Mr. Kristoff St.John was a father figure to me, he was a very inspiring and motivational man, his character made you want to develop yourself into him like a better brother, cousin, uncle or husband. Thank you for the life lessons of being a man for the family and respecting your woman like she is the last woman on earth. You will surely be missed but your memory live on in our hearts. Love u man from Jamaica.
@@Beyondme7700,and that is another reason why I am still stuck on this hateful toxic Planet Earth🌎 I am just going to continue to wait on God timings of getting me the Heck outta of here!
He was great guy. Losing a son might have triggered all his misery. I lost a 21 yr old son and it took its toll on me. RIP Kristoff St John. I miss you already .
Last Days Right, he was a true pioneer and legend in the Black community...TvOne should do an Unsung Hollywood on him. Kristoff deserves that and much more...His life and legacy must never be forgotten!
I'm so saddened for kristoff every day that I don't want to believe its true he has departed this life & the sad thing about it he had so many friends & no one could see that he was suffering terribly. I just hate to know that yes hes gone. RIP dear soul with Gods pertetual light shining on you. From Jamaica West Indies
I remembered Kristoff St. John, from Roots, the second generation. He played a young Alex Haley as a boy. You could see the talent, this young, sweet boy had back than.
My heart so hurt still 💔 I'll always never forget him he always had the most biggest 💓.Gone so soon but,not forgotten!!!!Pray for his family and friends and fans I'm one of his fan
So handsome and wonderful on Y&R...RIP Guy in tight polka dot looks like the type that covets his womans girlfriends..Steves eyeroll at 2:09 says it all
I was touring CBS studio where Y&R is filmed, when Kristoff and Shemar Moore walked by in the distance with workout bags on their shoulders. Shemar was fairly new on the show. The crowd roared with excitement and they both stopped to wave at us! Shemar mouthed to Kristoff, "That never gets old." Kristoff nodded in agreement. Kristoff, our handsome Prince, rest in perfect peace next to God. So sorry you were in so much pain. You will always be loved.
Ow my sadness I took him as the symbol of a black loving gentleman. And his pure love for Phyllis OMG he made you love her after seeing the women she was with him
Kristoff was trying hard to hide his grief, but he simply couldn't do it. He was in too much emotional pain; you could see it in his eyes. He also looked ill and appeared to have gained weight. I feel sad just looking at this clip. I can only hope he's resting in peace with his son Julian. 😢😔
@@shawndrea4055 I am 60 yes old now. It was so long ago. I think I may have been in my early 30. Because I remember I asked him where was Dru and he said I left her at home. It was in the metro center. I took my two girls to see him.
Steve,you forgot to mentioned that he played a 12 years of aged Mr.Alex Haley in Roots The Next Generation in 1979. I was a 11 years of aged little girl in 1979 and I had a huge crushed on him,when he was on Roots. RIP🌹
I agree with both Kristoff and Tank’s answer. If you’re secure in your relationship you won’t care if your man got a woman friend and as long as I know her and we cool. I’ll even go out with them 🙂
No!! Steve I have a lots of respect for you and I agree with everything you said with men respecting wemen but on this one I totally disagree with you Mr Harvey because it doesn't mean if you have an attractive female friend automatically means she will be attractive to you!! I know you are an expert on mens wood but on this one I totally disagree with you!!
Dacrie Scott OMG! I was thinking 🤔 the same thing...he gonna get himself in trouble. Especially being a public figure. Hmmm. lotta ladies can be his “friend”.
I agree that one can have friends of the opposite sex while in a committed relationship/marriage. Especially of those friends are in a union themselves that's a bonus.
I always hoped that Kristoff would play President Obama in a movie about the President and Michelle in the white house because for some reason Kristoff reminded me so much of him. I hate it would never happen. Kristoff you are gone much too soon and you will be truly missed.
Big big big question. What is attractive to “you”? Is it the pretty face, the listening ear or the time and energy given to “you”? If it is any of the aforementioned, then why aren’t “you” with that person? I’ld say YES one can have a close friend of the opposite sex as long as both parties honour and RESPECT the parameters of friendship. RIP brother Kristofer and much love to the family 💕 💖 💖 💖
I know right and I did not know of him journeyed on until several days later after February 3,2019. Gosh,loosing his son in 2014 was just too much for him to bare.
Tank is a played out , country time, nasty dog who disrespects women. I wouldn't trust a word coming out of his mouth! RIP beloved Kristoff St. John! Handsome Prince sleep now! God Bless you and your family.
The guys who think men can't have platonic female friends are the ones who ONLY view women as sexual beings. I consider myself an attractive woman, and I have male friends--married and non-married--with whom I have never had any type of sexual or romantic relationships with. It's all about the man's mindset--same with the woman. I respect my married male friends' relationships, and we are never in inappropriate positions i.e. we aren't hanging out at 2am at my house. This doesn't mean we can't be friends and have lunch in broad daylight, though. It's all about respect. Same with the unmarried guys. We respect each other, and we're not into each other sexually. It really is possible to have platonic friendships with the opposite sex. In many cases, they're the best kind. People are just so dirty/carnal minded that they can't see the beauty in that. People also assume that the man or the woman must be homosexual, and that's not true either. The men whom I see/date romantically are in a completely different category. In fact, I talk to my non-romantic male friends about those guys, and they give good insight.
I have a lot of attractive male friends I'm not attracted to as more than friends. 1. Because I know the type of men they are holistically, I know we won't go well together so I don't waste my feelinga or theirs on something God isn't going to ordain anyway. 2. Therefore, they're more like brothers whom I really want to see end up with who God has for them and I wanna support them in that through prayer and any other help I can offer in their journey to finding their mate in Christ. Most of my friends are virgins anyway as I am, so maybe this is different for friends who are all virgins waiting for marriage than people who have slept with others before do having other non-virgin friends of the opposite sex is a bigger issue. I wouldn't know... 🤷🏾♀️
Tank shows character for not letting down friends. point. He is friends with an human being, he seems so reasonable with stating..."getting to know my friends." Honestly I rather would have my man alone but if he is loyal to me and I am his priority I understand if he has female friends. The guys who cannot have female friends when they are in relationships sound untrustworthy.
Ro Bau Thank you. You seem to be one of the day not others to get it. If course you’re number 1 priority. But warning signals go off meaning something to me if they don’t have female friends.
@@maryluvsmusic9298 I understand it could be difficult but restrictions and mistrust are not loving. I am just thinking about real evolved, mature, monogomous and ideal partnerships where you are loyal to your partner but therefore don't need to be disloyal to all the others or even to yourself.
Ro Bau I just don’t see the reason y a married individual needs to have one on one meet ups with a friend. Why is is necessary? They should ALL be able to hang out & enjoy one another’s company. Now it’s a really difficult issue if the spouse & friend don’t get along. Soooo, u continue the relationship with the friend & have secret meet-ups??? It just can get difficult & messy.
I don't know how old you are but with age you may have a different perspective. I am 27 and I guess I'm an old soul but I believe when you find the one...there's not much room for other people outside of family and maybe 1 or 2 close friends especially those of the opposite sex. I think you're sliding down a slippery slope when you try to keep a hold of your old life after you have made vows and commitments to someone. Not saying to abandon your friends of the opposite sex completely but you definitely need to include your s/o in everything the two of you do together out of respect and it shouldn't be as much as it used to before the marriage.
His death just reeks. I don't want to play the "blame game", but this man had a myriad of friends, it seems. Where were they? Didn't they know the extent of his depression to SERIOUSLY intervene? I mean, whatever it took.
its about him and his happiness - just goes to show you, no matter how many friends you have, how much money you have, what career you have, if you aren't good with yourself,. those things can't fix it
I have a male friend that I've been besties with for over 35 years. Any woman he's been involved with during that time period, I've also been friends with. HE MADE SURE OF IT! Why? Because we are GENUINE friends! Never kissed, touched, etc. I've been in the delivery room with a couple of his kids also. Any man I've been involved with has also been told ahead of time that this man is my BEST friend and that there has never been any involvement. I look at him like he's more than my family because I'm not as close to my own brothers as I am this guy. I'm not physically attracted to him in the least bit! And I know he's definitely not interested in me in that way either. It's all about being real and mature. There's never been a problem with either of us in our relationships with other men and women. With that being said....I'd love to be more than friends with TANK!!!! lol!
Just seeing this I loved Kristoff St. Johns and still miss him today, but yes I trust my man but a woman as his best friend sorry I will Never trust her!!!
I'm glad! Steve looks best with his mustache!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😁. I love beards, but all men can't wear that look. It made him look 80yrs old. His cheeks and dimples are his best facial feature as well as his smile!
WELL I AM IN A COMMIET REALTIONSHIP AND I BEEN IN LOT and yes was hurt and heart broken and yes have female n male friend but never have them around wit yo man
I disagree. I have female friends for over 20-30 years. They are like sisters to me. They were there for me when i had breaks up, my divorces, etc. When my heart was broken, they were there for me. That is why i never tried to hurt myself when i was going thru my pain. They were my rock. I never tried to sleep them. I respected my friends. They were my buddies.
Rest in Peace with the Angels Kristoff. I totally agree with you and Steve! Tank is not evolved enough to understand. He's an old head with a mentality of a young guy. Good luck to his new wife! lol
He's always going to be missed and always in our hearts.
Still hard to believe. Sorry that you were in so much pain Kristoff. Blessings to your family. Thanks for all of the great memories while on the Y&R
Mr. Kristoff St.John was a father figure to me, he was a very inspiring and motivational man, his character made you want to develop yourself into him like a better brother, cousin, uncle or husband. Thank you for the life lessons of being a man for the family and respecting your woman like she is the last woman on earth. You will surely be missed but your memory live on in our hearts. Love u man from Jamaica.
How was this actor a father figure for you? Did you meet him?
Rest in heaven Kris, we all will miss you all around the globe that look at YR.
Unfortunately he's not gonna be there cuz he took his own life☹
@@Beyondme7700,and that is another reason why I am still stuck on this hateful toxic Planet Earth🌎 I am just going to continue to wait on God timings of getting me the Heck outta of here!
Umm sorry to burst your bubble but suicidals don't have a place in heaven
R.I.P THE YOUNG AND THE RESTLESS STAR KRISTOFF ST. JOHN 1966-2019
R.I.P THE YOUNG AND THE RESTLESS STAR KRISTOFF ST. JOHN 1966-2019
He was great guy. Losing a son might have triggered all his misery. I lost a 21 yr old son and it took its toll on me. RIP Kristoff St John. I miss you already .
Thank you for honor his life and legacy Steve. I don’t see enough being mentioned about him. So sad. 🙏🏾✊🏾
Exactly,you would think that TV One or BET would do an Honor of him on their Networks.
Last Days Right, he was a true pioneer and legend in the Black community...TvOne should do an Unsung Hollywood on him. Kristoff deserves that and much more...His life and legacy must never be forgotten!
Kristoff and Steve told the truth.
James Lee yes they did! 🙌🏽
AMEN
I'm so saddened for kristoff every day that I don't want to believe its true he has departed this life & the sad thing about it he had so many friends & no one could see that he was suffering terribly.
I just hate to know that yes hes gone.
RIP dear soul with Gods pertetual light shining on you.
From Jamaica West Indies
Carol Howell I agree
Kristoff was smart! RIP 😇
Sakinah Iman Yes
Yes he seemed like a beautiful spirit. He will be missed.
R. I.P-Kris/Neil
I miss him . God Bless 💖💖💖
R I P KIRSTOFF ST. JOHN
WILL BE SADLY MISSED
What a great man u are so very much missed I have BLESSED us
RIP BROTHER...
I remembered Kristoff St. John, from Roots, the second generation. He played a young Alex Haley as a boy. You could see the talent, this young, sweet boy had back than.
He was a great man ❤️
@2:10 the eye roll from Steve 😂👏😂
My baby I loved him so much. Rip Kristoff 😢❤️
Rest in paradise
R.I.P. Kristoff🙏🏾🙏🏾
Ty for sharing your thoughts and video. Great memories. HUGS and blessings
Rest in Peace Kristoff. Tank won’t be married long, he’s to much of a player
Connie Avant he sure sounds like one. Rip to Kristoff!
Rest In Peace Kristoff! I really will miss this man !
I just loved the guy!
It's always the good ones that die young.
My heart so hurt still 💔 I'll always never forget him he always had the most biggest 💓.Gone so soon but,not forgotten!!!!Pray for his family and friends and fans I'm one of his fan
RIP and I agree with his view on men having female friends.
Thank You Mr. Harvey.
Steve eye roll says it all 2:09
😂😂😂😂😂😂
My heart goes out to his wife"her son ,now her husband;daughter angel the rest of his family members.Sleep well now😊😟
Tank was on some BS lol.... I agree 100% with Kristoff and Steve. I was very sad to learn that he passed, he seemed like a really beautiful soul.
So handsome and wonderful on Y&R...RIP
Guy in tight polka dot looks like the type that covets his womans girlfriends..Steves eyeroll at 2:09 says it all
I was touring CBS studio where Y&R is filmed, when Kristoff and Shemar Moore walked by in the distance with workout bags on their shoulders. Shemar was fairly new on the show. The crowd roared with excitement and they both stopped to wave at us! Shemar mouthed to Kristoff, "That never gets old." Kristoff nodded in agreement. Kristoff, our handsome Prince, rest in perfect peace next to God. So sorry you were in so much pain. You will always be loved.
Been watchin this man for over 25 years..completely heartbroken..RIP love...you are truly missed...
TANK..Go sat down..Bs..divorce lawyer on deck
I love Kristoff!❤️
Kristoff was dealing with problems all by himself, and no one helped that nice man
How do you know no one helped him? One, a lot of people tried to help him and two, for a large part he hid the severity of his grief.
Ow my sadness I took him as the symbol of a black loving gentleman. And his pure love for Phyllis OMG he made you love her after seeing the women she was with him
RIP Kris We love you
You will be greatly missed. RIP
Kristoff was trying hard to hide his grief, but he simply couldn't do it. He was in too much emotional pain; you could see it in his eyes. He also looked ill and appeared to have gained weight. I feel sad just looking at this clip. I can only hope he's resting in peace with his son Julian. 😢😔
What a sad and shocking loss it was, Y and R hasn't been the same without him...
Yes Kristoff. Shutup Tank and Drew!
He came to Jackson MS. One time. He was so down to earth.
When and where was he in Jackson at the time? Just asking #ripkristoff
@@shawndrea4055 I am 60 yes old now. It was so long ago. I think I may have been in my early 30. Because I remember I asked him where was Dru and he said I left her at home. It was in the metro center. I took my two girls to see him.
@@doriscoleman9374 Wow that was amazing!!!
@@shawndrea4055 it really was. He was so nice..
Thanks for doing this. 🌹
I want to see this segment
Love it 🔥☘️
Rest in peace 😍😍😍
Kristoff looks a bit tired in this clip, rest in peace 💜
He sure does
I was thinking the same. He looks defeated
@@Ritadee1040 IT'S so sad...EVERYONE missed those signs😢 RIP Mr. St. John
You can see it in his eyes
All the distress would've made him tired I kno the feeling so sad #RIPKST
Steve,you forgot to mentioned that he played a 12 years of aged Mr.Alex Haley in Roots The Next Generation in 1979. I was a 11 years of aged little girl in 1979 and I had a huge crushed on him,when he was on Roots. RIP🌹
I agree with both Kristoff and Tank’s answer. If you’re secure in your relationship you won’t care if your man got a woman friend and as long as I know her and we cool. I’ll even go out with them 🙂
To,a,wonderful,person,who,will,be,missed,by,all,his,fans,we,will neverr,,forget,him,may,god,bless,him,in,heavier, forever, we, love,you..
I agree with Kristoff 💜
Tank must not plan on having a long marriage...😒
krisoff know what he talkin bout he hAS LONG REALTIONSHIP TANK JUST START ONE LOL.
MsLovely Lesley Right because all those Lunch dates are done . Tank must don’t mine his wife going on lunch dates with her male friends
RIP Kris. So much wisdom. Tank lose the schoolboy mentality and the woman's blouse.
Sheila Smith Lol...Woman's blouse... I am screaming!!!
Rest in Heaven, Kristoff St. John I agree with him.
No Tank.
Is anybody surprised by Tank’s answers? 🙄🙄
Nope. He's too romantically immature.
Not at all
No.
I actually just found out about his death I’m in shock. I haven’t watched y&r in awhile but he was always one of my favorites.
R. I. p kristoff 🙏
Beautiful soul.
No!! Steve I have a lots of respect for you and I agree with everything you said with men respecting wemen but on this one I totally disagree with you Mr Harvey because it doesn't mean if you have an attractive female friend automatically means she will be attractive to you!! I know you are an expert on mens wood but on this one I totally disagree with you!!
Indeed...He is so missed.
Life can be hard for ev😢eryone
Lol.....Poor Tank....He won’t be married for long !!
Dacrie Scott OMG! I was thinking 🤔 the same thing...he gonna get himself in trouble. Especially being a public figure. Hmmm. lotta ladies can be his “friend”.
Jamie Foxx gonna still his girl again
@@maryluvsmusic9298 LOL
I’m with Steve. Eventually, that WILL (almost 100%) turn into some type of problem down the road.
I WHOLEHEARTEDLY agree with Kirstoff!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I agree that one can have friends of the opposite sex while in a committed relationship/marriage. Especially of those friends are in a union themselves that's a bonus.
My bad. I thought that was Mike Pence sitting on the couch😂😂😂😂
Rip kristuff st john truely wonderful. I agree with kristuff a man should be comitted to his spouse temptation will play no female friends
RIP Kristoff St John AKA Neal Winters. You’re very missed. 💔😢
Kristoff died way too young💞😔
Rip Kris
RIP Kristoff will be missed.
Very true Steve! Don't try to beat the devil at his game -you can't!
I always hoped that Kristoff would play President Obama in a movie about the President and Michelle in the white house because for some reason Kristoff reminded me so much of him. I hate it would never happen. Kristoff you are gone much too soon and you will be truly missed.
Kristoff was 100% right!
The crazy part is that alcohol is what killed him god bless him RIP Kristoff
Trevion Brailsford so sad
rip kristoff St John .. you were a incredible actor. .. so sad. .. suicide is horrible
Big big big question. What is attractive to “you”? Is it the pretty face, the listening ear or the time and energy given to “you”? If it is any of the aforementioned, then why aren’t “you” with that person? I’ld say YES one can have a close friend of the opposite sex as long as both parties honour and RESPECT the parameters of friendship.
RIP brother Kristofer and much love to the family 💕 💖 💖 💖
I agree.
S.I.P. Kristoff St. John aka Neal Winters
😱Ooooh noooo I didn’t know he died!! Sad so sad!!! 😱
I know right and I did not know of him journeyed on until several days later after February 3,2019. Gosh,loosing his son in 2014 was just too much for him to bare.
Oh wow! Now I have some love for Mike Pence...not as a politician but as a husband. Respect Sir!
Yes, much respect to him.
Rip Kistoff😚
Tank is a played out , country time, nasty dog who disrespects women. I wouldn't trust a word coming out of his mouth! RIP beloved Kristoff St. John! Handsome Prince sleep now! God Bless you and your family.
The guys who think men can't have platonic female friends are the ones who ONLY view women as sexual beings. I consider myself an attractive woman, and I have male friends--married and non-married--with whom I have never had any type of sexual or romantic relationships with. It's all about the man's mindset--same with the woman. I respect my married male friends' relationships, and we are never in inappropriate positions i.e. we aren't hanging out at 2am at my house. This doesn't mean we can't be friends and have lunch in broad daylight, though. It's all about respect. Same with the unmarried guys. We respect each other, and we're not into each other sexually. It really is possible to have platonic friendships with the opposite sex. In many cases, they're the best kind. People are just so dirty/carnal minded that they can't see the beauty in that. People also assume that the man or the woman must be homosexual, and that's not true either. The men whom I see/date romantically are in a completely different category. In fact, I talk to my non-romantic male friends about those guys, and they give good insight.
I have a lot of attractive male friends I'm not attracted to as more than friends. 1. Because I know the type of men they are holistically, I know we won't go well together so I don't waste my feelinga or theirs on something God isn't going to ordain anyway. 2. Therefore, they're more like brothers whom I really want to see end up with who God has for them and I wanna support them in that through prayer and any other help I can offer in their journey to finding their mate in Christ. Most of my friends are virgins anyway as I am, so maybe this is different for friends who are all virgins waiting for marriage than people who have slept with others before do having other non-virgin friends of the opposite sex is a bigger issue. I wouldn't know... 🤷🏾♀️
Tank shows character for not letting down friends. point.
He is friends with an human being, he seems so reasonable with stating..."getting to know my friends."
Honestly I rather would have my man alone but if he is loyal to me and I am his priority I understand if he has female friends.
The guys who cannot have female friends when they are in relationships sound untrustworthy.
Ro Bau get married & see if u have this same mindset 😉
Ro Bau
Thank you. You seem to be one of the day not others to get it. If course you’re number 1 priority. But warning signals go off meaning something to me if they don’t have female friends.
@@maryluvsmusic9298 I understand it could be difficult but restrictions and mistrust are not loving. I am just thinking about real evolved, mature, monogomous and ideal partnerships where you are loyal to your partner but therefore don't need to be disloyal to all the others or even to yourself.
Ro Bau I just don’t see the reason y a married individual needs to have one on one meet ups with a friend. Why is is necessary? They should ALL be able to hang out & enjoy one another’s company. Now it’s a really difficult issue if the spouse & friend don’t get along. Soooo, u continue the relationship with the friend & have secret meet-ups??? It just can get difficult & messy.
I don't know how old you are but with age you may have a different perspective. I am 27 and I guess I'm an old soul but I believe when you find the one...there's not much room for other people outside of family and maybe 1 or 2 close friends especially those of the opposite sex. I think you're sliding down a slippery slope when you try to keep a hold of your old life after you have made vows and commitments to someone. Not saying to abandon your friends of the opposite sex completely but you definitely need to include your s/o in everything the two of you do together out of respect and it shouldn't be as much as it used to before the marriage.
His death just reeks. I don't want to play the "blame game", but this man had a myriad of friends, it seems. Where were they? Didn't they know the extent of his depression to SERIOUSLY intervene? I mean, whatever it took.
Carton Stanton I agree and he had a fiancé as well
its about him and his happiness - just goes to show you, no matter how many friends you have, how much money you have, what career you have, if you aren't good with yourself,. those things can't fix it
He did seek treatment for his depression just weeks prior to his death.
😢😊❤
Some of my best friends are male and have helped me through many things.
All of my husband's female friends became my friends. If it is a legit friend, it won't be a problem.
Glad Steve did this becUse Y&R did a piSs poor job of remembering him as loooong as he was on there
I have a male friend that I've been besties with for over 35 years. Any woman he's been involved with during that time period, I've also been friends with. HE MADE SURE OF IT! Why? Because we are GENUINE friends! Never kissed, touched, etc. I've been in the delivery room with a couple of his kids also. Any man I've been involved with has also been told ahead of time that this man is my BEST friend and that there has never been any involvement. I look at him like he's more than my family because I'm not as close to my own brothers as I am this guy. I'm not physically attracted to him in the least bit! And I know he's definitely not interested in me in that way either. It's all about being real and mature. There's never been a problem with either of us in our relationships with other men and women. With that being said....I'd love to be more than friends with TANK!!!! lol!
Neil n dru made a wonderful couple
❤🙏
It’s okay to have friends
But there should be a limit
I don’t let my boyfriend have close female friends tho
Let him? So, you own him? GOH...
Just seeing this I loved Kristoff St. Johns and still miss him today, but yes I trust my man but a woman as his best friend sorry I will Never trust her!!!
So true it’s a very high percentage of something happening
I totally disagree with Tank.
Q Corine totally disagree as well
WELL SAID
oh no.. so sorry
Damn im just now finding out hes dead...lol goes to show how much I stay relevant in entertainment
So Steve gonna shave his beard off. What's up Steve?
He look better with out it!!
Beard yes moustache ... .. Please no
I'm glad! Steve looks best with his mustache!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😁. I love beards, but all men can't wear that look. It made him look 80yrs old. His cheeks and dimples are his best facial feature as well as his smile!
About time, finally
WELL I AM IN A COMMIET REALTIONSHIP AND I BEEN IN LOT and yes was hurt and heart broken and yes have female n male friend but never have them around wit yo man
I disagree. I have female friends for over 20-30 years. They are like sisters to me. They were there for me when i had breaks up, my divorces, etc. When my heart was broken, they were there for me. That is why i never tried to hurt myself when i was going thru my pain. They were my rock. I never tried to sleep them. I respected my friends. They were my buddies.
Rest in Peace with the Angels Kristoff. I totally agree with you and Steve! Tank is not evolved enough to understand. He's an old head with a mentality of a young guy. Good luck to his new wife! lol