It's better to come home from work to an empty house and have nobody to talk about your day with versus coming home to a spouse and having nobody who cares how your day went.
Add to that... You come home and you're immediately criticized. Given a list of things to do. None of which will be done to her liking. Speak up about anything and you'll suffer a wide range of of psychological and verbal abuse. No, in this regard, he's not familiar with the real world.
I don't know who this video is referring to, but living alone is glorious. The most grounded of my male friends, like me, have great lives, and have no further need for a partner.
I'm divorced and I would never do it again. It's an emotional and financial rip-off. In the end I felt like nothing more than a labor and wage slave. There to serve and to be the whipping boy for her mood swings. Now, I do what I want, the way I want, and when I want and there's nobody to complain about it. It's glorious.
I’m 59 and I have never had a serious relationship. I have only had platonic relationships with women in my life. It’s not because I am unattractive or anything like that, but it’s because the woman is looking for someone else. I feel fine being just me. I believe women would become impatient because of their past relationships and experiences. I’m not attracted to drama or conflict. I want to come home to a quiet and peaceful life. Responsibilities are just that; responsibilities. They don’t exactly “make a man out of you”. Responsibilities provide awareness. A close relationship requires kindness, compassion, patience, respect and an open mind. Both must put in the time and effort(I’m not talking about financial effort) make the relationship work and strengthen. If the relationship is based on one person, then, it is not a relationship that is emotionally beneficial. Living alone helps a person realize what their strengths and weaknesses are and where to focus their actions on improvement. Some people don’t know how to handle being alone. Some people are awkward in a close relationship, as well. People alone know that nothing is promised to anyone and they have to work for those things. But if they have to play a game or perform a test for someone’s edification, it would only build resentment towards the person. Women want mind readers, they don’t want to appear “easy” and to give the game away. They want someone who “has it all” or someone who is close to achieving the goal. It’s better to have someone who has been in your corner from the beginning instead of someone who is waiting at the finish line. Drama-free is the way to be. Peace
I had my wife of 30 years suddenly decide she didn't want to be married anymore. Now I live alone and have peace. In addition I'm invisible to women. Something you have touched on. I'd love a girlfriend. But when you are invisible to women it's kinda difficult.
This is not Jordan Peterson. It’s AI using Jordan Peterson’s image and voice which should be a copyright infringement. I’m going to report this channel.
Any man who cannot achieve a better version of themselves alone will never be able to do so with the constant distraction of a woman because they can never be their authentic selves. Men who fall victim to chaos, addiction and despair are already weak and no woman will suddenly fix that. Men who feel they NEED a woman are already losers, whereas men who make a calculated CHOICE to be with a woman maintain their authentic selves.
Exactly. And it's because you can only be your true self when alone and without the constant attention, energy drain and distraction being in a relationship.
I have been alone, 10 years. I have older kids at home. I do not use drugs, booze. I have been putting together a tree service, a wood shop. These are my goals, giving my children an honest business to carry on. A very unique woman will have to enter my life. I require lots of alone time.
My wife died 16 months ago, and I've been alone ever since. I got a puppy about 4 months after, and it was the best decision I've made since. I'm nowhere near close to dating, plus I'm 57 now. I miss my Gina so much, and it still hearts my ❤️ that she's gone. Being alone with Ava (my dog) is enough for me. I take her to state parks on my days off from work, and we walk for about 4 hours and have a great time. I do miss talking, watching our shows, going places together... but with her. I can't imagine being with anyone else. It feels like cheating when i think about it because it wasn't a breakup. We loved each other deeply and dating feels like a betrayal. I know that sounds crazy but it's how my heart feels.
I hear you. My SO passed a year ago. I cannot imagine finding another near as wonderful as her. My ex's taught me that a good woman is hard to find. Sorry for your loss, I got a pup too, it has helped.
@michaelcasey1968 When a man promises to marry his wife and love her, it is just her and not until he can get another one like a pair of shoes. There is a big difference between the wife that's the love of your life, and the transactional relationships of today. Finding another body to sleep with won't be a spiritual connection. You're lucky to have found love. Most relationships are sexual and transactional, not love.
I feel the same after my wife of 52 years passed away 5 years ago. I hate being alone but she is irreplaceable. I look forward to being reunited with her in the resurrection.
Divorced 15 years children are grown-up. I stay single and peaceful, I am blessed to have lots of different hobbies which is very important if you’re single because you have a lot of time to fill-in, this is BS from Jordan when you’re on your own you are not spending time with friends of your partner You don’t really have nothing in common with, all your time is spent on yourself and your own interests, top five ,number one eat healthy number two exercise number three no negative people in your life number four hobbies number five rest take it handy travel slowly life is long but very short when it gets to the end☘️❤️🙏
Meaning in life might not be via endless freedom, but endless freedom can give a man opportunities to put more meaning into his life than the obligations of a partnership ever could.
Maybe it applies to some guys, but a lot of men who stay single take lead in controlling their personal priorities and finding themselves accomplishing their goals at a much faster rate than say a guy who has himself tied down for real
This is one of your best speeches ive heard u say i lost the the woman that had my back my home least of all money i can make money so iam trying hard to recover went back to work full time after being retired for 3 years going to buy a home two weeks in and its been tough but iam going forward good luck for you all try to make something out of your life its up to you
All of this is correct. But... Life can be different for more mature men despite all the effort they implement finding compatible partner. They do try, again and again, but mostly unsecsesfuly... I can see lot of them everywhere, on the streets, shoping centres, parks, in front of their buildings... In the time they get older and alone, accepting the reality...
Do people actually believe this is Jordan Peterson? It is not. While there is a bit of common sense interspersed in this AI monologue, there are also a ton of absurd assumptions. The real Jordan Peterson would be appalled. See his real channel to understand what he really believes about standing strong on your own, solitude, personal self growth, and the benefits of not being attached.
Ohh My PhD time!! At my university getting 'married quarters' had (still has) long queues n affording even an 1 room kitchen in Mumbai would have burnt 70% of the scholarship. So had to stay in hostel away from the family. I can relate to each n every word of him the emotions many of us go through!! I hope i would have got this vdo during those days!! At least it would have reduced our agony/anxiety.
Thank you "Limitless Path", for maintaining his back catalogue, and for these subject based repackaged and recently republished contents. Always good analysis, and good 'street' advice. Cheers.
With the way modern relationships are today, I would say that this describes what it is like to be in a marriage not out of one for a guy. The most lonely men I have I have talked to in my life are men in relationships. When a man gets married it is the death of hanging out with the boys and the death of enjoying his hobbies.
It is also the death of half his assets and all of his freedom, autonomy, and authentic self. That was not the case in decades past when feminism, gynocentrism and female entitilement didn't exist to decimate most of Western culture and sideline masculinity and men's rights.
Well said, but we are not all a risk, as some are aware that solo life is not the road to despair, but a road to learning about the the realities of the world we live in.
Honestly, and truly, I believe the best gift that GOD have given to men after worshiping GOD ALONE, is to have a woman in your life a wonderful gift from GOD. Thanks GOD. Women are just wonderful 🎁
My wife ended our 37 year marriage over the holidays just passed. Still trying to process why. She wasn't willing to try anything to save the relationship. 2 adult sons, many good years, precious memories. At 60 I'm starting over. Crazy.
The single state is very difficult on every level, especially the psychological one. We pray, lead us not into temptation, which the single state very much is, and yet God does not hear and answer that prayer.
There is so little going on for the introverted loners to come out of the woods.Social cohesion encouraged from a young age rather than isolation can remove the sure dogged battle with anxiety that trails him soon.Interestingly then resiliency sees the terrible gaps of self-alienation breached by renewed habit of meaningful ambition with the life goal.Excellent video👍
Divorced with 3 kids over 30 years now. I did pretty good financially. Worked my ass off.but he's correct. I know 100 percent that if I had a good woman with me I could have tripled my wealth. I see it with all my married friends
Mark, I recognise the point of your comment, and well done overall. Whilst the lecturer is saying that a man's forward potential is galvanised by a challenging, in a truly positive and supportive manner, woman, he is also alluding to the suggestion that there is responsibility on the man to pick that most beneficially charactered woman IN THE FIRST PLACE. Tricky to get right I am sure.
@@acdnmystic9929 all a woman has to do in her younger years to have her choice of tons of good men is the following: Fit, cooperative, childless, 20’s (fertility), no promiscuous past, relatively conservative, not in tons of useless debt/bad with money. In 1960, the VAST majority of women EASILY met the above basic standards. Nowadays, just on debt, fitness, insane leftist politics, and single motherhood statistics alone, less than 2% of modern women are worth it, let everything else I listed. Men have their issues, but far more than 2% are LTR/marriage material, and they are left with horrible choices that aren’t remotely worth it. Women also initiate roughly 80% of all divorces as well, and with a divorce rate of roughly 50%, that’s a huge risk. An average man in 1960 had access to way higher quality women than a man that’s in the top 20% today. Many of the issues men have are related to being totally demoralized by the behavior of women. One of the primary, if not THE primary motivation for men to work hard is to have a nice wife and family. Women, by their behavior have mostly destroyed that motivation.
Jordan Peterson lives in times long gone. Women today are highly narcissistic or if they are failed narcissist they become borderlines. So in that light most men in relationships are miserable.
You only exam worst case scenarios. Alone time gives me time to improve myself by working out with my home gym, do house renovations , and play guitar and study music. This is because I live alone and nobody treats me better than myself. I don't need a woman to inspire me I inspire myself. You need to learn to stop being a mamas boy and grow a pair.
I'll tell ya what chaos is...Coming home to an asshole who drains the life force out of you. Coming home to an empty house is awesome. No Drama. Feminism messed up the ladies and I'm not dealing with the entitled attitude. I'm doing very well on my own at 60, and I am never going back to the insanity of dating. Cheers to the men who realize they don't have to have a woman to be happy. Have no wife...Happy life!.. LOL.
Walczyć i starać się warto, tylko dla osoby która to doceni. Wiele kobiet patrzy na mężczyzn jako narzędzie do ich dobrego życia, mężczyzna ma dawać nie oczekując zbyt wiele, bo to jego obowiązek.
Interesting opinion. But opinions are not facts. I have been deeply inspired by Jack London Yukon writings, especially "To build a fire", which is still haunting me. The most meaningful and fulfilling moments in my life happened when I was alone, far away from mankind. When I felt like a prehistoric hunter and reached a profound and healthy connection with the blood of the Universe that runs inside my veins. With God I guess. The women of my life have been leg irons for me. All of them.
Everything in the universe evolves and adapts to it's environment or ceases to exist. Few if any successful organisms on earth have evolved and adapted to exist alone. It is not a matter of choice, it's a matter of evolutionary design.
Some of us have evolved beyond that and have come to realize happiness, love and relationships can come in many different forms, not just in the traditional, socially-accepted, monogamous, ancestral constructs handed down from our parents, movies, social media, etc.
@@OperationsMgr To each his own. I'm an old time product at 78. I had a couple young men die in my arms. They both wanted their mamas as they died. You can claim to have advanced beyond what nature made you. I can assure you when the $hit hits the fan, youl'll call for mama.
It's sound like that every man can choose if he wants to live with a woman or girlfriend. But this isn't by far the case. You can look good, have a nice car, good income, are in shape, built yourself mentally and physically and are strong and masculine. This makes a big difference for yourself but only a small difference when it comes to "modern" women. So of course we live alone and care about ourselves and didn't care anymore about women. It's a waste of time. There are more women then men on this world but there are chasing Tyrone and Chad to get dumped and hit the wall. So most women don't want good man. Most men don't avoid relationships, they simply can get into one. Because it always need two. We have to accept that decision of women and walk away.
If women bring so much joy and fullness into a man's life, then why are men rushing for the exists in record numbers? This man is delusional and a threat to the happiness and stability of single men.
The deception that we witness here, the use of an AI voice while purporting that it's the legitimate speech of the person it's created to mimic, should be highly criminal and subject to prosecution, harsh sentencing, and broad civil liability.
The first part is a joke. Whether you have a wife or girlfriend at home, they don't care two sh#ts about your work, about your struggles, really about anything that happened during your day. Keep the money coming. Here's your list of things to do. Now that you're home from work. Get to it. Oh, and here's a list of things that I'm not happy about you with and all the criticism begins. Those walls that he's talking about they're beautiful. Listen to him. It's as if he thinks men need a woman to be a supervisor at home to tell him what to, how to do it and when to do it? It's absolutely insane.
Show this to todays modern women. They will have a completely different opinion. Women don't want men in the social or personal life...There told they are strong powerful and independent who don't need any help.
I absolutely disagree. I've been married and divorced 3x. At 65yrs old I'm not only good but I've never been happier than I am as a single man. The less responsibilities the better at this point in my life. My advice to all my brothers...get yourself a dog. 🙏🇺🇸✌️😎
Each life story has their views of what it means to how they want to live. And for the most part, there are those short comings which show why a relationship with a woman can be worth some valued points. But not all Men are made to do this. And here lys the difference. And where I live. I enjoy my life in jow i don't have to have a woman telling me, pushing me. I am a creative, curious soul. With a woman there would be no time for this. Not in the way my imagination is. I dislike distractions. IAnd yeah i don't want to deal with some moody female. And lastly, I am a sigma male that M G T O W has suited me just fine after trying enough times trying to date women. Yeah, it ain't for everyone.
The statistical chances of finding the “right woman” is punishingly low. Risk taking is a process called “cost / benefit analysis” Set yourself up for the life you’ve always imagined. Do that first. Never allow a woman to live there. (If you must cohabitate then it’s at her place) Your assets MUST be in a trust. Protected. At least that way you can screw up and still have a good exit strategy. You can screw up and not be the architect of your own destruction. Good luck. You’re gonna need it. I can tell you this, burdens and responsibility are overrated. Not one thing you do goes onto your resume. It’s forgotten in a heartbeat. Like I said. Overrated.
Some have no choice genius. A lot aren't even given a chance especially at my age do you even no what it's like in this dating age. Didn't think so. Your opinions are best kept to yourself Some just like to hear themselves talk.
Well this the first time I Disagree wih you SIr, Jordon Peterson Jesus has all my needs, not sure if this is you talking or artificial intelligence. You are my mentor something is wrong with this info. What gives?😮❤
I’m celibate and have been for years, not by choice though. I’m 64 and only attracted to younger women. However I haven’t found one that would date a man my age. I’m alone most of the time with my memories. My parents are dead and so is my sister. My son died at 25 from an overdose and my daughter lives in Uruguay.
BS BS BS BS BS BS the whole BS way!!! Words of Jealousy scripted by those burdened with being shackled within limiting relationships. Live FREE live LONG brothers 👊
Disagree immensely. First off, purpose isnt found or something to search for. Purpose is something you build. A woman is not suppose to be your purpose or to provide meaning in your life. Some of the greatest people in the world made huge impact by being single or if were married, their purpose and duty kept them from personal affairs. 1. Isaac Newton 2. Nikola Tesla 3. Leonhard Euler 4. Paul Dirac 5. Srinivasa Ramanujan 6. Immanuel Kant 7. Arthur Schopenhauer 8. Henry David Thoreau 9. John von Neumann 10. Michael Faraday 11. Alan Turing 12. Franz Kafka 13. Edgar Allan Poe 14. Gautama Buddha 15. Jesus of Nazareth 16. George Washington 17. Simón Bolívar When a man controls the urges of lust, he finds that women have nothing to really offer, especially in modern times that is governed by a gynocentric system.
Not true. When you follow the Lord Jesus Christ it has no worries. Peterson doesn't even believe in the Trinity even after it's gone in 2027. Numbers and this world speak everything into none existent soon.
It's better to come home from work to an empty house and have nobody to talk about your day with versus coming home to a spouse and having nobody who cares how your day went.
I have no luck so I don't try
Add to that... You come home and you're immediately criticized. Given a list of things to do. None of which will be done to her liking. Speak up about anything and you'll suffer a wide range of of psychological and verbal abuse. No, in this regard, he's not familiar with the real world.
@MikeS-7 You nailed it!
A delusional simp trying to poison the minds of happy single men.
An empty house is way better than a mine field,no problems,only silence and peaceful.
I was married to a narcasist. This is about having a good woman. Lots of men are miserable in marriage.
Most of them are.
I was married for 40 years, now I have peace.
I don't know who this video is referring to, but living alone is glorious. The most grounded of my male friends, like me, have great lives, and have no further need for a partner.
I'm divorced and I would never do it again. It's an emotional and financial rip-off. In the end I felt like nothing more than a labor and wage slave. There to serve and to be the whipping boy for her mood swings. Now, I do what I want, the way I want, and when I want and there's nobody to complain about it. It's glorious.
I agree..put peace & freedom first.
" No Woman, No Cry😢"
Totally agree. It is how you approach being on your own
A man without a girlfriend is like a fish without a bicycle
or a woman without a cashpoint!!😂
Good one!
Thanks. That's encouraging to this 63-year-old, never married, former pro athlete-dreamer.😊
@@kevincooper8666 jajajaja
I’m 59 and I have never had a serious relationship. I have only had platonic relationships with women in my life. It’s not because I am unattractive or anything like that, but it’s because the woman is looking for someone else. I feel fine being just me. I believe women would become impatient because of their past relationships and experiences. I’m not attracted to drama or conflict. I want to come home to a quiet and peaceful life. Responsibilities are just that; responsibilities. They don’t exactly “make a man out of you”. Responsibilities provide awareness.
A close relationship requires kindness, compassion, patience, respect and an open mind. Both must put in the time and effort(I’m not talking about financial effort) make the relationship work and strengthen. If the relationship is based on one person, then, it is not a relationship that is emotionally beneficial.
Living alone helps a person realize what their strengths and weaknesses are and where to focus their actions on improvement. Some people don’t know how to handle being alone. Some people are awkward in a close relationship, as well.
People alone know that nothing is promised to anyone and they have to work for those things. But if they have to play a game or perform a test for someone’s edification, it would only build resentment towards the person. Women want mind readers, they don’t want to appear “easy” and to give the game away. They want someone who “has it all” or someone who is close to achieving the goal.
It’s better to have someone who has been in your corner from the beginning instead of someone who is waiting at the finish line.
Drama-free is the way to be.
Peace
It's not dangerous if you live alone, if you have discipline !!
exactly
You are not alone , god is with you.
I've been completely alone no kids no girlfriend and I work alone for the last 14 years
I like solitude
People suck
I had my wife of 30 years suddenly decide she didn't want to be married anymore. Now I live alone and have peace. In addition I'm invisible to women. Something you have touched on. I'd love a girlfriend. But when you are invisible to women it's kinda difficult.
This is not Jordan Peterson. It’s AI using Jordan Peterson’s image and voice which should be a copyright infringement. I’m going to report this channel.
Any man who cannot achieve a better version of themselves alone will never be able to do so with the constant distraction of a woman because they can never be their authentic selves. Men who fall victim to chaos, addiction and despair are already weak and no woman will suddenly fix that. Men who feel they NEED a woman are already losers, whereas men who make a calculated CHOICE to be with a woman maintain their authentic selves.
Life is more genuine when you are with urself.
Exactly. And it's because you can only be your true self when alone and without the constant attention, energy drain and distraction being in a relationship.
You are not alone ,God is with you.
I have been alone, 10 years.
I have older kids at home.
I do not use drugs, booze.
I have been putting together a tree service, a wood shop.
These are my goals, giving my children an honest business to carry on.
A very unique woman will have to enter my life. I require lots of alone time.
So does a good Woman!;)
Masz dzieci, więc masz dla kogo się starać. Tu jest mowa o mężczyznach bez dzieci i nie chcących związku.
My wife died 16 months ago, and I've been alone ever since. I got a puppy about 4 months after, and it was the best decision I've made since. I'm nowhere near close to dating, plus I'm 57 now. I miss my Gina so much, and it still hearts my ❤️ that she's gone. Being alone with Ava (my dog) is enough for me. I take her to state parks on my days off from work, and we walk for about 4 hours and have a great time. I do miss talking, watching our shows, going places together... but with her. I can't imagine being with anyone else. It feels like cheating when i think about it because it wasn't a breakup. We loved each other deeply and dating feels like a betrayal. I know that sounds crazy but it's how my heart feels.
I hear you. My SO passed a year ago. I cannot imagine finding another near as wonderful as her. My ex's taught me that a good woman is hard to find. Sorry for your loss, I got a pup too, it has helped.
@michaelcasey1968
When a man promises to marry his wife and love her, it is just her and not until he can get another one like a pair of shoes.
There is a big difference between the wife that's the love of your life, and the transactional relationships of today.
Finding another body to sleep with won't be a spiritual connection. You're lucky to have found love. Most relationships are sexual and transactional, not love.
I feel the same after my wife of 52 years passed away 5 years ago. I hate being alone but she is irreplaceable. I look forward to being reunited with her in the resurrection.
Divorced 15 years children are grown-up. I stay single and peaceful, I am blessed to have lots of different hobbies which is very important if you’re single because you have a lot of time to fill-in, this is BS from Jordan when you’re on your own you are not spending time with friends of your partner You don’t really have nothing in common with, all your time is spent on yourself and your own interests, top five ,number one eat healthy number two exercise number three no negative people in your life number four hobbies number five rest take it handy travel slowly life is long but very short when it gets to the end☘️❤️🙏
Meaning in life might not be via endless freedom, but endless freedom can give a man opportunities to put more meaning into his life than the obligations of a partnership ever could.
Maybe it applies to some guys, but a lot of men who stay single take lead in controlling their personal priorities and finding themselves accomplishing their goals at a much faster rate than say a guy who has himself tied down for real
This is one of your best speeches ive heard u say i lost the the woman that had my back my home least of all money i can make money so iam trying hard to recover went back to work full time after being retired for 3 years going to buy a home two weeks in and its been tough but iam going forward good luck for you all try to make something out of your life its up to you
Thank you for listening 🙏 🎧
May God bless you ♥️
May God brings back your woman to you 💕🙏
All of this is correct. But...
Life can be different for more mature men despite all the effort they implement finding compatible partner. They do try, again and again, but mostly unsecsesfuly...
I can see lot of them everywhere, on the streets, shoping centres, parks, in front of their buildings...
In the time they get older and alone, accepting the reality...
im 63 gave up on finding a good woman.find a hobby,run your bussiness,etc.stay busy.
Do people actually believe this is Jordan Peterson? It is not. While there is a bit of common sense interspersed in this AI monologue, there are also a ton of absurd assumptions. The real Jordan Peterson would be appalled. See his real channel to understand what he really believes about standing strong on your own, solitude, personal self growth, and the benefits of not being attached.
Get a pet. Problem solved.
If you get sick and the pet starts peeing on you we'll see you then. 🧐😁
All well and good, Herr Doktor.
Now how about a lecture aimed at a woman with out a boyfriend.
I've had a few through the year I'd never do it again
A man without a girlfriend is an every woman's dream
🙏💕
Very informative and elucidated well . Thanks .
Problem number 1 in the modern world, .....Finding one that can be believed.
Indeed
Ohh My PhD time!!
At my university getting 'married quarters' had (still has) long queues n affording even an 1 room kitchen in Mumbai would have burnt 70% of the scholarship. So had to stay in hostel away from the family.
I can relate to each n every word of him the emotions many of us go through!!
I hope i would have got this vdo during those days!!
At least it would have reduced our agony/anxiety.
It's all about choice and self-discipline
Thank you "Limitless Path", for maintaining his back catalogue, and for these subject based repackaged and recently republished contents. Always good analysis, and good 'street' advice. Cheers.
Bravo Sir! Very well thought out and articulated!
Not really.
With the way modern relationships are today, I would say that this describes what it is like to be in a marriage not out of one for a guy. The most lonely men I have I have talked to in my life are men in relationships. When a man gets married it is the death of hanging out with the boys and the death of enjoying his hobbies.
It is also the death of half his assets and all of his freedom, autonomy, and authentic self. That was not the case in decades past when feminism, gynocentrism and female entitilement didn't exist to decimate most of Western culture and sideline masculinity and men's rights.
Well said, but we are not all a risk, as some are aware that solo life is not the road to despair, but a road to learning about the the realities of the world we live in.
@barraabus TRUE, but the lecturer points out the RISKS of the SOLO option.
@@davidwhyman1189 It's a myopic, blue pill, old order view.
I actually fell into alcoholism when I was married and, though it took some time, found sobriety in solitude.
Honestly, and truly, I believe the best gift that GOD have given to men after worshiping GOD ALONE, is to have a woman in your life a wonderful gift from GOD. Thanks GOD.
Women are just wonderful 🎁
Now HERE is an intelligent and beautiful soul!
Says a woman @@joycewalbert1413
Get yourself a hobbie,build a project car,go to the gym,its the best time to do it.
Okee Dokee. I'd better join that Filipina Dating Club.
You may as well get a cat.
Cheaper and you get similar depths of conversations.
@@umaminadeentusiasmo 😂😂😂
😂😂😂
What makes them better than American women?
This is a sermon for God. It's God that needs to be convinced to hear our prayers on this matter.
My wife ended our 37 year marriage over the holidays just passed. Still trying to process why. She wasn't willing to try anything to save the relationship. 2 adult sons, many good years, precious memories. At 60 I'm starting over. Crazy.
The single state is very difficult on every level, especially the psychological one.
We pray, lead us not into temptation, which the single state very much is, and yet God does not hear and answer that prayer.
There is so little going on for the introverted loners to come out of the woods.Social cohesion encouraged from a young age rather than isolation can remove the sure dogged battle with anxiety that trails him soon.Interestingly then resiliency sees the terrible gaps of self-alienation breached by renewed habit of meaningful ambition with the life goal.Excellent video👍
Divorced with 3 kids over 30 years now. I did pretty good financially. Worked my ass off.but he's correct. I know 100 percent that if I had a good woman with me I could have tripled my wealth. I see it with all my married friends
Mark, I recognise the point of your comment, and well done overall. Whilst the lecturer is saying that a man's forward potential is galvanised by a challenging, in a truly positive and supportive manner, woman, he is also alluding to the suggestion that there is responsibility on the man to pick that most beneficially charactered woman IN THE FIRST PLACE. Tricky to get right I am sure.
Woman feel the same..
Time's have changed...
Good Woman spend alot of time alone too
@@acdnmystic9929 all a woman has to do in her younger years to have her choice of tons of good men is the following:
Fit, cooperative, childless, 20’s (fertility), no promiscuous past, relatively conservative, not in tons of useless debt/bad with money.
In 1960, the VAST majority of women EASILY met the above basic standards. Nowadays, just on debt, fitness, insane leftist politics, and single motherhood statistics alone, less than 2% of modern women are worth it, let everything else I listed.
Men have their issues, but far more than 2% are LTR/marriage material, and they are left with horrible choices that aren’t remotely worth it. Women also initiate roughly 80% of all divorces as well, and with a divorce rate of roughly 50%, that’s a huge risk. An average man in 1960 had access to way higher quality women than a man that’s in the top 20% today.
Many of the issues men have are related to being totally demoralized by the behavior of women. One of the primary, if not THE primary motivation for men to work hard is to have a nice wife and family. Women, by their behavior have mostly destroyed that motivation.
"Good woman" = unicorn. Better off winning the lotto in this current culture.
Strong words and ethics. Push forward, and it's easier to do so in challenging circumstances.
I am a lonely man without a partner at the moment, but I sure have a meaning full life with a very clear direction and doing very well . Thank you...
I want to run. Which way Oh that way any way. I WANT to run !!!
Jordan Peterson lives in times long gone. Women today are highly narcissistic or if they are failed narcissist they become borderlines. So in that light most men in relationships are miserable.
It is the man's responsibility to pick a positive woman in the first place. That takes a lot of early maturity.
@davidwhyman1189 Okey the days of virgins are over.
So true. Didnt know this until it was too late.
I think he talks sense for possibly most men but not all. He speaks as though we need a life like his. How arrogant must you be!!!
He is not arrogant.
Cool, sign up for a challenge aye 😂😅
Your video is enlightening, thanks.
You only exam worst case scenarios. Alone time gives me time to improve myself by working out with my home gym, do house renovations , and play guitar and study music. This is because I live alone and nobody treats me better than myself. I don't need a woman to inspire me I inspire myself. You need to learn to stop being a mamas boy and grow a pair.
I'll tell ya what chaos is...Coming home to an asshole who drains the life force out of you.
Coming home to an empty house is awesome. No Drama.
Feminism messed up the ladies and I'm not dealing with the entitled attitude.
I'm doing very well on my own at 60, and I am never going back to the insanity of dating.
Cheers to the men who realize they don't have to have a woman to be happy.
Have no wife...Happy life!..
LOL.
I agree with this. 💯
Walczyć i starać się warto, tylko dla osoby która to doceni. Wiele kobiet patrzy na mężczyzn jako narzędzie do ich dobrego życia, mężczyzna ma dawać nie oczekując zbyt wiele, bo to jego obowiązek.
George Washington Carver never married and never had a girlfriend. The same is true for Nicola Tesla. Both were great men.
Interesting opinion. But opinions are not facts. I have been deeply inspired by Jack London Yukon writings, especially "To build a fire", which is still haunting me. The most meaningful and fulfilling moments in my life happened when I was alone, far away from mankind. When I felt like a prehistoric hunter and reached a profound and healthy connection with the blood of the Universe that runs inside my veins. With God I guess. The women of my life have been leg irons for me. All of them.
The modern woman of today aren't worth trusting I would rather stay home alone
A,I …. Never had a real girl friend.
Everything He said is True & right on Point! Except he left out how it takes💲To sustain all relationships. Especially with 🇺🇸 Women! 🤔
Everything in the universe evolves and adapts to it's environment or ceases to exist. Few if any successful organisms on earth have evolved and adapted to exist alone. It is not a matter of choice, it's a matter of evolutionary design.
Some of us have evolved beyond that and have come to realize happiness, love and relationships can come in many different forms, not just in the traditional, socially-accepted, monogamous, ancestral constructs handed down from our parents, movies, social media, etc.
@@OperationsMgr To each his own. I'm an old time product at 78. I had a couple young men die in my arms. They both wanted their mamas as they died. You can claim to have advanced beyond what nature made you. I can assure you when the $hit hits the fan, youl'll call for mama.
It's sound like that every man can choose if he wants to live with a woman or girlfriend. But this isn't by far the case. You can look good, have a nice car, good income, are in shape, built yourself mentally and physically and are strong and masculine. This makes a big difference for yourself but only a small difference when it comes to "modern" women. So of course we live alone and care about ourselves and didn't care anymore about women. It's a waste of time. There are more women then men on this world but there are chasing Tyrone and Chad to get dumped and hit the wall. So most women don't want good man. Most men don't avoid relationships, they simply can get into one. Because it always need two. We have to accept that decision of women and walk away.
More peer pressure ?
If women bring so much joy and fullness into a man's life, then why are men rushing for the exists in record numbers? This man is delusional and a threat to the happiness and stability of single men.
The deception that we witness here, the use of an AI voice while purporting that it's the legitimate speech of the person it's created to mimic, should be highly criminal and subject to prosecution, harsh sentencing, and broad civil liability.
The first part is a joke. Whether you have a wife or girlfriend at home, they don't care two sh#ts about your work, about your struggles, really about anything that happened during your day. Keep the money coming. Here's your list of things to do. Now that you're home from work. Get to it. Oh, and here's a list of things that I'm not happy about you with and all the criticism begins. Those walls that he's talking about they're beautiful.
Listen to him. It's as if he thinks men need a woman to be a supervisor at home to tell him what to, how to do it and when to do it? It's absolutely insane.
Show this to todays modern women. They will have a completely different opinion. Women don't want men in the social or personal life...There told they are strong powerful and independent who don't need any help.
I absolutely disagree. I've been married and divorced 3x. At 65yrs old I'm not only good but I've never been happier than I am as a single man. The less responsibilities the better at this point in my life. My advice to all my brothers...get yourself a dog. 🙏🇺🇸✌️😎
IS HAPPYER NOW // NO MORE ENDLESS TALKING / FREEDOME NO NAGING PECE N QUIET// NO MORE FIGHTING// I AM FREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Then why 70% of marriages are in divorce mode ? This is pure BS.
Each life story has their views of what it means to how they want to live.
And for the most part,
there are those short comings which show why a relationship with a woman can be worth some valued points. But not all Men are made to do this. And here lys the difference. And where I
live. I enjoy my life in jow i don't have to have a woman telling me, pushing me. I am a creative, curious soul.
With a woman there would be no time for this. Not in the way my imagination is. I dislike distractions. IAnd yeah i don't want to deal with some moody female. And lastly, I am a sigma male that M G T O W has suited me just fine after trying enough times trying to date women.
Yeah, it ain't for everyone.
love u jordan , however i disagree . after 35 years of marriage i now live alone with my dog and i have never been happier . were not all the same .
This is AI.
The statistical chances of finding the “right woman” is punishingly low.
Risk taking is a process called “cost / benefit analysis”
Set yourself up for the life you’ve always imagined. Do that first.
Never allow a woman to live there.
(If you must cohabitate then it’s at her place)
Your assets MUST be in a trust. Protected.
At least that way you can screw up and still have a good exit strategy.
You can screw up and not be the architect of your own destruction.
Good luck. You’re gonna need it.
I can tell you this, burdens and responsibility are overrated. Not one thing you do goes onto your resume. It’s forgotten in a heartbeat.
Like I said. Overrated.
Some have no choice genius. A lot aren't even given a chance especially at my age do you even no what it's like in this dating age. Didn't think so. Your opinions are best kept to yourself Some just like to hear themselves talk.
Well this the first time I Disagree wih you SIr, Jordon Peterson Jesus has all my needs, not sure if this is you talking or artificial intelligence. You are my mentor something is wrong with this info. What gives?😮❤
The only reason I'm getting married is cause I want someone to be there if I ever had a stroke or heart attack. nothing more nothing less.
I do not agree with your video. No need to explain.
BS doesn't even sound like him or the way he talks 😅
You are wrong in many points
Not true the dogs cats and the peafowl do..
out of touch pondering
AI
I’m celibate and have been for years, not by choice though. I’m 64 and only attracted to younger women. However I haven’t found one that would date a man my age. I’m alone most of the time with my memories. My parents are dead and so is my sister. My son died at 25 from an overdose and my daughter lives in Uruguay.
BS BS BS BS BS BS the whole BS way!!! Words of Jealousy scripted by those burdened with being shackled within limiting relationships. Live FREE live LONG brothers 👊
Disagree immensely. First off, purpose isnt found or something to search for. Purpose is something you build. A woman is not suppose to be your purpose or to provide meaning in your life. Some of the greatest people in the world made huge impact by being single or if were married, their purpose and duty kept them from personal affairs.
1. Isaac Newton
2. Nikola Tesla
3. Leonhard Euler
4. Paul Dirac
5. Srinivasa Ramanujan
6. Immanuel Kant
7. Arthur Schopenhauer
8. Henry David Thoreau
9. John von Neumann
10. Michael Faraday
11. Alan Turing
12. Franz Kafka
13. Edgar Allan Poe
14. Gautama Buddha
15. Jesus of Nazareth
16. George Washington
17. Simón Bolívar
When a man controls the urges of lust, he finds that women have nothing to really offer, especially in modern times that is governed by a gynocentric system.
A woman who lives alone without a boyfriend...........
,,,,,,,,,,,,Is making one less man,miserable.
Is a librarian. Lol
@@bobbyt7448Has at least one cat
correct he never says what a woman should do other than recieve
Not true. When you follow the Lord Jesus Christ it has no worries. Peterson doesn't even believe in the Trinity even after it's gone in 2027. Numbers and this world speak everything into none existent soon.