR ANYONE. 😮
Nobody makes someone assault another person. Her husband should be charged and time for a divorce. No excuse for domestic violence. Next he will start hitting kids when they have them
Honestly that mother-in-law should be ashamed of herself for telling her son to abuse his wife with physical discipline. Honestly that is not right at all. I don't know why that mother-in-law is filling Tom's head with utter nonsense. Also if the mother-in-law decided to pop in to check she could have helped out as well instead of being a fucking dictator
Boy Tom physically changed from a young man to an older one.
As a mom of adult sons, hell no! My son ever lift his hand at his wife she call me I'll take care of it!!
MiL is mentally disturbed and raised Tom to be just as unhinged as herself. Tom is a grown adult and yet he let his monster of a mother control his actions.
Did Linda's (s)mother-in-law do the same thing to her? Did Tom's dad slapped her when things didn't get done fast enough or right ? If not, then what gives her the right to interfere? And this is why women divorce their husbands, because of the (s)mother-in-law being nosy.
She just had a baby, so what if the house is a little messy mother-in-law’s like that piss me off and make my blood boil if you want to help come over and do the dishes so they can take a nap or take care of the baby don’t make them feel bad because of it.
She should've called the police when Tom hit her.
The Husband is a Mommas boy!!
OP is being a mother she’s taking care of her child that is the most important thing not the dishes not a baby toy on the ground not anything else.
The family standards. If a family standards is that high I don’t want to be in it.
new moms need help their bodies are still healing after birth
Leaving with the kid and not telling the father is kidnapping. She needed to contact him and let him know. We helped a woman and her baby get home to her parents in another country. 😮
And another marriage got shot down because hubby is still connected to Mommie's umbilical cord.
The real one was snipped at birth but the invisible one ain't, still attached since he's a MAMA'S BOY!!!
Girl! I'd be on the first thing smokin' outta there!!
And it’s not what are you doing but I am calling the police.
The mother in law shouldn’t tell her son to hit the wife
Tom and his momma would’ve been unconscious on the floor next to each other waiting for the cops to come get them!!!
What a terrible mother-in-law! There's no excuse for abuse! Linda is a witch!
I CANNOT with these judgemental In-Laws!! I do not understand why these Sons listen to their Mothers with violence?? Tom will learn his bed is about to be EMPTY!! MARRIAGE OVER!! Goodluck on trying to see your grandson BISH!!
I would’ve told him you’re sleeping on the couch tonight and don’t you dare ever hit me again discipline your mother is wrong in this case
I would’ve divorced him in a heartbeat she’s holding a baby and you hit her because your mothers says you need to discipline your wife because the house is not perfect🤬
I like the fact that there's always a Jess or Jessica to save the day 😅
I suspect that the one choosing the names is a fan of "Murder she wrote"😊
As fir the husband he's a disgrace, not at all fit yo be a father or a husband.
This should have a trigger warning
Why not hire her dil a chore helper for a few days!!!
the husband is a mama's boy.
Discipline are you freaking kidding me🤬🤬🤬
For your own good🤬🤬🤬
Title has me confused. The guy is an adult, right?
A grown man doesn't need to do what mom says.
the story feels incomplete, lots of details missing, wishy washy timeline and story telling
the MIL and Husband are the lowest of the low
Why does there have to be a big family reveal/meeting for everything!!!
The reason is that they need to see what is happening for themselves as they may not believe the main person in the story.
Sophia should divorce Tom
The word "palpable" is used a lot on this channel.......
How come Tom looks completely different in the family meeting??
Why does the son look older than the mother
Cops maybe
No mane havad right t o
Hit a woman and win shehha,od baby 😊
Linda, you caused Sophia to divorce Tom and gain permanent custody of her son all because you wanted everything done your own way. In fact, you both earned yourselves permanent isolation from everyone and everything for manipulation and assault.
Tom and his mother would've had the benediction that day.
Sophia divorced Tom and cut ties from both Tom and his mom. Sophia also gained permanent custody of her son.
The husband is a totally different person later on in the vid.
If you know mil has a standard freaking meet it. Just cause baby isn't sleeping well doesn't mean you slack everywhere else. The baby deserves a CLEAN home.
My thing is that if the (s)mother-in-law help instead of hindering, maybe Tom and Lisa would probably still be married. Or better yet 🤔, Tom should have cut ✂️ off the apron strings and tell his (s)mother not get in his business or else.
That is their house. Not the mother in law's.
Have you ever had a baby? The poor woman is doing her best and is most likely sleep deprived as it it. As stated later on, it's about control for the MIL, not the condition of the house.
If MIL doesn't live there, then she needs to keep her standards to her own house. What gives her the right to dictate how someone should live? The baby needs a rested, healthy mother more than a pristine environment.
Abuse is NEVER, NEVER acceptable regardless of any “standards” a mother-in-law may have.
Revenge is a dish best served cold
No, best served legal.
Leaveĥim.as soon.as.sooń.as.possjble.😮