5ive THINGS TO NEVER DO WITH A BROKEN HEART by RC Blakes
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- FIVE THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER DO WITH A BROKEN HEART by RC BLAKES
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Never put your heart into someone that is also broken. Hurting people hurt people 💞
So true, going through that now, , my Heart is in Pain.
Never put your heart into someone that is also broken, unless you're willing to suffer with them. Hurting people hurt people. You have to realize that you're getting into.
Thanks so much, finding the strength to move on with Life
❤❤❤
Amen so true
I have a broken heart! It is effecting me day and night. The tears won't stop. I have accepted he does not want me for more than sex and i deserve better than that. i gave him 10 years of my life and i'm done. I want freedom to look forward to my future with peace and joy! I FULLY EMBRACE MY HURT, PAIN, MY MISTAKES AND MY CIRCUMSTANCE! I WILL THRIVE!
Bless you, you are going to make it out of this season of pain
@@marshellbrown8613 Thank you for the word of encouragement.
You were with a demon who was a sex addict and a narcissist
You can make it. You're going to be surprised how you will thrive after moving on
Same with me I’m in the exact same situation I just broke down crying to let it out girl and keep ur head up 😇
Don’t analyze your pain, it’s not logical. Don’t socialize pain, the streets don’t need to know. Predators are signaled.
#facts
I agree with Natasha
Thank you for this message now I understand
@@DKForeman this is a much meeded message
That was beautifully expressed- thank you so much.
I have literally been binge watching Pastor Blake for 3 weeks. If I am not at work, I am listening. They are helping me.
I agree..me too
Totally agree
Same I’m doing that now … I’m trying to get over a heart break 💔
Same here. Can’t get enough of his teachings.
You mind heart is the most powerful organs in your body be careful who you give it too ...God alone should have your heart because people will destroy you 💔😥 God help us broken hearted People amen 🙏
YES!
Amen
Amen
God bless you pastor.
Guard your heart God bless everyone 🙏
Focus on your agenda , visions and goals. It outweighs the pain.
Agree
Yesss work on yourself
14:25
We think our closure is in the person that broke us, coming back to fix us. But this won't happen - and they usually arent qualified to heal or fix us anyways. Our closure is going to be in being able to acknowledge what we've gone through, feel it, process it, release the person who did that to you and move forward emotionally.
Broken hearts take time to heal. My broken heart came from my Dad and ever man after has broken my heart. That's why I believe healing is necessary.
True story💔
@Neandra McIntyre I have the choice Trust God and push or stay in the blame place. Ye though I walk thur the shadow of death I will fear no evil...This is me speaking to me trusting God process. It been rewarding to understanding the why I was choosing the same man. Now I choose to live a full whole life by living God Promises
I destroyed everything that even reminded me of him. Our wedding pictures was the first to go.
@Neandra McIntyre Thank you. I have to come back every now and than to recharge my Spirit and remind myself God doesn't make mistakes💞🦋
Yes my dad, my step dad and now my husband!! Healing truly needs to take place!
Acknowledge, except, let go, forgive, and move on
Evan though acknowledging, accepting, and letting go is easier said than to do it, it must be done. It also takes time.
Accept is true to move on
I've been hurt so much to point I'm angry and bitter. I want to love again when I'm whole. I don't want to mess a good man up because I'm not ready.
Release your pain and bitterness. You're a Winner! Never give into to the anger. They'll win.
Claim God's Healing Hands over the hurt. God broke your heart to save your soul. Pastor RC Blake Jr.
It's time to forgive and move on. It happens. Dont be bitter it's a lesson. 💕
Pastor Blakes has a video on 4 keys to Develop The Skill of Self Love. This is awesome for I stayed up from 12:00 a.m. until 2:00a.m. taking notes. Sometimes we have to replay over and over again, until we get it in our heart, because I’m not trying to let another man use my body, my mind, or my time anymore. So I am working on me - to love me first after God. Oh, ask God to take the anger and bitterness because he said cast all your cares on him. This works!
It happens to all of us have faith
Thank you, pastor Blake. I am married because you have helped me to step out of a relationship with a narcissist. I have my power back.
Wow Congratulations, this is amazing to hear. I don't know you but, I am happy for you. You give me hope. I was married to and have a child with a narcissist. I did did the final discard 30 days ago. We are together 9yrs and our divorce was over 2 years ago. Then came what I now know a many failed hoovering attempts. I had to cut it off and go NC. So reading our comment resignates in my spirit. Be Blessed!!
My God! My God! Meroline; I ended an 11 year relationship with a narcissistic. abuser!!! I’m liberated and free and my soul is in joy!!! I have my power back and life is going to be amazing with the blessings of God!!
Heartbroken from so many things.. just want to heal. So tired of trusting the wrong people, just want God to heal it.. can't do this anymore
I'm with you there hunny. ❤️
LET GO & TRUST GOD
Trust in God through your pain. then the understanding will come. Only if you stick with God. If God always give us understanding for what he is doing or allowing in our life then we wouldn't need faith or we would never change.
PAIN HAS ITS PURPOSE
God doesn’t enjoy letting us hurt. He is a loving God who wants the best for each of us. He allows trials and suffering to occur in our lives for one purpose only-because it’s sometimes through the difficulties and the pain that He can take and shape us into the best we can be.
just trust the process and forgive and keep pressing. So don't focus on the why. focus on God, Because he's the only one that can give us rest in peace through your pain.
God is going to use your pain and the hurts you go through not to set you back but to fuel you forward.
So the key is to ,let go, let God, forgive yourself, forgive others and work on self. Then understanding will come.
Romans 8:28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose
thank u I needed to hear that
Thank you for your encouragement you have truly help me
Thank so much and keep on praying for me
Amen! Praise the Lord! Hallelujah!
My Life Is About To Be Amazing!
Yes AMEN 🙂🙏💐
Amen Speak it into existence 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
Amen sis I just said this to myself glory be to god 🙏🏾!!
Me too
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Bishop Blakes, Point #5, "dont socialize your pain" "when we do, "we signal PREDATORS!! Lord Jesus, your are absolutley correct. When you made this point, it really hit me....thank you Sir
Very on point.Being choosy with what to self disclose to whoever is very important particularly when you're vulnerable.
Disclose everything to God only through prayer.
Tuned in late ,OMG yes indeed. This bullet point is spot on.Thanks for your comment 😇
Thanks for helping those of us who don’t have dad’s to turn to for this information.
Leslie, I can relate.
U are a Blessing to me..Thank you
Or decent dads!
Life has been hard with no father, true, but God is faithful that is also true
Do men ever look at themselves like this....do they get soul ties???? Can they just move on to the next woman and be a blessing to her? I'm struggling right now with this soul tie.....and ruminating over the good things.....but my pain is horrible!!! I hurt. He sure walked away like I was nothing....absolutely nothing.
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Karma is real.....his day will come. Work on your healing with God and learn from your mistakes. You are a Queen....let the clown go !
Men have the same experiences with soul ties.. We're human!! Some men act like your talking about because they are hurting and we all reap what we do..
Thank you all for your validation......I've questioned myself over and over thinking that I might be the narcissist because of my out of the box behavior.....not feeling safe or loved. Frederick.....thank you for your male perspective......that means a lot. I feel jealous that shes getting the man that I invested several years into and now they will have all the fun.
Men also go through building a woman up.. Encouraging them,teaching,being kind,inspiring,showing there are decent men.. Only for some women to completely show disrespect,but use what's she's gained from the decent man to act right with a man that will never care..
DON'T MEMORIALIZE YOUR PAIN: Ooooo!!! @22:36 This message was so essential, even when we were not looking for it. PAIN: Don't Trivialize it, Memorialize it, Prioritize it, Analyze it, (don't sympathize it!) or Socialize it... IN ESSENCE, DON'T ENERGIZE YOUR PAIN. Take out the batteries and discard it. Thank you Pastor.
I am healing from being the other woman. After listening to your Father Daughter Talks, I finally found the courage to break away from a 6 year affair with a married man. I’m heartbroken, mainly because I allowed myself to be a fool for way too long. Thank you so much for your talks that shook my Spirit into submission to God🙏🏽🌹🙋🏽♀️
I was one for 5 yrs and it ended last week, I cant describe my intense feelings for him but I know this is for the best and for me to do some soul searching
ladyluck lovely1 Thank for that and me too sis, Stay Strong! We got this🌹🙋🏽♀️
@Fire Ball Easy to point the finger, harder to look in the mirror. The 'other' woman is guilty as is your husband. Still, WHY did he stray to her? Ask that question. Try to closely look at yourself and your actions. I think you might find that you are somewhat guilty all on your own. Not completely, of course, but you still have something to do with the matter.
A man cannot cheat alone. If more women learned to love themselves there would not be an option to break homes this way. A man does not stray because his wife is horrible, society needs to stop blaming the wives who are betrayed. The cheater is responsible for their actions and more so the person they are cheating with especially if they know. Personally, there is no excuse for not knowing if you're the other women especially if you are vetting the guy. Its all about self love and understanding the God will never give you some one else's husband especially if in his eyes you are braking up a home that has created a covenant (marriage) in front of him.
Take time to heal, cut all communication and be strong when things feel hopeless and he will reward you for changing your heart and turning to him.
me too. and it stared with the father daughter talk video. I had already ended it months before but that video cemented my decision to get the hell out of that situationship! Helped me SO much! Love RC Blakes!
The way he can get off topic about a comment and jump right back into the subject, rarely losing his train of thought. A King, a talent, now that I know it exist i will pray for it.
Its really annoying I don't even understand why he pays attention and its important to him, and to those sending those comments they should know better...its unprofessional this is a presentation which we pay to watch internet is not free...!
I was broken. Turned back to the Lord & laid my messy, sinful rags at His feet & He delivered me. I had to be honest with myself & realize how much He loved me to see my worth. Moving forward with the lessons. I'm healed, saved, & whole keeping my eyes fixed on Him because He's made my life path. Hallelujah
when I socialize my pain I am signaling Predators! ...I am cooperating with my enemies for my own destruction! that is a lot of Truth right there..❤️
Bless You Pastor Blakes. Thank you for Teaching us these Life Lessons.
Just deleted a lot of foolishness I was keeping in my phone. Thanks for your guidance.
Same
I am so glad that the Lord is using Pastor RC Blakes to express His love to the hurting. God is expressing His love for us through your teachings. God bless you...!!
I like listening to you Pastor RC Blake's. 🙏🙏
Yes, but enough is enough. It's bad enough that we allow others to hurt us (narcissistic abuse) but to carry on the hurt and pain is another hurt that just gets deeper. We must feel the pain in order to begin the healing. The healing comes from accepting the pain as a GIFT of WOKE. It will bring you forward. Do not trivialize the pain from a broken heart. Staying with a narcissist was the tolerating of the pain and denying it brought you to the broken heart (which was already breaking while taking the abuse.)
In that position now. I appreciate ur teaching, I had to get out, the heartbreak is undescribable
Me too feels like death keep ur head up
I can relate big time.
I don't really know what it feels like when your dying in pain but that's what my heart felt like, literally hurting( I really felt like a whole was in my heart, like a heart murmur) because of heartbreak so grateful to God that I'm in a different place
Thank you. Your messages are so healing and validating, the things I know but need to keep in practice/perspective. I cried, and the #5 was so solidifying...I told my ex(39)he was a predator, bc he started a snapchat flirting relationship with a girl(24)who posts all her woes via fb. Considered cheating(in my world) packed my stuff and left (6yrstogether), hard as hell. Still healing.
Unbearable
The pain is always worth it after you 've healed.
I am healing from a broken heart thank for this lesson amen
When you socialize your pain you're giving your enemies the tools to destroy you emotionally #GuardYourHeart
True dat
When an affliction makes no sense the broken would rather see itself as the cause than to live with the unanswered question of why? Powerful!
I’m going through heart break right now it literally feels like death I can’t explain it just crying to the Lord to heal me. I know with God anything is possible love u pastor ur video came right on time 💜🙏
You will be fine. God heals and takes the trash outta your life. Right now you feel like you can't move on.. But I promise you.. You will move on. Sadly we can't skip this pain. Its a powerful way in order for you to appreciate God's help wen it comes.. Love doesn't hurt. Remember that!.. I wish you the best sis. 💕
tanya 4everloyal You will get through trust God and everything will fall into place.
Thank you pastor I can see clearly now this is my second time listening .I let go completely help me Jesus
Pastor RC Blakes is interrupting storms. I am experiencing so much more JOY these days.
I just posted this message on Facebook because it’s so good. I want everybody to receive this healing- thanks again for letting God teach the world!!!
Thank you Lord for allowing Bishop RC Blakes for keeping this teaching available on you tube!
Received and appreciated!
God Bless this Ministry🙏🏽💯
I TEAR DOWN THE STATUES OF THE MEMORY'S OF MY PAIN!
In Jesus name I stand in agreement with you sister🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’m still praying for you, my sister. It might help if you put praise music on - the ones that make you dance this is what I do to keep my spirit lifted when I get overwhelmed with life, and I think of all the times he spared my life when I was sinning. So forgive him like God has forgiven us one time or many times but God keep on loving us so rejoice and push forward! I guarantee if you do this a breakthrough will come sooner because your greater is on the way, I speak that on your life in Jesus name. Amen Remember Satan enjoy when we are down and he laugh at God saying I got this one but I believe God is saying not so, this is my daughter and you won’t have her joy!
Stop 🛑 trivializing your pain. Accept, forgive and move on.
The man who broke me is the one who said he was trying to help me.
Girl this same thing happened to me. God be with you
Happened to me also
Me too😪
It happened to me too
Ditto! Clown with a Crown!
Thank you pastor. I sooo NEEDED this message. I just got my heart broken by my new love interest. Please pray for me. I love you & you are looking good! Quarantine agrees with you!!
Thank you pastor these lessons are vital to me at this moment.
I am happy I found you.
Same 😄🌺
Forgetting those things that are behind!
Press Toward Your Future!
Blessings Pastor Blakes. Thank God for healing me from hurt and pain. It's been 3 years since being mentored by you on your UA-cam channel. You've been a blessing.
Amen - You are preaching! I’m healing from years of forgiveness. I praise God for you are confirming what God is teaching me!!.
This is really helping me. I am actually proud of myself. I chose to push through this pain of this previous heartbreak. I use to wake up and go to sleep with it on my mind. But I pushed through and confessed Gods word over my life. All I have is hope in God to get me through. I speak everyday RESTITUTION at my door. Amen, thank you Pastor Blakes.
PRAISE GOD for sending HIS LOVE HEALING WISDOM and Understanding through BISHOP BLAKE! Thank you for your DEDICATION and USE of your ANOINTING for WOMEN and MEN ALL OVER THE WORD being DELIVERED from SOUL TIES!
LOVE YOU THANK GOD FOR YOU!
YOU ARE SIMPLY THE BEST❤️ ❤❤
This has definitely been me, being born to a family of narcissist I was trained to hide my pain. This was a greatly needed message. Thank you pastor!
1. do not trivialize your pain- to trivialize your pain is to deny yourself the cleansing that acknowledgement brings..no healing can happen in a LIE
2. do not memorialize your pain- pain is involuntary but healing is intentional
3. do not prioritize your pain
4. do not analyze your pain
5. do not socialize your pain
praying for everyone who's going through a heartbreak now..In Jesus name, we will all be healed and broken hearts will be restored.
I appreciate this message because my heart was broken recently by a man.
Not only did I get something out of this (and everything you put out) but I can share it too. There are so many of us out here hurting & hopefully growing. I am so glad you continue to guide us in growth.
-All the way from Alaska with love and respect for you and your family. Thank you. God bless.
Healing Is Intentionally!
Ended something yesterday, long over due. Thank you for the advice. Moving on and forward. I deserve better and I’m healing so I can claim it
One more thing Pastor Blake I consider myself and I live as a Queen because I am a Queen. Please forgive me for not introducing myself to you As Queen Elizabeth Cheri. My dad named me Elizabeth from the bible and my mom named me Cheri after her
. My dad got saved when I was In my mother's womb and I remembered hearing him hollering out loud praising the lord. I could remember hearing my dad praying and praising the lord speaking to the lord in tongues. I remember GOD speaking to me in my mother's womb. I remember GOD and preparing me for my future existence and what my purpose here on earth is. Again I had another personal visit and conversation with the lord when I was in the hospital
Pregnant in my tube. I was heartbroken. I was in surgery I was put to sleep but during surgery I ended up in Heaven talking to King and watching the flowers swaying back and forth singing praises unto the lord. He was given me I struction before he sent back and I cried and cried and cried cried so much and so hard as I was drifting back to my hospital bed the nurse was waking me up and I was hollering outloud as I was sobbing "My King" nooooo... My King My King nooooo I dont want to go back I want to stay here with you I don't wanna go back...please I do wanna go....My King My King My King.........these where my exact words as I was being awaking by the nurse and sent back by My King Jesus...the same day with a broken heart the lord needed me and I needed him .being pregnant in my tube was hard for me and heart broken. I saw that my sister in Christ Jesus needed me. The lord told me to get off the phone while my hospital bed for me to read psalms 91 all the way through and start praying and praising the lord. As I was instructed to do so I proceeded to walk out the room the Sista was in cardiac arrest the Doctor was pumping her heart trying to bring her back alive. The lord told me to go to the nurses station and tell her husband that I
She is going to be alright
The battle from death is already been defeated. So I did what the lord instructed me to do. The wife was fine once we walked back into the room. The activity stop and she started breathing. She later asked to speak to me and said she saw herself standing over her body and watching the Doctor in action as she heard me on the other side of the room praying and praising the lord. I knew even then that GOD is with me. Before birth back then when I visited heaven crying to stay and until right now this very moment. King Jesus is the reason I live. Amen!@ I Bless the lord at all time his praise shall continue be in my mouth. ..In Jesus holy mighty name Amen Thank you Jesus. .As I gotten older in my late 20's I remember hearing the lord tell me that I'm a Queen and I should start living as one I needed to live like I'm Royalty because King Jesus died for my sins and we came from Royalty Heavenly Place is Royal ...I am Lord of Lords and King of Kings. As I heard the Lord Jesus speak those word to me. I carry myself as though I am Queen Elizabeth Cheri Smith now even though my birth certificate doesn't say Queen Elizabeth Cheri...in the Spiritual Kingdom GOD said it is so. I am A Queen. I knew so much so long ago I now carry myself as a Queen that I am and was called to be a Queen in the spiritual realm also here on earth. I came across you video 6months ago I believe it's been that long or maybe longer. GOD is Bless and he is our father in Heaven I Bless GOD Elohim and I Bless King Jesus he is the reason that I live and have a New Heart and delivered from soul tie. My Heart mind body soul spirit feel brand new. I thank Jesus Yahweh Jehovah Jira ABBA father for healing and renewing my heart for blessing me and hearing & answering all of my prayers. I Bless you Pastor Blake for Teaching my sister's and Brothers what King Jesus wants us to know and learn from him through you. Thank you for being GOD called and chose you to be. Thank you King Jesus for loving us sooooo much that you gave you life to save us and forgive us of our sins. Be Bless Pastor Blake and a Blessings to others. In King Jesus holy mighty name Amen Thank you Jesus.
Pastor Blake’s God is truly using you! I’m receiving my freedom from this conversation. Thank you! 🙂
Bless you for being a spiritual father to women, and staying close to the heart and ear of God!!!
Pastor, although I'm crying as I send this message, thank you for your words. They touched my heart. Healing will come.
Psalms 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
Amen! This message came in my devotional the day after he moved out after 6 years. Thank you so much Pastor. I have just found your messages in the last 3 weeks since he moved out. Bless you for your knowledge and sharing it. 💖
Tht type of pain hurts like nobody's business! A deep pain tht wont go away easily. Thts why we need to be careful of who we allow in our lives.
100% correct
This talk blew my mind especially your statement: "The person who hurt is probably the least qualified to help heal you." How I wish I had read this four years ago when I discovered, by accident, my husband's almost two year affair - emotional and physical. It would have changed my whole approach to this event and trajectory. But no matter... I learned the hard way that he can't really help heal me... as much as he'd like to (well, eventually he did.... at first he was happy to help blame and let me take the blame). I learned a lot about myself and him through asking for his help. Finally I realized it was not going to lead to any healing for me, him and us to ask him for help. Asking God to heal me... going to Al Anon meetings and prayer and friends and family have been much more healing ... Time and God ... Time passing and leaning on God and remembering "Rejection is (often) God's protection." Thank you, thank you for this phenomenal talk Rev. RC Blakes. Bless you.
This is sooo good...The pain has been tremendous I kept wanting my ex husband to really really love me and to keep all his promises...There is no logic or sense as to why someone who promised to love you won't but continued to attack me instead...I finally had to just accept that he just won't and lied...I had to stop feeding into it by fighting with him through texts...I had to stop and tell him I would no longer read his texts or text him as he continued to be disrespectful...It hurts but there is no choice...I must survive...
He tried to change my identity...I had to fight to embrace my identity from God and embrace who He says I am.
I believe often times when we experiences a broken ❤️ it intensifies when we complies that from other painful ❤️ breaking events that we have had in life from that we never healed from. You must focus on God and keep busy doing things that help others and keep busy keeping your mind off the thing that caused your pain. Do something that take your focus off the pain. In due time the pain will be gone. Just keep moving loving God and yourself. Forgive them and fill the void. Be Blessed 🙏♥️ Love yourselves and put God first
I tried holding back tears, but I just couldn’t!! Thank you Pastor!!!
Gm Pastor Blake’s! I was dating a gentleman for a few months,we started out as friends for a year and eventually started dating. Everything thing seemed absolutely right. But as time went on, he revealed to me that he was born a female. My spirit fought and wouldn’t let me have peace as I was trying to process this, because I thought it was a joke. He even asked me does it bother me that he was born a woman! It absolutely does!!! I ended that quick fast and a hurry!!! I’d rather lay alone than having the wrong spirit laying beside me🙏
Deposit what’s dead and move on with your life! Healing is moving away from the grave of your history. Lord 🌈
Pastor I have read many many many many spiritual things to get guidance in order to heal my pain. Your sermon was the absolute breakthrough , absolute breakthrough with the tools that I needed to help me to be complete with it! thank you and I love you more than words can say!❤️
I loved this Teaching A Broken ❤can literally kill your Spirt,🙏for those who have hurt you acknowledge it ,But you HAVE to move on .Life is worth living,Recieve the lesson and Give it to GOD.....
When you socialize your pain, you signal predators!! Whew this is helpful.. Thank you Pastor
WHEWW THAT WAS A WORD...GOD BLESS YOU‼️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I quit from the cruch long time ago but I love your way of speaking. You inspired me with your wisdom Thank you. This attitude of yours gives peace
I've learned so much from you Pastor Blake, you have been my Soul Healer. Just purchased Soul Ties, Father Daughter talk and Queenology. I have chosen you my Pastor for Life..
I'm broken now thanks you for the revelation as I was to go out .
Amen
Wow,"Check your phone for a text". Making a person into an idol.
Pastor, your explanation of point #4, don't analyze your pain, is totally brilliant! I lived that for over a year, trying to figure out what caused the toxic harm that came my way. I would have circular thinking, ruminating and intrusive thoughts day and night because the mind just had to make sense of the senseless: How could a Christian man behave this way toward his wife? I finally came to the realization that I did not cause it and could not have prevented it or healed him. Sometimes we just have to learn to live with MYSTERY--accepting that we may never have all the answers this side of eternity. Pastor, your wisdom is direct from the Holy One! I love and admire you.
Amen
"Put pressure on your consciousness to move away from the grave of your history." 💚
I JUST STUMBLE ACROSS YOU ON UA-cam. YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT. MY MOM ALWAYS TAUGHT ME THAT A MAN WILL DO TO YOU WHAT YOU ALLOW HIM TO DO TO YOU. I'VE BEEN SINGLE FOR ALMOST SEVEN YEARS. I REFUSE TO BE A (DOORMAT) TO ANY MAN. I AM A QUEEN. MY JOURNEY HAS STRENGTHEN ME.
I've been listening to u for a short period of time .I could honestly say u have changed my way of thinking..thk u so much
I love your preaching/teaching. But I couldn’t watch this message that I definitely needed because you kept breaking in a thanking people.
When you socialize your pain you’re signaling predators...true!
I'm moving forward pastor Blake's in a major way I received and taking responsibility for my actions . Choosing to forgive and apologizing to my self . God is birthing divine purpose out of my pain. I thank God for you! I'm growing getting better ❤️💯😍 becoming the best version of me.
You are a force Bishop RC Blake. Thank you!
Thank you, you opened my eyes again, God Bless You! 🙏🏾
Therapeutic R.C.! Just because one may be getting better doesn't mean their fully healed...it's that process to recovery that sets one free😊😊😊
I so needed to hear this word. I left my abuser and I feel very broken on today. After being physically and verbally abused I finally got up the strength and nerve to call the police and my abuser is guilting me for him being in jail. Im ready to accept my part in this. Ready for my healing. And I do feel the Lord near me at this time.
The soul is dying everyday, pray for someone right away
Straight from God! Thank you Pastor Blakes. This is a GREAT word.
Pastor, please pray for me. The tunnel of pain I have to pass through seems so long and cold and dark.
I lost my husband of 18y of a wonderful marriage to a sudden death 3 years ago. I was mourning for 2 years, and the first man I dated for a year hurts and left me broken. I feel lost and try to find my purpose of living ...which is sometimes hard. And I have 2 sons 19 n 16 that unaware what I am strugling now. Please pray for me so I can have more strength and windom...
"It wasn't so bad." That typical excuse I had about my childhood until I was 30 and began my healing journey.
I dont know what I wouldve done without hearing this message. Thank you Pastor
YOU JUST SAVED MY LIFE
Pastor this was an amazing lesson. Man this was so good.
Thank you Pastor Blake. You’re hitting the nail on the head! God bless you.
This man always soothe my spirit. I wish I could meet you pastor in person. I never want your videos to end.😊😊😊 it’s amazing how much you help all of us through a computer screen
This was amazing. This was just what I needed. I have been humiliated with hurt. I'm tired of hurting. I knew I was going to have to go through the work to make it through this time. I have just been all over the place. I know through it all God has me as he always has. I just want to get through the process so I never end up having to feel like this again. Love doesn't hurt.
Let go, and Let God!
I believe the Lord is blessing me with all of your videos I need at this time of my life. Thank you so much for all your work 🙏🏾💗
You are always on point Pastor. God bless you❤️🙏🏽✝️
Thank you
For all your teaching, you truly a man of God
+:2:3:4:9:02:0:02:8:6:6:5whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here.....🙏🙏❤️.......
Thank you Pastor Blakes I appreciate your work so much and learned so much from your videos
Thank God for u R.C. Blakes‼️🙏❤ u have started the snow ball of change deep with in me that saved my life‼️ I am successful in most areas of my life but relationships until I learned from u‼️💯 ur an angel directly from GOD🙏
Thank you Pastor🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽... always a pleasure to listen to you, such thought-provoking content. Appreciate you!
This is the third time I’ve watched this video. Found it 3 days ago. I get more out of it each time. I don’t have adequate words to express my gratitude for this wise counsel.
Bishop Blakes, this teaching is so rich and necessary. I took notes. I’ll be viewing this video again for deeper clarification. Thank you and continued blessings. 🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾
You are so right, Pastor! Men will treat their dogs better than they treat their wives or girlfriends. They will treat their homeboys in the streets better than they treat the woman at home tht is there for them through their struggles. They will say plz and thank you and hold the door open for total strangers but will not even offer any of tht to their women. I'll never understand it!
thank you pastor,im so broke right now he left me and my son
I am so encouraged. I am healing. God bless you so much