You don't ask God for a white husband you ask him for a good God-fearing husband who's gonna be a great father to your kids a great provider who's gonna love and respect them and stay by their side through everything.
Wanted to type this too. I don't believe in giving God a list pertaining to the man you end up marrying. God is wise. Simply asking for a husband which He wills for you is more than enough to end up with a loving man.
@@phoenixsheikh2079она говорила на другом канале, что хотела мзунгу и старше по годам от себя.Она пошла в отель с ним сразу, поехала в Россию не зная его, тпебовала чтоб бросил работу и все продал в России
It wasn’t BECAUSE he was white it was because she prayed for a color and not character God is not a shallow God. She definitely answered her own prayer.
She did ask for character - a good man that will take care of her. God answered a good man as she said just that he was bad tempered, other things she said he was nice to her, even loved to live in Kenya. But she's not living in God's perfect will, so she can't get God's perfect will, only his permissive will as she was living a permissive life as at when she met him.
What happened to Job in the Bible? What did he do to deserve all that happened to him? People should stop thinking they know God and because everything is going well for them that means they pray better
i am a white men from the Netherland and my wife is from Afrika we together for 17 years and everyday i treath her like a queen, she is my wife for life, her family is always welcome, sometimes her family stay for 6 month in our hous and thats fine by me. if we go to afrika her whole famlily threat us so good, we can stay as long if we want. i am a bless men
@Jan-dis1jq, You and also your wife are very lucky! May God bless you and your family🙏 There are many good men and women in the world and God bless them🙏
But what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color. This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
Very beautiful story telling. Exactly what I tell people on my channel. Interracial marriages are very complex and are not always a bed of roses. To Betty, thanks for sharing your story. I hope it empowers someone out there who is desperate and thinks a white man is the only way forward. God bless you and your little beautiful girls. Love from Germany 🇩🇪
Most marriages are not a bed of roses. I have a mixed marriage and things started getting bad when we moved to Africa. It didn't affect our relationship but it puts a lot of stress from the outside world unto the relationship and makes it much more complicated as in a developed country where everything is well organised and almost everything works. Here it's the opposite and my wife suffers with me
Not all interracial relationships are bad. I have been in mine for about 13 years. He is a kind good man. A gentleman. Don't look at race for love. Let love come naturally no matter the race. God bless you 🙏
Betty is honest. From all she said about him taking care of her when she was sick, travelling to Russia with her, moving back to Kenya because she wanted to, he loved her. Truth is that it was hard for him to live and earn in Kenya which was why he started drinking immediately. Betty, maybe you both could met yourselves half way to live both in Russia and Kenya. Because you both really wanted to be with each other. Your kids are beautiful. May you find so much joy in them. Try developing yourself and appreciating your blessings. Then take one day at a time. You are hugely blessed.
He was an alcoholic well before he moved to Kenya. He may have suppressed his violent tendencies in the beginning, but it’s who he is. Reconciling with him will only prove to him that she will allow him to treat poorly and abuse her, even if he is a provider. How many more strangulation attempts will it take for him to no longer be a good man? We are too delusional at times.
He was drinking in Russia too - why else would she have been alone all day? They had a business together, though there were problems, but the husband dealt with it the same way he always had - by drinking. But he was in Kenya now, so he had nowhere to go and that's why she had to witness his ugly side, his drinking... He was exposed - that's why he was always angry at her, bc he saw his own ugliness through her eyes. He didn't want to take responsibility for how his actions affected her or his children. Her husband is a loser...
@@valerycharles494 Let's not forget he also used her like she was a whore in the beginning. But her having a beautiful heart, wanting something more is what changed him... for a little while.
I don't know who needs to hear this, what you've passed or passing through can't be compared with the joy that awaits you. Soon your story will change forever for good❤❤❤
True. “The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it” -Proverbs 10:22 Note 👍: from the story, she did not marry the one that appeared after her prayers, she married his friend.
God can give you sorrow. If he wants you to realize your mistakes, and want you to be closer to him.if God test you will sorrow, that doesn't mean God doesn't love you
Why do women think getting a white man is the right thing? There’s bad in every race, but when we pray, because we want it so bad we immediately think God answered our prayer when the first person comes along, the red flag was when he offered money for sex, instantly she should have left because that man was not sent by God, my heart goes out to the children that God will not only heal their hearts but the mother as well. We as women must learn to wait on God and be able to identify when and if it’s God🙏🏽
And women today think getting a white is having it all internet has lied to us let’s find a good man God fearing no matter the race but today every woman is looking for a white too bad 😮
They were 3 guys... the handsome one who offered money and two others. Her husband was one of the two. At the time, her husband had a girlfriend....so the handsome guy she met at the beach was the one who offered money
I like the way Afrimax is keenly listening with all the gestures. Sometimes you really just want to be listened to as you pour away all the pain. It's a therapy.
ABSOLUTELY NOT NOT NOT THIS WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!?!!!!!!!!! THIS WOMAN is ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY EXTREMELY HAPPY BEING SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
she wore gold in Russia. What was she missing? She wanted to get his money, but she didn’t need a husband. An aggressive woman, her husband has scars on his body that she gave him
There are some people in comments who are very Judgemental, I appreciate her for taking the time to tell her story most people wouldn't..Instead of Judging lets learn something
It's not judging we should be held accountable for our actions. Most of african women believe marrying a whiteman solves their problems. Family members are the worst at this. God does not breed contempt neither does he bring confusion. The devil equally hears prayers that's why it's important to seek the face of God before anything.
I had a alcoholic husband as well I moved to America and he started to drink more and I saw that he started drinking more I separated from him and a few years later I divorced him. I worked 2 jobs and raised 4 kids and bought a house which is paid in full and retired now and thank God for everything he had done for me. We African women are very strong some don't realize it. I came from Africa as well. Thank you Lord Jesus 🙏 💓
She is very brave to tell her story. Everyone has a different story to tell about their lives. Let’s learn to respect one another’s life journey!!! My life is very brutal & dramatic, I cannot dare to tell , I have black out lots of my trauma. I real respect her vulnerability & openness of telling her traumatic story !!! Sending you strength & love sister ❤️
Never " need" a man..never want somebody to take care of you..never be afraid to leave. You still refer to him as your husband..that's a red flag and a sign that your open to taking him back..cut the ties
Never ran to another man after being heart broken take a break to build yourself emotionally check where you went wrong or where the previous guy went wrong build yourself up. Be fine alone then be careful moving into a new relationship
She is so brave and transparent. Most people are judgemental but she was naive. It happens to so many others. She is so brave to speak up even though people will shame her. I am happy she is strong, a survivor, and great personality. She is very admirable in my book. Sharing her story can help so many young women.
To be a Mom and raise 2 children is so difficult, much more to have a very irresponsible husband like him. He needs to be cured . He is an alcoholic. The lady is strong and brave
I married a God fearing man it was terrible being married to him, being god fearing and being a good husband are two different things be specific tell god all the qualities you need in a man.
If he abuses you, then he is not actually God fearing. No one fears God and behave ungodly. It is absolutely impossible except he or she is battling demons and in that case, they'll need deliverance 🙌🏽
I wish people would show compassion and grace with their comments. She admits she made mistakes and at that point she wanted her marriage to work, but it wasn’t with the right person. Betty, you’re a strong woman and I pray you find the peace you seek. May God be with you and give you wisdom to make better choices for yourself and your daughters. We are all allowed to make mistakes in life because there’s always a lesson in it. The interviewer was so graceful to allow her to share her story without interruption. Your next chance is coming up and I pray it’ll be one of peace and joy! All is well Betty!
This woman is a swindler, with hysterics she forced her husband to sell everything in Russia and leave for Kenya. And in Kenya she took everything away from her husband, and now she asks people, viewers for money for her maintenance, but she herself doesn’t want to go to work.
Hi betty i just watched ur full story which touched the bottom of my heart ,,it was actually a very beautiful story to hear from the beginning .....i wish it could end beautifully but its life ....sometimes things change in life and Pp change too ....but ur such a strong mom ....may u always b .....and u have this two beautiful daughters 😘 To take care of ....i hop that one day one time ur husband get the help that he needs and change and may u b reunited again forever....so this two daughters can grow up with the love of u both ...💕 otherwise if not may u get someone nice and faithful who will love u and take care of u ...and bring u happiness into ur life again 🥰and may u forget all ur tuff times u went through and suffers ......am a muslim mom i have lived in kenya b4 with my family am married to a white guy too and i can tell u that in every place in this world we have good and bad pp ....but if ur a Muslim u will get to know that this life no matter what we go through in this life its only a test for us from god ....and when u feel all a lone in this world and there's nobody to count ur tears ,just remember no matter where ur Allah knows ....and only him is the one who never tires of His servants asking Him, And Allah says in his holy book Of quran Surah az-Zumar 53. Say, “O My servants who have transgressed against their souls: do not despair of Allah’s mercy, for Allah forgives all sins. He is the Forgiving, the Merciful.” The Authority Of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said : "Our Lord (glorified and exalted be He) descends each night to the earth's sky when there remains the final third of the night, and He says: Who is saying a prayer to Me that I may answer it? Who is asking something of Me that I may give it him? Who is asking forgiveness of Me that I may forgive him?" Reporters. It was related by al-Bukhari (also by Muslim, Malik, at-Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud). ....................................... And Allah says in his holy book Of quran Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease. Verily, with the hardship, there is relief (i.e. there is one hardship with two reliefs, so one hardship cannot overcome two reliefs). So MY WISH AND HOP FOR U IS u to become A MUSLIM And to get to know more why God created us in this life ....and why sometimes we go through difficulties in life ...why is all that and how we should deal with all that in islam. The true way of life and the solution to every Matter and every calamity that befalls us . And u will find peace and light in islam and solutions for all ur problems in this world life . And i hop if one day u will b a Muslim that God bless u with a good Muslim husband who will show u THE TRUE LOVE in islam ....and b a good dad to ur kids . I will like to share this beautiful words from our prophet Muhammad that talks about husband.... The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The best of you are those who are best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” Narrated Allah says in his holy quran ((Treat them [women] with kindness The words “Treat them [women] with kindness” [an-Nisaa’ 4:19] mean: speak nicely to them, treat them kindly, make yourself look good for them as much as you can, just as you would like them to do for you. So treat (your wife) as you would like to be treated. Allah, may He be exalted. And He says too ....No calamity befalls (one), but with the leave of Allah. And whoever believes in Allah, He guides his heart. Allah is All-Knowing about every thing. No misfortune 1 ever befalls unless it be by Allah's leave. And always remember dear betty Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease. I hop i could help u more ....but i can only DO whatever i can ....i have Muslims Russians friends who r married to Russians men .....and ur story reminded me of many stories of my own friends who suffered from this kinds of life some of them not all of them ....coz i have lived in Kenya, france ,yemen and now am in mauritania ..... Wish u all the best ....💕Sarah...from mauritania🥰
The sad thing about it is that Betty depends on a man to provide but God is your provider. She will fall for the next individual quickly that comes into her life and I pray she considers those 2 little girls,,, you can’t just let any man into your space now!!!
I hope & pray you heal life can be very hard unfortunately we help bad situations because we want so bad to be loved sometimes we pick the wrong person 😲
Say it again for the people in the back!! Jesus Christ is the only one Who was able to save our damned spirits from hell! So, everything else is small potatoes in comparison!
Indeed, we are our own worst enemies worshipping white devils at the same time imbued with self loathing. The grass is never greener on the other side.
I realy like the way Betty express her story. She truly love her husband . if u listening to her statement that she still thinking on how to help him. Much love mama. God will make a way🙏
The lesson is be careful what you ask God for. Remember the story of Jonah in the bible what he asked for then regretted it? This lady seem to have issue with her own race and maybe God allowed her to find a whiteman to teach her a lesson saying good is in every race. Nothing is wrong in marrying another race but our motives must be correct. Some folks marry the white man and is not happy with the relationship but they believe they look cool to the outside world so they live a lie. An Inferiority complex.
@@khosiethabekhulu3497believe in or not there is a group of people in the United States that have been brainwashed to believe that being born white is a sin. They call themselves the Hebrew Israelites.
I am a "mzungu," and I have no idea why some people think that it's better to marry a mzungu. We are definitely not all rich, and wazungu have problems too! We are all human beings!
Your forefathers have polluted us into hating ourselves and believing that your race is superior than others. Nowadays the media is controlled and owned by your people and paint as low so we’ve been programmed to believe that white is right and black is wrong. But we are slowly waking up to the truth.
He really loved you, to leave everything behind and start fresh in Kenya. I think he became depressed when he came to Kenya, just the way you got depressed in Moscow. I pray God strengthens you both.
Very true. She needed to listen to him when he suggested to move from her village. He is also missing his job. Drinking started as a way of coping, then ended up escalating. Yes, he now needs medical help and help to go back to his country.
Sure, they both need healing.. this is a story with so many lessons to learn..and the good thing is there is hope for Betty, Sasha and the 2 lovely kids..
I can never judge or blame her. Growing up & being surrounded by pedophiles +sexist men I too had the assumption that a white husband/partner will be better!! Now am 34yrs old never married or had bfs, I am too traumatized and my only regret is that I may never be a mother. I pray she finds healing and may god protect my sisters out there. Ofcourse not all interracial relationships are doomed!! It's just certain men are attracted to desperate women! Sadly she too was naive in her fantasy about a relationship with western men and her inexperience didn't help either! I appreciate her transparency
Been with my white man for 25 years and we are still in love. We had some hurdles along the way, but we always worked them out. There is something deeper going on here, please be strong
@@alabra3350I believe in marriage, I am interacial marriage, but that young lady betty SHOULD never be beaten by Anyone. Sasha probally WAS a good man but he needs therapy b4 a wife.
Dear Betty, my lovely sister from Embu..there is hope for you..from today, please re-trace your steps and start afresh coz you can do it. Forgive yourself and Sasha as well... start going for therapy too..I'm praying for you and i look forward to hear the new wonderful story that is being birthed from now.. I too I'm on an intentional healing journey and i pray we succeed in this new chapter of our lives..our tomorrow will be greater than today 🙏
Well central Kenya women are golddiggers. You know what your doing don't blame the man he play game your playing..Now you got kids with him you will have to be rich for another man to accept you
In her journey I strongly believe the women in her family, gave her advice yet she refused to listen to instructions. GOD always give you a warning before destruction.
Whether it's a strong belief, I also strongly belief opinions aren't actually the truth, you can't have a strong belief of someone's chaotic life from just listening to a one hour clip...
What a tragedy. It's so sad that two people who loved each other fell apart in such away. Its not a matter of colour, it's communication. Im sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person Betty.
Betty has a heart of Gold,she just need some help to push along and break the cycle of dependence, she and her girls will make it, May God provide her with what she needs
You weren't specific about your prayer. You just prayed for a white man. You got a white man. You didn't ask for a kind, thoughtful, loving person, someone who would treat you with respect. Your prayer was granted as you requested.
He was kind and thoughtful until when she frustrated him and made him leave his good job in Russia, to move back with her to Kenya; how can she say she was lonely just because her husband went to work weekdays just to earn a good living for them; if it were possible, I believe he would have tried working from home just to please her and make her stay with him, but due to the nature of his job. She herself confirmed that he never hit all through the time they lived together in Russia and she described his temper AND HER temper as minor issues back then, even saying he treated her as a queen; so why didn't she just stay and focus on the benefits in her home in Russia. Now everything is shattered, the innocent children are suffering, and the man is now a shadow of his once upon a time successful self. Her insisting on leaving him in Russia to go back to Kenya with his child, resulted to a worse situation for them all. She should reconcile with him, and HUMBLY HELP him overcome the problems her decision has caused them all. Also the family was not God-centred, nor prayerful, nor involving God in their decisions. They need to repent too
He was actually a good man. You can see that he was very determined to keep his family together. He was just frustrated. The village is no place for foreigners, especially men. They need a place where they can work and meet people who relates to them. She was equally miserable in Russia but she had a baby and a house to keep her busy. She still almost went crazy. That situation could have been managed with better understanding.
She was poor and uneducated. These types are not good for relationships because they think money comes from trees, and often they don't appreciate. It's not about the village. Men can survive alone, while women are dependents putting pressure on the husband.
@sianrapei691 this is the comment i was looking for, the man loved this woman but a lot of misunderstanding took place. its sad because most of relationships break like this. the story of the passport says it all. he went to the point of thiniking she hit his passport which she ddnt. i hope she finds peace she is a good woman. wish her well and the kids.
dear sister. that man loved you ...he left everything he had in Russia because of you and had to start from scratch in kenya - this was not easy. just as it was not easy for you in Russia. May the Lord heal both of you. Love and prayers.
этот человек любил алкоголь больше чем жену . Он променял семью и детей на алкоголь . Он пропил квартиру , которая досталась ему от матери , а из России он уехал тоже изза проблем с алкоголем , его выгоняли с работы и новую найти было все тяжелее . Захотел стать белым господином в Кении .
@@acr-f4o ч не против , иметь много денег это отлично , главное не жадничать , а помогать тем у кого их нет . Вот я и помогаю кенийской семье российского алкоголика . А ты помогаешь этому алкоголику на ежедневную выпивку . Я детям алкоголика намеду и жизнь , ты алкоголику на виски , сигареты и проституток .
@@nicklaus8536Вы оба ошибаетесь. Саша и в России был и плохим человеком и алкоголиком. От него ушла первая русская жена. И Саша обманул своего сына. Он абьюзер и расист. Приехал в Кению быть белым господином, надеялся,что рабство еще не кончилось
What's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color. This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
Remember the way you met him,He was supposed to get deliverance from those spirits and start a new life with you,you are such a Beautiful strong young woman Power to you!❤
In Norway, we have a saying that translates to something like «If you move, the goblins come with you!» («goblins» are beings that represent all your problems, your problematic husband or wife etc. etc.). So when you have a lot of problems, just moving somewhere else won’t help you. You have to deal with your problems, face them right on, or nothing will be better. Wishing her the very best!!! ❤❤❤✝️⚓️💟❤❤❤
love this saying. I will use this in future. So true. Great story by the way and a very beautiful woman too! Greetings from a Kenyan hustling in Toronto!
I am from Northern Zambia (Bemba by ethnicity) and we have a similar saying "Leprechaun, like our shadows, can never leave us alone. They will forever follow us where ever we go" This means pretty much like your saying in Norway and can also mean a lot other things such as "You can never escape problems or death as we are all susceptible to personal problems (Finances, personal bills, relationship problems, ill-health and even death). And as relates death, it said that death is the only destination we all share, rich or poor, white or black, Asian, Yellow, brown, male, female, gay, straight, religious or not, educated or not, foreigner or local" It also assumes that merely being born in country A and migrating to country B, will not stop you from being sick or dying. You will certainly get sick or die wherever you will go. So what are you to do? Live and let live! Face your problems head-on and deal with them...never rely on others to SORT out your problems.
@@saidatabby4797wrong!!! Humans are all human and breath same way an bleed same way!! We are ALL the same other than some have more melanin than others but other than skin colour we are ALL the same!! HUMANS!!! We ALL bleed n breath the same regardless of colour of skin ❤❤
@@Teestar519 Europeans don't think that whatsoever! They ONLY appear to be happy when Africans [Blacks] are suffering. Our skin tone tells a story, and for centuries Europeans have deemed those with darker skin ugly, ungodly, untrustworthy, and unworthy
This is very big lessons for women not to be desperate for men,but wait on GOD TIME,and our destined husband will come,not a devil in human,some women call husbands.I really think for the little kids🙏🏽for them to find themselves in such situation.I hope many desperate women will learn from her story,thank GOD for his guidance 🙏🏽
I can relate, living in our unfinished house, starting up a chicken farm, neighbours Stealing from us, our expectations differing, continous disagreements, confusion, drug abuse,and desperation at some point. My foreign husband wanted so bad to live in kenya but i faced him and told him how hard it was for a business to survive there. We relocated to his country, i would say, the only bad thing there ,was the boredom, being new, but as time passes by you get used and get into the system, work hard and make your own money( which is the best solution)
You can’t find love with someone else if your don’t love yourself enough first and have a relationship with the Most High. My God bless her and children and keep them. Heal there hearts from the trauma that they all have suffered.
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
I had a similar life as yours. Yet my husband was never a drinker. He copied the life of his parents and replayed their role for 25yrs. But being a strong woman and strong in my faith. GOD turned him into a new humble man. We now together 34yrs
There's no way we can demonize this man. I would say he was a good loving man who surrendered everything in Russian that he owned and followed the woman in a third world country to start from nothing. The man seems to have been going through some mental or psychological problems that needed some therapy. I wish they sought that kind of help right from the beginning; their marriage would have survived. The woman seemed also not to understand that then. Good that she understands the man needs some help. Someone please reach out to him for help. I don't think naturally he was a bad person. May God help him out.
You are quite right. The man made lots of sacrifices. They both loved each other but here we see love is not nearly enough to withstand it the hash realities of interracial union. You can't completely detach from your root without conflict that may lead to having psychological trauma as you try so hard to make compromise. It's a sad story.
Though so young, but such an encouragement to many. May God continue to bless the work of your hands and know that you will make it and your children are blessed!
Never dare God... the moment u said if u dont give me am gonna end my life it was not God who answered ur prayer ..the devil took control...am sorry dear..for all u have gone through..God will see u through
Thank you for sharing your story. There is a great sense if honesty in your description. Tell your story. Dont mind the fortunate souls in the comment section, with all the right answers. You are beautiful.
God's light never goes out. He is ever present and awake to our needs!" There are so many different obstacles that I face as a single mom. I’m struggling to make ends meet. Both of my sons are special needs and require much from me. I keep faith because I know that God will provide. So as I struggle to buy groceries for my children, and as I struggle to pay rent every month. I turn to God! He is our provider. He is our God. He will strengthen us.
I'm so sorry for you my sister 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂you're strong you'll heal the biggest step you've taken is to admit you made a mistake from that admission you have paved your healing road❤❤❤
Yeah what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color. This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously. Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite! Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders. Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him? Let's see how long this post is up...
Praying to Have a "White" Husband is not a PRAYER. God doesn't look people color. You should have prayed to have a God fearing man, period. Regardless of the color of His skin. Hope you learned Your lesson. There is good and bad everywhere. The color of the person doesn' t garantee You Happiness.
Took this woman an AWFULLY LONG time to FINALLY put distance between she & that monster of a husband. The ONLY good that came out of that relationship are those two beautiful kiddos. Wish her & her babies ALL the very best moving forward. Prayers.🙏🏽
That's the main disadvantage of getting married young to someone older than you if it happens to be bad it's hard to realize for many that they are being consumed in a relationship that would have ended
Unfortunately there are so many evil beings out there - so many 😥 Many of us learn the grass ain't always greener on the other side and that applies to many situations. May Betty and her family find peace and joy.
No one is seeing the fact that she made him sell his house in Russia and made him reside in Africa to farm. How on earth do you expect him to be mentally stable.
Just like it was uneasy for you living in Moscow, he was depressed living in kenya too. He dealt with it all alone. You just needed to be closer to him.
@@YOUROLDFRIEND666 that’s right. The Russian was living a different kind of life deep in the village he needed her fully yet she was focused on something else. Being dependent on the man is also nagging
That is why often GOD DOESN'T give us what we want.What we think,is good for us.He gives us what WE NEED.For he knows what we need.He knows what is BEST for us.
God give us what we pray for. When I was 17yrs I prayed for a white young man . who will love me for the rest of my life and understanding person. And also love my family that we both live together all my life. And god answered my prayers. We are now happly married since 17 yrs together and still In love everyday of our life😂❤❤ im greatful to who answered all prayer
She thought WHITE was better instead of recognizing it isn't the color it is the heart. I hope she learned!
We're in a white supremacist world ... big influence...no??
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You can't say that even some black men do that!
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Most African do and they stereotype African Americans especially the men!
When I got disappointed with relationships, I went back to school and added value to myself.
Wow. Deep
Exactly, good
Exactly she is half baked
That's true as woman we have to upgrade ourselves before letting someone to help you so that you'll be respected
Good move..me also..
Upgrading
You don't ask God for a white husband you ask him for a good God-fearing husband who's gonna be a great father to your kids a great provider who's gonna love and respect them and stay by their side through everything.
Wanted to type this too. I don't believe in giving God a list pertaining to the man you end up marrying. God is wise. Simply asking for a husband which He wills for you is more than enough to end up with a loving man.
Definitely,but she ask a husband not describing what kind of a man she wanted ……
@@phoenixsheikh2079она говорила на другом канале, что хотела мзунгу и старше по годам от себя.Она пошла в отель с ним сразу, поехала в Россию не зная его, тпебовала чтоб бросил работу и все продал в России
Don't pin this on God, He didn't give you this man
Exactly
It wasn’t BECAUSE he was white it was because she prayed for a color and not character God is not a shallow God. She definitely answered her own prayer.
She did ask for character - a good man that will take care of her. God answered a good man as she said just that he was bad tempered, other things she said he was nice to her, even loved to live in Kenya. But she's not living in God's perfect will, so she can't get God's perfect will, only his permissive will as she was living a permissive life as at when she met him.
Satan hears your prayers to God ..He sent that Man for her ..Bad Stuff ftom the Devil
Yes. You saying right
Preach that truth.
What happened to Job in the Bible? What did he do to deserve all that happened to him? People should stop thinking they know God and because everything is going well for them that means they pray better
i am a white men from the Netherland and my wife is from Afrika we together for 17 years and everyday i treath her like a queen, she is my wife for life, her family is always welcome, sometimes her family stay for 6 month in our hous and thats fine by me.
if we go to afrika her whole famlily threat us so good, we can stay as long if we want.
i am a bless men
Which country because Africa is a large continent…
Gentlemen like you are rare
@Jan-dis1jq,
You and also your wife are very lucky! May God bless you and your family🙏
There are many good men and women in the world and God bless them🙏
Yes as you are from the Netherlands and not Europe. So where in Africa is your queen from?
Really
Bad marriage can kill you but being single won't kill you 🙏
Asked God for white husband she’s a wicked woman what’s wrong with black husband 😂😂
YAH❤❤
Being single can also kill unless one pray for self-control. 😊
Preach!!!!!
Not always. My innocent cousin was in her home minding her business and she was single 😢
She has a great sense of humor and personality. The greater the storm. The brighter the rainbow!
But what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color.
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously.
Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite!
Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders.
Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him?
Let's see how long this post is up...
Send her money
@ why don’t you pluck your public hairs and send it for her to cash in instead!
I really like the interviewer, it's the second interview I see of him and he seems so interested and full off compassion.
True. I love that about him.
Ladies!!!
Let's not be in a Rush getting into Marriage instead Pray wholeheartedly, God's a good listener & he answers Prayers.
Fact 👌
It could happen to anyone
@@marshawright4002 DON'T BE A VICTIM.....👌🏾💯💯✌🏾😎
+@@bukolaodunayo3269
Amen
I thank God for answered prayers and the unanswered prayers too. If God doesn’t answer a prayer, be glad about that too. He knows what you don’t know.
Truth
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100% agree with you
@rhone793,
Exactly! You're a wise individual 👍👏👏👏🙏
Very beautiful story telling. Exactly what I tell people on my channel. Interracial marriages are very complex and are not always a bed of roses. To Betty, thanks for sharing your story. I hope it empowers someone out there who is desperate and thinks a white man is the only way forward. God bless you and your little beautiful girls. Love from Germany 🇩🇪
@@OdunZee thank you 🙏
She's poisoned her womb with that devil's seed.
Most marriages are not a bed of roses. I have a mixed marriage and things started getting bad when we moved to Africa. It didn't affect our relationship but it puts a lot of stress from the outside world unto the relationship and makes it much more complicated as in a developed country where everything is well organised and almost everything works. Here it's the opposite and my wife suffers with me
В накладе она не осталась .
Not all interracial relationships are bad. I have been in mine for about 13 years. He is a kind good man. A gentleman. Don't look at race for love. Let love come naturally no matter the race. God bless you 🙏
Betty is honest. From all she said about him taking care of her when she was sick, travelling to Russia with her, moving back to Kenya because she wanted to, he loved her. Truth is that it was hard for him to live and earn in Kenya which was why he started drinking immediately. Betty, maybe you both could met yourselves half way to live both in Russia and Kenya. Because you both really wanted to be with each other. Your kids are beautiful. May you find so much joy in them. Try developing yourself and appreciating your blessings. Then take one day at a time. You are hugely blessed.
exactly . him moving to Kenya was a bad sign. it will be hard for him to work in Kenya amd adjust
He was an alcoholic well before he moved to Kenya. He may have suppressed his violent tendencies in the beginning, but it’s who he is. Reconciling with him will only prove to him that she will allow him to treat poorly and abuse her, even if he is a provider. How many more strangulation attempts will it take for him to no longer be a good man? We are too delusional at times.
she could have said she wants to visit her parents because of emergency and leave never to go back again
He was drinking in Russia too - why else would she have been alone all day? They had a business together, though there were problems, but the husband dealt with it the same way he always had - by drinking. But he was in Kenya now, so he had nowhere to go and that's why she had to witness his ugly side, his drinking... He was exposed - that's why he was always angry at her, bc he saw his own ugliness through her eyes. He didn't want to take responsibility for how his actions affected her or his children. Her husband is a loser...
@@valerycharles494 Let's not forget he also used her like she was a whore in the beginning. But her having a beautiful heart, wanting something more is what changed him... for a little while.
No one deserves to be abused. I hope Betty is doing well she uses humor to help deal with the abuse. She was naive but brave and brutally honest.
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Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
I agree, absolutely that she was genuine lazima
There is the husband version
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I don't know who needs to hear this, what you've passed or passing through can't be compared with the joy that awaits you. Soon your story will change forever for good❤❤❤
Amen ...I tap into that blessings
Slaves said that same EXACT statement 400+ years ago. As Africans [Blacks] we MUST practice racial purity!!!!
God gave her a white man. Exactly what she wanted :).
Very true
I needed to hear this 🙏🏾 Amen
The devil answered NOT God, God does not add sorrow to his blessings. May God heal you and your children 🙏
" God does not bring sorrow to blessings "
Love this.
True. “The blessing of the LORD, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it” -Proverbs 10:22
Note 👍: from the story, she did not marry the one that appeared after her prayers, she married his friend.
God can give you sorrow. If he wants you to realize your mistakes, and want you to be closer to him.if God test you will sorrow, that doesn't mean God doesn't love you
@@RamaMohammed-x3v Proverbs 10:22.
Sure we have to be keen
God protect us all from evil people
Don't ever let a man stop you from going to school. Never depend on a man for money. Get your degrees and be independent.
That’s what am planning right now 🥲🥹
Exactly 🙌💪🏼👍🙏
Why do women think getting a white man is the right thing? There’s bad in every race, but when we pray, because we want it so bad we immediately think God answered our prayer when the first person comes along, the red flag was when he offered money for sex, instantly she should have left because that man was not sent by God, my heart goes out to the children that God will not only heal their hearts but the mother as well. We as women must learn to wait on God and be able to identify when and if it’s God🙏🏽
Perfect response. Love your reasoning.
And women today think getting a white is having it all internet has lied to us let’s find a good man God fearing no matter the race but today every woman is looking for a white too bad 😮
He married his friend, you didn't listen well. The one who offered the money he didn't even know the English so they went apart
It's called self hate
They were 3 guys... the handsome one who offered money and two others. Her husband was one of the two. At the time, her husband had a girlfriend....so the handsome guy she met at the beach was the one who offered money
I like the way Afrimax is keenly listening with all the gestures. Sometimes you really just want to be listened to as you pour away all the pain. It's a therapy.
Strange situation
Yes, the Interviewer is the BEST❤. So patient and sincerely listening.
Weird editing choices to play clips of him beaming in her face while she’s talking about very dark parts in her marriage
@monet3320 very very weird glad I'm not the only one that noticed
I don't know why women think been single is a crime not every marriage is from God almighty
ABSOLUTELY NOT NOT NOT THIS WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!?!!!!!!!!! THIS WOMAN is ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY ABSOLUTELY EXTREMELY HAPPY BEING SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
not a crime but we all love a good marriage
Don't say every woman talks about those you know
We are supposed to be married to 1 person, so she wasn't doing anything wrong, but he obviously was just their to purchase whores
she wore gold in Russia. What was she missing? She wanted to get his money, but she didn’t need a husband. An aggressive woman, her husband has scars on his body that she gave him
I love her sense of humor, she’s beautiful and she has a testimony
There are some people in comments who are very Judgemental, I appreciate her for taking the time to tell her story most people wouldn't..Instead of Judging lets learn something
Those judges have no empathy. It make me sick.
It's not judging we should be held accountable for our actions. Most of african women believe marrying a whiteman solves their problems. Family members are the worst at this. God does not breed contempt neither does he bring confusion. The devil equally hears prayers that's why it's important to seek the face of God before anything.
@@Arielzis You do realize that you just judged them too?
What did you learn from her story?
@@erickamiller458 I learnt that I would never have the guts to tell my life story😅 She's brave trust me
I had a alcoholic husband as well I moved to America and he started to drink more and I saw that he started drinking more I separated from him and a few years later I divorced him. I worked 2 jobs and raised 4 kids and bought a house which is paid in full and retired now and thank God for everything he had done for me. We African women are very strong some don't realize it. I came from Africa as well. Thank you Lord Jesus 🙏 💓
@sharrelgrootboom. All women are strong.
@@tinkerbell1666: NOT AT ALL.
Most women are weak. I know so!
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@@Intrigankatru I just translated this - it seems you know the couple well and this reporter should have asked husbands side of story.
All women are strong. From every country, I'm from Peru, South America but I don't just see just kne race of women being a strong woman.
She is very brave to tell her story. Everyone has a different story to tell about their lives. Let’s learn to respect one another’s life journey!!! My life is very brutal & dramatic, I cannot dare to tell , I have black out lots of my trauma. I real respect her vulnerability & openness of telling her traumatic story !!! Sending you strength & love sister ❤️
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What ever you are going through, I'm praying for you ❤️ no one deserves to be messed treated. Prayers sent for you.
I pray you are healing from whatever trauma you went thru. No one deserves that. Take care and sending you lots of love and virtual hugs! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
@@pambeforethestorm9784 Thank you so much ❤️
@@sureiamboo you are more than welcome ❤️❤️
Never " need" a man..never want somebody to take care of you..never be afraid to leave. You still refer to him as your husband..that's a red flag and a sign that your open to taking him back..cut the ties
Never ran to another man after being heart broken take a break to build yourself emotionally check where you went wrong or where the previous guy went wrong build yourself up. Be fine alone then be careful moving into a new relationship
Good advice i would also be wise to advice her the same,let het settle her mind and weigh out what she want to do in her life
Yes,but some people can be jumping from one relation to another
My advice to you is to go to school even trade school. Never depend on a man for your survival and that should be the lesson learned.
Completely right
Amen 👏🏾
She is so brave and transparent. Most people are judgemental but she was naive. It happens to so many others. She is so brave to speak up even though people will shame her. I am happy she is strong, a survivor, and great personality. She is very admirable in my book. Sharing her story can help so many young women.
Yeah, I agree. You're 💯% correct 👍🏾
Agrée 😊
Betty's Stories from Kenya is her channel
To be a Mom and raise 2 children is so difficult, much more to have a very irresponsible husband like him. He needs to be cured . He is an alcoholic. The lady is strong and brave
😢check out the Bull before you buy them could be a fighting Bull.
So touching i pray she heal and bless her . Thanks for using English. Love from 🇿🇦
The best prayer as a woman is to pray for a God fearing man. Not by color, tribe,etc... just a God fearing Man.
I married a God fearing man it was terrible being married to him, being god fearing and being a good husband are two different things be specific tell god all the qualities you need in a man.
If he abuses you, then he is not actually God fearing. No one fears God and behave ungodly. It is absolutely impossible except he or she is battling demons and in that case, they'll need deliverance 🙌🏽
Exactly
Even the devil fears God😊
God fearing man?!?!? Good luck with that.
I wish people would show compassion and grace with their comments. She admits she made mistakes and at that point she wanted her marriage to work, but it wasn’t with the right person. Betty, you’re a strong woman and I pray you find the peace you seek. May God be with you and give you wisdom to make better choices for yourself and your daughters. We are all allowed to make mistakes in life because there’s always a lesson in it. The interviewer was so graceful to allow her to share her story without interruption. Your next chance is coming up and I pray it’ll be one of peace and joy! All is well Betty!
This woman is a swindler, with hysterics she forced her husband to sell everything in Russia and leave for Kenya. And in Kenya she took everything away from her husband, and now she asks people, viewers for money for her maintenance, but she herself doesn’t want to go to work.
Yeah...I married a " white" man instead of I married the wrong man. Attention ho
excellent comment
Well I wish I never married my "black" husband...maybe that's what people have a problem with. you think ???
@@lindacouncil1353 i didn’t elude to race, I focused on the person. So context please?
When God sends you someone to share your life with, He doesn't send you a broken person for you to fix.
Beautifully said and so true!!! 💖💕💖💕💛✨️✨️✨️
But God doesn't always send you what you want but what you NEED! Maybe, finally this experience helped her grow up and be independent.
AMEN. ABUSIVE N JERKY. OMG. HE WAS A devil🛑✝️ 9:45 . 🛑👺👹👺👹👹👹🛑✝️😇😇😇😇😇✝️🛑🙏🏾
@@sandrabentley8111THIS IS NOT GOD. ABUSIVE JERK.
@@katherinebilly6991 Hallelujah
Hi betty i just watched ur full story which touched the bottom of my heart ,,it was actually a very beautiful story to hear from the beginning .....i wish it could end beautifully but its life ....sometimes things change in life and Pp change too ....but ur such a strong mom ....may u always b .....and u have this two beautiful daughters 😘 To take care of ....i hop that one day one time ur husband get the help that he needs and change and may u b reunited again forever....so this two daughters can grow up with the love of u both ...💕 otherwise if not may u get someone nice and faithful who will love u and take care of u ...and bring u happiness into ur life again 🥰and may u forget all ur tuff times u went through and suffers ......am a muslim mom i have lived in kenya b4 with my family am married to a white guy too and i can tell u that in every place in this world we have good and bad pp ....but if ur a Muslim u will get to know that this life no matter what we go through in this life its only a test for us from god ....and when u feel all a lone in this world and there's nobody to count ur tears ,just remember no matter where ur Allah knows ....and only him is the one who never tires of His servants asking Him,
And Allah says in his holy book Of quran
Surah az-Zumar
53. Say, “O My servants who have transgressed against their souls: do not despair of Allah’s mercy, for Allah forgives all sins. He is the Forgiving, the Merciful.”
The Authority Of Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him)
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said : "Our Lord (glorified and exalted be He) descends each night to the earth's sky when there remains the final third of the night, and He says: Who is saying a prayer to Me that I may answer it?
Who is asking something of Me
that I may give it him?
Who is asking forgiveness of Me that I may forgive him?"
Reporters.
It was related by al-Bukhari (also by Muslim, Malik, at-Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud).
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And Allah says in his holy book Of quran
Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease.
Verily, with the hardship, there is relief (i.e. there is one hardship with two reliefs, so one hardship cannot overcome two reliefs).
So MY WISH AND HOP FOR U IS u to become A MUSLIM And to get to know more why God created us in this life ....and why sometimes we go through difficulties in life ...why is all that and how we should deal with all that in islam.
The true way of life and the solution to every Matter and every calamity that befalls us .
And u will find peace and light in islam and solutions for all ur problems in this world life .
And i hop if one day u will b a Muslim that God bless u with a good Muslim husband who will show u THE TRUE LOVE in islam ....and b a good dad to ur kids .
I will like to share this beautiful words from our prophet Muhammad that talks about husband....
The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The best of you are those who are best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” Narrated
Allah says in his holy quran ((Treat them [women] with kindness
The words “Treat them [women] with kindness” [an-Nisaa’ 4:19] mean: speak nicely to them, treat them kindly, make yourself look good for them as much as you can, just as you would like them to do for you. So treat (your wife) as you would like to be treated. Allah, may He be exalted.
And He says too ....No calamity befalls (one), but with the leave of Allah. And whoever believes in Allah, He guides his heart. Allah is All-Knowing about every thing. No misfortune 1 ever befalls unless it be by Allah's leave.
And always remember dear betty
Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease.
I hop i could help u more ....but i can only DO whatever i can ....i have Muslims Russians friends who r married to Russians men .....and ur story reminded me of many stories of my own friends who suffered from this kinds of life some of them not all of them ....coz i have lived in Kenya, france ,yemen and now am in mauritania .....
Wish u all the best ....💕Sarah...from mauritania🥰
She is an honest girl and a good story teller. I love her energy. Im from Uganda. You girl God will see you through oo
The sad thing about it is that Betty depends on a man to provide but God is your provider. She will fall for the next individual quickly that comes into her life and I pray she considers those 2 little girls,,, you can’t just let any man into your space now!!!
Yes. She should stand on her own provide for herself and kids. Set an example for all others not get the next man ..
I hope & pray you heal life can be very hard unfortunately we help bad situations because we want so bad to be loved sometimes we pick the wrong person 😲
Amen!!! Now it’s about protecting her two girls!!!
Say it again for the people in the back!! Jesus Christ is the only one Who was able to save our damned spirits from hell! So, everything else is small potatoes in comparison!
Everyone makes mistakes
It wasn't God that answered your prayers, you answered your own prayers.
Exactly
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Indeed, we are our own worst enemies worshipping white devils at the same time imbued with self loathing. The grass is never greener on the other side.
So insentive of you guys, at least empathize with her.
@@nightingale2987😂😂😂 what are lies!!😂😂😂
I realy like the way Betty express her story.
She truly love her husband .
if u listening to her statement that she still thinking on how to help him.
Much love mama.
God will make a way🙏
She is a very strong and patient woman.She deserves nothing but the best.
She was desperate asf and unfortunately many black girls think the same
It was not GOD that answered your prayers my dear, The blessing of GOD add no sorrow. Every good and perfect gift comes from GOD.
I disagree! He's her husband but she is the cause of him to fall apart.
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021yes yes
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021алкоголь стал причиной развала семьи.
@@juliennesoniamalabomakong9021How you know???
GOD told you that???
The lesson is be careful what you ask God for. Remember the story of Jonah in the bible what he asked for then regretted it? This lady seem to have issue with her own race and maybe God allowed her to find a whiteman to teach her a lesson saying good is in every race. Nothing is wrong in marrying another race but our motives must be correct. Some folks marry the white man and is not happy with the relationship but they believe they look cool to the outside world so they live a lie. An Inferiority complex.
All young men and women please ask God for a godly partner that fill with peace, joy, love and understanding. Never ask God for a color partner.
but white Jesus!!!
User!
Exactly💯💯💯👍👍👍
💯 true
@@cinnamonstar808According to? And what is wrong with being white? Is it a sin? Is it wrong?
@@khosiethabekhulu3497believe in or not there is a group of people in the United States that have been brainwashed to believe that being born white is a sin. They call themselves the Hebrew Israelites.
Thanks!
Alcohol always destroys family always.
imagine saudu arabia is now actually allowing alcohol to be sold and drunk there,they shall all become zombies in the future.
Vodka is their food because of the weather
And Russian men are extremely heavy drinkers.
True
She drinks too
I am a "mzungu," and I have no idea why some people think that it's better to marry a mzungu. We are definitely not all rich, and wazungu have problems too! We are all human beings!
Your forefathers have polluted us into hating ourselves and believing that your race is superior than others. Nowadays the media is controlled and owned by your people and paint as low so we’ve been programmed to believe that white is right and black is wrong. But we are slowly waking up to the truth.
its a persons choice to date a certain race. character has nothing to do with colour
That's exactly what she's saying @@SMCharacters
@user-jr8ou8ui8m u didn't understand comment
Not all want white men for their wealth, maybe want cappuccino babies
He really loved you, to leave everything behind and start fresh in Kenya. I think he became depressed when he came to Kenya, just the way you got depressed in Moscow. I pray God strengthens you both.
True
Exactly.
Very true. She needed to listen to him when he suggested to move from her village. He is also missing his job. Drinking started as a way of coping, then ended up escalating. Yes, he now needs medical help and help to go back to his country.
True
Sure, they both need healing.. this is a story with so many lessons to learn..and the good thing is there is hope for Betty, Sasha and the 2 lovely kids..
I can never judge or blame her. Growing up & being surrounded by pedophiles +sexist men I too had the assumption that a white husband/partner will be better!! Now am 34yrs old never married or had bfs, I am too traumatized and my only regret is that I may never be a mother. I pray she finds healing and may god protect my sisters out there. Ofcourse not all interracial relationships are doomed!! It's just certain men are attracted to desperate women! Sadly she too was naive in her fantasy about a relationship with western men and her inexperience didn't help either! I appreciate her transparency
God answered your prayer to give other women this awareness...God has his own way of things.... your a strong lady
Been with my white man for 25 years and we are still in love. We had some hurdles along the way, but we always worked them out. There is something deeper going on here, please be strong
Exactly ! People focusing on the fact that the husband was white …this can happen with anyone 🥹
YOU don't know yet, he wants YOU to be old and he's going to divorce you
🎉 by my
Advice her please. Most people in the comments are enemies of marriage. Sasha is a good man. Three years with her in Russia isn't a short time.
@@alabra3350I believe in marriage, I am interacial marriage, but that young lady betty SHOULD never be beaten by Anyone. Sasha probally WAS a good man but he needs therapy b4 a wife.
From this story I have learned a lesson. Pray for a God fearing man 🙏🏽
She dishonored her ancestors. Anytime you do that things go bad
Amen for me too
Am telling u,dats wat my mum always say pray for a God fearing man
And don’t marry outside your race!!!!
Those are worse
I am so sorry for what she went through. Sometimes you are better off a lone than in an abusive relationship.
Not sometimes. ALWAYS!!!!!
@@78SR yes. Better alone than in an abusive relationship.
@@LindaTinahTV Our sister allowed her self-hate blind her to the realities of Europeans.
Dear Betty, my lovely sister from Embu..there is hope for you..from today, please re-trace your steps and start afresh coz you can do it. Forgive yourself and Sasha as well... start going for therapy too..I'm praying for you and i look forward to hear the new wonderful story that is being birthed from now..
I too I'm on an intentional healing journey and i pray we succeed in this new chapter of our lives..our tomorrow will be greater than today 🙏
Well central Kenya women are golddiggers. You know what your doing don't blame the man he play game your playing..Now you got kids with him you will have to be rich for another man to accept you
Amen
Níati my namesake
Most of us experience,heart break... pick up the pieces and move on.
I've experienced heartbreak and I'm still healing
Yes! me moving on with 5 kids God on our side
@@gloryruth615 My mom moved on with four,most of us women still hurting...we can't sit around...we have to do it especially for our children.
😢💔🙏 So encouraging. So happy she is ok and smiling and continuing on with her life. Hope her husband gets the help he needs. 🙏
It's not the color of the skin or religion that defines a person, it is their free will to make the best choices in life.
Религия важна
When the person you love wants to leave, please allow them to go and if they are meant for you they will surely come back. Than ending in blood shade.
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Yes always let them go it get so bad if you force them to stay
Beautiful vlog oh Gugu your topic touched me. Turned 45 and married still no kids , but will never give up on having kids. Thanks Gugu❤❤❤❤
Her energy & spirit is beautiful ❤❤❤
Life abroad can be very lonely. Even in English speaking countries like UK, you can still feel alone as people keep to themselves
I agree
Very true
💯💯💯💯
Which country are you
💯💯💯💯💯💯 correct I can testify to that into your courts room loneliness is a last name in UK
In her journey I strongly believe the women in her family, gave her advice yet she refused to listen to instructions. GOD always give you a warning before destruction.
Whether it's a strong belief, I also strongly belief opinions aren't actually the truth, you can't have a strong belief of someone's chaotic life from just listening to a one hour clip...
The owner of the shoes knows where it hurts.
Do not judge this lady.
Life happens but God is truly faithful ❤
People are not praying for an answer from God. Ok.
Love you for your comment darling!! Thank you!!❤
What a tragedy. It's so sad that two people who loved each other fell apart in such away. Its not a matter of colour, it's communication. Im sorry for your loss. You are an amazing person Betty.
Betty's story from Kenya is her channel
Betty has a heart of Gold,she just need some help to push along and break the cycle of dependence, she and her girls will make it, May God provide her with what she needs
Be careful for what you wish for
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Right
Kan
Ikr...
Exactly👍👍👍💯💯💯
God's answers never back fire....when you pray ask for confirmation from God❤
Atimes God give us what he want especially when we insist the prayer should be in accordance to his will.
This man loved her no one is perfect
Life is not a bed of roses. You take the thorns with the flowers. Perfection does not exist. Beware what you pray for
Exactly 💯💯💯👍👍👍
You weren't specific about your prayer.
You just prayed for a white man.
You got a white man.
You didn't ask for a kind, thoughtful, loving person, someone who would treat you with respect.
Your prayer was granted as you requested.
21:11 21:20 21:20 21:35 21:35
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21:11 21:20 21:20 21:35 21:35
Exactly 👌🏾 God knows that people are strong headed and don’t listen so He will leave you to your fate after giving you clear red flags 🚩
He was kind and thoughtful until when she frustrated him and made him leave his good job in Russia, to move back with her to Kenya; how can she say she was lonely just because her husband went to work weekdays just to earn a good living for them; if it were possible, I believe he would have tried working from home just to please her and make her stay with him, but due to the nature of his job. She herself confirmed that he never hit all through the time they lived together in Russia and she described his temper AND HER temper as minor issues back then, even saying he treated her as a queen; so why didn't she just stay and focus on the benefits in her home in Russia. Now everything is shattered, the innocent children are suffering, and the man is now a shadow of his once upon a time successful self.
Her insisting on leaving him in Russia to go back to Kenya with his child, resulted to a worse situation for them all. She should reconcile with him, and HUMBLY HELP him overcome the problems her decision has caused them all. Also the family was not God-centred, nor prayerful, nor involving God in their decisions. They need to repent too
He was actually a good man. You can see that he was very determined to keep his family together. He was just frustrated. The village is no place for foreigners, especially men. They need a place where they can work and meet people who relates to them.
She was equally miserable in Russia but she had a baby and a house to keep her busy. She still almost went crazy.
That situation could have been managed with better understanding.
Yes, she was not understanding. The situation was not managed well. The guy really loved her.
She was poor and uneducated. These types are not good for relationships because they think money comes from trees, and often they don't appreciate. It's not about the village. Men can survive alone, while women are dependents putting pressure on the husband.
My thinking too
I think so too
@sianrapei691 this is the comment i was looking for, the man loved this woman but a lot of misunderstanding took place. its sad because most of relationships break like this. the story of the passport says it all. he went to the point of thiniking she hit his passport which she ddnt. i hope she finds peace she is a good woman. wish her well and the kids.
She was too young to get married but she is a strong mother may God keep you safe I also feel sorry for the husband
dear sister. that man loved you ...he left everything he had in Russia because of you and had to start from scratch in kenya - this was not easy. just as it was not easy for you in Russia. May the Lord heal both of you. Love and prayers.
этот человек любил алкоголь больше чем жену . Он променял семью и детей на алкоголь . Он пропил квартиру , которая досталась ему от матери , а из России он уехал тоже изза проблем с алкоголем , его выгоняли с работы и новую найти было все тяжелее . Захотел стать белым господином в Кении .
@@acr-f4o ч не против , иметь много денег это отлично , главное не жадничать , а помогать тем у кого их нет . Вот я и помогаю кенийской семье российского алкоголика . А ты помогаешь этому алкоголику на ежедневную выпивку . Я детям алкоголика намеду и жизнь , ты алкоголику на виски , сигареты и проституток .
May be he had another family in Russia 😮😮😊😊
@@karma-pt2ttthat makes sense
@@queenexellent9854he probably did
From her stories, you can tell that her Russian husband started suffering from depression in Kenya. People handle depression differently.
i think there was stress from a very different lifestyle than what he was used to. And then drinking to avoid it. Vicious cycle
@@nicklaus8536Вы оба ошибаетесь. Саша и в России был и плохим человеком и алкоголиком. От него ушла первая русская жена. И Саша обманул своего сына. Он абьюзер и расист. Приехал в Кению быть белым господином, надеялся,что рабство еще не кончилось
@@Нажия-у7у ,чернильница ты.
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I swear to God depression can turn you to another version of yourself I don't blame him.
I I like her humour despite all odds she kept the spirit going. Accept it as destiny that how God has designed your part
What's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color.
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously.
Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite!
Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders.
Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him?
Let's see how long this post is up...
Remember the way you met him,He was supposed to get deliverance from those spirits and start a new life with you,you are such a Beautiful strong young woman Power to you!❤
In Norway, we have a saying that translates to something like «If you move, the goblins come with you!» («goblins» are beings that represent all your problems, your problematic husband or wife etc. etc.). So when you have a lot of problems, just moving somewhere else won’t help you. You have to deal with your problems, face them right on, or nothing will be better. Wishing her the very best!!! ❤❤❤✝️⚓️💟❤❤❤
love this saying. I will use this in future. So true. Great story by the way and a very beautiful woman too! Greetings from a Kenyan hustling in Toronto!
Thank you for sharing! You are kind and wise. ✨♥️
You have self esteem issues and you got what you deserved
Exactly
I am from Northern Zambia (Bemba by ethnicity) and we have a similar saying "Leprechaun, like our shadows, can never leave us alone. They will forever follow us where ever we go"
This means pretty much like your saying in Norway and can also mean a lot other things such as "You can never escape problems or death as we are all susceptible to personal problems (Finances, personal bills, relationship problems, ill-health and even death). And as relates death, it said that death is the only destination we all share, rich or poor, white or black, Asian, Yellow, brown, male, female, gay, straight, religious or not, educated or not, foreigner or local" It also assumes that merely being born in country A and migrating to country B, will not stop you from being sick or dying. You will certainly get sick or die wherever you will go.
So what are you to do? Live and let live! Face your problems head-on and deal with them...never rely on others to SORT out your problems.
Just ask God to send you a good partner doesn’t matter what colour they are.
No... actually, you have to be specific in your prayers
@@saidatabby4797wrong!!! Humans are all human and breath same way an bleed same way!! We are ALL the same other than some have more melanin than others but other than skin colour we are ALL the same!! HUMANS!!! We ALL bleed n breath the same regardless of colour of skin ❤❤
@@Teestar519Educate them sista...folks are ignorant in these comments. They do not think logically.
@@saidatabby4797really😢😢basi cjui kuomba.O.MG😭😭😭
@@Teestar519 Europeans don't think that whatsoever! They ONLY appear to be happy when Africans [Blacks] are suffering. Our skin tone tells a story, and for centuries Europeans have deemed those with darker skin ugly, ungodly, untrustworthy, and unworthy
This is very big lessons for women not to be desperate for men,but wait on GOD TIME,and our destined husband will come,not a devil in human,some women call husbands.I really think for the little kids🙏🏽for them to find themselves in such situation.I hope many desperate women will learn from her story,thank GOD for his guidance 🙏🏽
Да в какой она ситуации оказалась ?) Актриса прогорелого театра. Аферистка
@@Мартика-ь8уhow is she a swindler? Do you know her?
I can relate, living in our unfinished house, starting up a chicken farm, neighbours Stealing from us, our expectations differing, continous disagreements, confusion, drug abuse,and desperation at some point. My foreign husband wanted so bad to live in kenya but i faced him and told him how hard it was for a business to survive there. We relocated to his country, i would say, the only bad thing there ,was the boredom, being new, but as time passes by you get used and get into the system, work hard and make your own money( which is the best solution)
You can’t find love with someone else if your don’t love yourself enough first and have a relationship with the Most High.
My God bless her and children and keep them. Heal there hearts from the trauma that they all have suffered.
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously.
Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite!
Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders.
Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him?
Let's see how long this post is up...
I had a similar life as yours. Yet my husband was never a drinker. He copied the life of his parents and replayed their role for 25yrs. But being a strong woman and strong in my faith. GOD turned him into a new humble man. We now together 34yrs
Amen
Out of 34 years, you burdened yourself with his abuse for 25 years. Man, that wasn't worth it
Amen. What matters is that, in the end everything was good 😊.. you did well to pray for him.
Wow, Glory to God 👏👏
There's no way we can demonize this man. I would say he was a good loving man who surrendered everything in Russian that he owned and followed the woman in a third world country to start from nothing. The man seems to have been going through some mental or psychological problems that needed some therapy. I wish they sought that kind of help right from the beginning; their marriage would have survived. The woman seemed also not to understand that then. Good that she understands the man needs some help. Someone please reach out to him for help. I don't think naturally he was a bad person. May God help him out.
No,May God help her and their two children out
I think so too they both need help
You are quite right. The man made lots of sacrifices. They both loved each other but here we see love is not nearly enough to withstand it the hash realities of interracial union. You can't completely detach from your root without conflict that may lead to having psychological trauma as you try so hard to make compromise. It's a sad story.
@@monicanwatu1366 You said it right. Absolutely.
Yeah. As I continued watching the program, I can tell he may have missed his family
Though so young, but such an encouragement to many. May God continue to bless the work of your hands and know that you will make it and your children are blessed!
Wow, Betty! the more I listen to you, the more I feel sorry for you, and yet believe God has been with you and you are such a strong woman.
Empathy and self-awareness is something we should all pray for 😑
Never dare God... the moment u said if u dont give me am gonna end my life it was not God who answered ur prayer ..the devil took control...am sorry dear..for all u have gone through..God will see u through
Thank you for sharing your story. There is a great sense if honesty in your description. Tell your story. Dont mind the fortunate souls in the comment section, with all the right answers. You are beautiful.
You meet someone one day and move in for 3days with a stranger, its not good just to throw yourself on a man.
She was so glad to have Sasha, it didn't matter whether he was a good provider or not
@@NovemberReigne At the end the results were so bad and it ruines one's future.
That’s not smart
Stop judging her
All the villagers charming against her because of jealousy
God's light never goes out. He is ever present and awake to our needs!" There are so many different obstacles that I face as a single mom. I’m struggling to make ends meet. Both of my sons are special needs and require much from me. I keep faith because I know that God will provide. So as I struggle to buy groceries for my children, and as I struggle to pay rent every month. I turn to God! He is our provider. He is our God. He will strengthen us.
Amen
May God Continue to Bless Keep, & Strengthen you sis., Continue staying encouraged by relying On Him. Prayers.🙏🏽
А она ничего не делает, только просит деньги у других
@@NN-bq6etis she asking for your money 😂
Amen
I'm so sorry for you my sister 🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂you're strong you'll heal the biggest step you've taken is to admit you made a mistake from that admission you have paved your healing road❤❤❤
I believe in God and I'm celibate until marriage. I will wait until God sends my husband to me.
Betty you are a very beautiful strong woman. I admire your courage to open up and be vulnerable. Many blessings ❤
A lot to learn from Betty’s stories. Money is good but cannot buy happiness and joy in a marriage union.
Yeah what's up with the titel of this video. What has his skin color to do with anything.. Look at all the baby-mamas in USA where the man is bl ack.. Clearly a bla ck marrige aren't a bed of roses either. It's about love and nothing else, it has nothing to do with color.
This channel is pure toxic. This man thinks that he owns bla ck women and that they should be breading machines. Wheras bl ack men can date and marry all the whi te- and other non-bl ack women that they want. Seriously.
Look at his other videos about whi te women marrying bl ack men - which he prises and wants the world to know is sooooo wonderful and always a blessing! Meanwhile it's an obsession for him to find bl ack women who regretted marrying a non-bl ack man, especially a whi te man! This guy is a hypocrite!
Bl ack men in USA and Afri ca dates non-bl ack women far more often than bl ack women dates non-bl ack men. Bl ack women are extremely loyal and look where that got us.. baby-mamas, poverty-striken and married to corrupt afri can leaders.
Look at every major black actor, musician and NBA-player in USA and every major black actor, musician and football-player in Europe, again, they are all married to whi te women. Why isn't that a problem for him?
Let's see how long this post is up...
That's why every woman should learn to get an income.
I agree
"I just fell right into his arms" . This line made my morning 😂. Thank you for sharing. I wish you well with your family
She is a strong woman and I really like her energy. Never let go off your children no meter what dear. I love you
Praying to Have a "White" Husband is not a PRAYER. God doesn't look people color. You should have prayed to have a God fearing man, period. Regardless of the color of His skin. Hope you learned Your lesson. There is good and bad everywhere. The color of the person doesn' t garantee You Happiness.
Becouse she love them mean hate black or racism
Well said 💯
2 different culture
Well, she was just specific about her physical tastes and preferences...
Why don’t you say the same thing to BM who prefer I want to be with WW.
Took this woman an AWFULLY LONG time to FINALLY put distance between she & that monster of a husband. The ONLY good that came out of that relationship are those two beautiful kiddos. Wish her & her babies ALL the very best moving forward. Prayers.🙏🏽
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That's the main disadvantage of getting married young to someone older than you if it happens to be bad it's hard to realize for many that they are being consumed in a relationship that would have ended
It's not her fault love makes u stay
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Monster husband who treats you like a queen?! Sale his property in Russian to follow you in Africa where you have no home?! Common!
We have to be wise in choosing our partners....Pray , hope , wait .... Sometimes God let us walk through hardships to overcome them..
Unfortunately there are so many evil beings out there - so many 😥 Many of us learn the grass ain't always greener on the other side and that applies to many situations. May Betty and her family find peace and joy.
AAQ
Amen.
No one is seeing the fact that she made him sell his house in Russia and made him reside in Africa to farm. How on earth do you expect him to be mentally stable.
Just like it was uneasy for you living in Moscow, he was depressed living in kenya too. He dealt with it all alone. You just needed to be closer to him.
I'm thinking the same thing. She abandoned his emotions. He got worst and that' was the end.
She only cared for what she cared for.
@@YOUROLDFRIEND666 that’s right. The Russian was living a different kind of life deep in the village he needed her fully yet she was focused on something else. Being dependent on the man is also nagging
It’s True she did abandoned him
What??!! Why are you all excusing their abusive behavior??!!!😢 This is the problem
@@joyfullnoize2242if the accused has a penis- African make a million excuses. Thats the African way.
That is why often GOD DOESN'T give us what we want.What we think,is good for us.He gives us what WE NEED.For he knows what we need.He knows what is BEST for us.
Very true
Thank you for that true genuine comment.. 🙏🏼
Amen!❤
God give us what we pray for. When I was 17yrs I prayed for a white young man . who will love me for the rest of my life and understanding person. And also love my family that we both live together all my life. And god answered my prayers. We are now happly married since 17 yrs together and still In love everyday of our life😂❤❤ im greatful to who answered all prayer
Never ask for a relationship based on race or expectations of wealth. Sad, but reality always comes with a crushing blow.
Facts