PSYCHOTHERAPIST REACTS to Ren- Sick Boi
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PSYCHOTHERAPIST REACTS to Sick Boi- Ren
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Remember that Ren was misdiagnosed and was being treated for things he didn't have for nearly a decade. All the while getting sicker as undiagnosed Lyme disease wreaked havoc with his body and being told his pain was all in his head. It cost him a record deal with Sony because they dropped him when he became sick.
Thanks for explaining all that to everyone!! Have you been following Ren on his UA-cam channel? He's been in Calgary, Alberta, Canada for some time getting treatment, and hopefully undo most of the damage caused thru all his misdiagnosis.
I believe we all are the lucky one to have found him when we did!! He's quite something!!!
@Frank Mike Source?
@@frankmike46 so you love Ren but want to spread your story and not the version of events that Ren himself has given ? Strange kind of love.
Thank you for offering more details because it’s information I’ve never know. I appreciate you for that teresa.😊👍
@@NZWozza Ren has openly talked about experimenting with recreational drugs as a young teen(as many have) in his music. In the song Power where he raps about snorting lines til his nose bled and then goes on to say he was a dick.ua-cam.com/video/6_hnhVDtzTY/v-deo.html He has also since said he hasn't taken recreational drugs or drank alcohol for many years because he believes he has an addictive personality. But seriously no one goes through a stem cell transplant for no reason.
I can't imagine being ravaged to death by lymes disease while being told "you're not really sick, your brain is just telling you that you are "
Dude, Brain, body, balance, vision, dizziness, gait issues, inability to rise from bed while at the same time being unable to sleep AT ALL, stomach and bowel issues, difficulty breathing, depression, depersonalization, disassociation, anxiety. But doctors send you to therapists or psychiatrists. Gaslit and written off. Very few recognize Lyme as an organic cause. PLEASE READ THE BOOK LYME MADNESS BY LORI DENNIS. We get misdiagnosed and left to die. No other illness leaves people to die without compassion! INSURANCE DOESN'T RECOGNIZE THE ILLNESS OR PAY FOR TREATMENT. WE ARE EXPECTED TO PAY OUT OF POCKET WHEN WE ARE TOO SICK TO WORK. Many mortgage their homes to pay for treatment, and still are too sick to work. They end up living in their cars. Our families think we are faking. 😢😭
Or being told you have a mental disorder or 3 and get labeled.. when all along you were grieving or other normal life stuff.
Independent artists are the future of music. I hope I live to see the whole industry crumble and only true real raw talent prevailing.
Yeah the sad part though is the majority of people fall into mainstream listening and keep buying/supporting it because that’s what’s so out there being played on stations, commercials, and of course the record labels control all of that and decide what people like. They find great talent, sign them, tell them what’s gonna sell and also change their physical appearance (lose weight, women long hair, blonde, etc). It’s all about image. Heaven help you if you weight more than 110lbs as a female artist and 180lbs for men. Thank God people like Chris Stapleton and Lizzo (not really a fan of her music but still) and a few others stood their ground and do their thing.
@@Butterflyandhearts95 Yeah. I think the planet needs a population transfusion pretty urgently 🤔🌏
Been saying this for decades...it's about damn time that true artists get seen!
There is a Ren video, I think from 2014. Ren posted, and he is begging for help, he is in the depths of despair. It's so raw, so honest, so heartbreaking. Just glad Ren is still with us, and has made some progress post putting that out there. Such a brilliant human being who deserves good health, and all the love and support we can give him❤️
He re-used it as the premiere announcement for Hi Ren
It was such a heartbreaking video to watch. I wonder if that video is what finally got him pointed in the right direction. But it kind of seems like I remember a major U.K. newspaper did a story on him and that may have been why the LA Doctor volunteered to do the stem cell treatment. I don’t really know where the Lyme diagnosis fell in this sequence of events. Do you? I’m curious.
I saw there was a gofundme from MANY years ago when he was really sick and it was titled something like boywhocouldnteat. That was really heartbreaking. He was so desperate for a diagnosis or something that would help. I can’t help but think that he may have died had he not gotten the help he did. Sometimes the bravest and hardest thing is just to put yourself out there and ask for help.
Industry is cutthroat is a personal experience of Ren who had a contract with Sony. But they dropped him, when he got sick. Since then he's working by himself.
As a fellow student of invisible "disability". It's so relieving to hear someone else (Ren) talk about the physio-psycho-social effects of chronic illness. Especially undiagnosed chronic illness. And the revelations of a person in so much pain, its's visceral. It almost seems like people who have only felt mild to moderate pain. Love to talk about how their pain has "pushed them to greater heights". While the people who go through moderate to severe pain, often reach the next level. Where we would not wish our own pain on any other human on earth. That is a level of empathy not everyone has the opportunity to meet. Nor should they.
On top of that, there is our own/social/societal expectations of what our bodies "should be able to do" [especially at a certain age] and what they can do in any given moment. It weighs very heavily on the soul. The spirit is strong, but the body can only take so much before it breaks down.... and very quickly.
I'm not sure if you have read about the "spoon theory" of chronic illness? But it is very similar to that. You get five spoons today and five tomorrow and the next day, so on. If you use 10 spoons today they are "loaned" from future days. And your body pays the price. Relearning how to live in your "new" body is essential to your mental/physical/social health. Being ok with, not being Ok right now, or when it's convenient. Living your authentic truth, pain and all. And communicating with your support system. Can become exhausting, but it is essential to recovery.
Totally agree with everything you said. I’ve had disabling chronic pain since 2006, misdiagnosed for almost 8 years. I can relate to Ren’s music so deeply. I’ve never heard anyone else describe what we’ve gone through so well.
Well put, invisible disability.
Thank you. As a former patient who was dropped by this new medical establishment and left to fend for myself after 10 years of treatment, we have no voice. I'm just waiting for the US to adopt compassionate kills.
Hi you! So invisible illnesses! That lead to more and more. I’m so glad you mentioned the deeper side of this. I won’t go out into my underline major chronic illness, but I get you all. I’ve been trying to live out of the spoon theory from almost 8 years plus now. I’ve had about two years where I’ve been doing a little better but seem completely stuck again for about eight months in bed and I honestly feel like I have no more spoons to use every day. And I can barely make it to all the doctors appointments anymore much less keep track and schedule them and get the bloodwork. I have so many different doctors and I’ve also tried finding that one doctor they can be in charge of over seeing everything but a few things fall again every day while one may be feeling OK and I am just plain tired. Not just depression tired anymore but I can’t move my arms and legs to get out of bed or keep my eyes open. I’m sorry about this but for some reason this video hit me so hard today. I know the therapist has great thoughts and I hear him really talking about past trauma and mental health but in a way I also feel like he’s missing the fact that Ren has Lyme which is causing his current conditions in addition to all the original trauma he went through because of being misdiagnosed for so long. I pray for all of you that are suffering and wish you many many days with lots of spoons and when you have enough store them away for the next days. We are in this together.
As someone who was misdiagnosed for years and not listened to about my own body, I suffered. I am thankfully now the healthiest I’ve ever been in my entire 40 years that I can remember after being sick practically from birth looking back. I saw your Hi Ren reaction and felt like I was ready to check out Sick Boi as I’ve put this song off after chalk outlines got to me (in a good and healing way but emotional overload).
Psychologising *physical* illness is rife within medicine. It's the way doctors avoid their own sense of failure by putting the blame on the patient when there aren't any effective treatments ("It's your mind that's making you sick"). It leaves vast amounts of patients to rot with life stopping illnesses for years, decades and even their whole lives. I'm so glad Ren is finding a way to climb out of this hole and express his remarkable talent.
Kind of yea, sure but the problem is the opposite problem also exists. So not so simple to solve without making the other problem worse.
@ReactionTherapy I saw the a video Ren did where he was just talking about how difficult of a time he was having just to recover from Lyme disease. He really appeared like someone who just wanted to let go, barely hanging on. So to see him come back this strong in his videos does my mental health good. He's got to a few more songs out there. I'm hoping to see more.
I saw that as well. It was heartbreaking to see him like that.
@@davideastham "heartbreaking" is definitely the word for it.
I saw that as well. It was painful to watch.
Yeah, that video is so sad. Glad he's found some semblance of peace. Ive been on a similar situation but not for nearly as long. Can't imagine trying to deal with that for a decade...not knowing what's wrong with you. Strong guy.
But what he found, was that this experience is a large part of helping him develop his talent. In a weird way, he is sort of lucky that he experienced this because it makes him remain passionate every day and size every moment. It shows in his music. For sure.
@@corylyonsmusic it was one of those moments where no matter how bad I felt in my life, the times I wanted to give up and give in though I'm in great physical health. Makes me grateful just for breathing, his strength and comeback to public life wasn't just a light at the end of a long dark tunnel, it was more like a bacon of light in a very dark night of the soul. I was fortunate to have at least decent mental health care, but that is almost a luxury you have to fight for when you don't have money. He's living proof that even at the end of your rope, if you look hard enough you can find a little slack. I'm hoping to hear a lot more from this youg, and very talented artist.
Ren soundtracked my experience with western medicine. I have to stay away because I internalize my rage . The rage of being told it’s in your head and suffering, then years later no it was real. It’s all a script for them it’s personal for the patients
YES!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you JOSH 😊 💓
I can actually relate to Ren in a way. My issue wasn't as bad I'm sure but at 25, I started having really bad constant lower back pain. They told me I was too young to have issues and it wasn't as bad as I made it seem(they thought I was chasing pain meds I think). Long story short, after 3 years of no help and constant pain(which is very difficult to keep fighting), I finally got a doctor who took me seriously and finally got me an MRI, and it turns out I have arthritis between my L4 and L5 spinal bones. Nothing like Lyme disease I'm sure, plus he death with it for almost 10 years, on top of it "running" his career. But I did have days where it felt like dying might be easier. Luckily, I have it under control now, but that was a very rough time for sure.
Thanks so much for sharing your life!😊👍
I’m sorry you weren’t listened to sooner. Arthritis is awful, especially to develop so young. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. I also have a chronic pain illness & it’s tough.
It’s important to remember that Arthritis, just like Lyme Disease, is also one that when misdiagnosed or has a delay in treatment can lead to unnecessary bone deterioration so please try not to view your experiences in a way that makes you feel that yours are somehow less important than the next person.
Hope you are coping with everything as best you can. All the best 👍
Sometimes, it's the not knowing that makes it so bad. Once you can put a name on it, your mind can relax, and work on healing. Hope you're in a better place now.✌️
Again, his internal struggle with his external self, and the medical profession that misdiagnosed him for years. Telling him everything that was going on with him wasn’t real. Which drove him mental because he’d done everything the docs told him to for years but was still in physical pain. That could cause anyone a psychotic break.
Love the reaction. I also think this song hits upon him being misdiagnosed for so long before they determined he had Lyme Disease. Almost 10yrs I think?
I’m blown away by his artistry and his honesty! It also scares me because I’m trying to protect my own child from her psychosis and illnesses. Been in treatments for over 5 years now. The hallucinations torture her reality. I feel so useless because I can’t make it go away for her. We cry together I hold her while she tells me she can’t do it anymore and I have be strong in theses moments. It’s very heartbreaking. The more meds they put her on the more she hates it. I get it Ren!
This is the same doctor I’ve seen a million times telling me it’s all in my head. I relate to Ren and his struggles.
FYI this was released after "Hi Ren" so, order of listening isn't really essential. What is essential to understanding his predicament is reading his posts and watching his vlog videos.
Thank you awesome work more REN PLEASE ❤
You just made it all real clear by explaining trauma response. Thank you.
In the UK it is very very hard to get talking therapy,. Doctors tend to just keep prescribing different drugs till they work or you give up.
You gotta check out Ren’s song called Depression
He has a song called Diazepam I just listened to recently that was very good as well 😊
GREAT reaction!!! Thank you for this!!!
This is pretty much how I feel about the mental health system while simultaneously being so grateful to all the people who helped saved my life.
I've watched numerous of these and surprisingly you were the most spot on in my opinion. Tysm for sharing. 😊
I loved your response to this video, especially from the perspective of someone with an "invisible" illness. I have Epilepsy and the ways resources people use to treat it when it gets really bad can be drastic and if it isn't seeming to help you can have those feelings you mentioned very easily. I applaud you for understanding this so well, being in a place of health care, because I experienced a lot of bias from doctors, nurses, family in medical fields, therapists, any time that I vocalized those feelings of anger towards the medical field I felt like they zero empathy or were patronizing in saying I could feel how I wanted but it wasn't "true for what was really happening" so it's very refreshing to hear someone in the field being so aware and empathetic of these sorts of emotions that start nearly feeling overwhelming when treatment is seeming slow or impossible. Very inspiring, sir.
you get it. i wish i had the means and the wherewithal to consult with a therapist like you. . . one who actually cares more about helping people than making money off them. more power and blesses to you and others like you.
you should check his older songs, i think they are sometimes even better, great video btw
Was just about to say this! Especially from a therapy perspective I think you'll find them fascinating. Particularly the songs in his album 'Demos Vol 2'. They really take a deep dive into his internal experience during the worst of his physical and mental health problems. I'd recommend Diazepam, Depression or Insomnia to start... those last 2 tracks are heavy but very impactful.
When you’ve been in chronic pain and misdiagnosed for so long it greatly impacts your mental health. I’ve dealt with both for a long time. A good example is that I fell & broke my tibia & continued to decorate my house and yard for Halloween for about 35 minutes before I pulled up the leg of my jeans & saw a lump the size of a grapefruit. When I got to the ER I was told by the attending that I needed to calm down & that I was overly upset. I completely understand the Pig mask as symbolizing the healthcare industry.
He wrote a song called Diazepam that might be worth a listen and another called Depression.
Thank you, Ive had my bad experiences with the Mental Health Industry including misdiagnosis and addiction. I am sober now and doing well but I do wish I had a Therapist like you when I needed it. Thank you Sir
I recently had a consultation with a psychiatrist because I've been dealing with mental health issues. He listened to me for exactly 2 minutes and 19 seconds, and then wanted to prescribe an SSRI. I told him I had already done 2 different antidepressants and I don't want another one, so he basically wanted to end the session there. The epitome of a pill pusher, and that's the extent of most mental health "professionals" I've tried to work with.
Enjoyed the reaction! Thank you! As someone who has been in therapy for decades due to severe trauma Sick Boi really hit home. I went through so many therapists before I found the right one. I did find one though and my depression and PTSD are under control. Life is good. It took a long fucking time to get that way though and "professionals" like the one portrayed in the video didn't help. Sad to say but in my experience about half of them are like that.
Thank you so much for sharing!😊👍
What a wonderful reaction to Sick Boi! You're picking up so much and highlighting things in a way that clarifies the song to me. Thank you.
Ren and Chinchilla Chalk outlines live
Try Jenny and Screech’s tale and Violets tale they run in trilogy. Amazing
Coming soon!!!!😊👍
Spot on reaction! Thanks.
I’m a hospice social worker but had to take a break from working due to my health and so I could finally be at our sons activities once I started feeling better (only child due to my health) and as both someone who helped those going through horrible diagnoses as well as their family friends dealing with the grief, plus my own experiences as a critically I’ll person at several points in my life, I felt like I was actually helping people so very sad to stop working but it’s a cliche since it’s true-if I don’t take care of myself, I can’t help others
Talking about trauma response through me back 20 years. I had a Gaul Stone op that went horribly wrong, I had 5 months in hospital, 9 days in hdu. I had 4 life saving operations 3 emergency, 2 at night. I lost over 3st in weight I was 7.5st in the beginning of my hell. I had 17 tubes sticking out of me for a while and for 6 weeks I had a fancy carrier bag of food going into my chest, one bag a day and it cost the NHS £1,000 a day!!!.
The trauma response was I realy did look like I was in a German prisoners of WW2, I could not walk for over a week I could not lift my head, a constant told me I was PRACTICING DIEING, no one should ever be told that. But my we thin limbs grew FUR, not kidding I was told it was my body's way to conservative warmth because I had no muscles.
I find this amazing, I was a woman of 30 and all natural things a female would have monthly stopped and never started again. It's amazing that the body will stop things to help you serve. Obviously I did serve but 20 years on and my life is shocking but it's still life.
Sorry this just jumped into my mind.
sounds like you are the one out of a houndread theraphists that are actually good. much love man! keep up the good work
Great reaction as always Tom - and Josh, you’re a legend for this request!
Loved your insight here Tom - and from experience, health care providers are very variable depending on what works for you.
My experience was/is nowhere near as bad as Ren’s, but I was misdiagnosed for years and when I finally had a really bad episode and was put under the car of a consultant neurologist, I had a correct diagnosis in 15 mins! It took 3 years of trial and error with medication, but was so worth it and I’ve been ‘well’ now for 6 years!
He is not giving the "mental health industry" a bad name. They earned it. Mostly because the vast majority of Dr's are giving patients what they want.
I think Reaction Therapy didn't mean that Ren was giving therapy a bad name, he meant that the therapists who sit there with smiles on their faces and prescribe pills when it's inadequate give therapy a bad name. I'm pretty sure you guys agree with each other and you just misunderstood what he tried to say.
Lol. I'm not the one who needs to be corrected. "He" or the comment he made was "exactly" what he said. You just told me he "meant" what I said. You should have said that to him. Lol. You can't say "he meant what I said" and tell me I am off. Lol
@@phillipmckinnell8564Unless you're talking about a different part of the video, he said "THIS is what's giving my profession a bad name at times" and then talks about the smiles on their faces etc.
You’d enjoy Chalk outlines with Ren and Chinchilla. Fabulous duet!
I appreciate your empathetic Ren reactions! I imagine it would be easy, as a mental health professional, to feel defensive around the way he expresses his experience with his treatment to date. Your perspective is helpful!
Thank you Shannon! I loved this one😊
I went 5 years misdiagnosed with lupus. I was told I was faking, I had gout, I was depressed, ect. Now my doctors say just deal with it. I'm 61, just want to live a pain free life, that's all.
So sorry to hear that! Thank you so much for sharing and I appreciate what you’ve lived with😊🙏
The music track in the background with the kids singing is an actual song ARTIST
Koutev Bulgarian National Ensemble, Gank
ALBUM Translation to English
Bre' Petrunko Hey, Petrunka
Hey, Petrunka1, oh my, young la...
Hey, Petrunka, young lass2
We've gone, oh my, all ov...
We've gone all over.
We haven't found horo3, oh my, anywhe..
We haven't found horo anywhere.
In your village, oh my, there are three ho...
In your village there are three hora.
The first horo, oh my, is Petrun...
The first horo, is Petrunka's
Petrunchitsa4, oh my, the horo lea...
Petrunchitsa the horo leads.
From down the street5 comes, oh my, reckless and you...
From down the street comes reckless and young.
He didn't go6 , oh my, in the mid...
He didn't go in the middle.
But he joined, oh my, the dan...
But he joined the dance
He joined the dance, oh my, next to Petrun..
He joined the dance next to Petrunka.
With his forelock, oh my, her flower7 he te...
With his forelock her flower he tears.
With his legs her, oh my, flippers he pudd...
With his legs her flippers he puddles
lyricstranslate.com/en/bre-petrunko-hey-petrunka.html
He had Lyme disease. He was misdiagnosed and suffered greatly for the lost time of treating it. He was basically told it was in his head while his body was really attacking him, hence the autoimmune disease
Excellent work, sir!
Even the instability of the table adding to the whole feel of the video. Great reaction!
Subbed. I find your reactions insightful, enlightening and not the least bit condescending. I don’t suffer from mental health issues particularly, but if I did, I’d be very pleased if you were my therapist. Top work as always, Sir.
I see overworked free clinic psychiatrist that's become so jaded from the overwhelming numbers of people they have to see they have to stop caring to keep their own mind safe
I enjoyed your honest reaction and subbed your channel. Through the years I discovered that certain songs and artists have a therapeutic effect on me. And Ren's music is at the top of that list, mostly because it's so brutally honest! I've been through the mental health "treadmill" myself (PTSD, depression, co-dependency issues and ASD) so have some experience with therapy and self-therapy. My first therapist was great!--empathetic, caring, suggesting actions that really worked for me--but the second therapist was even "colder" and more clinical than the one depicted in Sick Boi. When she started to talk about medicating me, a little voice in my head strongly suggested that I say no. So I did say no (though I realize that medication does help some people). I also quit the therapy and referred back to techniques that the first therapist taught me, including journal work, which I still do to this day, with very good results. I liked that you recognized this good psychiatry vs bad psychiatry issue in your reaction, and feel that you're one of the therapists/psychiatrists who give psychotherapy a good name.
I liked your analysis of what is being said here. I really look forward to your reaction on REN’s “chalked outlines”. Another very different side of Ren’s talent and introspection.
Thanks so much adam!😊
EMDR is fascinating to me, my uncle used it for many of the trauma patients he helped
He got signed when he was 17 with Sony but because of his misdiagnosis lost his contract (10 years ago)
I wish I could find a therapist that vibrated on the same frequency as you. I’m not gonna turn this into a life story, but I have been in and out of therapy since I was 14 and I am now 35. the amount of therapist I’ve gone through would probably make your head spin. I’m not the one walking away I just tend to end up with steppingstone therapists I guess you could say. I’m not blaming them at all. They probably went to school and then their mind had a final vision, but I also can’t explain to you how detrimental to my mental health having to go through and start all over with someone new again and again and again. finally last year I decided I was going to take a break from therapy. I just wish I could find someone who I felt was going to stay the course with me I guess because I think I could really improve if I could find that one that I not only connected with, but that was stick it out.
That is an issue many times, when you outgrow the treatment you’re in, keep hoping and thanks for sharing this. Some therapists have different or limited experience than others🙏
favorite reaction to this! im following you!
Thank you for the great reaction and insight into the lyrics.
Please take a look at "Chalk Outlines (live)". It is awesome and touches a similar subject matter. I can't get that song out of my mind for weeks and lines from it permiates my brain even directly after waking up. Just brilliant.
I wake up to Violet's Tale... Forced to rethink things I thought I was done with l, but it's a good thing. Ren will probably help more people over time than some therapists.
You done it the right way around (well i think so anyway..) with hi Ren first then this. There is way more before and I've found it's fine to go back to those now. Anyway great reaction vid!!! What i would say is it would be great if you put the link to the original video in the description, ren WANTS people to react to his videos as it helps spread the word, but in return it would be polite and fair to share his original video as well to help promote him. he is an independent artist so relies on both the feedback and the promotion of his page as well
Thanks so much! Good points and I appreciate your comments 😊
@@ReactionTherapyOfficial a question for you... after watching this and hi ren youve clearly got experience in therapy for conditions like ren has, does having watched this video give you a different view of how the patient is feeling and how you go about treating it, while appreciating now whats going through the patients mind? i understand every case is different, and it takes time to work out exactly how it can be resolved, but this video i think is aimed to show the frustrations he went through before his actual condition was diagnosed
@@MalcolmMXTaylor thanks for the comments and question Malcom! This is the message I’ve tried to spread for the past 28 years, that the client needs to be understood and also a part of the treatment planning process. Relationship is everything for me in therapy and I want people to know I’m here with them on their journey. Yes I’ve had experience with this and sometimes it feels like a rollercoaster but it’s one we should do together. My profession has a lot of good but also a large amount of bad that is portrayed by this video. Thanks so much for shedding light on this😊👍
@@ReactionTherapyOfficial i can see you understand rens point of view from your reaction to the video, its been great to watch, and as ren says at the end of the day 'we are all human beings' !!!
@@MalcolmMXTaylor thanks for this response, I’ve had some hate from Ren followers and I’m not sure why but I appreciate your feedback and insight about him😊👍
The next song to understand his thinking and situation is Chalk Outlines with Chinchilla. Make sure you do the live version.
Work with trauma too..... Merci pour cette intéressante lecture...d'un artiste unique (superbement et brutalement) authentique et talentueux!
Misdiagnosis is such a pain, I've waited 7 years for a knee surgery, doctors said that my legs were normals, but my heels were facing forward and my shins we 90° offsides. Got lucky because a friend of mine worked at an hospital and made me see the head surgeon of the province. He was angry that I didn't get treated before. My family doctor told me that my legs are normal and my problems are in my head, but now I have severe arthrosis and need both hips to be replaced. When I told her that I failed to kill myself she told me to stop whining and be a man, that's all in my head and I'm perfectly fine. So yea, my future is ruined because of her and it's not exactly a nice thing
So much of my mental health care has been putting a bandaid on a bullethole. It's so hard advocating for yourself when doctors and therapists and psychiatrists think they have you all figured out, and have given you pills for each and every little thing, and think you should be fine.
That scene where he talks about drown sucka in front of the mirror is filmed backwards. Watch carefully.
Many thanks my friend great reaction and very helpful love and respect from the UK 👍👍👍👍👍👍🌟😀😀 amazing channel 👍 chalk outlines live ren x chinchilla it's absolutely beautiful 👍
Thank you Dave! Appreciate the support!😊
We need Ren to see this reaction!
Also I was in Starbucks with friends enjoying myself, it was busy. Suddenly I noticed a nurse in full uniform, I freaked completely, but it was seeing her out of place. If she had been in the hospital or GPs I would not have been bothered.
Oh by the way THANK YOU NHS, also for the cabbage op on my Hart 2 years ago. 10 weeks in a specialist hospital, 2 weeks in intensive care 1 to 1 care all FREE and due to allergies German Titanium bits keeping me going, the NHS is phenomenal love 😍
This is an old poem that I wrote years ago that reappeared on my fb and it relates to this. I love your reaction!
|: The whispering pulled me under
Deep waters of life
Struggling to surface
But all I hear is "you failed"
Faster I swim and
Bigger strokes I take
Yet every rising
I'm pushed under again.
The second time and
Times after just get harder
As mud becoming a rock
The surface isn't redemption but only a boulder
No longer able to swim above
I must stand firm against the current of life
For it doesn't give me rest
I must sink deeper
Deeper to the very bottom
Beyond bottom, past corals and reefs
Through the rock and sand
To enter into the earth. |
Thanks so much for sharing this😊👍
My husband has taken MANY years to get my complete trust. FLASH BACKS😢 MY MIND SHUT DOWN protecting itself.
Please react to Jenny & Screech ( Full )....a 3 song Trilogy that displays Storytelling to a level all its own, in a performance that will leave you with witnessing Brilliance!
I would really be interested in your take on the scottish band, "biffy clyro", living is a problem because everything dies
She's like most Doctors
Shit on Psychobabble all you want; but I use it to sound smart to my wife, so she doesn't argue with me about my own flaws. 👍
Yes you are out of order you should react to "Chalk Outlines" (by Ren & Chinchilla) is about the things that people like you do to people like us. How you prescribe addiction and the cure for addiction is another prescription. How so many seek to treat the symptoms not the root or the cause with bags of pills to take daily like you're Santa Clause.
thank you
I do that when anyone asks how im doing.
Sick boi came out after hi ren. Roughly a month after.
Do Jenny’s, screech’s and violates tales in that order
Thankyou
Great Rxn… thanks as for sure there are not enough effective therapists … I’m still having trouble finding a niche effective therapist for my 28 yr old daughter who’s (and us) lost a decade of her life to BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER!! - ughh such a brutal disorder to get help with (as well as breaking the lack of insight in her herself!)…. Any suggestions… ? Thx.
i think his song depression would be a really great one for you to react to, as would money game pt 2 :^). love your videos on him so far, I hope you and the people who've seen your videos continue to check him out!
Great reaction again, you HAVE to react to Chalked outlines or How to be me
REN my favorite!
The point is, doc, that he had Lyme, and none of "the butcher pigs" noticed it, so they told him "the pain's not real, it's only in your mind" and pumped him full of anti psychotic meds... Now... what would that do to a body fighting with the hell of Lyme, except just f up his immune system until it crashes. And what would it do to the brain? To the mind? To the spirit?
Props to Ren for just plain enduring it and surviving the ordeal
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Please add a link to the original vid. Let's support and promote this incredible talent's work!
Ren never had any serious psychological issues until he was treated with antipsychotics. For five long years, while being pumped full of drugs that couldn't help him, Lyme's Disease was ravaging his body. The medical system utterly failed him.
This was released post hi Ren and I believe Ren did that for a reason so that viewers do not come in to Hi Ren with preconceived notions of what it and Ren is about. Then the background and context comes later in Sic Boi. A bit like the Tales Trilogy Jenny Screech Violet where the context that gels it all to a cohesive whole comes at the end of violets tale.❤
It was Rens misdiagnosis and wrong medications for years that messed him up so.
Wow...🙂🙂🙂
This set is also the same set as in HI Ren
This is what happens though. Most offer just antidepressants and that's it.
It’s the world that’s making him sick, he can see all the horrible crap, all the “sin” and evil and the world and it brakes him mentally apart from his actual sickness. It’s the fact that no mater how hard you/he try’a there are still people suffering and it never ends, yes you can ignore it but it’s still there and it’s sickening, it makes you feel powerless and like he said In hi ren it’s a pendulum a dance. It’s not so much that his mind is making him sick it’s his surroundings (speaking of his mental sickness) that’s why the pills are frustrating they don’t make him blind to the ways of the world and if you have so much love for the people and a strong sense of Justice they don’t numb you enough and they make you feel worse with the side affects
Have u done reaction to illest of our time?i cant see. It.enjoyed your reaction.peace
Et warriethh???? THe calf is now a bull and hes anrgy!!!
I like Ren was misdiagnosed. I was diagnosed bipolar when in reality i have Borderline Personality Disorder. I was diagnosed Bipolar because "boys don't get BPD" so it wasn't even considered as an option. And I like Ren have a lot of anger for the healthcare system, especially the Mental healthcare system. We come to you in desperation, hoping you are the angels of mercy you claim to be.. and we get dismissed, discarded and patronized.
"treatment" is more profitable than a cure, hook me on psycho active drugs so you can pocket the insurance money. Tell me to come back for 30 visits for treatment cause you get paid for every visit, when 10 would have sufficed if you did it right. Pile on equipment, medications, therapy, physical therapy, anything and everything to make more money. But im still here suffering...
How do i get out of my traumas when i dont know the triggers?
Dont take it so hard Tom just remember Ren is in the UK they have a socialized and very different medical system than the US.
I can relate with ren ive been through the system and i decided it would be better if i did it myself not saying its good for everyone but im much bettet now lol.
To get out of deep depression is by self.. but pickax will weigh 400 kg more if anyone says "dig yourself out".. its negative feedback loop and the only person to end it will forever be yourself.. people might help you, but depressed person is energy vampire, and sooner or later they stop helping and it's just a even deeper hole.. Even if you dig yourself out.. the hole will forever remain as part of yourself.. and its easy to fall back in.. but everytime you dig yourself out its easier.
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