How to cure HOCD - The Facts
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- Опубліковано 16 тра 2017
- Charles Linden explains what HOCD truly is, why it has NOTHING to do with sexuality and how it can be overcome fast. www.thelindenmethod.direct/of...
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I think I have hocd, but I know I'm straight I know I'm not gay or bi but when I see. good looking guy I get thoughts randomly of gay shut and it bothers me so much I hate it, I wanna die
I was exactly the same once, believe me I know how it feels but we also know how to remove it like I did. The solution is the same in every person.
That's what we do... just contact the centre through www.thelindenmethod.co.uk and you will see that anxiety and HOCD are pointless, unnecessary and so inappropriate.
I suffered from Hocd in waves. I'm a straight male aged 22. when I was 14 to 16 I went through hocd. I have been normal since. Until last year I had a wave of hocd which lasted a few days it went. Now a week ago another wave has started to affect me. I'm just so tired of this and don't want to go through this again. I know I am not gay and it's just thoughts that hinder my true feelings and give me false ones. But I just want to go through this again.
The truth is, you MUST address and remove the core disorder. You have elevated fear responses and they are causing you to risk assess everything... in this case you are doing it with your sexuality as the focus. You need to remove the core disorder. That's what we do... just contact the centre through www.thelindenmethod.co.uk and you will see that anxiety and HOCD are
pointless, unnecessary and so inappropriate.
I had HOCD and OCD for over 15 years till I was 27. It was part of my anxiety disorder. I recovered from it fully and have since shown tens of thousands how to do the same. More info at UK www.thelindenmethod.co.uk USA www.panic-anxiety.com
What triggered my HOCD is when one of my bestfriends said that she find out she's bi and i searched in google if your sexuality can change over time and i found out that it can change and i got so scared and everything started from there. I'm not homophibic and i don't have anything against LGBTQ+ comunity, it's just not me, i know it's not me, i've been straight all my life i liked only boys and i had only male crushes i have a group of girl best friends and i never felt romantic feeling towards them so i have all kind of proof that i'm straight. I hope i can fix it soon.
You can and will fix it. If you jin the live recovery webinars, myself and team can personally help you. If you make yourself known to me during the webinar and reference this conversation, I'll make extra effort to explain HOCD and recovery from it. C www.thelindenmethod.direct/offers/FvLTcg4W/checkout
Thank you, this video alone made me feel more comfortable and relaxed
You're welcome Shayan.
I used to have ugly , yuck feelings about guys in the past and those thoughts used to pass away in seconds......
and now I suffer constantly with those thoughts...I feel fear anxiety because I cannot have ugly yuck feeling I used have in the past....I know I'm straight still thinking about gay thoughts are not giving me ugly awful feelings I used have in the past.... I feel nothing about guys still they can constantly moving in my head because I not getting ugly worst feeling I used have in the past...I always question myself...I cannot trust myself...
Dude you are literally the best guy ever
This was posted 3 years ago but I’m still going to say. I’m a 14 year old girl. For about a month it was my brain telling me I was bi when I knew I was straight. Then now it’s every time I see a girl I have to say to my brain I’m straight and I respond with I know and I move on. Some days it’s worse than others. My brain tells me other things but I’m not willing to share because they really make me uncomfortable. I also go through things where I compare foods to things and now I have restricted my self from eating those foods in a certain way just to avoid thinking about it.
I think I have hocd because I get gay thoughts and I just don't like them, ive been battling these thoughts for months and now I'm not having as much as a resistance as I once did and that makes me scared. I don't want to be gay at all. I know I'm straight deep with in me. I've always liked women and I even loved one at one point and when we broke up that's when these thoughts started to happen
Tobious, we would truly love the opportunity to help you. Could you join the live webinars? www.thelindenmethod.direct/offers/FvLTcg4W/checkout
I am 16, and I have a girlfriend, and I've had her for two months and i couldn't be any happier. But my HOCD is giving me the anxiety that either I am gay or will become gay. And sometimes, it gives me feelings and I worry they are genuine. And sometimes I get suicidal thoughts from it, and I just want it to end. I want to love my girlfriend and be dedicated to her and spend my life with her, and I don't want to lose that. I've done everything I can, and with this coronavirus bullshit, I can't get treatment yet. Should I fight these thoughts or just let it flow at this point, cause I'm willing to do anything. And I'm scared because I have said suicidal thoughts and I've had this issue since I got my girlfriend, which I know means it's just in my head, but it just honestly feels like it can change everything and i'm terrified. And what's worse is the fact that I just got suicidal urges and thoughts only having it for two months, and I don't know what to do if it gets any worse. And then I learn there's this thing called "sexual fluidity" and I don't know if it's true or fake, and it scares me even more.
Hey, a few days back I came to know that I'm actually suffering from HOCD and these are just my thoughts which made me experience the horrible stuffs for almost an year now. After finding out that I've HOCD, I was rather relaxed than worried as I came to know that these were just thoughts and I'm straight only. So what should I do when I get these thoughts again? Should I think that these are useless thoughts and doesn't matter? Or should I pretend that "okay even if I'm lesbian, so what?"
I have this problem because people lied said I was gay and then everyone was calling me gay for no reason Im straight my whole life ,they were just making things up as joke but they all started making fun of me , and then my mind started questioning myself for no reason started becoming paranoid everywhere I went , I thought every one I looked at thought was gay
I am so sorry to hear this. I had the same and I know the impact it has. I can help you. Can you jin the live webinars so that e can sort it directly? www.thelindenmethod.direct/offers/FvLTcg4W/checkout
Mr Charles. I am 25 years old and I have been through therapy for more than 2 years. Now I feel much better but still exists the fear... When I look at pictures of attractive men, or even with my friends... what happen? What do I feel? I know it is not attraction, but when the intensity of the thoughts increase, I feel anxiety in my chess, I feel very confused, I really need the answer of my doubt, I need to know if that feelings are proving my homosexuality or not. I just can’t live with the uncertainty... what happen to me? There is solution of that? thanks a lot!!
charles, is it advisable to watch this video if i am suffering from HOCD/pure o, and am doing the program?? thank you.
Yes, you can watch it Alexandra. Have you accessed the HOCD/OCD guidance in the members portal too? If not, I suggest you do. Take care.
CharlesLinden yes I have accessed the guidance. thank you for the reply. i have been doing the program for 10 days now and am reaping benefits already. x
Wonderful. Compliance = Results - once you're cured it's lifelong... just keep going. Take care.
CharlesLinden just also wanted to say... this video set me into a place i haven't been in a long time. it shows fact, and it helps so much with those confused about HOCD vs actually being gay... you are BORN gay. you know it from the moment you can develop "feelings" for someone else, very early on in life.... those who are all of the sudden questioning their sexuality and having anxiety about it are "HOCD".... there is no hidden self. i am so happy you made this video, it has made me come to an ultimate "enlightenment." thanks again for everything Charles.
Thank you Alexandra. Please let others know about the video as my intention is to reassure as many sufferers as possible. Take care.
I am suffering from several negative thoughts, suicidal, harming others, HOCD.
My life is full of embarrassment because of these thoughts. Please help me.😭
hey there how do I get your methods from India??
I have health anxiety I suppose from Feb this year i've been doing yoga meditations for months now and somehow my physical symptoms has gone down but recently intrusive thoughts about hurting people and myself has come up I don't understand if iam getting worse I need help iam from India and have been looking to get hold of your program...I hope you see this and respond to it.
I am sorry I haven't replied sooner. I was unaware of all these messages. You can join TLM here Laden - www.thelindenmethod.co.uk the order page is at tlmportal.online/order
I have known that I was straight for years and have gone through hocd in the past, but this time it came around I just feel no sexual attraction towards the opposite gender. Is this just a symptom of the anxiety and stress?
Hi, how do I get help for this? My ocd themes change a lot but this and the fear of developing schizophrenia are by far the worst and I’m so tired with dealing with it.
Sophia, OCD is frustrating because it does shift its focus. Fear of mental illness is common Sophia but only as common as all inappropriate anxiety driven risk assessments.
well done, good video..
I suffered with many OCD's
HOCD when I was like 11, "what if you're gay?"
although I now identify as bisexual I still acknowledge that I had severe OCD
constantly checking my groinal response
constantly "testing" myself with porn
nervous and intrusive thoughts
would obsess over the fear of finding someone attractive etc...
you guys know the rest
I have had many themes, HOCD just being one of them..
how about health anxiety? I'm always thinking I need to go to doctor and get checked and always have thoughts of something being wrong (health wise) I get alot of palpitations, skip beats, I'm always focused on my breathing and makes me feel short of breath.. why is this and what can I do...thanks
Exactly the same science PJ... it's HOCD but with health as the subject matter. Agoraphobia is the same with distance from perceived safety as the subject... etc. All anxiety based phobias are the same response with different subject matter. In order to overcome it, you have to address the CAUSE... the cause is NOT the catalyst... it is the genetic predisposition to suffering. This is done in a structured but simple method of recovery. That's what we teach PJ... that's why what we do is so curatively successful. Look here: www.thelindenmethod.co.uk/testimonials3/linden-method-facebook-and-social-media-testimonials and then look at the other testimonial tabs. Take care my friend.
CharlesLinden thanks for the response. I've had the linden method from 2015 to 2016 and unfortunately my access ran out after a year.. and I understand what its asking for me to do but it seems so difficult to implement it in my life..i don't know how to do a day structure at 19 no kids not much to do...maybe a job will that help i know their isn't just 1 way for it to work but it really does hurt you knowing all this people have been cured and I'm stuck because I'm can't fill my dairy
Contact support PJ. You need to watch some of my webinars too. Email questions@thelindencentre.org stating membership has expired. I'll see what I can do.
So what exacly will you be teaching me that will help me cause i already have hocd and ive lost attraction to girls and even worse i also have autism
I have ASD too Christian and I also had HOCD for many years. We will be teaching you how to simply remove disordered emotional responses and return to appropriate responses.
Hey man listen , can I get through hocd without therapy ?
Yeah I think I have HOCD because I was straight and I said one single thing then bang it was like the world was ending
Been there too Alex. I had it for about 12-13 years but I promise you it's curable. If you can join me in the online sessions, I can help. www.thelindenmethod.direct/offers/FvLTcg4W/checkout
Can you please send the link to the program. I want to get my life back.
Yes, of course... www.thelindenmethod.direct/tlmjointoday
When I watch this video I think about me still being gay but I know I’m straight
I can barely find anything on bisexuals dealing with SOOCD. Can this condition cause a bisexual to lose all attraction to ONE gender only?
Nicole, yes, in theory that's what could and would happen.... if you were heterosexual or homosexual, you would have a distinct prefrence predefined by genetics BUT, if you do not have that predefined preference (bisexual), it is entirely normal to 'what if' both as 'risk'. You know you are bisexual but you are risk assessing in both directions "what if I am gay?" "what if I am straight"... when in fact, you are neither. Does that make sense?
@@anxietypanicattacks thank you for your reply!
I have struggled with this for 2 years now and I know it’s not but I just don’t know what to do anymore.
I'll tell you exactly what to do! Let me help you. Join Anxiety Relief Club and come to my webinars. I'll show you how to recover. www.thelindenmethod.direct/tlmjointoday
Are you saying people with Hocd can realise they are gay then and all there thoughts and intrusions are true once the aniexty and fear is removed
Why this video has 70 dislikes
It is one of best video I have ever seen regarding HOCD (Now which I call anxiety)
If u are suffering from, this video is best for u so don't go on like-dislike ratio (though likes are nearly 4times😂)
It's mine personal exp.
Thank you Adwik.
thankyou so much
isit true that ppl suffering from Hocd will experience loss of attraction to opposite gender for a period of time ?
I am not sure that is the experience of ALL sufferers but some certainly yes. I think most people, like I did once, avoid sex completely if they can so as not to activate the thoughts or exacerbate them in some way.